Nouman Ali Khan – 13. Our Legacy for the next generation: Doubt?

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			brief set of lessons from one ayah from sort of shoulder to shoulder is the 42nd, sort of the Quran
and this is the 14th ayah Surah 42 i n number 14. Alonzo just speaks in this ayah about an archetype
		

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			within the nation of people that believes and we of course, are not the first nation we're not the
first oma that had a man, they were the nation before us that came before us that also had Amen. And
we're not the first ones that have disagreements with each other there were nations before us, even
despite the fact that they believed that they disagreed with each other. Nowadays, it's not very
shocking for you to say how can believers disagree with each other, because pretty much any Muslim
you talk to who knows of Muslims having disagreements with one another, whether they are religion
based or not, but for the most part, they're based in some way shape or form in the religion. We
		

			have religious disagreements with each other. Alonzo just speaks in this surah. In this in this
particular ayah, about a particular brand of people within the religious community within the
believing community that engages in the act of falling divided among each other. They felt they fall
into division. alonza just says, well, Martha for Rocco, they didn't they didn't fall divided at
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			Except after knowledge had already come to them. knowledge came to them. And only after knowledge
came to them they fell into disagreement. Now of course, people that have religious knowledge, we
call them scholars and scholars mind You are the means by which this oma is united.
		

			People have knowledge of religion are the means by which the oma is united. But there's a certain
breed of people that actually have have religious knowledge. But they don't use that knowledge to
cause unity. They use that knowledge to cause disunity to cause disunity. And how do they do so
learn. So it says, Well matter for Rocco Lamberty magic, Dorian baina, whom the key word here is
buggy and in the eye, a buggy in the Arabic language, the closest thing I can think of in English is
the urge to dominate the other. You have this ego, you have this pride, you have the self, the sense
of self. And your concern is to overpower someone else. So a king or a ruler trying to invade the
		

			land of another, or to an ex, is engaged in this buggy. This this bogie is just the urge to dominate
the other party. Allies Oh, Jim uses this word in, in the Arabic language, it can be interpreted in
two ways it could be called what's what's termed a free level, or a HUD. And we'll discuss the
meanings in English at least what the implications are of these two grammatical analyses. On the one
hand, Allah says the way in which they disagreed, the way in which they disagreed, was arrogant. The
means of their disagreement was full of this, you know, this urge to dominate this ego. So you could
see in the way that they're arguing with each other, that there's a lot of ego involved. It's really
		

			not about the issue. It's really not about who's right and who's wrong. That's not really the case,
even though they're giving evidences and they're citing a hadith. And then before us, the people of
the book before I cited their books, when they argued with each other, but the real reason wasn't
that they're genuinely in disagreement. The real reason was, I want to prove that I'm right. And I
want to prove that he's wrong. That was the real reason. This is buggy and by now home, right, so
the way in which they argued was arrogant also Motorola which means the reason for which they argued
the reason for which they disagree.
		

			Greed was their ego. So what is the means with which they argued in an arrogant fashion of argument.
And then the purpose of the argument, the purpose of falling into division is something deeply
rooted inside an ego. And this is something that a Muslim has to be very careful about. Because in
our times, we fall into disagreement all the time. And this is one of the great plagues of this
ummah, across the globe, and especially even here, we're not an exception in the United States,
we're not an exception, you have people saying, Don't listen to this shape, or that shape. Or don't
listen to these people, or those people or this group, or that group or this machine or that
		

			machine. All because I have the Hulk I have the truth and these people are on the bottle, they're
false. You know, in Islam, when you want to correct someone, when you want to correct someone,
you're not correcting them because you want to overpower them or you want to prove to them how wrong
they are and how Right you are. You want to correct them because you want to benefit them. We have
this genuinely shared love among ourselves that we all share that in a in the law. So when you
correct someone, you correct them out of humility and out of love. Larissa describes this attitude
as the letting meaning they are humbled, they're overpowered when they deal with other believers.
		

			They don't come to them full of ego, they come to them full of humility. But you will find among us
a trend that when we correct one another, we correct one another as though we're talking about some
enemy of Islam. Someone that we have to completely humiliate in order to correct them. Now you tell
me, if somebody tries to correct you in that way, would you rather listen to them? Or would you
rather fight back? So what we ended up doing is we ended up putting more fuel on the fire in the
means, by the means with which we disagree with one another. There's certain ethics in the way a
Muslim disagrees with another Muslim, right? Look at our look at our orlimar when they would
		

			disagree with the opinion of another scholar. First, they would make the offer that scholar and say,
Rahim Allah, may Allah reward him, may Allah bless him. And then they would say we respectfully
disagree with this one thing.
		

