Imtiaz Sooliman – NGO Gift of the Givers commemorates 30 years of existence

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The non-profit organization in Bosnia describes the devastation caused by the unrest in Syria and Afghanistan, including the deaths of many people and their families. The organization's teams are well trained and well-equipped to handle the crisis, and they have a diverse program that includes energy, human trafficking, and mental support. The South African hospitals are facing challenges such as war and domestic violence, and the need for mental health support and energy is emphasized. The organization collaborates with other organizations, but there is enough space for collaboration and space for energy.

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			So this month, non governmental
organization, gift of the givers
		
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			commemorates 30 years of
existence. For three decades, the
		
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			NGO has been on call for various
disasters, from fires and drought
		
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			to humanitarian relief in war
zones and natural disaster sites.
		
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			We're joined by the founder, Dr
Imtiaz Suleiman to reflect on the
		
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			three decades of existence. Dr
Suleiman, good afternoon to you,
		
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			and thank you very much for
availing yourself. Perhaps just
		
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			take us back to 30 years ago when
this was an idea. How did it all
		
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			start?
		
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			Good afternoon. Thank you very
much. It never was. My idea before
		
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			this is not my organization. I
don't get up one morning and say,
		
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			I need to form an organization. I
need to get some members. I need
		
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			to write a constitution. I need to
write down some funding
		
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			principles. It never happened like
that. It's it's a very spiritual
		
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			basis and a very spiritual origin.
I met a spiritual master whom I
		
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			was told about in the early in the
late 80s, based in Istanbul, in
		
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			Turkey. And that was in 1986 when
I was told about that master. And
		
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			I thought to myself, when will I
will end up in Turkey? But I was
		
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			just on a visit. I went there 91 I
met him for the first time. And
		
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			then in 92 on the sixth of August,
coinciding with six of August, the
		
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			last week 30 years ago, it was a
Thursday night at 10pm he suddenly
		
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			looks me in the eye from the
corner of the room, and he says,
		
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			in true and Turkish. I don't speak
a word of Turkish, but I
		
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			understood every word he said. He
said, My son, I'm not asking you,
		
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			I'm instructing you to form an
organization.
		
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			The name in Arabic will be wakul
Wafi, yourself, all people of all
		
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			races, all religions, all colors,
all classes, all cultures, of any
		
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			geographical location and of any
political location, but you will
		
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			serve them unconditionally. You
will expect nothing in return, not
		
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			even a thank you. This is an
instruction for you for the rest
		
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			of your life. And remember,
whatever you do is done through
		
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			you and not by you. This was very
spiritual
		
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			with every high call to service.
It's not easy, right? So the road
		
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			will be paved sometimes with very
fiery stones, if you will just
		
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			talk us through some of the most
challenging times, and whether at
		
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			some point you thought, no, maybe,
maybe this is not for me.
		
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			No, no, yes, it was. It's always
challenging. You know, we
		
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			understand that. He said, from the
beginning, you said, you have a
		
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			lot of challenges. And in fact,
the first project we undertook was
		
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			a civil war in Bosnia. The same
month, August, 22 we responded
		
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			with 32 containers of aid into a
war zone. And in November, we went
		
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			with another eight containers of
eight. And the following year, we
		
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			designed the world's first and
only containerized mobile
		
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			hospital, a product of South
African technology, built in
		
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			Africa, taken into Europe. I was
obstructed for 20 weeks. Hospital
		
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			into Bosnia, there was obstruction
from every quarter. And you know,
		
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			some people said, You know what,
you've tried, it's okay. You've
		
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			done the effort. Leave it be, take
it somewhere else. And I said, No,
		
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			people are in difficulty. We are
dying. They need health services.
		
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			I can't stop it's not in my nature
to give up things in mind, in my
		
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			vocabulary, there's no such word
as can't, and that carries
		
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			throughout the entire
organization. We don't understand
		
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			the word can't, and we and if you
on the other side, and you think,
		
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			if you and your family side, you
know you would expect people to
		
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			respond to you. So we can't turn
back. So Bosnia was a good
		
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			challenge. The war in Syria was a
challenge. The hunger in Somalia
		
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			and the fiction and the fighting
taking place while you're trying
		
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			to deliver aid in Somalia was a
challenge. In Haiti, they were
		
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			shooting in the streets and
looting, and there's a death
		
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			everywhere. So many 1200, 50,000
people had passed on. In Pakistan,
		
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			we couldn't get into the mountains
without helicopters. People had
		
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			died everywhere. So it's
emotionally and physically
		
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			draining, but our teams are well
trained in advance to expect this
		
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			kind of crisis and to respond to
it. In South Africa, of course,
		
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			the big challenge, that was the
longest challenge ever, a
		
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			disaster. You know, it takes 710,
days to respond to, but covid took
		
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			almost two years, and it had a
draining effect on all members of
		
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			our team. You know, their
families, people involved in
		
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			hospitals, so it was a tough time.
But because we know this process
		
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			so well, everybody stood together
and supported each other all the
		
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			time, speaking of your team. So
you met the alchemist, and you
		
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			heeded the call. To some degree,
you are the alchemist to some
		
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			members of your team. What is it
that you think draws people to the
		
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			organization and makes them stay?
		
