Hamzah Wald Maqbul – Riyad alSalihin The Prohibition of Arrogance.mp4

Hamzah Wald Maqbul
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The history and culture in Bahrain, including the use of three finger latching and the belief that people should finish their food until their meal, stress the importance of practice and humility in learning from past experiences and finding one's own way. The use of the symbol Makro in Islam, which is a deceptive image, is also emphasized. The speakers stress the importance of avoiding suffering and being mindful of one's behavior, while also discussing the use of garments and the use of the prophet sallali alaihi wa sallam as a way to be seen and emphasizing the importance of not being a criminal and being a good person.
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So we continue,

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in the chapter

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regarding the virtues of tawadur,

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of humility.

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When he would,

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when he would eat his food, he would

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lick his 3 fingers.

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Why three fingers?

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So he used 3 fingers. Yeah. Because he

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used to eat with 3 fingers. It's so

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nice to eat with 3 fingers.

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Right? Your

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your thumb and then your pointer finger, your

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middle finger, and your ring finger.

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That's what he used to. He used to

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eat so he would lick the 3 fingers.

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Why would he lick the 3 fingers?

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Because there's food on it, you're not gonna

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waste it.

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There's food on it, you're not going to

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waste it. And he said

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and it says that he said

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that if a morsel of food of one

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of you

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should fall down

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then pick it up and wipe off whatever

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like dirt or dust or or dirtiness is

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on it Take, you know, take off whatever

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part of it is no longer,

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suitable to consume

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and, eat the rest of it and don't

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leave it for shaitan. Why?

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Because the food that you waste is left

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for shaitan. So if there's some part of

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it that's consumable,

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don't waste it. Don't increase shaitan's share from

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your food.

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And he commanded that the plates should be

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licked clean, not necessarily direct with your tongue,

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but they should be,

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the the spoon or fingers or whatever should,

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get all the food out of them, and

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they should be completely clean and dry,

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when you're done with them. And he said,

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam,

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You don't know which part of the food

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Allah Ta'al has hidden the blessings in, and

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it's a hadith of Muslim.

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Now one of the one of the things

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about this hadith is what is that it

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was the custom of the Persians

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that a person shouldn't finish their food. They

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should leave some food on the plate in

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order to not look poor or needy or

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not to look hungry as a sign of

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that I don't have to eat this food.

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I can waste some of it. And some

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people do that. They'll leave a little bit

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of, you know, food on their plate or

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they'll leave a little bit in their cup.

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Aslan, a person shouldn't in sunnah is that

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people should eat together.

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They shouldn't eat separately. They should eat together

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out of the same plate. And it's a

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way of increasing love between people. So much

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so that it's even a way of increasing

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love between husband and wife, you know. People

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then they don't follow these sunnahs and afterward

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they get into fights and they say, well,

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know, we've grown distant, we've grown apart. Have

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you tried eating together one time? You know,

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your parents and children, brothers and sisters, etcetera.

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Have you tried eating together one time? There's

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a lot of khair in it. There's a

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lot of baraka in it and a lot

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of these sunun then can be implemented when

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people eat together, you know, literally from the

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from the same plate.

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So the idea is that there's baraka hidden

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inside the food. You don't know which part

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of it the baraka is in.

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When I was in Morocco,

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I was told that this is a custom

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to the Moroccans actually that that the the

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the plates when they're like to be lift

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clean, they usually give it to the youngest,

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the youngest in the family or who the

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most, like, beloved child is. Why? Because the

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barakah is there. The barakah is there, and

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so it's a sign of love and respect

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that the elders give that to the, the

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youngers.

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And this hadith is brought in which chapter

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the chapter regarding humility.

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So the reason that the Persians didn't use

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to finish their food is out of their

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arrogance.

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The reason we finish the food is that,

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is humility. And the Nabi sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam, he used to eat. How did he

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used to eat when

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how did he used to sit when eating?

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You'd always sit on the floor Sallallahu Alaihi

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Wasallam when he'd eat and he'd sit in

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one of 3 poses. 3 there were 3

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poses for eating that come through the.

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1 is squatting.

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The other is sitting with one leg up

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and one leg sitting with what the weight

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on one leg and with one leg up.

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And the third way is the the the

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way that a person sits in,

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a person sits in the salah. It doesn't

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ever come that the Nabi salasam sat leaning

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back and eating or or leaning against something.

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And when he when he was asked why

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he sits like this when eating, he said

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that I'm a slave and I prefer to

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sit like a slave. All of these things

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are.

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All of them are humility.

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They're all humility.

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And it's interesting, you know, it's something perhaps

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I've mentioned before a story but it's because

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I like it a lot. It's a good

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story. We should mention it again and again.

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Saidna Buhrerra radhiallahu ta'alaan who he was appointed

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by, Saidna Amar radhiallahu ta'alaan who to be

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the governor of Bahrain,

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which in those days was everything in between

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Basra and

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and Oman. So basically all of the eastern

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part of the Arabian Peninsula,

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what they call Kuwait and what they call,

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the Emirates and Qatar and all these places,

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it was all just Bahrain.

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And so,

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he was appointed the governor of Bahrain. And

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when the food was served, he finished his

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he was about to finish his plate. And,

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you know, one of the one of his

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political advisers or someone who thought he was

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one of his political advisers, very politely leans

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in his ear and say, don't finish your

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food because they consider it a sign of

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weakness and a sign of poverty over here

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for a person too. Finish his food. And

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in the the proper tradition of being Arab.

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Right?

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Proper Uthman, you're Arab. Right? You're Arabi. Right?

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Right? Arabic doesn't mean You

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wanna know what being Arabi means? This is

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what it means. In the proper tradition of

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being Arab, what does he say? He just

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turns around and says,

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Should I leave the sunnah of the one

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I love

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for these fools?

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What does it say to Haqim? Don't don't

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fear anything. That's what that's what that's what

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that's why Allah sent the message to these

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people. May Allah be pleased with them. Right?

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He said, should I leave the sunnah of

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the one I love

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for these fools? And so his advisers realized,

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okay, we're gonna we're gonna have, like, a

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different paradigm now that we work on,

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when advising.

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And so this is this is something that

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that, you know, it's good. You know, when

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you the practicing of eating and things like

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that, it's not like you know, I'll admit

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to you. It's not like every time I

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sit, I sit on the floor like this,

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you know, with one leg up and things

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like that. But fine. It's good to know

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what it is and it's good to practice.

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There's benefit in it. There's there's benefit in

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it,

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Insha'Allah. And it engenders in a person humility

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in front of Allah. I mean, there's so

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many sunnahs regarding the way people eat that

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are so unfortunately so

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ignored.

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You know what I mean?

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They're just so ignored.

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For example,

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right, we talked about sitting on the floor,

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we talked about several people eating sitting from

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the same plate, we talked about finishing the

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food. One of the things, that that our

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told us this, also that you'll see that

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when the food is served,

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it's good manners to wait for the food

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to be served rather than

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food is served and then you sit on

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the dinner table. And when the food is

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served, you should start eating rather than waiting

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for people to eat. Why? Because the nirma

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is the representative of Allah ta'ala at your

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table.

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The nirma is the representative of Allah ta'ala

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at your table.

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We don't make ta'adeem of other people.

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We don't venerate other people rather we venerate

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the nirma.

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So the west the system is the other

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way around. That you wait till everyone comes

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and sits and then you start eating. In

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our system, what do you do? You sit

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first and then the food is served and

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and you eat when the food is

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served. Why? Because

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the nirma is the reminder of Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala. The food is the reminder of

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Allah ta'ala. That this person say, bismillah when

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they eat and they say, alhamdulillah,

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when they're finished.

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This is how we, were taught from our

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mashaikh and this is what we learned from

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our from our teachers that that Allah ta'ala

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is the one that you remember. It's not

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one another that you should,

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magnify rather it's him and his blessings that

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he gives to us.

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And this is part of humility is that

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a person downplay their own importance and that

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they they stick to these sunnahs and don't

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worry so much about what other people think

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about them as much as they worry what

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala thinks about them.

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So hadith we read before in this. There's

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but again, it's the Nabi sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam, you know, being humble with people. He

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says that Allah Ta'ala

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did not raise

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a prophet except for he had been at

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some time or another

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a a herder of of of sheep and

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goats.

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And so his companions said

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to him, and you also,

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and he said,

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yeah. I used to,

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I used to herd,

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herd the sheep and goats, and I used

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to get paid. They'll break pararit is like

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a broken piece of a coin. They used

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to break off sections of coins and give

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them to me as as as a as

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a gift. Right? We talked about this that

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there's no shame in in working for a

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living.

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That's another thing is that the Nabi is

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now the sovereign ruler of Madinah Munawwara, and

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he has thousands of,

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thousands of followers, and he has armies underneath

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his command, etcetera, etcetera. But there's no shame

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in admitting, you know, a person's humble past,

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and there's no shame in you know? We're

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just like herding goats and sheep is like

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the the,

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whatever, Makin

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Madinan Hejazi equivalent of having, like, a minimum

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wage job. There's no shame in doing work,

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and he admitted. It. In fact, he was

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bringing good lessons out of it that a

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person everyone can a person can get good

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lessons out of everything. You get a job

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at Dairy Queen, you're serving ice cream to

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people, you have to wear the kind of

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that that, you know, uniform that you're probably

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not gonna get a whole lot of marriage

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proposals while you're wearing it or whatever. But

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still, you learn something from it. You learn

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how to be patient with people. You learn

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how to take care of the customer. You

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learn how to do things cleanly, you know.

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I hope you learn you learn a lot

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of how to show up on time and

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how to deal with your boss and with

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other cranky employees and customers and whatnot. So

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he's he's saying, look, you know, I did

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this thing and I learned from it. I

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benefited from it. And he's sharing that with

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people and he was not too pride proud

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to take the job and he was not

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too proud to share that he took the

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job with one another. It's one of the

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beautiful things about America, masha'Allah, is that in

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many of our countries you come to come

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from, people are too class conscious to ever

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be able to take jobs like this, which

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is not a good thing. But, you know,

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here,

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you know, you get a chance to to

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do a little bit of the dirty work

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yourself, So, alhamdulillah,

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Let's benefit in it.

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It.

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A

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a a a a invitation in which I

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was to be fed a Quran, the Quran

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is

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the part of the leg of

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of a goat or sheep that's between the

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the the knee and between the the half

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mark of the shank. And so there's not

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a whole lot of meat there. It's just

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mostly marrow and other stuff. And the is

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the the the the whole,

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front leg of the animal, which has a

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lot more meat on it, and it was

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a favorite piece of the animal of the

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prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. The right side

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because it has it's because Yamil is barakah

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and the the the the front leg because

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it's further away from

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from the

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defecation and urination of the animal. It's cleaner.

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So he said that if I were invited

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to any any meal,

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whether it's the best part of the animal

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or the most

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humble part of the animal,

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I would have accepted that that that invitation.

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And if I was given any gift,

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whether it's the best part of the animal

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or the most humble part of the animal,

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I would have accepted the gift as well.

