Naima B. Robert – Advice for Muslim Women Who Want to Write Tell Your Story Change the World!

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Naima Robert discusses the importance of owning a story and giving oneself permission to share it online. She warns against the current trend of social media platforms being transient and not helping with the writing process. The speaker emphasizes the importance of documenting one's experiences and building a legacy, and offers advice on how to write a book and post on social media. They stress the importance of writing as a teaching tool for people and offer to help with the process. The recording of the video will be available on Instagram.

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			That is part of the Black Muslim Festival.
		
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			And I wanted to share this with all
		
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			of you guys because
		
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			many of you know
		
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			that I have been writing books for,
		
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			almost 20 years now,
		
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			And I wanted to share with you
		
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			a few of the things that I have
		
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			learned along the way. Okay. So before we
		
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			get started, my name is Naima b Robert.
		
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			I am an award winning author, alhamdulillah,
		
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			also an editor and a writing coach, and
		
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			I help, you know, people
		
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			to tell their stories and to get their
		
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			books written. So as part of this festival,
		
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			I wanted to have a conversation
		
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			about
		
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			changing the world.
		
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			Okay? Now changing the world is like a
		
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			is a really huge concept. It's a it's
		
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			a really big idea.
		
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			Many of us don't really believe that we
		
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			have the ability to change the world. Okay?
		
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			So in this presentation,
		
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			in this conversation,
		
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			I'm going to be sharing with you my
		
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			ideas
		
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			about changing the world through telling your story
		
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			and writing your book. Okay? So before we
		
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			get started,
		
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			could you let me know please
		
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			if any of you have either written a
		
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			book or thought of writing a book? Let
		
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			me know in the comments. Let me know
		
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			in the chat. Is that something that's ever
		
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			occurred to you? And this could be, it
		
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			could be a children's book, it could be
		
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			an adult's book, it could be, you know
		
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			fiction, it could be non fiction. Either way,
		
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			I just wanna know if you've ever had
		
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			the idea of writing a book. So I've
		
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			got some some people in the chat here
		
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			saying that they've thought of writing a book.
		
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			What about you guys? Have you ever
		
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			considered that you could potentially write a book?
		
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			We've got more people who have thought about
		
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			it,
		
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			Now
		
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			you would be surprised that how many people
		
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			have thought of writing a book. Okay?
		
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			You know, in our culture, obviously, you know,
		
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			there is this idea that, you know, writing
		
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			a book is one of those things on
		
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			the bucket list. Right? That it's one of
		
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			those things that you want to have done
		
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			before you die.
		
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			Sis Munira says that she's written many stories,
		
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			but have never fully gone through to publish
		
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			anything, and that's really common too.
		
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			Yeah. That's really common as well. So what
		
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			I'd like to do in this session is
		
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			is 2 things.
		
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			1, I want to talk about
		
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			who should be writing a book right now.
		
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			And I know it sounds a bit heavy
		
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			handed, but I really mean it because I
		
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			take this very seriously, and I'm going to
		
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			tell you why. I'm gonna talk about who
		
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			should be writing a book and then the
		
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			steps that you need to take in order
		
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			to be able to write that book. Okay?
		
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			So the first thing that I wanna
		
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			say is
		
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			I have a belief,
		
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			very, very strong belief
		
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			that
		
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			every single one of us has
		
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			a story to tell or a message to
		
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			share
		
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			that is unique
		
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			to us
		
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			and that someone out there needs to hear.
		
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			I'm gonna repeat that because it's one of
		
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			my my foundational principles. Right? And that is
		
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			that every single one of us has
		
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			either a story to tell or a message
		
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			to share
		
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			and there are there is someone out there.
		
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			There are people out there
		
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			who need to hear
		
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			your story or need to hear your message.
		
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			That's my foundational principle. Now if you don't
		
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			believe that,
		
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			none of this may resonate with you. Okay?
		
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			And if you know that there are people
		
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			out there who need to kind of hear
		
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			what I'm saying, Those of you on here,
		
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			then share this with others. Share it now,
		
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			share the live so other people can hear
		
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			this too because this is the stuff that
		
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			no one tells you. Okay? This is the
		
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			deal.
		
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			If it is true that every single one
		
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			of us has a story to tell or
		
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			a message to share that someone out there
		
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			in the world needs to hear,
		
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			then that means that we need
		
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			to do a few things
		
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			that will allow us to truly
		
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			tell our story and share our message. Right?
		
