Naima B. Robert – The Intimacy Conversation Natural Ways to Increase Sex Drive Anisa Kissoon

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The speaker discusses their website and free ebook, highlighting their experience with organic fruit and vegetable foods and a workshop for VIP people. They also mention a gift for VIP people and encourage people to visit the workshop for free. The workshop is open to everyone and is trying to be organic as possible. They also discuss preserving the sacred act in MAC Jesus and the importance of organic foods and vegetables in the world.

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			Smilla Salam aleikum everyone
welcome to day three of the
		
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			intimacy conversation super
		
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			super, super pleased to have you
guys back with us mashallah, we
		
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			have an exciting press
		
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			notation by SR and Nisa Kisu now
on an holistic and been talking
		
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			about this for the past two days
and now we're going to dive really
		
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			deep and guys if you like sister
and nieces presentation, make sure
		
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			that you get that VIP upgrade so
you can attend her in depth
		
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			private workshop next weekend,
where she is going to be talking
		
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			about sacred seduction techniques
Masha Allah, so you don't want to
		
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			miss that sister and Lisa, please,
I'm gonna go hand it over to you,
		
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			please in sha Allah, take it away,
tell us who you are, how you came
		
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			to do this work and Bismillah it
for Delhi Go ahead. As salam Wa
		
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			alaykum Warahmatullahi
Wabarakatuh. First of all, I'm
		
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			probably not going to be like most
of the other hosts and beautiful,
		
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			beautiful experts because I am
literally so super excited to do
		
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			this. Literally, I feel like I've
just won a Golden Ticket. Because
		
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			for years, I have been talking
about this topic passionately, and
		
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			wanting to share it. And I've been
withheld for whatever reasons. But
		
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			now Allah has opened the door. And
first and foremost, I'd like to
		
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			thank Allah. And I'd like to thank
you NEMA for taking the courage to
		
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			open up this door for us here,
especially in the UK. So thanks
		
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			very much. And with regards to my
background, before I was a Muslim,
		
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			this was my life, passion,
intimacy, through dance, I'm from
		
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			a West Indian background, and if
anybody knows any West Indians, we
		
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			are very fiery culture. This is
what we do. It is very reflective.
		
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			In our, our dances, like I said,
and just, we are very passionate
		
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			people, you know, just our blood
is very, very passionate. So, you
		
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			know, when I came into Islam, and
I was faced with seeing
		
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			communities that for me,
		
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			nobody talked about this. Nobody
talked about the beautification
		
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			and really dressing up, everybody
around me that was just talked,
		
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			that was really straight black and
white.
		
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			A lot of talk about what to do and
what not to do.
		
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			We just didn't get into it. And I
always saw it as something that
		
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			was very sacred, that was very
special. It was like a gift. And
		
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			most of my life, I had to kind of
literally put it in a box, lock it
		
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			up, and not really talk about it.
And I felt that that was a bit of
		
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			a shame. Because especially being
a mother, with, you know,
		
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			daughters who need to get married,
it's like well, as it is important
		
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			to teach them about cooking and
cleaning, we need to teach them
		
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			that this is a part of life. Now I
totally understand, because it is
		
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			something that is intimate. And it
is it is private. And we're not
		
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			going you know, saying go out
there. But it is still
		
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			conversations that we need to
have. Now, for me growing up.
		
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			You know, I was always very
fascinated with kind of ancient
		
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			cultures, I always have for those
of you who know me, most of you
		
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			know me for hijama therapy, right?
And that's fine. But it is a
		
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			beautiful technique. And it's an
ancient technique that we use and
		
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			Hamdulillah. And it's been used
even before our beloved Prophet
		
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			peace be upon him, recommended it
used all over the world. And we
		
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			know about that, right? We know
how amazing it is. I mean, in
		
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			terms of health, when we look at
health, it has been revived so
		
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			much. I think it's because
literally it works. And it's
		
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			recommended by our last panel with
Allah. But when it came to the
		
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			intimacy side, I started to look
at all the ancient cultures. And I
		
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			looked at the Kama Sutra, which a
lot of people know about. But
		
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			there's elements of it that is
just not halal. And the word Kama
		
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			Sutra is beautiful. It's just
lessons of love, you know, when I
		
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			look at that, I think is so
lovely. But obviously that's
		
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			within their culture. And you
have, you know, right from Africa,
		
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			to Japan, you have many different
ancient techniques that are
		
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			unheard of. And then obviously,
you've had some beautiful experts
		
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			have talked about our traditions
and Hamdulillah. So how do we
		
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			marry them? How do we talk about
it openly? Because there's a lot
		
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			of people with problems. So when I
was teaching hijama therapy, I
		
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			found that a lot of the
		
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			actual topics that people wanted
to talk about in terms of patients
		
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			was actually this. So I would get
sometimes, you know, wives would
		
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			say, you know, I'm not really
feeling it at the moment, or my
		
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			husband doesn't have the same
drive as me, you know, all sorts
		
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			of questions or what can you give
my husband and if you stick around
		
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			to later, I'll actually share with
you one of my love potions, okay,
		
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			in sha Allah. But I noticed it was
a huge topic, very taboo.
		
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			But it, nobody was really
addressing it. And again, I know
		
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			that we have got lovely,
beautiful, beautiful experts like
		
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			the village Auntie, you know,
mashallah Tabata cola. But here in
		
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			the UK, we really didn't have
anybody. So when I was exploring
		
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			this, I was looking at it from a
totally holistic perspective, I
		
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			was combined in all of the things
that I've learned over the years.
		
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			So whether it was therapies,
whether it was exercise, I
		
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			actually, you know, coined the
term sexercise before everybody
		
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			else jumped on it, Al Hamdulillah.
And that's fine, because I don't
		
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			think I really want to do or would
like to use that name anymore. But
		
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			it was, you know, exercises that
were performed to help the women,
		
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			especially after childbirth,
because, you know, if you don't
		
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			have that guidance to bring your
body back up, you know, it can be,
		
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			it can be, it can be quite an
embarrassing kind of situation.
		
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			And I know a lot of women, you
know, if you're stressed, and you
		
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			are worried, you can't really
perform to the best of your
		
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			ability. And we're not just
talking about bodily how we look,
		
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			I'm talking about, you know,
actually, you know, in our private
		
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			areas as well. So, this area for
me, when I was asked to come on
		
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			here, I was just so excited. I was
like, yes, because one, I can get
		
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			to share some of the knowledge
that I painstakingly studied for
		
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			so many years, right. So, so many
years. And like I said, it's been
		
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			locked in this box. And now
Bismillah NIMAS. Amazing, she's
		
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			opened up the key for me, now I
can talk about it openly
		
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			Alhamdulillah. So that's what I
want to do today, I want to talk
		
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			to you about some of the ways that
you can increase your * drive.
		
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			And even if you've got one, maybe
you just want to even enjoy
		
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			yourself more. Or maybe you want
to know how to help increase your
		
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			partner's * drives. Or maybe you
just want to kind of, you know,
		
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			switch it up a little and change
it a bit. And you want to learn
		
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			more, like I said, for me, as a
mother, as important it was to
		
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			teach my children how to cook. And
not just cooking for cooking sake,
		
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			by the way, I'm talking about
health, nutrition, how to present
		
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			the food, you know, all of these
things, looking at, you know, how
		
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			you can mix colors, and make it
look presentable and beautiful.
		
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			I'll give you this example. So
		
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			your husband's gone out to work,
right? This is for the ladies.
		
