Majed Mahmoud – Forgive and Forget

Majed Mahmoud
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The segment discusses the origins of the term "median" and the importance of forgiveness in relationships where one tries to "branded". It touches on the causes of heart disease, including a man who claims to be a prophet and apologizes for his actions, causing people to be embarrassed and jealousy. The segment also touches on the controversy surrounding the deaths of two Jewish men by the Prophet and the use of poison in people's faces. The speakers end with a brief advertisement for a product.

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			Bismillah wa Salatu was Salam ala rasulillah Allah Allah He was that he was rubbish really saw that
he was really angry at me Lisa Annie, UFO calling me back. What's the value of dunya? What's the
value of this life we're living?
		
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			Is there anyone in the world that can better define dunya then also lies a lot. He was a Lamb who
was who was sent as a mercy to all of the people on the dunya
		
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			also lays a lot he was a left Africa sort of system. He was walking by the market in Medina. As he
was walking, he found a dead Jedi Jedi is the son of a goat, small one.
		
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			That Jedi was dead, and its ears were chopped off.
		
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			It was rotten, it was disgusting. The Prophet went down, grabbed the Jedi.
		
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			And he told the four have a Yukon who amongst you would buy this dead goat, if you wish to say for
one day, not even $1 for wonder, does habitat also Allah Who in the world would buy such thing? It's
dead. It's disgusting. Who would take it who take it? No, that offers for free who would wish he
would have something like that? That's a habit said
		
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			even if it was alive, we will not take it because the way it looks with a chapter is alone. It's
that he said for law he saw a law he and the Prophet doesn't have to say well, why does he have to
say well, like he doesn't have to. But he said for law he that dunia one who Allah La minhang de la
caminhada de dunia the value of dunya in the sight of Allah is less is lower than that dead
disgusting goat. Is it compared to you guys? So what are we fighting for? What dunya is causing our
ties of kinship to be cut when the father passes away? And the will is distributed? people not
pleased? What dunya is the reason for people to break up in their friendship and relationship? What
		
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			dunya what dunya causes the person to a suicide. Why? Because someone was proposing to me and then
someone rejected them. And it didn't work out why why why what are we talking about? So I have to
make sure we show you the perspective of dunia first before taking any further step into this
discussion. One more
		
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			no so like so like he was so solemn. He was sitting with a hammer. And all of a sudden he says now a
man from Jenna is about to enter.
		
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			All of us have every single one of them immediately rotated their heads looked at the door Who was
that man? Because their concern is gender, the afterlife, not this life. They understood the goat
they understood that disgusting life we live in corruption lies killing bloodshed, cutting the ties
of kinship, corruption all over the place get understood. It's all about here after it's all about
lobbying please with me. That's all what matters. All of them looked amongst them as Abdullah bin
now a little bit last, every Hadith I'm mentioning is authentic. Unless I tell you otherwise.
		
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			of the love and and and look at this detail. He says the man that walked in his beard was wet look
at look how much they focus because they truly one gentleman.
		
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			And he grabbed his slippers with his left hand.
		
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			And he placed his slippers on the shelf.
		
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			Secondary school life last time second thing out of nowhere, all of a sudden now a man from gender
is about to enter. Everybody looked again did not bored. They want to know what Who is that man?
What difference does he do? What is it that he does that gave him that rank, the
		
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			third day, all of a sudden, and it finally converge them in an agenda now a man for whose promised
Paradise is about to enter and that man doesn't know the Prophet is saying that about him.
		
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			And it was the same man first, second and third day of the lava number last me Allah be pleased
about him. He was could not handle this anymore. He went to him. He said, I have a problem with my
father. We had a fight. And I told my father that I will not speak to you for three nights.
		
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			So would you mind if you host me for three nights?
		
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			The man said Sure. Let's go over the loved ones is to go check this guy life out. What is it that he
does that Allah made the Prophet know that he has this rank and he's still alive. He's still alive.
He went to the house. And he was monitoring every single step and I will not exaggerate if I say
every single blink
		
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			of the law says when he was sleeping that men when he would wake up in the middle of the night. What
does that mean?
		
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			What does that mean? The dog asleep
		
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			was waiting. When he would wake up in the middle of the night, he would say a lot about the Corolla.
But he would not step up and pray and pray that night prayers
		
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			until he would go back to sleep until he prayed for God.
		
