Mohamad Baajour – How to Be from IbadurRahman #4

			So inshallah Tada we continue with our series a better run, the ayat we recited in the first record.
And we have mentioned few of their characteristics. Number one, they walk on Earth
		

			with a humility, number two.
		

			Number two, I know it's too early, still sleeping.
		

			If they don't have the ignorant speak to them, they live with dignity. Number three, they spent the
night either in sujood or ON CAM, number four
		

			Benesse refund other Jahannam they make this dua Allah keep the punishment of the Hellfire away from
us. That was the last one we discussed. Today. Insha Allah to Allah will go Subhanallah to the next
day, while letting you know either
		

			circle. Let me use three, four, while I'm here to work on everything.
		

			And the ones who spend
		

			and the ones when they spend, they are neither extravagant nor miserly. And they are
		

			moderate.
		

			In the middle, they have middle ground.
		

			The first thing we notice
		

			because many people think that a bagel ramen sitting in the masjid all the time. They have no money.
		

			They have nothing to do.
		

			I have divorced the dunya just give me
		

			a Taliban a piece of bread and some olives. And I'm good. No Allah saying that they have money. They
do have money. Just like Allah subhanaw taala when he was telling the people when he was describing
the men who inhabit the masajid What did he say return return on Latin he him to jail rotten. What
are beyond and Nicola the men who inhabit the massage arm are men, they have businesses, they do
trade, but this business and that job never ever keep them away from the remembrance of Allah and
establishing salon they do have money because some somehow religiosity is accompanied or compared to
being poor.
		

			Abdurrahman Ben,
		

			is what we call right now in our standards.
		

			Billionaire
		

			obika Sadiq was a very rich man of man
		

			supported the army twice, you know, supported the army twice built the Muslim army twice, you know
what does that mean? And in our time he provided tanks and rockets and planes and jets. At that
time, this is what he did twice.
		

			So we cannot say that because you're religious you have to be poor, when Medina either but if you
want to be from a data run, you Allah subhanaw taala Subhan Allah He did not say and when either and
for who and if they are, if they spent then they are moderate. No, he gave us both extremes. He
didn't he could have said Allah subhanaw taala and when they spend, they are wasa they are moderate
		

			but Allah subhanaw taala showed us both extremes either and SOCO when they spend
		

			let me use riffle
		

			they did not do is rough. When I'm young too and they will not miserly. Okay Anabaena Delica Columna
		

			now Allah subhanaw taala used the word is rough. What's the difference between a Seraph and Kabir
because Allah says in surah to this route in Al mobile Verina canu.
		

			A one a shayateen. The mobile there is the brother look at the brother of who have the shaytaan the
what's the difference between mobile there are severe and it's rough.
		

			It's rough
		

			is
		

			excess in everything
		

			you could have is Ralph in sins. Kalia Abadi, Alladhina Asafa and for him telling my slaves who have
transgressed when beyond with their sins. So it's rough could be with sins.
		

			Letter Kulu Kulu was trouble whether two three food, eat and drink, but do not do is rough so it's
rough could be in food.
		

			It's rough
		

			on CO tilam of lumen.
		

			fucka Jana, some funding fella used to live Phil Utley even it's rough could be in killing 20
sloughing everything is rough is accessing everything but there
		

			is only in
		

			money
		

			you cannot say somebody had it up there in their sins, right? The beer is only with money because
those two words both of them means wasting money. Okay. So Allah subhanaw taala he said that these
people
		

			they do not go to this extreme. Neither to that extreme.
		

			Yeah, one.
		

			This money that we have, please, in this blessed morning, listen carefully. This money that we have
belongs to Allah
		

			and it has to be spent in a way that is pleasing to the owner.
		

			And one of the toughest questions on the Day of Judgment. Allah you have to prepare the answer from
now. For all my brothers that are dealing with haram, I beg you wake up, you will be questioned
about every single penny. Where did you get it from?
		

			And where did you spend it? Every single penny
		

			Rasul Allah Islam opposer narrating the Hadith in Bukhari, he said, I was working with our solar
system and we passed by God
		

			and he said, Rasool was excellent said, he said, Allah I will not wish to have this mountain
		

			of gold become gold, the whole mountain of gold, and if it did,
		

			they will not three days will not pass until I have given it all in sadhaka
		

			the number I don't know if this room was full of gold, it will be zillions of dollars. Imagine he
said mountains of odd was gold. It will not three days will not pass except I have already spent it
all in South Africa.
		

			At Varun homall occur Luna young monkey the same Hadith the rich ones are few on the Day of Judgment
ill except
		

			except the one who spent her co worker that worker that worker though
		

			the rich ones are very few the ones who will enter Jannah from the rich are very few except the one
who spent his money this way and that way and that way and that way. Yeah. And he he's looking for
ways to spend his money. Sponsoring orphans sponsoring widows building schools building massage with
helping this helping that that's all he's thinking about. It's not my money. It's not my money. I
have to report to the owner Where did you show me the receipts Where did you What did you do?
		