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Meaning what? That that not to look down

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on other people because of what they have

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and what means they have, not to judge,

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you know, other people based on what they're

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giving you or what they have to offer,

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physically,

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but to take them as human beings. So

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whatever whatever I was invited to, I would

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have accepted the invitation, and whatever I was

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gifted, I would have accepted the gift.

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And this also requires a bit of humility.

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Why? Because it involves a person suppressing what

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they believe they deserve,

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or or whatnot.

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And it's very important, our masha'ib, they told

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us that. They said that if a humble

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person gives you a gift or a poor

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person gives you a gift,

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never turn it down or never look down

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on it because Allah then detests that. If

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a person comes to you with love and

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gives you something,

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then then accept that. I mean, there are

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many people,

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you're also doctors.

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You guys save people's lives and cure people

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from kind of bizarre and painful things that

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they go through or whatnot. Someone gives you

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something, you know, accept it,

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and don't don't don't look out on it

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because, more often than not, you know, you

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don't know what the feeling the person brings

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it with is,

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and it's it's important. It's difficult when a

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person has to keep their nuts

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in check.

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So interesting hadith narrated by Sayidna Anas bin

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Mark Radiwa Ta'ala Anhu.

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He said that the Nabi sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam,

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his she camel that he used to ride,

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her name was Abba

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and also,

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it comes in a

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a

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a

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a different narration that her name is, Qaswa.

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And both of these are both of these

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are, what you call

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descriptors or adjectives.

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Right?

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I'm sorry. They're different animals. They're not the

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same animal.

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So these are defects.

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They're known for defects that they had. Anyway,

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there's a long tract about why

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the the the the animals were, called

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called what they're called. Right?

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Khaburamatuh.

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Right? These are different defects indeed

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in the animals,

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that they're named after,

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that that that the the the ideas that

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these she camels of the prophet

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had, they had these different,

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they had these different defects

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in them before the Nabi

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started riding them. After he started riding them,

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they were like the best animals that that

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were around. And so what would happen is

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that the Bedouins would come to Madinah Munawwala

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and one of the, like, very favorite Bedouin

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pastimes. Right? Like, you wanna be, like, real

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super Arab. Right? Again, and we're not talking

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about hamrash shawarma and falafel Arab, but, like,

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real, like, hardcore, you know, old school. You

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know what I mean?

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What did they they like racing camels. They

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still like racing camels to this day. You

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know, I used to teach English in the

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Emirates when I was,

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studying, you know, in order to, you have

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a little bit of money to pay for

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my, you know, for my living. And so

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I used to teach English part time, and

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I asked, like, some of the students you

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know, some of the students are, like,

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very nice, come in $100,000

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car type and some of the students were,

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like, coming to pick up truck, you know,

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kinda.

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And pick up truck guys, they were great.

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I mean, obviously, the other guys, everyone is

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great, but the the pickup truck guys were

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amazing. They were, like, real down home type

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people. You know? They're like, they're kind of

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like they're kinda like the, you know,

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the the the eastern version of rednecks.

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And so I asked them what do you

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guys do when you're done with school? You

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know how you know one day like I

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was probably yelling at them you didn't do

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your homework or whatever. What do you guys

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do when you're done with school? They say,

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teacher, we go and raise camels.

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I was like, what?

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We go raise camels.

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Where? At the track.

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I go, that's haram, man. They're like, what

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do you mean? Like, people are bedding and

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things. I said, no. No. No one's bedding.

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We just race the camels. We have different

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camels, and we race with each other. I

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was like, is it dangerous?

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They're like, yeah.

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And so there's the I mean, this is

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the thing. They have, like, these racing tracks.

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Unfortunately, they, like, use, like, small children,

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to to race the animals because they're lighter

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so that animal can move faster. But that's

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for, like, all the big shot, like, millionaire

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guys. Like, you know, they have their they

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they wanna show off their, like, you know,

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$1,000,000 horses and $1,000,000 camel or whatever. But

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for these guys, it wasn't, like, so much

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about that. It was just something that they

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did. Right? And so that's the same thing.

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Bedouins used to come to Madinah Munawah, and

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they're like, hey. Yeah. Who wants to race?

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And so people would you know, so sometimes

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they would ask the prophet

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because they saw what good condition his animals,

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riding animals were in. So they'd ask him,

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can we take the camel and go race

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go race, you know.

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So he'd give them permission, and generally the

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prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam's,

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camels would, like, school the the Bedouins.

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But one day what happened is a Bedouin

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beat the Nabi sallallahu alaihi wa sallam's camel

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in a

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very, like, you know, like,

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has, like, happened that, oh my god, passed

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out

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so lost the race. And so he was

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he he, you know, he was,

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he was

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somewhat entertained by their

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by the dejectedness and the depression that they

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they felt by by this thing. And he

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said, look, you know, this isn't a nabi

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saas, he's the messenger of Allah. It has

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nothing to do with, you know, how fast

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your camel is. Right? So he tells them,

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he says, listen. And anyway, it's Allah's right.

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It's Allah's right that nothing in this dunya

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will be raised up except for one day

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it's going to fall also.

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So this is why a person shouldn't feel

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bad about being humble. This is the nature

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of every single thing in the dunya. Nothing

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will go up no matter how amazing and

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wonderful it is. Nothing will go up in

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this dunya except for it will be dropped

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in this dunya as well. That's why a

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person should do what they do for the

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sake of Allah Ta'ala because their progress, which

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is with Allah Ta'ala, will never be, will

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never be,

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dropped. The progress that they do for the

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next life will never be dropped. As far

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as this world is concerned,

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every empire, every state, every rocket, every car,

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every house, every economy, every product, every single

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thing that we invention, discovery,

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every single thing that we have so much

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pride about in this world, all of it.

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It doesn't get raised except for,

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one day it will be dropped as well,

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and sahadith of Sahib al Khari.

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Babunfitahhim

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al kibri wal ajab.

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The chapter regarding the unlawfulness and the prohibition

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of arrogance

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and and and being conceded.

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Allah says in his book,

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this is the,

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abode of the Afira, the abode of the

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hereafter.

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We made it for those who don't wish,

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to exalt themselves in the earth, nor do

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they wish facade, nor do they wish to,

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you know, what is facade?

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What is fasad? To spoil and destroy things.

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Things are in a good shape, and and

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the fasad is to destroy them, to spoil

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them.

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The the abode of the hereafter is for

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the people who don't wish,

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to exalt themselves nor do they wish for

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a facade.

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And the end is for those who fear

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god.

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Don't,

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walk in the earth,

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Maraham, meaning what?

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Right?

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Don't think you're all, you know, don't think

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you're all that. People have that sometimes, you

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know. You tell by the way I use

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my walk, you know, that I'm etcetera, etcetera,

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etcetera. No. You tell by the way you

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use your walk that you're conceited. Person shouldn't,

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you know, a person shouldn't humiliate themselves. There's

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a difference between being humble and and and

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being humiliated,

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but at the same time, a person shouldn't

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be conceded when they when they walk, that

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they think they're better than others.

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Allah Ta'ala says what? Do not turn your

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cheek away from people, like when somebody, you

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know, when you're talking to them, not face

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them. This is actually it's interesting. The Nabi

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam,

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his sunnah is what that when he

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when he used to talk to somebody, he

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would turn his whole body toward them and

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face them properly so that they

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receive the attention and they feel like they're

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receiving the attention that that they deserve when

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they're speaking. It's a type of concededness to,

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you know, someone's talking to you and you're

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like, hey, what's going on? You know? Or

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worse yet, they're talking to you like, yeah,

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you know, I'm busy right now. You know,

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you don't even turn to to to to

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look at them or or acknowledge their existence.

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Don't turn your your cheek away from people

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when when, when talking to them.

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And no walk in

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in in in the earth,

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with with with a swagger of conceit.

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Allah doesn't like people who are conceited, who

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think, like, highly of themselves,

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and Allah ta'ala doesn't like people who are

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boastful and who are arrogant.

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So the story is told in the Quran

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of Karun.

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Who is Karun? Karun is from the?

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Do me a favor, Omar Henry and Musa.

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The smaller one, not the huge one.

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So

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Surah Al Qasas is the story of the

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story of Qarun. Who is Qarun? Qarun is

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a person who was born into a respectable

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family of Banu Israel,

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and, he is a person who had a

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lot of wealth, and he was a person

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who had,

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a lot of,

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knowledge,

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as well.

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And, he was a person who,

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you know, he was kind of like a

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hater on Sayed the Musa alaihis salatu al

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salam, and he you know, even though he

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wasn't a nabi, but he would just use

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his his influence and his wealth in order

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to,

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you know, just just kind of be a

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hater. And that was that was what he

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did.

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And, he was he's known in the Bible

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also as Korah.

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And so what does Allah

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He used to he was a person from

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the called the nation of Musa alayhis salam,

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and he

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that he used to he had so much

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wealth that just to carry the keys for

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his, treasure

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chest, the keys were so big that it

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required several,

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several powerful men,

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a group of powerful men in order just

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to carry the keys.

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And his people would say to him, don't

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be don't be so exuberant because of what

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Allah gave you. One thing is you're happy

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and you you you praise Allah

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for what he gave you. One thing is

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you think, oh, I'm the stuff. You know,

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I have look at what all all the

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stuff I have. I'm I made it, you

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know, I made it, son. I'm that's it.

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It's it's all me, you know.

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So they were telling, don't be like that.

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Allah doesn't like people who are like that,

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who exalt like that.

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And they gave him the the the the

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the the beautiful

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and seek and and long for and look

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for that which Allah

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gave you in the afira, in the abode

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of the afira, in the abode of the

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hereafter.

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Don't be so deluded and and intoxicated with

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what Allah has given you over here. Rather,

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if you wanna put your hopes and dreams

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in something, put your hopes and dreams in

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the abode of the

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akhirah.

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And don't forget what your portion of world

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is. Now this is like one of the

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most, like, Madloom, like, ayat of the Quran.

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The Quran is protected from tahrif in the

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sense that nobody will be able to change

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the wording or lettering of it. Allah Ta'ala

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will preserve it. Anyone who tries doing things

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like that would be caught, and it will

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not

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they will not be able to change the

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text of the Quran.

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But the tahrif of of of interpretation is

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something that, you know, that's like a cottage

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industry. There are many

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people who do it and make money out

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of it and make great influence out of

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it, and they become big, and very famous

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televangelists.

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The interpretation of this hadith

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doesn't mean, okay, you know, you know, put

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all your hosts in the akhirah and

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also, you know,

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you know, don't forget your naseeb of this

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dunya. So, like, you know, invest your money

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wisely in the stock market and, like, you

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know, I have this great portfolio for you

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and this that's not what it means

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to balance the dunya and the akhirah.

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You don't balance the dunya and the akhirah.

