Khalid Latif – The Prophet Muhammad Love for Others What You Love for Yourself

Khalid Latif
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The importance of love in religion is discussed, as it is crucial to enter Jannah and personal choice. The speaker emphasizes the need to love people and not just for others, and to be in a community of love and values. The importance of understanding one's actions and intentions is also emphasized, and the speakers provide framework narratives for practice. The speakers stress the importance of valuing one's actions and finding their own happiness, while also emphasizing the importance of practice and mindful of one's actions.
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In the name of Allah, the gracious, the

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merciful,

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all praise is due to Allah, the lord

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of the universe, the master of the day

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of judgment.

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I bear witness and testimony to the oneness

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of Allah,

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to his magnificence,

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his omnipotence, his might, his glory,

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to his being the creator and sustainer of

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all things,

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the giver of life, the guider of hearts,

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the master of the day of judgment.

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And I bear witness to the fact that

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Muhammad ibn Abdulla

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al Nabiullah wasalam,

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his servant and final messenger.

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May the peace and blessings of Allah be

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upon him

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and upon all those who choose to tread

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in his path until the last day.

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Within the Sunni tradition of Islam, there are

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numerous books of hadith

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that give us accounts

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of the actions, the sayings, and the tacit

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approval of the prophet Muhammad salallahu ta'ala alaihi

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wasallam.

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That if he did something, he said to

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do something, or he saw you do something,

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he didn't say don't do that.

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A most robust

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genre of literature that we have as a

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primary source of law within our religion

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that gives us inclusive of, but also beyond

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understandings

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of practice and ritual,

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and even more so

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ideals,

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ethics,

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values. Just how to conduct ourselves and how

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to be.

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Within a course of study many people will

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get exposed to 6 major canonical texts. The

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Sahis Sitta as they are called.

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And many of us are familiar with 2

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of them.

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The Sahih collections of Imam Bukhari and Imam

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Muslim. May Allah's mercy be upon them both.

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We have also that of

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Imam Tirmidhi and Nisayi ibn Majah,

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and then the 6th which is the Sunan

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of Abu Dawood.

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And in this entire compilation

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of the Sunan of Abu Dawood,

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the author Abu Dawood himself, he

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says that of this text if there are

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4

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hadith,

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that if one was to have insight and

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intelligence on those it would suffice them.

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Last week we looked at 2 of those

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hadith, the first of which he says

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of

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making up a fourth of what this deen

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is about, Inamal Amalu Baniyad, that indeed actions

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are by their intentions.

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And then the second he says,

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that from the beauty of one's

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deen

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That he leaves behind what does not concern

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him. Meaning that you mind your business.

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And today we wanted to continue with looking

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at the remaining 2 hadith. Each one arguably

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that Imam Abu Dawood is saying, Rahimullah,

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if you were to have insight into these,

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if you were to have a deep reflection

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upon them,

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they, the 4 of them by themselves

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make the foundation.

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They teach you everything you need to know

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about this religion.

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The 3rd hadith that he notes within these

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4,

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he says,

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la yukminuwarhadakum,

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this hadith.

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La yukminuwarhadakum

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hadza yuhibbalyaqihima

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yuhibbalinafsi.

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That not any one of you will have

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iman belief

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until you love for your brother what you

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love for yourself.

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May Allah make us people of sound iman,

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sound faith.

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The idea that this now can encompass a

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quarter of the Hadith,

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Literature in meaning. A quarter of what this

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tradition is about.

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Abu Dawood, he indicates this Hadith amongst the

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4

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distinct from the other 3 that he mentions

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that quite often other scholars like Imam Bukhari

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would say

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everything in this deen is attributed to 3

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hadith.

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Abu Dawood adds this one as a 4th.

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That you love

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for your brother what you love for yourself.

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When we start to think about what this

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Hadith means, primarily we want to not think

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that there's anything without meaning in Allah's plan

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and anything without meaning by virtue of Allah's

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plan in what the messenger salallahu alaihi wasallam

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has to say.

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Imam in and of itself is an integral

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condition

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for your entrance into Jannah. May Allah make

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us all people of paradise,

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And if you want to have an iman

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that's complete,

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not an iman that exists, but one that

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is complete, you gotta love people.

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I was in Texas giving a chutba shortly

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after I'd returned back from Myanmar. May Allah

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make things easy for our brothers and sisters

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facing genocide there at the Rohingya.

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And as I was telling people about what

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it was like to be on the ground

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amongst individuals

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who exist in 1,000,000 as refugees,

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I cited this hadith

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with the addition of commentary from Imam Nawi,

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whose

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40 Hadith collection,

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Muslims study across ideological

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perspectives.

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And Imam Nawi,

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when he does commentary on this hadith, he

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says the word brother is not in reference

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to your brother in faith, but your brother

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in humanity.

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That you just love people.

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And there was a man that came up

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to me afterwards, not to stereotype him, but

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he looked like somebody who went to Jummah

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for his whole life.

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And we sat down and we had a

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conversation and he says to me, I have

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never heard anybody say that as Muslims,

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we're just supposed to love people.

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And he wasn't trying to be antagonistic, he

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was trying to understand.

