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The speakers discuss the importance of interactions with people during quarantine, particularly with regards to sauce. They emphasize the need for everyone to be aware of the potential for privacy and respect in interactions. The transcript describes various examples of people speaking negatively about Muslims and their behavior, including the use of piers and ruffles, and how people can be bothered by situations. They stress the importance of showing respect and being a "monster" in order to achieve goals.

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			Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh
		
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			Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah
		
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			wa Salatu was Salam ala Mala we have other anomala
		
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			Matsubara Amati Viola kitab.
		
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			Who had actually Shariati, a mother who formula him in a shape on Smilla Rocky, cardigan and a comfy
Rasulullah he was brought on Hassan said that Allah will Azeem. My dear respected elders, brothers
hola ma who are young
		
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			and all those who might be hearing on the various platforms. We begin by praising Almighty Allah
subhanho wa Taala and we thank Allah subhanho wa Taala for the many favors and among the famous
Allah Himself as mentioned in the Holy Quran, locket manga Allahu Allah what mean if Bahasa fie him
Rasool Amin unforseeable Allah has done you a tremendous favor by sending upon you or a soul from
amongst you from amongst humanity. And the reason why Allah has sent me a cream so serum from within
us is that we can be inspired. And we can follow the example of nebbia cream sauce. So in the ayat I
have recited and that Allah says in the prophet of Almighty Allah, we have a perfect example of how
		
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			to live your life. We sense the rotation upon the desktop and laptop illustration, our beloved Maria
Kareem sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and we asked everyone to read one time with sincerity all of us
through the point our beloved Nebia Kareem Sol Salam, Salam wa SallyAnn as even for either RDC you
are very conservative, respected elders and betters every aspect of the vehicle install Salam is
full of blessings. I always like to start off any Sierra program in any spirit talk with this from
the very outset, we can never do justice to our beloved maybe I can install Allah while he was in a
leader can I do justice in speaking and praising him? And neither can you do justice in hearing
		
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			about him.
		
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			And the fact of the matter is the way they all do poverty it said Mustafa Mustafa Tierra Maduro,
Santa Maria Busman he made a distress manner he or prefer of Almighty Allah. Your praise is beyond
me Demco him Medina he leaped coy Aruna, he, the heart doesn't have the capacity. And the tongue
doesn't have the eloquence and the vocabulary to praise us sufficiently to circle in a circle in a
heap. There is no one like you there is no one like you. However, we know that we are not supposed
to mystify the life of Nabisco, Selim, to such an extent that we don't benefit after all, Allah Tala
has made him as CO suasana a perfect example. And the reason why he is a perfect example is to
		
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			follow him. Follow his sunnah. Follow his precepts. And one of the great things with regard to the
reoccurring sources that Allah has put him through various challenges in his life. So that no matter
what situation we find ourselves in, we will find an example in our beloved maybe a cream sauce
crumbs like life, to illuminate into it to give us an example. And Allah Tala has made the life of
nebbia cream sauce, so well researched, that it is fair to say we know more about our beloved Nebia
Kareem salsa, more than any other human being in history. To give an example in shimira, Timothy,
there are 54 chapters, which makes mention of the character of our beloved Nebia cream sauce level,
		
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			how he ate, how he slept, how he he dressed, all of that is made mentioned why is it mentioned? Why
is it been preserved? It has been preserved so that you and I can follow the precepts of our beloved
maybe a Korean sallallahu alayhi wasallam that will do poet etc. And I can't be as melodious of half
as fuzzy I remember half as far as in from a very long period. And you know of course the voices
have changed. I remember that one particular lesson where for which he became very famous for and it
he he rendered it in such a sweet time sweet voice and sweet manner many many years ago and I was
always inspired by I can get that inspiration and I can get the tool but how Allah subhanho wa Taala
		
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			has preserved the life of Nabil sauce that they will do power that said
		
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			because they gonna he hamburger.
		
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			Keita sui receive mode Who the *? We've not seem to be a cream saucer, but it is so well
preserved. This is life
		
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			but it is is he lives in our heart.
		
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			More said aikana he hamburger on kita sui seen em Mo who would have just nella cara cara, Ahmed Eli,
he
		
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			just
		
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			you know he,
		
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			for Muhammad Medina M mo do.
		
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			We have not seen him, but he lives in our heart,
		
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			no matter how we will see his his love for himself.
		
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			And one of the things he is one of the reason why he's in our heart,
		
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			we bless and we thank them had the thing and we have blessed
		
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			that they have captured the essence of nebbia cream sauce in his life, that it is still there for a
person to gain inspiration. And today what I want to discuss, time has gone quite a bit. But what I
want to discuss is maybe a current source from life as an example
		
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			of personal relationships, that a great percentage of our life is spent in interacting with people.
Now you and I we know that the budget is a very important part and we can never undermine the
importance of everybody.
		
