Mustafa Khattab – Ramadan Reflections 22 Dua For Others

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The importance of vote in gaining power is emphasized, along with advice on gaining a lot of miles. The speaker also discusses the stories of personal experiences and the importance of du harder to teach Muslims to avoid negative behavior. The speaker mentions a Middle Eastern brother's death and the Saudi Arabian's death, as well as a woman who told a brother that he would be traveling with a different name and doing the same.

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			Provincial election, so I encourage everyone to go
		
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			and participate. It doesn't matter who you vote
		
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			for, just just vote.
		
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			And remember, if you don't vote now, you
		
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			don't have the right to complain later. So
		
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			this is the time.
		
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			Many of us, we come from countries where
		
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			we have no trust in the whole election
		
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			thing. Right? You just you keep voting, voting,
		
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			voting, and at the end they flush
		
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			the votes.
		
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			So it doesn't count. But here, every vote
		
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			counts. So go and vote inshallah.
		
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			So with that being said,
		
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			we build up,
		
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			from where we left off yesterday. We spoke
		
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			about dua, which is a very powerful
		
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			tool,
		
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			and, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala loves it when
		
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			people make dua to him. But when you
		
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			ask human beings, every time you ask them
		
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			for something,
		
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			maybe they will put this, screensaver on their
		
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			face, they are happy, they are smiling, and
		
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			after you leave,
		
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			lahrau. Every time he's asking for my credit
		
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			card number, he's asking for my car,
		
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			his my kidney. Leave me alone, man. You
		
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			know? But Allah
		
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			loves it when you ask him for something
		
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			all the time.
		
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			Allah
		
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			is not happy when you don't ask him.
		
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			But human beings, when you keep asking them,
		
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			you buck them, they hate you. Right? But
		
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			Allah
		
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			loves it when people make dua to him.
		
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			Today, we'll focus on something related to dua,
		
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			which is dua to other people.
		
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			If you want to gain a lot of
		
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			hasanat,
		
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			if you want your dua to be accepted,
		
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			make dua for people.
		
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			Behind their backs, not in front of them.
		
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			Because maybe you'll make dua in front of
		
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			someone, I love you, say,
		
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			and and mashaAllah, you hug them, you kiss
		
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			them, and after they leave,
		
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			jahan.
		
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			You know? No. Behind their backs, when you
		
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			make dua for them, this is a sign
		
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			of sincerity.
		
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			That you're making dua for them, that Allah
		
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			will give to them shifa. If someone is
		
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			sick, make dua for them.
		
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			If someone has been married for a long
		
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			time, no kids, make dua for them. If
		
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			someone has cancer, if someone is looking for
		
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			a job, if someone is looking for a
		
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			wife,
		
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			make dua for them. You know? And the
		
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			Malaika will say,
		
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			I know your wife will be mad if
		
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			you make dua for someone to get married
		
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			because the Malaika will say, and you too,
		
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			this is bad news for your wife. You
		
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			know? But you will get the reward at
		
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			least. At least you'll get the reward. And
		
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			this of course includes
		
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			making dua for family members.
		
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			Your
		
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			parents,
		
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			and
		
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			they
		
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			pray for the their parents and the believers.
		
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			Behind their backs.
		
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			And of course, you can do the same
		
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			thing for your kids. Make du'a for them.
		
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			Because of Allah, if you don't make du'a
		
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			for them,
		
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			even if you are the best Muslim, there
		
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			is no guarantee that your kids will be
		
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			good Muslims.
		
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			If you don't believe what I'm saying,
		
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			you don't know nothing about the story of
		
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			Nuh alaihis salam. He was one of the
		
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			greatest prophets, but his son was kafir.
		
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			So the only thing that can change the
		
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			Qadr is dua, as the prophet
		
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			says.
		
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			In one of the hadith, the prophet says,
		
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			there are some people whose dua is never
		
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			rejected.
		
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			Dua al Sa'im. If you pray while you
		
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			are fasting, Allah will definitely accept your dua.
		
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			Wa dua will love loon. If someone is
		
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			treated unjustly,
		
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			if they make dua, Allah will accept.
		
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			And du'a will
		
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			The dua of the parent for for their
		
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			kid. Allah will accept their dua.
		
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			And I love this story, I love this
		
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			story
		
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			of Abu Ayyub Sulayim Al Wazi. This is
		
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			a beautiful story. So he told this story,
		
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			Abu Ayyub Sulayim Al Wazi, which is different
		
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			from al Fathir al Wazi al Fassir. This
		
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			is a different scholar. He was from Iraq
		
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			many years ago, about 1300 years ago. He
		
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			said he was in Iraq, in Baghdad,
		
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			and he used to go to the Sheikh.
		
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			His mom took him to the Sheikh, 4
		
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			years old, 5 years old, so he used
		
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			to go and but he couldn't read Quran.
		
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			Abba Atazah, he couldn't do. Fatihah
		
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			he couldn't do it.
		
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			And every time he would come home crying
		
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			because it was so difficult for him, even
		
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			the basics were difficult for him.
		
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			So one day, the he told the sheikh,
		
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			like, you know, I feel sad because all
		
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			the kids are progressing, they're learning.
		
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			I can't do it.
		
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			And what should I do? And he said,
		
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			Is your mom still alive so she can
		
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			make the offer you? He said, yeah. My
		
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			mom is alive. So he told his mom,
		
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			and he said, this is the Nasihah of
		
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			the Sheykh make the offer for me. So
		
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			she said, okay.
		
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			I'm gonna make the offer for you. So
		
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			at night when she prayed, she made the
		
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			offer for him.
		