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And we talked for about 20, 30 minutes

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going back and forth on this conversation, and

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he would say, well, what about this verse?

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And I would say, well, what does the

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Quran say here?

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And trying to just think deeply about this

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person who is in his fifties, sixties, if

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he even started to go to Jummah when

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he was 20 years of age, exposed to

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30 minutes a week of some type of

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content

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rooted in religious discussion

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over the course of a year. 26

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hours

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in every decade, 260.

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Nobody ever told him that you're supposed to

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love people as a Muslim?

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And I want you to think about it.

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For within yourself, when you get exposed to

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deen and people start to teach you about

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this religion, and what they give to you

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of it. Because our prophet

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alaihi wa sallam he says,

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that I was sent to perfect

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ethical conduct.

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The mode in which one gauges the state

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of their heart is not based off of

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how it is that they perform and posture

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prayers in terms of precision of practice,

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but you want to know the state of

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your heart, you see how you treat people.

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You want to know what state your heart

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is, look at the decisions you make and

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the decisions you don't make.

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Look at how it is that you talk

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to those that you could fully get away

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with doing nothing for. Those who have no

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consideration in being able to uphold the rights

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that you have over them because they come

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from a different power dynamic. When you walk

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down the street, do you come into the

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place of prayer? Do you give salams to

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everybody or just the people that share race

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and ethnicity with you? When you sit in

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your home and you eat a meal or

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you try to determine for yourself who you

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will pray behind and who you will not

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pray behind. Who is your children allowed to

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interact with, and who are your children not

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interacting with? Who do you give your zagat

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to? And do you even give your zakat

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at all?

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Love is the basis of all of it.

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And you can't say that in this religion,

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love is not an integral value because it's

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not somebody wretched like me. Your prophet is

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saying you're not going to have complete iman

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until you love people.

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And you start to think deeply,

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how how can you love somebody that you

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don't spend time with?

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How can you love somebody when the only

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time you interact with them is with stereotypes

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of them?

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How can you love somebody if you just

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sit by yourself and you only take care

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of you?

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Not any one of you, the prophet says

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is going to have iman.

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Until,

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that means that that's something that's there until

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you're hibba, you love for

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your brother, ma your hibbu, what you love

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for yourself.

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Do you believe

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that somebody

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just because they share humanity with you

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is somebody that is deserving of your Mahaba.

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If I was to even ask you what

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does the word love mean? What would you

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say?

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Because how can you aspire towards harnessing something

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that has ambiguity to it?

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The way you know 2 +2 equals 4

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concretely, and conceptually you can even understand that

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it equals 4. Yeah. The way that I

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can say to you a word like

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Zoom or live stream, and collectively have a

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common definition

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that doesn't have ambiguity,

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everybody will know what we're talking about.

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When I say to a word like mercy,

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what does it mean?

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When I say forgiveness,

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integrity, honesty, what does it mean?

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When I say compassion,

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justice, what does it mean?

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When I say love, what does it mean?

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The Bedouin comes to the prophet sallallahu alaihi

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wasallam, and when the Bedouins come to speak

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to the prophet, it's different from the way

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the other companions speak to the prophet of

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God.

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You have those who are from the Sahaba

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who live within the confines and proximity of

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the prophet, and

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of hadith where Benwin come to the prophet

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam and they ask questions

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and they say, oh Mohammed, teach me something.

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They're not outside of the fold of the

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community. They're coming from a different place, and

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the prophet still talks to them.

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The Bedouin man comes and asks the prophet

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sallallahu alaihi wasallam in terms of the hour,

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in terms of what's coming next. The prophet

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sallallahu alaihi wasallam asks him what is it

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that you have prepared for it? And he

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says, I don't really pray so much.

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I don't really do too much of the

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things that we're supposed to do,

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but I love Allah and His Messenger.

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And your prophet

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says to him, almalumma amal ahab, that a

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person is going to be with the ones

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that they love. May Allah make us from

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amongst those who are with the beloved of

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Allah and the highest level of Jannah in

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the world beyond this one.

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If you don't start thinking about what you

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love, and who you love, and why you

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love it, it doesn't mean that you don't.

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And if you're spending time with people who

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outwardly express something, but inwardly they do not

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embody the sunnah in any which way,

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They're confining deen to a place that becomes

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suffocating, weaponizing it in a way that pushes

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people out as opposed to bringing them in.

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They're not giving you an insight about iman

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that is tangible and robust and relevant that

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isn't just about theory or abstract doctrine that

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says to you, what does it mean a

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throne of God or a hand of God?

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Here the messenger of God is saying your

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iman necessitates

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loving people.

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And in numerous hadith,

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in numerous verses of the Quran,

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When Abirullah talks about those that he loves

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amongst creation,

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he's talking about humans.

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How can you say this religion

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doesn't have something to do with love?

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How can you be in a place where

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you practice it for years, decades,

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give it to generations that come after those

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who look up to you. That have responsibility

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from you to give them the religion on

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a whole. Not just pieces of it, but

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all aspects of it.

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And you engage on a day of reflection

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and reflection and contemplation.

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Do I love people that are different from

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me?