			And Allah knows best they would edit the end of the line was best. But you find this is not the case
nowadays. what the case is nowadays is the Muslim comes to the other Muslim. And he says to him,
you're not doing this, right. By the way, let me tell you what the heck is and this especially
happens with our youth, they take a class or two, or they read a couple of articles on the internet.
And now they're ready to fight with their parents, or they're ready to correct the Imam or they're
ready to interrupt a hook by even to say no, you're on the button, you're oxidizing, correct.
Whatever the case may be, however, convinced you are that the person is wrong. Are you doing more
		

			good, by causing the scene by causing this division? Is your intent to benefit this person or to
harm him? So the question becomes, are we really correcting one another? Because of a genuine
concern to make things better for our Muslims, to all for all of us to be on the right path? Or are
we correcting one another because there's this ego involved? And when this ego does get involved,
let me tell you what happens a lot. So we just didn't leave this leave us in the dark here, this
ayah in the first part of the ayah, Allah tells us that they rebelled for or they disagreed and they
fell into disagreement For this reason, well, he and but you know, Bahian by now. And then lets us
		

			know that this is not something Ally's happy with. This is something that brings about the Wrath of
Allah, what Allah brought is the truth, and the truth should be a means of unity. It should be a
means of unification. And incidentally, on the side before we go on, I want to share one more thing
with you from the Sunnah of our messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, you know, the Messenger of
Allah selection. I mean, obviously, obviously delivering the truth.
		

			Anybody who accepts Islam has accepted that Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam speaks on behalf of
revelation that has given been given to him by Allah. So, of course, all this How about are
convinced that he speaks the truth, but even then Allah tells him, you better deal with your Sahaba
your companions in a certain way. Allah says to him, febi Mara met him in Allah hillington. Oh,
listen is profound. And so on and so on. He says, it is by the mercy of Allah alone, that you are
lenient towards them, meaning the Sahaba so let's telling you, it's a lot of mercy that are
messengers of Allah who is lenient to the Sahaba. And then he says, Well, I wouldn't have been an
		

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			Had you been tough, hard hearted, had you been harsh, then boom and Holic, they would have run away
from you.
		

			Unless as about the Sahaba, they would have dispersed away from who, from the Messenger of Allah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, only if he did one thing wrong, which he didn't, by the way, and what's
that one thing? If he was harsh? If he was harsh, the Sahaba would have run away from the Messenger
of Allah is what Allah says. So kind of went on. Fire flying home was stolen from the home, why
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			Send them lovingly forgive them for that run home. They will make mistakes, they will disappoint
you, when Muslims work together for any cause, that we're working to build a machine. We're working
at an MSA, we're working for an Islamic organization. We're working on a dialogue project. We're
working on an assignment school, a Sunday school, all these projects when Muslims work together,
things come up, you you end up arguing with one another at some meeting, your opinion is not taken.
Or somebody went one way and you were deciding to go another way. Or there was some assignment that
you gave to someone and they didn't fulfill it happens. It's it's a part of life. Right? We fall
		

			into disagreement. And of course, the Sahaba of the long run was right, it's very possible. At some
point someone will make a mistake that will disappoint the Messenger of Allah sallallahu sallam,
what advice does Allah give His Messenger sallallahu Sallam? He says number one, find one home,
forgive them lovingly. meaning there's one thing to say it's okay. Don't worry about it. Right? You
mess up. And your boss says to you, it's okay. Don't worry about it. But you could tell from his
face that it's not okay. But there's still something wrong. Right? And there's a kind of pat on the
back, relax, don't make a big deal out of it. Forget it, forget it ever happened. Then you feel a
		

			little relieved? The messenger is being told basically to give the pat on the backs of the lover and
even send them thoughtful on home. Then Allah says don't stop there. What stokfella home
		

			and ask forgiveness for them. How do you really know you forgiven someone. When when you're making
the offer yourself, when you're making the offer your mother when you're making the offer your
children, you're also making the offer the one that has offended you or has disappointed you was the
villa home. And then on top of that this is the most profound it's incredible into some number
messengers on the quality of leadership, the quality of the one who had the most knowledge among the
people. Allah azza wa jal says to him well shall be at home Phil.
		