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			So
		
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			what that means is this.
		
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			The first thing that we have to do,
		
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			every single one of us,
		
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			is to own our story.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Owning your story
		
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			means that you accept
		
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			and acknowledge
		
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			that this is what I have to offer
		
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			and that what I have to offer has
		
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			value.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			First thing is that I have something of
		
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			value
		
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			to offer
		
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			and, yeah, what I have to offer is
		
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			is important
		
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			and it has value and,
		
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			that's part of owning your story. Yep.
		
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			That's the first way it has to begin.
		
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			Alright? If you don't believe that,
		
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			you're you're it's not gonna happen. Okay? If
		
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			you think,
		
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			anyone could do it, like, I don't have
		
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			anything special to say,
		
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			you know, I don't really have anything unique
		
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			to bring, like, you know, so many people
		
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			could say the same thing, so many people
		
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			could tell the same story,
		
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			then you're just not going to make it.
		
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			Right? Give me a yes in the chat
		
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			if that makes sense to you. Give me
		
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			a yes in the chat
		
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			if you can see how
		
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			owning your story
		
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			is literally the first step on the journey
		
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			to telling that story. Okay? It's like when
		
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			you have people going to do a TED
		
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			talk. The only people who will do a
		
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			TED talk are the ones who believe that
		
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			they have something important to say. But the
		
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			thing is,
		
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			every single one of us could do a
		
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			TED talk.
		
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			Every single one of us could do a
		
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			TED talk. Right? Of course, there are TED
		
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			talks that are done by, you know,
		
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			experts and scientists and all that kind of
		
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			thing. No problem. But many TED talks
		
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			are simply
		
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			ordinary people
		
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			recognizing
		
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			that they are extraordinary
		
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			in their uniqueness.
		
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			I'm gonna say that again because I like
		
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			that.
		
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			Most people many people doing a TED talk
		
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			are ordinary people
		
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			that have recognized
		
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			that they are extraordinary
		
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			in their uniqueness
		
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			because this is something that we know.
		
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			Every single one of us is unique.
		
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			Every single one of us was created
		
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			unique and special in our own way with
		
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			our own gifts, our own talents, our own
		
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			journey, our own story, which means that you
		
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			no one can replicate what you have to
		
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			bring. That's the truth. No one can replicate
		
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			it.
		
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			So owning your story is the first move.
		
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			Right? The next move after that is giving
		
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			yourself permission to tell the story. Listen. A
		
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			lot of us out here are
		
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			waiting for someone
		
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			to give us permission,
		
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			waiting for somebody to say, oh, write for
		
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			us. Come and tell us a story. You
		
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			know, let me give you a publishing deal.
		
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			Waiting for validation.
		
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			That's what we're doing. We're waiting for validation.
		
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			We're waiting for someone to come and tell
		
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			us.
		
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			Yes. Yes. We we we want this story.
		
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			Yes. We think that it's important. Listen, guys,
		
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			Especially especially
		
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			if you come from a background like me.
		
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			I'm a Muslim. I'm a black woman. I'm
		
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			an African woman.
		
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			You know, I I'm a stay at home.
		
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			I'm a work from home mom. Whatever the
		
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			case may be. I'm not necessarily the person
		
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			that people are gonna be chasing down to
		
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			tell their story. How many of you have
		
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			ever felt that? Give me a yes in
		
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			the chat or in the comments.
		
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			If you have felt that, you know, I'm
		
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			not I'm not the type, I'm not the
		
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			person that is going to have an agent
		
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			and publishers are gonna be, you know, chasing
		
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			me for my story, you know, maybe there
		
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			isn't a space for me.
		
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			Maybe there isn't space for me. Maybe there
		
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			isn't a seat at the table for me.
		
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			If you've been following us at the Black
		
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			Muslim Festival, then you know how we feel
		
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			about the table. Right? Someone tell me how
		
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			we feel about the table.
		
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			We don't talk about the table and getting
		
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			a seat at the table. We talk about
		
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			building our own tables.
		
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			Right? We bring the table. We build the
		
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			table. We make our own table. Okay? Which
		
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			means that we have to be able to
		
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			acknowledge
		
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			that we already have everything we need, and
		
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			we're not waiting for an invitation from anyone.
		
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			We're not waiting for permission from anyone.
		
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			We don't need anyone else's validation.
		
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			I want you to take that very seriously.
		
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			We are not here
		
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			waiting for someone to give us permission.
		