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			It's got to do with the spiritual
nature of the people that come to
		
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			our organization. It draws people
of various religions, of different
		
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			colors, of different races, of
different cultural groups, and
		
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			they all come with one single
minded purpose, how to help people
		
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			in to help themselves, how to
assist people. How can we make a
		
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			difference? And they prepare to
sacrifice their own lives. They go
		
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			into war zones. They prepare to
sacrifice their families. They.
		
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			Their children, and they are
driven by this passion to when
		
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			have other people. And it's that
same group of people that have
		
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			gone into war zones that drove the
processes in the South African
		
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			hospitals in covid It's liked by
the people. What a shared
		
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			spirituality, who have a love for
people, and they respond in the
		
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			most incredible way, totally
selfless. And they just, in fact,
		
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			so much so that when we were in
Syria, people
		
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			asked us, you know, because,
remember, the things I things are
		
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			involving. It's not, this was not
the same people all the time. New
		
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			people coming all the time. I
mean, when Syria the medical guys,
		
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			they developed many, you know,
because they all were many were
		
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			killed, so they were few, and they
needed support. And they asked,
		
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			How many years have you guys been
working together, and that team
		
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			was a fairly new team, and most
people had never met each other
		
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			before, and we said we've met each
other, most of us for the first
		
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			time here, they said, We line.
It's impossible. How can people
		
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			work with such unity and
understanding having worked
		
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			before? It's a spirituality, the
kind of thought processes that
		
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			make us work together, think
together. Think together. You know
		
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			exactly what we're going to do
next. Is this space for other
		
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			organizations to do the work that
you do? And is there space for
		
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			collaboration?
		
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			There is enough space. The world
is full of crisis right now.
		
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			There's not enough people to do
the crisis, you know, to deal with
		
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			the crisis. There's work, yes. So
there's enough space for
		
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			everybody. There's so many diverse
areas your program talking about
		
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			energy. I mean, energy is a huge
problem in this country and
		
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			throughout the world because of
the crisis now in Ukraine, yes,
		
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			hunted throughout Africa. There's
drought in Somalia this you know,
		
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			there's people who need skills.
There's a shortage of skills.
		
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			There's medical support required.
People need psychological support
		
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			in the country, in the continent
and throughout the world, there's
		
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			human trafficking. There's people
who've lost the path we need to be
		
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			guided right. People that have
been taken, you know, by drugs,
		
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			drug traffickers, you know, or
drug dealers. People getting lost.
		
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			People have to be assisted in
terms of the difficulties they
		
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			have. And people have to be guided
to move away from the kind of
		
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			things that cost half the fellow
being. Also, people get involved
		
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			in wars and instigate wars. They
have to be taken away. So they
		
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			require spiritual interaction. It
requires a human interaction. It
		
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			requires assistance from a
physical point of view and an
		
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			emotional point of view. We do
collaborate with other
		
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			organizations, but in when I say
that, when we go to a disaster
		
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			area, we see what they're doing so
we don't encroach on the same
		
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			area. We say, Okay, you guys take
straight you guys are doing street
		
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			A, we will do street B. And they
will come and say, We need this
		
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			machine. Can you help us? We'll
say, Yes, we have a spare one. You
		
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			can have it. And they will come to
us and say, you know, we have this
		
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			medication. We don't require it
anymore. Can you take it? So it's
		
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			an understanding that we work with
each other, but still separately.
		
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			Fair enough. Dr Suleiman, who
		
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			helps the helper, who guides, the
guide of lack of a better word,
		
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			who counsels the counselor. What
fills your cup?
		
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			We have our own counseling
division. If Dr givers has 21
		
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			different categories of projects,
you know, and each category has
		
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			its own, different subcategories.
Counseling is one of the main
		
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			parts of gift of the givers.
		
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			We have our counseling team, we
have trauma counselors, and we
		
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			have abundant psychologists in the
country wanting to work with us at
		
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			any time. The strange thing is
that none of the health care
		
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			workers ever ask for counseling,
even though they may need it, but
		
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			especially again, when we're in
difficult situations, they sort of
		
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			get together, make jokes, laugh,
relieve the pressure. Even in a
		
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			war zone, they talk to each other
and have an affinity with each
		
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			other, where they talk the issues
away and they find solace in the
		
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			team itself. The comfort comes
from the team itself. The other
		
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			important thing that I do,
although, as I said, we have
		
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			houses on standby, available
anytime they want it, we even make
		
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			them available, but most of them
don't take that, you know, that
		
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			offer, except now during covid
itself, for the first time, I've
		
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			seen huge numbers of healthcare
workers, not necessarily my team,
		
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			but a huge number of healthcare
workers saying they need mental
		
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			health, mental support. The crisis
has been too huge. It's affected
		
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			in a bad way. They need health. Is
there a workshop? Is there some
		
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			yoga? Is there some kind of
mindfulness or some kind of
		
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			meditation? People need that. So,
you know, there's been a huge
		
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			request for that. And the other
thing that we do, I always train
		
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			them. I always speak to them. And
if I tell them, You guys have all
		
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			heard the word social distancing,
but belong before social
		
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			distancing, I should teach them
about emotional distancing, that
		
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			you don't attach yourself to a
situation, a person, a child or an
		
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			adult. You can feel compassion for
the conditions of the people, but
		
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			don't attach yourself to anyone
personally, the moment you do
		
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			that, it will affect you and
you're not going to go to work
		
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			emotional distancing. Dr MTS
Suleiman is founder of gift of
		
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			forgiveness. We celebrate 30 years
a big congratulations to you, and
		
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			thank you very much for availing
yourself. You.