Ibrahim Nuhu – Lessons From Surah Nur Part 1
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The segment discusses the difficulties of sending a letter to a woman named Lala facing a problem, the importance of community engagement and sharing information to avoid negative consequences, and the danger of heart disease. The segment also touches on the importance of protecting one's health and privacy, avoiding false positives and false negatives, and avoiding cultural practices and embarrassment. The importance of finding one's own independence and avoiding giving up on one's children is emphasized.
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Smilla rahmanir rahim.
Salatu salam ala mobiles Rahmatullah mean NBN. Our Habib bin Mohammed he said Allahu Allahu Allah Allah He was suffering he will send him a MOBA
okay first of all sorry for
should I call it late coming
I have already informed the hidden
yeah the one whom you sent
that is going to be very difficult today to make it on time but
we both accept the challenge I will have the lifeless we're here to have some few seconds in sha Allah Allahu Akbar Chi in the Israelites
so far I'm not mistaken we are dealing with similar to a move and they told me I was
I reached iron number 27 That
letter Hello beauty and durability. Have that established you want to send him on?
That he can Hi, welcome Lala come to the Kuru.
So
just a quick refreshment
so data node deal with deals with social issues social issues
it's a very important tool for the community to
to understand
it deals with many issues that our communities and environments are dealing with.
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it possible to reduce this Oh you guys are hot.
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you can have the beat out of the class.
So
many of the issues that
our society is suffering from
the solution is found in this surah
as well especially the first part of it
especially the first part of it. And the lesson that we're going to be dealing with today sha Allah it needs from you strong heart needs from you strong dedication and a strong understanding that Allah subhanaw taala never prescribed something for you. Unless if it is beneficial for you.
That is the wisdom behind
the actions of Allah subhanaw taala anything Allah subhanaw taala did is for you.
It just asked you need to submit. So matters
that we're going to be discussing. They need submission
a person to just understand that this is for his own benefit.
Don't do it.
For the sake of trying that you're doing it for the sake of faith. Allah subhanaw taala says is okay, you just believe is in it to be okay.
So,
after Allah subhanaw taala talks about the purification of society and how to create a good
relationship between the members of the society and to work for each other. Okay, I look at my brother or my sister like part of me in the way if
they got affected, I consider this as myself getting affected.
That's why Allah subhanaw taala says,
hola, hola. Hola. Hola, la Koo, Rama to whom as a coming coming? I hadn't Abba. You know, in the lessons.
We dealt with last session for the surah to note we have recited this if Allah says if not because of the favor from him.
Nobody will be okay. Is there anyone who doesn't have problems in his life? Nobody everyone has. But Allah subhanaw taala closed the eyes of others and he concealed our affairs. He says if not because of him, nobody will be okay. You know.
As I always mentioned the statement of Abu Mohammed who says was a telethon. I'm sorry him. I see any hola Hello.
What's the third anniversary? Se Jani Allah he
and him also forgot but he says Allah subhanaw taala. You are the one who closes the eyes of the creation from mice.
and they don't see that
was the third time I've seen him. I'm sorry him acrd If they are to see cubby hemisphere at the evil part of my secret, it says La Voz Salam, ala Yemeni akana he said I believe whoever means me after that will never say salam to me. But Allah has wanted to do all of this. So he Allah is saying, Lola for the La Jolla Aleikum. Wa Rahmatullah as a coming coming I had an Abba, one of the righteous people was asked Allah subhanaw taala, making more than what we expected him to,
to be why some people are so good, they're so excellent, but sometimes they it tells a bit.
It said, maybe they did not show appreciation as one, or it happened throughout their life, they met somebody who has deviated and they make fun of them. Then Allah subhanaw taala tested them because of that,
you know, it's very dangerous for somebody to be on the wrong way, and you make in front of them, you're saying something bad against them. That's if they go in the wrong direction. What if they did not do that which you are talking about? Allah smarter might test you, you. So Allah says, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah Kumara, to whom as a coming Come mean I hadn't ever done. So the community has to be together, you conceal the affairs of the brothers and the sisters, we hear something evil about them. If it is something that they need advice, you go to them and advise them.
You don't spread it.
Nowadays, we do the opposite.
It doesn't spread, we go and talk to them first series of discussion series of Naseeha. After they don't listen, and they kept on spreading the innovation to the people, this is the time when they cross the bridge across the line, then you have to inform others to be to be careful.