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Because there's a lot of people in this

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world who don't.

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There's a lot of people who don't want

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to be connected to people. They come from

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a different class.

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There's a lot of people who don't want

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to be connected to people that come from

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a different race or culture.

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There's a lot of people who they don't

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love other people.

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They justify and validate the mistreatment

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of others, intellectualizing

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people's struggles, and the question is not meant

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to be rhetorical, but you gotta ask it

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in this question is not meant to be

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rhetorical, but you gotta ask it in this

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world, otherwise you're gonna be asked about it

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in the world beyond this one, Where is

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love in all of this?

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And what's getting in the way is what

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your heart is attached to. I love you

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so much.

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This is my son in a Hawaiian shirt.

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My shirt.

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Do you tell young people that you love

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them?

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You can ask my son. You can ask

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my daughter. I tell them multiple times a

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day that I love them,

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because I do love them.

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If you don't tell the kids in your

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life you love them, you're not honoring the

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rights that they have over you.

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And you can make justifications and validations about

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culture and this and that. It's wrong.

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If the expressions are more negative, you highlight

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what is irritating and frustrating. You give a

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reason for a socialization

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that yields a perspective

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shirk. Ego centricity,

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that it's me and everything revolves around me.

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Not that Allah is at the center, I'm

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at the center.

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You guys just think about it.

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What does it look like healthy love?

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And sometimes you can understand what something is

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by understanding what it's not.

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And if you have obstacles built up within

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your heart

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because of people that did not express it

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to you, that did not show it to

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you. You have to make a determination that

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ensures that it doesn't continue generationally.

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The heart's function is just to love.

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And just because you love something doesn't mean

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it's good for you.

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The people that you spend time with, just

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because you think that it makes sense to

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spend time with them.

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Do you want to be with people in

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the world beyond this one where they will

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be who justify

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mis treating people based off of what?

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Do you want to be in a place

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where your eternity is spent in company of

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who?

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And the Bedouin who's telling the prophet, I

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don't do so much in terms of these

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prayers, but I love Allah, and I love

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Allah's messenger, the

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love. So you're going to be with the

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ones that you love.

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Why would you want to be with the

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people who are racist? Stop loving them.

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Why would you want to be with the

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ones who colonized your people? Stop seeking validation

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from them.

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Why would you want to be with the

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one who rise themselves and elevate themselves by

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denigrating others? Your prophet had companions who struggled

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with things. If the people that you interact

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with look for every reason as to why

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they can say somebody else is a bad

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Muslim, why would you want to love those

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people

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In the way that you would want to

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be with them in the world beyond this

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one.

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When your prophet loves people so much that

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he's constantly thinking of others.

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Selflessness

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is an integral part to love.

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Sacrifice

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is an integral part to love.

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You have to get up and know why

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you do what you do and who it

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is that you do it for, and when

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you can find your heart attached to people,

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a community, individuals.

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If I have to sit and make a

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determination, if I'm going to give in to

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my nafs and engage in haram, am I

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going to move forward in doing something that

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gives me simple satisfaction.

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I think of the blessing of a child

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that I love, that Allah has given to

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me. I think of my wife, their mother,

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who I'm so in love with. I think

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about a community that I have a deep

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love and attachment to, that I would never

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put myself in a place where the dignity

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of my dua gets soiled because I'm thinking

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of myself before those that I love.

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If I enjoy the safety that I have,

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the sanctuary that I have, the health insurance

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that I have, the comfort that I have,

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my love for people is that I want

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them to have this also.

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If I truly understand it as Anetma, a

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gift, a blessing, the idea is not for

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me to get mine and get mine alone.

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Even after the prophet leaves from this world,

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when everybody's thinking about themselves, he's thinking about

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others.

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On the day of judgment when we stand

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in front of Allah

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the individuals who stand on that day will

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all be saying nafsi nafsi, myself, myself.

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The prophet said to him, he tells

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that

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it's gonna be a day of chaos, people

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will be standing with nothing on ankle deep,

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knee deep, up to their chins in their

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own perspiration.

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He says,

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how can it be when the men and

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women look at one another and he says,

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yeah, she's he says, you Aisha, Ashanti al

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Din Adalik, it'll be more severe than that.

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They'll go to the likes of Adam alaihis

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salaam seeking intercession, and Adam alaihis salaam will

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say, Allah is angrier today than he has

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ever been, and he is more angry today

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than he will ever be. I have to

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think for myself. How can I intercede for

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you?

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Each and every individual saying

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myself myself.

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Because there's only one owner of that day,

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one master of that day, one possessor of

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that day. That is Allah Azel himself. You

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and I won't even have clothes to wear.

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And in the midst of all of it,

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one voice is going to be saying,

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my ummah, my ummah. And that is the

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prophet Muhammad salallahu alaihi wasallam

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still thinking about others before he thinks of

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himself.

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Your fudger is not your fudger.

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Your fudger is for all of us.

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How you dress is not for you, how

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you dress impacts all of us.

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The food that you eat, that's not just

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about you and your stomach, it impacts all

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of us. The mode in which you engage

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in the permissible and

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enter Allah, then you assume also

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When you center Allah,

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then you assume also that we exist in

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a sphere of interdependence.

