Haleh Banani – You’ve Got to Learn This One Thing

			Your level of happiness is dependent on three things. One is your genes. The second is your your
circumstances. And then third are your habits. Now, genes, we don't have much control over that it's
whatever we're given. And what's interesting is that they've done studies, they've done studies on
twins. And they have found that our genes contributed to about 50% of our baseline, our baseline of
happiness. So there is a baseline that we have, and it is dependent on who our parents who are and
what our genes are. And it does set the point, but it only contributes for 50%. Now that 50, the
other 50%, we are in control of. And if we learn what to do, then we can change that prediction, not
		

			the second thing of circumstances that people become enslaved by their circumstances, they feel
victimized, they feel that it is because they did not have the same opportunities. Maybe there was
poverty, maybe there was abuse, they had a bad marriage. And they blamed everything on their
circumstances. You know what research says, research indicates that circumstances only contribute to
10% of what you're experiencing. So this puts it into perspective. And this is what I like to help
my clients to understand that it's not necessarily the circumstances because there are so many
people I have seen have horrible circumstances, but because they take control, and they change the
		

			way they view things, they change the way they behave. It totally blows everything away, and it
makes them have so much more stability, happiness and success. Now, the third point is your habits,
you have 100% control over your habits. These are the things that you can learn, to cultivate, to
establish. And even if you didn't learn good habits from childhood, this is the time to learn how to
develop powerful habits that will give meaning to your life that will give you peace and serenity.
So if you want to learn how to develop those habits, if you want to have the right mindset, if you
want to learn the other two very important equations about the happiness, join me on the mindful
		

			hearts, we're closing registration, and don't search for it on Facebook. Okay, so people are getting
confused. It is the mindful hearts.com I do a live lesson. And it is powerful information. It is
really groundbreaking information, things that will completely transform your perspective, your
personality, your life, and you can read all about it you can read about the stories of the sisters
who have been changing their lives and they are happier mashallah than ever and it is attainable.
You know, many times we look at happiness as something that is trivial. And it is just a side
product. After you achieve things, it is actually pretty vital. And it is a non negotiable. And when
		

			you have happiness to contentment, the rhythm in your heart, then you can be a true worshipper of
Allah. And when you have that rhythm, it will show on your face it will show in your behavior. There
are too many people going around, you know, saying the word of half the love, but they don't show
that they're truly happy with the other Ebola. And we want to establish that in our life. We want to
learn how to be our best how to develop our characteristic and live our life in a way that is
pleasing to Allah to live our life with meaning and with a higher purpose. And I really am so
excited hundreds of new sisters signing up and being a part of this amazing sisterhood that is
		

			filled with encouragement, support, love everything good. So you can come in and get a dosage of
that positivity. Learn the information, the lessons are life changing period. Okay, this is not
something you do alone. It is self paced, but you have a group of sisters who will support you, you
don't have to be miserable. You don't have to be stuck, and you don't have to do it alone. We're
here to support you and help you. I know it has been tough times. But you can get through this. And
the only way is by learning a new methodology is by surrounding yourself by positive influence. And
by actually making those changes step by step and you will be blown away in sha Allah. So join me on
		

			the mindful hearts. Remember that your happiness your well being is based on genes, circumstances
and your habit. The genes you have no control over but it only determines 50% Circumstances only 10%
of what has happened to you. It's really about learning how to react to it.
		

			And that's not going to come naturally. Just someone telling you how Sobor SR have to look what and
you don't know how to do that you're not going to achieve it. You've got to know the step by step.
You gotta have the strategy. You have to know the psychology. You got to feel it. You got to do the
internal work. I want to help you fly because as a believer, we should love for our sister What we
love for ourselves and I want you to fly I want you to have that feeling of serenity. I want you to
have the good relationships. And I want you to have an amazing life in sha Allah