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			Okay? Oh, you know, it could be
the other way around. It's all
		
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			right. So why have you gone out to
work? Right? And you've worked
		
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			really, really hard all day. And
why are you working? You're
		
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			working to provide for the family,
right? Okay, so whoever's left at
		
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			home, be it mom or dad these days.
		
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			You know, you're hungry, right?
And you've got to make the meal
		
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			for the person who's coming home
and gone out there and done all
		
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			that hard work, you have a choice.
You can either slap some mashed
		
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			potatoes and peas a bit of fish on
the right and just slap it there.
		
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			Bismillah There you go. It's food,
night, and hamdulillah we're
		
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			grateful wherever for whatever
we're given, okay, Hamdulillah,
		
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			right. Or you can take the time
and make a meal from your love.
		
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			Okay, and you can, you know, make
it look presentable. And you can
		
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			make it smell beautifully. And you
like, like a gourmet meal, you
		
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			know? So there's a difference,
right? And think about that person
		
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			who's gone out there and worked
really hard. What meal would they
		
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			like to receive? They wouldn't
really want us we receive that
		
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			slapdash one they want to receive
something that is made with love,
		
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			right. So
		
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			this is the same as our intimacy,
we can slapdash go to the bedroom
		
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			and procreate, right just how you
see the animals, right? They just,
		
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			you know, I was watching pigeons
on our fence the day and it was
		
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			over in a couple of seconds and it
was done. Because they are
		
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			obviously you know, just
procreating. Or we can take this
		
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			sacred act, and we can turn it
into something that is so
		
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			beautiful. And what will that do?
That will increase the love? And
		
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			believe me, even if, for instance
		
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			You are not in the mood, you are
tired. You know, it's just, it's
		
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			you having one of those days,
right? When you do things for the
		
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			sake of Allah, for the sake of
pleasing your Lord, you should
		
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			always do things to the best of
your ability anyway, right? So you
		
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			are going to get so many so many
good deeds from this. And this is
		
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			what I want to revive and bring
back, I want to bring back this
		
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			beautiful sacred app that we've
been given. And an app that we can
		
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			get extreme pleasure out of. Okay,
and bring it back to where it's
		
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			supposed to be. And I will tell
you, and again, I will tell you
		
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			why it is so important, in my
opinion.
		
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			Because
		
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			we have an epidemic epidemic on
our hands, right? We have,
		
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			unfortunately, and I'm sure a lot
of the amazing experts have spoken
		
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			about this before. But we have got
children and adults who are
		
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			turning to *, unfortunately,
watching other people do X, we
		
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			have got, you know, other you
know, people that are exploring
		
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			other fetishes and things that
they shouldn't really be doing.
		
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			That's not halal. Okay, we have
got an obsession right now. I
		
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			would even go as far as saying we
have the same obsession with food.
		
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			And this is why we've got so much
obesity, right. But if it is
		
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			nurtured in the right way, and it
is in an Halal environment, it can
		
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			be the biggest blessing. And the
biggest, I would say, pleasure,
		
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			right? Just like when you know, if
you're a foodie, right, and you're
		
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			going for the, and I'm watching
everybody getting ready for this
		
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			food festival, right. And they're
all excited, because they can have
		
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			all this food that they are not
used to having. Right. And I went
		
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			to that one year, by the way, and
I saw people queuing two hours for
		
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			a burger. For me, that's an
obsession. That's an addiction,
		
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			right? But and then I interviewed
the girl I was in the queue with
		
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			because I said, Okay, I'm gonna
leave you in this queue. I'm gonna
		
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			go around, do my film, and I'm
going to come back, right? And
		
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			then when I came back, and I saw
her bite into this burger, I said
		
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			to her, was that two hours worth
it? And she said, Yes. And I went,
		
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			Okay, that's, that's insane.
That's crazy. But this was her
		
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			thing. Okay. Now, again, we can
make this act, something that can
		
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			save marriages, right, save
marriages, it is the thing that
		
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			makes us exist. If there was none
of it HELOCs the human race would
		
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			cease to exist, then that's how
important it is, right? So we need
		
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			to kind of get a grip on that. I'm
going to say that again. If we
		
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			didn't do this sacred act, we as
human beings, would cease to
		
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			exist. So what does that mean? If
Allah has given it to us as a gift
		
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			as a halal gift for us? Let's have
a nice time with it. Right? Let's
		
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			let's let's get it on. Let's not
make it be one of those birds
		
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			sitting on the fence and just two
seconds and they're gone off and
		
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			they're flying off somewhere else,
right? Let's make it something
		
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			that is absolute ly beautiful. And
shot a lot better than so I think
		
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			I've kind of got you there. Right.
Okay hamdulillah Hamdulillah. So,
		
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			I've got to figure out how to do
this because I want to jump
		
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			straight into my beautiful
presentation. And I think me be
		
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			if name my beautiful name is
there. Share the screen all you
		
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			need to do is share the screen
since you have a host so
		
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			my lovely Alright, let's share the
screen. Oh, there we go. Okay,
		
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			desktop number one.
		
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			Okay, share Bismillah
		
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			okay.
		
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			What what is it telling me to do
upgrade now? Do I need to do that?
		
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			Just bear with me for one second.
Because I really want to get
		
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			straight into two. This do I do it
with a whiteboard. Now I don't do
		
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			AI files for her. Let's do it with
the files.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			Just bear with me for one second
because this is so important that
		
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			we talk about this
		
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			I'm not sure if it's going to
allow me to do it but it's fine if
		
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			it doesn't, because if it doesn't,
I've got it all up here. Okay, so
		
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			it says share or file from your
Windows your laptop.
		
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			Let's not allow me to do that.
		
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			Okay, just bear with me. Honestly,
it will be totally worth your
		
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			weight.
		
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			If you want to send it to me, I
can show ya. I've sent it to my
		
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			lovelies, to do Hamdulillah. So
yeah, if you can do that, and
		
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			while you're doing that, my love,
I want to talk about
		
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			why for me, the word pleasure is
so important, right?
		
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			And why we should appreciate
pleasure.
		
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			Now, think of a mother who has
given birth, right? She, she's,
		
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			she's kind of gone through that
nine months, okay? And that's
		
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			painful. Okay, for anybody out
there has had babies, you'll know.
		
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			But the pleasure part is in the
birth, right? And then you have
		
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			well after birth, but then you
have the beautiful baby, okay?
		
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			Hamdulillah, right. Same as a
farmer, a farmer can go out there.
		
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			And he can, you know, be planting
the seeds and plowing the crops
		
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			and everything. But the pleasure
is in the harvest and eating the
		
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			food the same way as a cook of
Cook, sweats and you know, is
		
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			cooking up all day. And then when
you eat that meal, you're rewarded
		
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			with this pleasure. Okay. So with
regards to our sacred act, there
		
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			is that time, I wouldn't say
necessarily plant pain, but maybe
		
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			more hard work, right. And if we
put the hard work in, the pleasure
		
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			is going to be so much more.
Because if you're a farmer, and
		
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			you've ever planted something,
when you eat your own produce, oh,
		
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			my God, it tastes so amazing
compared to if you go and quickly
		
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			get a takeout, right? So I really
want to get people into this
		
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			notion of how we can literally,
Oh, can we go to the first slide
		
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			my lovely,
		
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			yeah, how we can literally,
		
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			you know, get, make this act so
beautiful. And even if you've been
		
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			married for 20 years, right? 30
years, it doesn't matter, you can
		
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			switch it up, make it make a
difference, you can make a change,
		
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			and you can really, really take it
to another level. Because like I
		
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			said, it's something that Allah
has given us, and we're allowed to
		
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			enjoy things. It doesn't have to
be all kind of, you know, doom and
		
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			gloom, and you know, everything
has to be hardship. He has given
		
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			us this as a gift, a pleasure for
one another, to be there for each
		
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			other. Okay. So and I don't think
that we do honestly spend Well,
		
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			according to my research, and all
the clients I've seen, I don't
		
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			think we look at the intricate
little things. I'd love to give
		
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			you some gems today. That can
really make a difference in your
		
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			life. Neymar Can we go to Okay, so
we jump into it, right? So sorry,
		
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			sis just confirmed that you'd like
this as the slide deck that you
		
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			want.
		