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Other parts to this hadith that are important

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to understand,

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the prophet salallahu alaihi wasalam is not saying

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that the basis of your relationship should be

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jealousy,

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animosity,

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greed,

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envy,

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anger,

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pain.

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It shouldn't be arrogance. It shouldn't be ignorance.

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But he's saying you should love each other.

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That's what your bond should be built off

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of.

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You should have Mahaba.

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And your iman

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necessitates it as your iman wants completion or

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you want completion of your faith.

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Like so many things in this religion,

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you don't have to buy into it for

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it to be true.

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But at some point you have to sit

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and think to yourself, what does all of

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this mean?

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What keeps me from being there for others?

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Can we have everybody move in close, please?

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If you could fill up any of the

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carpet that's in front of you. For the

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sisters also, if you could fill in any

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gaps in front of you, behind you, we'd

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appreciate it. Still a lot of people that

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are gonna be coming in. And the live

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stream rooms are also overflowing downstairs. So any

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room we can make, we'd appreciate it.

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I asked my daughter, do you think people

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are gonna come to Jumma today? And she

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said, yeah. They don't have anything better to

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do.

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And I said, what do you mean? And

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she said, yeah. They just wanna, you know,

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they have time to spare.

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I said, you're making me feel amazing. She's

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like, no, no. And then that was it.

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Think of this hadith in reference to the

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other 2 hadith also that Abu Dawood Rahmullah

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says, make up the 4 of them everything

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this deen is about.

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Your actions are by intentions.

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If I do for you just because I

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love for you, it's very different than if

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I do for you because I want you

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to do something in return for me.

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But when there's love,

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I'm not doing so that you owe me

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something. I'm just doing because I want to

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do it.

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That from the beauty of one's Islam is

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that they leave behind that which does not

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concern them.

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And when I have love for you, it

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helps me understand what should concern me.

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I should be concerned whether there's food in

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your stomach or not. I should be concerned

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whether you have

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ability to be taken care of when you're

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sick.

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New York City is a lonely place, man.

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May Allah make it easy.

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You know how much

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it must be for so many of us?

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Do you sit in your home alone

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and nobody is helping you when you're

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ill? How can you have a 1000000 muslims

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that call this city their home?

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And there's anybody that would ever feel alone.

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The 4th hadith that Abu Dawood

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mentions now as the base of everything that

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one would need from this compilation.

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And this 4th hadith is mentioned quite often

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as a 3rd hadith by other scholars. Imam

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Bukhari, for example, mentions 3, and this is

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the 3rd that he mentions.

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And this hadith that begins al halalu bayin

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wal haramu bayin, that the halal is clear

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and the haram is clear.

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And then between these two things are doubtful

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matters.

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And he says of these doubtful matters, salallahu

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alayhi wa sallam, there's not a lot of

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people who know about them.

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The admonition comes to then refrain from engaging

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within the doubtful realm.

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And he says that for those who would

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approach that which is doubtful, he gives the

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parable of a shepherd that grazes near the

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sanctuary of a king,

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Saying that the shepherd

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essentially

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is going to keep the livestock from

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getting

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towards that which is not their land to

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graze on.

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And the imagery that's evoked it is the

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more you get close to it, you're gonna

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transgress.

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And what the hadith says quite explicitly

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is that

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the kingdom, the sanctuary

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of Allah

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are the Maharam,

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these limits, these boundaries that he set for

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us.

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And then the hadith that ends and says,

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That indeed in your jesset there's a morsel

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of flesh. If it is good, the entire

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being is good. If it is not good,

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the entire being is not good. Indeed it's

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your heart.

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Words have meanings in our religion.

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Something isn't haram just because you don't like

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it.

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Something is haram because it has definitive

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text and meaning

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that indicates that it is haram.

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The entire spectrum through which all actions can

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be engaged

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necessitates

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understanding

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at a foundational level what these words mean,

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and what the implications

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are.

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Halal principally

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is something that is applicable

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to everything in matters that are mundane.

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Other than if somebody can tell you why

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there's a basis that it's not permitted.

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So if you're gonna tell me I can't

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eat something, or I can't listen to something,

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or I can't utilize something in a certain

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way,

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the default is that everything is permissible unless

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it is deemed to be impermissible

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in these categories.

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And then it's contrary in matters of worship.

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That if you want to tell me that

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something is the way we are supposed to

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worship,

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the default is that it is impermissible

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unless there's a reason to say that this

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is what is permitted.

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For everything that is deemed to be impermissible

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within the course of our day to day

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interactions with this world, there are literally tens

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of thousands of things that are rendered permissible.

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If you can't drink one thing, there are

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thousands of things you can drink.

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If you can't eat one thing, there are

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thousands of things that you can eat.

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The notion that is there even within an

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Adamic narrative of creation

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that Adam Alaihi Salam is created and the

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that it entices him with is one tree

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that he's told to not engage in a

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sea of trees. You know how you know

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it's a sea of trees? That's why it's

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called Junda. It's called Junda because it's got

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the same root as Jin. That there's so

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many trees that when you're standing at the

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base of the forest looking up, you can't

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see anything because of how many trees there

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are. Or if you're above the forest looking

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down, there's nothing other than trees. Everything is

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hidden.

