Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #139 Jun 1st 2015

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			Ah, Allah Our God is the greatest
		
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			moment only glory to Him. He only has to be the best and give his best religion to Allah Our God has
the greatest
		
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			glory short
		
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			is to be the best and give his best to religion to
		
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			a Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and we'll come to an episode number 166 indices of
Guardians of the pious Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa Keba Toulon McKean.
Well outwear Illa Allah volley mean, WA Salatu was Salam ala se You will only know will fit in and
abena Muhammad and Muhammad Ali will be aged nine are that brothers and sisters in sha Allah today
we'll continue with chapter number 40. And that is the third episode and explaining the chapter the
chapter of the rule while the Daini or stiletto of ham the current treatment was appearance, and
establishment of the ties of blood relationship.
		
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			The last area we have of all the ayat that Imam nawawi listed in the beginning of the chapter
		
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			is a number 14 of Surah Lok man
		
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			in which Allah Almighty says what was slain in Santa Fe here harmala to
		
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			narla new if you saw fi a
		
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			Wi Fi and so on who he is mainly Anish for me when he when he Dacre ILA, he mostly.
		
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			And this idea means Allah Almighty using the royal we say And We have enjoined on man
		
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			to be good and useful to his parents beware the day
		
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			his mother bore him in weakness and hardship upon weakness and hardship. That is the meaning of the
world where none Allah
		
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			will have your soil who he made and his weaning is in two years.
		
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			And your school li while you early daycare, that's a command from Allah give thanks to me and to
appearance Illa Your mercy unto me is the final destination.
		
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			In surah, Tila cough in aisle number 15 Allah the Almighty says what was sane and insane Have you
led siRNA
		
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			in Surat Lachman or sinal, in Santa Violetta he then he further starts explaining the reason
		
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			especially with regards to the mother because she wore him in weakness upon weakness, one and Allah
while in Surah Lakoff a lot of mighty says harmala to she bold Koran, or what are two Quran
		
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			his mother
		
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			did bear him
		
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			with trouble. She had trouble while bear in him and hardship
		
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			and word trouble she brought in force. So here he used the term Quran while the auto Quran
		
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			and in the area of Seurat, look man, he says hi mulatto, Allah.
		
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			And also
		
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			in Surah Al Kahf Allah Almighty says we're Hamlet Who was your soil who sell Asuna Shahara.
		
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			The bearing period of the child, the pregnancy,
		
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			and Alphaeus all together which is a winning all together 30 months sell as soon as Shahara
		
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			while the iron was sold at Lachman, and number 14 A lot of mighty says well if you saw who he I
mean, and he's winning is in two years.
		
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			He's winning is two years is recommended, because Allah Almighty says in Surah Al Baqarah. While
while he there to learn hola the Hoonah how Lanie can Mulaney then he said the men are the NGO team
Maraba.
		
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			Mothers should cycle them
		
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			Babies for two complete years, Lehmann Arada and UT malaba. If the mother wants to complete the
course, which is to lunar years, 12 months and 12 months, that's 24 months.
		
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			So 24 months, and while in the eye of Sauron Look man, if Surah facilite a lot of mighty says ham Lu
of your soil who sell as soon as Shahara. So the pregnancy along with the weaning within two years,
that's 24 months
		
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			of two years. Then in Surah Lokman Allah Almighty says what you saw in houfy army, so 30 months,
		
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			they have surah Allah cough, the pregnancy and the winning all together or Hello Officer who Salah
sunnah Shahara, you know that out of that the weaning or the breastfeeding period, which is two
years 24 months, remains for us. 630 minus 24 remains for us six, which refers to six months is a
minimum pregnancy period.
		
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			Why are we doing this calculation and linking between the idea of Surat McMahon and Al Surah Al
Ackoff simply because it happened once somebody got married, newly married, and then his wife got
pregnant. Congratulation, and good news and everybody's happy. In the past, they didn't have
pregnancy test.
		
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			But it would only show and whenever the period is interrupted, and she doesn't have the period for a
couple of months, that's a sign that she is pregnant.
		
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			But the problem was whenever she gave birth
		
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			to a child at the after six months of pregnancy,
		
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			after six months of pregnancy, so when the husband complained that I doubt that my wife
		
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			had this son for me, because we're only married for six months.
		