Okay, but before this happens, we have to make sure that you have gone to them and increase them to see how because if a person is making data or to something that is wrong, if I start with the community, reminding the community about him, what do you think he will be doing, he will intensify, he will get angry and also make it increase and for sure you have some people who are going to listen. So if I can go to him integrate and discuss the issue and curb, stop the thing from the root, you know, that's the best thing to be done rather than rushing to the community before tackling the issue from the root. So
Allah subhanaw taala after all of this, and he prays I shattered the Allahu anha and he talks about the righteous people. And he talks about the importance of you being the good ones because this is a sign that you are also a good person when you
go with the good ones because bad people doesn't like go in with the good ones. It's very difficult for a bad person to stand, connecting himself to the good ones. Allah says Allah Kabita to little cubby if you know Kirby thriller, little cubby that will pay you to live the EB Nevada he will not let the bachelorette come her own.
So after this, then Allah subhanaw taala start to talk about one very important issue.
Heart of a believer has to be preserved.
Anything that can affect your heart can destroy you
completely. If your heart get affected, you will be gone.
And you remember in the Surah inshallah in the next lesson, I don't know after 10 years, when
it comes then we will be talking about the idea that says Allah who was somehow to pull out methanol only he communicated via Misbah al mismo he's a judge as the judge to
come on during your condemnation Dorothy Mobarak kittens eternity lash, okay to whatever we can do say to high UV, whatever long term source who now it's a very excellent, excellent description of iman in the heart of a believer, the light that alas motorcars in your part, we'll be discussing that. So some scholars tried to make connection because here Allah has monitors talking about the heart. And when you disturb your heart with disease that light given to you by Allah subhanaw taala which is placed in your heart only gone and if that light is gone, you cannot see. Allah says Flm is zero fill out the feta quinolone colluvial Yaki Luna via either yes ma'am. I wouldn't be here. But
in the Hala terramin Episode we were like in Tamil Gulati is to do Allah says why can they travel on Earth go to so many places, they can see a lot of signs a lot of is of Allah smarter which will cause them to reflect. Allah says feta Cornella home Kulu Boone yaki Luna as the reason why we believe with no doubt that the place of the heart
The article is, is what the heart no doubt Allah's motto says collusion here I can only be here multitap Paul is here is the heart is so that they can have the heart that can reflect and understand and ponder and come back to the truth. Because when you travel, you see how Allah is going to deal with those criminals. You know, you see a lot of blessings of Allah Sparta which doesn't exist in the place where you are recited that will cause you to increase to have an increase in the Eman Allah says Hakuna loan Colombia Colombia, I don't know Yes, mountain might reach a place which you might not see things but your ears can hear about it or you read about the place. Because
traveling
might not be necessarily a physical. When you read the books about those nations like you're traveling to their own destination. So hear about them.
You don't see but you hear about them. Allah Sahaja says in a holla Tamela bizarro? Well I can tell I'm an Illuminati decider. Allah says Listen, the real blindness is not the one on the eyes, that the real blindness is the one that is in the heart but Allah swore to remove the lights from the heart it cannot see when the heart doesn't see a person will go astray whatever but well but Allah says in Niger now Allah Colombia him I can mention if the who or the other and him welcome
we're into the room either who there fella yet to do it then Aveda. Look at the expression Allah says we put something to, to block the heart from seeing the truth, to remove the light and he puts a metal to block to block it. Allah says we're piada and him welcome. You need us to hear to listen to the reminder that it gets to the heart. Allah says We close the heart and we blocked the ears even if the ears is open the heart is blocked
How do you get the truth that's why Allah smarter make that conclusion. He says we're into the room in who there fella yet, either. Abba, if you are to invite these kind of people to righteousness, they will never be guided by but then because how can he get the guidance if the heart is closed? Allah it is impossible for you to get the guidance as long as your heart is no.
That's what we have to be very careful. I mean, from reaching this conclusion whereby Allah's mentor will lock the heart of a person, this is one of the most dangerous situation a person can be.
Allah says Allah pulumi aquafaba
it is like, take the heart coverage with the that paint the rain,
you know, and then after that, put it in the lock, lock it in database, you know, even if you don't put it in some places and lock it. It has the paint, which is a reflection of the things we're committed May Allah smarter protect us. The most things you have, the more I mean darkness you're going to have in your in your heart.
So one of the most senses part of humankind that is 100% Correct connected, that I mean that is deeply connected to the heart is the eyes,
his eyes, once you see a thing, it will reflect to the heart, the heart will reflect over that which you have seen with your eyes, the message will be sent very quickly.
And if a person is not careful, those images that you see they will remain in the heart. Then you reach the situation of Allah.
It limited article in a letter Alec LaHood inside. Salah says God if Allah smarter doesn't show mercy upon the person who reached the situation would never come back.
I don't think in this time we're living you need me to talk about
this in detail.