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			It is our communication with Allah subhanho wa Taala it's our main our way of our relationship with
Allah subhanho wa taala. But a very great percentage of our life is interaction with people, how do
we interact with people? What are the lessons that the returning saw Salam gave us when he
interacted with people? This is something that you and I in today's band we are talking about
doesn't mean that we are not giving importance to the Ibaadat of maybe saucer one day we will speak
about how nebbia cream sauce interacted and how he fulfilled the rights of Almighty Allah subhanho
wa Taala and this is such an important part of our life.
		
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			Dr. A bibliography Rahmatullah Ali, the philosopher of Monona camera,
		
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			one day went to one on a camera and told him that this particular quantity of restaurant and that
would allow her camera Katara for inlanta Conterra who find the WHO era I had the opportunity of,
you know, seeing Doctor I'm Teresa RFP, Rahmatullah Lee, who performed the janazah of Madonna used
to be needed I'm actually am and sometimes you think you are young you don't, you don't show
seriousness to things used to be in Karachi, and we never used to benefit from him. Now we realize
what the highest spiritual species he had. Nevertheless, he came to mana Tangra he Talalay once he
said, that state of Assam that I must worship Allah as if I'm seeing him. And if I can visualize
		
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			that, then at least I can visualize it and that Allah is Seeing me, that's great and state of your
son. I got it in my Ibaadat
		
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			I worship Allah in such a way that I got the state of Assam
		
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			expecting one attorney wrongfully to praise him.
		
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			He got a shock when my attorney rampolla They say that is not enough. Now bring the state of your
son, in your relationship with your wife, and with every human being you come into contact with that
when you interact with your wife. When you interact with human beings, you interact with them as if
Allah is with you. As if Allah you are seeing Allah subhanaw taala in a letter I see you if you
can't do that. So even in our relationship, but you will be we are supposed to have this. What do we
learn from our beloved here cream sauce and lessons in his life with regard to
		
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			interaction with people? The first thing I would like to start off with my dear respected brothers.
Today you and I, we don't have this beautiful Hadith in our life. Maybe a crimson Allahu alayhi wa
sallam one day to answer the Allahu Yagoona year in Kedah, Rita and to see how a tomb see when a
Sufi called because visually I had in
		
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			all my small Oh my small son. And as we allowed them who was young, and his mother put him in the
service of maybe a Korean sauce. And the Vietnamese also on one occasion told him oh and us if you
can spend a morning or you can spend an evening where your heart is free from malice. Your heart is
free from hatred. Your heart is free from any bad and negative feelings towards every human deep
human being farfalle do so that he come in sooner. T this is my son that.
		
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			My dear respect of others. I challenge everyone. I challenge myself first.
		
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			How many people have ever regarded this to be a subnet of nebbia cream sauce?
		
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			Look at our lives today. Look at social media
		
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			Look at how we interact with one another. Our hearts are brimming and filled with hatred,
negativity, there is no one. There is no compassion. Yet maybe utterance Allah when he was salam
told us oh my goodness, if you can spend a morning or evening where your heart is free from malice,
hatred and negative feelings towards every other human need, do so not only do so, but it is my suit
met woman I have personality fucka happening. He who loves my son that loves me from an open economy
		
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			and he who loves Me what be together with me in Ghana. It is such an act which you and I don't
regard as a sunnah perhaps we have never even thought about it as a boutique. But it is a detail
maybe uttering sauce and I'm said that it leads you to be with maybe a cream sauce elements. Such is
this importance with regard to interaction of keeping your heart free from medicine hatred towards
other people. That one day Libya Kareem salsa, you know was in the gathering and he said from this
direction they will be so happy who will come and he will be a person from Jana. And this person
came in here just made blue and his sleeves went after that. After making Blue and he had his
		
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			samples or his slippers under his under his armpit. And he sat in the company of Nabi Solomon, he
went away. Abdullah Ahmed will ask for the amount and who said I made an excuse to go and stay with
him for three days. The incident is long what excuse I don't want to go into that. And after three
days when he left for me when he said that the original reason I gave you was not the original
reason why He himself said I'm said that you are a personal Jana. I wanted to see why didn't maybe a
Kareem saw slim say that you are personal Jana. Why are you a personal agenda? You will not be
attending sosna Makati agenda
		
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			to he said I stayed three days I couldn't see anything extra many decocted When our pura KineMaster
where I didn't see you reading on all night. I didn't see you making anything extra extra ordering.
Now I'm wondering what is that that you have? The bait maybe a cream sauce can save you our personal
Jana. In this hobby. I think most likely it was sad when a viewer custody allow them subject to
correction.
		
