Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #280 May 10th 2017

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The speakers discuss the importance of honoring guests in Islam, including the use of words and actions in religion. They emphasize the need for caution and showing wealth to guests. The importance of showing one's wealth and giving charity to guests is also emphasized. The segment ends with a recommendation for honoring a guest and a discussion of a woman who is shorty.

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			love of God is the greatest
		
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			glory to Him. He only has to be getting this religion to allah God is the greatest
		
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			a Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim Alhamdulillah wa salatu
salam ala Anna V. Mustafa who are back by the viewers welcome to another live edition of our program
Guardians of the pious. Today's episode is number 334. And it will be the second in explained in
chapter number 92 which is known as the hospitality of honoring your guests the virtues of
hospitality in Islam and honoring the guests. I just like to remind you all of that is under the
book of Al Arab or the etiquette. So, today's hadith is Hadith number 705. And it is a sound Hadith
agreed upon its authenticity. Narrated by Abu Huraira Radi Allahu Allah, and Ebihara your author of
		
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			the Allahu Anhu and via Salalah who sallallahu alayhi wa sallam makan
		
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			Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him said, He who believes in Allah and in the last day, let him show
hospitality to his guest.
		
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			And he who believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him maintain good relation with his relatives,
and he who believes in Allah, and the Last Day, let him say what is good, or be quiet?
		
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			Obviously, this hadith had been mentioned and quoted in many, many occasions.
		
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			So in this chapter, which deals with the virtues of honoring the guests, the Prophet sallallahu
Sallam reminded us with why do we do that?
		
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			In a very materialistic society, people do not pay attention to that because everything is about how
much and what did you do to me, in order to pay you the same, and so on?
		
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			In Islam, we do whatever we do, supposedly seeking the pleasure of Allah and His countenance and
sorted insane. Allah Almighty recounted what the believers say, the believers who do whatever they
do for his sake, such as feeding the poor, the orphans and the captives, the prisoners of war. He
said about them. Why Otto MO Not gonna Allah who be a ski in and weigh a team and what I see euro
		
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			in them and not why more commonly Why do Hilaire Lemery domain comm Jazza and when asked to Cora,
		
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			they feed and they offer the food to the poor, to the orphans, and to the captives. And they say
we're doing so seeking the pleasure of Allah. We're not anticipating any gratitude or compensation
from you. Our goal and anticipation is from Allah, not from you. Now because we did us a favor of
offering you the food, we're expecting you to give a thanks, gratitude, or make dua for us.
		
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			Our goal is Allah Inanna in Arabic grammar is hustled on workers exclusively are doing so. See can
the pleasure of Allah the word you Hila hoping to enter paradise and hoping to be rewarded by seeing
Allah Almighty in heaven? Then in Nana ha former Robina yo Manabu some country
		
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			Do We fear from our Lord a day on which the day would make people with frown faces and what will
make people overwhelmed with fear? The worker whom Allah Who Shirwa luckily Welaka hung up rotten
was Rura, which is zombie Masaba origin net, and we'll hairier as a result because it will doing so
for the sake of Allah.
		
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			Allah protected them, again is the evil of the day. And he blessed them, and he brought in their
faces. And he granted them joy and delight on the day, when others are overwhelmed with fear, sorrow
and grief. What is OB Masaba, O Jannette and harira. And he granted in the reward as a result of the
patient's gardens of Paradise. And in it, they will be dressed up of silk fabric, and I'd go on. So
here is quite way reference. Why those people who did whatever they did, of offering the food, not
only to the poor, because the poor are not only to the orphans, because they're orphans, what about
the prisoners of war, the captives are the enemies who came to fight against us, and they ended up
		
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			being captivated their enemies are non Muslims, but we still feed them, we still treat them with
respect. Why? Because Allah ordered us to do so. So we do whatever we do have all the acts of
goodness towards others, seeking the pleasure and the countenance of Allah Almighty. Why? Because we
believe that there will be a day on which people who will be either blessed, happy, or rich, and
unblessed. So are seeking His pleasure, and to protect ourselves against that day, Yo, man, Abu
SunCom Toria. This belief in Allah, in his oneness, and in the last day, is what makes the believers
do whatever they do. Not waiting or anticipating any word from no one.
		