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The dunya lasts for a small amount of

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time. It's 2 days. You know, if you're

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happy, say

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If you're not, the good news is we'll

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be all gone sooner rather than later. Sooner

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rather than later, all of us will be

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gone. We'll be in the graves. There'll be

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other people who think they're just as cool

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as we think we are right now, and

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they won't remember us and we'll be like,

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look. See, we were like that to one

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time. That's how it is. Nobody lasts forever

00:28:09 --> 00:28:11

in this world. Nobody even lasts a very

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long time in this world. So what does

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it mean? Right? Obviously, the sunnah of the

00:28:14 --> 00:28:16

prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam is you gotta handle

00:28:16 --> 00:28:17

your business in this world.

00:28:17 --> 00:28:19

You gotta handle your business. You gotta feed

00:28:19 --> 00:28:21

your wife. You gotta pay your rent. You

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have to, you know, get get it get

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it get your act together enough that you're

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able to,

00:28:26 --> 00:28:28

take care of all of your responsibilities that

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you have and that you're able to, also

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spiritually grow. But after that, there's no balance.

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You don't see the Sahaba

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on whom that they would 6 months of

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the year, they would serve the dean, and

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6 months of the year, they would go

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to medical school. It doesn't work that way.

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The ones of them who had a dunya

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with profession, they would do it, and the

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ones that didn't, wouldn't, and the ones that

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had, you know they would just do their

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things like they needed to, and then after

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that, they would devote whatever else they had

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to their spiritual progress. And if you look

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in the tafsir of this ayah,

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the tafsir is what? Don't forget your portion

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of this world, meaning your kafan.

00:29:01 --> 00:29:03

Right? The kafan is the the the white

00:29:03 --> 00:29:06

shroud that, you know, doctor Khaled Sadiq will

00:29:06 --> 00:29:07

cut for you one day.

00:29:08 --> 00:29:09

Right?

00:29:09 --> 00:29:11

That's your naseeb from the dunya. That's all

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you're gonna take with you.

00:29:14 --> 00:29:16

They're kept in the closet back there. If

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you want, I can show them to you.

00:29:18 --> 00:29:20

Okay? That's what your naseeb from the dunya

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is. It doesn't matter if you went to

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Harvard or you, you know, don't know how

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to read or whatever. That's your naseeb from

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the dunya. That's what you're gonna take with

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you. Remember that. You know, one day that

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the Benz, you're not gonna take it with

00:29:30 --> 00:29:31

you. That

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house, you're not gonna take it with you.

00:29:33 --> 00:29:35

The computer you wanted, you're not gonna take

00:29:35 --> 00:29:36

it with you. The shoes that you, you

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know, like that that are like the whatever

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so and so basketball player are playing and

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that you're not going to leave leave your

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parents alone and tell you, buy them or

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that vacation or that this, that. And you're

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not gonna take any of it with you.

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You're not gonna take any of it with

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even if you did, what would you do

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with it?

00:29:51 --> 00:29:53

Right? You'd be in the grave. You're like,

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I'm dead. I can't even use this. Like,

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you'll you'll see it. It'll be there. Maybe

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it'll you'll be like, this is stupid. The

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angels are gonna, like, you know, the angels

00:30:00 --> 00:30:01

are gonna break my legs because of this.

00:30:01 --> 00:30:03

They're gonna be like, you asked for this?

00:30:03 --> 00:30:05

Oh, that does that's not how it works

00:30:05 --> 00:30:07

over here, homie. That's not the system that

00:30:07 --> 00:30:09

that that that that's not how we roll

00:30:09 --> 00:30:10

on this side. That's not how it works

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on this side.

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And so what is it? It doesn't mean

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it doesn't no. What it means is what?

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Remember,

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don't ever forget. That's all you're taking with

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you. That's all you got. You don't got

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anything else.

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Allah knows best. You know? People have all

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kinds of funny stories that they tell, or

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they say about Alexander the great. They said

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that

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one of his wasaiah that when he dies

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is that when he's buried, he should be

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buried with his hands sticking out of the

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kef and out of the shroud

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so that everyone can see that despite the

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fact that he conquered this great world empire,

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that when he's buried,

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he's gonna take nothing with him.

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He's gonna take nothing with him. So

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don't forget what your

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what your portion is,

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from the dunya.

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And be good to others as Allah Ta'ala

00:31:01 --> 00:31:02

was good for you.

00:31:04 --> 00:31:07

And don't seek out to spoil things in

00:31:07 --> 00:31:08

the land.

00:31:10 --> 00:31:12

Because Allah Ta'ala really, he doesn't love the

00:31:12 --> 00:31:14

people of facade, the people who spoil things.

00:31:19 --> 00:31:21

He said he he said when given this

00:31:21 --> 00:31:23

that he said, all the stuff I have,

00:31:23 --> 00:31:24

I have it because of because I'm so

00:31:24 --> 00:31:26

smart, because of all the knowledge I have.

00:31:26 --> 00:31:28

This is what they say. Right? Oh, I

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built myself. I built myself. I pulled myself

00:31:30 --> 00:31:32

up from the bootstraps, and I built myself.

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Your daddy was rich. Gave you a lot

00:31:34 --> 00:31:36

of money when he died. I forgot to

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I I forgot to mention that. Right? I

00:31:38 --> 00:31:40

forgot to mention that. Okay. Fine. Someone is

00:31:40 --> 00:31:43

a, quote, unquote, self made millionaire. Right? Where

00:31:43 --> 00:31:45

where did all the infrastructure come from? Where

00:31:45 --> 00:31:47

did the the infrastructure of the state come

00:31:47 --> 00:31:49

from? This country is, like, built on the

00:31:49 --> 00:31:51

labor of slaves. This country is built on

00:31:51 --> 00:31:54

the blood of of of Native Americans

00:31:55 --> 00:31:56

that were were were treacherously,

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evicted from their land. I mean, all of

00:32:00 --> 00:32:02

us, there is something from that we were

00:32:02 --> 00:32:04

given and there's something from that we were

00:32:04 --> 00:32:06

given. Nobody builds themselves as nobody is self

00:32:06 --> 00:32:08

made billionaire or

00:32:08 --> 00:32:10

millionaire. Even if you are in the middle

00:32:10 --> 00:32:11

of the jungle and you construct, like, the

00:32:11 --> 00:32:14

most amazing city all on your own, which

00:32:14 --> 00:32:15

you're not gonna be able to do, but

00:32:15 --> 00:32:16

even if you did it, what did you

00:32:16 --> 00:32:18

are you the one who, like, said and

00:32:18 --> 00:32:20

made the plants appear? Are you the one

00:32:20 --> 00:32:21

who said

00:32:21 --> 00:32:24

made the the the the oxygen appear? You

00:32:24 --> 00:32:25

didn't even make yourself much less any of

00:32:25 --> 00:32:27

the things that you needed in order to,

00:32:27 --> 00:32:28

in order to,

00:32:29 --> 00:32:31

in order to prosper. So we all need

00:32:31 --> 00:32:33

to be a little bit honest with ourselves

00:32:33 --> 00:32:34

for a second. You know? We all need

00:32:34 --> 00:32:36

to be a little bit more humble about

00:32:36 --> 00:32:37

it before we talk about how I'm, like,

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a self made person and I, you know

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and it's not like we're, you know, dogging

00:32:42 --> 00:32:44

out Americans. Many of our immigrant community are

00:32:44 --> 00:32:46

filled with people like that also. Yeah. I

00:32:46 --> 00:32:48

came to this country with, you know, only

00:32:48 --> 00:32:49

$100 in my pocket, and I made my

00:32:49 --> 00:32:51

oh, you forget to mention that you came

00:32:51 --> 00:32:53

from a patrician family back home of land

00:32:53 --> 00:32:55

owners, and you were, like, one of the

00:32:55 --> 00:32:57

point 1 percent of your, people that were

00:32:57 --> 00:32:59

given an education and this, that, and even

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if you didn't have any of those things.

00:33:01 --> 00:33:02

Right? Allah gave you a a a mind

00:33:02 --> 00:33:04

and a body that worked for long enough

00:33:04 --> 00:33:06

in order for you to be able to

00:33:06 --> 00:33:08

make it. Not everybody has those things. People

00:33:08 --> 00:33:10

sometimes they cannot relate to the poor or

00:33:10 --> 00:33:12

they cannot sympathize with the poor. They cannot

00:33:12 --> 00:33:14

sympathize with people in need. I mean,

00:33:15 --> 00:33:17

one thing is to give something to everybody.

00:33:17 --> 00:33:20

Obviously, nobody can fund the entire world out

00:33:20 --> 00:33:21

of their own pocket. At least you should

00:33:21 --> 00:33:23

some try try to sympathize. If someone asks

00:33:23 --> 00:33:24

you for something, you should give them a

00:33:24 --> 00:33:26

dua instead of being like, oh, this lazy

00:33:26 --> 00:33:28

person. You know, people like this a ruined

00:33:28 --> 00:33:29

country, blah blah blah, you know, wherever you

00:33:29 --> 00:33:31

go. So he said, what?

00:33:33 --> 00:33:35

No. All I have is nothing except for

00:33:35 --> 00:33:38

because how smart I am, because how much

00:33:38 --> 00:33:39

knowledge I have.

00:33:39 --> 00:33:41

Allah asked the question,

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Doesn't he know that Allah

00:33:51 --> 00:33:52

has utterly destroyed

00:33:53 --> 00:33:54

people's generations

00:33:55 --> 00:33:57

and centuries of people who came before him,

00:33:57 --> 00:33:59

generations of people who came before him, who

00:33:59 --> 00:34:02

were even stronger than he was and even

00:34:02 --> 00:34:04

more more harsh in their power, and even

00:34:04 --> 00:34:05

had more,

00:34:06 --> 00:34:07

wealth than he does.

00:34:10 --> 00:34:11

That they they're not even asked, like, you

00:34:11 --> 00:34:14

know, we didn't ask them, permission or whatever.

00:34:14 --> 00:34:16

When a criminal is punished, he doesn't even

00:34:16 --> 00:34:18

ask them, you know, what did you do

00:34:18 --> 00:34:19

or why did you do it? The the

00:34:19 --> 00:34:21

guilty verdict has already come down. He did

00:34:21 --> 00:34:22

what he did.

00:34:32 --> 00:34:35

So Karun in this state, he comes out

00:34:35 --> 00:34:36

in in in front of

00:34:38 --> 00:34:39

his people, and his beauty, the beauty of

00:34:39 --> 00:34:41

his wealth and how big his family is

00:34:41 --> 00:34:43

and the spectacle of people carrying the keys

00:34:43 --> 00:34:45

and all of this other stuff that's mentioned.

00:34:46 --> 00:34:47

So he goes out in front of the

00:34:47 --> 00:34:49

people like that, and there's one is the

00:34:49 --> 00:34:51

primary mujidim, one is the primary,

00:34:52 --> 00:34:54

criminal, and then there are secondary criminals. The

00:34:54 --> 00:34:56

secondary criminals are the ones who see the

00:34:56 --> 00:34:57

primary primary criminals,

00:34:57 --> 00:34:58

and instead of saying

00:34:59 --> 00:35:00

that a person should,

00:35:01 --> 00:35:02

revolt against Allah

00:35:02 --> 00:35:04

system or his hookm.

00:35:04 --> 00:35:05

Instead of saying that, what do they say?