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			And he said, it is just like Allah
		
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			opened the door of knowledge for me. He
		
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			started to learn,
		
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			and he excelled,
		
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			and he said, eventually after a number of
		
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			years, his Sheikh traveled
		
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			worldwide to gain knowledge and teach and so
		
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			on and so forth. And he said, after
		
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			25 years, my Sheikh came back, and I
		
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			was teaching in the Grand Mosque in Baghdad,
		
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			and the sheikh came in and he didn't
		
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			recognize me because now I look different.
		
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			Just like in the story of Yusuf alaihis
		
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			salam and his brothers when they met him
		
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			after so many years, now dressed
		
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			up nice with a turban, and he a
		
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			beard. He looks different, like sultan.
		
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			So the sheikh didn't recognize him. Was so
		
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			eloquent, so knowledgeable, so informative,
		
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			so his own sheikh came to him after
		
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			the talk and he said, how can I
		
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			have knowledge like you, you have amazing knowledge,
		
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			how can I learn like you? The sheikh
		
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			is telling the teacher.
		
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			Sorry. The sheikh is telling his student that
		
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			he couldn't recognize.
		
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			And the student, Abu Salam Fakkalalazi, he said,
		
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			Abu Ayyub Salaim Alazi, he said, I was
		
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			about to tell him
		
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			when he said, how can I have the
		
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			knowledge that you have, the eloquence and the
		
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			knowledge? He said, I was about to tell
		
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			him, alaka umu fatadur olaq.
		
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			He's he's he was about to tell his
		
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			sheikh, is your mom still alive? She she
		
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			can make dua for you. But he said,
		
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			I was shy, so I said, it's it's
		
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			from Allah, and Allah will give you. Right?
		
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			So make dua for your kids, then Allah
		
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			will make them good Muslims, and Allah
		
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			will give them on the salat and mustaqim.
		
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			The last story I will say
		
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			Yeah. We have one minute inshallah.
		
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			There there's the story of a brother,
		
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			Syrian brother. His name is Amir. He was
		
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			at Edmonton. One of my best friends in
		
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			Edmonton, he was my assistant in Dawah. I
		
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			know when he was younger just like many
		
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			of us including me in the Jahiliyatulullah,
		
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			we're not so practicing.
		
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			And at some point when he was 27,
		
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			he started to practice, come to the masjid.
		
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			He was like my right arm man when
		
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			it comes to dawah.
		
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			So I remember,
		
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			close to the end of my stay in
		
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			Edmonton, he had an accident at the age
		
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			of 30, and he died. He had a
		
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			motorbike accident, and he died. So every day
		
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			after I finished my salatul Isha, I would
		
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			turn around, look for him in the crowd,
		
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			and I don't see him. And life after
		
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			him in Edmonton became unbearable, and this is
		
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			one of the reasons I decided to leave.
		
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			I love this guy so much.
		
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			And and one was, you
		
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			know, so,
		
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			I feel was so nice, one of the
		
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			brothers from Egypt, his name Mohammed
		
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			maybe he didn't know brother Ahmed from Syria,
		
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			he didn't know him personally, they were not
		
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			good friends. So Muhammad came one day before
		
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			I left, and he said, you know, I
		
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			just came from Umrah, and he made one
		
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			Umrah exclusively for brother Ahmed just because I
		
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			gave Khutba about him one day, and I
		
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			mentioned him in the Khutba. He made Umrah
		
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			for him, and he didn't know him, and
		
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			he made dua for him. And I said,
		
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			man, this is this is amazing. You went
		
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			all the way, you did the umrah for
		
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			the brother. May Allah
		
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			accept from you. So in that line of,
		
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			thinking inshallah, there was a sister who passed
		
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			away in Connecticut.
		
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			His name, is Umu Asim. The family is
		
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			asking for your dua. May Allah
		
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			forgive her. Give her Jannatul for those to
		
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			Shafa'a of Muhammad
		
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			And there's also brother,
		
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			Abu Muayed, one of the most amazing people
		
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			in the masjid. I haven't seen him in
		
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			a while. So we had iftar together today,
		
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			and I found out that he, he's getting
		
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			treatment from cancer. So I thought he was
		
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			traveling with something, so we ask Allah
		
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			to give him shifa and a long and
		
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			healthy life. I mean so keep people in
		
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			your dua, and as the prophet says, an
		
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			angel will say You
		
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			will get the same.
		
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			The question for last night was,
		
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			when you're traveling,
		
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			you are you decided to break your fast,
		
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			do you break your fast at home or
		
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			on the way?
		
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			So anti Semitic would break his fast at
		
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			home, but the majority of the olema and
		
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			the scholars, they say no. When you leave
		
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			the house, break your fast, and this is
		
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			the chosen opinion.
		
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			And the winner is brother Ibrahim Abin Molla.
		
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			Is that you? Mashallah.
		
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			High five. JazakAllah.
		
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			Thank you.
		
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			Rudall is sending emails every day.
		
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			Soon, if I don't give him the prize,
		
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			you'll kidnap me.
		
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			JazakAllah.
		
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			So,
		
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			this day, 1st night of Ramadan, people are
		
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			not sure if Ramadan is tomorrow, after tomorrow.
		
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			Sounds familiar? So this guy didn't know it.
		
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			Like, 1 in the morning, no no news.
		
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			So he said, You Allah, my niyah, if
		
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			tomorrow is Ramadan, I'm going to fast. He
		
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			woke up after fajr, and he found out
		
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			that it was actually the first of Ramadan.
		
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			Does his fasting is is his fasting valid?
		
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			Because this is like niyamashruta,
		
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			conditional niyyah.
		
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			If Ramadan is tomorrow, I'm fasting. But if
		
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			it is not, I'm not. Is the fasting
		
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			valid? In this case, if you know the
		
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			answer, imamilmi before tomorrow Asat. Imam Mustafa atanafoliassinta.
		
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			Jazakul. Okay.