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			From no people. When you find money, a lot of money, when you find a gold watch, when you find a
wallet, full of money. What do you do? You pick it up, you go home, and you say, Good luck for me.
I'm lucky today, I don't have to work for all months. You don't say that? You believe now you have a
bigger man or a bigger responsibility. Either there is an ID in this wallet, identification card, or
a phone number. So you start looking for the person who had robbed this purse or wallet or watch
until you find them and say, Here's your property.
		
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			Waiting for what 10% of its value? No. Waiting for your name to be recognized on the bulletin board.
So waiting for what? Waiting for the word from Allah for your honesty, because this is Locata you're
not supposed to take it for yourself. When this happens amongst non Muslims and a Muslim returns,
the Amana they're surprised. Are you crazy? What made you do that? What made me do that? In an AHA
former Rabina young man Ibu some country era. Because besides believing in Allah, and loving him,
I'm afraid of him on the day of judgment, He is going to confront me with this elbowing, why did you
take something which is not us?
		
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			Why
		
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			so believe in Allah, and the Last Day will make the believers righteous, not only in the
relationship with the Lord and they create, not only in performing the rituals of worship, but also
in dealing with others, whether others are Muslims or non Muslims, friends or opponents, human
beings or animals, because we do whatever we do. And in front of our eyes, we keep in mind that
there will be another day of Lal malaria. Because of that, you find the Prophet salallahu Alaihe
Salam occasionally
		
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			reminding the believers to either do exhorting them to do some good deeds by saying, If you believe
in Allah, if you believe in the last day, you got to do this, such as if you believe in Allah and
the Last Day, you should honor your guest should take care of your neighbor, you should do this, you
should do that. And on the other hand, sometimes throw in your mind in the audience of Allah, and
the recording of the last day he would order them to abstain from doing what is forbidden. In one
Hadith, he said
		
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			Mankind as you may know, Villa Holloman Air, fellow, yes, Korean and uzawa era.
		
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			Let whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day not to commit adultery so that his sexual discharge
would go into a place which is not permissible for him while the woman is married to somebody else,
and that causes this confusion of who's the father, and they are on a DNA test. And this is very
common in the West, because there is a big deal of confusion. Why, if somebody is not afraid of
Allah, if one doesn't believe that there will be a day where everyone's deed will be exposed
Aircrack keytab karabiner sick and young Maneka has Eber everyone will be given the record, and he
will be ordered to read it in public and before people. So he's not afraid of that. Some people
		
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			believe that God sacrificed His own Son for our sins. Would you please explain the previous phrase?
What does it mean? It means whatever sins we do, as long as you believe that Jesus is the Son of
God, You're forgiven. Does this make any sense?
		
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			So a person a perpetrator hurts others, hit and run, steals from people as I believe in Jesus. He
will sacrifice for our sins, He is a sacrifice why so that we can go to heaven? It doesn't make any
sense. What does the Quran say in this regard? The Quran says golunov Simply Mikasa Batra Hina every
soul will be accountable and account for what he has earned. For what it has earned. The good for
good and the bad for bad. Al Jazeera Oleoresin inlandia SEN. familia I'm and Miss Carla rotten Hira
era when the yam and Miss Carla's are not in shoveling era.
		
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			Letters 00 tune with Rohan Oberer of essential bill the son of another Why would anyone else bear
your own sins? And what is the sin, the guilt and the problem of the oppressed and the week that the
oppressor will get away with his crime? The thief will get away with his crime simply because he was
not caught.
		
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			Saying that, you know, I confess my sin before another man and he said You're forgiven. Is this a
joke?
		
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			No one forgive sins but Allah wanna yell Fuzu abeja me and Ill Allah. And if you want your sins to
be forgiven, you gotta go to this person and beg him to say, Sir, I found your wallet. And I picked
it up. I should have given it to you. I'm not talking about stealing. I'm talking about picking up a
property which is not use.
		
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			You're not allowed to enjoy it. Why? Because I believe in the last day I believe in the hereafter. I
believe that in Surah Al KEF.
		
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			Allah Almighty stated that all the Al Kitab the Book will be laid open for thought on Mejuri minimal
shipping fee where Kowloon AOA Latin and Early Head alkie tabula rasa the rotten wala can be rotten
in Lhasa. Well, what do I do now? I'm in La Habra. Well I have limo Rob Booker has quite
interesting. When the book the record of each and every one of us you meet every human being will be
laid open.
		
