Hasan Ali – Marriage talk – Methai+Mahr issues

			When you're getting married, oh my god the man Reatta goes on a simple marriage, there's so much
react so much showing off. Marriage is for whose sake guys? For whose sake? Allah sake, the whole
nicaya is supposed to be done for Allah sake. And they've now ended so many things that every step
of the way there is react from the moment they bring them the tie. Alright, the Mishti law, let me
tie in the beginning. You've seen these people they bring in especially with the bumble is okay.
		

			With the with the mama Bumble, I can say this, the amount of Muay Thai they bring.
		

			is I mean, it's probably worth about 100 pounds or over 100 pounds, okay, the amount they bring that
if that family were to eat it, they probably die of diabetes.
		

			should understand, right? They'll probably die of diabetes, but they can't eat it. They know even if
they're distributed amongst all the relatives and others, they still can't finish it. They have to
throw half of it away. Why did you bring that much RIA showing off? Right? The moment you're doing
your mother, okay, the MA We will know okay MA The woman has to have him or her.
		

			But what people do again is they have a battle with one another of how high they can put them out.
Why are you really doing this because of the security of your daughter daughter? Because of Allah
sake or are you doing this because you're trying to make sure that people don't criticize you and
don't blame you.
		

			People going to say oh he gave his daughter away for 10,000 pounds only. He only gave for 10,000
pounds. He could have asked for 20,000 or 50,000 He could have thrown in there a piece of land and a
piece of this and the House said well look if it's your thing that you want to throw all of that
because you want to get a security for your daughter that's different. But most people out there are
doing this purely because they want to match what others are telling them to do. And and it gets you
into trouble because then either the marriage breaks. The marriage never happens. These people
wanted to marry each other. It never happens because of your because of your silliness because you
		

			wanted to show off and a lot of the fathers don't understand this.