The day before I come here I'm receiving a very disturbing thing about these social issues. Somebody was asking me what to do and there was nothing there is nothing to be done for us. The damage to the last the I mean the pink of the damage already take place. Why? There was nothing except not observing the man has mentioned that last month in Serato and knew
a Muslim should act as a Muslim you know, Muslim should act as a Muslim all the time. This this
apparents you know, you should be representing Islam, the manifestation of Islam has to be in you we are different. No matter how much we try to accommodate others. Allah Allah will not work because we are different and we cannot be together you know? Allah subhanaw taala says luck on the Unicode well lady, you know we cannot be together you know the past they are very sensitive in these matters. They are mentioned that aroma or the lava and who it doesn't want those others living with the Muslim in their in their own territory to dress like the Muslims. This is our territory, we have to be different. We have to be different, you know, they focus on this for sulla sama segmentation
By becoming a woman who you follow people, you will be one of them. Shackle Islamic Jamia says for who among whom he said the least you can say about this text, this expression of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is to say that it is one of the major sin for a person to imitate the most.
This is a major thing.
Other than that, he says if you look at the text itself men who means what one of them, one of the means, is also one of them.
But he says, If we avoid that interpretation, and we come to the list that a person is not supposed to do that, what does that mean? We have our own rituals, we have our own cultural practices, we have our own things to be preserved, which are connected to our religion, they have to be preserved. But nowadays, nobody's saying By the way, that we cannot benefit from them.
If they have something which we don't have, which I doubt
in terms of social life, Wallah who we teach them, oxygen will be law, we should teach them and those people who are very concerned about among them, they will tell you this, in terms of social life, Islam will teach
themselves dunya technology, yes, we can manufacture them because we lost it.
If it is, okay, it's if it is true that it came from us, we lost it because of our problems. But man is an attitude in social life.
We teach them. Somebody says one of their president says if you want your family structure to be intact, you have to accommodate the Muslim family life. This is where respect lies. The husband understand that he's living with a wife and a wife understand that she's living with a husband. And parents understand that they have children, you know, and children they understand that they have parents. They don't have this, you know that. God see, oh, as somebody who's living in that place, they don't have this. We do have. So where the enjoyment and relax and relief lies is in Islam. But unfortunately, you can see the Muslim ummah nowadays there, they amaze our children. If you
mentioned those countries, they are like yuck fizzle
is imagekind Medina, was that
I mentioned one of those countries, you know, it's like Jana is mentioning
Hala, but this is deficiency Allah it has to be fixed, you know, we're losing, we're losing if you get connected to the community, wherever you are, you see these things coming out.
May Allah subhanaw taala grant us good and help us to understand the seriousness of this issue and to come back to the truth which is nothing but the book of Allah smart Allah and the Sunnah of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam so heart has to be preserved and any means that can destroy the heart must be preserved and one of them is the eyes I mentioned that another room sir so men museum even this
is a by a very poisonous arrow that IBLEES use to attack the heart
that's it
that's why if you exercise more or lowering your gaze Allah He the moral if you get from the heart you will not understand this but do it for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala you will experience what I'm telling you
the Allah smarter goddess so Allah smarter says yeah you have Latina amor, so he started with the smallest one, the one that can reach that can lead you to reach the big one may Allah Subhana Allah protect you what is that taking permission not come into the place to meet people who don't want to meet you at that moment.
Allah says you have lived in Latin Hello which invariably Hatter tester and is what you sell them or
their incredible locum la loco to the crew don't get my if I miss something you've expected
Allah subhanaw taala put to the correct stop sleeping I've already said that. Okay, yeah you have Molina Amarula to the collusion variable you tickle. He says do not enter houses that does not belong that don't belong belong to you.
You have a house with doesn't belong to you. Allah smarter says don't go inside this house.
Had to test any su what to send him all.
The best interpretation of this the interpretation of the companions of the prophets Allah sama that says, As sell communists in us.
Salam comes before the tastiness what is the Salam? Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Oh As salam ala
so that's the first thing you should do is you say As salam o Allah,
and also the scholars also
reminded us that based on the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, a person isn't
Not allowed to say the salam to the people in the house while looking at the door.
Do we do that?
Nowadays we do that sometimes you
will be wondering how am I going to open the door you know, because the man is just like this face in looking at the house.
And that's wrong. The prophets Allah Azza wa said you shouldn't stand in front of the door, he should step aside and then say this aloud because if the owner of the house open the house, open the door and the system the houses do not know that somebody is there they remain in the way they are because this is their house. You can tell the woman that she has to wear hijab every place because there is expectation of somebody to come and say Salah
she can't do that. So she exercises her freedom inside the house so if you open the door and this person May Allah guide him is there hanging around standing and then sometimes also looking to see whether you come out or not? What is he going to see?
They'll see a rod
and that one is not easy to be deleted, you know that study easy to be deleted. And it might lead or it led to a lot.
So Allah smarter says, had tested and is what Salim Allah had. So we learned that according to the Sunnah, when you come to the house, you don't stand in front of the door, you step aside at the right side or left side the prompts a lot Summerson and then you say a Salam aleykum
to get it, you will make the salah
if they reply Alhamdulillah
if no reply, or would you
say it again?
