Mufti Menk – Do This If Someone Abuses You!

			My beloved brothers and sisters, look at how we should be looking at negativity, look at negativity
with a positive eye. That's the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu sallam. I'm not saying don't do anything
about it and sit back, relax, let them trample all over you. No, that's not true. But I'm saying
don't lose your great character and conduct because someone else last days.
		

			She was, you are your own man, people are watching you. And not only that, you are supposed to be a
role model and an example for those younger than you be they your family members, children, whoever
else your community members, they watching you, especially as you grow a little bit older, you
automatically become a senior. They will love you and have tremendous respect for you when they can
see that this person is very, very wise. They are mature. They are good Muslims, they don't bother
with the detractors.
		

			Today we have a sickness and an illness. What is it? People talk bad about everybody else? That's
from shaytan now I'm talking about the person engaging in the crime. When you want to talk bad about
others, you must remember the loss is yours. It's never there's never this. You want to accuse
someone hurt them harm them, abused them, utter vulgar language against them. Someone sways you.
What should you do first? You know what we do? I don't even need to say it. Come on. You know what
we do? Someone sways you
		

			Subhana Allah I see people nodding their heads. I hope you guys don't have guns in your pockets.
Because someone sways you you know people in this country they would actually draw their weapons.
		

			May Allah protect us? That's wrong. Someone's ways you you smile and walk away Don't even turn
towards them. fosse be Rolla Maya coonan our job Jo home *
		

			jameelah. Look at how Allah speaks about it. Allah says Bay patience. And you know what, ignore them
in a good way. Leave them in a nice way. Stay away from them. don't communicate with someone whose
intention is to rile you up every day they come to you and tell you one bad thing. They riling you
up. The one who can rile you up is controlling you the one who can anger you has control over you.
They want you to be foolish. So what do they do? They know we need this guy to get angry. When he
gets angry. He's going to hit someone when he hits someone will do him in for public violence and
we'll get him to sign this admission of guilt to pay the fine and possibly to be in jail. So they've
		

			planned it before you even understood what has happened. And when they come they just watch
		

			by remote control what's happening to you. You control but you can break the entire plan this way.
You You just smile back. How's it
		

			sway You again? You're right. Everything could they call you F's and B's a chi everything laka
Subhana Allah when that happens they will get so frustrated, so irritated because the plan has
failed.