Omar Suleiman – Setting Boundaries for Your Paradise & Inner Peace

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			So first and foremost just a programming note in sha Allah Tada. So, tomorrow there will be no
virtual footbaww which were just the Friday reflections that we would do every Friday because of
COVID-19. However, inshallah tada we will be live streaming the ultimate from the lawn of Valley
rent Islamic Center in Charlottetown, this Friday and we'll see what happens with the Fridays to
come. But this Friday inshallah tomorrow we'll be streaming from the lawn of Valley Ranch Islamic
Center in Charlotte on 2:30pm. Central but the nighttime so you can tune in at 3:30pm Eastern 2:30pm
Central in sha Allah Allah for that holds it in the nighttime.
		

			Now tonight, inshallah tada I wanted to continue to reflect on just some lessons that really tie
into pseudo Brahim. And I find myself going on tangents more and more. So I don't know how much of
pseudo Ibrahim we're actually going to get to. But I wanted to talk about this concept that speaks
to that first page of sort of Ibrahim. And as we said, it really, it really does tie into the story
of Ibrahim, it has set up a lot of talks about a people who seek to divert others from his path, who
seek to divert others from his path. And if you remember, we spoke about this profound heartbeat
from the Prophet sallallahu wasallam, where he told us about the straight path and then all of these
		

			side paths, these divergent paths where you have a shape on on top of the door, that calls you to
that path. And the goal is to get you away from a loss of hundreds and away from the pleasure of
Allah, and away from the paradise of Allah. And it doesn't matter which divergent path you take, it
just has to take you away from Allah, the goal is to distance you from Allah distance you from his
pleasure, distance you from his paradise. And we talked about the importance of not going down those
paths. And if you think about it, what the prophets lysozyme is talking about is maintaining the
boundaries of our agenda, the boundaries of our paradise, are the boundaries of Allah subhanaw taala
		

			in regards to his obedience, and not crossing those lines. And so we put up these fences around our
garden. And what that means is that we do not let the shape on, take us away from any of the, from
anything that would bring us closer to Allah subhanaw taala from anything that would eat into our
share of Paradise and eat into our pursuit of pleasure. And so you have to put up boundaries, you
put up these fences shaitan will try from this direction, and he'll try from that direction. And the
point is going to be that he wants to take you away. And if he fails in one regard with tempting you
to one way then he'll try to tempt you with another way. for him. It's not about how he gets to you.
		

			It's about him getting to you so he can get you away from Allah get you away from a less pleasure,
get you away from a loss paradise. Now I wanted to talk about this in terms of a methodology for how
we also guard the agenda and our hearts, the paradise that's in our hearts, which is, and I'm not
just making this up with the self referred to as agenda to the appeal, the paradise of certainty the
certainty that you have in your heart, where you do not allow anyone into your heart into the
paradise that you have in your heart, which is a sense of certainty, and a sense of inner peace,
where no matter what happens in the world around you, no matter who comes at you with what you have
		

			an anchor in that certainty and allows promise His pleasure and his paradise and that is what gives
you a paradise in the heart. The very famous saying of Ibn taymiyyah Rahim Allah, He said what can
my enemies do to me because my garden is in my heart, so if they kill me, it's martyrdom. If they if
they imprison me it's seclusion with Allah subhana wa tada it's a chance for seclusion. And if they
deport me, then it is a chance to travel and to contemplate the signs of Allah subhana wa Tada. So
they cannot do anything to me because my garden is in my heart, I've put up the necessary boundaries
that do not allow for that garden to be accessed with any form of taunting with any form of insults
		

			with any form of humiliation, whatever it may be. There's a garden in my heart that my oppressors
cannot access. And you have to think about sheltering it's human devils and the you know the
prophets lie Selim is told about them in in the Koran, right? They wish to cause you to follow us
licona can be above him, they wish to cause you to fall with their mean stairs they wish to cause
you harm with their sight and whether that manifests itself actually an aim in the evil eye or you
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			The degree of you know the degree of humiliation and the degree of harassment that comes with their
stares, they wish to rock you, oh, messenger of a loss of weisel. And they wish to get you off of
your foundation. And Allah subhanho wa Taala is giving the prophets lie, some of them the fortress,
and we have the fortress, which is that victory, that remembrance of Allah subhanho wa Taala. And we
protect our paradise, and we protect our inner peace by keeping our sight on the goal and not
allowing anyone whether it is the shale clean from the Djinn, or the shale theme from the ends,
human devils or gin devils, we don't allow them access to our paradise and we don't allow them
		