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			How could she give birth only after six months? So he suspected that she may had a relationship
before marriage, which allowed a period of nine months to give birth.
		
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			And your own money, not only have you
		
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			looked into the case, this incident happened during the era of Magna fell.
		
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			And he said that is possible. How could it be possible? I say didn't Allah say, Well, if you saw who
he I mean, in the eye of Sauron Look, man and the winning is within two years 24 months? Yes. And in
the area of salatu salam ala Hamlin who have your silo salah, sunnah Shahara. So, the eye of Surah
cough Have you who have your side who sell as soon as Shahara and number 15, or sorta like cough. So
that means the pregnancy and the weaning altogether 30 months, so remains for us. Six months for
pregnancy. This is what the Quran says will have a column that is the speed of pregnancy,
		
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			which means
		
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			she's innocent, because it is possible that a wife would only bear a child for six months and she
would give a normal delivery. This is what the Quran says. Look at the scholars, the SU scholars
when they read the Quran with understanding comprehension,
		
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			maturity level we hire a new photography D. So the link between the eight and they understand what
Allah subhanho wa Taala says like when they companions we were very worried that Allah Almighty says
Alladhina mn wala Mirvis who Iman on the Holman Allah, Allah humble em normal they don't the eye of
Surah Al Anon. Only those who accepted face they believed in Allah what I mean by this who Eman on
Bill Holman and they did not
		
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			interrupt their faith.
		
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			contaminate the face with any volume
		
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			as well means generally wrongdoing.
		
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			Such people shall be secure on the day of judgment and such are the truly guided ones. So the Sahaba
went to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and said yeah, Rasul Allah, as human beings we all commit
sins, we're believers, but we all commit sins, does it mean that we will not receive security on the
Day of Judgment because as he says, let me I'll be so email on Monday did not mess up their email
within avant they said no, no, this is not the regular phone.
		
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			Rather, it refers to the wall which is mentioned in Swat Lachman
		
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			will look man was given an advice to his son and he said yeah, buena yella to Shrek been he in sheer
color Woon moon of him Oh
		
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			My dear son, beware of shared do not commit shirk do not sit partner so Allah in worship because
sitting partners to Allah in worship as shirk is a great volume. So this is the kind of volume which
Allah was referring to in the other area of Surah Al Anon Al Quran who you first Rubavu Baba, the
Quran explains itself. So, some Ayat here explain another era which which is not clear to some in
another chapter, and so on.
		
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			So, we understand from these two and number 14 of Surratt look man and and number 15 of Surah Al
cough, the meaning of the period for pregnancy, the minimum the period of breastfeeding and all
together. And when Allah Almighty used the term hemella to mu where none when his mother born in
weakness upon weakness, the first weakness is because the woman structure is normally weaker than a
man.
		
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			The norms is to see men muscular.
		
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			Okay, body builders, pushing trucks, carrying heavy loads and lifting weight. And women are
delicate, soft, you know slim. Nowadays, of course, you see that women are competing with men and
lifting weight and growing muscles. But I'm talking about the norms though. So the structure of a
woman is normally weaker than the structure of a man. That's a word by itself.
		
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			And that's why it is not even logical to see a man fighting against a woman, a man resilient against
a woman. Because normally a man is more powerful than a woman and his structure is more powerful
than one. It is not befitting for a man to fight in public or even wrestle against a woman. This is
not normal. So this is the first one, the physical structure of our mind. But Allah has a herder, in
this fashion, to be perfect mother to suit her job as a mother. Normally, the children are in your
home misbehaves at home. What does the mother do is I'm gonna tell on you take home minute tell your
daddy, he is the one who does the punishment part. So she scares them off of the daddy.
		
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			What is the second one? The second one second weakness is while she's pregnant. Now she's not alone.
Once the pregnancy test is positive, and everybody celebrates and everybody's happy that especially
if it is a first child, you got to be very careful. You sleep this way. You lie down this way. You
eat this, you don't eat that you don't take any medication. Why? Because you're pregnant, and that
affects the fetus, and it can cause a great harm to the fetus. You have to be very careful. How long
does this process take? This is not just a couple of weeks, nine months and the minimum as Allah
Almighty refer to in the IoT six months, as plenty of time
		
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			Hemera two or more Quran while while the auto Quran there is a Dalek which says Quran with the Fatah
or the auto Quran, withdrawal shibaura and will problem she brought in force.
		
