Hatem al-Haj – Thinking about revenge

			Now after all of this, so these are the four points to the very important to reflect, reflect on
them in so many different ways. You know, because every one has its own way of reflecting on them.
If you are going through a divorce, for instance, with your wife, for instance with your wife, God
forbid,
		

			you know,
		

			Allah protects you.
		

			Because the parent says about
		

			divorces,
		

			smartphones works.
		

			But people will go through like disagreements with their wives disagreement with their business
partners, and so on and so forth. They should reflect on this Howdy. How do you reflect on it? How,
how is living like a stranger? Basically, your focus, you're not gonna know anything constructive.
Some people when they get
		

			into a conflict, it possesses them for the rest of their lives, they want to get even for the rest
of their lives. You know, after we can separate after divorce after anything, after the breakup of
the business, that for the rest of their life, they're trying to get even,
		

			that will eat up your heart that will devour your sanity, you put the power, your your your inner
peace, there is nothing that is more detrimental to your psyche than
		

			to one to get fever, it is permissible to get even, right,
		

			it is permissible to get even fairly.
		

			But if you're getting even with the start, you will delay you from reaching your target.
		

			Want to give even if it will delay me from reaching my target, let alone if it will, detract you
from or, you know,
		

			remove you far away from your party. If it will hinder you from reaching your target through the I
don't care about getting even
		

			if it will delay you the least from getting TTR party.
		

			Don't get away.
		

			Because canceling to be hitting the minimum, any time with friends with business partners, with a
wife with a family member, without detrimental consequences to your mental and emotional,
psychological well, being someone that is not in the right mindset will not be able to excel in
serving abbastanza through you know, worship and through serving the people and all of this, it
would certainly devalue. You will lose a lot of money. If you don't, if you don't forget that
conflict. And if you don't move forward and completely remove it from your sight. Because even if it
is in your peripheral, you know, visual field,
		

			here, you're still having it in your peripheral visual field, you're still being reminded annoyed by
it, it will keep you back and it will devalue completely drop it, forget it, move on. Any kind of
you lost money, that's fine, you can lose your life,
		

			you're gonna die.
		

			So that's fine. If you know if you could get it back. If you if you could establish justice without
being derailed from your past. That is fine. Go ahead and try to seek justice. But if not, if it
were required for you for from you derailment or delay, then forget about and keep go because if you
lost some money, if she took the kids, you know make sure to check on the kids every once in a while
and make sure to you know, call them on the phone and make sure to do this and to make time for your
kids and then you know last but but that's a cheaters because that's why it's got to move on so that
you don't get late to your destination.