Mufti Menk – Porn on Dads Phone

			So from a young age
		

			to not let the child sit with cartoons with phones, what law here I've had a question that was asked
to me not long ago saying you know what, how can I seek the forgiveness of Allah? Because my three
year old was watching * on my phone
		

			Why? How I couldn't believe it but now your three year old knows more about your phone than mine
		

			or than anyone else's than anything else.
		

			Let me wear it again. Your three year old knows more about your phone than you
		

			he will pick it up
		

			I recall I put a little finger you know there is there is this system of opening your phone with
your eye and your finger at one stage it was the thumb now it's the eye and the child says no. Come
here. Don't just give me the phone in your finger put it here it's your finger that's gonna work
here the children know the pattern on your phone how to open what what not what number one is for a
child to access * at that age? It means it was somewhere in the phone. It was something was
happening. You don't just click on a website you don't know but you have pressed either the history
or a clip that's happening number one promise Allah that you are going to delete all the clips from
		

			your phone that are immoral do we promise
		

			What happened?
		

			Why are we reluctant?
		

			Do we promise a law that we will delete all the clips from our phones that are immoral?
		

			It's still not good enough. So many of you are just silent looking at me like there's nothing
immoral on my phone Come on, get away. Don't lie. Don't lie.
		

			Do you promise Allah we want children who are going to grow up with high values and we are not
prepared to promise a law that we will have high values
		

			come on. Do you promise Allah you will delete every clip that is in your phone? That is immoral.
		

			A little bit better. Masha Allah, may Allah make it easy for us.
		

			Be strong. be hard on yourself, so that you don't need to be hard on your children.
		

			Many of us are so hard on our children. Well, I receive emails telling me that you know what I
caught my father doing this doing that watching * with a girlfriend with this that I've read some
of it, what do I do? I'm broken. I don't know whether to bash his face or what to do.
		

			Your father, Allah has blessed you My beloved parents with an automatic respect from those children.
it's we who spoil it
		

			automatic. Like when I said when you get married, if your heart is pure and your connection with
Allah is good law he you have to feel the Mahabharata and Rama because Allah promised that in the
Quran, but if you don't feel the Mahabharata and the Rama, the love and the mercy there's something
wrong with your connection with Allah.