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			Yeah, that's fine. That's fine. We
can just dim I'm on page two now.
		
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			So if you want me to go to the
next one, just let me know in
		
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			Sharla, brilliant. Okay, so
lovely. So, so sacred, sacred
		
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			seduction is literally
		
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			the art of * which I have
been blessed to have learned from
		
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			the ancient worlds. And I bought
it into the modern day. I think
		
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			when we look at the ancient worlds
worlds, we see so much intricacy
		
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			compared to today, right? So look
at like, for instance, if anybody
		
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			has been to Alhambra, you know, or
you have been to Tokyo or Iran.
		
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			And you have seen the intricate
details there are on our buildings
		
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			compared to IKEA society, right?
That everything is kind of chop,
		
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			you know, plain square, and it's,
it's pretty boring. We don't have
		
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			that intricacy anymore. We don't
have that delicacy. Where in the
		
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			ancient world, they took more
time, time with everything, right.
		
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			And I think that's what we're
missing. Subhanallah so I'd like
		
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			to be able to bring some of that
intricacy when when I look at
		
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			people like Nefertari Nefertiti
Cleopatra, from ancient Egypt, you
		
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			know, there was a reason why these
women for instance, were so
		
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			beautiful, and put on a pedestal
because they spent so much time
		
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			taking care of themselves and
presenting themselves. Okay, so I
		
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			feel that in this modern world,
everything is rush, rush, rush,
		
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			rush, you know, wham bam, Thank
you, ma'am. And it's just like,
		
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			what are we doing that we are
missing this? So I'd like to take
		
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			you through that in Sharla. And if
you can change a slide, please my
		
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			lovely. So, for me anything that I
do, I always tried to use the five
		
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			senses. Okay. This is something
that even if, for instance, we
		
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			have any blind brothers and
sisters, you know,
		
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			here today, you know, then you've
been blessed with a heightened
		
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			sound and heightened taste right
Alhamdulillah but though
		
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			Five senses
		
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			are so beautiful. If you can
excite each and every one at the
		
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			same time, can you imagine the
explosion that you're going to
		
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			have in Sharla? I didn't mean to
use that word explosion.
		
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			You know what Gabriel said
yesterday, it's very important to
		
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			stay serious and professional,
when we're discussing this.
		
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			You must shut a lot of varkala.
Okay, so out of these five senses,
		
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			I'm going to take you through
		
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			maybe a two today, and I'm going
to take you through one that is
		
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			obvious, but not so obvious. So if
we can change a slide, please my
		
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			lovely inshallah. Okay, smell.
		
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			Now, when we think of smell, we
know that, you know, perfume or
		
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			wood is very important, right? It
is one of the most underused
		
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			senses when it comes to intimate
intimacy. And I say that because
		
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			some people just think, okay,
they're going to put a bit of
		
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			spray on. And that's it. Well,
actually, there's so many
		
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			different ways that we can use
smell. And I'm going to explore
		
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			just some of them today, bearing
in mind
		
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			that each of the five senses
literally could be a whole full
		
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			day's workshop, it's, you know,
literally, for me to condense it
		
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			down, as it's been very difficult.
And I'm trying to choose the best
		
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			of the best, or I'm making it easy
by choosing things that we already
		
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			know. So I'm not trying to bring
things that you know, like
		
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			saffron, a lot of people have
stuff on already in their
		
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			cupboards, right? It may be
something that's, you know, that
		
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			we only use a little bit of
because it is so expensive. But
		
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			how many people know that you can
use saffron to help excite your
		
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			pleasure?
		
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			Not many people know that. They
think that we can use it as a dye,
		
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			even as a cure. Or you can you
know, cook your foods with it.
		
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			SubhanAllah. But a lot of people
are not using it. So I thought
		
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			when I was looking at them today,
and I was thinking, oh, what how
		
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			you know, which ones do I choose?
I was thinking saffron, let's
		
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			choose saffron. Because again,
looking at these beautiful
		
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			flowers, for those of you who
don't know what saffron is, which
		
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			I'm sure that you do. But what you
see in the young lady's hands are
		
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			those fine red strands from the
beautiful purple flower, right.
		
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			And those fine strands are what we
use as saffron. Now you can go and
		
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			buy them in your local stores. But
please be careful because
		
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			obviously this is a commodity that
is, you know, worth its weight
		
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			more than gold. So there were
there was a lot of cheats out
		
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			there, unfortunately. So make sure
that you're getting a good stuff
		
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			one. But the smell of saffron has
been noted scientifically tested,
		
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			and used in the ancient world to
help increase people's libidos.
		
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			How many people actually knew
that. And with this course today
		
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			is this is not just about you
know, talking about it, so that
		
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			you've got your work, you go out
there and you get excited we put
		
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			the stuff on in your cupboard you
think yes, I you know, I listened
		
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			to an ESA and now I've got stuff
on in my cupboard, and it stays in
		
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			the cupboard.
		
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			The whole purpose of everything
that we teach is it is is to take
		
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			action. Okay, so I want to see
everybody going and getting some
		
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			saffron, but utilizing it, okay.
And saffron. If you actually just
		
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			pinch it and put it between your
fingers and you smell it it is it
		
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			has it has a very unique smell.
But when you crush it, it is even
		
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			better. And I'll be later showing
you how and where you can apply
		
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			these things. So if you've if
you're a smart person, you will be
		
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			going and grabbing a pen and a
pad. Okay, so that you can take
		
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			these notes and on your shopping
list should be saffron. Okay. All
		
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			right, next slide.
		
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			Jasmine, and I bet everybody
thought oh, okay, well, maybe the
		
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			rose should be there. I mean, I
absolutely love roses, but
		
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			actually the smell of jasmine has
had much more effects on
		
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			increasing the libido. It is a
very delicate plant. As you can
		
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			see a flower sorry, you can see
these they're really delicate if
		
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			anybody knows and has grown. Her
Jasmine is really delicate. I mean
		
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			the flowers only last a little
while and you have to really take
		
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			care of them. Okay, but the sun
		
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			All of Jasmine is has been studied
scientifically, like I said, all
		
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			of the things that I have, that
I'm going to talk about have been
		
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			studied scientifically. So they're
not just in the ancient world, but
		
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			they've been bought into modern
science. And this is one of the
		
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			ones that you need to be putting
on your list. Okay? Now, again,
		
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			you might be thinking, I'm not
going to go and wait to plot the
		
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			Jasmine seed and wait for the
flower, you know, the flower to
		
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			bloom, what can I do? Well, you
can actually get some essential
		
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			oils, you can get essential oils.
And again, after I go through the
		
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			third one, I'll be telling you
different ways that we can use
		
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			this. So the second smell that is
really potent, and that will help
		
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			increase your libido and get you
in the mood is Jasmine. And my
		
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			last one for today
		
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			is your Lana Lang. Now, again,
when you're thinking of your
		