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Just don't eat from 1.

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But there's so much more that you could

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take from.

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And this is the fundamental

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idea.

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The paradigm shift

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rooted in the heart that is the governing

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force in the body that the hadith concludes

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with.

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How you see things will tell you about

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yourself.

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And trying to think and understand, well, where

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does some of this come from?

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When something is haram,

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it's haram. There's no ifs, ands, or buts

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about it.

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If you don't fulfill a father, that's haram.

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That's how the Akkam work.

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There's no intellectualizing

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of it.

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If something is permissible,

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it doesn't mean you have to do it.

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And quite often,

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the idea that it's simply permissible,

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doesn't mean that it always makes sense to

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do. There has to be ethics that are

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understood.

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Is it most sensible in the situation that

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I'm in?

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Most people don't turn to haram because they're

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bad people.

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Most people turn to haram because there's an

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absence of community support and structures.

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A lot of people carry a lot of

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pain.

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They get numbed inside. And the same thing

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we said before, the bedouin comes and I

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love Allah and his messenger. The companion

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has a struggle with alcohol drinking. And when

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he takes the had punishment,

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the prophet speaks to the others who speak

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poorly of him for his drinking habits, and

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says don't say such things,

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he loves Allah and his messenger.

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How are you helping

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believe that they have no place in a

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relationship

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with

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God.

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And where and how do you not weaponize

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or utilize

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in ways that become overtly reductive and make

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no sense?

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The kind of things people have said to

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me are haram that have no bearing of

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actually being haram. Just because they don't know

00:29:53 --> 00:29:54

what the word means.

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Just because it's not your culture doesn't mean

00:29:58 --> 00:29:59

that it's not something that's permissible.

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Just because it's different from the way you

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did it, doesn't mean that that's something that's

00:30:05 --> 00:30:05

a problem.

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Mahaba

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has to be a base to this. Compassion

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has to be something that's there. People are

00:30:13 --> 00:30:15

struggling and there are too many who see

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the world only in black and white, and

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want to fit everything in black and white.

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And if you're going to say something is

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gray,

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you have to understand that it actually has

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to be gray.

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And a lot of things that you might

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think are gray, they are not gray.

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And, if there are different opinions on things,

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then there are different opinions on things. So

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if you don't want to listen to music,

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don't listen to music. But there's different opinions

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on the matter.

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If you're going to only eat meat slaughtered

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in a certain way, that's fine. There's other

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opinions that have different indications on it.

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You wanna put your hands in a certain

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position and somebody else prays in a different

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position, it's a sign of spiritual immaturity

00:31:01 --> 00:31:04

that believes that you know every opinion on

00:31:04 --> 00:31:06

everything. And it is a sign of spiritual

00:31:06 --> 00:31:07

maturity

00:31:07 --> 00:31:09

that says that there must only be one

00:31:10 --> 00:31:12

categorically best way of doing it. There are

00:31:12 --> 00:31:14

2,000,000,000 of us in the world right now

00:31:14 --> 00:31:16

from every place you can imagine in existence

00:31:17 --> 00:31:19

and we have lived in a 14 year

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tradition

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that goes until the end of time. You

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cannot fundamentally

00:31:24 --> 00:31:27

believe in a diverse creation

00:31:27 --> 00:31:30

from a creator that knows everything of his

00:31:30 --> 00:31:33

creation that says the system would render us

00:31:34 --> 00:31:36

homogeneous in ways that make no sense.

00:31:39 --> 00:31:41

It's going to be different for different people.

00:31:42 --> 00:31:45

There's literal hadith where the prophet has a

00:31:45 --> 00:31:47

companion, come, can I kiss my wife while

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I'm fasting? To him he says, yes. Can

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I kiss my wife while I'm fasting a

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second? To him he says, no. Other Sahaba

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say, how is this possible? The answer is

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different. The question is the same.

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Because the 2 people come from different places

00:32:01 --> 00:32:03

and different walks of life.

00:32:03 --> 00:32:05

You can't learn your religion just from a

00:32:05 --> 00:32:07

website that claims that it can give you

00:32:07 --> 00:32:11

every definitive answer on every question. The beauty

00:32:11 --> 00:32:13

of the Sharia is that it has elements

00:32:13 --> 00:32:15

that are applicable to the individual.

00:32:19 --> 00:32:21

And the prism of all this,

00:32:22 --> 00:32:23

you just gotta try your best.

00:32:26 --> 00:32:27

On the other frame of the conversation,

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there are things that are haram in this

00:32:31 --> 00:32:31

religion.

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And there are so many more things that

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are permissible.

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Don't justify the pursuit of the haram.

00:32:43 --> 00:32:46

The consequence on a metaphysical level comes to

00:32:46 --> 00:32:47

the heart.

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The dark spot that comes now that cloaks

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begins to now impact vision and perspective.

00:32:53 --> 00:32:55

And you want to deepen an understanding of

00:32:55 --> 00:32:58

what haram is because the consumption of swine,

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the drinking of alcohol, the committing of zinna,

00:33:00 --> 00:33:03

these things are haram, but backbiting is haram.