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			At that time, and moody remain the criminals, the wicked, the non believers will examine the record
when they receive it in the left hands when they receive it behind their back. And they look and
they read in the record, oh my god, what is wrong with this book? What is wrong with it? It does not
leave anything whether little or big, but it is all included in it. It is all saw her it is already
recorded. Well what do you do man? I mean how thorough whatever they find in the book is what they
have actually done. Well, I will be more a book I had, and you load does not wrong. No one. So you
see brothers and sisters, why the Messenger of Allah have occasionally used the phrase mankind I
		
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			mean, we'll rely heavily on will error. Because believe in the hereafter and believe that Allah, the
only Lord who's worthy of worship, on the Day of Judgment will account us will hold us for Reckoning
and no one will be dismissed before examining the record. And people will be rewarded if they did
good and they will be definitely be punished if they did evil that will make the person tend to
straighten himself and herself. try their best to be righteous and try their best to distance
themselves from committing sins from indulging into anything that displeases Allah Almighty, even if
no one has seen them because now they believe that Allah
		
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			is with them wherever they may be at. Now they believe that the Quran says watch I do mammal habra,
whatever they have done will be recorded will be prison will be displayed before not only them, but
all mankind
		
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			whosoever doesn't add some weight of good shall seat and whosoever doesn't add some weight of evil,
shall see. Then the Prophet sallallahu selama says in the other Hadith, men can I mean of Allah who
alone will ever fellas listen Allah edit into rural Allah hum Oh my god.
		
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			If you truly believe in Allah, if you truly believe in the last day, then you should not be sitting
with people who are drinking on the same table.
		
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			Not only you should not be drinking know if there are people who are drinking you shouldn't
associate with them.
		
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			Those who would say but my company and the cycle meeting and the business meeting and we'll do
business and people drink I ain't drinking myself
		
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			and all of that Allah the Almighty is still in you if you truly believe in him was a Razak the ever
provide? If you truly believe in the hereafter, and all your actions will be displayed before you
and others then you should not be hanging around those who are drinking. Fellas listen analemma edit
into Rolla Johan why because all of that will be projected and you will be exposed. All of that will
be displayed and people will get to see sometimes when people travel abroad
		
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			you know to the west Muslims, business owners people who have become multimillionaires they like the
Tudor cloth and they change their faith so they become different when Allah Almighty said there is
not a secret council or three bodies force notified but he there are six no more no less but he's
with them. Elena can
		
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			well I don't amazonica Allah Xsara Illa who are now whom can American we're whatsoever you may be at
in another country in another continent
		
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			you know airborne even if you go to Mars or the Moon He is with you supervising you seeing what you
do and all of that will be recorded. So the motive is very powerful
		
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			myofilament Kolon Illa de Heraclea Bonati whatever you utter, of cow the cow may mean something and
may not mean anything it is just a phrase or a word. And there are a lot of words and there are a
lot of letters nowadays that the US come up with you know to many of us does not mean anything
because you're not familiar with the code
		
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			but for them it means other mockery. Or ridiculing somebody a lot you know Subhanallah I was you
know we will eat and
		
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			somewhere and the food was very delicious so one of these kids said oh man ridiculous I said what is
ridiculous the food the food is ridiculous the food is very tasty he said this is what I mean. So
they change the use words for meanings which are the opposite. Nowadays some some of those kids some
of those use actually they like something they say sick man sick means sick. But to them sick means
this is really good. Okay, so you and you until you otter is recorded. Sometimes the angels do not
know your intention, of course. So they would write the word as it appears. They will write the act
as it appears. But who will sort it out? Allah Almighty,
		
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			you say a DA you say oh,
		
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			okay, the taco Lahoma of film Walton. Haha. This is all recorded. I saw hula hula. And so they will
Allah Allah Salam Yakyuu us harbor who Illa Imani him, he trusts the companions and the believers
with their faith. Yanni, if you truly believe in Allah, if you truly believe that one day you will
die, you will be resurrected, you will be gathered you will be recovered, then you better understand
from that. You better not do that. If you truly believe in Allah, if you truly believe in the day of
accountability, then when you have a guest take care of him
		
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			or for him whatever you have at home. Why?
		
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			Because you're not honoring the guests so that he would propagate the message so and so is very
generous. No. And doing so because I know how much Allah Almighty will reward me for honoring my
guest for honoring my neighbor. Look at the Hadith. Examine it. Men can I mean hoobler Holloman Air,
let him honor his guest, then the second man cannot help me
		
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			hula hoop along with a fairly Aussie Laura Hema,
		
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			sorry really cruel, no matter what you do to them, they are very cruel.
		
