Haitham al-Haddad – FUNNY Darling let us go for dinner

			She passed away just before her. They wanted to take her with me to help us. She passed away. And
really, yeah, Annie, I missed her and so on. He said she was a very righteous woman. He said, I
lived with her more than I around 50 years. And she never told me no.
		

			I don't think that it is that but when you miss someone
		

			whom you used to love, you will remember all the good things, which is good, which is good, at least
he will make dua for her. Anyway,
		

			imagine that you have the wisdom behind this. This is how I see it. Imagine you have an argument
with your wife, and she became angry and she thinks that you did something wrong or bad to her
cetera. And you left the house. And then you said, okay, really. Yanni you regretted and read, I
need to maybe rectify the matter and reconcile and so you texted her and she's you said, or you
know, darling, let us go for a dinner together.
		

			What will be her answer?
		

			Anyone?
		

			Anyone?
		

			You?
		

			Know, but he gave the correct answer. Maybe he because he's
		

			so what is the answer?
		

			No, she will never say yes. She will say what? No.
		

			Yeah.
		

			So he knows the answer.
		

			He said he knew the answer, because he said she will tell him get lost. So he must have received
this text message.
		

			So she will say no, no, please listen to this, especially brothers. Yeah, she will say no.
		

			What is the common mistake many brothers do? And this is small mistake leads to big mistakes. And
that's why we need to know the psychology of each other. Yeah. Many brothers will say she said no or
get lost. He will reply by saying, Well, you don't deserve it.
		

			It's my fault. Yeah. Or if he's not practicing, you will say I go for another woman.
		

			What will this lead to?
		

			To bigger problem or bigger problems? And sometimes it will be the start of the end of the marriage.
		

			Yeah.
		

			If this scenario happens, yeah, you need we as men need to understand that. Women like to be chased.
		

			Yeah. Don't expect when she thinks that you have Yanni dealt with her badly or something like this,
or you made a mistake. And then you regret it. And you said to her, darling, let us go for dinner.
When she says no, it means what?
		

			Yes, but please beg me again to come with you.
		

			No, seriously, this what it means. Yes.
		

			We have this common problem and there isn't any Sharia Council. And when I asked brothers, yeah. And
sometimes Yanni this very common, the brother is sitting next to him next to his wife and they say
so your wife told you no. Yeah, what do we do here Sophia? I will say no, no. Or I will just say
Okay, forget it or a girl nap come back home or, okay. Today I'm not going on spend my night with
with my family or with my parents or I'm going with my friends. And this will increase the problem.
I say that no, here. No. What does it mean? Most I think all the husbands that I met, they did not
understand the meaning of No.
		

			Seriously, it is a serious issue. And when I say no, it means yes, but send another text for me.
Please begged me I want to see that you are really chasing me. When I say this, all women start
laughing.
		

			All of them start to laugh. And I asked them is this true or not? And they say yes, this is true.
		

			It doesn't mean no doesn't mean real.
		

			No, I don't want to do it. It means what?
		

			Send me another text. I'm enjoying this request.
		

			Chasing me.
		

			Yes.
		

			So we have to understand this mentality this. I understood it from the legislation of what?
		

			Of Rujuta Yeah, Allah Allah, as I told you, maybe this is the hikma because if you go to your wife
and listen with I'm regretting letters with a console, she will say no.
		

			Most men will feel offended. She said, you know, and that's why it is a common question that we
receive that the man said to his wife, I want to her to have reduced. Yes. And she said, No. So I
said, she doesn't want I left her. No, it was a mistake from you, just to leave her like this. You
should have persuaded her more. So Sherry, closed the door and said Take her back. She has no
consent to refuse, or her consent to refuse is not condition a condition for it to be valid. Is it
clear? Yeah. Moreover,
		

			part of the wisdom of this read up normally, as it happened