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			Abdullah says I spent three nights with him and a kid too.
		
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			Ama which means I was about to not just be okay with what he does, rather, I was what to be little
that what he does, there was so little compared to what we do. So now the law went to the men and he
said, to be honest with you, I have no dispute between me and my father. Rather, it was it was the
prophets of Watson, who said three consecutive days, the amount from general work, and he were the
same person every single day. That's why I came to monitor and I could not find anything special
about you. Sorry to say that. So do you know what made you have this rank? Do you know?
		
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			The man said, As you have seen, that's all what I do. After loving, a little painful moment, I
couldn't find anything special. He's walking outside the door. And then Abdullah the other men,
because Abdullah Abdullah, hold on, hold on, hold on. I think I know.
		
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			The Lord rushed. What is it? He said, throughout his day,
		
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			he makes sure before the day is an ending, that I empty my heart, from any hate from any grudge from
any envy from any jealousy, any ill feelings in my heart is empty. I empty it. I forgive everyone,
everyone. Then I continue with my day after loving says he has he This is it. This is it. This was a
last con Tada. That's why Allah give you that rank because of this. And then he says, land Okay,
this is what we cannot handle very tough, but we're going to work on it as much as possible. For
forgiving others he was promised paradise while still being alive.
		
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			Now, after hearing this, do we have to continue the car talk anymore? Do we have to talk more and
more until nine o'clock? Is it worth it? Isn't it enough? So how about that good is enough to us.
		
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			Hollywood sentimental center
		
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			was walking and and he said to the Sahaba
		
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			had a lot of value dounia
		
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			as much as the wing of the fly,
		
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			the Capitol will not even drink a sip of water.
		
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			So the dunya is such an invaluable point in the sight of a lot and extent it's not even worth the
wing of a mosquito.
		
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			Just realize that so can our beloved parents
		
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			forgive us forgive their children? Or just mentioned eight categories really quick? Our parents can
you please forgive us for life? We know most of us know that the number one priority in our life,
the number one person that we should fulfill the rights our parents according to the Quran and
Sunnah. Number one on Earth, the whole world stops when your mom says, Give me a cup of water. The
whole world stops you go get a cup of water. Would you please forgive me if I was a millisecond
late.
		
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			seek forgiveness from your parents for love to my dear beloved Auntie, and uncle and parents. And I
know my mom and watching this because my mom watches every video that I record. By the way, she
checks what I say any politics, anything I do wrong. And she advises the cosmic method. Why did you
say that?
		
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			So I asked my mom to forgive me for law he had all my mom and our parents not forgive us. We'll live
our life and our life. We will be doomed in this life and the afterlife. No matter how religious we
may seem to be. We asked our brothers and sisters to forgive their older siblings. If one day you
went to go to soccer practice or to a party, and you asked him to give you a ride and they were so
lazy to drive you and they ignored you and you Mr. Party, forgive them, forgive them.
		
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			For the brothers and sisters, forgive your younger siblings, if they were ever annoying throughout
your life, knocking on the door and running away, calling you names and making fun of your voice and
the tone and the language.
		
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			Be patient especially if they go through the age of puberty when they're stubborn. I got a private
message on Facebook by a sister. She says brother me and my younger brother they we love to watch
your YouTube videos. So since my brother appreciate your videos and your watches them, would you
please please do a video about anger management and patience. Because my my brother younger brother
is going through the age of puberty and you know they're stubborn. They're angry. So I tell her to
watch this with her brother forgive each other.
		
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			Can our younger brothers and sister forgive our parents? forgive your parents? And Allah knows the
older they get. What happens? The less patient they become. Allah says in the Quran
		
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			In
		
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			NIDA in
		
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			in
		
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			kina, Houma, Salah
		
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			Kareem
		
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			don't even blow hard, not even saying a word Don't even say.
		
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			Well, then how to whom and don't say anything that would hurt them anyway in any shape. I look at
steer a move the closing the door hard don't do that. Rather, what will lahoma colon carry? Rather,
say something that is gentle, full of love and respect your parents? Can we forgive our parents and
be patient with them? forgive all your friends and relatives. forgive your friends, colleagues at
work and neighbors and all everybody around you forgive them. forgive your friends, even if they
were non Muslims. Forgive them regardless what you've done. forgive those who wronged you and
oppress you hold on.
		
