Musleh Khan – What is The Best Way to Deal With Grief?

			When you seek the counsel that help you talk to each other, go to professionals, you do all of those
things. And you should do all of those things. If that's what you need, you should do that. But
always remember that the true form of healing and strength lies between you and how much you cannot
and speak to your Creator. In a mash called bethey warehouse ni il Allah, I complain and my grief
and my sadness, my confusion, my loss is to Allah.
		

			This is the one thing that time will never give you. When you turn and channel your emotion
		

			to Allah. His promise is he will never let you down. He will bless you, and honor you with the
strength you need to take that step forward. And to somehow grapple some sense of understanding why
you're going through what you're going through.
		

			You get that strength. When you keep a connection with your Creator, you talk to him, and you
complain to him, and you cry to him, and you show all that emotion to him. This doesn't mean you can
do it with each other. What it means however, is that you don't depend on each other for the cure.
You express to comfort one another but at the end of the day, oh Allah gives me strength, strength
in my hearts. Oh Allah give me the strength to wipe away these tears. Oh Allah give me the strength
to understand what I'm going through. Only you truly understand how I feel