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			And he said I don't know. So I do live in Emeryville asset I went away with a slight disappointment
in my heart and then sad interview of custody allow to know call me he said I got one quality
perhaps this could be the quality and he said what is the quality? He said I never ever have
negative and bad feelings towards anyone.
		
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			I don't have bad feelings towards anyone.
		
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			And perhaps the almasi That was a feeling because of which this attribute that maybe acronym sauce
from said that this was a person of Jannah that is a start off when we spoke speak about
interpersonal relationship and knowing to a certain degree with a boredom of authority of what is
happening in a community. I start off when we speak about the example that many acronyms Aslam gave
us with regard to interpersonal relationship, how we are supposed to interact, to make that the
starting point with regard to our interaction with every human being. When we do that inshallah.
Then our beloved author himself said I'm taught us that he made everyone feel important.
		
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			Every person that he came into contact with he made him feel important.
		
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			Today what is our situation? The Beer pairings are slim. Sahaba said it with me. He used to gaze at
someone never was the first person to lift his gaze away from that person. Whenever he made Salam
upon the person, the director himself slim was never the person to to take his Salam in his hand
away. That person took the head away first. Abdullah Muhammad Amin Asante. Ultimately one day came
Yara Shula, tell me who is the most beloved person to you. There was a DD wisdom attached to
reiterate himself Sam's answer, and he said,
		
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			and then he said whom he said,
		
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			and he went on, ask him the resources and gave him then he went away from them. The Allama say the
reason why he asked this question
		
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			was that he thought that maybe a cream sauce lamb was closest to him.
		
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			Every Sahabi thought that no vehicle himself sort of locked him the most. Every Sahabi thought that
Nabil himself
		
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			had the greatest attachment and love for him. Can you have such a relationship with people that you
give them that importance?
		
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			This is how to be a cream sauce. So let me say the first example we have in interpersonal
relationship. Keep your heart free from medicine. The second
		
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			thing is greet everyone with importance. Everyone is important. And that Allah in the Holy Quran
says, well attack terrorism Napanee Adam, I have given every human being dignity
		
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			Manasa Jacques Normanni, one of our great scholars, you know, from India says, we don't practice
upon this, if you say you and I, we, we give respect and dignity to whom we give. We give the
respect and dignity to a person because he's a great ally. So he's a very influential person. He's a
doctor, he's a, he's a very influential person, he's wealthy. He said the Quran didn't tell you to
respect titles. The Quran told you to respect human beings, every human being is worthy of
importance give everyone importance.
		
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			Thirdly, what we learned from our beloved Nabil himself said, he showed us how to interact with
every class and category of people.
		
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			So if there was anyone who was
		
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			influential, maybe academe saw some photos, how to interact with him. If there was someone who was
not influential, he was only then also maybe uttering songs from taught us how to interact with him.
We find these examples in the life of our beloved Navy Academy.
		
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			I give Inhotim was a very influential person in Arabia.
		
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			Like of the Bonita tribe, is father Hatem time was very known for his generosity.
		
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			So his sister was when we are cream sauce from a tech, the tribe, Adam Inhotim ran away. He went to
Rome to take protection there because he couldn't see it. He couldn't fight against the Muslims. So
he went to take protection in Rome. His sister Savannah, was taken.
		
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			Captive, our beloved name is awesome. She was in the courtyard of budget in Abilene. Now one of the
great features of Allah Tala, for me is that I can remember Beyonce of Colombia very well.
		
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			I can remember when Mufti when he first came to New Town after I became Imam what he spoke about. I
remember
		
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			I remember in this masjid,
		
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			in this very masjid, when I'm Abdul Majeed Nadeem came in the late, mid or late 80s. And he made
mention of this particular incident. And he made mention of it in a very amazing way. While he was
giving the talk in this very much it
		
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			he narrated this incident of Nellie sauce, and I'm speaking to this, this woman who was taken
captive Savannah.
		
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			He didn't make mention of the name and he said,
		
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			Who are you who don't have a scarf on your head. Other people started looking around. So he said,
who's going to come who's Woburn is going to come here in this particular gallery in this Masjid he
made mention of this. And in this particular way, maybe a crimson Allahu alayhi wa sallam saw this
woman without a scarf and Alyssa slim took a shawl and went to put it on her head and said wear
this. Then the B acronym saw some pasture and she said
		
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			that, oh Muhammad treat me with
		
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			treat me with dignity.
		
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			And the resource them looked at her someone like a woman saying such a thing out of the blue. So she
said my father was hurting.
		
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			My father used to feed the poor. My father used to be generous. Or Muhammad treat me with kindness
and dignity, to be a cream sauce looked at her and said, definitely your father was known for his
generosity. Go because of your father's generosity. I have three jobs. She said what about my
people? What about my tribe? So the base awesome said you are with the daughter of your father. He
was so generous you also like that. And he said that I have freed you because of your father's
generosity. I have freed your tribe because of your generosity.
		
