Faaik Gamieldien – Ramadan – What to avoid

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The importance of avoiding activities during the month ofFinancial, such as fasting and taking a photo, is discussed. The training process for individuals to improve their character is also emphasized. The importance of learning to be a good Muslim and avoiding discussing sexual activities during the month of Guinea is also emphasized. The importance of practice and avoiding mentioning one's "hasn't been done" attitude is emphasized, along with the need to be mindful of one's language and avoid confusion and misunderstandings. The segment also touches on the importance of avoiding mentioning one's "hasn't been done" attitude and not talking about sexual activities during the month of Guinea."

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			Alhamdulillah in Africa who understand you know one of the few who will be one at a waka lolly? When
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further howdy Allah. When I shadow Allah, Allah Allah Allahu Allahu la sharika wanna shadow Anna
Mohammad Abdul Rasulullah
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam alayhi wa early he was happy when
		
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			he like Allah died, beloved brothers and sisters in Islam as salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa Taala.
		
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			Today, inshallah is the Friday preceding the month of Ramadan which will inshallah begin tomorrow.
		
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			And
		
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			today's topic is Ramadan what to avoid, what to avoid in the month of Ramadan.
		
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			Firstly, we
		
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			see what allows vongola says about Ramadan in the Quran. Allah Allah says in Surah Baqarah
		
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			Shahada Ramadan, Lady Angela philia
		
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			woodenly nurse what the Unity minella Buddha Walford so yeah, we hear the mention of Ramadan. And we
hear the mention of Allah.
		
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			Allah finalises Shahada Ramadan, the month of Ramadan
		
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			I levy on Delafield for the month in which Allah subhanho wa Taala has revealed the Quran to His
Beloved Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So two things Allah puts together Allah puts
together Ramadan and allows 100 A puts together the Quran.
		
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			And what does Allah say about this about the Parana Los Angeles is
		
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			shorter Ramadan and Lady Angela feel Quran Huda leanness the first
		
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			aim of the Quran is to provide guidance, not only for Muslims, but also leanness for every person,
all of humanity. So this is a guidance, Odin dinars what by genetic mineral Rudolf record, it is
also
		
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			a book that must be used in order to judge what is right and what is wrong.
		
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			And also to find out what is the guidance of Allah subhanho wa Taala
		
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			because we know we take guidance from many different sources from from people, different people from
our teachers from different books that we read. But yeah, no father says we need to understand what
is that guidance which Allah the Creator of the heavens and earth has placed in this book called The
poor and which he sent down in the month of Ramadan?
		
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			He chose the month of Ramadan to sit down and we must understand that the month of Ramadan when the
Quran came down was not the month of Ramadan that we know today. It was a month of Ramadan is we in
which was no there was no fasting
		
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			there were no Muslims.
		
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			And this was revealed to the navies of Salaam to Allah chose this man particularly to reveal the
Quran it's a very special month in the eyes of allows Carnival without
		
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			would le nashoba inactive Naruto alpha con Furman Shahid amine cuckoo Shara Alia soon woman kana
Marina Oh Allah suffering fried that to me. Allah says and if you are present at home you should
observe the fast if you're homebound or Hamza we all know bound. Except of course those who are ill
on a journey since our last continent they have to pay in the day afterwards if they're too ill, if
the illness is continuous, of course, I'm gonna give a video which of course this year is 10 grand
per day that is the most really it's nothing you can't feed one person on Tinder you should give
much more than that, if you can afford it.
		
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			So shall Ramadan Allah, Allah, Allah kuranda Lynette urbinati mina Luna will confirm and chide me
commercial failure, some woman Karna Merida, Oh Allah suffering find that to mean am in your heart.
You read the law hobbico musala you read the Kuma loss and this is what I want to emphasize. Today
inshallah. Allah Subhan Allah says, you read the law who become a user allows you behind what Allah
once easiness for you wants to facilitate your fast
		
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			while you read the book Manasa Allah doesn't want to make fasting difficult and we will clear that
fasting is easy for
		
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			It is so difficult because in fact when we fall to do nothing
		
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			we don't do anything by fasting like Salah you have to make movements and take a photo. If you give
some kind of take your money out, you have to give it away to go for hydro bus travel for me to
Makkah, a lot of incurrence of of your of your wealth and of your health, your energy and your
strength, whereas with Ramadan, it just you just stay away from food and water. That's easy as that.
But it's easier than that.
		