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			Then, whenever the period is complete in the womb, and the mother is ready to deliver the baby.
That's another hassle. That's another difficulty and hardship or the auto Cora
		
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			given birth
		
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			and the labor pain, the birth pain, something that Allah Almighty even though the woman is very
weak, but he made her capable to bear the pain because she's receiving her own baby.
		
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			So Allah is reminding you with this whole cycle, remember what your mother went through?
		
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			How dare you speak to her?
		
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			In this respect,
		
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			or you shout at her or raise your voice before her? Why did Allah Almighty mention the mother.
		
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			In other ayat Allah spoke about the parents beware, today he hosted bydd SN. Then he put emphasis on
the mother in Kabul aid and in many a hadith has wound with studying that the mother, the mother,
the mother, when the parents get old, the mother is weaker than the father who has been working,
earning saving could even take another job undertake another business. But the mother has only her
husband whenever she was a house engineer. Right
		
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			is in the children. And as she grow old, he has she has only her children. So the children should
stand up for their responsibility and understand that this is not a fever that they are doing her.
This is paying back some of her rights. When I say some, because in the answer, as I said, in a
couple episodes ago, when Abdullah had number saw a man carrying his mother on his shoulders while
performing tawaf, and he was proud of himself, and he believed that I'm being dutiful, enough,
Abdullah had normal said to him, wherever you do, this is not even equivalent to a single scream,
that cram which led her to scream while giving birth. It's a very severe pain will allow to call her
		
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			when Allah one weakness upon weakness, and what Proverbs she delivered him or she brought him forth.
That's not even equivalent to a single scream that she had to shout when she was given birth.
Subhanallah that initially when he when he died, you have to be grateful to me, you have to be
grateful to parents, in the Hadith of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam I said mele, Ash, colinas
la Yash Quran Allah. If you're not grateful to people, for
		
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			assisting you for guiding you for helping you for doing a favor to you. You're not grateful to Allah
subhanho wa taala. Being grateful to people, whether those people are good or bad believers or non
believers, Whosoever does you a favor, say thank you, compensate him, reward them, if you don't have
any of the means to reward them enough. Simply say, Jazak Allah who hired me May Allah bless you,
goodness. And Allah subhanaw taala chooses whichever word to deliver to this person, who did you a
favor. Li el merci. Remember, that unto me is the final destination. So if you behave, if you can't,
your parents issued useful to them, you will be happy with this destination. And if you're not
		
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			either are ready for the consequences.
		
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			What kind of consequences and how do it follow should be to the parents or to any form whenever any
form is living. Now that hadith will explain what was mentioned in the Quran as a whole or gender.
We specify what kind of rights that the parents have upon us, how should we treat them, those rights
are not listed like 1234. And that's it. But they also undergo the cultural practices
		
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			in some cultures,
		
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			and in some societies, and depending on the financial capacity of the families, if the parents are
well off, and they have their own house, and they have a maid, and you live in in a separate place,
no problem. We visit them every once in a while. You know as much as you can check on them, see if
they need anything, speak to them, kindly, be obedient to them. much lesser duty than if the parents
are book.
		
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			They don't have any saving because they spent everything on you.
		
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			To raise you to make you a successful doctor, engineer, lawyer or teacher, or whatever. Now it is
your duty to start taking care of them. They don't have a place to live and they would live with me
in my flat in my house. My wife is not too happy with that. Why? From the beginning, I discuss with
my future spouse, this is my condition. I'm the only son and my mother is an has been a single
parent and she raised me she has no one to look after her. And she will have to stay with me in the
flat. Are you okay with that? Yes. Will you help me to take care of her? Yes. But not because your
wife is not happy with that she has the right to have her own house and all of that. But it doesn't
		
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			mean that you throw your mother in a nursing home
		
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			or put her with another relative if you are the only person was supposed to look after her.
		
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			There are some cases like that. So it varies from a case to another phone a cultural to another. But
we do not consider nor
		
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			have in mind the non Muslim cultures where the parents literally suffer when they go because the
children live their own lives and they barely cheat on them.
		