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			I'm not saying give up your rights, secrets, but without having any ill feelings be like I leave in
the title of the line. He was fighting another Muslim due to a dispute that happened between them
without any further details. The fact they were killing each other. If karma time comes Allahu Akbar
Allah with that one who's he's fighting with
		
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			this society. And this is like we got caught between us no problem. Go to the lawyer. We fix things
out we have lunch together.
		
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			ill feelings aside, solve the case, secret rights? Is it clear. But whenever you have the upper hand
		
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			and you can overpower the person, use the route of forgiveness. forgive forgive brothers and
sisters. The value of forgiving Why should you forgive Why? Why that pain in your heart? Why? That
sister who emailed me she was explaining her life in a very brief that she volunteers in almost
every convention that happens somewhere in North America. She says I have access to all that she you
can think about.
		
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			And I don't want to give you any more details. Because had I tell you brother about me a little more
you will know who am I?
		
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			But I'm emailing you hoping that you might help me somehow.
		
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			And then who came to propose to me when I was 19 years old, promising to get married to me. Years
and years passed by and he never comes in Africa men and proposes trying to go from the rear window.
He eventually stops talking to me. Now I'm 26 years old and I'm not married anymore. Not hoping to
get married anymore. She says I wake up every day hoping that a car would come and hit me so I can
die. Look at the volunteer that she doesn't how much Dean and how much knowledge we thought she
would have.
		
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			I tell her also to forgive that man. Why? Why I know it's painful.
		
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			I mentioned three reasons pay attention, three reasons. Number one
		
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			Rasulullah sallallahu sallam. So sit down. He said if you forgive your V la hula, Allah forgive you.
Forgive and Allah will forgive you forgive an ALLAH forgive the Prophet promise to you, I guess
doubting this. What does Allah forgetting? You mean?
		
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			Was he asked for Allah? What does it mean?
		
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			Pay attention. When Allah Subhana Allah forgives you. Three things occur by the will of Allah.
		
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			Number one, Allah will conceal will forgive, tuck the Sitara hijab over the shortcomings which you
have done in this dunya how many times were you behind the screen? What is something you're not
supposed to be watching? How many times were you in a gathering, listening to backbiting and Allah
concealed you did not expose you? How many times how many times how many times did you drive over
the speed limit? And Allah will the cop does not see you how many times how many times when you when
you forgive that people are not forgives you, and he can see your shortcomings. That not just that
hold on. And when you go into here after and you're in front of billions and billions and billions
		
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			of people,
		
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			and everybody's naked, naked.
		
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			Well, Hamza, and you don't even hear whispering between billions of people. And you will be called
by your name. So and so the son of Swords will come out Elijah bow, come and meet your Lord as
you're about to negotiate, and to talk about the things that you have done. Had you forgive the
people and Allah will forgive you. Allah will put a hijab a curtain that no one amongst the billions
can hear the conversation between you and Allah and no one can know what's going on.
		
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			Behind these closed doors doesn't stop here the lastly when you ask Allah to forgive you now when he
said stop for a while you feel it. Now when you forgive you feel it I Allah will forgive me in sha
Allah.
		
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			Allah put a hijab between you and the Hellfire gender, a century gender a century, no one is allowed
to go the agenda with sins, you forgive. Allah will cover your sins and you will not make you have
to filter out your sins and Hellfire will put a blockage for you. So concealing you and dounia
concealing you in front of billions of people when you meet him and putting a barrier between you
and Johanna. Can we forgive now? Can you forgive now what what more? Are you amongst the ones that
are saying brother? No, no, no, no talk as much as you want. But the thing that happened to me I
will never forgive that person. No, no, no, no, no, it's tough. It's difficult. No, no, no way. sat
		
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			in the heart. Soft in the heart massage your heart literally stuck through last.
		
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			Forgive and Allah will forgive you. Number two.
		
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			When you forgive brothers and sisters, look at this. Your reward is on a las panatela
		
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			rajim Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim. Femina also have a Jew who Allah law and who ever forgives and
makes reconciliation. Your reward is an ally. Your reward is anila. Do you guys comprehend what
we're saying right now.
		
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			When I tell you your rewards Allah Allah when I went for Hajj, and oh,
		
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			the man who was organizing the Hajj group literally robbed us, literally robbed us. And he told us
in our faces, that he can't do anything about it. We paid for his five star hotel, he gave us three
stars. No problem. angry about three stars. But we paid for five. And you told us our faces do
something about it alone.
		