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			language, and you're not thinking,
where's the rose, where's the
		
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			rose? This is a smell that is, you
know,
		
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			people think when they think love,
and they think of intimacy, they,
		
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			they will I do anyway, I always
think rose. But again, Allah has
		
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			made us in such beautiful in such
a beautiful, detailed way that
		
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			these plants that we see that our
pleasure to our eyes,
		
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			you know, they have properties,
they have properties that we can
		
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			utilize and use, and it will
stimulate things for us. Okay, so
		
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			I want you to write down those
three. Okay, write those three
		
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			down. And how can we have them
yes, you can have them in the form
		
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			of a plant, you can have the
candles, if you get candles,
		
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			please get, you know, good
candles, don't get cheap candles
		
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			that just have this fake smell in
there. Because, again, from the
		
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			health perspective, and I'm sorry,
because I always have to go back
		
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			into that. But you want to get
like a good beeswax, beeswax
		
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			that's mixed with this. And even
if you just get a plain beeswax
		
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			candle, and you put some essential
oil drops onto the scent, this
		
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			will have an aroma that, you know,
especially if you're gonna get
		
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			married, think like this, right?
Or, you know, whatever, you know,
		
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			your, your husband or your wife is
coming in and you want to make
		
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			them happy. And you want to bring
that connection more closer. In
		
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			sha Allah, these are three that
you can get. Now smells like I
		
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			said, you can put them on the
body. Okay, don't, don't go out
		
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			there and overdo it now, because
you're gonna have like a cocktail
		
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			of smells, and it's gonna be like,
well, too much, you've got to be
		
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			really subtle with the smells,
because you want to kind of
		
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			almost, you know, tease with these
smells, and let them be a
		
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			surprise. So what you can do is
you can have small sprays and put
		
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			them on the sheets, okay? Just a
little like when I mean a little
		
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			bit, don't doubt the bed over
because the worst thing that you
		
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			want to do with smells is make
them you know, overbearing, okay,
		
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			and some people are very sensitive
to smells SubhanAllah. So just
		
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			bear that in mind. But again, if
you're gonna go and have your
		
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			wash, you know, you have your
shower, and you're getting ready,
		
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			put very small drops, okay? And
then and put them in the areas
		
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			that may be you know, that your,
your husband or your wife is going
		
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			to go towards but again, don't
make them overwhelming, okay, so
		
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			you can put them in the air, you
can put them on the sheets, these
		
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			are just some suggestions by the
way, you can even if you're
		
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			running a hot bath, you know and
you really just want to, you know,
		
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			tell your husband or your wife,
look I'm in the mood, you know,
		
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			help them to help you to get in
the mood, right and you can put a
		
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			few drops of oil in the bath.
Again, these have been
		
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			scientifically proven to boost
your immune system. And how many
		
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			of you knew these three? Okay,
there is a world more of them.
		
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			Okay, and we've just talked about
a few ways that you can utilize
		
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			them. I mean, how many people like
I said, you know, do spray a
		
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			little bit on their sheets. I'll
tell you Subhanallah I went to
		
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			pray at a sister's house the other
day, my beautiful Marilyn Masha
		
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			Allah about a color and I was on
the mat and she came behind me and
		
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			sprayed.
		
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			It was actually the good from the
they spray on the Kiswa in Mecca,
		
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			masha Allah lots of McElroy and
honestly that smell as I prayed, I
		
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			just transported me back there.
And that's the power of smells.
		
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			They can have that kind of, you
know
		
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			That memory where it can send you
back somewhere. So if you're, if
		
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			you've got an intimate moment with
your husband or your wife and you
		
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			want to create a lasting memory,
smell is the one that you want to
		
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			use, okay? Smell is such an
important, important thing that
		
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			again, so important that look at
the look at the perfume industry,
		
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			it is worth billions. And by the
way, we were the ones who kind of,
		
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			you know, made that industry, if
you don't know a bit of our
		
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			history go and find out.
		
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			But it's such an important part,
you know, that we overlook it,
		
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			because we just think, okay, ah,
and look at Subhanallah in the
		
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			dean, when I lost his for the
women not to go out and, you know,
		
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			perfume themselves because of the
attraction that it has. Okay. And
		
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			then when you look at things like,
you know, had, you know, again, no
		
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			scent, not even in the soap, you
know, subhanAllah because, you
		
00:31:02 --> 00:31:07
			know, you're almost like cutting
off that, that part that could
		
00:31:07 --> 00:31:11
			excite something for you, you
know, but when it comes to the
		
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			intimacy side, the ancient
cultures really did use this, they
		
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			utilize this so much. And there
are things that you could do, you
		
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			know, I mean, a lovely gift, you
know, for your husband, for your
		
00:31:25 --> 00:31:29
			wife, Alhamdulillah, you know, all
of these things just to show your
		
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			appreciation and give a token of
love. So smell for me is an
		
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			important one. And I hope that
you're going to put that one on
		
00:31:37 --> 00:31:41
			your list and utilize it in sha
Allah, but isn't there. i If we
		
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			have time later, I would be happy
to take some questions and answers
		
00:31:48 --> 00:31:53
			hopefully, in sha Allah. So yeah,
I hope you've got that on your
		
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			list. All right, so let's go on
with the next slide inshallah.
		
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			Taste Okay. Bismillah. So for
those of you who stick around
		
00:32:01 --> 00:32:06
			later, I am going to be giving you
the ultimate love recipe that you
		
00:32:06 --> 00:32:07
			can use, and
		
00:32:08 --> 00:32:12
			taste again, I can talk about all
day long the meals that you can
		
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			cook, you know, the way that you
can excite each other with foods.
		
00:32:18 --> 00:32:22
			But I want to talk about taste
today, because food has become
		
00:32:22 --> 00:32:26
			something that is literally you
know, you're hungry, you eat. And
		
00:32:26 --> 00:32:30
			that's, that's fine for one part
of it, because it is there to
		
00:32:31 --> 00:32:37
			fuel you, right. But food, as we
know, should be also our medicine,
		
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			right? It should be our medicine.
So when we're sick, Allah has
		
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			power to Allah has created such
beautiful remedies in the honey in
		
00:32:46 --> 00:32:52
			the black seed in so many fruits
and vegetables out there that we
		
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			can have not just to fuel our
bodies, but to heal our bodies.
		
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			Well, how about the intimacy side?
Do we look at that. So when we're
		
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			making a meal for husband, or
husband, you're deciding to cook a
		
00:33:07 --> 00:33:10
			romantic meal for your wife, which
I hope some of the brothers out
		
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			there are doing? Do you stop to
think, Hmm, what foods can I
		
00:33:16 --> 00:33:20
			choose to cook today or put on the
plate, that is actually going to
		
00:33:20 --> 00:33:24
			increase our connection, because
that's what it's about, right?
		
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			It's about increasing this
pleasure, this connection, this
		
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			sacred act between a husband and a
wife. And most of us are missing
		
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			that. And I spoke to somebody
today Subhanallah early and they
		
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			were like, Please Denisa share
your recipe, share your recipes.
		