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			She goes and go and look for our brother and if Inhotim had even asked him was when or when she
rebuked him and said you left me but go and see Muhammad COVID See his
		
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			would see his conduct and they will have him say I came to Medina and the moment I came everyone
greeted me because he was known famous person. So then we had cream sauce was away and use someone
told him Adam Inhotim Marisol sem rush to come and meet him the resource them greeted him. Put him
in his Why not be so slim is walking to his house. One woman comes in complain about something she
comes and complain about poverty. one other person comes in complain about safety and security on
the roads when they are traveling. The vehicle himself seldom calls him and brings him into his
house. There was only one question let me so slim gave him the cushion. You sit here sit with
		
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			respect and dignity. He was still a non Muslim
		
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			and non Muslim Burnaby South Salem is giving him I don't know what today when people will say oh
		
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			I'm not Muslim who brought in the house, maybe I can vote maybe he brought him in the house. Let me
sauce from started speaking to you. And then the reoccurring sauceman saves
		
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			you from Christianity? He said yes. Who himself awesome said you have from the ruku see
		
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			branch of Christianity. He was surprised that Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam knew about his
religion to that extent. And then maybe a cream sauce then said that, according to your tradition,
one quarter of what people take from the people who are supposed to use it for charity, but you are
not using it for charity, you're using it for yourself. Now we saw some news so much about the
religion,
		
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			that we talked about people knowing about comparative religion, recurring sources knew about this,
then they'll be utterly exhausted and said, I know, accept Islam. And he said, In my heart, I had
certain reservations. I couldn't accept Islam. So he said, I know what reservations you got. You got
this particular river reservation that Muslims are poor.
		
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			Therefore, what's the use of accepting Islam? And he, I am telling you, that the time will come when
the Emir will call out towards people and say, Come and take charity, people will be so well off, no
one will come and take charity.
		
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			Allah will give so much baraka to the Muslim community, you are thinking that the Muslims don't have
any particular type of wealth, or at the time will come Muslims will have the treasures of the
Persian and the Roman Empire. Already you are thinking that Muslims don't have power and authority.
A time will come in the Muslims will have so much power and authority. A Muslim woman will travel
from Iraq, and she come to Egypt to Mecca, Medina, and no one will lift her hand upon her because
this entire land will be ruling and will be under the authority of Muslims. And given having said I
was taken aback, it didn't seem likely. But maybe a crimson Aslam is telling me these things. And he
		
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			said I accepted Islam. And then he used to tell the Sahaba I saw two of the prophecies of Nebojsa
sort of coming through. I saw a woman who traveled from Iraq to Makkah Medina and no one could look
to him to her because Allah had given power and authority to the Muslims at the time of Ramadan.
		
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			He said I saw that the treasures of the Roman and Persian Empire came in the hands of the Muslim.
I'm still waiting to see the third prophecy.
		
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			And one of the prophecies was that that happened in a time of American Abdulaziz Rahmatullah Lee
encumbered bureaucracies, Rahman Fulani, then, you know, he told the people come and take money and
take things from the better man, no one came into. Everyone felt that we are wealthy enough in
everyone. Omar Abdulaziz no not only taught that the Muslims were prosperous, he taught them
honesty. Today, even a call is made. That is free money given from the Masjid. He was a millennial
Committee.
		
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			He told him honestly also, that he didn't come into it. Because everyone felt we got enough. Why
must you come and take this was and I think there was one one portion where I read somewhere that he
told him already become a Muslim, he would go to China. And he said, I'm waiting for that prophecy
also to come through.
		
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			He taught he showed him I mean, a person who was influential, he gave him the necessary respect. A
person who was ordinary, he gave him an he showed him respond. xibit was an ordinary person who used
to come from the desert. So when you should come from the desert, he used to bring things from the
desert that you don't get in the city. And when he used to go back, maybe sauce them used to give
him things to get from the city, and give him back and go and tell him like go and go and take that
and go back to the desert. And then we saw some said You are my desert, I'm your city. Let me so so
used to have tremendous amount of love for you. So Anala today, you don't get your situations, you
		
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			used to be a time when used to get certain things only in the plus in the villages or in the small
towns. We never used to get it when we were small in number two is to get you know farm butter used
to get clappers you don't use to get it in, in detail in this module is now everything you get you
get shopping centers everywhere, even in my place where I grew up in Walmart nowadays, so there's a
big shopping center there. So all what you get here, you get there, but you know there used to be a
time in this fall. So I remember that when we were studying we used to teach one another a lot. So
this one person you know there is this particular aspect of you know person from the plus from the
		