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			Such painful moment my mom was with me and our brothers. He was with us. He cried. Because he was
the one who was getting the * out. And so he felt guilty, so much pain in our hearts. We told the
people what should we do? What should we do? They said, Go to who the Ministry of heads without the
head. What will happen? Once you go there we acquainted the history, they're very liable. They
actually go and help people out who have been rocked by their agencies that had groups. So we
rushed. We went there we personally talk to the Minister himself. You got proof proofs, receipt
receipts, anything else? Yes is a record and has kept that we had. And we happen to record the
		
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			conversation which he used to say, beautiful, we give it to him. He said, I got
		
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			your reward is on me. He said that was confirmation. And we said Let's relax.
		
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			Let's relax. Before I move any forward. feminine alpha will have a guru who Allah, whomever forgives
and makes your constellation what happens. Your reward isn't the Ministry of heads. Allah and Allah,
what the demand do will lie the next tax season didn't come except that that man was exposed. And
that agency was shut down and they were trying to give us back a portion of the money which will
last how much stress administer of how far you want to go after that. I tell you forgive and your
rewards the last card died
		
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			in Hades, which Benny weakens a bit
		
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			and please pay attention to this. For so Lisa, lolly wisdom says either have a bad demo, not
everybody standing up. When the sun is one mile away from us on the day of judgment when we are
right in front of Allah subhanho wa Taala one mile away from us, people will be sweating. Some
people will be sweating until their needs some to their navel to their belly button and some will go
all the way to their nose and some will be drowning with a sweat. On the day. Our caller will call
under the order of lots of panel data. When everybody around is silent to Allah said no wisdom. What
is he saying? He said, Leah common
		
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			agenda, whomever the reward is on a law let them enter gender and a group of people they walk and
the origin
		
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			one more time. Will you notice any a second time? LEAH Coleman kana drew Allah
		
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			The one who the reward is on a lot let them intergender the people asked Who are those whom the
reward is in general. Who are those? They are? Alas funa and in US law, those who forgive the
people.
		
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			It's still hard headed. Is your heart still stiff after all that
		
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			panel. They go to general and what's even mind boggling and even more amazing. They will go to Jenna
Bella. He said
		
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			They will go to dinner without any question or judgment. No question. no judgment, right two
gentlemen, just for forgiving. Just for someone who wronged you over dunia there is a disgusting
dunya for dunya there is no even waiting a wing of a mosquito, you will enter everlasting
continuously increasing happiness, ultimate happiness in general, for something even equal to being
a fly, third and last in terms of value and reward, and this is my favorite and dearest to me.
		
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			Allah subhanho wa Taala says in the verse and verse starts
		
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			dummy
		
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			those who suppress their anger not suppression that
		
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			kind of suppression no no no no, I mean a life means you suppress the anger in a way that the one in
front of you does not know you're angry
		
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			one more time I'll remain alive those who suppress their anger in a way that you cannot tell they're
angry that Allah says what else when last seen on in and those who forgive the people Allah What
will you give us what's in return what will happen? law who you have bulletin more singing no
translation you will know what has heavy been in what heavy means right and cultural with no howdini
you will be a lot heavier.
		
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			You will be a lot Habibi. In our terms I will say what law you have seen. And if Allah loves you,
what in the world matters after that. If Allah loves you, then what is it that you feel? If Allah
loves you, then Who in the world would dare to harm you? If Allah loves you, then how in the world
you will not experience happiness in this life and the hereafter? If Allah loves you, what else in
the world matters? will love
		
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			me Allah Subhana Allah make us amongst the ones whom he loves me.
		
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			I mean, I mean,
		
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			brothers, you know the difference between those who forgive and those who do not forgive, you would
notice a difference. Those who do not forgive, they keep holding it in their hearts. And many times
it serves as a barrier between them and moving forward in their life in their future is like a
barrier. So that girl who I told you about that got hurt, she'll say I will never get married
anymore. Why? I don't want to ever get married. I want to kill myself Why? There is a big difference
between those who forgive and those who do not forgive. I would like to illustrate this to you
physically and see those who do not forgive brothers and sisters
		
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			as if they carrying a very very heavy bag literally speaking and because so used to it that they can
no longer think about the way they have on their shoulders.
		