If they reply Alhamdulillah if they don't reply, anyone say it again.
Don't get annoyed. Say it again. And some sometimes person is like he's going to break the door. They have to listen, okay, this is their house, not yours. And you come to them. Okay, you're looking for favors because you come to them, you know. So you have to knock it gently according to their oath. And also say the Salem three times you raise up your voice not shouting, but raising of your voice in the way they will hear.
Get it? So that's what you should do. If nobody reply you then you go back.
And when was the luxury of de la Monica is he came to the house of Mr. de la. Is there a Santa Monica? Nobody replies. Said again. Nobody replies, sir. Again, nobody replies he left.
After that Erma said, I heard some voice. And it looks like Abdullah he made a case saying salam to me. Can somebody go and check? They went, they found him already left. They call him back. It came back to Mr. Omar said well how come
you came to me and you left you say salam and I came out and then you left
is that because I heard Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam are saying if you will say salaam three times and nobody listens, you go.
Oh man said you have to bring somebody to to confirm this. When you get it set us to Allah say you have to bring the witness. Otherwise, you will pay the price. Protection the Sunnah of the Prophet Allah samosa, nobody will lie, you know, he said you have to bring a witness to confer and to tell people that it's really sensitive for somebody to talk on behalf of Allah subhanaw taala or rasool Allah without having evidence about what's actually went to look into because Omar is going to punish he knows that. It went to the answer. I'm looking for somebody to support. They told him how come over doesn't know this. We will not even go ourselves we will send the youngest one among us.
Either hamirpur Muslim or Bucha in Houdini, one of them left and he went to toma Yes, I heard the prophets Allah sama saying this. For mindset. You pass the test. It says Subhanallah I how I missed this one. I became so busy with the farm and business and I missed this hadith. Omar is to go to the province that Allahu alayhi wa sallam a bit to know he and his his friend from down south.
Today I go to the market. You go to that's a say with Rasulullah Salallahu Salam when he come back and come and share with me whatever you got.
And tomorrow I will do this is how they do they understand that there is a rite
of Allah subhanaw taala upon them so they don't get busy completely with a business contrary to
Allah says Ya the Mona Lisa had a minute hair to dunya Whoa man in Archana to hope God Lord Allah smartasses if you ask him about dunya he know
Was everything. What do you ask him about? Accurate, even how to fix his prayer? He doesn't know. And he doesn't care about that also, because if he can see we're gonna learn about it.
So when I say salaam three times and nobody answered, I go, based on the hadith of Abu Musa and Asha, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, I came to the house of Allah even alongside or one of the companions of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam.
And then he said, As Salam aleykum The man said
he said, a seller while ago, the man says
it says A salaam aleikum. The man says
it happens with that and also it happens with
the province of Lhasa left where the man did not hear the fort Salam went out, and he got the sola sola sola sola sola sama told him Oh, yeah here he said, Yes, yes. I was there. And it says wala Hara select the first Salam I heard it.
I heard the personal but I intentionally set this reply to salaam silently so that you will say it again because this is asking for Allah smarter, to grant me peace. In some narration. He told the House Members let's get more salam from Missoula Salah Salem, nobody should apply loudly. You know, just keep on saying salam replying because Allah says you have to reply. He say I also live Allah I just wanted that Salam because he the more you say, I know Allah smarter will accept. So whenever a Salah says Salaam Alaikum, he will say and he told the House also nobody should raise his his voice, because he will I will keep saying and then he CCR also like please make dua for me. And the Prophet
salallahu Alaihe Salam, I'll make dua for them.
Can I do that?
But then forget they are not dealing with Rasul Lysa Lally syllable right last month ago, so you should reply the person loudly done reply him cytolytic that was Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi. Salam and Yura Zeid. Okay.
So is it a printable? Okay, he says her Tatarstan is that Tristan is what is the only moral area so two things Allah is going to ask you to do. The first one is to say salah the second one is Alice, Tina's Alice stay in US means Alice Didn't
you say?
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Subhanallah even this word, they have been fixing people when they use other than this, they will tell him say at home.
When they say any other words, they will say tell him no say at home, can I come in? That's the stainless Adhaan
Why do you need to take permission after the person already granted you the reply?
I thought reply should be enough to know that the permission is granted for you.
Especially nowadays also when you stop and say I can Can I can people get annoyed you know that?
Allah when you ask some people, when I tell them Can I come here come come
Subhanallah if I and sometimes scholars are less student of knowledge during this.
So Allah subhanaw taala asked you to do is stay in us? Because if I say salaam to you, is it was too hard for you to reply.
No, why do you have to reply? But you are replying me at the moment. Allah subhanaw taala asked you to reply he says for how you want the turkey. You would do the reply as quick as soon as he finished this up, you reply him.
But you might reply him at the moment you already for him? Because you're replying because Allah says reply.