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			But again, like I said, we can
literally talk about this all day
		
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			long. There are recipes upon
recipes upon recipes that you can
		
00:33:49 --> 00:33:54
			utilize. But I think that we are
missing that trick. So I do want
		
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			to definitely share with you my
recipe, but I will definitely warn
		
00:34:01 --> 00:34:05
			you as well. I'm going to warn you
because it is something that maybe
		
00:34:05 --> 00:34:10
			I remember giving this recipe to
somebody who had I'm not sure
		
00:34:10 --> 00:34:13
			about maybe about seven to eight
kids and she was like an ESA No
		
00:34:13 --> 00:34:18
			more. No more. Please don't share
anything more because I don't want
		
00:34:18 --> 00:34:23
			to have any more children. So RAM
Allah. But seriously, this is a
		
00:34:23 --> 00:34:26
			way to increase the love. And
		
00:34:28 --> 00:34:32
			there is a problem out there.
There is very high divorce in the
		
00:34:32 --> 00:34:35
			community. You know, and I know
this because of my work. I know
		
00:34:35 --> 00:34:39
			this because of the community
support that I do. It's not just
		
00:34:39 --> 00:34:43
			me thinking oh, you know, there's
a high level there is a higher
		
00:34:43 --> 00:34:48
			level. There is a lot of intimacy
problems. There was brothers that
		
00:34:48 --> 00:34:54
			just literally want to get second
wives because they have not been
		
00:34:54 --> 00:34:58
			satisfied. Subhanallah you know,
I'm just literally putting it out
		
00:34:58 --> 00:34:59
			there. So
		
00:35:00 --> 00:35:04
			This is important to save
communities because it isn't just
		
00:35:04 --> 00:35:09
			about saving that couple, you have
got the children, it affects the
		
00:35:09 --> 00:35:13
			communities, it affects the look
of the Muslims, you know,
		
00:35:13 --> 00:35:15
			subhanAllah, you know, everybody
knows that shaved down, this is
		
00:35:15 --> 00:35:21
			the one that he tries to do, he
tries to split up couples. And
		
00:35:21 --> 00:35:25
			sometimes with couples, sometimes
yes, we get the financial problems
		
00:35:25 --> 00:35:27
			that you get, you know, you may
get
		
00:35:28 --> 00:35:29
			many different
		
00:35:31 --> 00:35:36
			issues. But when you have an
intimate intimacy issue, this is
		
00:35:36 --> 00:35:40
			something that, you know, we
should be seeking to fix, and not
		
00:35:40 --> 00:35:45
			just fixing, with talking, okay,
fixing with actually trying to
		
00:35:45 --> 00:35:48
			make it better. So if you know,
that maybe, you know, you're not
		
00:35:48 --> 00:35:52
			so attracted to your husband,
there are ways that you can
		
00:35:52 --> 00:35:57
			literally help, you know, increase
your own libido, so that it
		
00:35:57 --> 00:36:00
			becomes a bit more pleasurable
also for you, you know,
		
00:36:00 --> 00:36:05
			subhanAllah this is something,
again, that I see. And I advise my
		
00:36:05 --> 00:36:09
			patients, and I say to them,
Listen, you know, have you been
		
00:36:09 --> 00:36:15
			doing this? And I would say 19 98%
of the time, they will say no, we
		
00:36:15 --> 00:36:18
			haven't thought about that, and we
haven't tried it, or why haven't
		
00:36:18 --> 00:36:22
			you Subhan Allah, you know, just
the same way as if you're sick,
		
00:36:22 --> 00:36:25
			you will go out there and seek
medication. Like I said, Allah
		
00:36:25 --> 00:36:29
			subhanaw taala with his, you know,
absolute mercy, you know,
		
00:36:29 --> 00:36:34
			subhanAllah has provided these
things for us, so that we can
		
00:36:35 --> 00:36:39
			enjoy it. But it can, you know, it
can kind of heal us, it can make
		
00:36:39 --> 00:36:42
			us better, it can keep us
together. SubhanAllah. So I hope
		
00:36:42 --> 00:36:46
			that this is something that, you
know, you're going to be putting
		
00:36:46 --> 00:36:51
			on your list in sha Allah, I am
honestly, brother, Gabriel, I'm
		
00:36:51 --> 00:36:55
			trying to be as poised as
possible. But this is
		
00:36:56 --> 00:37:00
			something like I said, for me
personally, you know, I've wanted
		
00:37:00 --> 00:37:07
			to talk about this for so long.
Because it is an issue, I am
		
00:37:07 --> 00:37:12
			looking at 18 year old girls who
have been married four times, I am
		
00:37:12 --> 00:37:15
			looking at people that are just
literally divorcing because of
		
00:37:15 --> 00:37:19
			this one thing, you know, and if
we don't openly talk about it as a
		
00:37:19 --> 00:37:25
			community, then we can't fix it.
And again, for our young
		
00:37:25 --> 00:37:29
			generation, who have been now
exposed to a very sexualized
		
00:37:30 --> 00:37:34
			culture, you know, it has changed.
I again, talked about this over 20
		
00:37:34 --> 00:37:39
			years ago, when I saw how the
clothes for the children were
		
00:37:39 --> 00:37:43
			being shortened. You know,
everything was becoming, you know,
		
00:37:44 --> 00:37:48
			it was it was ridiculous. I
remember, my, my eldest daughter,
		
00:37:49 --> 00:37:53
			you know, they, they were taking
away the seating arrangements in
		
00:37:53 --> 00:37:57
			schools, and they wanted them to
see boy girl, boy girl, because
		
00:37:57 --> 00:38:02
			they didn't want them to group
into their, you know, the sexes,
		
00:38:03 --> 00:38:05
			because they were literally trying
to take away their furniture.
		
00:38:06 --> 00:38:12
			And that was 22 years ago. You
know, so there isn't there is
		
00:38:12 --> 00:38:18
			issues out there. Like I said, we
are exposed, you know, the TV, the
		
00:38:18 --> 00:38:23
			social media, the fact that there
are, you know, a lot of people
		
00:38:23 --> 00:38:27
			just don't have any shame anymore.
I'm sure you see it. Right. You
		
00:38:27 --> 00:38:30
			know, I'm mean, being in the UK.
It's like, where do you put your
		
00:38:30 --> 00:38:34
			head? You know, as a woman, let
alone the men having to lower
		
00:38:34 --> 00:38:38
			their gazes, you know, where did
they were? And how did they walk,
		
00:38:38 --> 00:38:43
			you know, with these women that
have no shame in exposing a bodily
		
00:38:43 --> 00:38:47
			you know, parts SubhanAllah. It is
a it's a big issue. It's a big
		
00:38:47 --> 00:38:54
			fitna. And, but yet Alhamdulillah,
what has allowed given us, He has
		
00:38:54 --> 00:38:59
			given us first and foremost, the
hijab, which protects us right?
		
00:38:59 --> 00:39:03
			Alhamdulillah from the outside
world, but he's also given us, you
		
00:39:03 --> 00:39:07
			know, the encouragement for
beautification for our spouse and
		
00:39:07 --> 00:39:10
			our loved ones. SubhanAllah.
Right. So it doesn't mean to say
		
00:39:10 --> 00:39:14
			just because you wear your hijab,
right, and your job isn't your
		
00:39:14 --> 00:39:19
			eBay is or your third job, that
that's it for you. Okay, that when
		
00:39:19 --> 00:39:21
			you come home, you just throw it
all off and you get in your
		
00:39:21 --> 00:39:26
			pajamas, absolutely no way. Okay?
And as much as I want to go in and
		
00:39:26 --> 00:39:31
			talk about that side, but if you
do, join our VIP section, I will
		
00:39:31 --> 00:39:37
			go into details in sha Allah,
okay? But this Allah has given us
		
00:39:37 --> 00:39:40
			the perfect package, right? We go
out and we're protected from the
		
00:39:40 --> 00:39:47
			outside world. But when we come
inside, this is our sacred space.
		