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			They take it easy forgive No no, no, stop, stop. You're not forgiving. It's gonna it's gonna it's
like you stopping and if you can move forward, you have so much potential move forward than
		
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			the weight and then forget about the weight on the shoulders. Hardly moving. so angry You can see in
their faces when they meet the other person who they have ill feelings towards. You see that like
not smiling, no Salah no nothing. Destroying the relationship Why? Why over what should What should
we do? We should empty that back. The point of this talk is to empty the bag and had you face
something like that to make sure you're equipped with knowledge with a man to push it away and
forgive. So inshallah we're gonna get rid of garbage bin together in sha Allah is a bit heavy. Just
make dogs
		
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			Don't get ripped apart.
		
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			If the garbage bin breaks out, buy a new one some okay?
		
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			They get a promise we forgive
		
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			shala I guess right to forgive,
		
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			no matter what they've done
		
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			no matter what they've done. So you grab
		
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			that bag
		
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			and shall after the stock you say Oh Allah, even during the talk of Allah I forgive anyone that
wronged me. And you open that dark memories which you have, and the ugly imagery in your mind to
start taking
		
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			a new graduate.
		
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			This is the
		
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			the bad memories you've had with the friends when he when that guy was driving and he cut in front
of you in the highway, you remember? And you cursed at him and you hated him and he wished that he
was special. Remember, sister that girl that something bad about you on Twitter and Facebook? I will
never forget her No, get her for what she's done. No, no, no, no, no, you forgive. You're a Muslim,
you're a believer. You grab this and you throw it right there.
		
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			You forgive.
		
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			There's still some weight. It's a little heavier.
		
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			Yes. This is the ill feelings you have with your relatives and family. This is serious. Forgive
every single relative that is around you. Forgive them for not calling you when they traveled
overseas. Forgive them for not replying to your emails or through your phone calls. Forgive them if
they took some of the will of your father when he passed away. And you're so angry. No, forgive them
forgive the secret rights, but don't have any ill feeling and throw it away.
		
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			Will law he will lie. The moment you do that. It will be so nice and relaxing. You can walk always
like this. Keep it open. Anyone that wrongs you just empty, empty forgive. And so late that I can't
even know that I'm having a backup on me. The big difference big difference between those who
forgive and those who did not forgive me a lot of parent Allah, soften our hearts and make us
amongst those who forgive See, I mean, I mean,
		
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			why would some people not forgive Why? I just mentioned two reasons.
		
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			Sometimes you know why we don't forgive. And the people know that that problem is so trivial and so
small, that they're shy to talk about it.
		
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			lukwago is not talking together. about why because it's so shy because it's embarrassing for how
tiny The problem is. So why they don't forgive for a disease in the heart
		
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			for disease in the heart, arrogance. stubbornness, I don't see Sorry, no, no, no, I don't say sorry.
No, no, no, she comes to me, but you're wrong.
		
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			And you know, sometimes heart diseases are worse than physical outside external diseases. So lies
are lies. So salami said
		
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			men can beam if
		
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			a person with an atom weight of ariens just a tiny bit that your naked eye cannot see any the
microscope you had this much arrogance in your heart. You want to androgen
		
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			stubbornness, envy and jealousy and worrying about your reputation. No, I can't forgive Why? Because
I'm such and such. Like who for example.
		
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			The uncle offers a license.
		
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			Key defend the profit so much the profit loved him. He was at such an amazing person.
		
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			The professor I sell them when I was dying question. The double top diet as a Muslim or a Catherine.
Catherine question. You're right.
		
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			Did he believe that he was a prophet?
		
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			He did.
		
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			But he did not practice it. So he refused to be a Muslim.
		
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			What happened? But so life lesson and memorize this.
		
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			He told his uncle qu la ilaha illAllah Kula Illa Illa de si, si le analysts all we have to say, and
I'll take care of the rest to see Layla llama. Just say that. That's it. That's all we have to say.
What was his response? He said Lola and to irony. If it wasn't that Quraysh will make fun of me that
Oh, he's about to die. That's what he said.
		
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			If it wasn't that they would say that about me. I would have said it. Welcome to behind. And that
would have made you happy. He knew this is the right message. But because of the ego lalala I can't
let people think I'm weak. There'll be strong till I die. I will not.
		