			consultant, consult them when you make a decision. Take their Shula is also the name of the suit
we're discussing here, even though that is from an airline insurer, shall
		

			take their consultation take their opinion in decision making. Now let me ask you this, the
Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Allah says about him on my channel, however, he
doesn't speak on his own vain desire. He speaks based on revelation. Does he need to consult anybody
before he makes the right decision? No, he doesn't need to consult anyone. But Allah tells him to
consult who was the heart of the lohana was mine, especially the ones who he has just forgiven. Why?
Because you know, even after he forgives us a hobby, even if he forgives him,
		

			this hobby still feels it used to be different before this issue. He forgave me. But now things are
not the same as they used to be. But if the messenger asked him, what's your opinion, give me your
input. All of a sudden he feels things are back to normal. The messenger asked me something Allahu
alayhi wa sallam. Now it means there's nothing left in his heart against me. So to ensure there's
nothing left not an inkling of pain left in the hearts of the companions or the Allahu Allah
commands. His Messenger was Shabbat home for
		

			Shabbat hopefully, it makes it clear, it's not because you need their decision, who's going to make
the decision? The Messenger of Allah himself so let NZ is kind of what Allah what for either as a
mentor, when you reach the decision, when you are convinced fatawa Allah then put your trust in
Allah meaning that's the matter is closed, the decision was actually in your hands. Now we come back
to this ayah the Eid hint, Allah azza wa jal is speaking about disagreement, disagreement. On the
one hand, we have the example of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wasallam, who is making every he's
making sure of every finest detail, that the group does not fall into division, that they don't fall
		

			into division, he's making sure they remain cohesive. And on the other hand, there is us, the way in
which we disagree with each other is so ugly, and it's so violent, and it's so merciless towards the
other. Sometimes it puts us to shame. We treat the people that are not Muslims. And I'm not saying
treat non Muslims in a bad way. But we treat non Muslims in a much nicer way at the grocery store.
		

			checkout counter, or when you're pumping gas at the station, or your boss at work, or the secretary.
And we treat the Muslim brother or the sister much, much worse when we come to the masjid. Much,
much worse. We disagree with each other and get annoyed with each other over really small things,
really, really small things. And this brings about the Wrath of Allah azza wa jal, he says, Well,
luckily Mattoon sadaqat Moravec Elijah masama had it not been a word that had already come from
Allah, a word it is a word of Allah that has already been declared meaning Allah has already decided
when this act will be punished of dividing among yourselves. Allah already decided a date a date a
		

			fixed deadline, that date will be the date when this one this act will be punished. If a law hadn't
already fixed that appointment. Luckily, they now have their matter would have been declared
already. The punishment would have come right away. The only reason they're not being punished now
is a legislator
		

			That replenishment will come later. And Allah knows the wisdom in that we don't know called the
abena home. But then he lets us know of the consequence of this behavior of Muslims disagreeing with
each other. He lets us know the consequence of this. The consequence of this, of course, we are
divided were disunited, but the real consequence of this is in the next generation, not in your own
generation. In the next generation, Allah says we're in alladhina aurifil Kitab Ambani him. And it
is no doubt those who were given the book to inherit after them, those who inherited the book after
them, I didn't say they were given the book, meaning by the home, no, not the believers after them
		

			in the Latino, family him, those who are given the book and inheritance after them, meaning they got
it from their fathers from their mothers, they got the book, they got the religion because they were
born in Muslim families. They were born in a community which was engaged in disagreement. What
happened to these kids, this next generation of Muslims supposedly left the check came in who
Marine, first of all, they have no confidence in their faith, the fee check check is a kind of doubt
that takes the confidence away from you, you're not sure about something. And then marieb a kind of
labor counter kind of doubt that keeps you from going forward. So every time they you know, there's
		

			an issue of halal or haram the right or wrong according to the dictates of this Deen. They're not so
sure if that's the thing they're supposed to do. The next generation is in doubt about the religion
altogether. Because the generation before was too busy fighting. It was too busy fighting, you know,
something that happened in the Muslim world, that those of you that come from the Muslim world
already know. And the Muslim world. Let's take Pakistan, India, for example, where I come from,
		

			Muslims are basically divided into multiple camps. But if you want to generalize, there are two
basic camps. There's the religious Muslim, somehow religious, whatever affiliation they may have.
And then there is the more secularized, modernized Muslims, the Muslims that are not very religious,
the Muslims that are sort of cut off from religious learning altogether. And you know, the people,
they're all they all call themselves Muslims, by the way. But you know, if you ask the average
educated, secularized or semi secularized Muslim, why don't you learn more about the religion? Why
don't you practice it? After all, you're Muslim? Why don't you practice it? You know, what they say?
		

			Oh, these mullahs, they're always fighting each other.
		