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			We give ourselves permission. Please repeat that in
		
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			the chat. I give myself permission.
		
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			Put it in the comments. Put it in
		
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			the chat because I wanna hear you say
		
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			it. I've got lots of my fantastic people
		
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			here saying, we bring the table. Yes. We
		
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			do.
		
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			I get Hadija says, I give myself permission.
		
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			Who else is gonna give themselves permission today?
		
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			Fadila says, I give myself permission. Who else
		
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			is gonna say they give themselves?
		
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			Says, I give myself permission. Rashida says, I
		
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			give myself permission. Yes. Yes. Yes. That is
		
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			where it begins.
		
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			Owning your story,
		
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			giving yourself permission. Ayesha says, I give myself
		
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			permission. Yes.
		
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			That's where it begins.
		
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			That's when you unlock it. And the thing
		
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			is, the reality is
		
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			we have everything we need at our disposal.
		
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			Now is the time.
		
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			There has never been a better time. Mahreen
		
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			says I give myself permission. There has never
		
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			been a better time
		
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			to be you.
		
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			To be you,
		
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			I'm gonna say that again. There has never
		
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			been a better time to be you, a
		
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			person with a story to tell, with a
		
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			message to share. There has never been a
		
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			better time because those gatekeepers,
		
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			they don't have the power that they once
		
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			had.
		
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			Are you guys with me?
		
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			They don't have the power that they once
		
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			had.
		
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			We can build our own tables now.
		
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			When it comes to writing, we can put
		
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			our work out there wherever we want.
		
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			We can share it however we want. We
		
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			can publish our own books. We don't have
		
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			to wait for a publisher to give us
		
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			permission. We don't have to wait for a
		
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			publisher, or an agent, or anyone to validate
		
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			us. We have the power now. And if
		
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			you know that someone needs to hear this,
		
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			you better share this live, okay, right away
		
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			and invite them. Okay? So
		
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			here's the deal. What did I say?
		
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			Owning your story
		
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			and giving yourself permission
		
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			and then
		
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			taking action. Okay? Taking action.
		
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			So we're not out here just to talk
		
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			about, yeah, it's great. It's a wonderful pipe
		
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			dream. No.
		
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			I wanna see results, and I bet you
		
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			do too. You wanna see results
		
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			because that is what
		
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			anything that is worth doing
		
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			requires a commitment.
		
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			There has to be a commitment on your
		
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			side to say, you know what? I know
		
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			I have something
		
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			special,
		
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			something important, something valuable to give to the
		
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			world.
		
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			Right?
		
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			I have something to share with the world.
		
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			Guess what, guys? Guess what that thing is?
		
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			That is part of your legacy.
		
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			That is part of your legacy.
		
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			You have that story. You having that story,
		
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			that message, and holding it within
		
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			and keeping it, like, you know, like keeping
		
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			it a secret and hiding it from the
		
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			world is not doing you any justice,
		
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			and it doesn't do justice to your story
		
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			or to your message. And I'm talking about
		
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			whether it is
		
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			the experiences that you've been through, whether it's
		
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			the expertise that you have, whether it's the
		
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			lessons that you've learned, whether it's the product
		
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			of your imagination,
		
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			all of that
		
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			is worth something to other people.
		
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			So there are certain people I'm gonna talk
		
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			about nonfiction specifically for a minute here. Okay?
		
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			There are certain people that I strongly believe
		
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			should be writing a book, and if they
		
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			don't write a book, then they have not
		
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			fulfilled the calling on their life. Oh, yes.
		
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			That's what I am gonna say right now.
		
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			I'm a own that.
		
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			Certain people,
		
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			they have a duty to write a book.
		
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			They have a duty, a responsibility
		
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			to write a book, because what they are
		
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			doing is so important.
		
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			They cannot afford
		
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			not to document
		
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			it.
		
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			And I'm gonna just tell you something, guys.
		
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			This is my own personal thing.
		
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			Many of us who are okay. Let me
		
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			say, many of us who are, you know,
		
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			doing work in our communities,
		
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			who are coaching people,
		
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			who are serving people, who are building institutions,
		
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			who are running institutions,
		
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			right, running brands,
		
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			building brands,
		
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			working on campaigns,
		
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			activists,
		
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			all sorts of people. Right?
		
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			The current climate and the current trend has
		
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			got us
		
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			fixated
		
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			on creating content for social media.
		
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			Give me a yes in the chat if
		
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			y'all know what I'm talking about.
		