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			You need to learn how
		
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			to become an author, what it took to write that only took a bit Allah Allah, Allah Allah, Allah,
Allah says
		
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			so complete the fast that meal, make that meal, or come out of the fast and this doesn't only is
this this, this completion or this perfection at Allah speaks about is not only about the fast
		
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			this
		
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			completion and this perfection is about perfecting the whole of Ramadan. Today we can do how easy it
is to perfect, the whole of our Ramadan. Those those times we knew that make Salah those times, you
know when we are free, those times when we eat those times when we sleep all that can be perfected
in the month of Ramadan.
		
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			And it's so easy in sha Allah, may Allah Allah guide us to the easiness of the month of Ramadan so
		
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			people say we pay for Madonna Cebu it's such a big journey it's like going to Makkah you know you
have to pay no and this the saying this already creates some kind of uneasiness in the past oh I
must prepare for the month of Ramadan oh I'm not prepared for the month of Ramadan what how am I
going to prepare for the month of Ramadan? We always prepared for the month of a Muslim is always
prepared to serve his creator but if we serve Ramadan it becomes difficult
		
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			if we pray to Ramadan it becomes difficult because how do you do that?
		
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			But if you pray to Allah founder it easy Ramadan is easy Why? Because I only pray to Allah subhanaw
taala the whole year you worship allows Padma time something new for the Muslim all this preparation
and maybe as to buy some supports as in especially now with a lockdown for that as far as it goes.
Otherwise you should relax and tomorrow you start fasting inshallah.
		
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			So we should understand that we don't worship Ramadan.
		
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			Why? Because it is quite evident that many of us
		
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			when Ramadan is finished, you can see who worshiped Ramadan and who worship Allah subhanaw taala
those who often Ramadan go back to the old ways. They worship Ramadan, because they only worshiping
Ramadan. But those who continuously worship and remember our last mountain,
		
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			they like because becomes better after Ramadan. And this is what Ramadan is all about. Ramadan is a
training ground, you know to the all professionals will undergo further training. So Allah Fontella,
we all professional listen to our last one has given us this time, this Ramadan, to catch up on all
the things that we may have missed out to try and polish out a man and most importantly, to improve
our characters as Muslim.
		
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			Because more important than a man is your character.
		
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			Because without a good character, you'll be weak. Your character reflects your Eman. Nobody knows
your image. Nobody knows the level of your mind. The only people The only thing people know about
you nice is a good man who behaves well. It's got a good character, and that reflects our human. So
those things we need to work on. We need to work on our character. If we look at
		
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			the life of the Prophet salallahu alayhi salatu salam, why is it that allows Muhammad Allah waited
40 years
		
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			to reveal the Quran to him
		
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			14 years
		
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			he only had 35 years to spread this day. But 40 years Allah made him wait.
		
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			That'd be Lisa.
		
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			He got revelation in his cradle.
		
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			And so did all the other profits start off w Moosa. Now visa, and Avi Brahim was a young boy, when
he was already
		
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			a prophet from our hometown, but Mohammed Salah Salah, had to wait for 40 years. And if we look at
what happened in those 40 years, we see one outstanding thing that happened to him in those 40
years. That he was being groomed by allows harlowton. In what you got the relation. He didn't know
he was a prophet. He only knew he was a prophet. When the
		
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			Eveleigh when jabril came to me in the cave and he got a shock of his life. So heinola
		
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			see what to do with it, he was a prophet. So what was the training Allah gave him?
		
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			The training was only one
		
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			to perfect his character. And that is why, when he brought the score on to the people of NACA,
		
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			he was called Allah mean, the trustworthy 40 years of training brought him to one point what was in
NACA, Allah, Allah who looking after him, allows for dialysis and you have the best of
		
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			the weightiest of character,
		
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			the most splendid of character, and that is what allows for holidays, and therefore for our parents,
and for parents in general. This is what bringing up a child is all about. It's all about instilling
character. So, Ramadan then has that
		
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			that is a challenge for us, that is what we have to do in the month of Ramadan.
		
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			Ramadan Of course, also comes with its own Baraka and what is the Baraka that Ramadan comes with?
		
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			Because it Medan is a month, like Shabbat like show while that like moharram let bill hijack all the
sponsor
		
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			after omalos harmattan
		
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			What is so special about Ramadan?
		
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			fasting could be fast other days as well. So many days you can fast whenever we want to fast,
		
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			profit faster, most of his life
		
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			turns into fasting.
		