00:33:03 --> 00:33:05

Gossiping is haram,

00:33:05 --> 00:33:09

lying is haram, racism is haram, abuse in

00:33:09 --> 00:33:11

all of its forms is haram, domestic violence

00:33:11 --> 00:33:12

is haram.

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And if you wanna know where your heart

00:33:18 --> 00:33:20

is, just think about this.

00:33:20 --> 00:33:23

What kind of God must somebody believe in

00:33:23 --> 00:33:26

that they think it's okay as a husband

00:33:26 --> 00:33:27

to raise their hand on their wife or

00:33:27 --> 00:33:29

as a father on their child?

00:33:30 --> 00:33:33

Your heart is going to evidence for you

00:33:33 --> 00:33:34

the state that it's in.

00:33:36 --> 00:33:38

And there's nothing that you have to think

00:33:38 --> 00:33:40

of because the halal is clear and the

00:33:40 --> 00:33:41

haram haram is clear.

00:33:42 --> 00:33:44

And you want to play games then just

00:33:44 --> 00:33:45

recognize you're going to stand in front of

00:33:45 --> 00:33:47

God one day, and may Allah grant us

00:33:47 --> 00:33:48

all ease on that day.

00:33:49 --> 00:33:52

But at a base level, you start to

00:33:52 --> 00:33:55

negotiate within yourself. What does all of this

00:33:55 --> 00:33:55

mean?

00:33:57 --> 00:33:59

Am I suffocating people with religion?

00:34:01 --> 00:34:03

Most people turn away from religion because of

00:34:03 --> 00:34:04

religious people.

00:34:05 --> 00:34:07

Am I making excuses for things that I

00:34:07 --> 00:34:08

shouldn't make excuses for?

00:34:09 --> 00:34:11

You don't know how many breaths you have

00:34:11 --> 00:34:13

left to breathe in this world. Don't wait

00:34:13 --> 00:34:13

for tomorrow

00:34:14 --> 00:34:16

to engage in what you can and stay

00:34:16 --> 00:34:18

away as best as you can from the

00:34:18 --> 00:34:19

things you struggle with.

00:34:22 --> 00:34:23

These 4 hadith,

00:34:23 --> 00:34:24

Abu Dawood

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he says that they serve as the basis

00:34:27 --> 00:34:28

of all of it.

00:34:31 --> 00:34:33

You want a starting point? Why do you

00:34:33 --> 00:34:35

do what you do? Think about it before

00:34:35 --> 00:34:36

you get it done.

00:34:38 --> 00:34:39

Islam

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that from the beauty of one's Islam is

00:34:43 --> 00:34:45

that they leave behind that which does not

00:34:45 --> 00:34:47

concern them. Leave people alone.

00:34:48 --> 00:34:50

Mind your own business. The things that we

00:34:50 --> 00:34:53

stick our noses in make no sense, and

00:34:53 --> 00:34:55

the things that we are silent on make

00:34:55 --> 00:34:55

no sense.

00:34:56 --> 00:34:58

Being somebody's life if they're struggling.

00:34:58 --> 00:35:01

Support them. Ask them how they are with

00:35:01 --> 00:35:01

genuineness.

00:35:01 --> 00:35:04

That shouldn't be awkward. What should be awkward

00:35:04 --> 00:35:06

is when you go up to somebody and

00:35:06 --> 00:35:08

say why don't you have a baby yet?

00:35:08 --> 00:35:10

How come you're not married? Mind your business.

00:35:19 --> 00:35:21

Then I one from amongst you will believe

00:35:22 --> 00:35:24

until you love for your brother what you

00:35:24 --> 00:35:25

love for yourself.

00:35:26 --> 00:35:28

And then the 4th hadith he says

00:35:30 --> 00:35:32

that the haram is clear and the haram

00:35:32 --> 00:35:33

is clear.

00:35:36 --> 00:35:37

And he ends

00:35:38 --> 00:35:40

with the hadith in its entirety

00:35:41 --> 00:35:43

that your heart is what is meant to

00:35:43 --> 00:35:45

be sovereign over your body.

00:35:46 --> 00:35:48

So take care of your heart, pay attention

00:35:48 --> 00:35:49

to it,

00:35:50 --> 00:35:52

do the things that are going to allow

00:35:52 --> 00:35:54

for it to be in a state where

00:35:54 --> 00:35:56

it feels refreshed and empowered.

00:35:57 --> 00:35:59

Shift the perspective on ritual and practice,

00:36:00 --> 00:36:02

think about what you believe in and how

00:36:02 --> 00:36:04

you even know what you believe in to

00:36:04 --> 00:36:05

begin with.

00:36:06 --> 00:36:07

Insha'Allah

00:36:08 --> 00:36:09

these four narrations

00:36:09 --> 00:36:11

will serve as a foundation for us in

00:36:11 --> 00:36:13

building a deeper relationship

00:36:13 --> 00:36:14

with our creator

00:36:15 --> 00:36:16

and all of his creation.