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			As a matter of fact, during the life of the Messenger of Allah, some people will like that. And a
companion came to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and said, Oh prophet of Allah. In Nicaragua, I have
some relatives, I take care of them. But they're very rude to me. Also, you know, whom I uphold the
ties, but instead of treating me the same, or appreciating the deceiver, their relations with me,
what did they drop them for wash them, raise them from your notepad, from your phone book, you know,
if this is the case, you need to continue doing the same. And as long as you continue doing the
same, Allah will support you and for them, they will be like eating the hot sand, they will be
		
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			punished for being rude to you for being cruel. But you still have to do the same. Why do I have to
continue being nice to somebody who's really rude to me? Man Can I mean who will lie holy, I'm
laughing because I believe in Allah. And I believe in the last day, I'm building up an asset of has
an act of good deeds. Then the third? And can I maneuver les Oyamel era failure coherent I will.
		
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			Guess what, this may be the hardest one.
		
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			It may appear as easy as it sounds. But in reality, no, because actions speak louder than words, is
not easy said than done.
		
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			As a matter of fact, it's easier said than done. As a matter of fact, this statement means whoever
believes in Allah, and the last day should say what is good. Or zip of your mouth. Be quiet. I don't
want to use the other word. Shut up. Why? Because you don't know once you utter a word. Once it
comes out of your mouth, it's impossible to swallow it back. You try your best to say I'm sorry. I'm
sorry. You know, the, there was a very interesting story about somebody who borrowed a car from one
person said, happily please take it. So as he did drive the car around, he he brought the the right
side light. And when he came, he apologized. He said, I will fix it. I'll pay for it. No, no, no,
		
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			no, I swear to God, you don't have to, I'll take care of it. Okay? Why Allah, He came to borrow the
car. So I say, Okay, no problem, but make sure you break the left light. He was trying to joke
around with him. But the other person thought he's reminding him and he is blaming him for the first
time breaking the light. So he's reminding him again? And he said, No, I'm sorry. I don't have to
take the Koran. I do apologize. This person says SubhanAllah. I've been apologizing for him for the
past couple of years, begging him whenever he need the car ticket and said no, I don't want it.
		
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			You know, you may think that it doesn't mean anything. But if it hurts the person's feeling, it's
hard to fix it after he broke his heart and he broke his feeling. This is just a very superficial
and simple example. But there are deeper ones. That's why the Prophet sallallahu Sallam did not
tolerate the word for men who says wives, as she was describing another Kawhia by saying that she is
like this meaning she is kind of shorty. So the prophets Allah Allah, Santa Ana said, Oh, you'll
just have utter the word. If it makes if this word is mixed with the water of the ocean, a word
polluted, it will change its color. Was it a word? No, she did not say a word. She just motion she
		
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			just pointed out, but it is understood what you meant. You meant to pick on her because she showed
this is not permissible.
		
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			Making fun of others being sarcastic at others, this is all forbidden. And these are only major sins
last Hong Kong in common as
		
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			well. And he set a minister and asked
		
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			for a person who remembers the the the severity and the grave sin of saying a word. He would rather
zip off his mouth and say, you know, I would swallow I don't have to say I'm better off. Just
imagine some of the companions like a worker so the use of water stone in his mouth why I don't want
to talk. I'm afraid if I open my mouth, I may say something bad, how many bad things that we say
every hour without even paying heed to it without paying attention to may Allah have mercy on us.
May Allah keep reminding us of himself, and the good deeds that we have to do and abstaining from
anything that may upset or displeased him. We'll take a short break and we'll be back in sha Allah
		
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			in a few minutes to tackle the following Hadith which will be seven or six and the last in the
chapter. Please stay tuned.
		
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			Oh
		
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			welcome back, I would like to remind you with our phone numbers Area code 0021023, treble 5131 or
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			My dear brothers and sisters the following Hadith, which also will be the last in this chapter, is
in line with the previous Hadith Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam again, will recommend for us honor in
the guest, but he will explain for how long and then he will give some guidance to both the host and
the guests. The hadith is Narrated by Abu Choi while it ignem al who there are a lot of the Allahu
Akbar called semiotic, rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam call and Ken I mean overlay only
on mill area, value cream wife who is at a call who a manager is to who we are rasool Allah, Allah
Yo Ma, who and I like to walk the alpha to seller set to a year and I can our other Erlich for who
		
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			Asada cartoon Ali Mustafa canali of Uriah Tilly Muslim, lay a hill newly Muslim in a new Cana and he
had you aseema called we are rasool Allah, wa okay for you aseema Kala, you Primo and Dehiwala che
Allahu Ukri hibi.
		
