Ibrahim Nuhu – Riyad Us Saliheen – Hadith 717
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The importance of seeking support from others and choosing the best option for oneself is emphasized in the segment on pursuing difficult situations. The importance of praying and being honest is emphasized, as it is important for health and well-being. The segment also emphasizes the need for individuals to have a choice and avoid giving too much information. The importance of following proper rules and finding a doctor confident in their ability to change behavior is emphasized, as it is important for one's health and well-being. The class is ending soon and the speaker provides a record of progress.
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So today inshallah we'll be dealing with a new chapter which is about at least Hara Mushara
chapter we'll be discussing this Takara as well Allah subhanaw taala to choose for you the best
in whatever you are about to do which
seems to be important to you
anything that you see to be important to you. So let's allow some advise you to seek the support
of Allah subhanaw taala in that regard is a very important topic for every Muslim. Understand that we cannot do it alone without the support from Allah subhanho wa Taala
and also taking the see how from others a shower or meaning to go and see consultation from from others is also important because you cannot live alone.
You have to live with others in Santa Madani in b2b, naturally, I lost my hotel I created you as a social be
your incomplete you need your brothers and sisters to see the weaknesses in you and to fix it for you to tell you where are the areas where you're supposed to fix yourself, when you decide to do something which is very important you get those people who are very close to you and ask them too
to guide you know, to advise you whether to go for it or to or to stay away from it.
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much.
So, this is a very important chapter, as I said, Rasulullah Sassaman advises on how to seek the support of Allah subhanaw taala in whatever we see, to be important for us, and also to seek advice of others. Those people who you believe can advise you wisely.
Because when you look for advice, be very careful and take the advice of those people who are smart, who fear Allah subhanaw taala and they will advise you, you know, while fearing Allah subhanaw taala and you
that there are some people who will not bind you to that which they know to be the best, as well as less Allah azza wa jal, Mr. Shah Turman, because sometimes I might not be doing something, but you asked me to advise you on how to approach that thing. And I know Islamically and I know, even dunya wise, it's better for you to do it. I cannot advise you to do what I'm doing.
You can either have to advise me to do the correct thing, whether I'm doing it or not. Because almost a shadow motorman.
Supposed to be acting as a need
somebody who is trustworthy. Yeah, that's why that person comes to me to tell him the truth, whether I'm doing it doesn't matter. I have to tell him the truth, because of your question, but Allah subhanaw taala Allah if our guidance I gave this person who approached me seeking my advice, Allah subhanaw taala says, OSHA with whom the anger is commanded in the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam to seek the advice of the companions do forget this is a pseudo Allah and Allah Subhana Allah is asking him and advising him to sit with the companions and discuss these matters.
Listen to the
advices and approach and the prompts Allah Azza is the best example in this regard. It does it in the best way is our best role model in everything. So Allah Allah says which I will do, if Rasul Allah He said Allah is selama is to be advised by Allah subhanaw taala to do the most work in order to seek the advice of the companions. What do you think about us Rasul Allah so my mighty he doesn't need because Allah smart is always his side and can tell him, what is better for him. But Allah subhanaw taala as we always mentioned, he wants a system to function functions. Normally, if everything is going to be given to the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, if he moves out of this life,
where do we get the correct approach to Allah subhanaw taala is guiding us on how to deal with matters, you know, by own self, whether Sula sama is alive, or he is, is that so if he is commanded to go and ask the Companions, you know, to advise him on important matters? What do you think about an individual among us? So it's very important for you to have somebody that you that you sit with, you know, to discuss important matters, but as I said, this person has to be very smart person and somebody who feels Allah subhanaw taala. Yeah, this is really necessary. Smart fears a lot smarter somebody who thinks looking at the future, citing while looking at the field, you get an idea. So
these are the kinds of people that you you need no because they don't focus and advise you based on the current situation. You know, they look you know, as what could possibly happen in the future and advise
and that was what we learned from Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam when he was advising de la Him, not to pray in the way he is, is pray of the light normal is to pray the whole night and the prophets Allah Surma told him this is is wrong in Abdullayev anomala sellin rasool Allah so Allah He can do more than that when the prophets Allah Allah advised him to reduce the amount of the daisies faster, you know, because he fast every day sola sola Allah so much, oh, no, don't do that. And he What is he looking at the future of the live and how it is going to age he might not be able to do it but I was pretty young person thinking you know, in the way young people think, you know, you
just look at the current benefits and he told us Allah Salah Salem, I can do more than that. But then he understood what was the intention of Sula, Salah soon afterwards. He regretted have used to see that I wish I took the advice of Rasulullah sallallahu somoni First advise me
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I'm sure albedo lasma Hotel is praising the believers is one of the good behavior of the believers is that um, Rohan matura beno, they always consult each other. They always consult each other. Well, I'm sure bainham And when you have Shura, that means unity exist when you have shorter this means unity exists. So these are the two is quoted by Malawi after that. He mentioned the hadith of Jeremy with Abdullah. Allah
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Jabir ibn Abdullah said, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam I used to teach us Alice Taha, and Sahara means the I would say Farah and it's the hara with our list, the DUA urien for the is it?