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			We're fixated
		
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			on building content, creating content for social media.
		
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			Give me a yes if you know what
		
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			I mean. Adija says yes. Fadiba says yes.
		
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			Rashida says yes. Okay.
		
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			So that means that we're writing posts.
		
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			We're writing captions.
		
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			We're taking photos. Now they've got us doing
		
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			reels.
		
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			Before it was stories, then we oh, they've
		
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			got us doing TikToks. They've got us doing
		
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			Snapchat. They've got us doing YouTube videos, right,
		
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			which is all cool.
		
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			But I wanna warn you about something.
		
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			Yeah?
		
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			All these social media platforms
		
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			are transient.
		
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			K?
		
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			I'm gonna say that again.
		
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			All these social media platforms that we are
		
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			running after, the likes and running after the
		
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			shares and running after the followers,
		
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			they are transient. That's the first thing. And
		
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			secondly,
		
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			they do not belong to us.
		
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			K? Y'all hear what I'm saying? They are
		
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			transient and they do not belong to us.
		
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			So what's happening is
		
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			in our effort to kind of keep up
		
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			with the content creation treadmill, right, and to
		
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			document things, and to share our thoughts, and
		
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			share our ideas, We are creating all this
		
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			content that is flooding all these apps, which
		
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			is basically creating,
		
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			you know, what the apps are monetizing. Right?
		
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			We are doing all that work, But
		
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			because
		
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			everyone is doing the same
		
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			thing, we're not only competing with each other,
		
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			but our work has a very short shelf
		
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			life.
		
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			You may write a fire caption.
		
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			Right? And it gets shown to whatever percentage
		
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			of your followers, but then in a couple
		
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			of days' time, if you continue to create
		
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			content, what happens to your feed?
		
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			It goes further and further down your feed.
		
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			It stops being shown to people,
		
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			and that's it. Of course, if it goes
		
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			viral, which is what everybody's supposed to be
		
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			chasing, right, then, yeah, you get some you
		
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			get a bit of a boost, you get
		
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			a bit of a boom. But my point
		
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			is this, in 5 years' time, 10 years'
		
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			time, no one is going to be going
		
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			through your Facebook feed to read those amazing
		
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			captions that you wrote.
		
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			No one is going to go down your
		
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			Instagram feed
		
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			to try to read all those amazing captions
		
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			that you wrote.
		
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			So
		
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			post on socials. Post
		
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			on socials
		
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			to create awareness,
		
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			to get people into your funnel,
		
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			you know, to to to to do whatever
		
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			it is that you wanna do, but be
		
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			aware of this, and this is my final
		
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			message.
		
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			The true legacy
		
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			is not in creating content for social media.
		
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			It is in documenting
		
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			it in a in in a form
		
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			that will have longevity.
		
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			That could be a documentary, for example,
		
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			documentary series,
		
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			or
		
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			to the point of this session,
		
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			writing your book.
		
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			K? Because all this time that you're spending
		
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			creating content for social media, it's great, but
		
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			it's not part of your legacy, guys. That's
		
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			what I'm trying to say.
		
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			It's not going to last beyond you. It
		
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			is going to get buried
		
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			buried
		
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			under the rubble, under the sand of everything
		
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			else that gets piled on top of it.
		
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			Give me a yes in the chat if
		
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			that makes sense.
		
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			Give me a boom in the chat
		
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			if you hear what I'm saying.
		
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			So there are certain people
		
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			that their responsibility
		
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			right now
		
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			is to write a book. It's not to
		
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			post on socials.
		
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			If you can post on socials
		
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			and then write a book or you can
		
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			post on socials and then collate that and
		
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			put it into a book, that's the best.
		
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			Yeah? But don't get fooled, guys. Don't get
		
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			fooled into thinking
		
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			all this stuff I'm doing on socials is
		
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			building up to something. It's not. Because look
		
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			at look at the way things have moved
		
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			from Myspace
		
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			some of you are old enough to know
		
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			about Myspace.
		
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			Myspace was the lick back in the day.
		
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			Right? It was the place to be. It's
		
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			like Buna Mohammed was telling us that he
		
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			was the he was the he was the
		
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			big guy on Myspace. Right?
		
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			Who knows about Myspace anymore? No one. Nobody
		
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			who are there again. It's done. Right?
		
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			Look at even Facebook.
		
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			Millennials don't touch Facebook with a bargepole.
		
