Mirza Yawar Baig – Islamic manners #11

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			MBA with serene Muhammad Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi. Salam does even considering because
		

			we continue with the
		

			chapter on manners in a group social manners. I will Tao and Al Hakim rewarded and authentic Hadees
that my own been a Bucha beam or the Lord recounted that beggar stopped by Rasul Allah has certain
wife or mother agency called Ilana and she gave him a piece of dry bread at another time. well
groomed man gave and asked him for food, she asked him to sit and she offered him a meal.
		

			And
		

			then they asked her why did she do that? So she said, I was giving to the person according to their
need, when needed what
		

			they concluded by citing a hadith reported by his Bukhari and Muslim in which summarize
		

			he said or the Law No, though I was a young child at the time of resources salaam, I used to listen
to what he said and memorize it. Nothing prevents me from reading my knowledge except the presence
of older people. So he and there are many other stories like this of, of young people have young
children have memorized a lot of Quran just by resources and reciting and they were there and they
listen to it carefully their memories you know, our know your hunting already concluded.
		

			In conclusion, the Sunnah of serving at a gathering
		

			is to
		

			start from according to the merits of age and knowledge and so on so forth, and complete on that
basis.
		

			And then go from the rights of that person start from the person who was the most prominent, the
oldest the scholar and so on, and then move from the right to that person
		

			going all the way down.
		

			In his book of Al Banna, the seal Imam I've noticed, he said as a rule of the status of those
present is equal one should start on the right with every desirable act. But if there is a scholar
or somebody or honor or an elder present, the Sunnah is to serve that person first and move to his
right in a counterclockwise fashion.
		

			So Sarah was offered some milk mixed with water when a Bedouin was sitting on his right and to his
left was sitting over Cynthia for the lotto. It was it was dry, drank some and hand it over to the
value in saying from the right then to the right.
		

			Once yourself there was prominent person do not proceed your right in a clockwise fashion. Even if
the people do it. You're right or higher status unless those are the right give up data.
		

			Soon as I said, I was sitting with elders on his left and a young man on his right he was given a
drink. After drinking he asked the young man would you allow me to pass it to them? The young man
said by Allah No, I would not favor anyone with my share of your drink. Soda doesn't
		

			put the willingly put the drink in the hands of the man, indicating that it was his rights. The
Indian scholar Mobarak Puri rattler in his treatise on explaining generativity elaborated on this
issue when commenting on the Hadees that hit by a bus or the llama, and he said the server should be
the last one to drink at a bar coreset is indicates that the server should delay his drink until all
the guests have been served. And the same applies to anything else that is the most notable should
be served first and then on the right until everyone is served.
		

			It's a very
		

			interesting thing the detail to which we have been
		

			given directions about behavior and about manners
		

			Subhan Allah We ask Allah to make us
		

			worthy of this and to learn these things and to practice them inshallah.
		

			Then you go to the story of hice Ignacio Tamimi.
		

			To respect obey and give procedures to the elders is an old established Arab and Muslim tradition.
		

			The shelf says Here I would like to quote on
		

			In full the advice of the great companions a happy face evening, ASIMO Tanimura Delano. On his
deathbed, he saw the alarm who advised his children to consider the elders as the leaders, from whom
they will receive valuable advice and sound wisdom has been asked him well when Harry Itami was the
chieftain of the tribe of the meme, famous for his eloquent speeches and wisdom, solos and so
honored him with the title, master of the desert dwellers. He was a WISE and WISE and mild mannered
person in the ninth year of hijra, he came to visit visit Rossano Salah in Medina, with the
delegation of restripe
		

			Manasa Salam saw him he said, This is the master of the desert villas. He lived an honorable life
spending his life last years in Barcelona, where he died in the year 20 Hijiri. He was known for
patients a leniency Allah hath been case, a famous Arab. Sage was once asked quote or to patients
and leniency and he surprised in US military. Once I saw him sitting in his courtyard talking to his
guests and fellow tribesmen, a man tied up in ropes and our dead body were brought to him. He was
told we caught your nephew after he killed your son has been asked to remain calm and completed his
talk. Turning to his navy we said you have done the worst. You have sinned against Europe you have
		

			already and murdered your cousin. You killed yourself and weaken your tribe. He got another son and
said to him, My son under yoke was setting free. Bury your brother and go to his mother and give her
100 camels to compensate her for the loss of her son.
		