			What am I want me to turn like them? You want me to be like them, Go look, go to the machine. one
guy's giving against that guy that goes against that guy. Every group is saying you're not in this
group, don't come to this machine. Don't go to that machine. This is as crazy as it gets in the
Muslim world. And we're no exception.
		

			We're not as crazy because the law doesn't let us be the only reason. But I've seen insanity here
too. In the massage people speaking against other groups, people speaking against Mamas and daddies,
you don't know them, you have never spoken to them in person. But yet you have the audacity to say
this person is not on the hook. They're, they're evil. They're, you know, they're on falsehood, this
and that. It is it is to the level of ugliness. So the average Muslim who doesn't even come for five
prayers, doesn't even pray five times at home. The only time they show up at the machine, by
accident by the mercy of Allah is for Juma prayer, and they hear this nonsense. They hear this on
		

			the member, would they ever want to come back? Would they ever be sure about their religion, they
fall into more doubt about it. Well in the Latino audience will cater to him Luffy shock him in
Hungary. I go around the country. And Subhanallah wherever I go, I meet some parents, they say I
want you to talk to my kids. Can I invite you to my house, I want to I want you to talk to my kids.
And I talk to these kids, you know, the kinds of questions they have. I get Muslim families, Muslim
families for generations, and their kids are asking me questions like, how do you know for sure God
exists?
		

			What's wrong with homosexuality? What's wrong? I'm not so sure. I don't you're not killing anyone?
What's wrong with it? So what if I hang out with guys?
		

			I mean, there's nothing wrong with that. It's not like I'm, you know, doing anything worse. And if
somebody does drugs or things, I mean, these are Muslim kids asking these questions. They're not
asking in front of their parents asking away from their parents. So I don't tell their parents but
		

			the fact is, they're in doubt. They're in doubt. Where did this doubt come from? The generation
before was too busy in argument. Why were they arguing? They were arguing because they had this ego
inside. I'll call it out. I'll be blunt, this time. across this country. I've seen arguments like $8
v versus 22. Louis, either on Monday or Tuesday or Wednesday or Thursday or Friday. Right. The
disagreement within the Muslim should our demand be an Arab should be an African African American
should be it should it be a DC should it be this or that? Right? Who should give the hoba these are
the disagreements between the Muslims. And a lot of times the Muslims who are disagreeing about
		

			these things, fighting tooth and nail, don't even
		

			Know what the issue is? They don't even know why he should be on this day or that day, they just say
that guy is a different race for me in the back of their head, therefore, I can never agree with
him. All those Arabs Oh, those days he they're all the same. Oh, those brothers, they don't
understand that community doesn't understand. And they're fighting it out. They're fighting it out.
And who's being lost in all of these fights? Are you the ones that are suffering is the next
generation? Well, let me tell you one true story and I'm done in shutdown one true story that hurt
it's it hurts me. It hurts me. I was in this community. And they were I was invited to two dinners.
		

			The community was half indo Pak, predominantly. And the other half was Arab community. And because I
speak a little bit of Arabic, I broke the ice with the our brothers and my Punjabi Okay, so I made
good friends with these young girls, too. So I got invited one night to a DC household, where all
the brothers got together, of course, which brothers, they see brothers and the other night, I got
invited to the Arab community. And you know, I hung out with the brothers on the other side.
		

			The fight between this community only to mention names was, which Imam should we hire? Should you be
an Indian Imam? Because the majority is indo Pak and we're hanafy. So we should have 100, EMA and
the other side? No, we need an Arabic because Arabic is the language of Islam. And you know, the
Sunnah is to speak and you know, the Islam actually not assume that the Islam promotes the Arabic
language, therefore, we need an Arabic man. So who was promoting an Indian amount?
		

			The indo Pak who was promoting an Arab among the Arabs? And when I go to one side, they're trying to
say, why don't you convince them of an Indian amount? And I go to the Arab families? And what do
they say? Why don't you convince them of an Arabic And I blend to both of them? And I said the same
thing. Let's assume you get the top notch scholar that you want. The best color cracks the best
jokes in inhabited body or do or, you know, or in, you know, dialectical Egyptian on media, and
you're really happy with him, your kids, the indo Pak kids, the African American kids, the Arab
kids, the turkeys, the Indonesian kids, the kids of the people that have recently accepted a son
		

			from varying ethnicities, their kids, can they understand these imams?
		