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			small town when they came to the big city. So when he came to the big city his cousin's they took
him around to come and see this shopping center. You never show some something like that. Use this
thing there. You get old particular village uniform. You haven't seen all this, come and see the
shopping center. So you went in the shopping center, and he was taken aback. So he went into one of
the aisles and you saw milk powder said what is this milk milk is one pound
		
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			The malt is pure malt you say no you put liquid powder you put water it becomes milk. You say no and
this is not proper I don't even I don't understand this. How can powder become milk? So anyway he
carried on he went to the next idea so soup powder. He said what is this? He said you put little bit
of the soup powder, you put water what water it becomes easy by in our place the village we have to
get up early hours of the morning to boil the bones etc that only becomes soup. But you can imagine
this He's surprised when he went to the next day. It is so baby powder.
		
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			Really good.
		
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			So, this is the situation or looking at design with haram or the Allah who one day he came in, he
was selling the things in the in the in the bazaars of Medina, maybe a cream so Allahu alayhi wa
sallam came. And then he saw Salam caught him, you know, like blindfolded him. And he first thought
Who is it we try to wriggle his way free from them. And then he realizes nobody's awesome. So report
is back closer to the vehicle himself. So to get from the bulk of maybe occurring source, then the
vehicle himself didn't realize that he came to know who it is. Send me a cream sauce them said, Who
will buy the slave from me?
		
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			Who will buy the slave from me? Who will buy this person from me? So zire said Yasunaga will buy me
I am worthless. Who's going to buy me I know value and the vehicle himself Selim Zyro Allah He in
the law, he lays it because it I take an oath, by Allah's name that you are not worthless. You are
very valuable.
		
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			He made an ordinary person who came from the desert feel so special Oza you are not worthless. In
the eyes of Allah you have a tremendous amount of value in Zion was a person who was an ordinary
desert dweller and he didn't even have a striking appearance mentioned is made that he was not of a
very striking appearance. How to be a cream sauce that made him feel sorry for him in the eyes of
Allah you are not worthless.
		
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			He played around with his family members. How did he treat his family? Your loved
		
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			one I always used to make dua when I used to see our nebbia cream sauce you know treated his
grandchildren so said you're loving me let me see the day.
		
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			You know when you're good grandchildren you come to realize we make to Atlanta keep them away from
our fitness our children, our grandchildren. It is just amazing. Someone you know when when my first
grandchild was born, someone sent me a small, you know, image that grandchildren fill a space in
your heart, which you didn't know was empty.
		
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			They fill a vacuum in your heart which you didn't know was empty. And then later on you come to
realize it.
		
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			Then when you hear maybe a cream saucer, Dr. Allah, how did he treat his grandchildren? It may be
Leila says I one day came to visit and he saw some aftershocks. And when I came to see them we are
crimson a lot while he was while he was sitting the grandchild was urinated on his stomach and we
all got you know,
		
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			cream sauce from the grandchild. And they rushed me a cream sauce and said leave my grandchildren
Don't Don't tell him anything. Just grab water I will wash myself off. Don't tell my grandchild
anything. The reoccurring saw Salam used to actually be on all fours in the grandchildren used to
pray on his on his on his back. Yeah Allah did great love you of Allah, that we talk so greatly
about bringing self to play with his grandchildren.
		
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			This is Muhammad Ali Salovey has written some amazing books on various personalities. So he wrote
wrote one very great book on acid acid but the ultra no so in that there is an incident mentioned he
said Marwan the governor of Medina one day came you know to Abu Huraira and say Abu Huraira you talk
all the time about her Saddam Hussein you never I'm the governor you don't show me respect. You say
Marwan was lying down I mean a Buddha was lying down and but one said this word Abu Huraira got up
and said Marwan
		
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			What are you telling me? He said you know what another person will say Do you know why I love us and
He will say he said one day we were going in a journey and asked him who said we're crying
		
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			and maybe I can exhaust them gave me the tenants third party my why am I children crying? There are
so now what can I do the crying because they're hungry they crying because they are thirsty. There
is no water there is no food, maybe a cream sauce in them, put them on his lap
		
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			and he took out his tongue
		
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			and he made them sick his tongue
		
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			to quench the thirst and to satiate the hunger. Now it could be that he was only taking out his
tongue or it could be that Allah Tala miraculous
		
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			put something in the ton of times awesome that question set yet when setters and set at the under
Marwan What are you talking? That's the reason why I love a great I love customers because this is
what may be occurring saw slim did with them
		
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			do we have our love for our children like that?
		
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			One day a club in hobbies came and maybe a cream salsa was hugging his children grandchildren. So it
was not common amongst the Arabs grandchildren. They didn't have that. They were very hard, you know
people they were they were robust people. And he said I would sue 10 children I don't I don't have
any one of them that we are cream sauce instead what must I do even better to kindness away from
you?
		