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			By the phone. We don't say this is cultural and I'm doing like everybody else. That is not even
considered that is dismissed.
		
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			The rights are much greater than that in the lives and even after the pass away. Let me begin right
away with the first Hadith in the chapter chapter number 40 of the rule valid enough so that we'll
have to see what the Prophet sallallahu Sallam means by the rule validate and so on Hadith number
312 and every other man Abdullah, his name is older Radi Allahu Anhu Han sell to Nabi sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam, he will actually have boo illa Allah heeta Isla
		
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			a Salah to Allah wa Katya call to some a high level rule validation call to from a caller, LG had
FISA Videla Mata Quan, Ali Abdullah have numerous route, may Allah be pleased with him. Say,
		
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			I once asked the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam which deed is loved most by Allah Almighty.
		
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			The Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam answered, saying, a Salah to Allah bhakti has to offer the salah
at its proper time.
		
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			I asked, what is next? He replied sallallahu alayhi salam,
		
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			being kind to your parents. Then I asked, what is next? He replied, Salalah Ana Salam do you have in
the way of Allah.
		
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			In fact, when we look into this hadith we recognize the meaning of each segment of it, offer the
prayer on its time to be good and useful to the parents, then a geography sebelah what is
interesting in this hadith is how the Prophet salaallah salah, considered Barolo Halladay superior
to Al Jihad had see sebelah To be continued after the show bacon shallaki status
		
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			Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back. In this hadith, which we shared with you
before the break, Abdullah had numerous road robbery Allah one as the Prophet sallallahu Sallam
which did is loved most by Allah he said to offer the prayer on its time. He said, then what is
next? He said, to be good to your parents. He said what is next? He said, to observe jihad in the
way of Allah. Who said what is interesting in this hadith how the Prophet sallallahu Sallam
considered
		
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			beruwala in superior to observe a jihad in the way of Allah subhanaw taala.
		
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			The rule validate was put in order next to the command of believing in the Oneness of Allah subhanaw
taala This is how significant it is.
		
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			Some people think that if I go to observe jihad, it will wipe out all my sins, including how rude I
used to be to my parents. It's a matter of skipping your duties. That's why when Abdullah Abdullah
last narrated in Assam Hadith A man came to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and say do salah I want to
give you the pledge of allegiance to make hydro and observe jihad for the sake of Allah. So the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Uh huh, you know, any deck? Are your parents still alive?
They said, Yes, you should go back for us in sort of better homes. And be kind to them, give them a
good company. This is your head. In another narration. When he asked him a high on holodeck, he said
		
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			Yes, both of them are still living. The Prophet sallallahu sallam said, Go back fafi Hema Federa
head, you know, observe jihad,
		
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			or jihad
		
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			is to be useful to them. You can observe Jihad via serving them by obeying them.
		
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			This is general is a general with all types of jihad. This is when the jihad is far too high.
		
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			When joining the Muslim army is optional, but when joining the army and fighting against the
enemies, is a duty of every single Muslim man and woman young and old. You don't need permission
from no one.
		
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			You cannot stay behind and say because you know it is better for me to work and feed the poor or
work and be good to my parents. Because now it becomes far too I was in regular conditions where it
was not needed an Hamdulillah we have enough soldiers, the prophets Allah Allah Allah Salah mercy to
this man arogya la Hema cinsaut betterhomes return back to your parents serve them properly. Be
		
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			Find them, be good to them give them a good company. For free him ephedra had an observed you had
through serving your parents. That shows us number one the significance of being good and useful to
the parents, and it is even superior to observe in Jihad whenever it is four to defy the following
hadith is Hadith number 313 in the Blissey series of Guardians of the pious and Ebihara, errata Radi
Allahu Anhu called Karla Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam ladc. While I don't Well, he didn't
ill age either who ma'am Luca pfiesteria, who failed to
		
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			the hadith is collected by a Muslim and it means that the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said,
no son can repay the kind treatment that will show to him by his father, unless he finds him a slave
and buys him and then he frees him from slavery. The hadith is collected by Imam Muslim.
		