00:37:09 --> 00:37:11

This Deen of ours it gives us something

00:37:11 --> 00:37:11

to practice.

00:37:13 --> 00:37:14

These pillars, these rituals,

00:37:15 --> 00:37:16

we have something to do.

00:37:17 --> 00:37:20

It gives us theology, it gives us faith

00:37:20 --> 00:37:21

and articles therein.

00:37:22 --> 00:37:24

It gives us something to believe in.

00:37:24 --> 00:37:26

It talks to us about spirituality

00:37:27 --> 00:37:29

and akhlaq, good character.

00:37:29 --> 00:37:31

It gives us something to embody,

00:37:32 --> 00:37:34

and it tells us that this world is

00:37:34 --> 00:37:36

not simply what it is, but there is

00:37:36 --> 00:37:38

a world that is beyond this one. It's

00:37:38 --> 00:37:40

giving us something to get ready for.

00:37:41 --> 00:37:43

Don't use this deen as something that is

00:37:43 --> 00:37:44

just a sociological

00:37:45 --> 00:37:46

identity variable.

00:37:47 --> 00:37:49

Think on this day of Jummah what you

00:37:49 --> 00:37:50

are actually a worshiper of.

00:37:51 --> 00:37:53

Think and envision what it would look like

00:37:53 --> 00:37:55

when you stand in front of Allah, and

00:37:55 --> 00:37:57

your book is presented, not just to Allah,

00:37:57 --> 00:37:59

but to you when you see what's written

00:37:59 --> 00:38:00

in there.

00:38:01 --> 00:38:03

And allow for yourself to think about the

00:38:03 --> 00:38:06

value of every moment that you're given in

00:38:06 --> 00:38:06

this world.

00:38:07 --> 00:38:08

With a deep understanding

00:38:09 --> 00:38:10

that it will inform

00:38:10 --> 00:38:12

where and how you will be in the

00:38:12 --> 00:38:15

world beyond this one. May Allah make us

00:38:15 --> 00:38:16

people of his Jannah.

00:38:54 --> 00:38:57

We begin this supplication in your name, you

00:38:57 --> 00:38:59

Allah, and beseech you to send your choices

00:38:59 --> 00:39:02

salutations upon your most beloved, Subhullah, may

00:39:02 --> 00:39:04

he was at home. We ask that you

00:39:04 --> 00:39:07

shower your infinite mercy upon this gathering, granting

00:39:07 --> 00:39:09

each and everyone who is present here in

00:39:09 --> 00:39:11

and our loved ones, only the best in

00:39:11 --> 00:39:13

this world and the best in the next.

00:39:13 --> 00:39:14

We ask you, all the love, that if

00:39:14 --> 00:39:16

all of us are meant to be together

00:39:16 --> 00:39:18

only at this time, at this place, whether

00:39:18 --> 00:39:21

we are young or old, male or female,

00:39:21 --> 00:39:23

regardless of our race, our ethnicity, our social

00:39:23 --> 00:39:26

class, our country of origin, our cultural heritage,

00:39:26 --> 00:39:28

whether we are Muslim or come from a

00:39:28 --> 00:39:30

different walk of life, you Rabbi. For our

00:39:30 --> 00:39:32

individual hearts are meant to be in the

00:39:32 --> 00:39:33

presence of all of their hearts that are

00:39:33 --> 00:39:36

gathered here only at this time at this

00:39:36 --> 00:39:38

place, then gather us all together again in

00:39:38 --> 00:39:40

the best of places in the world beyond

00:39:40 --> 00:39:42

this one. Increase us, you all, in all

00:39:42 --> 00:39:45

that is good. Increase us in courage, compassion,

00:39:45 --> 00:39:46

and confidence.

00:39:46 --> 00:39:49

Protect us from affliction, anxiety, and anguish.

00:39:49 --> 00:39:51

Remove from our hearts any feelings of bitterness,

00:39:52 --> 00:39:54

jealousy, animosity, or envy towards any of your

00:39:54 --> 00:39:57

creation. Grant us hearts that are filled with

00:39:57 --> 00:39:59

understanding and hope, hearts that are drawn towards

00:39:59 --> 00:40:02

things of real goodness and beauty, hearts that

00:40:02 --> 00:40:04

find themselves deep in your remembrance,

00:40:04 --> 00:40:06

for indeed in your remembrance, your hearts find

00:40:06 --> 00:40:07

rest.

00:40:08 --> 00:40:10

Make us, y'all love, from amongst those who

00:40:11 --> 00:40:12

take direction and insight

00:40:13 --> 00:40:15

from the teachings and words of the best

00:40:15 --> 00:40:18

of creation, your beloved Muhammad, peace and blessings

00:40:18 --> 00:40:19

be upon him.

00:40:20 --> 00:40:22

Allow for us to be from amongst those

00:40:22 --> 00:40:24

who fill our books with actions that are

00:40:24 --> 00:40:27

rooted in consciousness and awareness of your presence,

00:40:28 --> 00:40:31

and forgive us when we unknowingly or knowingly

00:40:32 --> 00:40:34

commit those deeds that hurt others and hurt

00:40:34 --> 00:40:36

ourselves in ways that we don't realize.