			Wake up Yeah, make this Ramadan the last Ramadan you do haram business. Make it this is it don't
worry. Your risk is coming Allah guaranteed. Guaranteed the provision guaranteed it
		

			so don't go to this extreme and waste your money, completely waste the money
		

			and being extravagant and everything and don't be miserly.
		

			Don't be very stingy. Listen to this hadith
		

			al Bukal when Iman Lai ashtami handfeel Calbee movement
		

			stinginess and Eman
		

			cannot co exist in the heart of a believer. What does that mean?
		

			One of them's gonna kick the other out.
		

			If you are a more men then and FICO and FICO all over the Quran, you're going to be spending and if
you're a hill that means you do not believe in the idea of no calculators listen to what up no
camera himolla said he said an area in the Quran.
		

			Listen carefully please. He said an ayah in the Quran to test your iman.
		

			He said there is one area in the Quran. If you would like to test how strong is your Eman, read this
area.
		

			What is this? Men the lady you call it Allah Carleton Hasina, for you die for who are Baffin?
		

			Ich kathira.
		

			Who made the lady men the lady. And if I'm standing here, who's that amazing brother, who's that
great brother that is going to sponsor this that's going to support this.
		

			And everybody would be very happy if someone stood up
		

			And he will feel very good. How about Allah has asking, Who is that person who's gonna give me a
loan
		

			and I will repay it multiple folds.
		

			Your credit, the word colored means there's a loan. And when you have a loan and you're righteous
person, that means you have to pay it back. And Allah azza wa jal, he is the one who's making the
promise. Who is that one? That's going to give me a loan and I will repay it multiple folds.
		

			You want to test your Eman, check on this idea.
		

			Now the brothers are thinking there's a fundraising coming after this. No fundraising. It's coming
up soon. It's not today.
		

			Subhan Allah was so true.
		

			The King of Kings is telling me that I will multiply many many faults. So yeah, one.
		

			Many people, or many specifically sisters, come to me and say
		

			my husband makes a lot of money. But I don't see any of it.
		

			And I am a housewife. I left my job, I left everything to take care of my home.
		

			My brother
		

			personal loss I seldom said
		

			money spent visability Allah Jonnie in jihad,
		

			or money spent in South Africa, or money spent and this and that, and money spent on your family.
The best among them? Is the money that you spend on your family. Give your wife an allowance.
		

			Do not wait for her to ask you. She's at home taking care of everything. Now, not only some of the
brothers not giving their wife allowance. They're telling their brother the brothers are telling
their wives. Habib to you're working 5050
		

			Because you are working now everything is 5050.
		

			In
		

			5050, habibi. You know that every penny that your wife makes her money, every penny is hers. Hers.
		

			If she would like to participate, Allahu Akbar, may Allah reward her. But you are the one who's
supposed to pay those bills. Those main donors I'm not telling you about, again, extravagant, she
wants to beg for $5,000 That's the term pay for it. I'm talking about the main basic needs of the
house. This is your responsibility.
		

			And to keep the wood to keep the love and the mercy, here's $100 his $200 a week, $300 a month,
whatever, go by wherever you want. Don't make her feel that she has to beg you every time she wants
something. She's your wife, the mother of your children.
		

			That mentality Subhanallah and if you're if if you are stingy with your family, something's wrong
with you.
		

			And you're very generous with others.
		

			So Allah subhanaw taala he's saying he's telling us if you want to be from a bad run, you are
neither going to this extravagant. You are also you're not miserly. There was a mention the story to
my students and now in the fifth year, there was a brother. He was so rich what we call right now
filthy rich, very rich buildings and buildings and buildings in in one of the Emirates
		

			but he was so backheel that he has only one soap that is always dirty. And he does not buy shoes. He
was the one one Dirham flip flop.
		

			to the level that they start calling him I will flip flop.
		

			abou flip flopped
		

			millions of dollars millions. Doesn't give his his family nothing. family struggling.
		

			You know what happened? When he died?
		

			His family his kids because he couldn't stand him
		

			did not pay for the funeral.
		

			Then has to stand the Imam of the masjid has to stand and ask people to please donate to bury him.
		

			They don't want to even bury their father
		

			What did you do with all that money?
		

			So yeah, one may Allah make us all from a better ramen. So they say by the ramen.
		

			They are
		

			To
		

			moderate and everything that they do, and specifically, when it comes to their money, so by nature,
human being, love, to own things, and to still own them to keep owning them is by nature.
		

			Islam came to regulate that and told to make us
		

			fight this desire, fight this desire of owning things and keep owning them. Now, suppose I said and
said, the son of Adam, if he has one valley, one value of gold, he would ask for two
		

			he will ask for too, and nothing will satisfy the son of Adam, except to rob. That means, till he
dies, he's going to keep wanting more and more and more
		

			and fewer wanting more and more and more. There's nothing wrong with that except if you are using it
to please the owner. May Allah make us from the people who listen and apply May Allah subhanaw taala
make our last deeds our best deeds and our last words La ilaha illallah Zachman la cara summary
		

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			what unfortunately no one was watching. The one downside the lino one downside being bought in was
all me now was all in
		

			wouldn't have you Lena photo gentlemen wouldn't have failed What the was that good enough? Guess
		

			what the guilt or? I don't know hula
		

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