That's why it's good for him after he hears your reply to say what can I come in?
And wait for your permission.
Okay, there are some people they don't go for. Can I come in? What did they do? They put their head inside first, and then said, Can I come in? You tell him what you're already in.
But actually, the last time I tell you what to do, we'll talk about that challenge for a second.
So it's a nice it's like this. Can I come in? So sometimes also the people of the house they might ask you Who who is that?
Sometimes we get annoyed? Why, why?
And what? What do we usually say?
Me, Anna?
Who are you?
Javin came to realize Allah Silva
Santa Santa Monica Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said who are you? He said I Anna Anna
the prophets Allah Azza wa said Anna
young. So the scholar said you have to mention your name in the way you will be recognized by the members of the house.
You have to mention your name in the way you will be recognized by the members of the house. If you have lockup,
you have to mention the lockup.
For instance, we have so many of the Romans, one of them visits you cannot just say up drama. Say Abdurrahman for that drama and for that, he has to mention something that you will understand, you know, do I have a right not to open the door? If he doesn't? Yes. Who are you? He doesn't want to mention I told you I have drama and Okay, stay, which I'm drama.
Okay, anyway, so this is what it should be doing. You tell your name in the way you will be recognized by the members of the House.
Whatever person gets inside the house without your permission.
Hit him.
The Prophet sallahu alayhi wa sallam said if somebody comes to your place without your permission, and you hit his eyes, you destroy the eyes
as free
or who had other other means, free of charge. You are not responsible.
The product somebody was trying to get inside the room of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
And also Lhasa sama Jesus came, just came back from from the bathroom, and he was fixing his hair. So the man was trying to cover so let's Allah sama said, I wish I knew you were coming. We'll get ready for you with this, this comb he was holding. So if I know you're coming, I will prepare for you is a what is the point of making is to either why Allah has wanted to ask you to do to ask permission is an agile Menagerie and Basarab because of the eyes, because it's very dangerous at that moment the eyes can see something which will be very difficult for you to forget.
And that's the reason why he said if you destroy the eyes of somebody who comes to your house without permission, that will be free of charge. But as I said, you should also look at the time and the environment you're looking you're living in nowadays even dogs have right you know more than human beings in some circumstances, it is through the eyes of somebody else also is
is gone, you know, so shout at him scream at him, tell him not to come back do anything that will remind him you know, in the way he will not do it again.
But then go to that alas if you're in a place where this type of reaction could be accommodated I don't know a place which accompanies this right now. But this is what the prophets Allah sama said to warn the OMA that this is very, very wrong in the design bit hacky Maka, that's why I said you should tell him whatever words you can tell him to. Let him understand that he has done something that is that is wrong.
Allah says had that tester and is what Salim Allah area so still we're trying to protect the eyes which will end up by protecting the heart. What is the name Allah Allah Allah said Daddy Coco Loco, la la come to the Quran, this is always good and better for you.
is always good and better he will say in the second ayat Allah smart Allah says
that up Honolulu become less in Surah to Allah has up at Honolulu become more Colombian. When he talked to us about having a conversation with the wives of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he says up Hara localu become popular behavior.
So it's more purified. It brings brings more purification to your heart and the hearts of those who you're you're conversing with? Allah say Derek Makoto, look Malala come to the curb. And then he says very limp digital file empty GDP ha Hidin. Flatter Hello, hatha yoga and
if you come to the place and you couldn't find anyone in that place, then go to the house, even if there is nobody who is inside. You have to wait and look for permission first.
Allah says we're in Pilla, Kumu furniture who asked Calico, okay, that's what I'm looking for. If you are told to go back, it is always better for you to go back.
We get annoyed. You come to the person and the person tells you Wallah. I'm very sorry. I really don't know how to say but at this moment, I cannot receive you. I hope you will accept my apology and you understand my circumstance.
As a Muslim Oh, did you tell him relax? That's okay. Actually, I thought
You are free to receive somebody that's why I come now, but inshallah I will come later. If you can just let me know the time I should visit again, inshallah you will see me at that moment of time, you don't know.
We will get angry nowadays, if he tells us I come all the way from this place. And then now you rejected me, you know?
Especially in the in the universities, sometimes you are just busy with something that you have to complete, and then somebody will just knock on the door.
I'm here, can I have five minutes?
And he tells him go back now and he will think that no, it's so harsh, how can you reject me already come to the place
we have to understand that this is also part of Islam.
A person who you expect him to be busy take an appointment between you and him, then just diverge. So metabolism will be mystified again, you can just like that, and then you, you you force him to accept you at that moment. Come on,
you should know that people are not living for for us they have also their own personal issues.