00:35:05 --> 00:35:07

Oh, I wish I was like that too.

00:35:07 --> 00:35:08

You know, if I was if I was,

00:35:08 --> 00:35:11

you know, whatever, dealing drugs or selling alcohol

00:35:11 --> 00:35:14

or dealing in riba or, you know, a

00:35:14 --> 00:35:15

tough guy that ripped off people, I would

00:35:15 --> 00:35:17

be a big shot as well.

00:35:17 --> 00:35:19

Right? So these are secondary criminals that they

00:35:19 --> 00:35:21

they don't even have the money, but they're

00:35:21 --> 00:35:23

still participating in the sin. They don't even

00:35:23 --> 00:35:25

enjoy the benefit. They're participating in the sin.

00:35:25 --> 00:35:27

They see him leave, his home and go

00:35:27 --> 00:35:29

out in front of the entire kom in

00:35:29 --> 00:35:30

his in his,

00:35:31 --> 00:35:34

exterior beauty. And and and those people who

00:35:34 --> 00:35:35

wished for the life of this world, then

00:35:35 --> 00:35:38

they said, woe is us. We wish that

00:35:38 --> 00:35:40

we had the likeness or the likes of

00:35:40 --> 00:35:43

that which Karun was given. Verily, he possesses

00:35:43 --> 00:35:44

a great portion.

00:35:47 --> 00:35:49

The people of knowledge said what? They said,

00:35:57 --> 00:35:59

They said to encurse a curse on you.

00:35:59 --> 00:35:59

Right?

00:36:00 --> 00:36:02

Damn you for saying this stupid thing that

00:36:02 --> 00:36:04

you said. They said they said

00:36:04 --> 00:36:06

what? Damn you for saying this thing that

00:36:06 --> 00:36:07

you said.

00:36:09 --> 00:36:11

The the reward of Allah is better than

00:36:11 --> 00:36:12

all of this pomp and show and arrogance

00:36:12 --> 00:36:14

that Karun is pumping up in front of

00:36:14 --> 00:36:15

the people.

00:36:16 --> 00:36:18

It's better for those people who believe in

00:36:18 --> 00:36:20

Allah and do good works, and no one

00:36:20 --> 00:36:21

will be able to,

00:36:22 --> 00:36:24

attain it except for the people of patience.

00:36:27 --> 00:36:29

And this is the punishment that Karun received

00:36:29 --> 00:36:32

is that Allah caused the earth to open

00:36:32 --> 00:36:34

up and to swallow him and to swallow

00:36:34 --> 00:36:36

all of his treasures and to swallow his

00:36:36 --> 00:36:38

dwelling pay place.

00:36:47 --> 00:36:49

It says that it says that so Allah

00:36:49 --> 00:36:51

tells us that we caused the earth to

00:36:51 --> 00:36:53

swallow him up and his abode up,

00:36:54 --> 00:36:56

and there was nobody. He had no group

00:36:56 --> 00:36:58

of people that were there to help him

00:36:58 --> 00:37:00

nor was he himself one of the people

00:37:00 --> 00:37:01

who was helped.

00:37:10 --> 00:37:11

They said, oh,

00:37:12 --> 00:37:14

you know, literally, wake Anna is is there's,

00:37:14 --> 00:37:16

like, a long tree track. It's kind of

00:37:16 --> 00:37:18

an interesting word of what does,

00:37:19 --> 00:37:21

what does it what does it mean? But

00:37:21 --> 00:37:23

it's, again, a curse. You say, it's literally

00:37:23 --> 00:37:25

like someone says that. It's just like someone

00:37:25 --> 00:37:27

says, damn it. Allah ta'ala,

00:37:28 --> 00:37:28

he,

00:37:29 --> 00:37:31

spreads out his risk for whoever,

00:37:31 --> 00:37:34

he wishes from his slaves and whoever he

00:37:34 --> 00:37:35

meets off,

00:37:35 --> 00:37:37

that as a portion for them. If it

00:37:37 --> 00:37:40

wasn't for Allah ta'ala, his kindness on us,

00:37:40 --> 00:37:41

we would have been in his place and

00:37:41 --> 00:37:43

gotten swallowed up by the earth instead of

00:37:43 --> 00:37:44

him.

00:37:49 --> 00:37:52

It says that it says, it is again

00:37:52 --> 00:37:52

a curse.

00:37:54 --> 00:37:54

Indeed,

00:37:55 --> 00:37:58

Allah ta'ala, the the the situation with him

00:37:58 --> 00:38:00

is that a person of growth and gratitude

00:38:00 --> 00:38:02

and a person of disbelief will never be

00:38:02 --> 00:38:03

successful.

00:38:03 --> 00:38:05

And then Allah

00:38:12 --> 00:38:14

which we we we read before.

00:38:15 --> 00:38:17

You mind putting it back. Thank you so

00:38:17 --> 00:38:17

much.

00:38:52 --> 00:38:55

It's a really, beautiful it's a very beautiful

00:38:55 --> 00:38:57

hadith, and it's one of the usuls, one

00:38:57 --> 00:38:59

of the foundations upon which deen is based.

00:38:59 --> 00:39:01

Proper deen is based. Not the deen of

00:39:01 --> 00:39:03

sloganeering and chanting, but the deen that's going

00:39:03 --> 00:39:06

to be accepted one day by Allah Ta'ala,

00:39:06 --> 00:39:08

by his father. Narrated by Sayedna Abdullah bin,

00:39:08 --> 00:39:10

mister Udur radiAllahu ta'ala anhu from the prophet

00:39:10 --> 00:39:13

sallallahu alaihi wa sallam that he said, none

00:39:13 --> 00:39:15

shall enter Jannah

00:39:15 --> 00:39:16

who have even a,

00:39:17 --> 00:39:21

mustard seed worth of of arrogance inside their

00:39:21 --> 00:39:21

heart.

00:39:23 --> 00:39:25

Allah protect us and Allah forgive us and

00:39:25 --> 00:39:27

Allah change our hearts for the better and

00:39:27 --> 00:39:29

clear whatever is in there from all of

00:39:29 --> 00:39:31

these all of these things. It's not easy.

00:39:31 --> 00:39:33

I mean, it should really concern a person.

00:39:33 --> 00:39:35

A person has any kibr means what? You

00:39:35 --> 00:39:36

look at any other person and think I'm

00:39:36 --> 00:39:38

better than that person, or you think you're

00:39:38 --> 00:39:40

better than than than what Allah's decree is

00:39:40 --> 00:39:42

or all of these. These things will all

00:39:42 --> 00:39:45

systematically disbar a person from entering Jannah. In

00:39:45 --> 00:39:48

fact, kibr is the opposite of of iman.

00:39:48 --> 00:39:50

In fact, kibr is is is is something

00:39:50 --> 00:39:52

that is a corollary of Kufr. In fact,

00:39:52 --> 00:39:54

if there were, you know, we don't obviously

00:39:54 --> 00:39:56

believe in the concept of original sin like

00:39:56 --> 00:39:58

the Christians and Jews do, but if there

00:39:58 --> 00:40:01

were an original sense in the literal sense

00:40:02 --> 00:40:04

an original sin in the literal sense, meaning

00:40:04 --> 00:40:05

what's the first

00:40:05 --> 00:40:08

disobedience or maasiya of Allah ta'ala that ever

00:40:08 --> 00:40:09

happened? It would be kibber. It would be

00:40:09 --> 00:40:11

arrogance. When shaitan

00:40:11 --> 00:40:14

was commanded to humble himself and submit himself

00:40:14 --> 00:40:17

before Sayidna Adam Alayhi Salaam, and he said

00:40:20 --> 00:40:22

I am better than than he is. You

00:40:22 --> 00:40:24

created me from fire, and he created him

00:40:24 --> 00:40:26

from from from dirt.

00:40:26 --> 00:40:28

That's the original sin from which all of

00:40:28 --> 00:40:31

this other sin and murder and violence and

00:40:31 --> 00:40:31

corruption

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and and fornication and drunkenness and intoxication

00:40:35 --> 00:40:38

and lying and cheating and stealing, people hurting

00:40:38 --> 00:40:38

one another,

00:40:39 --> 00:40:41

people people, being unfair with one another, people

00:40:41 --> 00:40:44

killing one another. All of these other sins,

00:40:44 --> 00:40:45

the seed of it was all in arrogance.

00:40:45 --> 00:40:47

If it wasn't for arrogance, none of the

00:40:47 --> 00:40:49

other sins would have been possible.

00:40:49 --> 00:40:51

That's why when we what do we talk

00:40:51 --> 00:40:53

about when we talk about a profligate, a

00:40:53 --> 00:40:53

sinner?

00:40:54 --> 00:40:55

There there's a difference between,

00:40:56 --> 00:40:58

a huge a person who commits a sin

00:40:58 --> 00:41:00

and a person who's a fasit. We don't

00:41:00 --> 00:41:02

call everyone who commits a sin a fasit.

00:41:02 --> 00:41:04

Why? Because some people commit sins out of

00:41:04 --> 00:41:06

ignorance because they didn't know better. Some people

00:41:06 --> 00:41:08

commit sins out of,

00:41:08 --> 00:41:10

out of, jahil or out of

00:41:11 --> 00:41:13

ignorance. Some people commit sins out of passion.

00:41:14 --> 00:41:16

Why? They don't have self control over themselves.

00:41:17 --> 00:41:19

And so they they they do something. They

00:41:19 --> 00:41:21

put themselves in a position where they're compromised,

00:41:21 --> 00:41:23

and they do something that they don't

00:41:24 --> 00:41:25

they're not proud of, that they're ashamed of,

00:41:25 --> 00:41:28

and they ask Allah for forgiveness for us.

00:41:28 --> 00:41:29

The person who is a sinner is the

00:41:29 --> 00:41:31

one who sins openly and who doesn't feel

00:41:31 --> 00:41:34

bad about it. Doesn't feel bad about it

00:41:34 --> 00:41:36

or at least doesn't try to cover it

00:41:36 --> 00:41:38

up or hide hide it. And what is

00:41:38 --> 00:41:40

that person? Those are the people who always

00:41:40 --> 00:41:42

oppose the din. There are 2 types of

00:41:42 --> 00:41:44

people who oppose the din. One is a

00:41:44 --> 00:41:45

person who is

00:41:46 --> 00:41:48

a total moron. Somebody who doesn't understand. You

00:41:48 --> 00:41:51

know, there's some people yeah. I think that,

00:41:51 --> 00:41:54

what America needs is Coca Cola coming out

00:41:54 --> 00:41:57

of every water fountain. Okay. That's okay, buddy.

00:41:57 --> 00:41:58

That's that's enough for you. Okay, buddy? That's

00:41:58 --> 00:42:00

enough, buddy. That's it. But end of the

00:42:00 --> 00:42:02

end of the line at Dunkin' Donuts for

00:42:02 --> 00:42:03

you. No more you need to calm down

00:42:03 --> 00:42:05

and just, you know, just take a back

00:42:05 --> 00:42:06

seat. You know? We'll take care of you.