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			What is it? It's
		
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			Allah connects when Allah speaks about fasting or speak separately about fasting.
		
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			The verse before this, Allah says, You will need Amano quotevalet Kumasi, gamma katiba Allah Allah
de Domine public of La La Quinta Taku fasting is completely separate, Allah says, I have given you
fasting so that you may develop Taka,
		
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			so that you may know
		
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			what I want from you. And that you may be conscious of me and that you may follow my orders and stay
away from that which I prohibited you from.
		
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			So in Ramadan, then
		
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			with a fasting and if the Quran is excluded, there could be no development of the consciousness of a
Lost Planet. But not
		
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			because the consciousness of allows for handler is developed when you interact
		
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			with what Allah says to you, which is
		
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			what we should we do.
		
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			Many people say you know, one of the first things they start is they
		
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			say that we are going to read the whole for an economic settlement
		
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			and they compete with one another to finish the Quran on the night of that.
		
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			And we should ask any of them there are millions of Muslims all over the world read this book.
		
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			And it's a lot of Baraka intercrop for every letter you get 10 reward
		
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			but officially if I should ask the question,
		
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			which book is there that we that millions of people read every single day but they don't understand
anything about it?
		
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			Which book is that?
		
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			How is that possible? How is it possible that we Muslim can read this book the rain without any
understanding?
		
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			We do not understand what I mean by to understand some of it but most of us don't understand and
that's an enigma
		
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			that we need to grapple with in the month of Ramadan.
		
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			Ramadan also
		
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			is the month in which allows handler opens the doors of gender eight doors of gender open Mashallah
in the month of Ramadan
		
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			and you have a special door for us that people have asked
		
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			what is that those nymeria again, that is a special door for those who perfect the fast in the month
of Ramadan.
		
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			So
		
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			then at least Allah Allah salallahu alayhi salatu salam
		
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			went through that period of training and when Asha was asked,
		
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			so What kind of a man was your husband Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salatu salam
		
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			What did she say? She says? She said, Can Hulu
		
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			she says Verily, his character was
		
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			he had imbibed the Quran.
		
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			He was the living Cora. He was the walking.
		
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			He was the
		
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			perfection
		
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			of the practice of the Quran from Allah.
		
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			So,
		
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			in the month of Ramadan
		
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			there are two guests that come people say Ramadan is the guest, Ramadan is up against Ramadan is a
month.
		
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			Without other things Ramadan is not a guest.
		
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			There are two guests that come in the month of Ramadan.
		
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			Many people say oh, we're waiting for some of our guests is coming tomorrow or Milan now.
		
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			We have two guests,
		
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			our CFO
		
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			that is different from all the other months, what makes it different, we fast every day in the month
of Ramadan. Number two, the Quran was revealed in the month of Ramadan.
		
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			And
		
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			the Quran was given to the whole world.
		
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			And we can see now with a lockdown. So many of them have what the Quran teaches.
		
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			being followed, not knowing that 1500 years or more than 1400 years ago.
		
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			These rules and regulations of lockdown was already given to us by amateurs washing your hands when
in fact you wash your hands five times every single day, three times. So every end is was five times
three is 15 times we rent our miles rents our noses
		
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			wash our feet,
		
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			that we should say the home is a certain other than me salatu salam ra salatu salam and so many more
things.
		
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			That's our last one that says it's time we'll go on.
		
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			Man we'll find out that this Koran is the truth from Allah was Connaughton unknowingly they will
practice
		
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			and the laws of Islam
		
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			so what does it take to make a successful Ramadan?
		
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			What is it what does it require for us to say at the end of Ramadan
		
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			I look forward to January
		
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			we shouldn't finish we shouldn't be happy sad. If allow others to cry after Ramadan for Ramadan, you
would have made a day of crying yourself or Muslim Limassol crying because you know Ramadan is gone.
		
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			Robin attina for dunya has
		
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			allowed us to be happy in this world and happy in the afternoon.
		
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			So what is it?
		
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			They want to want to tell you the story about this wise teacher.
		
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			Very wise man, scholar of Islam.
		