00:39:47 --> 00:39:51
			And for the husband and wife when
they go to their quarters. That's
		
00:39:51 --> 00:39:57
			the even more sacred space and we
need it. We need it to shoot us
		
00:39:57 --> 00:40:00
			away from every madness out there
on the bed.
		
00:40:00 --> 00:40:03
			All boards on the TV screens, you
know, just walking down the
		
00:40:03 --> 00:40:07
			streets on the public transports
you name it, right? We need this.
		
00:40:07 --> 00:40:13
			Okay, so let's, let's create this,
like I said sacred place that we
		
00:40:13 --> 00:40:19
			can share this intimacy in Sharla
and make it the best. Don't just
		
00:40:19 --> 00:40:23
			make it that slap up meal of
mashed potatoes. I don't even know
		
00:40:23 --> 00:40:26
			why I'm using mashed potatoes and
peas and a bit of cod, I don't
		
00:40:26 --> 00:40:29
			know. But let's make it that
gourmet meal. Let's take the time
		
00:40:29 --> 00:40:35
			because there's Baraka in it.
Okay. And the beautiful Baraka
		
00:40:35 --> 00:40:39
			that comes from it is also the
fact that, you know, it's the
		
00:40:39 --> 00:40:43
			procreation, it's the children
Subhanallah Okay, now, are we
		
00:40:43 --> 00:40:44
			ready to share this?
		
00:40:45 --> 00:40:50
			Are we ready to share this recipe?
Bismillah Let's share this last
		
00:40:50 --> 00:40:52
			bit of recipe at the hope that we
can
		
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			share it. Okay, so here is an
haces secret. Love Potion?
		
00:41:00 --> 00:41:05
			Bismillah. Okay, so what have we
got on this list? We have
		
00:41:05 --> 00:41:11
			watermelon. We have pomegranate.
We have red ginseng. We have maca.
		
00:41:12 --> 00:41:15
			And we have that beautiful saffron
that we talked about there. So
		
00:41:15 --> 00:41:18
			look, we talked about saffron
earlier, because it was part of
		
00:41:18 --> 00:41:26
			the smell. But here, we also have
it as part of the taste Subhana
		
00:41:26 --> 00:41:31
			Allah, okay. And then you've got
half a cup of watermelon juice.
		
00:41:31 --> 00:41:36
			watermelon juice on its own, by
the way is just literally like a
		
00:41:36 --> 00:41:41
			powerhouse, let alone mixing it
with all the rest. Okay, so the
		
00:41:41 --> 00:41:46
			watermelon juice, I mean, again,
you know, for the men, I think the
		
00:41:46 --> 00:41:50
			watermelon juice, this is the most
important. So women, if there's
		
00:41:50 --> 00:41:53
			any women out there, and you've
got tired husbands and you want to
		
00:41:53 --> 00:41:57
			just slip something into his
drink, don't give him a Diet Coke
		
00:41:57 --> 00:41:58
			or, you know,
		
00:41:59 --> 00:42:04
			a cup of tea or coffee, give him
some watermelon juice. Okay, Mrs.
		
00:42:04 --> 00:42:08
			Miller, and pomegranate it is a
fruit that our beloved Prophet
		
00:42:08 --> 00:42:12
			peace be upon him loved. And if
you look at it, and you open it
		
00:42:12 --> 00:42:16
			up, you can see it's like jewels
already. It's so beautiful, right?
		
00:42:17 --> 00:42:22
			Hamdulillah. So again, don't take
the seeds out, utilize the seed
		
00:42:22 --> 00:42:27
			to, again, the pomegranate, you
know, subhanAllah I could talk
		
00:42:27 --> 00:42:31
			about this so much, but
pomegranate actually has so many
		
00:42:31 --> 00:42:37
			medicinal properties that we are
missing. Maybe, for those of you
		
00:42:37 --> 00:42:42
			who want to join the VIP, I can
delve into this a bit more. But I
		
00:42:42 --> 00:42:48
			want to talk about red ginseng,
this is very powerful. Not only
		
00:42:49 --> 00:42:54
			something to increase the libido,
but actually it relaxes you too.
		
00:42:54 --> 00:42:58
			So it has that kind of cool
effect. Okay, so it has that so if
		
00:42:58 --> 00:43:01
			your husband or your wife is
coming home and they're really
		
00:43:01 --> 00:43:06
			stressed and tense from whether
it's work or the children, or just
		
00:43:06 --> 00:43:11
			the you know, whatever's going on
in life, if you want to help, you
		
00:43:11 --> 00:43:15
			know, decrease the stress, read
jinxing is something that we have,
		
00:43:16 --> 00:43:20
			I'd love to know if anybody has
ever tried any of these as well
		
00:43:20 --> 00:43:24
			because, you know, for me, I don't
see enough people, you know, going
		
00:43:24 --> 00:43:29
			out and, you know, taking the
effort to make these things and
		
00:43:29 --> 00:43:34
			that can help us in Sharla, Maca
is very popular, you can go into
		
00:43:34 --> 00:43:38
			your health shops and get that and
I actually obviously put down the
		
00:43:38 --> 00:43:41
			amount as well because you don't
want to overdo it. Okay, we don't
		
00:43:41 --> 00:43:41
			want to,
		
00:43:42 --> 00:43:43
			we want you to
		
00:43:44 --> 00:43:46
			you know, have your pleasure
Alhamdulillah then we want you to
		
00:43:46 --> 00:43:50
			go to bed and get up for Fudger.
Right, inshallah.
		
00:43:51 --> 00:43:55
			And then you've got again, like I
said, Your saffron, so literally,
		
00:43:55 --> 00:43:59
			it is throwing all of these into a
blender. If you haven't got a
		
00:43:59 --> 00:44:05
			blender, you can always use a
pestle and mortar and crushed them
		
00:44:05 --> 00:44:10
			and then strain them you want to
strain it, okay, and then you
		
00:44:10 --> 00:44:15
			drink it, okay? In sha Allah, the
saffron, you could, you know, kind
		
00:44:15 --> 00:44:19
			of leave, you could put a bid on
top, try and make it fancy, get a
		
00:44:19 --> 00:44:23
			nice glass, don't put it in, you
know, in a mug for instance,
		
00:44:23 --> 00:44:26
			right? Because then you're gonna
kill the mood, okay, you want to
		
00:44:26 --> 00:44:31
			make it look nice. You can you can
slice a bit of a strawberry and
		
00:44:31 --> 00:44:35
			put it on the side of the glass.
You know, make it look nice. Don't
		
00:44:35 --> 00:44:39
			just, you know, here you go. Here
you go have this shot. You know, I
		
00:44:39 --> 00:44:43
			went on a kind of a webinar today.
And then, you know, I was told
		
00:44:43 --> 00:44:47
			that this is going to help us
Bismillah drinkin No, bring it
		
00:44:47 --> 00:44:51
			with love. Bring it and think the
ancient worlds you know
		
00:44:51 --> 00:44:54
			Subhanallah they had these
beautiful gauntlets you know?
		