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			Right? Even Twitter. Twitter is one of those
		
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			things that it's now it's really been it
		
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			was at one point the rage. Now it's
		
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			just certain industries, certain groups of people who
		
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			stay there.
		
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			Instagram,
		
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			obviously, is fighting for its life, but TikTok
		
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			is on the up, and it's trying to
		
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			take over. So my point is imagine that
		
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			person who spent hours and hours creating content
		
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			for Facebook, and I know that we have
		
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			because when I we were on Facebook,
		
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			people took time
		
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			to write really
		
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			thoughtful,
		
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			well written captions,
		
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			post.
		
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			Give me a yes if you remember that.
		
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			After people got over the thing of, you
		
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			know, just saying like, oh, dinner out with
		
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			boo, Oh, kids driving me crazy today. There
		
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			were some people, and I remember them, there
		
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			were some people who really took a lot
		
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			of time
		
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			and made, you know, a lot of effort
		
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			to write
		
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			really good stuff for their Facebook.
		
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			Where is it now?
		
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			Where is it now?
		
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			It's down someone's feed somewhere. I even I
		
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			could not scroll down my own feed
		
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			to find
		
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			those those amazing pieces of writing that I
		
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			did. Right? So what I'm saying is
		
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			some people still do, but like I said,
		
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			some people
		
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			Facebook is their thing.
		
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			But my point is this, they will all
		
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			be
		
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			replaced.
		
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			So
		
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			who should be writing these books?
		
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			Every single one of us? Nah. Probably not.
		
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			You know? Some of us, I think we
		
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			all have something to say. We all have
		
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			a message, we all have a story, but
		
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			not everyone has a message or a story
		
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			that can really
		
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			pad and flesh out a whole book. Right?
		
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			So this is what I say.
		
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			If you are a person who
		
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			currently
		
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			serves and helps people
		
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			right?
		
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			So you're a coach. You're a trainer.
		
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			You know, you you are a therapist. You're
		
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			a mentor.
		
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			Okay? You are somebody who currently
		
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			helps people.
		
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			You should have a book.
		
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			If you have a system
		
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			that you've developed, that you use either with
		
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			your clients or within your own company or
		
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			in your school with your students, whatever it
		
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			is, you should document that in a book.
		
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			If you are an organization
		
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			that is helping people,
		
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			that is having an impact,
		
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			that, you know, that is is really making
		
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			a change in the world,
		
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			you guys should have a book
		
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			to document what you have been doing. Right?
		
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			If you are somebody who
		
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			has been through a life trial
		
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			and has come out the other side with
		
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			real wisdom,
		
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			real
		
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			tools, real skills,
		
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			you should probably have a book.
		
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			Because guess what? There are people out there
		
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			who are where you were.
		
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			Right?
		
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			If you've been through and experienced
		
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			if you've been through an experience
		
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			that other people have been through and you've
		
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			made it through the other side, You should
		
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			write a book, and I'll give you an
		
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			example of this.
		
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			So Hema Mansour Khan,
		
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			she,
		
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			she went through the university system
		
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			and experienced what she experienced in the university
		
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			system. And then her and 2 other ladies,
		
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			our 2 other women,
		
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			they decided to document
		
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			their experience of going through, I think it
		
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			was Cambridge,
		
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			as black and brown girls,
		
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			what happened with them, what their experience was,
		
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			and what they learned
		
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			along the way, they decided to write a
		
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			book. Why? For other black and brown girls
		
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			who are going to come behind them and
		
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			go through Cambridge, and that became the brown
		
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			I think it's the the fly girl's guide
		
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			to Cambridge. I think it's what it's called.
		
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			Right? But that's an example. So hey, maman
		
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			Zorkan is young.
		
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			She's not finished her journey. One of our
		
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			sisters says, what if your story is unfinished,
		
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			if you're still in it? It's fine because
		
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			what Suheima did with hers is that she
		
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			took one portion of her life, which was
		
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			this university journey,
		
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			and she's done something with it.
		
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			So whatever she went through, the good and
		
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			the bad of it, it's now no longer
		
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			just her own lived experience. It's actually a
		
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			teaching tool for other people.
		
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			You guys seeing what I'm saying here? Give
		
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			me a yes if you get where I'm
		
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			going with this. Look at From My Sister's
		
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			Lips. Many of you are familiar with my
		
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			book From My Sister's Lips.
		
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			My story isn't finished. From My Sister's Lips
		
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			literally tells the story of, like, 5 years
		
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			of my life.
		