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			The Prophet sallallahu Sallam means in this hadith that basically, you can never do enough to pay
back your parents to pay back your father. Only in one condition, if your father happened to be a
slave. Now as they will fuse of course, a slave owned by another master. Whenever slavery was still
effective, then you work hard and you strive throughout your entire life. Not to say for your own
self or to get married for your children rather, to ransom your father and to free him.
		
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			So no matter what you do, it will not be enough to compensate your father or your mother for what
they have done to you to bring you up or to raise you.
		
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			The following hadith is Hadith number 314
		
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			and Ebihara irata Radi Allahu Anhu Anna rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam makan mankind I
mean Avila he OLIO Mill Hill relief and Ukraine BIFA
		
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			when can a middle Villa yo yo mil air hurry fell Yasa Rahima
		
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			Abu Hurayrah may Allah be pleased with him, rated at the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said
he who believes in Allah and the Last Day let him be hospitable to his guest. And he who believes in
Allah and the Last Day, let him maintain.
		
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			The good ties are good the ties of blood relationship.
		
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			And he who believes in Allah and the Last Day must be good, or remain silent. The hadith is agreed
upon its authenticity collected by Bowfell Buhari or Muslim. If you remember, we started a similar
Hadith with a slight change in one of the qualities. That Hadith was discussed in the previous
chapter. The rights of the neighbors, in which the Prophet sallallahu Sallam mentioned the qualities
of being hospitable to the guest and honoring the neighbors didn't say in what is good or be quiet.
While in this hadith the Prophet salallahu Salam utilized the quality of faith, belief in Allah
belief in the last day. And we mentioned while explaining this hadith in the previous chapter, there
		
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			is and why Allah on why the Prophet sallallahu Sallam normally use belief in Allah and the Last Day
together
		
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			to urge the believers to do or to abstain from doing something that is forbidden.
		
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			So here, it says, oh man Kenny Villa Julio mil FET, fairly awesome Rahima. If you truly believe in
Allah and the Last Day, then uphold the ties of your kinship, maintain good the ties of the blood
relationship. This is a religious duty. This is a right that you owe to Allah and you owe to your
relatives. And on top of the list obviously, once parents then the relatives include the brothers
and the sisters, the uncles and the S paternal and maternal the nephews and nieces. It could be if
everybody is not in need for any financial help, then by exchanging visits by praying for them, if
any form is thick, you visit them
		
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			and your tender you know good moments you share with them and you share with them the sorrow or
grief,
		
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			any exchange gifts with them.
		
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			So these are the qualities of salatu Rahim and what you need to do in order to uphold those ties.
		
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			In the other Hadith he was talking about being good to the neighbors and the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi salam, in this hadith listed the previous two qualities, which is being hospitable to the
guest and saying what is good or be quiet? So Salah Quran upholding the ties of your kin and being
dutiful to your parents as on top of the list is a sign of belief in Allah and a sign of belief in
the hereafter that you will be asked about that. You will be held accountable for how you treated
your parents and urges a person to watch his actions and his sayings. And whether he is fulfilling
those rights or not. Towards the relatives towards the parents. Where is the guest towards the
		
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			neighbors?
		
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			The following hadith is Hadith number 315 and Ebihara your authority Allahu Anhu call kala
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in Allah to Allah falafel Hulka had either a photo of him in
Hong Kong
		
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			for call it had a formula is to become an L cochlea coil Anam ms Wayna and iclm and we're so lucky.
We're Ecuadorian and Kotaki coil at Bella calleth Lika lucky. So makalah Rasulullah sallallahu
alayhi salam Aircrack NG tube to * as a tune in to our Layton and to see to fill out we were to
cut through our hammer comb with Ken Levine Alana Humala, who had also met him when I saw him to
sort out Muhammad Sallallahu sallam. The hadith is agreed upon its authenticity in another narration
collected by Mr. Buhari for call Allahu taala. And also like, you also want to uncover Aki trattato
Abu Hurayrah may Allah be pleased with him narrated that the prophet of allah sallallahu alayhi wa
		
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			sallam said, Allah created the teachers. And when he finished the task of His creation, or law him
		
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			the word or Rahim refers to the ties of relationship. And we said also the word or Rahim in Arabic
refers to the womb,
		