00:44:56 --> 00:44:59
			Typically we think that they had
wine in it but why? Why doesn't
		
00:44:59 --> 00:44:59
			have to
		
00:45:00 --> 00:45:03
			Be wine, you know they can have
these beautiful juices that Allah
		
00:45:03 --> 00:45:07
			subhanaw taala has provided with
us. And imagine bringing that to
		
00:45:07 --> 00:45:12
			your husband. And then imagine
doing what our beloved Prophet
		
00:45:12 --> 00:45:16
			peace be upon him and his beloved
wife, Aisha radiallahu anhu. And
		
00:45:16 --> 00:45:21
			did you know by kind of turning it
and you know, you having a drink
		
00:45:21 --> 00:45:25
			first and then you turn around so
that your your husband or your
		
00:45:25 --> 00:45:31
			wife slips? Can all of these small
things, create intimacy, create
		
00:45:31 --> 00:45:36
			connections, and shut a lot, but
in the lab? I think I have spoken
		
00:45:36 --> 00:45:40
			too much already. Haven't I nema.
So I don't know if we have any
		
00:45:40 --> 00:45:42
			time for questions. Do we my
lovely.
		
00:45:46 --> 00:45:49
			Do we have some time for
questions? Yes, the reason I'm
		
00:45:49 --> 00:45:52
			changing the screen is not because
you've gone over time or anything.
		
00:45:52 --> 00:45:56
			It's because I know that people
want to see you. So when we have
		
00:45:56 --> 00:45:59
			the slides, we only see you in the
corner of the screen. So I know
		
00:45:59 --> 00:46:03
			that people want to see you. But
just one of the things that is
		
00:46:03 --> 00:46:08
			coming up for me, as I'm hearing
you I'm listening to you is, as
		
00:46:08 --> 00:46:13
			you mentioned this these ancient
arts, it's almost like there are
		
00:46:13 --> 00:46:19
			these ancient feminine arts that
have been lost. Yes, definitely.
		
00:46:19 --> 00:46:20
			So tell us about the VIP.
		
00:46:22 --> 00:46:25
			And also, we want to know where
the sister and Isa is going to be
		
00:46:25 --> 00:46:30
			doing any courses or coaching or
any support for sisters to
		
00:46:30 --> 00:46:34
			reconnect with their feminine, you
know, through the senses, but tell
		
00:46:34 --> 00:46:38
			us about the class inshallah.
Okay, wonderful. So, I'm going to
		
00:46:38 --> 00:46:40
			put you on, I'm going to give the
screen to you, because I think you
		
00:46:40 --> 00:46:42
			need to see this from
		
00:46:43 --> 00:46:48
			Hamdulillah. Okay, so yes, first
and foremost, with the VIP, we
		
00:46:48 --> 00:46:52
			will be going through all five
senses so that you get that whole
		
00:46:52 --> 00:46:57
			picture, you could already see how
the saffron played its part in two
		
00:46:57 --> 00:47:01
			parts already. Right. So it was in
the smell, and then it was in the
		
00:47:01 --> 00:47:05
			taste one already. Now I'm going
to give you a much more broader
		
00:47:05 --> 00:47:08
			scope of that, so that you can
actually implement because
		
00:47:08 --> 00:47:13
			remember what I said earlier, it's
about implementation. And for the
		
00:47:13 --> 00:47:17
			sisters. And I know this is a
topic that you know, a lot of
		
00:47:17 --> 00:47:21
			people are struggling with, you
know, I have got some courses a
		
00:47:21 --> 00:47:24
			handler, I've even got an
interactive one, where we will
		
00:47:24 --> 00:47:28
			come together and make these
beautiful remedies. And these
		
00:47:28 --> 00:47:33
			oils, you know, imagine some
beautiful massage oils that have
		
00:47:33 --> 00:47:38
			got specific scents in that you
can utilize and use and I can show
		
00:47:38 --> 00:47:43
			you techniques on how you can
relax your husband, etc. So it's
		
00:47:43 --> 00:47:46
			you know, because a lot of people
they don't just learn by
		
00:47:46 --> 00:47:49
			listening, right? We have so many
different teaching methods, but an
		
00:47:49 --> 00:47:53
			interactive class where you can
make dishes, you can see us
		
00:47:53 --> 00:47:58
			chopping you do we do it together,
okay. And we really get stuck in.
		
00:47:59 --> 00:48:04
			There's also exercises as well,
this is a big one. Because, again,
		
00:48:04 --> 00:48:10
			a lot of us with kids, we lose it,
we put on weight. This doesn't
		
00:48:10 --> 00:48:15
			have to be the case. I want the
women especially to feel like
		
00:48:15 --> 00:48:19
			queens, I want them to feel like
Neff Atari, and Nefertiti and
		
00:48:19 --> 00:48:23
			Cleopatra and even more so, you
know, subhanAllah the gems are
		
00:48:23 --> 00:48:29
			Allah subhanaw taala has made us
feel beautiful again, okay? Why?
		
00:48:30 --> 00:48:33
			Because you're doing it for the
sake of Allah. And then you are
		
00:48:33 --> 00:48:37
			serving your husband in the most
beautiful way. Okay, so it's going
		
00:48:37 --> 00:48:41
			to ensure a lot increase that
love, increase that connection,
		
00:48:41 --> 00:48:46
			keep your families together. And
this is important, you know, I
		
00:48:46 --> 00:48:50
			kind of see it as we are
counteracting the shaytaan and his
		
00:48:50 --> 00:48:54
			plots, you know, to split the
families up, no, let's increase
		
00:48:54 --> 00:48:59
			that love. Let's have those
marriages that last for years and
		
00:48:59 --> 00:49:03
			years and years and then continue
into Jannah in sha Allah. Okay.
		
00:49:03 --> 00:49:09
			And we can do this by preserving
this sacred act in sha Allah, this
		
00:49:09 --> 00:49:13
			beautiful, you know, there's so
much information out there. It's
		
00:49:13 --> 00:49:17
			like, where do you start? Okay,
I've already condensed years of
		
00:49:17 --> 00:49:22
			it. And, you know, taking what I
learned before Islam as well, and
		
00:49:22 --> 00:49:25
			bringing that in because I, you
know, I had, I had role models and
		
00:49:25 --> 00:49:30
			they were cheeky role models, but
they're not halal for us to watch
		
00:49:30 --> 00:49:34
			now, you know, so I've kind of
Islamize sized it all, made it
		
00:49:34 --> 00:49:39
			halal for us and made it into
something that I hope that I can
		
00:49:39 --> 00:49:44
			share with the world, getting our
young, beautiful sisters ready for
		
00:49:44 --> 00:49:48
			marriage, okay, or maybe you've
been married already. And you
		
00:49:48 --> 00:49:52
			know, you've kind of lost that and
you want to Yeah, you know, I need
		
00:49:52 --> 00:49:56
			to you know, have that confidence
again, okay, there's nothing
		
00:49:56 --> 00:49:59
			wrong. We are feminine human
beings, you know,
		
00:50:00 --> 00:50:04
			Subhan Allah, and we should
embrace that femininity, but how?
		