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			Okay? And, like, 5 years of the life
		
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			of the women that I interviewed.
		
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			I've changed so much since then. They're they've
		
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			changed so much. Our lives have moved on
		
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			since then, but that is still valid,
		
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			and it's still helpful to people. And it's
		
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			still a book that people read and are
		
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			inspired by and benefit from. And at the
		
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			end of the day, I'm no I'm I'm
		
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			no one special.
		
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			Right? I don't have an amazing flair for
		
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			writing.
		
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			I don't have any more gifts than any
		
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			one of you except
		
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			that Allah gave me the opportunity to tell
		
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			the story, and I took it.
		
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			You can do that too.
		
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			If you're somebody who is in a space
		
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			where you know a lot of people who
		
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			are wise or experienced in particular things, whether
		
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			it's marriage, whether it's setting up a business,
		
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			whether it's parenting?
		
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			Why not go to those people, interview them,
		
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			and collate their words and their stories and
		
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			make a book and help people.
		
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			Because this is what I'm saying guys is
		
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			that when people commit and they really they
		
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			sit down and they read a book, that
		
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			book has the potential to change lives.
		
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			I'm sure if I asked you now,
		
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			name a book aside from the Quran,
		
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			Name a book that you read that fundamentally
		
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			changed something about you.
		
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			You read that book, and afterwards, you were
		
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			never the same. Can you think of a
		
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			book like that? It can be fiction or
		
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			nonfiction. Could be a children's book. I don't
		
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			mind.
		
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			But just think of a book that has
		
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			changed you.
		
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			You read that book, and after that, it
		
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			wasn't the same. The Giver.
		
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			Munira says The Giver.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			The Giver is an amazing book, by the
		
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			way. Oh my goodness. You know? I can
		
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			say 1984
		
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			was that kind of book for me. The
		
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			Miseducation of the * is another one.
		
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			The the autobiography of Malcolm X was definitely
		
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			one for me. Right? And and and Lisa
		
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			Nichols,
		
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			no matter what, Rashida says Malcolm x.
		
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			Enjoy your life, dress code says. Moneera says
		
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			Malcolm x.
		
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			Now look at this. This is amazing
		
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			because there's such a variety of books that
		
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			people are talking about. From my sister's lips,
		
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			this is
		
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			From my sister's lips is a memoir.
		
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			Malcolm x was a biography.
		
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			The Giver is a children's fiction story. Enjoy
		
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			Your Life is an Islamic self it's self
		
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			help book. But the point is this,
		
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			all of us who have read,
		
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			we've all been in a space where we've
		
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			read a book and that book just spoke
		
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			to us. Now I wanna ask you before
		
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			I finish up here, I want to ask
		
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			you.
		
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			Imagine being
		
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			the person
		
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			who owned their story,
		
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			who gave themselves permission to share that story,
		
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			and who committed
		
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			to writing that book and putting it out
		
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			into the world. Imagine being that person
		
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			and having people get back to you as
		
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			all of these people have Someone says, who
		
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			moved my cheese?
		
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			All of these people have had people say,
		
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			that book fundamentally changed me. That book changed
		
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			my life. That book showed me the way.
		
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			I am who I am because of that
		
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			book. This book taught me that. This book
		
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			gave me this. This book gave me that.
		
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			Imagine being the person who wrote that book
		
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			in the first place.
		
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			If those people had not done what I'm
		
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			telling you to do,
		
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			owned their story, yeah, and and acknowledge that
		
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			what they have to say has value.
		
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			2nd, gave themselves permission,
		
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			yeah, and actually began the process.
		
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			And 3rd, committed to actually writing the book,
		
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			we wouldn't have these books today.
		
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			That's the truth. We wouldn't have these books
		
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			today. And so now when we're looking at
		
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			it from an I just wanted to change
		
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			the lens and go from an Islamic lens.
		
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			Imagine that you are that person who writes
		
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			a book that helps people, that suits people,
		
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			that comforts them, that inspires them, that teaches
		
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			them, that guides them, that gives them tools
		
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			that they didn't have before and they can
		
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			then change their life. Imagine that as sadaqa
		
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			jariyah for you.
		
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			This is the reality,
		
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			guys. This is the reality that I'm talking
		
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			about right here. People think writing a book
		
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			is some cute thing that you can do,
		
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			and, yeah, if you can do it, it's
		
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			great. And if not, well, it doesn't matter.
		
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			This is legacy, guys.
		