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			Maybe a cream sauce in them dealt with people like that? He dealt with his wife's in a completely
different manner. How will we treat despite his greatness, he brought himself down to the level with
regard to his wife, he used to listen to poetry with him. There was a very famous poet that people
used to sing the person went away in the desert and he method did not and he came back and he's told
the stories and he used to listen to the stories with old with his wives Subhanallah all of that
used to happen. Libya Krimson Allah while he was still used to behave with his wives in such an
amazing manner as a Sufi and it allowed them during the course of you know the the trip of hacia to
		
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			Vida her a couple broke down so she was very worried how I'm gonna go with Libya can install so she
didn't want to miss the opportunity. So maybe a cream saw some went into attend so a crying maybe a
cream sauce and I'm wipe the tears away.
		
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			So
		
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			why take us away?
		
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			today? How would we react if we see our wife in a particular manner, maybe a cream sauce them wipe
the tears. It is said that she had a backache the vehicle himself took a shawl and maybe a cream
sauce and made the chore into a small bowl and toner when you get up in the camera and maybe sauce
them out on the camera. And then we saw some put ashore behind the back and said it will help you in
your Becky
		
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			do we do we do this I'm talking about interpersonal relationship.
		
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			You know you will be making a quick or agitator in if someone has to do like with his wife to Bible
check.
		
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			In what does he know he's like a he's a he's the servant of his wife. So are you greeted inofficial
Allah when he was selling
		
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			a cream sauce Adam used to tell us it eyeshadow the ultra I know when you are completely pleased
with me. And I know when you are a little bit off with regard to your mood with me. How do you know?
		
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			How do you know I challenge people do you do the foods of your wife? Do you know your favorite color
of your wife? Do you know how she isn't with regard to a mood? Do you know how to react with her? If
she's in a good mood of Cincinnati's otherwise type of mood? We will take it not necessarily. But
the navy of Allah told us that I shall have the alone time. I know. How do you know you also love it
when you speak when you are in a good mood with me. Then in your conversation you say Robbie
Muhammad by the Lord of Muhammad Sallallahu sallam, and when things are not going so well maybe
there are one or two things that maybe you are not happy with regard one or two things. In your
		
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			conversation you say? You have the Ibrahim by the daughter of Ibrahim Alayhi Salatu. Salam
		
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			to you know that look at how the measles How did he react even with regard to domestic tension?
		
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			One day hasn't actually about them maybe South Sudan was why is it actually a Latina? And as a Dana,
what have you allowed to send some food it is known in the books of history that has available the
ultimate use to cook very well. So is anybody allowed to send the dish? Was it Aisha who fell very
possessive.
		
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			My chance maybe socialism is by me. And she's sending food. He she implied I don't know how to cook.
		
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			So what I shall be allowed to did, she took that plate and she toppling the server to brought it she
toppled that whole particular plate. Now as an ICER His room was right next to the masjid. So when
the plate could topple and it fell down, it made a noise in the people who the budget said now what
is this? What happened here? And what it may be a cream sauce from said today we would have been
there on board Do you know what happened? Does why broke the wire the dishes on the other way he
created such a scene in your light was sort of turmoil in the house and hurt themselves and and
didn't do anything of that sort. He just said one sentence. Your mother became possessive.
		
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			Your mother became jealous. And I always say that they were they were entitled to be jealous because
they were fighting. And they were they were at disputes. And they were trying to get the love of the
greatest human being under history. So why shouldn't they be
		
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			was so they had every right to be possessive that I shouldn't be allowed to say that maybe a crimson
Allahu alayhi wa sallam is such a person that I'm supposed to be possessive about. So the this why
you sentence your mother became possessive told us that I shall be allowed to go and replace his
plate and replace the value of what what has been lost.
		
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			To do we create, do we? Are we the people who create the type of harmony in our house? Or if there's
anything we exacerbate the tension? We create more tension.
		
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			How would our beloved maybe a cream stir Allahu alayhi wa sallam maybe a cream server while he was
Selim, even with regard to his companions? Yeah, Allah. How did he react as a mother bridgeable to
the Allahu Tarang, who was very close to the vehicle exhaust
		
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			the vehicle himself Salam said one day yah, yah in new hippo, I saw the people making, you know, LM
with regard to Gosh, I don't know if the brothers are here with regard to the the Jamaat brothers,
brothers, this is the way we call people. The reoccurring social and for people with Mohammed and
loved him, call them towards Allah subhanho wa Taala and the Jamaat brothers are also supposed to do
that is the teaching of Maya supplementally called people with Muhammad called people with love.
		