00:42:06 --> 00:42:08

There are people like that. The second group

00:42:08 --> 00:42:10

of people who obstruct the din from

00:42:11 --> 00:42:14

from from from being implemented is Fasak.

00:42:14 --> 00:42:16

Right? They're they're they're they're people who love

00:42:16 --> 00:42:17

sin,

00:42:18 --> 00:42:19

and they're different from the first group of

00:42:19 --> 00:42:22

people. The first group of people are morons.

00:42:22 --> 00:42:24

The second group of people are the people

00:42:24 --> 00:42:25

who love to commit zina, but if you

00:42:25 --> 00:42:27

commit zina with their sister or with their

00:42:27 --> 00:42:28

mother, they'll be offended.

00:42:28 --> 00:42:30

They're the people who love to steal from

00:42:30 --> 00:42:32

other people. If you steal from them, they'll

00:42:32 --> 00:42:34

feel like an injustice happened to them. They're

00:42:34 --> 00:42:36

people who who harm other people in order

00:42:36 --> 00:42:38

to get what they want, but if you

00:42:38 --> 00:42:40

try to harm him, they'll they'll call this

00:42:40 --> 00:42:41

as an an injustice.

00:42:41 --> 00:42:43

The world is absolutely filled with these type

00:42:43 --> 00:42:46

of hypocritical people. It's absolutely filled with these

00:42:46 --> 00:42:48

type both political parties are filled with people

00:42:48 --> 00:42:49

like this.

00:42:50 --> 00:42:52

They're they're good in prosecuting justice against other

00:42:52 --> 00:42:55

people, but they're horrible when it comes to

00:42:55 --> 00:42:58

they themselves, like, evaluating what they do. So

00:42:58 --> 00:42:58

they'll say, well,

00:42:59 --> 00:43:01

Aasas and Al Qaeda, we hate them, and

00:43:01 --> 00:43:02

we're gonna fight against them and they're the

00:43:02 --> 00:43:04

evil in the world and whatever, and they

00:43:04 --> 00:43:05

kill people mercilessly.

00:43:06 --> 00:43:07

And they forget the fact that the votes

00:43:07 --> 00:43:09

that they, you know, put into the into

00:43:09 --> 00:43:11

the house and into the senate are the

00:43:11 --> 00:43:12

ones who killed, like, you know, a 100

00:43:12 --> 00:43:14

times the number of people that these groups

00:43:14 --> 00:43:15

killed.

00:43:15 --> 00:43:17

We just test all of the above mentioned

00:43:17 --> 00:43:20

actions. Right? They're the people who are,

00:43:20 --> 00:43:21

people who,

00:43:21 --> 00:43:23

they they they, you know, they don't understand

00:43:23 --> 00:43:25

what's good for the goose is good for

00:43:25 --> 00:43:27

the gander. And what is the origin of

00:43:27 --> 00:43:28

that? It's kibber.

00:43:29 --> 00:43:31

Thinking I'm one thing, I deserve one thing,

00:43:31 --> 00:43:33

and everybody else's garbage in front of me,

00:43:33 --> 00:43:35

they deserve something else that's lower than what

00:43:35 --> 00:43:38

I deserve. If this thought can be perished

00:43:38 --> 00:43:39

from the hearts of people,

00:43:39 --> 00:43:40

then

00:43:40 --> 00:43:42

the the the category of fasak, they I

00:43:42 --> 00:43:43

won't say disappear,

00:43:44 --> 00:43:47

but they will be much more, malleable and

00:43:47 --> 00:43:47

controllable.

00:43:48 --> 00:43:49

They will themselves be able to control the

00:43:49 --> 00:43:51

evil that comes from their hearts and that

00:43:51 --> 00:43:53

comes from their limbs. But as long as

00:43:53 --> 00:43:54

this is the Tony, this is the dog

00:43:55 --> 00:43:57

that's rotting inside the well, it doesn't matter

00:43:57 --> 00:43:58

how many buckets of water you pull out,

00:43:58 --> 00:44:01

the well is still gonna bring out bring

00:44:01 --> 00:44:02

out a stench, and it will bring out

00:44:02 --> 00:44:05

rot. This is the one, like, basic

00:44:05 --> 00:44:06

misunderstanding

00:44:06 --> 00:44:08

that these people have. May Allah protect us

00:44:08 --> 00:44:10

that that even we we went ourselves, we

00:44:10 --> 00:44:12

come in zulum on one another because Muslims

00:44:12 --> 00:44:14

are not immune to sin, unfortunately.

00:44:15 --> 00:44:17

This is this is like the basic misunderstanding

00:44:17 --> 00:44:19

that we have that allows us to be

00:44:19 --> 00:44:21

able to do these types of things. It's

00:44:21 --> 00:44:23

everything. It's in every single thing. Literally, it's

00:44:23 --> 00:44:24

a hadith of the prophet

00:44:25 --> 00:44:26

that there's a man who a young man

00:44:26 --> 00:44:27

who came to the prophet

00:44:29 --> 00:44:31

and he wanted to accept Islam, but he

00:44:31 --> 00:44:32

said I'll accept Islam in a condition.

00:44:33 --> 00:44:35

And the messenger of Allah sallallahu alaihi wa

00:44:35 --> 00:44:37

sallam said, what's your condition? He says, I

00:44:37 --> 00:44:38

want you to give me permission that I

00:44:38 --> 00:44:41

can commit zina. And the messenger of Allah

00:44:41 --> 00:44:42

sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, he said, I can't

00:44:42 --> 00:44:44

give you that permission.

00:44:44 --> 00:44:45

But he said, you know, do you have

00:44:45 --> 00:44:46

a mother?

00:44:46 --> 00:44:48

He says, yes. Do you have a sister?

00:44:48 --> 00:44:50

He said, yes. So would you like somebody

00:44:50 --> 00:44:51

to commit zina with your mother and your

00:44:51 --> 00:44:53

sister? And he says no. Of course, I

00:44:53 --> 00:44:55

I wouldn't like it. And so he said,

00:44:55 --> 00:44:57

well, you know, whoever you commit zina with

00:44:57 --> 00:44:58

is the mother of somebody else and the

00:44:58 --> 00:45:00

sister of somebody else, you know? And you

00:45:00 --> 00:45:02

mentioned this to people. There's some guys you

00:45:02 --> 00:45:03

know, some some people, you know, they're like,

00:45:03 --> 00:45:05

they're playas, you know, I'm a playa, you

00:45:05 --> 00:45:06

know, I did this and I did that,

00:45:06 --> 00:45:07

and they talk about women as if they're

00:45:07 --> 00:45:09

not human beings. I remember I used to,

00:45:09 --> 00:45:11

you know, work with people like that. I

00:45:11 --> 00:45:12

used to sell shoes,

00:45:12 --> 00:45:14

and so I'm like you know, he was

00:45:14 --> 00:45:15

boasting about something bad that he did, and

00:45:15 --> 00:45:18

I said, oh, man. That's, like, so bad.

00:45:18 --> 00:45:19

You know? That's like somebody's mother, man, that

00:45:19 --> 00:45:20

you're talking about.

00:45:21 --> 00:45:22

He said, shut up, man. Don't say that,

00:45:22 --> 00:45:23

man.

00:45:23 --> 00:45:25

It doesn't feel good, like, when you mentioned

00:45:25 --> 00:45:26

that.

00:45:27 --> 00:45:28

Of course, it doesn't feel good, but it's

00:45:28 --> 00:45:30

reality. You understand what I'm saying? That that

00:45:30 --> 00:45:32

kind of reality check will bring a person

00:45:32 --> 00:45:33

back into,

00:45:34 --> 00:45:35

back into

00:45:35 --> 00:45:37

back into some sense of of being able

00:45:37 --> 00:45:39

to behave like a a a human being

00:45:39 --> 00:45:41

rather than behaving like an animal or behaving

00:45:41 --> 00:45:43

like a behaving like a fasik. And all

00:45:43 --> 00:45:45

of it has to do with what? Not

00:45:45 --> 00:45:47

looking at other people as detestable or as

00:45:47 --> 00:45:49

people that are to be used or abused

00:45:49 --> 00:45:51

or thrown away whereas your play thing rather

00:45:51 --> 00:45:53

looking at people as equals. In fact, not

00:45:53 --> 00:45:55

even as equals as people who are better

00:45:55 --> 00:45:57

than you and and and people who deserve

00:45:57 --> 00:45:59

respect and, like, what you want for yourself,

00:45:59 --> 00:46:00

you should give to them. In fact, you

00:46:00 --> 00:46:02

should give something better to them because if

00:46:02 --> 00:46:04

you give something better to them in this

00:46:04 --> 00:46:05

world, Allah will give you something better in

00:46:05 --> 00:46:08

the hereafter. Allah is the one who balances

00:46:08 --> 00:46:10

all of the the the the the the

00:46:10 --> 00:46:11

the the the accounts. On the day of

00:46:11 --> 00:46:13

judgment, if you give better to other people,

00:46:14 --> 00:46:16

Allah will will will reward it.

00:46:17 --> 00:46:19

So this is the the reality of what

00:46:19 --> 00:46:21

Allah, his messenger salallahu alaihi wasallam is saying

00:46:21 --> 00:46:24

that nobody will enter Jannah that even has

00:46:24 --> 00:46:26

like a small seed or grain worth of

00:46:26 --> 00:46:29

kibr or arrogance inside of their his heart.

00:46:29 --> 00:46:31

And so you say, like, well, what does

00:46:31 --> 00:46:32

that mean that, like, people who have that

00:46:32 --> 00:46:33

are are are believers

00:46:34 --> 00:46:36

will not enter Jannah? No. The unfortunate fact

00:46:36 --> 00:46:38

is that a person, if they cannot get

00:46:38 --> 00:46:39

rid of it by that point,

00:46:40 --> 00:46:41

it will be burned. It will be burned

00:46:41 --> 00:46:43

in the fire. A person will be humiliated

00:46:43 --> 00:46:45

efficiently in the fire that when they come

00:46:45 --> 00:46:47

out of it, they'll they'll be the most

00:46:47 --> 00:46:49

humble person in the world. They won't have

00:46:49 --> 00:46:52

any any kibber left in them. May

00:46:52 --> 00:46:55

Allah protect us from from what we deserve.

00:46:55 --> 00:46:56

May Allah Ta'ala. You know, there's an easy

00:46:56 --> 00:46:58

way of doing things and a hard way

00:46:58 --> 00:47:00

of doing things. We're weak people

00:47:00 --> 00:47:02

and, we we just, you know, we don't

00:47:02 --> 00:47:03

wanna go through that. So you Allah, give

00:47:03 --> 00:47:05

us being able to do things the easy

00:47:05 --> 00:47:07

way, and do things with us the easy

00:47:07 --> 00:47:08

way, the lesson we can learn the easy

00:47:08 --> 00:47:10

way. Give give it to us the easy

00:47:10 --> 00:47:12

way, and if you wrote in your that

00:47:12 --> 00:47:14

we have to do something the hard way,

00:47:14 --> 00:47:15

then at then give us the and the

00:47:15 --> 00:47:17

patience to be able to get through it

00:47:17 --> 00:47:19

with our iman in tact. And don't punish

00:47:19 --> 00:47:20

us from the fire, save us from the

00:47:20 --> 00:47:22

fire, and let us into Jannah without hissaab.