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			In the first Hadith the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, let whoever believe in Allah and
the Last Day to honor his guests with his word. So the companion said, oh prophet of Allah, what is
the word? What is jet is that he said, a day and a night. And a hospitality is for three days.
Whatever is beyond that is charity. This hadith is agreed upon its authenticity between both in
Bukhari and Muslim, while in another narration collected by Imam Muslim, the Prophet salallahu
Alaihe Salam gave some guidance to the guests. So the previous was guidance to the host. The
following segment is guidance to the guest.
		
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			lay ahead lowly Muslim, and it is not permissible for a Muslim to stay in his brother's house until
he makes him sinful, hotter you aseema. Again, the Companions asked, How would a person make the
host sinful? The Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said he stays with him so long that nothing is
left with the host to be hospitable to him. Subhanallah some people, they take advantage they always
take and they never give. Do you remember the story of Sadie of Nadia and other men in the house?
May Allah be pleased with him. Do you remember the story? Try to recall it. Abdullah Mani DAF was an
immigrant, Sadiq navabi was one of Al Ansari, who was very wealthy. When the Prophet sallallahu
		
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			Sallam stablished the brotherhood between the immigrants and Al Ansari, the supporters, he gave each
one or a family of Al muhajir in the immigrants to be family members of one of Al Ansari families.
So Abdullah Malik now happened to be chosen by the Messenger of Allah to be a brother to Saudi
Arabia. And this brotherhood, the early stage was actually similar to the family lineage and the
blood brotherhood. If any form were to die, the other would get an a share of the inheritance like
the real brothers. Sad did Nabil cognizes that man had now had to leave everything behind and Maccha
his book, he's barefooted. He has nothing.
		
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			He did not give him 1000 Or two, or 10 or 20,000 to start his new business, rather, he said, My dear
brother, people here recognize me as the wealthiest one in Medina, I have plenty of wealth. I'd like
to share it with you 5050 Take half of my wealth. I have two houses. Choose whichever one you like.
It's yours. A
		
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			lot of people are very impressed with the proposal of Saudi Arabia, of course.
		
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			Sit is very impressive. Look at the Thar. Look how the person gives precedence to his own brother
over himself. I mean, even if one has 10 million, why would he give 1 million out of that to
somebody else? If it is a matter of charity? I'll give him 50 bucks. 100 bucks, you know 200 bucks,
but have my wealth. One of my houses one of my two houses. What did I borrow money now to do? He
said, My dear brother, may Allah bless you in your words, may Allah bless you in your house, may
Allah bless you and your family. Keep your wealth for yourself. Just show me where is the market. If
I need anything, I will let you know. He did not rely on that. He doesn't want to have a sugar
		
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			daddy. He wants to work he wants to earn he wants to be rich in order to support others. Elliot
aronia Hi, Ramona, Lady Sophia, what that meant, the upper hand is superior, and it is better before
Allah than the lower hand. Remember, last year, we're talking about what is the upper hand and what
is the lower hand? What does it mean? Is this a metaphor? In reality, when the giver when the
charitable person gives any charity, he sets it out his hand, so that the beggar would stretch out
his hand in order to take the sadaqa which hand is upper, the hand of the giver? Which hand is
lower, the handle the taker, the recipient, both are believers. But Allah appreciates the hand which
		
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			gives more than the hand which receives and collects a little earlier. Hi Ramona lady Sofia, Sandra,
Madam now says no, no, no, just show me what is the market and he says his own business trading and
so on. In no time, masha Allah, He makes very good fortune. He gets married. And the Prophet
salallahu alayhi salam is very impressed with his success. And he gives in a charity to the point
that he says, If I flip a stone, I will find gold beneath it. Why the more he gives any charity, the
more Allah Almighty gives him, he likes to be a giver. multibagger understand. So when Allah
Almighty urges the person to host his guest, and to be hospitable, and to be generous to him, and he
		