00:40:37 --> 00:40:39

Make us those you Allah who have a

00:40:39 --> 00:40:42

deep concern for those things that actually should

00:40:42 --> 00:40:44

be concerning us.

00:40:44 --> 00:40:47

A concern for our own welfare and wellness,

00:40:47 --> 00:40:49

not just of our bodies, but of our

00:40:49 --> 00:40:50

hearts, our minds, and our spirits.

00:40:51 --> 00:40:53

A concern for our families, our loved ones,

00:40:53 --> 00:40:56

our neighbors, all those who we share community

00:40:56 --> 00:40:59

with. A concern for those who the world

00:40:59 --> 00:41:01

has forgotten, The orphans, the widows, refugees,

00:41:02 --> 00:41:02

the incarcerated,

00:41:03 --> 00:41:05

those who have little or no health care.

00:41:05 --> 00:41:08

A concern for those that people make justifications

00:41:08 --> 00:41:11

for not being concerned of y'all law. Make

00:41:11 --> 00:41:14

us those whose Islam is beautiful by being

00:41:14 --> 00:41:16

concerned for the things which you would want

00:41:16 --> 00:41:18

us to be concerned for.

00:41:19 --> 00:41:21

And keep us you Rabbi from being concerned

00:41:21 --> 00:41:23

about those things that should have no concern

00:41:23 --> 00:41:24

for us.

00:41:24 --> 00:41:27

Those things that we should not be wasting

00:41:27 --> 00:41:28

our time focused

00:41:30 --> 00:41:32

upon. Help us You Allah to love for

00:41:32 --> 00:41:34

people what we love for ourselves.

00:41:35 --> 00:41:37

Make us those You Rabbi who strive to

00:41:37 --> 00:41:38

build

00:41:38 --> 00:41:39

true

00:41:39 --> 00:41:41

deep healthy love

00:41:41 --> 00:41:43

as the bond that we have

00:41:43 --> 00:41:45

with all of your creation.

00:41:47 --> 00:41:49

Help us to heal from any pain that

00:41:49 --> 00:41:50

we might have

00:41:50 --> 00:41:53

that makes it difficult for us to love

00:41:53 --> 00:41:53

others

00:41:54 --> 00:41:57

because we don't truly love ourselves in ways

00:41:57 --> 00:41:59

that we should be.

00:42:00 --> 00:42:01

Help us to see ourselves the way that

00:42:01 --> 00:42:02

you see us.

00:42:03 --> 00:42:05

Help us to see our goodness, the gifts

00:42:05 --> 00:42:06

that we possess,

00:42:07 --> 00:42:08

our beauty both inward and outward.

00:42:10 --> 00:42:12

Let us always be the reason that people

00:42:12 --> 00:42:14

feel loved in this world,

00:42:14 --> 00:42:17

and let not any one of us ever

00:42:17 --> 00:42:17

feel unloved.

00:42:19 --> 00:42:22

Make us amongst those who honor the Sharia

00:42:22 --> 00:42:24

that you have gifted to us, you Allah.

00:42:24 --> 00:42:27

And to not play games with that which

00:42:27 --> 00:42:28

it is that you have given to us

00:42:28 --> 00:42:30

as a nama, as a blessing.

00:42:31 --> 00:42:33

Help us to do what it is that

00:42:33 --> 00:42:35

we can to show appreciation

00:42:35 --> 00:42:37

for everything that you have gifted to us

00:42:37 --> 00:42:39

in the prism of permissibility.

00:42:40 --> 00:42:43

And make us those who have a deep

00:42:43 --> 00:42:43

desire

00:42:44 --> 00:42:46

and a strength to stay away from the

00:42:46 --> 00:42:48

Haram as best as we can.

00:42:49 --> 00:42:51

Forgive us when we make religion suffocating for

00:42:51 --> 00:42:52

others.

00:42:53 --> 00:42:55

Help us to be those who watch over

00:42:55 --> 00:42:57

our hearts so that our hearts in turn

00:42:57 --> 00:42:58

watch over us.

00:42:59 --> 00:43:01

And let us remember always, that

00:43:02 --> 00:43:04

no matter what it is that we do

00:43:04 --> 00:43:05

and where we go,

00:43:06 --> 00:43:07

that we can always turn back to you

00:43:07 --> 00:43:09

and seek your forgiveness.

00:43:10 --> 00:43:11

Make the best of our deeds the last

00:43:11 --> 00:43:13

of our deeds, and let not any one

00:43:13 --> 00:43:15

of us leave this world other than in

00:43:15 --> 00:43:17

a state that is pleasing to

00:43:17 --> 00:43:19

you. Protect us always from hearts that are

00:43:19 --> 00:43:22

not humble, tongues that are not wise, and

00:43:22 --> 00:43:24

eyes that have forgotten how to cry. Forgive

00:43:24 --> 00:43:26

us for our shortcomings and guide and bless

00:43:26 --> 00:43:29

us all. Rabana zakabbal minna innaqalintasamir

00:43:30 --> 00:43:31

alim. Wutubaalayna

00:43:32 --> 00:43:32

You Mawlana

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