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			You were sitting
		
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			like today on the last day of Shabbat and you were sitting with the students
		
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			in the masjid. And they were discussing Ramadan because the students very eager now to implement all
the teachings that stars has taught them. And all the increased learning we said for the past year
what they should do in the month of Ramadan. And there were a few students about four students once
named, let's give them names. One is Yusuf one is awesome and one was Helios one was aid. So the
four of them sitting with a teacher and saying to the teacher Mashallah We look forward to it calf,
we look forward to reading our core and we look forward to fasting during the day Mashallah we want
to make
		
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			attic calf and we want to make Sinatra we cater for tahajjud make Allah Salas on time. We want to,
we want to fill out our container with good deeds that we can present to allows
		
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			everyone to try to do much as much as we possibly can.
		
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			So the teacher looked at them and he smiled. He didn't say anything, he smiled.
		
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			And they said they were they were a bit perplexed when they saw the teacher not saying anything and
smiling. So they said to the teacher, isn't this you know what you told us what we should do? You
know, and we're looking for directors from you as to when or what what is the best vehicle to make
in the month of Ramadan and how we should conduct ourselves in the Ramadan.
		
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			So there was the you know that he was the one who said, teachers so tell us, you know, give us
		
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			Let's look at a program. He said, Give us give us your best program that you can give us. We and you
together in the month of Ramadan to make the best out of Ramadan. Because that's what we all want to
do, isn't it? We want to make the best out of Ramadan.
		
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			But we know deep down in our hearts, lots of Ramadan and listen hold on we'll do exactly the same
		
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			funnel.
		
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			If you had fasted for the last 20 years, every year, the same
		
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			core of us have learned to understand the Quran in the last 20 years that we've fostered in the
month of Ramadan, reading the heart of the Quran,
		
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			improving ourselves improving the way we make Salah for example, understanding the Salah better
understanding the will do better.
		
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			Since Allah gave us the internet, we have no more excuses we can Everything is there, you just have
to ask a teacher to say whether this is correct and whether that is correct on the internet or
whether you could go to the site or not go to that site.
		
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			So the teacher smiled and the teacher said
		
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			yeah, all you have said is good.
		
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			But it says let me
		
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			give you the parable
		
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			the parable of
		
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			a person
		
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			who goes into Ramadan and he has with him a bucket
		
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			an imaginary bucket or Georgia Tech let's say Georgia Tech is bigger than a duck
		
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			so he says to himself
		
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			you know how to fill my bucket this Georgia Tech on to fill it in the month of Ramadan how to fully
like people fill it we say you know the rains are coming or fill out Jojo tanks now for the summer
so we want to fill out Jojo tank now in the month of Ramadan full of good deeds are on paisa make
sadaqa be good sleep little do a lot. We've really, Mashallah some of us today. You know, take the
bull by the horns in the month of Ramadan. And we as you say we go for it.
		
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			So the teacher says I want to give an example of this, of this bucket.
		
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			He says, let's assume
		
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			that you are you make Salah five times a day, and you make it like you've never made before.
		
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			When you're in Roku, for example and you're in your Roku and you you say the the kids is thinking,
think about the meaning when you sit in between the sujood you think about the meaning
		
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			of the filly or how many would you believe me? are funny? Well, the zucchini, la de la Fini LA for
our knee.
		
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			What a beautiful La La filiale Allah forgive me, or how many have mercy on me. What's your booty
lift me up, raise me up and I'm down.
		
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			We're fine and raise me up my character, my personality. My goodness.
		
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			What a zucchini give me a reserved
		
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			word Dini guide me?
		
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			Why Feeny give me
		
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			make my well being good, give me good well being my body and my mind, psychologically, spiritually,
physically?
		
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			Well, I think you are funny.
		
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			and wipe out my sins.
		
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			There's forgiveness of sins and and if there's the whole Ferghana, an override is when you say, the
federal law and Allah says, I forgive you
		
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			an extra Angel, all right, forgiven, but it will still be on your book.
		
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			When you say like, we should say like I shall ask the prophets or some lump in what should I say
when I get little? And he said,
		
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			say make the following door Allahumma inaka foun to hibel Africa funding, Oh Allah, you are the one
who earase since
		
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			you love to erase guns. So earase my sons, Europe.
		
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			So we asked a lot erase our sins, they imagine you sit between your, your your two, three jewels and
you and you contemplate on these words of the art that you make to Allah was kind of
		
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			just as a one, one example. So this is what you do. So he starts his
		
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			he says,
		
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			he says to the students that they really excited, not filling is going to be full at the end of
Ramadan. But he says to them,
		
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			now,
		
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			what would happen?
		
