Nouman Ali Khan – I Accidentally Offend People – Q&A

			Perfect things I don't think silence is going to help because if you become overly silent and
eventually you will explode it will be worse than you were before Yeah, that's happening. Okay yeah
because you're overdoing it
		

			gonna start first of all I'm in need of some help man. Oh yeah. Coffee Shop publicly speaker there
and you have a very good sense of speech and talking right? I just bought beauty in the lectures or
knows APNIC as a big thing with 80k words hurt more than swords Yes. Yeah, but call them and have
them unfold yeah in this with this with the guard strat in the guards without meta questions like a
not a question but x data just goes downwards that K I am very blunt or maybe is with a yoga we just
have heard a few people recently. Both come span Mac coffees are located. Okay. So I'm like the
thinking the way I should talk and how I should act. So many go then I was like, let's think before
		

			they speak now. Like and asked us why okay, I don't talk at all. Now my social media don't cowboys?
No, my boys will be any you're an extremist. Either you run people over or you never start the car?
Maybe.
		

			So what did apne personnel
		

			do up here? Jenny? Oh, say you give in your evolution of being a public speaker. Right? If you can
give some tactical advice to someone? Well, not so much public speaking. But communication. Yeah. I
think you should be yourself. I don't think you should be afraid to apologize. I think whoever
you've heard, you should tell them, hey, I have this tendency to be blunt. And I'm really working on
it. And I'm going to try to, to manage it. So I think you should try to reconcile with people that
you've caused pain to. That would be a good first step. They can also point out to you in what ways
you tend to be
		

			insensitive, and you can become mindful of those specific things. I don't think silence is going to
help. Because if you become overly silent, then eventually you will explode. It will be worse than
you were before. Yeah, that's happening. Okay. Yeah. Because you're overdoing it. Yeah. So just
don't, don't, don't go overboard. My experience as a public speaker has little to do with this
problem. Because nobody tests my patients when I'm publicly speaking when you are quite blunt, I
think you're tend to say whatever's on your mind. I hold back a lot.
		

			Hold back a lot.
		

			And then some stuff leaks out.
		

			Zach lovella I'll try doing that. Okay.
		

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