00:47:22 --> 00:47:24

We admit all of us right now that

00:47:24 --> 00:47:25

that that we don't have anything to be

00:47:25 --> 00:47:27

arrogant about in the first place. We humble

00:47:27 --> 00:47:29

ourselves in front of you. Please accept it

00:47:29 --> 00:47:30

from us,

00:47:32 --> 00:47:34

And so he said, salallahu so so so

00:47:34 --> 00:47:35

the Nabi

00:47:35 --> 00:47:37

said what he said, and the man who

00:47:37 --> 00:47:39

was in the audience, he said,

00:47:40 --> 00:47:41

he said, what do you say about a

00:47:41 --> 00:47:42

man who,

00:47:43 --> 00:47:46

loves to loves that his he should wear

00:47:46 --> 00:47:47

nice looking clothes,

00:47:47 --> 00:47:49

and he loves that he should wear nice

00:47:49 --> 00:47:50

looking sandals?

00:47:51 --> 00:47:53

Right? Is that arrogance? Some, you know, people

00:47:53 --> 00:47:55

have that. They like to they like to

00:47:55 --> 00:47:56

wear nice clothes,

00:47:57 --> 00:47:59

and they like to look nice, present make

00:47:59 --> 00:48:02

themselves presentable. Is that also kibir yalasulah? Is

00:48:02 --> 00:48:03

that also,

00:48:05 --> 00:48:07

arrogance? And the prophet gives such a, like,

00:48:07 --> 00:48:09

amazing answer. He says he

00:48:11 --> 00:48:13

says, Indeed Allah Taal is beautiful

00:48:13 --> 00:48:16

and Allah loves beauty. So this is not

00:48:16 --> 00:48:18

this is not what kibr is, to dress

00:48:18 --> 00:48:19

better than other people.

00:48:21 --> 00:48:22

This is not what kibr is to dress

00:48:22 --> 00:48:25

better than other people. Rather, Nabi says that

00:48:25 --> 00:48:27

the kibr that that's mentioned,

00:48:27 --> 00:48:29

in this saying is 2 things.

00:48:32 --> 00:48:34

Kibir is what? It's in 2 things. 1

00:48:34 --> 00:48:35

is

00:48:35 --> 00:48:37

when someone tells you the truth or tells

00:48:37 --> 00:48:38

you a piece of the Haqq,

00:48:39 --> 00:48:41

that you should push it away or you

00:48:41 --> 00:48:43

should just dismiss it because of the person

00:48:43 --> 00:48:44

who's telling it to you.

00:48:45 --> 00:48:45

So

00:48:46 --> 00:48:48

imagine, you know, if a person, you know,

00:48:48 --> 00:48:49

is

00:48:51 --> 00:48:53

a person is a drunkard and, you know,

00:48:53 --> 00:48:54

you're about to eat something and he says,

00:48:54 --> 00:48:56

oh, you know, there's like they use wine

00:48:56 --> 00:48:58

as an ingredient in that sauce. So you

00:48:58 --> 00:48:59

idiot your drunkard, get lost. Who are you

00:48:59 --> 00:49:01

to tell me what to do? Right? Who

00:49:01 --> 00:49:02

are you to tell me what to do?

00:49:02 --> 00:49:04

You drink every day and you're telling me

00:49:04 --> 00:49:06

no. No. No. No. It's not about him.

00:49:06 --> 00:49:08

It's not about who that person is. That

00:49:08 --> 00:49:10

person is responsible for their person. You're not

00:49:10 --> 00:49:12

responsible for telling them who they are or

00:49:12 --> 00:49:13

where they're going or whatever.

00:49:13 --> 00:49:15

If a person gives you a piece of

00:49:15 --> 00:49:16

the Haqqi, even if it's the person is

00:49:16 --> 00:49:18

not even a Muslim, even if it's a

00:49:18 --> 00:49:19

child, even if it's a person who is,

00:49:19 --> 00:49:20

like, legally,

00:49:21 --> 00:49:21

insane,

00:49:22 --> 00:49:24

when the Haqq comes to you, you have

00:49:24 --> 00:49:26

to submit to it because the Haqq is

00:49:26 --> 00:49:28

a sifa of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

00:49:28 --> 00:49:30

You know, you have to submit to you

00:49:30 --> 00:49:31

don't have to submit to the person,

00:49:32 --> 00:49:33

and sometimes in some cases, it's actually better

00:49:33 --> 00:49:35

not to. But,

00:49:36 --> 00:49:38

but when someone says something good to you,

00:49:38 --> 00:49:40

don't push them away and be like, who

00:49:40 --> 00:49:41

are you to tell me what to do?

00:49:41 --> 00:49:44

Rather accept accept what they have to say.

00:49:44 --> 00:49:46

And in that way, you know, many people

00:49:46 --> 00:49:47

can learn many things from many people.

00:49:48 --> 00:49:50

The other the other the other description of

00:49:50 --> 00:49:51

kibr that the prophet

00:49:52 --> 00:49:54

gave of arrogance is what?

00:49:55 --> 00:49:57

And to, like, you know, despise people to,

00:49:57 --> 00:49:59

you know, think that people are despicable,

00:50:00 --> 00:50:02

to think that that people are are are

00:50:02 --> 00:50:03

are just like, you know,

00:50:04 --> 00:50:06

low be beings of of very little

00:50:06 --> 00:50:07

value.

00:50:07 --> 00:50:10

May Allah, may Allah protect us from all

00:50:10 --> 00:50:11

of these things. We look at other people

00:50:11 --> 00:50:13

and we see there's a potential in this

00:50:13 --> 00:50:16

person of universal good, and Allah Ta'ala didn't

00:50:16 --> 00:50:17

give them la ilaha illallah

00:50:18 --> 00:50:19

because he loved them. And even if they

00:50:19 --> 00:50:20

don't

00:50:20 --> 00:50:22

have maybe Allah will give it to him

00:50:22 --> 00:50:23

one day, and that person will outshine all

00:50:23 --> 00:50:24

of us.

00:50:47 --> 00:50:47

Muslim.

00:50:48 --> 00:50:49

So

00:50:50 --> 00:50:51

is from the

00:50:51 --> 00:50:52

Sahaba

00:50:53 --> 00:50:55

He's like one of the, like, the the

00:50:55 --> 00:50:56

heroes of the Ansar.

00:50:58 --> 00:50:59

He's like a he's a very,

00:51:01 --> 00:51:02

a a very powerful

00:51:02 --> 00:51:03

warrior.

00:51:04 --> 00:51:06

He was like, he was in battle. He

00:51:06 --> 00:51:06

was,

00:51:07 --> 00:51:09

you know, he was a champion of the

00:51:09 --> 00:51:09

of the Muslims

00:51:10 --> 00:51:12

and a champion of the Ansar, radiAllahu ta'ala

00:51:12 --> 00:51:14

Anhu Ajma'in. There is a case where,

00:51:18 --> 00:51:21

there was a cattle raid. Raiders tried to

00:51:21 --> 00:51:23

raid some of the livestock of the people

00:51:23 --> 00:51:24

of Madinah,

00:51:24 --> 00:51:26

and he found out about it. And and

00:51:26 --> 00:51:30

they the, assailants were leaving mounted on, on

00:51:30 --> 00:51:30

animals,

00:51:31 --> 00:51:33

and he chased after them on foot. And

00:51:33 --> 00:51:35

while running at full speed with a bow

00:51:35 --> 00:51:37

and arrow, he took them all out,

00:51:37 --> 00:51:40

which is no small feat. It's it's narrated

00:51:40 --> 00:51:43

in the, in the. I forget which book

00:51:43 --> 00:51:44

it's narrated in, but

00:51:45 --> 00:51:47

is one of the heroes of the Muslims.

00:51:47 --> 00:51:49

They're, you know, the his exploits in battle

00:51:49 --> 00:51:50

are many. You can look it up one

00:51:50 --> 00:51:53

day in the Usudul Khabar or in Istiag

00:51:53 --> 00:51:55

or in one of the books, the Sahaba

00:51:55 --> 00:51:55

biographies

00:51:56 --> 00:51:57

of radhiallahu ta'ala on him.

00:51:58 --> 00:52:01

So he narrates that a man once ate,

00:52:02 --> 00:52:02

at the same

00:52:03 --> 00:52:05

sitting with the messenger of Allah

00:52:06 --> 00:52:08

with his left hand. And so the messenger

00:52:08 --> 00:52:09

of Allah

00:52:10 --> 00:52:12

politely reminded him to eat with his right.

00:52:12 --> 00:52:14

He told him, eat with your right. And

00:52:14 --> 00:52:15

he says, oh,

00:52:15 --> 00:52:18

I'm not able to. So the prophet says,

00:52:19 --> 00:52:20

and and so says that

00:52:21 --> 00:52:23

he said that I'm not able to. So

00:52:23 --> 00:52:25

the prophet said, may you never be able

00:52:25 --> 00:52:27

to. And, the reason he said that is

00:52:27 --> 00:52:29

what? Not because the guy was left handed,

00:52:29 --> 00:52:31

but because the only reason he made this

00:52:31 --> 00:52:34

excuse up for himself he's too arrogant to

00:52:34 --> 00:52:36

accept the Haqq from the Messenger of Allah

00:52:36 --> 00:52:38

sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. So the prophet sallallahu

00:52:38 --> 00:52:40

alaihi wa sallam uttered this curse on him,

00:52:40 --> 00:52:43

and, because of which, Salmat Ibnu Akwa narrates,

00:52:43 --> 00:52:46

and and comments that that person, his hand

00:52:46 --> 00:52:48

was he wasn't able to raise his hand

00:52:48 --> 00:52:48

after that,

00:52:49 --> 00:52:50

up to his mouth ever again.

00:53:16 --> 00:53:18

And so, this is a hadith that it's

00:53:18 --> 00:53:19

it's a repeat,

00:53:19 --> 00:53:22

not from from our reading over here, but

00:53:22 --> 00:53:24

I started from the middle because I was

00:53:24 --> 00:53:26

reading this book, in different places in America.

00:53:27 --> 00:53:29

And so we started off where, you know,

00:53:29 --> 00:53:30

I continued where I left off. So in

00:53:30 --> 00:53:32

a previous in a previous,

00:53:32 --> 00:53:33

chapter,

00:53:33 --> 00:53:36

the same hadith is narrated from Hadith Atumnu

00:53:36 --> 00:53:39

Wahb. The, may Allah Ta'ala be pleased with

00:53:39 --> 00:53:41

him that said that I heard the messenger

00:53:41 --> 00:53:44

of Allah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam say, nay,

00:53:44 --> 00:53:45

indeed, shall I not,

00:53:45 --> 00:53:47

shall I not inform you,

00:53:47 --> 00:53:49

about who the people of the fire are?