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			Watch if it's a heart disease MC Dr. McDonald, Allah subhanaw taala he keeps purifies our hearts. I
mean, may Allah Subhana Allah cleanse our hearts and every disease. I mean, terrible irony. For
another reason, sometimes the shavon regime, whispers in your ears and he tells you, you would
forgive that person. After all what they've done to you.
		
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			Are you going to forgive that person?
		
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			You know what happens if you forgive them? They will do it again. Don't you think like that
sometimes, if you forgive that person know what will happen, people will make fun of you know what
happened if you forgive that person, people will have the feeling of authority to do it one more
time to you, even others who never dare to do something to you, the moment they see that you forgive
someone else they say, why not? Let me do it as well to them. So I tell you see,
		
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			all of us
		
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			from the heart genre deem me avoid a time rather me at the righteous animal through life. And listen
to these beautiful incidents, and after the stories we will conclude and shall
		
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			look at our man been offended a lot. that's never been a fan he used to say I still feel
		
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			in control and I seek Allah's forgiveness if I ever wronged anyone, on love forgive me if I ever
wronged anyone
		
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			to include to violence.
		
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			And I forgive anyone had they oppressed me look at them mentality, look at the facts.
		
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			Look in Abu hanifa may Allah have mercy upon him. Mr. Abu hanifa has over 86,000 factoids ocean of
knowledge until today, continents follow the opinion of Mr. hanifa.
		
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			One time a man came from an ignorant man a loser who think that he can imitate those believers with
knowledge. He came in you told them Your mom is such and such. Your mom is such and such. With Abu
hanifa do. Did he hit him back? Did he use this friendship and those who are falling and Go and Kill
him? What did he do? Did he do like some people in our time, especially amongst the youth, you would
open a Facebook page titling it. Let's knock out such and such person and you will curse him all
over through the page. What would they do? What would he do? You know what he did? Look at this. Is
it Allah knows. My mom is not like what you said.
		
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			The guys I got so irritated, angry. He told him Yeah, he has Indian.
		
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			He said you have fat. You evil. Do you have capital to Eman Abu hanifa
		
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			with a doubleheader, like oh, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, can you push the line button?
Okay, you called me a caffeine. What does that mean? Yo, guys, go kill this guy. Go put him in jail.
How about you pay a penalty do this.
		
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			Anyway, he said, Look at his humbleness. Look at the understanding of the deen of a believer. He
said Oh Allah.
		
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			If I was like what he said, then please forgive me.
		
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			Oh Allah if I was like what he said, Please forgive me. And if I wasn't like what he said and he was
lying, then Oh Allah, please. Forgive.
		
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			Do you think him saying that? humiliated de
		
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			la hate the owner
		
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			will lie saying sorry. And saying Allah forgive me if I'm wrong, someone and apologizing to someone
will lie. It honors you will lie you will lie. It honors you saying sorry. It's an honor. And only
the arrogant refused say sorry.
		
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			Look at who look at a story. By the way, some people you know what happens throughout this talk
right now, some people I hope no one is here. Like, I hope no one is watching that. It's like that.
Some people they say my problem is bigger than all of them, which you've mentioned. My problem is
bigger brother. They destroyed my life. They destroyed my family. They destroyed everything around
me everything that I love
		
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			by
		
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			the Lord who was amongst his daughters very famous name.
		
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			amongst his daughters were
		
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			on the lawn.
		
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			amongst his relatives of very poor weak relative Muslims have been affected.
		
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			When the rumor was spread the SME Allah be pleased by her. She was accused of committing Zina.
		
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			And Allah has faded into the norm cleared out, she's innocent, and whip those who lied.
		
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			When the rumor was being spread, guess who agreed with it misidentified?
		
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			That man who's a relative to it relative to what's even more interesting
		
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			is to give him monthly allowance used to pay him. And because it was so angry, I want you guys
before even moving any further. I know it hurts. But please, just for the sake of living what we're
seeing. Now. This is not a presentation that we've wasted our Friday. We're like no, no, you need to
feel into live we asked a lot to make this a life changing talk, by the way,
		
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			will accept us as people who give righteous advices and those who accept advice. I mean
		
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			imagine someone goes around
		
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			And he grabs the microphone in the masjid.
		
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			And he says calls you by name.
		
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			Oh, so and so.
		