What does that mean? It means you are seeking the support of Allah Muhammad Allah to choose for you the best.
You asking Allah smarter to choose what you the best. Why do you need that? Because Allah subhanaw taala is inevitable, you. Allah is Allah, Allah who is all knowing. He created everything and he knows everything. Things that exist and things that will exist in the future and things that exist in passporter knows everything with no restriction. Knowledge of Allah smarter has no limit. He knows everything.
I don't know the future. I don't know if future near future. They're long term future. I don't know. What exactly can happen, you know, according to my expectation, and my analysis, this thing is going to be good for me even in my future.
If that's what my analysis is leading it,
to believe it, that this is going to be good for me. And as such, I made my choice on that. And then how many times it did everything possible and then integrate, you fail.
And pretty sure if you know what will happen in the future, you will never do it.
I just want you to see the importance of this. Because you're asking somebody who knows the future, to choose for you the best if this is going to benefit you in your future.
If it is going to benefit you in the future to choose for you that and since you don't know whether it is good or bad, you know, even the thing itself and without thinking about the future, it might not be good. You see, that's good, but it's not good.
Allah subhanaw taala says rasa anticorrosion or Hua halal, perhaps you might dislike something but it is better for you. And you might love something, but it is bad for you.
A lot of times, you know, you don't like something but at the end of the day, you're so happy that you got it. But at first you don't like it. You hate it, honestly. But that's the only thing that comes
to us, as you don't know. might like something but it's not good. You might hate something but it's good for you. Paula we are number one two letter animal. Allah subhanaw taala says he's the one who's telling us this. He says Wallah, we are number one to that animal. Allah knows and you don't know.
You will it is always like that ALLAH knows and we didn't know
that why? Allah says Allah in a Buca means
you will never get correct and accurate information about something that is better than what Elsevier has given you and have it here Allah
the one whose knowledge is so deep,
you know deeper than what you can ever imagine. Heavy comprehensive,
no limit you want an accurate information about anything?
To that which Allah smart Allah tells you.
So it's hard it's very important to avoid regretting in the future. Because be easily Lohan soldier. If you do it quickly, in sha Allah inshallah you will never regret in the future.
Whatever you see, Allah subhanaw taala you know, put you in inshallah will be the best place
so take these matters seriously because I know that istikhara usually we do suffer when
when we do
know
when we are in trouble that's the closest honest answer
is yes marriage you know, but even in the marriage usually we go for the istikhara when
somehow either like to go for it.
Yeah, but it's not supposed to be like that. It's the courage supposed to be the first time you want to go for the marriage. Whether this girl is this oh that you know, this boy is this or that you just go to Alaska hotel and ask him to speak because you don't know.
Based on your search, something might be good. Pretty might be fine. But unfortunately, the end of the day, you fail. When you meet them you come and see different from what you are expecting to see.
So it's the holidays not for marriage is for every
salsa so I used to tell them whenever one of you wants to do something that is important to him.
Whenever while he wants to do something that is important to him when he goes for the SFR want to do business. There is the car whether it is good for you or bad. You know you want to take somebody to a friend
who is
a friend here I'm talking about a close friends person that you hang around with. There is
one too to join a university. You have many different types of choices, you know, Mr. Hara,
whatever thing that is important in your life, ask Allah hospital to choose for you the best because Allah He didn't know something that you belittle might be the thing that will determine your life will cause you a lot of depression and stress in your life.
When you ask Allah subhanaw taala to step in the evening, as the agenda you will not regret in sha Allah Surah Surah Salah al in Salem, Javid said Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I used to teach her sister Hara Ohmori couldn't be happier.
