Mirza Yawar Baig – Islamic Manners #04

			Mr. olahraga Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa salatu salam ala Shafi lambier Evil mousseline
Muhammad Rasulullah, sallallahu alayhi, wa aalihi wa sahbihi wa sallam has given cathedra because
hear from other brothers and sisters, we are reading from the book of Islamic manners by Aisha
Abdelfattah aboda rato lolly.
		

			And today is the chapter for the manners of visiting.
		

			He said he talks about the importance of keeping appointments, he says in the first Ayato, certain
minor Allah subhanaw taala called upon the believers. And he said, Yeah, you're Latina Armando for
Bill, quote, he said, Oh, you will believe, fulfill your promises. Allah Subhana Allah praise is
vitally Salaam and he will he said he was true to his promise.
		

			He was true to his promise.
		

			And then he said he was a messenger of the prophets.
		

			Now giving appointments is vital to our lives time is the most precious commodity once wasted, it
can never be recovered.
		

			If you made an appointment, whether with a friend or a colleague or for business, you should do your
utmost to keep this appointment. This is the right of the other person who despite other
commitments, favored you with a part of the valuable time. If you do not come on time, not only have
you disrupted their schedule, but you have also marred and spoiled your image and reputation. If
your punctuality becomes poor, you will lose people's respect.
		

			You should keep all your appointments, whether they are with an important person, if close friend or
a business colleague or anyone, you will then be responding to the call of Allah subhanaw taala. And
he said and keep the promise, the promise is a responsibility.
		

			And this is not Auronzo 1734. It is enough to know that supervisor salon gave an appointment to one
of his Sahaba the sahabi came three days later Rasulullah Salem gently reprimanded him and said you
have caused me some trouble. I've been waiting for you for three days. Xavi probably had an excuse
for this.
		

			But he had no means by which to inform resources about his inability to keep the appointment. But
that is no longer true for us today we have
		

			fast and reliable communication means cell phones and whatnot. And therefore as soon as you realize
that you will not be able to give an appointment you should inform the other person so that they can
do something with their time instead of waiting for you.
		

			Once you are careless and you don't go to the appointment and then after that you apologize that is
meaningless. Because the damage is already done. It's not a matter of apology, it's a matter of
being conscious enough to stick to your word.
		

			The word of a person is their brand, the word of a person is their locker, it is their pride, it is
a it is their name. And despite that is a terrible loss. Bukhari and Muslim narrated that also was
seldom said three traits single out a hypocrite, even if you praise or fasts or claims to be a
Muslim one, if he speaks he lies to if he makes a promise, He does not keep it in third, if he is
entrusted, he betrays the trust.
		

			So three things one is lying, the other one is not keeping a promise. And the third one is that if
you are trusted, you do not be you not keep the trust. This especially reverse to keeping confidence
or confidential information that is given to you in confidence. So for example, so there is a trust.
Somebody says, I'm telling you something, this should remain between us. Don't tell anybody. Now
many people the first thing they do they tell somebody or they say no no, don't tell anyone. So told
me this. You don't tell me what the point is. You are told don't tell anyone that means anyone? Oh,
I only told my wife No. Your philosophy that anyone? Right? If you have to tell somebody then you
		

			should seek the permission of the person who mentioned this to you first as I need to say this to
somebody can I do that? But without that to share? Somebody is confidential information is haram.
Muammar Ghazali. In Allah * alone explains that this hadith is applicable to those who promise
while intending not to fulfill it, so people even even before that they have no in
		

			intention but there is no no I will I will contend with me I will keep it secret give me the no in
911 or those who without excuse later decide not to fulfill the promise those who promise but but
not fulfilled due to proper excuses, they are not hypocrites, they must apologize they must be
governed, but we should be careful not to do this.
		

			Second thing is declining a visit if you visit friends with or without an appointment and they
apologize for not being able to receive you accept their apology without any ill feeling,
		

			you should understand that something might have come up compelling them to decline your visit, it is
perfectly reasonable for them to ask to be excused this particular etiquette is very important in
order to remove any ill feeling that could linger because of declining of an of a visit. A loss
manager has said if you are if you are asked to go back go back, that makes for greater purity and
this is in the Quran. Surah 2428. If you were asked to go back go back, that makes for greater
purity. People do not know what to do and they become disturbed by the visit of someone who they do
not want to receive under the circumstances and they may resort to lying they may say something when
		

			I'm sick. I'm this and that. Now not only do the children learn bad manners because of this, but
also some behavior may lead to needless enmity between people. The Quranic etiquette provides a
better alternative to such unpleasantness and God just against lying. He provides for the horse to
kindly present the reason to the visitors and ask that they accept it in good faith. And without
hesitation. That's where loss manager said, if you were asked to go back go back, that makes for
greater purity.
		

			The Tabby Qatada ignored the ultra Lucy said, Do not hang around the door of those who declined to
receive your visit. Accept the reason move on and attend to your business and let them attend to
this. Do not ask for a reason or explanation. Imam Malik is to say not all people can disclose their
excuses. They cannot tell you why they say no.
		

			So don't force them. Accordingly when it comes to visiting our service ally in righteous forbearance
used to say to their horse, perhaps you just became busy and cannot receive us making them feel at
ease in case they wanted to excuse him. Our Tabori in his dossier reported that a man of the mighty
rule he said all my life I wanted to practice this i If you are asked to go back go back. That makes
for greater purity but I could not. I was hoping I would seek permission to visit a brother and he
will tell you go back. I would have gladly left fulfilling the commandment of Allah as you know
Jesus what the other people are so hospitable no one told him to go back whenever again please
		

			welcome welcome.
		

			Please don't need to go back. Welcome.
		

			Final thing is control your eyes when asking permission to enter a home don't look around here and
there unnecessarily inside and into the you know in other rooms or whatnot This is shameful and
helpful without an attorney.
		

			Explain that sad Vinoba or the law said a man stood facing the door of Rosa Salem while asking
permission to enter the reason I said turn that way turning him away and ordering him to move
further from the door he said asking permission is prescribed to prevent intrusion. Right. So by you
asking permission but you are intruding with your eyes by standing right in front and looking at it.
No one has permission. So stand to one side and knock on the door and it wasn't leave they asked you
to come in.
		

			Remember Hi Robert Allah also explained in other words, I have read that the sahabi is the one who
recounted the residence the residence said a person should not look inside the house before getting
permission. If you do look inside before asking permission you have already entered that is you have
trespassed
		

			without and deal with it and OHare mo La La well when stated in other words, more frog Hadees by Abu
Huraira or the Alana who said that the messenger of allah sallallahu sallam, he said if the site
lips permission should be denied, is it if you see somebody looking at send him away?
		

			Also Buhari narrated that Amara Musa them
		

			to do two GB reported that Omar Katara said whoever fills his eyes with a sight of the interior of a
house before being permitted, is a wrongdoer.
		

			Bukhari Muslim and others narrated that Sahel beans had said that a man peeked through a hole into
the room of Ross was a seller while he was scratching his head with a small
		

			instrument. When the surah tourism saw the intruder he told him if I had known you were looking, I
would have poked your eye
		

			So it is very serious and wasn't one must not do that asking permission was prescribed to prevent
intrusion. We ask Allah subhanaw taala to help us to develop the best manners and we pleased with us
and our to be displeased was Allah Allah Allah Allah military Murali, he was a member of Tigger her
life