So that's, that's it. So thinking of the time to visit this person should be very smart. Sometimes
we visit people in the wrong time. But when we then get also the good reception we we complain
you have to think look at the cultural practice what exactly people used to visit others. You got that moment. What exactly this person I'm expecting him to be less busy. You go and visit him at that moment. And if he tells you no I'm busy, Allah subhanaw taala says NGO who was Calico that's better for you, because it will protect your heart. You know from having any thoughts, negative thoughts against him and also he also will not engage in that
first year who was Calico and then
Allah who we met Amma Luna Allah, Allah Sahaja is aware of whatever you do, then
lace Alikum Johanna and Tara Hello, we use their musculature, we have Metallica. So we're done with the places where people reside. But now on the last one, Allah subhanaw taala says you have no problem in entering places where there is nobody living in those spaces.
Nobody lives in that place can you enter Allah smarter says no problem because there is nobody who has been in a place if you have something that will take you to that place, then you go if you don't have done go, because although they don't live, they might be keeping something inside that place and people so you get an insight, you know, if something happened to you the blame also, Allah says if you have something inside that you need some needs inside the house where there is nobody who is residing there, then you can go nobody to say salaam because there is nobody there. No need to take permission because there is nobody that grant you that, that permission.
Allahu Allah to do no matter so he says
you should go right?
You might know that that is you don't have a need but then you go Allah subhanaw taala says he knows that which is in the heart. You have to make sure that between you and Allah subhanaw taala there is something that can take you to the to that space that Allah subhanaw taala grant us. So this is the last idea concerning getting permission or how to get to meet somebody at his home.
First Allah's martyr said don't get inside the house without permission. Don't get inside the house without Salam and then you take permission and you have to wait for the permission to be given and Rasul Allah, Allah so Allah asked you to step aside first and see the wish and ask the permission first. If you are given the permission when you come and enter, don't stand in front of the door, okay. And this is also applicable to the husband and wife is not just a stranger
is wrong for you to come back home unexpectedly if you have a wife,
you will like you know, probably go to your house at any moment. But if you have a wife is drawn for you to come back unexpectedly. Why? Why is it important for you to let them know you're coming?
The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I used to, I mean sent somebody to inform the people in Medina that we are on the way back.
This will handle sometimes after he reached Medina next to Medina, he used to have a transit to wait for a while people to get ready, you know, and also back there people can get ready to receive their loved ones who have been
missing.
And that's a very good signal. And he mentioned the reason why this should take place. He said had
time to shape up a shirt with
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it says so that a shelter a shelter is the sister who, whose head is not prepared.
The shower is messy, dusty, you know?
Why does she live like that? Because the husband has done that she's beautified herself for who for him? Actually, in some places it is opposite. Husbands are
complaining.
Why is he complaining?
Because he doesn't see the beatification unless if there is an event.
That's why they always pray for the event to come.
If not, they have to see the normal life. And somebody was making it in a very excellent way. I really appreciate this distraction. It says sisters have to be very careful at home, the sister who married she has to be very careful, because you always tell him, please, you're supposed to be here, please, you're supposed to be here, please, you're supposed to be here. But she forgot that the environment also is fighting for their own interests. What is the I'm talking about this bad
attitude of the Western community that we accommodate in our own place, sometimes
pictures and images and people are going out without proper dress, you know, everything is there outside. There is a strong need for something to keep his eyes at home. If he couldn't find what he wants, and the environment also is fighting for his interest to gain him to detach him from the house, what do you think will happen? Allah one of two things, either he gotta look for that second halal or he will go and look for what the other alternative which is haram Hala is taking place on 28th is taking place up to date today also, I heard something like this,
we contributed to this, we contributed to this, it is part of I mean responsibility, that husband and wife to make sure that they observe this, what can keep the other partner calm,
to restrict him one of the most and the main objective of marriage is what to satisfy this natural desire, so that a person will not cross the boundaries.
Some of the research says if a person sees something outside
what does he do? He said he go back to his family, because they also have the same thing that one has
Subhanallah and then he will come back to the family members who hear nothing except that him nothing but you smell nothing except
onions and garlic and all of those things that you know
he will wish that he did not come back to the house. And then tomorrow we tell him it tequila
it will say go and talk to the House of Saud tequila first.
Seriously, these are serious matters Wallah you know we have to take them seriously. That's why patience is needed.
I always say that as a husband and wife. There shouldn't be you know, Allah did not put a barrier. If one of them puts a barrier against the other one problem is going to take place in that marriage, whether we like it or we don't
be very careful. Remember, as it says, take it seriously. It's not a joke. When you marry Alaska or Chad did not put a barrier, this idea that we're going to be talking about we're talking about this no barrier between husband and wife.
This these are the only two entities that can see each other in the weight loss once I created them. But then if the husband is going to look for his wife and then she tells him she's busy or she needs him and he tell her is busy, what do you think will happen if they feel a lot smarter they just be patient cry Turkleton Allah you know, other than that, the environment is telling them what welcome come
is easy to commit sin wala is very easy for a person to commit sin.