			Ever see the man the fish in the man's son died the murderer is there he didn't kill them already.
Give him the
		

			hasn't busted out the law they will met him and studied under him relates that when he's been asked
him or the law on an old dying, he called his here 33 children he called his 33 children and advise
them he said oh my son's fear Allah. And remember what I will say for no one will give you more
sincere advice.
		

			When I die make your seniors your leader do not make your juniors or leaders what if you promote
your seniors you will maintain your father's legacy. Do not make your juniors your leaders for you
to do so people will not only disrespect your seniors, but will look down at you do not wait after
my deaths what I heard was concern for bade wailing look after your wealth for it enlightened is a
generous and averse miserliness do not beg people for that is the worst way of becoming wealthy.
Avoid bad traits. It may please you once but will display you many times.
		

			Guys then called for his quiver and asked his eldest son highly to take out a single arrow and break
it and he did that. He asked him to break two arrows and indeed that he then Then he asked his son
to bundle 30 arrows with the tie and break them all what is and could not isn't my son you will be
strong if united and weak if separated. Then he compose the following poem is a glory is what the
earnest father built and the children maintain glory, bravery and leniency are best adorned with
challenged with chastity and generosity
		

			30 You are my son's in face of calamities and trouble. If you are like, you are like 30 arrows
bundled with a strong tie. It will not be broken. But once separated, we can easily be broken. Your
elders, your best manner should be your leaders. Your young should be protected and nurtured until
your youngest matures.
		

			Then we come to visual validation which is
		

			to have those manners with parents and to share advisors he serves up full respect and reverence
your father and mother for they're the most worthy of your consideration. Bukhari and Muslim
reported that a man has his own messenger of Allah Azza wa sallam who is most who is most worthy of
my of my best behavior. So let's say your mother, your mother, your mother, then your father, then
the closer and closer among your relatives we will disclose to you because he artillery in other
words, he said after Isaac in his son have reported that a sham will Ottawa recounted that his
father told him that Abba Herrera Delano saw a man walking ahead of another he asked him Is this man
		

			related to the man said he's my father, a Buddha or the Alana told him Do not walk ahead of him Do
not sit until he sits and do not call him by his name. According to him never have a student of Imam
Malik named Imam Abdul Rahman Nakashima. dotati al Masri, he said, when Imam Malik Raul de la la was
reading al Motta, to me Suddenly he stood up
		

			and left me for a long time. Then he came back and sat down. He was asked why he did that. He said
my mother came down asking me something since she was traveling, I stood up, and when she went I sat
down again. Likewise, the revered Tammy Davi thous when he sang, he said it is part of the Sinatra
to respect for people, a scholar, an elder, a leader and a father.
		

			It is considered rude that a man called his father by his name moreso at the end of his book of
Maliki al Caffee. Imam Malik has been
		

			burned him out.
		

			Even though Abdel bar he said kindness to the parents, is an obligatory duty, and by the grace of
Allah, it is not so difficult. Kindness means to be humble with them to speak to them nicely to look
at them with love and respect to speak in a mild tone that does not surpass their meaning meaning
don't speak loudly, unless they are hard of hearing, to give them complete access to your own wealth
and to offer them the best of your food and drink. Children should not walk ahead of their parents
nor speak before them in matters that they know are their fathers matter. Children should
wholeheartedly avoid upsetting their parents and should please them as much as possible. Making your
		

			parents life enjoyable is one of the most virtuous acts, children must hasten to respond to their
parents call. If a child is performing voluntary Salah which is nothing. The prayer should be
shortened, who respond properly. Children should not only say good words, children should only say
good words to their parents in return. It is the parents duty to make it easier for the children by
being kind and supportive of them. For only with Allah's help our people who were able to obey Him
and He does commands, you may have to go out of your way to serve your mother and father but do not
forget that their rights are beyond such difficulties. For us, Valterra said, in his ERISA, Your
		

			love has decreed that you worship none but Him. And then you'll be kind to your parents, whether one
or both of them when one or both of them are dead old age in this life. Do not say a word of content
don't say off even nor rebuffed them not address them except in terms of honor and out of kindness,
lower than the wing of humility and say my rod best have mercy on them as they cherished me in my
childhood.
		

			The promise of the Southern said no child will compensate a parent unless he finds him or her a
slave and frees him or her. Keep in mind that it is human nature to like to be the best in status,
prestige and popularity and to dislike that someone be better than yourself. Only your parents would
wish that you become better than what they were. How should you treat those who prefer you to
themselves and truly wish you the best or Solana Harada will tell you on it was