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			As it my last Abramo Tulalip one day, a person came in the company of acid, my Les Brown metallic,
and he didn't have a beard. So my last parameter rally told him keep a beard. He was young. So Mama
Ilyas Rahmatullah Lee told him for he didn't come for some time. So my yessuh Rahmatullah Lee feel
very, very positive. And you know what he said? He said, I put the flour into the oven, before the
oven was hot.
		
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			That means the oven wasn't hot, and I put the flour to make the roti. His Zan was not made. His mind
was not made and I told him to keep a beard. What I should have done was all him closer was Muhammad
Manning's close to me then I would have told him to keep the beard this is how you interact with
people how you bring people closer towards the you don't make people outcast. You call them names.
You call them the worst type of names when I fix and pass it and anyone does the slightest things
he's a malefic he's a he's a he's a tough is about that. How do you expect people to come closer
towards the
		
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			what our harshness we are taking people away from me this was not the way of me uttering salsa for
me my Ramadan been Allah He didn't tell me who it is a rabbit of Allah that He was kind and
compassionate towards you. So this is the way that this particular person went on to become the Emir
of Karachi by a means to learning environments or parameter lollies some 50 shades of brown was well
studied
		
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			50 Shades of Grey. So this is how so I'm just giving an example because it might be Jabara. The
ultimate said one day Olivia Framestore self taught me at work and you know how he taught me that
work.
		
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			And in your in the book enjoy your life. This This incident is made mentioned he said Yamaha in knee
or hip book, Omaha I love you
		
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			Omaha I love you
		
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			recite after every Salat Allahumma in me Allah decreto Ashok Rika what was
		
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			the way he taught me was the ultimate said I never ever forgot that. I never ever stop reciting it
after every salad because nobody saw some taught me this but he taught me in a way he didn't tell me
the data to permit he told me Oh was I love you retires
		
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			the same was allowed Toronto, Canada what relationship let me sell some head with his companions.
When was he allowed to ruin me acclaim saw slim sent him to to Yemen. So as he was going to Yemen
make dua for the people of Yemen mighty respect, Allah subhanho wa Taala grant and PCI in such great
turmoil, the ambassador of Yemen came recently to the office of the gematria Allah and he was saying
he said, know our region has become a proxy for other people's wars. Allah knows no politics, also
everything on his own place. I'm just giving an example our our region and our country has become a
proxy for other people's wars. And because of which our country and our people are suffering. Let me
		
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			so Islam make dua for the people of Yemen. He left the people of Yemen. He said, as a motherly
Allah, how can I move to Yemen, and he took him when he took him when he was going to Yemen, Libya,
Kareem saw slim took his camel and maybe saw slim was leaving his camera and taking it and he was
saying yes, I can do this. Let me get off. You come off. He said no, you are going. Then he asked
him certain question and he gave him certain advices. So one of the questions he asked him was you
are going there, how are you going to judge amongst people? You are going to be in a position of
authority people will come and ask you. He said I will judge according
		
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			The Quran individuals who said what happens if you don't find it in the Quran to get ordinarily so
slim said he didn't say it was not in the Quran said what happens if you don't find it in the Quran?
He said then I will look at your sayings, Yasser Allah, I would look at the Hadith, and then maybe I
can himselves instead what happens if you don't find it in the IDF?
		
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			Then you said, I will deduce principle from the Quran and Hadith and I will apply to that particular
given situation. The reoccurring source then became so happy and he said, Praise be to Allah who has
given Hidayat and the right answers and the right madman methodology to the messenger of the
Messenger of Allah subhanaw taala and he gave him many beautiful advice. Omaha's Achlys Deepak
Omaha's keep your deeds solely for Allah sake. That even little will suffice for your salvation you
pickle. I'm an old colleague that he told him Omar's, stay away. Stay Stay away from ostentatious
way of living for indelible Allah He lays so Lisa will not be mean because the people who are close
		
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			to another not given to a luxurious way of living, not to an extravagant way of living. Keep
whatever you need to a certain limit and with moderation, don't become extravagant and become
ostentatious in your way of living. And then the reoccurring sorceress told him something that was
so touching to him and to the lobby of Allah subhanho wa Taala over Aslan Nakata Maru be Majidi
recovery Omaha's next time you come you will come to my machine you will come to my car
		
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			so difficult for the hobby nothing more difficult to hear that when I come next time I won't see the
miracle himself. Look at the war room we must God will cover
		
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			over us next time you come you will come to my cover you will come to my magic you won't see
		
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			from a car. Christopher Iraqi Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was started whipping out of
this particular thing that is departing from a vehicle himself slim for the last time the vehicle
exhaust him started crying. But to make it easy for him to be so awesome turned his face away from
him that he doesn't see the Eclipse or sort of grind so that his departure and this particular type
of farewell doesn't become even more difficult. And then maybe a Kareem saw Selim saw him crying and
he said Yamaha in the old CBl Bucha code Hayes who can who can wear it over us don't get we give you
consideration. The closest people to me would be those who fear Allah. No matter where they are, no
		
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			matter when they come, they will be close to me. So even if you fall away from me, if you fear
Allah, you are still close to me.
		