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			He says, How long do you think it'll take to photojojo tank full of goodies
		
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			or a bucket
		
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			and I said, Ramadan, you get seven
		
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			Under times so every act of goodness you do you get 700 stars, you know, Mashallah, by Ramadan, we
should have maybe 10 judges and full of 10 buckets full of goodies. So he says,
		
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			What is a hole in the bucket or a hole in Georgia Tech?
		
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			Will you ever be able to fill that bucket full of goodies? Let's assume goodies is water that you
put in?
		
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			What do you think will happen, the more goodies will go, what will happen to the good date
		
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			it will leak out at the bottom whether it's a Jojo tan, whether it's a bucket, wherever you're going
to put it, it's going to leak away. And he says, this Ramadan, I want to teach you how to keep your
bucket
		
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			full half and a quarter full. But he says most people reached the end of Ramadan with an empty
bucket. Not because they didn't fast, not because they gave him too good. Not because they
		
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			didn't read the Quran. But because they made a hole in the bucket.
		
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			That's what they did.
		
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			And what what are those holes in the buckets that we make in the month of Ramadan? And if we can
learn this lesson
		
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			now
		
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			in this Ramadan,
		
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			then inshallah it should carry us for the rest of our life. They will not make the mistake of
putting our good deeds in a bucket in which it is out.
		
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			Now
		
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			not to make a hole in your in your pocket doesn't require to read the document five times every day.
		
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			It's about your character.
		
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			I want to read to you.
		
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			A Hadith of the Nabi sallallahu alayhi salam, Allah salatu salam
		
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			above about
		
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			what is the most important part
		
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			of gaining the best of Ramadan and your whole life?
		
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			There's a hadith from the enemies of Solomon Hadith,
		
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			which I'm just thinking about now, in which the prophets of Salaam says that sadaqa is
		
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			every Muslim is to give sadaqa every day.
		
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			So the Sahaba asked how and Professor Sutton said well you should go get a job you should get some
work and you should then take some money to feed his family and the rest is your gifts and
		
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			then they said you know what if you can't work What if he there's no work is unemployed? Let me say
Sam said then you should have somebody to do something. Maybe something to ask him to love something
or to ever whatever, help your neighbor or help you in the state unit. Help an old person that will
be also sad.
		
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			Then after the Prophet gave a few examples, the Sahaba said you had a pseudo look at that man it's
got nothing of that he's too old he's got no money he's got nothing
		
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			a visa so I'm saying falloon seek Annie sharper in
		
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			that man who's got nothing to give to nobody. He's got no help to give to maybe he's got no name.
He's got no legs.
		
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			Photos of
		
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			a person who just stays away
		
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			from bad things that is exotic.
		
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			Just don't do anything bad. That is your
		
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			supernova and that is the essence of of Ramadan.
		
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			That explained further up by even the army
		
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			said
		
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			so alto Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam
		
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			Martin ninject
		
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			by the army of says and all these ladies
		
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			are not given
		
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			up by the army says
		
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			how they are a pseudo law How can I attain salvation? What does that mean? It means how can I be
saved on the day of piano and go to gender?
		
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			Physically that's the question how can I go to general
		
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			levy so Sallam said to him
		
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			I'm sick alika three things a property?
		
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			I'm sick la Collison
		
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			number two? Well yes aka Touka what can ALLAH hafiz Attica?
		
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			Please listen carefully. Very important. These This is advice from the person who received the
revelation from Allah.
		
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			In everything he said Wasn't he was inspired by last
		
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			one I anticolonial however, didn't speak from his own opinion when it came to medicine.
		
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			deem
		
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			first The Prophet said control your tongue
		
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			This is probably the
		
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			the wall roof and everything of Ramadan to control our tongues in the month of Ramadan yes we do
control items by not eating in the month of Ramadan
		
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			but we are more concerned about what goes into our mouth and what comes out of our mouth
		
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			we are more concerned about
		
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			what you're going to eat if we prepare the whole day for
		
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			what comes out of the mouth
		
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			nobody could tell us it
		
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			nobody was I've spoken to I've spoken to but Sudan only speak anymore
		
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			nobody sees that
		
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			so what is it
		
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			we if we want to have a successful online we must watch our tongue let me sell some sick control
your turn number two
		
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			while is activate to
		
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			keep to your home of hamdulillah we don't have to do that. We are very worried to doing that you're
used to doing that.
		
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			And please stay inside especially when you hold
		
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			that's what the President said follow the rules of the country and the government that that you live
under. That is an instruction from the Prophet salallahu assembly otherwise it'll be chaos in the
world.
		