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			which conceives the fetus protects the fetus until it goes up and is ready to be delivered. So but
in this segment, and in this context, it refers to the ties of kinship, so we're talking about
select or washing or upholding the ties of kinship. A Russian said, Oh Allah, at this place, I seek
refuge with you against serving my thighs. Allah Almighty said that I treat with kindness those who
treat you with kindness and and sever ties with you with the I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I sever ties with
those who sever ties with you. It said, who said a Rahim, the ties of relationships say to Allah,
unsatisfied them, Allah Almighty then say,
		
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			then this is us. Then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has said, the site this area, if you
like, actually to Aya to surah Muhammad peace be upon him. number 22 and number 23, which we studied
thoroughly in the program of curricula citation in their tafsir
		
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			fell I say to him in our late on and to see to fill out they were to cocktail or honeycomb hula
Ecole Rinella Anna Hula, hula for us on my home. Where am I was salam, the meaning of the CIA app
that Allah Almighty says what it means. Would you then if you are given the authority, and by the
way, it also have another meaning depending on the interpretation. If you turn away from Islam, do
mischief in the land and sever your ties of kinship? Such are they whom Allah has cursed, so that he
has made them deaf and blind at their sites and email and will hurry May Allah admission him in his
collection listed the Hadith with different words when you say it, according to the words of
		
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			elemental Bihari the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam assayed. Allah Almighty says he who maintains
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			eyes with you. I maintain good ties with him and he who severs your ties, I sever ties with him.
		
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			What does this hadith say? The hadith shows the significance and importance of upholding the ties of
kinship. And this is pretty old since the beginning of the creation. When Allah Harlequin Hulk,
created the creatures or him in whichever form or shape that Allah Almighty wills desires, was
presented, and as a Lord Almighty, begging Allah Almighty to give it a special status Maka moolah is
a vicar, mineral cochlea, I seek refuge with you again a severing me. So this Rahim is the tie of
every living human being, to his family members to his relatives.
		
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			sought refuge with ALLAH again is being severed. So Allah Almighty addressed a Russian, answering
our hand by saying, wouldn't it be pleasing to you to know that I shall uphold and connect everyone
who would uphold you and connect you and I should sever everyone who severs you. So the compensation
is depending on how you treat Russia. If you uphold the ties of your kinship, if you go to your
relatives, then Allah Almighty will join you to him will connect you to him will bless you. And this
blessing is not only in the Hereafter, there is no other obedience which he deserves an immediate
reward in this dunya before the hereafter more than Solapur Rahim or upholding the ties of kinship.
		
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			This is since the beginning of the creation, Allah Almighty promised the ties of Allah him to join
to connect and uphold those who would uphold the ties of their kinship and to sever and to
disconnect, one would sever the ties to his kinship. It is not optional brothers and sisters, nor is
it mere recommended. It's obligatory. Just imagine, for how many months we have been talked to
visited or inquired about immediate relatives, brothers and sisters who are not talking to each
other cousins who do not even phone each other. Not even in reads. Now Ramadan, no exchanging
visitations, the society have become so materialistic that everyone is sucked in, in their business
		
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			in their schools in their affairs. But if you were to know that Wallahi
		
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			upholding the ties of kinship, making a special effort to visit your relatives, uncles and aunts,
nephews and nieces, brothers and sisters, and taking gifts for them, guarantees an increase in your
provision. Baraka in your lifetime Abraca in your work, a blessing in your job, a blessing in your
earning a blessing in your provision, and an extension in your lifespan, as the Prophet salallahu
Alaihe Salam said in the sound Hadith, but people are working hard and forgetting and neglecting
these values, neighbors are in talking to their neighbors, do you do not check on them, they do not
ask if they need anything. They do not. You know, sometimes the neighbors have a death case.
		
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			And their next door neighbors will not bother to give them the condolence because they don't want to
initiate any conversation. In a materialistic society. Everyone wants to live for themselves. So
their children grow up the same way. They hide any conceal all their successes and they want to
share anything with others. Accordingly, whenever they are in suffering or in sorrow moments, nobody
shares with them, their pain, nobody can knows them. Nobody excuse visits with them, has become a
very selfish society, selfish
		
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			kind of life. And this kind of life is sickening.
		