He says in all of our affairs. Yeah, he said in all of our affairs.
However it is
62 things which you don't know whether they're good or they're bad
whether they're good or they're bad
I told you my money come let's go for Hajj all I do is
read Quran I do is Tara first? Is he right? It is not because we know that reading Quran going for Hajj is is always, always good.
Pray GEMA I used to have refers
to try this is Tara in is in TM matters, which we're not sure things that Allah advise us to do things that Allah commanded us to do. These ones are beneficial to us in all time.
They can never be bad for us.
If we do them correctly. Yeah, they can never be bad for us. If you do them correctly.
Please do understand that statement. Because sometimes we've been, you know, some
of
you know us callers
when they got some private health problem, you know,
we blame that they don't sleep. Nice. You didn't do this, and that was Hala impasse, etc. They used to sleep a little.
So what happened nowadays when somebody didn't sleep, and then he got problem.
When you apply the same method apply now what happens?
So I always say that you have to look at the life of this person, most likely he's not doing things correctly.
I have some additional supplements that you take are to keep you awake. You're trying to interfere the nature that Allah subhanaw taala created in you, though people they don't do that.
They did it correctly. That's why they managed to succeed in that.
So I do believe we cannot follow the Sunnah correctly and get into trouble. There is no way for you to follow Tsuna correctly and get into trouble. If you see yourself getting into trouble, trust me go and check properly, most likely you're not doing it correctly.
And it's no way for a soulless Rozema to advise you and then get into trouble.
No way.
So you have to check and see what exactly is missing in your
action. Most likely that is something which had been which is not what Rasul Allah Allahu Allah has commanded us to do. That's why he got into into trouble. So Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi semi used to teach them to do the istikhara in everything
because Surah T middle Quran, just like the way he teach them, the Quran he used to teach them is the Hara. That's how important is this dua
were called
Emery Furrier, cara cara Cheney meditated for you though. And he used to say that if one of you wants to do something, you should pray to a god. Other than that freedom, other than the words, prayers.
If you pray to a cat other than the wedge, it was a prayer.
That's means I cannot wait. I cannot do the istikhara after the fragile, fragile Bria right after Juma prayer. He can't because he says to record other than
the Touriga they shouldn't be watching prayers. You have to be so notorious.
So anything that prayer I can do?
Is the car in those celebrities
allowed for the car to intimidate him for either?
So after you pray these two occurred, and then you should see Allah who made me as to feel compelled me What were you going to see this?
Or when are you going to make make this girl? You're going to recite this do after you finish the prayer or the prayer? You have controversy among scholars. But Allahu Allah, a close opinion might be the one that says you do it the end of your prayer before you say a ceremony. Right after the finished decision. You will decide and Lisa lightly Salem
you make your law you know the last thing you do before he says Allah, Allah who may as well make you Nikki
that's the most appropriate place for the DUA
and they simply because Priscilla Salah Elisa said you should say at the end of your prayer and the Roshi, then of everything is the last part of it, it is connected to it.
It is connected to it to get it so you do it at the last part of your prayer before you see the salah. However since there are some scholars who said you can also do it after the prayer. If you find somebody who is doing it after prayer inshallah is okay we even Allah
The best for choose for every one of us is to make that dua interview pray before you see as salaam alaikum wa Rahmatullah.
So you made that dua the prophets a lot so mindset he used to say Allahu esta fue Kabul me
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was alchemy for Derek allow him find out that they were overlapped with Alan Miller and Alan will will love you should say along with me as a funeral community yeah Allah I'm using your knowledge you know to seek your advice you know through your knowledge is that you are making tawassul using the knowledge of Allah subhanaw taala to see I mean support and the selection and the choice of Allah subhanaw taala for you can turn this this matter
right. So you're asking Allah Allah to choose for you. But you're in this request through the knowledge of Allah subhanaw taala
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and also you're doing it through the ability and the power of Allah subhanaw taala to give and to choose for you the best
because Allahu Allah contain the EU Allah Allah subhanaw taala
to choose for you the best and make you happy with it.
Because this is very important, this Naima from Allah subhanaw taala for you to get the best choice and the best option and Allah making you happy with it.
Was alchemy fabric allow? Ya Allah I'm asking you from that virtue. You know the formula that you've restored your
goods over servants amongst you creations
for INEC a temporary ruler.
And then souhan Allah, you do the Atelier, you see to Allah smarter you confess the Allah, you are able and I'm incapable. I don't have ability. That's true. It's true German.