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			Oh people you know this man, his wife slept with another guy. Please live it please imagine
		
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			imagine oh you know such and such person. His daughter committed Zina with the guy from high school.
		
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			Please imagine you walked and he saw the poster of your wife on the Billboard, and someone accusing
her running, typing things out that she did such and such, which is innocent. I asked you by Allah,
how would you react? Well, why would you think twice before killing him? Killing him?
		
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			obika understood what Islam means. abubaker understood what the deen means.
		
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			They understood what the dunya is really how valuable it is. He was so angry. No, he said, One llahi
I will no longer give him his monthly allowance.
		
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			That's it. I will no longer give him his monthly allowance.
		
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			Then Allah subhana wa Taala revealed the verse, Allah Subhana Allah says
		
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			Don't you wish Don't you love that allowed differ give you a question I'm asking a question.
Wouldn't you love the Allah to forgive you? Allah says Allah to have buena de la hola como. Allah
says in conclusion, while la
		
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			Rahim Allah is the most forgiving, the Most Merciful, immediately. Immediately. He said, Bella,
Bella would have been our head. Yes, Allah. Yes, I love Yes, I love for you to forgive me. Yes. Then
he says, Well, I
		
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			will I will never stop giving Mr his monthly allowance.
		
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			Is your problem bigger than that?
		
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			Is your problem bigger than that? It is, then how can I dare
		
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			to conclude our speech, without mentioning the leader of all those who forgive? who is
		
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			who is the leader of examples also like some Eliasson.
		
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			Before even moving on the story, realize the first few words a Jewish lady from the hood.
		
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			She knew the Prophet likes certain pieces of the Hello for the sheep or the meat.
		
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			She puts poison in that part. She delivered it to the profits of life, eat enjoy the profits of life
and eats, bite, you breathe he sent me he says jasola stop eating stop eating. It's poison. It's
poison. Some people have actually died from the poison.
		
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			But this is in perhaps a different narration. And this one the Prophet ate from the meat. And then
jabril came he said, Stop stop.
		
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			This poison the prophet SAW said when he ordered that let that Jewish lady come to me, Britain here
to me. She was brought to the province of ISIS. He asked her why did you do that?
		
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			She said to the doctor that
		
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			I went to kill you.
		
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			A Jewish lady poisoned the meat to kill the prophet and she said in his face our to the
		
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			the promise that you will not be able to do that. Allah will not let you do that. That's a habit
also Allah and Allah. Should we kill her?
		
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			What would you guys think the answer is? Should we kill her? No enemy will ever disagree with that.
Judgment. Isn't that right? No friend, no enemy no one will say Oh, how did the Prophet do such
thing? That's very bad. No, no, no Allah. No one would disagree with the Prophet saying, nah, nah,
no, don't
		
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			shoot to kill the Prophet with his sisters. He said no longer.
		
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			A Jewish lady. The last story when mentioned a story that my mind cannot comprehend. Is that more
than the Jewish lady more than a Jewish lady?
		
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			Who is the worst of people who is what's the worst category of human beings? What's the worst
category? What's
		
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			the worst category of human beings who are they?
		
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			Who are they? Good?
		
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			Try
		
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			sitting in
		
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			Abuja, actually very close, but give me a give me a description. Like just a title.
		
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			Come on with us. Okay, I mean, easy. The easy is the question. Does anyone know the answer? Don't be
humble answer. Don't be shy. If it's wrong, no problem.
		
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			Who is in the lowest level and how
		
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			Find the lowest and He's the worst person ever for a 30 minute nap.
		
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			Excellent.
		
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			Actually, we mentioned the name, but it's the description is the hypocrite so when I
		
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			look at this, so not a regular munaf rather
		
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			Rasulullah Hakim, the head of all the hypocrites Abdullah the OB Insider.
		
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			When he passed away the Prophet was told Abdullah in the vein cellule passed away with the Prophet
		
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			hypocrites.
		
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			The Bible was brought. So Lysa, Lottie was alum, he went to prison as on him.
		
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			Now you will realize what I'm talking about.
		
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			Came in front of the Prophet. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, you're not doing this. You're not praying.
He had to be soldering.
		
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			It's just
		
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			too sunny. You're afraid to live and obey.
		
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			You Metallica was an added method and continue to mention to the prophet and remind him What did
Abdullah do?
		