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			And it is world of any blessing, and it is void of any success. This is in the Hadith, Allah turbina
and assalam and wasa lucky un Oxfam and Kotaki.
		
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			Wouldn't you be pleased if I connect and uphold those who uphold your ties? I treat those who uphold
the ties of their kinship with the same. I bless them, I bring them nearer to me. I forgive them
their sense. I increase the provision or give them baraka in that lifespan, as explained in other
Hadith, verses, the one who severs his relationship to his family members
		
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			Allah Almighty will deliver him.
		
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			Allah the Almighty may even suspend their word for other good deeds that he have done because he is
severing the ties of his kinship and deprive him from blessings because he is Cloudflare over him.
		
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			And also Seville in the relationship deserves an immediate punishment in addition to the awaiting
punishment in the hereafter. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam then recited a number 22 and a
number 23 of Surah Mohamed Salah Lama alayhi salam fell as a to interval. Latham, as you know that
the previous eight we're talking about the mandate of observing jihad to defend to defend your deen
your belief and the believers. So some of them will have your kin
		
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			some of those who are hypocrites did not like this command because they want it to be to rest in
peace, and do not do anything. So Allah Almighty reminded them with their condition before Islam,
when they severed the relations with their Russian their family members, when they attacked each
other over a little sheep or a camel. When they fought against each other when they buried their own
children. Alive their daughters out of fear of poverty, Islam eliminated all these ill behaviors,
and axogen Helia and taught them otherwise. So if you turn away from the Dean, you're gonna go back
to the old Jay Haley traditions. And to see though Phil, oddly, is fed on earth and he you corrupt
		
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			on earth and he spread
		
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			corruption and mischief on earth. What to do or hanekom, not just stuck to our hammock and that's an
extensive form. You sever your relations with all your family members. So this is such a great sin
and a great evil deed. What a quarter or hammock, which you deserve the following punishment. The
asase Hula you can Larina Anna hula hoop for us on the home. Where are our Salam, such people are
those whom Allah Almighty calls
		
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			their ears to be the
		
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			and their eyes to be blind. For some Ma Ma Ma Salam because he cursed them. When Allah when a todo
Marathi, Allah, Allah curse them. Yeah, and he expelled them from his mercy they are not eligible
for his nurse. Why? Because of their ill behavior. They sever the relations with their family
members. They split corruption and mischief on Earth, simply because of not following the teachings
of the de Valois Satan in our Lightroom and tuxedo fell out of the water to cocktail or hammock. The
word duck clear is cutting repeatedly over and over and over severing the relations with everyone
else, because this is the quality of the non believers.
		
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			They do not uphold the ties of kinship.
		
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			Only whenever there is a benefit. Imagine if if if an unbeliever once visits his cousin, and on the
happy occasion, takes them some gifts, then he does it one more time. And the cousin or the brother
does not do the same to him. He will quit visiting him he will quit giving him gifts. Because this
is how it is. I pay you pay me. I scratch your back, you scratch my back. But it doesn't say like
that in Islam. It says that you should uphold the ties of your kinship, even if they still subvert,
even if they do not do the same to you. You're expecting the word from Allah, not from others, even
those who are whom you're doing good to them. In the narration of an imam Buhari said man was like
		
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			he was alto, woman quarter hockey kata. It's as simple as that. Whoever opposed his thighs, Allah
subhanaw taala will connect him to him, will bless him will bless His provision his family his risk
his lifespan, and will severs his relations with his family. He will be severed from every blessing
may Allah subhanaw taala forgive us our sins, guide us to what is best, protect us and make us while
silly or uphold the ties of our kinship visit our relatives pray for them. Share with them their
happy moments as well as they're so angry. May Allah subhanaw taala accept from all of us a holy cow
we had our stuff for Allah and you're welcome. And until next episode, I leave you all in the care
		
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			of Allah wa Salam o Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh
		
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			love of God is the greatest
		
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			glory to Him, people
		
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			hoping to be the best and give his best religion to allah God is the greatest
		
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			glory to Him.
		
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			It used to be the best and gave his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgetting all
about an empire dies? We're shipping cows fire and stones, sending letters to the cheapest
		
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			day
		
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			forgetting all about how bad guys we're shipping cars, fire and stoves, selling the best were the
cheapest