The sinners who repented they will tell you this very simple in order to commit sin.
Somebody lives in the community who are selling their righteous people, someone who can radically say I don't know why they worry, trying to pressure the government to let them bring their wives he says to satisfy yourself is very easy in that place, you know,
so that you can understand that yes, there is a strong need for something to be done inside the house so that a person will restrict Himself or restrict Himself in the house to the house.
And he will not share his attitude with the community. The prophets Allah sama said, shouldn't come let the helicopter open the rocket means you just come at night just like that without further notice. It said don't do that. Because you might see something which you don't like it come and see your wife like this.
What do you think will happen?
You are so happy to come back. But at the same time, it's not. It's like you're not welcome
to get it so that's where Celexa says shouldn't do that, wait first, let them those people who can fix themselves decorate themselves, just to hit that mageba is talking about removing those hair that are not supposed to be in that place, remove them to get ready for the husband to come. That's why Rasul Allah is Allah sama said, shouldn't come like this, you have to send somebody to inform them that you come in our time, we don't need that much because everyone has before, tell them I'm on the way.
No need to come to your family at the moment. So this is not just applicable in the cases of Germany. It is also applicable when you are around. Whenever you come to your house.
Let your family know the time you are coming. If you're coming in at a time, which you don't usually come to the house at that moment, call them and let them know. Because now they're not leaving with you, they leave the house to remain in the way they want. But if they know you're coming, they will fix it in the way you want.
it the first time you come and see this whose fault is that? That's your fault. But we usually hold them accountable which and this is our fault. Inform her first that you're coming if the house is not fixed, and you can talk.
So it's really simple things you know, but it keeps the good relationship. Because I'm telling you even see that something that you see from your wife or she sees from you can create a bit of distance. And that can affect the relationship between your heart. That's what Islam is trying to block to close all of these means and that was it that can lead to this kind of detachment between the husband and the wife.
May Allah smart Allah grantors good, some of the Tabea in some of the companions when they come to the house, they see a Solomonic group. And when they reach closer to the place they they the
things you do any college you fix your bread
something
it doesn't have a name
no clearly this is explanation.
It means you are next to the house. You know it's am not like you are you having a problem? No you want them to know that you are coming?
Cigna Okay. That's good.
Send some signal you know that you are here. They will be happy if you're good.
If you are a monster when you say that one is how life will be like Kamala on the IRS, you know
may Allah sponsor protect us from this kind of life. Some people when they reach home, the family will be in a state of calamity. There'll be thinking of what to do
they will be thinking of what to do
that was a story
Okay, this one is the story I don't know whether it happens but one of the our our
seniors in the Islamic University of Medina was narrating this is authentic or not, but people sometimes repeat themselves. But the story just forget about the content. But take the message from
this person went to the hospital and don't laugh until I finish. If you laugh, I stopped okay. This person went to the hospital.
And medical doctor asked him to provide urine economical Mala for the test. He provided the URI
and all these you know technology how to bring it from home. You know, he provided the urine.
And what happens? One of the wives was sleep sweeping the the house she kick because the rain was spilled. She knows that class holidays and numbers. This person is
going to act like module.
What did she do? She put hers inside.
And she was pregnant.
I said the love but I also love
so he took it to the hospital, you know, to the hospital for the test.
And the doctor check. They told him you're four months
old anyway, you got the message right? The guy cries a lot he criticizes. So what's wrong with you? This is from me. You
may do it again. They do it again at the same result is coming.
And then of the story he went back, you know he cries because the wife says to keep quiet because nobody wants to say I'm the one you know, she wants to keep her manager
I mean they told him at the end of the day and then he was so happy and the know of it nowadays because
He realized that he's not carry the baby.
But anyway whether it happens or not happened, but I take it as a lesson. Wallah. If you are lenient to the family in the house, and you forgive people who speak the truth,
you hold them accountable what they did the simple, simple, tiny things, they're going to lie.
You know why people don't lie to select Salah Salem, they tell him even if they don't like they tell him also that we will not do.
Because he doesn't punish honesty, Malik says Rasul Allah is Allah sama never told me why. Why didn't you do this? Or why did you do that? I'm not saying you should do like this, because sometimes you have to ask for why. But be moderate. Always act like this era, when he was asked many Karlen, fatty non motor fill our motor Bobby, somebody asked him who is a smart person who's asking somebody who has occurred, he says unfettered is somebody who is very smart. And also at the same time, especially when it comes to the family life, Moto Raffin, he overlooks a lot. He knows their mistakes, but he focused on the main one.
