Faith IQ – What Should I Tell My Future Spouse About My Past

			What I'm supposed to tell my future spouse in regard to my past
		

			and regard to the past sin, first of all, the person must repent to Allah from any sin that the
person committed in their past. And ask Allah Subhana Allah to forgive him or her the sin that they
have done in the past. And I asked a lot to forgive all our sins, what we've done in the past, what
we doing now and what we might do in the future, what we did in secret or in public, as for sharing
this with your fiance, with your husband, it depends, there are certain scents that will affect the
marriage like for example of somebody committed as in a woman lost her virginity, or someone
committed as in and he is attracted to the transmission, sexual diseases, or someone like committed
		

			a sin or something that has a proper consequences for it. Like for example, he was registered in
some less than the government
		

			law as a case against him to to use drugs or,
		

			you know, some bad sexual conduct with minors or thumbs up things of that nature. So these things
must be convinced you convinced you must tell your spouse about this or fiancee about this, you
know, things that maybe has a consequences or financial consequences, like things that you have to
pay back or a debt or find that it will affect your finance. And so these things of these nature's
it must be shared and tall. But any other than that,
		

			you don't need to tell the person if, for example, you say you did it, or you had a relationship
with the person. And these things ended. That's not supposed to be shared, and is not allowed for a
man to ask a woman. Did you ever had an issue with a man before or known a person before? Or she
asked? Did you ever did a woman before or something of that nature? Have you ever drank alcohol
before? That's not basically a lot, but things that it did in the past my brain back like drugs?
Yes, you can ask if you have used any heavy type of drugs in the past, but things that like some of
the youth maybe did in their, you know, ignorant days, you should not ask about it. And should
		

			person not allowed to bring it up to what if somebody asks, Can I lie about it? If it's not
something going to affect their relationship? Even Elon Musk said it's allowed for you to lie about
it. And to or to say it in a way that it will not tell the kind of the full truth if you think that
will cause a damage. And the final point, many people when they became very comfortable with their
spouse, they start telling them about all the bad things that did in the past. I want to advise you
don't get too comfortable. Because sometimes these things it would be used against you in the future
when conflict happens. You know what your sins between you and Allah, keep it that way. Because
		

			Allah is the only one will forgive all your sins, and he will never ever, you know, hold it against
you as long as you repent to Allah, but no human being will do the same. I ask Allah Subhana Allah
to forgive our sins and to cover us with his setup Salalah