Hola, hola, Cortez, Abel and you're not able.
When you talk about the ability of Allah schemata and his power block Quadra is useless if it doesn't even exist.
See Allah Inaka taka the wallet whatever Allah were on, Calla, you know and I don't know.
When you said yeah Allah you are the ultimate, the knower of
all of the unseen again
in the future and present Whatever is hidden from us Allah sponsored almost every
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Allah if you already decree and you know that this thing and then you mentioned whatever it is that
you mentioned whatever is done
for marriage with somebody particular person you mentioned that
you want to business with somebody mentioned that
you want a friendship with somebody you mentioned that was a journey to place you mentioned that you had to go to university or you want to make a selection which faculty should go for which discipline should choose you mentioned that yeah Allah if you know that this thing that I'm going for high only feeding oh my gosh, you're alive it's very important. is better for you is good for me in my religion? Hello, I started with religion. This the first thing you should be checking this thing? Is it good for a religion? You know that we do have jobs nowadays. If you pray to Allah, Allah constantly on time, this job is not for you.
All the people I know who
we know them to be okay. They couldn't handle that job. They have to leave
because the management doesn't agree which is one pre integrated pre it is always an issue. So as a Muslim, what do you go for that?
Why do you go for that job? Allow my accepting person isn't they said the Rura whichever life or death Yes, he can do everything and try his best to see how to pray and he's the last one to Allah within his capability.
So that's why whatever you do it the first thing you have to check this thing is it going to be good for my religion Allah base the smartest decision because Allah did not create you for for the job he created you for
the worship from our cultural agenda will Allah
Allah brought bruta here to worship therefore as a Muslim anything that contradict this main objective of your creation you have to keep it aside
shouldn't be any second thought you must keep it aside go with the objective as a Muslim you have to stick to those things which are not you know going against the law of Allah Muhammad
that's why they still caught up the first thing is that yeah, Allah if this thing is going to be good for my religion
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you know good for your religion works and also good for me my whole life
yeah, so and it's also going to be important because it is going to cause us stress and depression in the in the future
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I will call it g you IgD or the present and the future
so what let's nothing if it is good in my religion good in my life good in the future. During the present
you will lie if Allah has wanted us for you is the
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hieroglyphic he knew my shoe it was Amory factor holy where Satan holy from barbarically yeah Allah let's make it it actually means yeah Allah let me let it be part of my degree. I mean your decree for me
your other from your Allah prescribe it for me. Let me get it
way sir. Really? Make it easy for me to get it
if the way to it easy for
some of our clicky yalla put barricades.
Imagine if this door is accepted.
Hamdulillah you see, even law has taught me you will never face a problem in your marriage. But you have to do is correct. It has to do with sincerity. You have to know what you're asking Allah subhanaw taala when to do it and you have to be honest when you're doing this to
then go to Allah has more than a half half
the strong fear that he might not choose to use this one
and you're asked whether you're insisting from your heart that you want this one now
it shows you some made some more efficient modification they want to
they want to go with their own version. Yeah Allah
this is one of them was telling me he says Can I ask Allah smarter like this other SFR because he's scared. If he does so, most likely he will not
say you told me he said is it okay for me to make the DUA like this? Yeah, Allah you are all powerful. You have the ability to change anything you want. Although this girl is bad
let me say his word he says this
is a you have admitted to the cheater Allah let me marry doesn't want to go with that one
as the real muscular
so that's why you have to go with all of your heart. You just want a loved one to choose for you and make you satisfied with whatever he has chosen for you.
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the prophets Allah is Somerset you should say Allah if you know that this is not good for me in my religion in my life in my future, my present yeah Allah take me away from it.
Allah take it away from me, Salah This is very good because sometimes Allah subhanaw taala you know my decree that will not get it but it sticks your brain how many times a person get stabbed? You wants to buy but that wasn't written for him. The girl married somebody else, or the boyfriend somebody else but we get disturbed. For ages they have to go for consultation after
it's really normal.
From Allah Subhana Allah, Allah is going to remove it from you and let you think about some other things.
And that's the smartest way of doing it, you try your best you couldn't get it, close the page and move forward. You know, we have so many other options in this dunya I do you need to stick to one that you don't even know whether it's good or bad.