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			the Prophet sallallahu Sallam utilizes the smartest if you truly believe in Allah, if you truly
believe in the last day, you should honor your guest. And in this hadith, he says, You should honor
your guest and give him his reward. There is at a who value Korean Viva Hoja is that they said, What
is your is that a who does guest have a word that I have to reward them? They said yes, of course.
They're all here, the first day and night. Okay, we all understand that. The guest is most welcome
to stay for three days and three nights correct. If he has to, if he has no other place to go, if
he's coming from out of town, and he has to be kind of sensitive. If the host has all his family
		
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			packed in one room, his parents are living with him and ours crumble on top of each other. And the
guest is taken room by himself. He should be sensitive. Okay, you've got your hospitality, take a
hike, look around, maybe you can find a place to hang around. But the guests would never the host
would never urge the guests to leave, or make him feel like he's a heavy guest. Why? Because I'm
doing this I'm being I'm honoring my guests on being hospitable to my guests for the sake of Allah.
In NaNoWriMo companywide he left so he doesn't want him to feel anything that may disturb his
feeling or make him feel that he's kind of heavy, or he has to leave. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam
		
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			says about the jet is another word. Yo meanwhile, I left on the first day and the first night of
hurry him offer him the best of what you have a food of drink. Okay. And then after word, you know
most people cannot afford most people cannot afford to buy meat and foods on daily basis. Some times
they buy it once a week and the rest of the days. The rice biryani without meat without chicken is
just vegetarian cheese, beans, maybe eggs. So if the person for himself and his family cannot afford
but that in this case, first day I give you the best of what I have for the sake of Allah. Then the
next two days because also Algeria is another word is one of the three days the following two days,
		
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			wherever you can afford whatever you and your family normally eat. You don't have to do anything
extra. You don't have to do anything special. You guys have breakfast fool B
		
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			means you have cheese, you have lunch and dinner. This is what you offer him. You don't have to
borrow, in order to give him extra hospitality. It was only the word for the very first day and
night after word, whatever you normally eat. So this is the kind of hospitality that the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi salam urged the host to give to his guest, okay, to the best of his ability. There
in the following narration, he directed the guest to be sensitive, to be sensitive to have some
feeling. So he said, salatu salam, it is not permissible for the guest
		
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			to make the host blameworthy.
		
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			Okay. Why? What does it mean?
		
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			When the host is burdened, now the guests stayed for three days, today's the fourth, fifth, sixth,
seventh, I can go to work, why, because he's staying at home, I have to take care of him. I'm not
earning, I cannot provide for the family. And as a matter of fact, I have to borrow from my
neighbor's from my friends in order to feed our guests. So he puts him in burden, he burdens him. He
actually may end up after offering this hospitality and being generous to him. Once he closes the
door. He talks to his wife, he used Oxo himself. He said he's such a cruel person. He's a very heavy
guest. And now he was involved in backbiting and in a slander, why? Because he pushed them.
		
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			He put him under pressure. So he uttered that word, and this is how we did and commit the sin. That
is the meaning of law. Yeah, he literally muslimin and your cleaner and he helped you aseema They
say they are rasool Allah, and how would he make him commit a sin or burden is it up more in the
hula che or in the WHO Ukri. So he will keep staying at his place until he has nothing to offer, and
it burdens him and it embarrasses him Subhanallah so one has to be sensitive. One has to be light.
And the matter of how long you stay it is based on the customs.
		
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			Life nowadays is very difficult. It is not like in the past. So for a person to live a guest at home
and to go to work. It's not possible. Okay, especially if the flat is small. I travel the world
SubhanAllah. Many of these countries, which we think are very rich countries, people who drive very
nice cars, but their flats are very little tiny, one or two bedrooms. Why? Because it costs a lot.
He has a matter of fact, you have to pay like 10 grands 1112 or 13 per month
		
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			rent for one flat and the person maybe he's making 20. So most of the earning is directed towards
the rent and utilities and so on life is tough. So based on the customs or people, the person have
to deal with, and I guess have to have some feeling and to be sensitive not to burden his host. Now
brothers and sisters without any further ado, we shall begin the following chapter shift on number
95. And still the chapter is under the book of etiquette.
		
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			The chapter deals with the recommendation of giving good news glad tidings and congratulating one
another upon receiving good news. You know, this religion is all about Beshara
		
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			and delivering good news. And this is what the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam advised his companions
with when he said why didn't Isabel and Abu Musa lashari to Yemen?
		