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			This is legacy.
		
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			And I know every single one of you
		
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			has it in you. Every single one of
		
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			you has something of value,
		
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			and all that's missing is you recognizing it
		
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			and taking the steps that you need to
		
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			take.
		
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			So I just came here to tell you
		
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			that.
		
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			I just came here to light a fire.
		
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			I just came here to get you thinking.
		
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			And if you know that you want to
		
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			write a book and you wanna make that,
		
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			this is the time that, yes, I'm committing
		
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			to this. I I I I hear sister
		
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			Naima. I hear what she's saying, and I
		
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			agree.
		
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			That's me. That's me. I am that person.
		
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			I am that person with a story to
		
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			tell. I am that person with some a
		
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			message to share. I am that person
		
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			who should be leaving a legacy right now.
		
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			Don't know what to do.
		
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			Just hit me up.
		
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			Just get in touch.
		
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			Go into the DMs.
		
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			Send me a private message.
		
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			Talk to me. Tell me about your story,
		
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			and let's see if I can help
		
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			you. I am so grateful to be able
		
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			to work with
		
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			amazing people, whether they're writing memoirs, autobiographies,
		
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			self help books, you know, all sorts. And
		
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			it's it's such a blessing for my team
		
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			and I to help you guys to plan
		
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			your story, to actually, you know, go through
		
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			the process of of planning it and writing
		
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			and editing and putting out into the world.
		
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			And, you know, I hope inshallah I get
		
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			a little bit of that barakah as well.
		
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			Get a little bit of that barakah. Ola
		
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			says he's writing a second book. Yes.
		
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			Amazing.
		
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			So, guys, you know, I
		
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			we feel just so blessed to be able
		
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			to work with the with the the people
		
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			that we do. And when those women and
		
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			men,
		
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			when they agree and they decide that they
		
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			want to invest in themselves and invest in
		
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			their message,
		
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			that's when things happen.
		
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			When we say investment,
		
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			guys, it's an investment of time.
		
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			Yes. It's true. It does take some time.
		
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			Not as much as you think, but it
		
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			does. A children's books, hit me up as
		
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			well. But an investment of time,
		
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			an investment of effort, and an investment of
		
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			resources,
		
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			that's what it takes really to make this
		
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			happen. And if you want to do that,
		
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			then let's talk. Sis says, what if your
		
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			story is so heavy it doesn't fit in
		
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			one pot? That's when it really helps to
		
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			talk to someone like me, who's a coach,
		
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			and I can we can decide together
		
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			what is it that you really want to
		
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			say. You know?
		
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			What is it that you really want to
		
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			say? Is it something we can narrow down
		
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			to one book? Is it something that we
		
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			need to split up? I had a client,
		
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			Masha'Allah Aisha, who came to me initially, and
		
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			she said she had 3 different story ideas,
		
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			3 different book ideas, and she thought all
		
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			these 3 were 3 different book ideas. Right?
		
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			And after we had our breakthrough call and
		
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			we really sat down and we talked it
		
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			through, we realized actually
		
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			it was all one book. It was a
		
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			continuum. And in the end,
		
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			she ended up writing the whole book, and
		
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			I think she took
		
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			3 weeks or something. I mean, it was
		
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			she was writing a lot. But it took
		
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			her about 3 to 6 weeks to write
		
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			this book.
		
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			It's now published, and it's called, you know,
		
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			Rise Irrespective.
		
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			So
		
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			people can do it.
		
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			Ordinary people
		
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			can tap into
		
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			the extraordinary
		
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			story that they have within. And guess what?
		
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			The women I work with and the men
		
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			I work with, they are not professional writers.
		
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			I want you to know that. They are
		
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			not professional writers.
		
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			These are people who are not,
		
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			skilled per se. They are not, you know,
		
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			educated in writing. They're not qualified writers.
		
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			They just
		
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			have
		
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			the will
		
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			and the desire and the passion to tell
		
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			their story.
		
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			Okay? The writing side of things when you're
		
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			writing nonfiction, guys, I just wanna let you
		
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			know this. When you're writing nonfiction,
		
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			writing skill or creativity
		
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			is not the benchmark.
		
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			Okay? We can help you with that, so
		
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			don't worry about that. Fiction is something else.
		
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			Okay? And that's why I'm kind of shifting
		
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			the conversation to nonfiction.
		