00:53:50 --> 00:53:51

Shall I not

00:53:52 --> 00:53:53

inform you

00:53:53 --> 00:53:54

about who the,

00:53:55 --> 00:53:56

people of the fire are?

00:53:57 --> 00:53:57

And,

00:53:59 --> 00:53:59

and then,

00:54:00 --> 00:54:03

he informs them, sallallahu alaihi wa sallam,

00:54:05 --> 00:54:06

is who? Khalib

00:54:07 --> 00:54:09

Jaf is a person who's harsh and a

00:54:09 --> 00:54:10

person who,

00:54:12 --> 00:54:13

I should say,

00:54:14 --> 00:54:16

is a person who is harsh and who

00:54:16 --> 00:54:16

is,

00:54:18 --> 00:54:20

a person who is, like, very disrespectful to

00:54:20 --> 00:54:21

other people.

00:54:22 --> 00:54:24

And then, Jawad,

00:54:24 --> 00:54:25

Jawad al Hu,

00:54:26 --> 00:54:26

manoonjamoo'un,

00:54:28 --> 00:54:29

a person who,

00:54:29 --> 00:54:31

gathers wealth,

00:54:31 --> 00:54:33

and is is is,

00:54:33 --> 00:54:34

very,

00:54:36 --> 00:54:38

stingy and miserly in gathering wealth, But if

00:54:38 --> 00:54:41

anyone else asks anything from him, he's the

00:54:41 --> 00:54:42

quickest to say, no. I'm not gonna give

00:54:42 --> 00:54:44

you anything. Get lost.

00:54:44 --> 00:54:46

And then the last, trait is what? Mustakbir,

00:54:47 --> 00:54:48

a person who thinks that he's he's like

00:54:48 --> 00:54:51

a big deal. May Allah protect us and

00:54:51 --> 00:54:53

take out all of these, out of all

00:54:53 --> 00:54:54

of these sifaats from our hearts.

00:55:48 --> 00:55:50

I guess there's no overriding the other.

00:55:51 --> 00:55:53

Yeah. Yeah, man. Help him out, bro.

00:55:58 --> 00:55:59

Yeah. Hey, man. You gotta help us. Sometimes

00:56:00 --> 00:56:01

old old folks, man, they have they they

00:56:01 --> 00:56:03

needed help with technology, man.

00:56:11 --> 00:56:13

Right. Sayid Abu Sa'id al Fadir radiAllahu ta'ala

00:56:13 --> 00:56:16

anhu, he narrates a very, interesting hadith that

00:56:17 --> 00:56:19

the Jannah and and and Jahannam, they got

00:56:19 --> 00:56:20

into an argument one time.

00:56:21 --> 00:56:22

Jahannam and Jahannam

00:56:23 --> 00:56:25

got into an argument one time.

00:56:26 --> 00:56:29

And so Jahannam says, I'm better than you

00:56:29 --> 00:56:31

because all the big shots will be here.

00:56:32 --> 00:56:33

Right? All the all the all the all

00:56:33 --> 00:56:36

the powerful people and all the arrogant people,

00:56:36 --> 00:56:37

all the tyrants,

00:56:37 --> 00:56:38

I got all of them.

00:56:39 --> 00:56:41

And, Jannah's like, well, I I guess I

00:56:41 --> 00:56:42

only have all the weak people and all

00:56:42 --> 00:56:44

the, you know, all the poor people that

00:56:44 --> 00:56:46

Huwinte is a pitiful people that everyone feels

00:56:46 --> 00:56:48

sorry for. And so Allah Ta'ala,

00:56:49 --> 00:56:52

Allah Ta'ala, he judges between them, and he

00:56:52 --> 00:56:54

says to Jannah, Innekil Jannah. He said, you

00:56:54 --> 00:56:56

verily you are Jannah. You are my my

00:56:56 --> 00:56:58

mercy. It's interesting both Jannah and Jahannam have

00:56:58 --> 00:57:00

the feminine gender in the Arabic language. I'm

00:57:00 --> 00:57:01

not saying nothing, but you know what I

00:57:01 --> 00:57:03

mean? It is interesting.

00:57:04 --> 00:57:05

That he says that,

00:57:10 --> 00:57:12

That verily, you're my Jannah, and you're my

00:57:12 --> 00:57:14

my mercy, and I have mercy

00:57:14 --> 00:57:17

through you upon whoever I wish to. And

00:57:17 --> 00:57:18

and then he

00:57:19 --> 00:57:20

says

00:57:21 --> 00:57:24

that that verily you are my fire. You're

00:57:24 --> 00:57:26

you're you you the fire, you are my

00:57:26 --> 00:57:28

torment, and I torment through you whoever I

00:57:28 --> 00:57:30

wish to. And he says that it's my

00:57:30 --> 00:57:31

it's my responsibility

00:57:32 --> 00:57:33

to fill both of you up.

00:57:34 --> 00:57:37

May Allah be our protection from being from

00:57:37 --> 00:57:38

the the fill of jahannan

00:58:01 --> 00:58:03

that Allah will not look at in the

00:58:03 --> 00:58:04

day of judgment, Allah will not look at

00:58:04 --> 00:58:05

the person

00:58:05 --> 00:58:08

who used to drag his, Izzar, his lower

00:58:08 --> 00:58:09

garment.

00:58:12 --> 00:58:14

Meaning what? Meaning below below his ankles. He

00:58:14 --> 00:58:16

used to drag his lower garment below his

00:58:16 --> 00:58:18

ankles or on the on the ground.

00:58:19 --> 00:58:21

What out of batar, out of out of,

00:58:22 --> 00:58:22

arrogance.

00:58:23 --> 00:58:25

Now this is an interesting hadith,

00:58:26 --> 00:58:27

in the sense that it's a sunnah. It's

00:58:27 --> 00:58:29

a sunnah of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa

00:58:29 --> 00:58:31

sallam. It's makru too at the bare minimum.

00:58:31 --> 00:58:33

Some of the ulama says haram. And and

00:58:33 --> 00:58:35

honestly, you know, as far as as far

00:58:35 --> 00:58:36

as I can tell,

00:58:37 --> 00:58:40

that's probably, in my opinion, and, you know,

00:58:40 --> 00:58:42

there it's it is a difference of opinion,

00:58:42 --> 00:58:43

so that's why I don't hammer people about

00:58:43 --> 00:58:45

it. But it is something that that that

00:58:45 --> 00:58:47

we should take heed of, that a person

00:58:47 --> 00:58:48

shouldn't

00:58:48 --> 00:58:50

drag their lower garment below their ankles.

00:58:51 --> 00:58:53

For the very least of reasons is what?

00:58:53 --> 00:58:53

It's dirty.

00:58:54 --> 00:58:55

You're you you know, you go to the

00:58:55 --> 00:58:57

bathroom and you go to all these different

00:58:57 --> 00:58:58

places, and you'll pick up najasa

00:58:59 --> 00:59:00

under your clothes. If you do that, you'll

00:59:00 --> 00:59:02

pick up and it will invalidate your prayers,

00:59:02 --> 00:59:03

and it will,

00:59:04 --> 00:59:06

invalidate your your your prayers, and it will

00:59:06 --> 00:59:08

bring all of that into the masjid and

00:59:08 --> 00:59:09

things like that. People should be very sensitive

00:59:09 --> 00:59:10

about

00:59:10 --> 00:59:12

And now that's the first haditha.

00:59:18 --> 00:59:20

Verily Allah doesn't

00:59:21 --> 00:59:24

accept a prayer without purification, without purity, and

00:59:24 --> 00:59:25

Allah doesn't accept,

00:59:26 --> 00:59:28

just like he doesn't accept sadaqa from stolen

00:59:28 --> 00:59:29

money.

00:59:29 --> 00:59:31

So to pray your prayer without being clean,

00:59:32 --> 00:59:33

both in terms of your your,

00:59:34 --> 00:59:36

the both in terms of your having wudu,

00:59:36 --> 00:59:38

and it's also in terms of being clean

00:59:38 --> 00:59:39

in your body and clean in the place

00:59:39 --> 00:59:41

of prayer and clean in your clothing.

00:59:41 --> 00:59:44

Just like just like Allah will not accept

00:59:44 --> 00:59:45

sadaqa

00:59:45 --> 00:59:47

from ill gotten money. Right? If you rob

00:59:47 --> 00:59:49

the bank and then you go and, you

00:59:49 --> 00:59:51

know, donate, raise your hand for $10,000 at

00:59:51 --> 00:59:54

the MEGR fundraiser at the in the gym

00:59:54 --> 00:59:56

or whatever, and people attack, you're not gonna

00:59:56 --> 00:59:57

no. There's no

00:59:58 --> 01:00:01

for you, buddy. That's, you're it's not gonna

01:00:01 --> 01:00:02

be accepted. Just like that, the prayer is

01:00:02 --> 01:00:04

not gonna be accepted. And I don't know

01:00:04 --> 01:00:06

why it is people understand the second one

01:00:06 --> 01:00:07

nowadays.

01:00:07 --> 01:00:09

Maybe because money is important and Ibadah isn't.

01:00:09 --> 01:00:11

I don't know why it is. People understand

01:00:11 --> 01:00:14

why the donation from stolen money is, like,

01:00:14 --> 01:00:15

not gonna be accepted. But for some reason,

01:00:15 --> 01:00:17

when it's prayer, it's like, yo, man, you

01:00:17 --> 01:00:19

you didn't do your wudu properly. I see,

01:00:19 --> 01:00:21

like, a big dry spot on your heel,

01:00:21 --> 01:00:23

like, this big. Listen, brother. Allah knows my

01:00:23 --> 01:00:25

intention. Okay, brother? You don't need to judge

01:00:25 --> 01:00:26

me. I'm not judging you, bro. I'm just

01:00:26 --> 01:00:28

trying to help you out with your salat,

01:00:28 --> 01:00:30

you know? No. Okay, brother. That's enough that's

01:00:30 --> 01:00:32

enough that's enough for you. Okay? They seem

01:00:32 --> 01:00:34

to like copy if somebody points something out

01:00:34 --> 01:00:35

like that to you, just be like, yeah.

01:00:35 --> 01:00:37

Thanks, man, and just wipe it over. What

01:00:37 --> 01:00:39

if you already wiped it over and you

01:00:39 --> 01:00:40

know it and you just do it again?

01:00:40 --> 01:00:42

What's the problem about it? It's a hadith

01:00:42 --> 01:00:42

of the prophet

01:00:43 --> 01:00:44

whoever gives up an argument,

01:00:45 --> 01:00:46

for the sake of Allah. Allah will build

01:00:46 --> 01:00:48

him a a a house on the edge

01:00:48 --> 01:00:50

of Jannah. Whoever gives up an argument for

01:00:50 --> 01:00:52

the sake of Allah in their right,

01:00:53 --> 01:00:54

Allah will build from a house in the

01:00:54 --> 01:00:56

middle of Jannah. There's nothing wrong with that.

