Maryam Lemu – Unleash the Power of Intimacy Let’s Dive into this Taboo Topic! #2

			I want to dive right into bringing it into regular conversations. A lot of us are mentally bankrupt
when it comes to knowledge of this because people don't talk about it. And that's why I felt, let's
start for the next month in sha Allah, I want us to have discussions with different people. And let
me first give a disclaimer, please, if you have little children in the room, or kids that are not
age appropriate, they shouldn't be listening to such things, I would advise you please ask them to
leave the room right now find somebody dumped them with somebody.
		

			Because we are going to get a bit maybe X rated. And I cannot guarantee that how this discussion
will go. And so because of that, know, the person you'll be chummy with, you should be free to talk
about what you like and what you don't like. So this thing about pleasuring your spouse, helping
them achieve climax in intimacy, that it's a mutual thing. It's not about one person doing it. One,
bam, Thank you, ma'am. It's all over. It's about both. It's about being fair and being equitable
when it comes to everything in the relationship. So for me, I think it's really important to share
these three books with you because I think the will help. If you both read it, and you both talk
		

			about it, and talk realistically about what you can do and what you can't do. For women. Of course,
we all know, I know, you're so eager to know what book I'm recommending, I will get to you in a
second. For women, we all know it's much harder for a woman to climax for a man, you find the
average timeframe is between sometimes 30 seconds, one minute to about five, seven minutes. It
doesn't take them long, because there is so much more going on in their head, visualizing fantasies
and so on. So the way men think, of course, is so different from women, I, I was talking to someone
who was sharing how difficult it is for her to climax. And this was years ago, and she said, it's
		

			easier to lay an egg, then for the climax. And it cracked me up because it's like, just like I kept
pushing and trying everything, all the muscles and nothing seemed to be working. Ladies, y'all know
what I'm talking about. But again, because of the baggage because of the mind. That's also another
thing that messes you up. That's why foreplay is so important. And foreplay doesn't begin just at
that time when you're going to be intimate with one another. So let me just get all those curious
people who want to know the three books I'm recommending. It's called jasa, taste of honey. And
women of desire those three books by Habib, I swear to God to Allah, I don't know him from Adam and
		

			Eve, I've sent him a message on Instagram just to say, You know what? Well done. I love this book.
And that's it, I've never met him, we've never even spoken. So I'm not getting any commission from
recommending this book. And there are a ton of other books available as well, that will help you
because for me, I believe in, you know, self learning, evolving, upgrading, and improving in every
aspect of my relationship. And that's why I try to share the little I have learned with you and kind
of just maybe direct you on the path. So that you can also discover and what may be of interest to
me, obviously may not be to you, and vice versa. But mine is just to suggest and yours is to go
		

			exploring. So intimacy, foreplay for women starts way, way, way, way, way much earlier than at that
time when you do want to get down and dirty. So it requires you to both be aware, you know, and
start building up flirting, giving compliments, a gentle touch a gentle kiss. So this is for the
guys in the house, this is not just something that you do, because that makes it a chore that makes
it like work, especially when it's one sided. But when it's the holding hands, the hug, a bit of a
squeeze here and there. Yeah, and a bit of touching of even where the sun don't shine, like doing
all sorts of things to try and build up the momentum. If you're not in the same city, do not
		

			consider that to mean you cannot be intimate. Yes, you may not be physically together. But you can
do a lot you can do what is called sexting, which is also building up to when you finally get
together, where you send raunchy messages to one another, expressing what you want to do to them.
And even pictures however, with pictures that's very dangerous today, because you never know where
it will go. So sometimes using apps that are encrypted end to end may be safe to do live instead
because that allows you to know okay, this is just me, myself and my spouse and there is no risk
that some of those apps that I've downloaded, I've given them permission you know, the person you'll
		

			be chummy with you should
		

			be free to talk about what you like and what you don't like. So this thing about pleasuring your
spouse, helping them achieve climax in intimacy, that it's a mutual thing. It's not about one person
doing it. One, bam, Thank you, ma'am. It's all over. It's about both. It's about being fair and
being equitable when it comes to everything in the relationship. So for me, I think it's really
important to share these three books with you because I think the will help. If you both read it,
and you both talk about it, and talk realistically about what you can do and what you can't do. For
women. Of course, we all know, I know, you're so eager to know what book I'm recommending, I'll get
		

			to you in a second. For women, we all know, it's much harder for a woman to climax for a man, you
find the average timeframe is between sometimes 30 seconds, one minute to about five, seven minutes,
it doesn't take them long, because there is so much more going on in their head, visualizing
fantasies, and so on. So the way men think, of course, is so different from women, I, I was talking
to someone who was sharing how difficult it is for her to climax. And this was years ago, and she
said, it's easier to lay an egg than for the climax. And it cracked me up because it's like, she's
like, I kept pushing and trying everything, all the muscles and nothing seemed to be working.
		

			Ladies, y'all know what I'm talking about. But again, because of the baggage because of the mind.
That's also another thing that messes you up. That's why foreplay is so important. And foreplay
doesn't begin just at that time when you're going to be intimate with one another. So let me just
get all those curious people who want to know the three books I'm recommending. It's called Yasa
taste of honey. And women have desire those three books by Habib, I swear to God to Allah, I don't
know him from Adam and Eve, I've sent him a message on Instagram just to say, You know what? Well
done. I love this book. And that's it. I've never met him. We've never even spoken. So I'm not
		

			getting any commission from recommending this book. And there are a ton of other books available as
well that will help you because for me, I believe in, you know, self learning, evolving, upgrading,
and improving in every aspect of my relationship. And that's why I try to share the little I have
learned with you and kind of just maybe direct you on the path so that you can also discover and
what may be of interest to me, obviously may not be to you and vice versa. But mine is just to
suggest and yours is to go exploring