			No, they're not really concerned about their next generation. They're not Who are they concerned
about? themselves, it's like this nostalgia
		

			of back home. I want to feel like it used to feel when I was younger, and I used to listen to that
Imam. So I want my mom to remind me of the old days where I used to be. And the one being sacrificed
in all of this is who the kids that are barely awakened the hookah. The kids, when the hotline is
being presented, they're outside playing basketball, or worse, or worse, who wouldn't be doing this
for who's gonna be filling these these roles in 20 years, who's gonna be there? We haven't thought
ahead. And in these in these arguments we have against each other. The only one suffering is the
next generation. They're the only ones suffering. There's nobody to talk to them. You see these
		

			youth, right? They have problems. Your kids, the vast majority of Muslim kids, they go to public
school, they do. And public school, everything goes. I mean, I went to public school in New York in
the 90s. And that was bad. But nothing, those were good times compared to now.
		

			A lot has changed just in 12 years, it's insanely different. Your kids hear things, they see things.
They know things that you don't even know exist. They have vocabulary that's out of your scope. They
know words you've never heard before. But if you knew if you know what they mean, you'd have a heart
attack.
		

			And your boy at school, or your daughter at school in high school, some boy comes to her. And he
says you have pretty eyes want to go out sometime. And your boy at school, some other girl comes to
him and says you're kind of cute. Is he gonna tell you?
		

			He's not gonna tell you. Because if he tells you, you're gonna go crazy, I should ship you back to
Pakistan.
		

			You know, this, this is my solution. Or I'm as a punishment, I'm putting you in Islamic school, or
you better memorize what
		

			you think that's gonna solve the problem. Our kids have no one to talk to. So you know who they end
up talking to. They end up talking to their non Muslim friends who say hey, she thinks you're cute,
right? That's probably a good thing. Go for it, man.
		

			So the current they cut themselves off from their parents, and they find a new affiliation with
those who have no religion. Those who have no values. Whose fault is all of this. Whose fault is all
of this? It is us the elders. I myself included. I'm a parent too. We are too busy in these petty
disagreements. And we've lost sight of the bigger priority which is our children. Our kids, they
need someone to talk to they need counsel. The machine is supposed to be their refuge. You ask the
average youth and the average Muslim community in this country. Would you like to go to the machine
you know?
		

			What they're gonna say, No. What am I gonna do there? I don't understand what they talk about. And
half the time these uncles are fighting anyway.
		

			That's what they say, Well, I'd rather go with my friends go see a movie, go play pool, we've made
the machine unattractive. For young people, we've done that. That's our fault. But it's not too
late. We learned these lessons from a last book, that the next generation fell into doubt about
their religion, nothing can be worse. Nothing can be worse. If your kids are far from the religion,
what's gonna happen to their kids. And if their kids are even worse, what's gonna happen two
generations, three generations from now. I met a Lebanese Muslim in New York City. He became he
actually took his Shahada when he was 18. After he did some research into his family tree, his
		

			family came from from from Lebanon 100 years ago to New York. 100 years ago, they migrated they
became Christian 60 years into their migration. They had converted, completely assimilated. Why?
Because the next generation fell into doubt. And he just kind of rediscovered Islam took Shahada
again, revive the religion of his forefathers, on the Day of Resurrection, all of us that our
parents, all of us that are elders, we are going to be responsible before Allah for who, ourselves
and our children. And if we messed up with our kids, and as a result, they messed up with their
kids, and so on and so forth. The entire lineage that is messed up will come back to haunt who,
		

			where the problem began. When the problem began, we asked a Lara's origin, which I learned with
tequila mama for a reason make us even more mocking. Hey, Cassie, Mama, for those who have Taqwa
leaders over those who have Taqwa because on the Day of Resurrection, we're going to need that.
We're going to need that. I pray that Allah azza wa jal, my intent of this talk was not to offend
anyone, are not to knock on any ethnicity. Or to say, you know, this mom is bad and Daddy, mom is
good. We have respect, the most respect for all the other men in this country. They are a blessing
of Allah azza wa jal, all of them. But my advice, my sincere advice, just based on the things I've
		

			seen as I've traveled around, is that we take the matter of, you know, retaining the love of this
Dean in the next generation a little more seriously. And in light of that priority, we overlook
these other disagreements that we have, they are less important in comparison to what's happening to
our children. We have to address this problem. It's a matter of emergency alarms urgent give us a
serious concern for our future generation milazzo agenda, unite the hearts of all of the Muslims and
remove the petty disagreements that lie within us, and we allow them to cleanse our hearts and give
us a love of each other. Based on that ilaha illAllah Muhammad Rasul Allah, so clinic Allahumma La
		

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