01:00:56 --> 01:00:57

I mean, if you're like if you think

01:00:57 --> 01:00:59

you're better than everyone else, then you might

01:00:59 --> 01:01:01

be like, oh, I'm not gonna admit I'm

01:01:01 --> 01:01:03

wrong because then people won't know how awesome

01:01:03 --> 01:01:04

I am. But if you don't if you're

01:01:04 --> 01:01:06

not arrogant and you don't you're not cared

01:01:06 --> 01:01:08

about you don't care about what your status

01:01:08 --> 01:01:09

is in front of

01:01:09 --> 01:01:11

people, then, you know, why don't you just

01:01:11 --> 01:01:12

be like, yeah. Okay. Yeah. Sure. I'll wipe

01:01:12 --> 01:01:14

over it again. No problem. No no problem.

01:01:14 --> 01:01:15

You know?

01:01:16 --> 01:01:16

No problem.

01:01:17 --> 01:01:18

No problem.

01:01:20 --> 01:01:22

So this whole thing about dragging your

01:01:22 --> 01:01:24

garments below, and that's

01:01:25 --> 01:01:27

the the the primary reason is that for

01:01:27 --> 01:01:28

for it to be

01:01:29 --> 01:01:30

forbidden is that. That's the primary reason it's

01:01:30 --> 01:01:31

a

01:01:31 --> 01:01:32

bad thing to do. It's a wrong thing

01:01:32 --> 01:01:34

to do. And so the prophet sallallahu alaihi

01:01:34 --> 01:01:36

wa sallam, he mentions what? He mentions that

01:01:36 --> 01:01:37

whoever

01:01:37 --> 01:01:39

drags it. Second thing is that it was

01:01:39 --> 01:01:41

but that's the reason that it's even an

01:01:41 --> 01:01:43

issue that has to be commented on is

01:01:43 --> 01:01:44

what? The people of Jahiliya used to do

01:01:44 --> 01:01:46

that. They used to wear clothes that were

01:01:46 --> 01:01:46

too long,

01:01:47 --> 01:01:49

and, it was a sign that they're rich

01:01:49 --> 01:01:50

because cloth used to be really expensive.

01:01:51 --> 01:01:53

In the old days, poor meant

01:01:53 --> 01:01:55

being poor meant being hungry and being naked.

01:01:58 --> 01:02:00

Right? So it's a description of Jannah. Nobody

01:02:00 --> 01:02:01

will be hungry there. No one will be

01:02:01 --> 01:02:02

naked

01:02:02 --> 01:02:04

because there'll be enough for everybody. And so

01:02:04 --> 01:02:07

if you're, like, rich, you wore clothes that

01:02:07 --> 01:02:08

were, like, way too long

01:02:08 --> 01:02:10

in in order to show people how, like,

01:02:10 --> 01:02:12

rich you were and how much of a

01:02:12 --> 01:02:13

baller you were.

01:02:13 --> 01:02:15

And so that was also a secondary problem

01:02:15 --> 01:02:18

with having your Izaar too long, which is

01:02:18 --> 01:02:19

what? Is that it's,

01:02:20 --> 01:02:21

you know, it's a sign of takabur. It's

01:02:21 --> 01:02:23

a sign of batar. It's a sign of

01:02:23 --> 01:02:23

arrogance.

01:02:24 --> 01:02:25

And so the Nabi says,

01:02:26 --> 01:02:27

this is a a

01:02:27 --> 01:02:28

a

01:02:28 --> 01:02:29

a cultural

01:02:29 --> 01:02:31

trait of Muslims is that Muslims never

01:02:32 --> 01:02:34

traditionally, or at least the pious amongst the

01:02:34 --> 01:02:37

Muslims, traditionally never used to wear their,

01:02:37 --> 01:02:39

lower garment, whatever it is, as an Izaar

01:02:39 --> 01:02:41

like I'm wearing right now, or as as

01:02:41 --> 01:02:42

pants,

01:02:42 --> 01:02:44

that that that, you know, most of the

01:02:44 --> 01:02:46

people are are wearing right now.

01:02:46 --> 01:02:49

They never used to, let them drag below

01:02:49 --> 01:02:50

the ankles.

01:02:50 --> 01:02:52

They never used to drag let them drag

01:02:52 --> 01:02:54

below the ankles. Now people do it, and

01:02:54 --> 01:02:56

people traditionally did. Some people who are not

01:02:56 --> 01:02:58

so concerned with the deen. We shouldn't do

01:02:58 --> 01:03:00

that. Right? If it's Makru, Makru means something

01:03:00 --> 01:03:03

detestable or hateful. Who's doing the hating? Allah.

01:03:03 --> 01:03:04

If Allah hates it, then what's the point?

01:03:04 --> 01:03:06

You know, it may as well be haram

01:03:06 --> 01:03:08

if Allah hates it. So, you know, don't

01:03:08 --> 01:03:10

just, you know, don't do it. Say, okay.

01:03:10 --> 01:03:12

Well, my pants are you roll up the

01:03:12 --> 01:03:13

kafs or whatever,

01:03:13 --> 01:03:14

if you're able to. But, you know, and

01:03:14 --> 01:03:16

if you're not able to do anything about

01:03:16 --> 01:03:17

it, well, you're not able to do anything

01:03:17 --> 01:03:19

about it. But if you're able to, a

01:03:19 --> 01:03:20

person should do that. You know, if they're

01:03:20 --> 01:03:22

reminded about it, they shouldn't,

01:03:22 --> 01:03:24

they shouldn't they shouldn't

01:03:24 --> 01:03:26

they shouldn't show arrogance.

01:03:27 --> 01:03:28

At any rate, you know, the prophet

01:03:34 --> 01:03:34

whoever

01:03:35 --> 01:03:37

resembles a people, then he's amongst them. And

01:03:37 --> 01:03:39

generally speaking, this hadith is only quoted in

01:03:39 --> 01:03:40

its negative meaning

01:03:41 --> 01:03:43

that if you look like evil people, then

01:03:43 --> 01:03:45

you'll be one of them. I've I very

01:03:45 --> 01:03:47

seldom if ever heard anyone quoted in the

01:03:47 --> 01:03:50

positive meaning, and the positive meaning is what?

01:03:50 --> 01:03:51

If you look like good people, Allah will

01:03:51 --> 01:03:53

count you amongst them. It's good. If you

01:03:53 --> 01:03:55

look like pious people and things like that,

01:03:55 --> 01:03:56

then you have, like, you know, the bad

01:03:56 --> 01:03:58

company that you might have kept before. They

01:03:58 --> 01:04:00

may pass you up. There's a lot of

01:04:00 --> 01:04:01

khair and a benefit in it. People say,

01:04:01 --> 01:04:03

brother, I keep my Islam inside my heart.

01:04:03 --> 01:04:05

You should keep it in your heart. That's

01:04:05 --> 01:04:06

amazing. That's wonderful. That's between you and Allah.

01:04:06 --> 01:04:08

You didn't even even don't even have to

01:04:08 --> 01:04:10

mention that to me. You know? But Islam

01:04:10 --> 01:04:13

is what? It's both inside and out. It's

01:04:13 --> 01:04:15

balanced in both of them. Right? We don't

01:04:15 --> 01:04:17

say what's render unto Caesar, what is Caesar's,

01:04:17 --> 01:04:19

and render unto God what is God's. Allah

01:04:19 --> 01:04:21

belongs to him everything, and Caesar belongs to

01:04:21 --> 01:04:23

him, and everything belongs to him. There's no

01:04:23 --> 01:04:24

demarcation in that sense.

01:04:25 --> 01:04:27

So a person should a person should do

01:04:27 --> 01:04:29

that. It should make them happy that they,

01:04:29 --> 01:04:32

follow and imitate the ways of the pious.

01:04:33 --> 01:04:33

And

01:04:34 --> 01:04:35

so the prophet said,

01:04:36 --> 01:04:38

Allah ta'ala on the day of judgment will

01:04:38 --> 01:04:39

not look at the person.

01:04:39 --> 01:04:41

Meaning what? Allah ta'ala will not give that

01:04:41 --> 01:04:42

person,

01:04:42 --> 01:04:45

an opportunity to plead, for mercy or try

01:04:45 --> 01:04:47

to excuse themselves. And who is the one

01:04:47 --> 01:04:49

he won't look at? The one who in

01:04:49 --> 01:04:51

this in this life used to drag his,

01:04:52 --> 01:04:54

drag his lower garment out of arrogance.

01:04:54 --> 01:04:56

This is like one of the most classic

01:04:56 --> 01:04:57

things like I ever heard. There are some

01:04:57 --> 01:04:59

people who'd be like, hey, brother. You know,

01:04:59 --> 01:05:00

don't you know the hadith of the prophet

01:05:00 --> 01:05:03

you know? It's disliked raham, difference of opinion

01:05:03 --> 01:05:04

again amongst the ulama. That's why we don't

01:05:04 --> 01:05:06

beat beat each other up about it. But

01:05:06 --> 01:05:07

didn't you know about the hadith in which

01:05:07 --> 01:05:09

the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam disapproved of

01:05:09 --> 01:05:11

this action? They said, that's if someone's doing

01:05:11 --> 01:05:12

it out of arrogance. I'm not doing it

01:05:12 --> 01:05:14

out of arrogance. So, like, get lost.

01:05:15 --> 01:05:17

Okay. You probably weren't doing it out of

01:05:17 --> 01:05:19

arrogance 5 minutes ago. Once you said that,

01:05:19 --> 01:05:21

it became arrogance. Because somebody told you a

01:05:21 --> 01:05:22

sunnah and you're like

01:05:23 --> 01:05:25

getting upset about it for some reason. Usually,

01:05:25 --> 01:05:26

Yeah. You're right. It's the sunnah of the

01:05:26 --> 01:05:26

Prophet

01:05:27 --> 01:05:28

That should mean something to you. If you

01:05:28 --> 01:05:30

don't change your behavior, at least it should

01:05:30 --> 01:05:32

mean something to you. You know? You shouldn't

01:05:32 --> 01:05:33

be, like, you know,

01:05:34 --> 01:05:36

go on, go on, like, you know, defense

01:05:36 --> 01:05:38

mechanism mode or, you know, whatever, stand your

01:05:38 --> 01:05:40

ground law and, you know, you know that

01:05:40 --> 01:05:41

you could you shouldn't go into that mode.

01:05:41 --> 01:05:43

It's just accept it. It's the sunnah of

01:05:43 --> 01:05:45

the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. The very

01:05:45 --> 01:05:47

mention of it, Nabi salallahu alaihi wa sallam

01:05:47 --> 01:05:49

should cause iman to reenter the hearts of

01:05:49 --> 01:05:51

every one of the believers if it had

01:05:51 --> 01:05:53

left. It should not be an occasion to

01:05:53 --> 01:05:55

become angry at people and to give them

01:05:55 --> 01:05:56

a hard time. I think that's enough for

01:05:56 --> 01:05:58

today. We have to give the adhan and

01:05:58 --> 01:05:59

whatnot. Are there any questions?

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I'm sorry. I I doubt the southern accent

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today. I didn't mean to Keep going on

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at all. My shot. What you what you

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were talking about,

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Mississippi.

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