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			And number three the levy saw Sam said what gala pathetic cry when you think about your sins cry
when you think about your sins.
		
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			Another had either than every saw Salaam Salaam Salaam was asked mahalo II by Ursula
		
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			O Prophet of Allah. What is backbiting? backbiting, you know we call it fitna
		
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			backbiting us as well What is his name?
		
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			Visa Sallam said, talking about your Muslim brother?
		
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			How? In a manner in which he will dislike.
		
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			So you talk about somebody.
		
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			And that person you know will not like the way that you speak about it. So that's a hobby as he
said, Dr. rasulillah.
		
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			What he is, as I say he is
		
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			otherwise what? You know what people say my problem is invalid. Isn't that our response? The problem
is invalid. The same set was sent to the nanny saw sanlam What if What I say is exactly how he is
and what is it what are speaking the truth.
		
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			Professor Sallam said that is that biting
		
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			more specific, because someone said, even if you speak the truth about someone else that is
backbiting
		
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			and what is Allah refer to it and
		
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			if you want to eat the flesh of your brother, you should beg by to speak to him, speak about him.
whether it's good or bad, you speak about him.
		
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			And the province or someone said if it's lies, if it is not the truth that you are saying about your
brother or your sister, that is called slandering.
		
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			slandering means to make somebody really bad
		
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			and we know and so Abu Abu Musab ashari
		
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			Austin Evie Sol La Jolla. Salaam.
		
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			Yes. Ooh, La La man.
		
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			Who is the best Muslim?
		
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			Who is the most excellent Muslim?
		
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			prophets a will praise Afghans a day you fought in the month of Ramadan. You retell Quran in
Ramadan. You set up the whole night for little other?
		
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			No, let me sell some said, Man Saleemul Muslim Mona Mendes. Anyway.
		
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			The best and most excellent Muslim is the Muslim
		
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			who,
		
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			from other Muslims are protected from his tongue
		
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			and from his hand. In other words, he doesn't he never speaks about other Muslims. He never speaks
about them, period. Good or bad.
		
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			So this is what we have to God in the month of Ramadan. What we say
		
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			I have a rule in my house.
		
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			I have a rule very strict rule in my house. My children can be made. My friends know this. My family
knows this. I do not allow any person to speak about anybody else in my house.
		
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			Anybody who just raises his voice and says, says the name. I said no. Please don't speak about other
people in my house.
		
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			Because it makes such a big hole in a bucket
		
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			all the good is it just flows out what I mentioned somebody whose name it just flows out of a
bucket.
		
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			So,
		
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			this is what we should do in the month of Ramadan. This is a training that we should give ourselves
even if it just is one point.
		
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			Now Mima Heba
		
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			to speak to speak ill about other people, even if it's the truth in Ibiza Salaam.
		
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			So remember, if you read how to fast
		
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			and remember the F key Abba
		
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			that will be in your book that you spoke about so and so and so and so and so and so that you
insulted so and so and so and so. And all of these people will read that from your good deeds Oh,
you're fasting all your Salah
		
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			so what we saying is what I'm saying is less is more in Ramadan
		
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			for that what do I mean it i mean that they have arrived in Ramadan that you have to do
		
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			you have to Excel or five times every day now that you're logged on Mashallah you can make you don't
have to make two records before the forecast before the work has the profits here for us afternoon
for before us.
		
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			Of course it remains to be for Pfizer.
		
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			These are the two the two excellent other what called nephal salah and I love it
		
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			and you can make tahajjud Salah Mashallah, if only to Raka up to 13 Raka the prophets Allah made
		
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			and of course, you can make your Sinatra we had omit it's like any other sooner Salah. I've read so
many fatawa on Talat tarawih It is such a simple setup.
		
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			If your husband can only read the Fatiha, then you should only read the Father.
		
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			And you should make as many records as you can.
		
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			As you physically your body allowed to make their dilemma who Salaam say didn't say make a record.
He didn't say make 11 record he didn't say make 20 record.
		
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			Although we should follow
		
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			the instructions and advice of his companions on the local
		
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			level with a 20 record for the Prophet didn't say that.
		
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			He lifted to the individual. Depending on how long you read, you can read the Koran, maybe you
should read 20 record
		
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			for even more than 20 record. But if you just read farka you can just read the 2013 record
		
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			and you can do it slowly.
		