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			But, you know and and again, Sajid Doh
		
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			says, what if writing isn't your strength? I
		
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			would challenge you on that. I would challenge
		
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			you on that. As your coach, I would
		
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			challenge you on that, and I would say,
		
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			what if you saying, what if writing isn't
		
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			your strength is a limiting belief?
		
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			Because that happens too. Right? Give me a
		
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			yes in the chat if you've ever said
		
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			to yourself, oh, I'm not good at writing.
		
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			I'm not a writer.
		
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			You know, writing isn't my strength. I didn't
		
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			do well with English at school. How many
		
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			of us have said that or have heard
		
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			other people saying that? Well, I'm here to
		
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			tell you that that is not the criteria
		
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			that you should use to say whether you're
		
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			going to write your book or not.
		
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			Right?
		
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			If you're not as good as you thought
		
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			you was, you just need more practice. And
		
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			if you're a great talker, that means that
		
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			you will write beautifully as long as you
		
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			have the right tools.
		
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			Okay? So everything is figureoutable, guys, except for
		
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			the first piece.
		
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			The first piece is owning your story, owning
		
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			the value of what you have to say,
		
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			and then the second piece is giving yourself
		
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			permission.
		
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			3rd piece is taking action, is getting committed.
		
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			So if you've got 1, 2, and 3,
		
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			3 is the one that's missing,
		
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			just send me a DM, send me a
		
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			PM. Let's get you moving. Okay? Let's get
		
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			you moving. I wanna see
		
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			more Muslims writing. I want to see more
		
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			black people writing, brown people writing, more people
		
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			who are not represented.
		
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			Okay? Who are not being represented out there.
		
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			We wanna see more of those voices out
		
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			there.
		
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			Sis says, do I help kids in learning
		
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			to write stories? I do have programs sometimes,
		
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			but at the moment, I don't have anything.
		
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			So, you have to wait until the holidays,
		
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			I think, the December holidays.
		
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			But, guys, listen. I don't wanna say anything
		
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			more because I think I've given you more
		
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			than enough food for thought. Right?
		
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			So hop into the DMs,
		
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			slide into the PMs.
		
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			If you know that you have a story
		
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			to tell, if you've done what I said,
		
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			you've owned your story and you're ready to
		
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			give yourself permission,
		
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			and you want to take action, then get
		
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			in touch with me, and let's get you
		
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			moving.
		
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			Okay? Writing books is not for special people.
		
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			Okay? It's not for special people.
		
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			It's for committed people.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			Especially completing books,
		
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			is not for special people,
		
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			it's for committed people.
		
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			And if you are a person who has
		
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			that passion and that belief that, yes,
		
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			the world needs what I have to say.
		
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			And you know what? That's already huge.
		
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			Right? That's already huge because a lot of
		
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			us, we come from families, communities,
		
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			schools where they really tell you that, you
		
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			know, you ain't you ain't nothing. Like, you
		
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			ain't
		
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			you
		
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			you're not all that.
		
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			And, of course, we're always comparing ourselves to
		
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			other people, so we're looking at those other
		
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			people and we're saying, oh, I'm not like
		
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			so and so. I'm not as good as
		
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			so and so. I'm not as clever as
		
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			so and so. My story is not as
		
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			special as that one. It's not as amazing
		
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			as so and so. We're doing all of
		
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			that. So remember
		
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			that there's the mindset piece first, and that's
		
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			why I said the first thing is to
		
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			own your story. Okay?
		
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			Own your story.
		
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			Give yourself permission. And if you're ready to
		
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			take action, then contact me, and let's get
		
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			you moving.
		
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			As always, I am your sister, Naeema b
		
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			Robert, and it's been an absolute pleasure sharing
		
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			this space with you guys.
		
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			So those of you who are ready to
		
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			take action,
		
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			get into a message to me and let's
		
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			start talking. Tell me about what it is
		
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			that you want to write. So it says
		
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			clap clap. Thank you.
		
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			Tell me what you wanna write about. Tell
		
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			me why it's going, and let me see
		
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			if I can help you if it's a
		
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			fit for us to work together.
		
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			Okay, guys. I'm gonna close it off there.
		
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			The recording will be available. This will be
		
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			available,
		
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			on the Instagram, so you can watch it
		
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			again and you could take notes and you
		
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			can, you know, share it with whoever you
		
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			know needs to hear this message, needs to
		
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			see this. And
		
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			I will see you, those of you who
		
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			are ready to take action and make 2021
		
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			the year that you publish your book,
		
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			I'll see you on the other side.