Kids can play around him, the wife can do so many things, which might say out of negligence, just overlook, focus on the big one, there are big issues which are taking place in your life. You know, this should be the focus, but then every single thing you talk about it, that sister from the heads of Amazon, she was describing how her husband, she said what? Wallah Yes. And what I had when he comes back home, he's like fat. Fat is what? The cheetah, right? Okay. They said, it's these animals leaves a lot. What does she mean, she doesn't mean that he's leaves a lot, but he is in the house, but as if he is not inside the house, there has been people in the house have their own freedom. And
Wallah, I'm telling you, my brother says, I see this in our children, you know,
remove the punishment, a person will come to you and tell you that I did this
when you were absent. And I remember that you told me not to do it.
Compare this with the previous life when you punish them when they do something wrong.
If you're, the more you punish, the more they lie, until you finish all of your punishment. But still, they will not tell the truth, you have to find it by yourself.
But the moment you stop the punishment, don't you ever raise up your hand on your child, you know, I'm saying the child and not even wanting to say the wife, know even your child, don't raise up your hand on your child. Unless if it is really necessary. Always for me, you're opening the door for them to be smart, given them chance also to speak the truth and to stay away from anything. And I'm telling you, you know,
you beat them a million times. That will not be as harsh as you disconnecting yourself from them. If your relationship with them is good. You forgive, forgive, forgive, forgive, they enjoyed that kind of relationship. They're living with the Father, they are living with the mother, Allah He the day you show angry face, they cry, you beat them, they will not cry, and they don't care. But if you have to distract yourself from them, they will worry about this. And their life will change. You can see the change and everyone's gonna see the change in that environment. So that's more powerful than one. And btw, that's why Islam doesn't recommend you but it makes it as a last resort. Rasul Allah,
Allah sama said, what? Keep the
the stick in your house hanging on the wall,
you know, isn't hanging on the wall? It is there. So when the child decided to do something, he always looked just like the police. The police, where do they stay? They hide? No, it's wrong for police to hide.
They have to be present. Because we want the present to be
apparent to the people so that the human when they see them, they don't do the crime.
They don't hide until the crime happens and then they come and catch the criminal. No, their presence is good. Because they are not looking at everyone but everyone's looking at them. And you will be thinking that if I do they're going to see me they might not see.
But that will deprive the evil from taking place in in the community. May Allah smart Allah grant us good and ability to observe this man is taken from the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam so Allah subhanaw taala says in the next I
call the remote minea who don't mean upside him we follow Fujian
Allah subhanaw taala now so we're done with this right? Then Allah smarter says colon movement in a good domain of Saudi were further flujo tell the believers those people who have Iman, your god do mean absolve him
to lower some part of their gaze.
We're full of Raja
Salah very interesting mentioned it's a global mean upside of him but we're further Farrugia
they should lower some part of their gaze where photo Fujian Allah did not say where photo min Fuji
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to close your eyes from looking at the opposite gender Allah's Mattila asked you as a believer and should do that
Is it a sin for a person to look at the opposite gender
is it a synth
we all agree with that
is it a sin? No not
the first is okay, right. Okay, so when you have the first just look don't turn your head because
you just move aside then classy loss isn't like that.
So then don't say the first one you know?
Although the nurse says that can All right. Well, I can all I mean the one that happens which comes unexpectedly or without any need for that. Alaska hotel will grant you forgiveness for this.
What I said like a failure, but it's not. In the ways we understand that you just go ahead don't turn
up the line not BASET. Mariah to che an ash Bahaman ashba Billa mummy, Min Hadith in Rojava War era. He said I have never come across something that is closer to the lamb that Allah Sparta mentioned in Serato.
So this imagine
even I memorize more than you you know, and you're my support
is Alladhina Justin guna kabbah if you will for Inshallah, and lemon Allah sponsor says what Islam? They stay away from Kabul isn't one for wash except for them. What Islam
so this, Abdullah Hassan Abbas said the best interpretation for lemma is to use the hadith of Abu Huraira
these are the minor sins especially since that are related to this issue of oversights in Allah Katha Ballymoney item hover over minute zero at the rocker radical Amhara.
Allah smarters has driven upon a human being his portion of Zina and he's going to reach that lamb Hala as long as you live the time will come you observe one of these
he says a line and it hasn't yet the two eyes committed Xena was in Oklahoma another
he says well hold on Ernie. The is also coming Dena was in Oklahoma as several
how does the is
commit Zina?
Let's get into Pasha right okay talking to the woman which is not halal upon him and he's enjoying you know
he is also is receiving
one other man it doesn't there was no one listened to yesterday was in a lot of
the tangles are when he speaks also here's the the promise Allah sama said under Walidah and he doesn't he and he was in Alabama and but shoot
somebody says last
nobody says better so lesson I saw was in bash. You know, but should I?
But she means to hold somebody hardly. So if he just says
that's not bad
Hala it's a problem sometimes, you know, they use Arabic language in the wrong way.
So he says was in Oman and but we complete after that.