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			And I always say just a little bit of advice
		
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			on breaking I know what's going to happen this Ramadan we're going to sit at that table
		
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			after a break our Fast Track eat everything before we make money.
		
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			We should not do that.
		
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			My suggestion is that we just drink some water and make a margarita and then sit by the table and
have a meal.
		
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			And why do I say water don't need that. Why not? Because the dead leaves a sweet taste in your
mouth. So if you can immediately make sense even if you rent your mouth, that taste will remain in
your mouth you resolve the taste it may break your Salah it may nullify your Salah.
		
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			So you can eat anything which has no
		
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			sweet taste or anything we just taste basically it says to drink a glass of water have a glass of
water make a salah and then you can sit and relax with your family for as long as you want.
		
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			So
		
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			what is the message of this Ramadan it is the message that the prophets of Salaam was taught for 40
years that is to build character
		
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			character in front of Allah subhanaw taala don't make a lot of sadaqa and also produce a kind of
Ramadan
		
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			700 times more reward maximum of 700,000 model four is a kind of Ramadan then many people need to
kind Ramadan. In fact we should already have worked at all if we are paid as a kind of Ramadan we
should already today we should work out our Sokka so we ready for tomorrow. So if I die tonight by
children can see on my computer that day. My father My mother has worked on this account there it
is. All you have to do is to take it from his money and and give it so these are the obligations. So
to be able to read the Quran, it's obligatory to look at your soccer if you play soccer in the month
of Ramadan. It's an obligation not to talk about other people in the month of Ramadan because they
		
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			see what can happen what the teacher say to his students.
		
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			And so similarly, we should not raise our voices in the month of Ramadan.
		
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			should be respecting the home
		
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			Hello so I'm gonna says right there kinda young sobia haidakhan
		
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			wala yet super
		
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			well is her
		
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			Professor Salam said when the time of Ramadan comes don't speak about sexual matters when you might
have to do with it
		
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			and don't
		
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			talk about bad things and don't raise your voice
		
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			there might swearing that swearing also makes a dent in your makes a hole in your bucket because
when you sweat Your sins are deducted your character is impacted
		
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			and now that you've lived it your wife down for Mashallah in such close quarters for six weeks I'm
sure now you understand
		
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			wives understand their husbands and husbands understanding why you're not at the point where we can
we understand each other. So
		
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			the important thing that we understand now is how she argues and I argue and I should know when I
should keep quiet argument is not going anywhere. And she should realize when she kept quiet because
the argument is ongoing anyway. Yeah, Shadow the children to do good instead with the Quran and do
whatever they want to do. That's very important. But otherwise, they should be quiet as the Buddha
said and said
		
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			Can I
		
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			can I have your sense? Stay in your home
		
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			and
		
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			watch your tongue
		
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			This is the most important watch what goes in your mouth You must watch and also what comes out of
your mouth. Now also on the ground inshallah.
		
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			That will welcome
		
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			fast in the month of Ramadan and we welcome to reattach ourselves with planning Ramadan inshallah I
will be giving lectures, I give lectures every Sunday morning at 12 o'clock or so live and inshallah
I hope to concentrate on how we can get to know the Pura
		
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			by extracting certain portions of the Quran and making use of certain portions of the Quran, because
after all this is the Quran is the miracle. Ramadan is not a miracle. It is the Quran which is our
miracle. Fasting is on America,
		
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			the Quran and medical and we need to understand why it is and we need to get closer. So you want to
get close to the crown you need to understand we are lost on the ground all of us in Sharla good
bless it Ramadan, Ramadan in which you will take heed of the lessons that we heard today or Ramadan
that we know it's not built on how much but the quality.
		
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			the quality of our lives in the month of Ramadan is more important than how much we do.
		
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			In Allah Allah and Allah Allah so Allah wa Illa and Sadiq Khan will work in young guru Illa Amanda
COVID American political policies he doesn't look at you doesn't look at how you look and we
whatever color you are Talia, Allah says he looks at your heart and he looks at your deeds and
speaking is a deed.
		
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			Speaking is what you do. Like what you do speaking is also what you do.
		
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			So watch what we speak and watch what we do. Ibiza Sallam said, and
		
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			Allah looks at the heart. So now last wonder he bless all of you may Allah guide us in the month of
Ramadan May Allah forgive that we benefit from this Ramadan so that the days after Ramadan will not
be much different from the days in Ramadan. mulata Allah Allah wa salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa
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