			access to our paradise that's here. And that is essential for us that we always maintain that in
everything that we do. There's a very beautiful saying that's attributed to mama honey, follow him
holla peace said no, yeah. Not monarch monarch, no fee, if the kings and the children of the kings
knew the happiness that we were in La Jolla, dooner, la, he, the CEO of they would try to fight us
for it, they try to attack us to get it out of us, what we have in terms of inner peace, what we
have in terms of genda, cannot be taken away from them. And that's the beauty of it, that your
enemies can take everything away from you, except for your paradise and your paradise. Okay, your
		

			agenda and the hereafter, which is the manifestation of a loss of pleasure, or your agenda that's in
your heart, which is the certainty in a lost promise and pleasure and paradise in the hereafter. And
you have to be able to put up boundaries. And that means not allowing your enemies in your head, not
allowing your enemies in your heart, not allowing those who tried to distract you with this to
succeed in doing so. But maintaining a sense of certainty and a sense of consistency. And I know
that usually, you know, when you hear about putting up fences and boundaries, you know, it, it's
usually in a negative sense, especially when you're talking about in terms of, you know, the
		

			psychology of, you know, some who would like to guard their vulnerabilities and do not process their
emotions in a healthy way. So they put up boundaries, right, but that's usually talking about
unhealthy boundaries and putting up boundaries between you and the people that you love. This is
talking about putting up boundaries and fences between you and those that wish you harm. Again,
whether it's from the human devils or from the shell theme from the gym, putting up those fences,
putting up those boundaries and not letting them in Lisa, Kimberly Metcalf, there is no entrance
here. This is my heart, this is my paradise, you cannot access it. And Subhanallah as I was thinking
		

			about this example of putting up that those fences and those healthy boundaries to where you protect
from all of those that would seek to get you out of your garden, all of those that would seek to get
into your real estate. If you think about it, they'll always say that you need to learn how to
process your emotions in a healthy way. You need to learn to, you know, to express your negative
feelings to express your hurts. And that's the beauty of this all is that we are taught to channel
as much of this as we can into in supplication in the Ibrahim it is Salah lizer just as in Ebrahim
aware that Ibrahim alayhis salam is someone who is frequently grieving but he turns to Allah subhana
		

			wa tada Helene a wa muneeb he bears a lot of pain, he takes that pain to Allah subhanho wa Taala.
And so basically, by putting up boundaries between those, between you and those who wish you harm,
and then expressing that pain to the one who only wishes you good and Will's for you, good Allah
subhanho wa Taala, you gained the healthiest way of processing that and you protect your paradise.
So again, the boundaries here that I'm talking about are the boundaries that you put between those
who between you and those who wish you harm, whether it is from shale, theano, gin and Shelton. It's
the human devils and the jinn devils. And it's the same methodology, the same methodology for
		

			protecting your paradise in the Hereafter is how you protect your paradise in this world, right? Do
not let them in. Do not let them in. Don't let them distract you. Don't let them hurt you. Don't
give them too much real estate in your thoughts. Don't give them too much real estate in your
feelings and process as much as you can by calling out to the one who never puts a boundary on you a
loss of parenthood to Allah who's whose line of communication who whose path of death, or whose
access to him through through sincere supplication is never shut off, never shut off until the
moment of death. So we ask Allah subhanaw taala to protect our paradise to grant us the paradise of
		

			the heart genda to the screen, and to grant us the paradise in the hereafter which is the
manifestation of his pleasure We ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to allow us to protect our hearts from
all of those things that are displeasing
		

			to him and all of those things that distract us from the pursuit of pleasing Him a llama I mean Zack
mellow Hayden Chela Tyler once again tomorrow. The ultimate should be live streaming at 2:30pm
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