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			Let me mention three things that he did really quick. You did a lot worse than that. But just three
quick things. When they went to the Battle of battle of Orford,
		
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			Abdullah bin obey the leader of the hypocrites, he was leading a kind of group of the army of the
Muslims. And as the better was approaching, Abdullah bin obey, he returned back to Medina with one
third of the army. How painful is that? What would the US government do if a soldier would do such
thing against the army? You guys know the answer.
		
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			One third, not two people 2001 third, took back and head back to Medina. One more.
		
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			One time when you were coming back from a battle
		
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			of the loving obey. He said
		
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			in Raja and Eden Medina will we come back to Medina
		
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			region assuming
		
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			meenie
		
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			miney.
		
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			Moe,
		
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			those who are dignified, will kick out those who are humiliated. What does he mean? That he's
dignified, and also like his own was humiliated?
		
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			And you want the peak of the things that he has done? You know, who began that rumor that SME lobby
is by her she actually did something wrong with another man, who was the one that flamed this
gossip, and made it spread around who and no one who initiated Abdullah, who is is the wife of
Rasulullah, Salah, and who is praying who's leading the
		
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			pursuit of life as a
		
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			story. He says, as I was speaking for Kenya,
		
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			unbelievable.
		
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			He was smiling. The Prophet As I was saying, all this stuff was made.
		
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			I thought, am I done?
		
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			Are you done?
		
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			The Prophet told us that Allah says in the Quran, la kennela confero swla.
		
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			He's a role model for everyone who wants a lot and the pleasure of Allah and genuine happiness. He's
a role model. For so life's lesson. He said a hard
		
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			time. You've delayed the genetic,
		
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			Emma due diligence.
		
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			He said, Yeah, in fact, I was given two options and I chose one option over the other. He said,
Allah said in the Quran.
		
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			The Prophet said, Allah gave me the option.
		
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			And he said, Well, I had I know that Allah would accept me seeking Allah forgiveness on Abdullah, if
I went to over 70, I would have done it.
		
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			Unbelievable.
		
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			So then he moved, and he prayed the naza and Abdullah and then after some time, not too long after
that, Allah revealed the verse, whether to suddenly and don't prey on those hypocrites. Well,
suddenly Allah had me no matter. Don't ever pray under Manasa again in your life, and we are not at
a stage
		
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			To call who's a hypocrite and who is not was only the prophet who was able to do that.
		
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			So after all of this,
		
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			you know, problem bigger than this. What else do you want? In conclusion? I mentioned two things in
conclusion. Number one, if this talk doesn't apply to you, and be thankful that have someone wronged
you and hamdulillah
		
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			but please do me a favor.
		
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			If I were to upload this video, Allah knows best, then share it with your friends. And I'm sure you
know someone that has this, I'm sure I'm sure. I'm sure you know someone.
		
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			And there's no harm in lying. You can only lie in three situations and one of them is bringing two
people together. We can go to one person and say, for example, let's say up the line that needs for
example, my friend here we can pick on them a little bit. Let's say you had a fight as Abdullah
Abdullah as he says they sorry but he's so shy to approach and say sorry, he will light up the low
light that says magic Did he really say that? in reality he did not say that. But he just he did
light up the load soften inside the colors outcome for the other ladies that the law they hug each
other Nick reconcile the promise that this is not a lie. This is not a lie. Do it? Do it then
		
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			remember? Not a lie. And had you been exposed?
		
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			Oh, I didn't say that. I was
		
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			angry. Tell him I just found the Center for some lesson. And they will understand and they didn't
understand. Don't worry about it. Since a large piece by you
		
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			in and the last thing that said two points in conclusion, one is done the last one.
		
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			Please forgive. Please have the heart to forgive.
		
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			If you want a loan that is on you to be elevated. If you want a sickness in your family to be
vanished if you want someone to have a happy life within your family if you yourself want a better
life, or life or give the promises and said Sana and maruf Ducky Masada so we do good. Allah
protects you from evil ending your life. You have a beautiful ending, forgive, forgive brothers and
sisters and Allah will forgive you forgive and you're rewarded who Allah forgive and Allah will love
you. And if Allah loves you, then what else in the world matters? Does that qualify for listening?
males can die rewarded hamdulillah was actually listening 15 minutes at hamdulillah May Allah reward
		
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			you for coming. I hope this was of a benefit to you. If you have any advice, please let me know.
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