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			He taught them how to preach and how to educate people. He said the show well, Altona Farah, or
Sarah Well, it was Sarah. Bashara, bow both of you should give and deliver glad tidings and good
news. Share with people good news. While Aquinnah Farah do not work people off. Well, yes, Sara, and
make things easy. Both of you make things easy on people. Well add to our Sarah and do not make
things difficult how upon them, lest they may run away from you.
		
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			So they Beshara is a very original principle in this beautiful religion of ours. Here we've got many
Quranic references in the beginning of this chapter, that when we studied them, we'll learn how the
Quran delivered mini Beshara such as in Surah Zoomer they have to follow
		
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			A consecutive is 17 and 18. Allah Almighty says further shooter
		
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			a Loreen is Tammy Hoon I'll call F. Debbie Runa Astana. All Ecole Avena Harada whom Allahu Allah
Iike whom own Al
		
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			Bashir a bad O Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam give glad tidings to our servants who anyone and
everyone of course not. Those who listen and follow the best of teachings those are guided by Allah
the Almighty and they are people of intellect and understanding. So what is Zoomer is chapter number
39. brothers and sister What is the meaning of following the best of the guidance, the best of the
teachings of Allah the Almighty, what does it mean?
		
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			It means the following. For instance, when Allah Almighty is given us the option, the choice between
variety of Cafaro
		
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			either to free a slave neck to feed the poor or to clothe them such as intrafamily Amin for
innocence, if we fail to fulfill your oath, what is the best you look into what is more beneficial?
		
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			What is better for the recipient because the recipients are the poor? So if I have the choice, what
do they need more? I can afford both. When people say chef, I can afford that Hamdulillah I can
afford to feed the meat and I can afford to feed them. You know, seafood, give them whatever you can
afford. And whatever you like for yourself. It is true that Allah Almighty said min l salty metal
TimeWarner leikam Elkie swaddleme given XR, this is better for you, and better for the poor. So the
choice is between pakka Farah to your grandma shorty Misaki and I mean our supplemental to anyone at
a honeycomb l Kiswa to whom outta hurry hola como el que sua buying clothes 14 For people
		
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			costs more than buying meals for them buying a set and outfit for one person obviously, costs more
than buying a meal. I can afford both. What is better for the poor? If you give him a meal, he eats
it. Then a few hours there he is hungry again. Okay. But if you give him an outfit in winter, it may
last for with him for another 10 years, then this is better for him. And if you were to ask him and
give him the choice to say I would rather have a suit of clothes, I would love to have a jacket or a
coat or a clock. So you choose the best istemi own Alcoa, Fayette Tebbe, una Aksana. Also the kuffar
		
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			in case that you have to shave your head while you are in a state of haram due to sickness, or you
have to work clothes, then feed the two men. So yeah, I mean, I'll solder cotton Alnus Wow, you have
the choice to fast for three days to feed six poor people, or a nurse is to slaughter a sheep and to
distribute it what is more beneficial for the poor, obviously distributed a whole sheep. Okay, Allah
has given you the choice. So if you choose to fast for three days, and instead, that's perfectly
fine, and it will do it. If you choose to feed six poor people, each one, one meal that will do it.
But you say to yourself, you know what, I think buy in and distributing the meat of a whole cheap
		
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			slaughter and sacrifice the sheep will will serve maybe 30 or 40 people, this this is better for
them. So you do what is better for people. For such people who they choose what is better for
others, a lot of mighty says their best share a bad give them they Beshara of what that Allah
Almighty have chosen to be have chosen them to be rightly guided and they are the people of
intellect. May Allah Almighty make us amongst them. Brothers and sisters, again we run out of time
as well as life itself is running by and zipping by very fast. May Allah make us make and get the
best benefit of every minute that passes by Allah I mean so we run out of time, and until next
		
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			episode, I leave you all in the care of Allah ahora Cali had stopped Fulani walakum wa salam Allahu
ala Sayidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa sallam wa Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh
		
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			love of God is the greatest
		
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			glory
		
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			To him, he bought me illness to be the best and gave his best religion to Allah Our God is the
greatest
		
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			glory to Him on any illness to be the best, and gave his best religion to them. So why did they know
that forgetting all about and in paradise, we're shipping cows fire and stones, sending the rest
with the cheapest
		
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			day ignore that forgetting all about how bad guys are shipping cars fire and stones selling their
best were the cheapest