00:50:04 --> 00:50:09
			With the five senses, it is just
like a scent. It's literally like
		
00:50:09 --> 00:50:14
			fireworks and Hamdulillah. So,
yeah, I hope that I've got some
		
00:50:14 --> 00:50:17
			people here today that are going
to join this VIP class in sha
		
00:50:17 --> 00:50:20
			Allah, masha Allah, we've had a
great take up on the VIP class
		
00:50:20 --> 00:50:25
			already. So I'm expecting loads,
loads more Inshallah, before the
		
00:50:25 --> 00:50:29
			workshop kicks off. And I just
want to thank you for, you know,
		
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			being available to us, and
reminding us of some of these
		
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			things that as you said, in
today's modern world, we've just
		
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			lost so much, you know, when you
mentioned about the beauty of
		
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			Alhambra and you know, just the
ancient cultures, the end all
		
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			sorts of cultures, there was this
sense of
		
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			really slowing down and taking
time and enjoying so many aspects
		
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			of life that today, we just take
for granted. We want to rush it we
		
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			want to microwave everything we
want to get Uber Eats you know
		
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			it's a quick fix for everything.
And I love how you've invited us
		
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			to slow down in this area
particularly us as women to pour
		
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			into this right to be creative
with this to to take our time with
		
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			it to put some thought into it
like you said, you know, the
		
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			mashed potatoes and the peas
		
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			versus the gourmet meal
		
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			expecting loads of people on the
on the workshop, would you say
		
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			that the workshop is more
appropriate for sisters only or is
		
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			it open to everyone? What do you
like us to do? Okay, so the actual
		
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			workshops itself, the VIP VIP one,
yeah, we can open that up to
		
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			brothers as well, that's fine. But
the interactive one, of course,
		
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			that's the sisters only in sha
Allah. Fair enough, Mashallah. So
		
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			to just tell everybody where they
can find you, please and your
		
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			social handles, if you have a
website, tell them how they can
		
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			reach you. hamdulillah so I'm
actually as you know, name I'm not
		
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			very good at this social stuff,
but it's just my name and Nisa
		
00:52:08 --> 00:52:13
			kissoon A n is a nearly forgot how
to spell my name there. I was in
		
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			this kind of lucky pleasure, God,
Allah and Isa kissoon. And you can
		
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			find me on Instagram, I am on
Facebook as well. I'm not really
		
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			great on the socials. But I'm
gonna make an effort in sha Allah
		
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			because, like I said, to be given
this opportunity to come back. And
		
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			to share this is you know, I'm
super excited. It is definitely
		
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			one of the answers to my two hours
Subhanallah and then yes, I do
		
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			have a website as well. So on my
website is Maya, M, a y, y
		
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			a.co.uk. Okay, and there, you can
find stuff about, you know, the
		
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			hijama and other things that I
teach and there's a lovely free
		
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			ebook as well grab your free
ebook. This is something that I've
		
00:53:02 --> 00:53:07
			been doing for years. This is like
my 20 odd years compiled into one
		
00:53:07 --> 00:53:10
			book and I've made it really
simple. So it's all about health
		
00:53:10 --> 00:53:15
			and how to keep healthy Prevention
and Building your immune system,
		
00:53:15 --> 00:53:19
			you know, distressing, etc. Grab
it, it's free while it's free.
		
00:53:19 --> 00:53:23
			Bismillah rubbish. It's a gift in
Shalabh isn't Allah, masha Allah I
		
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			love this. And actually, we have
some questions here. So people
		
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			have been listening and very
attentively Hamdulillah.
		
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			One of the VIP said, I sense the
speaker has a liking for organic
		
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			food. Do you recommend a supplier
for the exotic fruits?
		
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			You know what, definitely, when it
comes to the things that I've
		
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			mentioned today, especially on the
list, please get the organics
		
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			because like I said,
unfortunately,
		
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			you know, there, there's a lot of
fakes out there. Okay. I've seen
		
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			it myself. It's ridiculous. And
you so you wouldn't want for
		
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			instance, to be going to get
something like red jinxing? And
		
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			then you finding out that it's
been grown in human feces, right.
		
00:54:07 --> 00:54:12
			So Pamela, you need to kind of
keep the organic. And actually, if
		
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			you do come on the VIP, I'll be
giving some links away as well in
		
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			Sharla, so that you can get safe
stuff. Because, you know, I'm
		
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			really
		
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			particular about our foods and
what we're consuming the amount of
		
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			pesticides, you know, and I know
that a lot of people will say,
		
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			Well, I can't afford it. Well,
actually, if we cut back on
		
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			certain things, we don't need to
be eating large amounts of food
		
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			anyway. And if you prioritize,
especially your dairy, you know,
		
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			and you're, you know, try as much
as you can, with the open fruits
		
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			of ones that are exposed like the
strawberries and stuff like that.
		
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			They take a lot of,
		
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			of pesticides in and then you're
just going to be then ingesting
		
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			them and it's not going to be good
for you. So yes to that question.
		
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			Just try to be as organic as
		
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			possible. And remember, we're not
just talking about foods with
		
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			regards to even this topic in
terms of, you know,
		
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			intimacy, you really want to be
careful with what you're washing
		
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			your body with SubhanAllah. And
making sure that that hasn't got a
		
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			lot of chemicals in it because it
will just literally seep through
		
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			and go into your bloodstream. And
then you'll have to all come to me
		
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			for hijama to be the toxin clean.
So well, Allah, I'm trying to save
		
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			you. Lila.
		
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			Thank you so much for that,
because that's a very, very good
		
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			point. And another super
observation here. One of our VIP
		
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			says he likes your conception or
she or he likes your conception of
		
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			the sacred space, and inner
sanctum do you recommend cutlery
		
00:55:44 --> 00:55:48
			and crockery that couples use
specifically as a precursor for
		
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			sensual atmosphere, instead of
just using your ordinary daily
		
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			stuff?
		
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			I personally go to the sauna. You
know, the touch. Remember, the
		
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			touch is one, and I'm happy that
you're a VIP, because I'm going to
		
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			really go into the touch. But why
would you use cutlery? Hey, can
		
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			look nice if you haven't, and you
can use your fingers. Like
		
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			Subhanallah use your fingers cut
to the chase because that touch,
		
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			you know, a minute imagine Okay,
you've got a fork right? And then
		
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			you're feeding somebody. But
imagine if your, your your fingers
		
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			touch just their lips just a
little bit. Well, that's going to
		
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			be you know, it's hot stuff right?
So Subhanallah forget the cutlery.
		
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			I say stick with the Sunnah. Make
sure you've obviously cleaned and
		
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			you've got nice trimmed
fingernails and etc but utilize
		
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			utilize what Allah has given us.
		
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			I like that I don't think I was
expecting that and I don't think
		
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			that that whole VIP person was
expecting that either Masha Allah
		
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			like we said, Guys, this this is
an art form. You know, possibly we
		
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			could say in most of our
communities a lost art form. So
		
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			very, very excited to dig deeper
in in the VIP lesson, I will
		
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			definitely be there in sha Allah.
And for those of you who have not
		
00:57:06 --> 00:57:10
			upgraded for VIP, it's in every
email that we send you there
		
00:57:10 --> 00:57:13
			should be a link for you to
upgrade. And if you upgrade you
		
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			can come to the workshop for free.
It's a special gift to all our VIP
		
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			so we want to see all of you there
in sha Allah says this has been
		
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			really enjoyable. Somebody on
YouTube said that this is so
		
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			intriguing. And I think that
that's what it is. It's
		
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			intriguing. Mashallah, so Zack
Hello, Hayden, I hope you enjoy
		
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			the rest of the conference
inshallah. And I know that this is
		
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			not going to be the last time that
we see you on this channel and on
		
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			this platform, but may Allah bless
you and your family with every
		
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			fear does that color clearances,
nautical or fake and does awful
		
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			luck to you as well, especially
for being brave enough for open up
		
00:57:51 --> 00:57:56
			this cop topic so that we can, you
know, comfortably talk about it
		
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			with experts, or just even like
you said, just open up the mindset
		
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			because people just they don't
know that fast paced society that
		
00:58:04 --> 00:58:08
			we talked about. doesn't give us
some time to reflect, to ponder
		
00:58:08 --> 00:58:12
			enough. So a big desire for luck
and may Allah reward you and your
		
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			children and Mignon Amin and
everybody else out there please do
		
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			make dua for my family and I will
take it in sha Allah does that
		
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			color okay the other color