And he just tell you life at the end of the day you still don't get
so then you see Allah, take it away from me and taking it away from it. And yet Allah prescribed for me whatever is good for me, Allah choose me whatever is good for me
from the needy, and yet Allah make me happy and pleased with that.
So this is what you have been missing if you just go ahead
and make your own choice without seeking the selection and the support of Allah subhanaw taala in in your face. And the scholars have mentioned that it's the hara before you do it. If you have other people to go and consult is better for you to do to go to them first. Talk to the people finish with all the consultations that you want to do with human beings. Then last month, you should be the last
because they see the skillet added after you consult Allah subhanaw taala and then you go on Ask other people. There are some callers who said, starting with Allah's mandala is it the best, although I choose the first one but there are some about greatschools who believe that you start with is the hara first and then you go to us. But I think the first one is more appropriate to finish all the consultations and then you go and ask Allah exporter to choose for you the best and then you for whatever you can satisfy. That's it you're not going to see any dream you're not going to just follow whatever you feel lucky.
And evening lie as eventually you will not regret as I always mentioned, sometimes you might go for something
and then you you it does work you marry but it doesn't work. After a few days. At most. Some people might say that this is the CARA Fein. No it's the have never failed as long as you do the correctly, it doesn't fail Subhanallah these are Mantis experiences, there might be something there. Trust me, my Deborah sisters, which allows me to want you to learn only after you go through this you can get that lesson
it will become an expert test. And also you learn great lessons which you might not be able to get them all except if you go through that
thing which you call a failure.
So it's hard as long as you do it correctly business
you will never fail.
So therefore I really advise you whatever you're going to do which is important in your life is to Karachi be the most important you know, support you know means of the port you're using to get help of Allah subhanho wa Taala before you start executing your plan
so I guess this is the best place to start in sha Allah in the next
class we move on to the next chapter about
changing the way on they have eat us a way to reach the masjid when you're coming back is another way so we will deal with the Sunnah of the Prophet Allah so in that manner, but Allah, Allah subhanaw taala granted and Tofig and be with you, wherever you're in all the college a million caffeine Sudanic hola como como la land, as for difficult to be late?
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stiletto silom Rahmatullah alameen and you know, maybe I'm Mohammed instead Allahu Allahu Allah Allah He also he was selling on about
somebody was asking about SSR for one who doesn't know how to read
there's no Arabic
My advice if he can memorize and if he can read take the book in the last 40 prayer and read read the DUA through the book rather than using your language because majority of the scholars disagree with any language other than the Arabic language to be placed in the prayer so have it written the last video if you pray and then you read it inshallah was in
Arabic
ask somebody to tell you you have a lot of people who speak Arabic
if it is still too secret I think Google can help
to help someone
this one is asking if I want to help somebody do it Mr. Hara oh just help it depends on what he's asking.
You get a whole person comes in he's in need and he asked you to help and you know he you know he's in the you don't miss the cut off of this
good idea that somebody wants to do something which they're not sure whether it's good for him or or bad
you just have the free help
you're not sure whether what he is going to do is good or bad.
Again it
is looking for support
and not sure whether he will use your money in the wrong way or it was using right right
and this is what he is asking about something big he is asking you for food give him a special to give him actually it brings his house closer to the guidance been like so much
so normal charity that you know this person is in need you don't go for his to Hara
daytime you know that giving charity is is good. And it's okay they're going to use it the right way. You don't go is it just
making do arbitrary
way or is it only restricted to those people who are in the message or applicable to everyone and inshallah is applicable to everyone even my soldier
I don't have any evidence that you sent it to them put in the masjid
some people say to do is to correct every step the important metric we need.
No problem doing is a far more than what as long as the doubt still exists. Uncertainty swings you repeat this other than that one is one one is more than enough. That it it eight months does. But if you're still not sure you, you you're not satisfied
with any of the two choices. You repeat
the idea even if they don't go to the several times it is
matter of
making friends when we do
meet your friends, when
you join the place you come to a university for instance, and you don't know who to hang out with.
That is somebody who you are having some doubt,
to come closer to
a farmer is very important matter because you don't know this person might be bad how many people became bad and corrupt because of their friend.
So you really need to ask a lot smarter to choose for, you know, guide you whether to take him as your close friend or not.
You know, it is a very serious matter to say when you do is any thought also is one also.
Yes, we have come to the end of our class today in the last month or two we're going to good until he can be with all of you in the whole ecology meeting field Subhanak la Morbihan Chateau La Land, as the record will be latest in a while.