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			How did he How did he take with his companion? This is the way my dairy sector brothers, we learn
from our beloved Nabil Karim sallahu alayhi wa sallam, we learned so many different things. We
learned sometimes there will be times when people will provoke you. There will be times when people
will provoke you. How do you deal with provocation
		
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			is sometimes the provocation will come from the house. Sometimes a provocation will come in I always
say people come and say we give $3 to the wife and said why you gave I'm regretting it why you gave
she told me I dare you to give treated x
		
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			I dare you
		
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			to become I say we I you supposed to be a man? How in the vehicle himself Salam?
		
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			How did he react when he was provoked? They didn't So Anna was a very prominent Jewish scholar.
		
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			So one day, maybe a cream sauce them to Cologne from him and said at this particular day, I will
give it back to you. He came when in advance of the date and said give me my money. Now it was not
the time when the money was supposed to be returned. He came well in advance and he started abusing
the vehicle himself.
		
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			And he said you Quraysh you Billy Hashem you take people's money you don't give it back. Love
Someone tell him to be a cream saucer him in front of the companions almost took out you saw Dr.
Rasulillah How dare you speak like this in front of my lobby? How can you say such a thing?
		
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			And maybe a Grimsel serum? Told Omar Omar come down come down. Omar what you should be doing is
telling me to give back the loan and telling him to ask for the loan courteously.
		
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			He was being provoked you you money I ship you always don't give people's money back.
		
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			Didn't get angry, didn't came to the provocation or what? Don't do anything what you should be doing
telling me to give back the loan and telling him that next time when he come and he asked for the
loan, you should do it good.
		
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			So the person went away after a while he came to one.
		
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			If you do
		
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			you know who am I?
		
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			Woman was like, the way you treated Miami. I don't care. I don't want to know who you are. He said
woman Isaiah did Missoni.
		
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			Now his name was quite well known. I knew the famous caller who knows about the previous scriptures.
		
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			He said yes. Who did you having knowledge behave like that so
		
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			rude in front of my Nabi
		
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			Omar, I studied the scriptures, and all the qualities with the scriptures of the previous scriptures
made mention of the via cream sauce from the last prophet. I saw every one of those qualities, there
was one quality that was mentioned and I wanted to see that particular quality and the quality was
that the last name of Allah subhanaw taala, when he is extremely provoked, will always react calmly
he will not react with anger.
		
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			Oh, man, I want you to test this material.
		
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			I have tested it. I bear witness, there is no one with you of worship besides Allah. And I bear
witness that Muhammad is a messenger of
		
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			how do you react when you are provoked? We are talking about interpersonal relationships. This is
what we learned. And I'll just give you an example. Look at cannula calm, fear Rasulillah. He was
taught when he taught us and actually so many things I've written but I'm just going to make mention
of one or two and and conclude the talk. He taught us about the consequences of our action. We see
you don't just deal by emotions. You think about the consequences of of what you are going to do
with people. When you deal with people, then you then you react so many times. A beloved way the
leader of the monastic did things that angered the Muslims.
		
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			I was listening to a band today in the time of Bernie the reservoir bunny Mustela when a beloved
obey said the most worst things about maybe I can install Salam humara the ultimo said Yara Fula
allow me to kill him. And if you feel that he's gonna cause creation or create chaos and harmony
killed a bobbin Saria who is from his tribe. Tell him to kill him. How dare he say such a thing? How
dare he say such a thing? Eva Jana illan Medina, regional as well other said he said when we go back
to Medina we who are honorable the people of Medina those people on the other Bill Cooper Cooper
never shut. You know those who are disgraceful the people of Makkah we will expel them.
		
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			So, Omar are the one who said Let me kill him. And then he assaulted him said No, don't kill him. Do
you know why he wasn't killing? Why else would Allah listen to the answer my irrespective of whether
		
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			people will say Mohammed kills his companions?
		
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			And what will be the reaction and what will be the perception in the outer world that Muslims are
fighting?
		
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			Muslims are fighting?
		
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			How can do kill him although he is what he has done, don't kill him. Because people will say
Mohammed kills his companions people will say Muslims are fighting.
		
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			Look at our situation today what type of impression we leave for the non Muslims. Look at the way we
talk to one another the way we do if he had to one mother. Can't we learn from the Sunnah of Libya
Kareem sorcerer? Don't we think that this is the way we are supposed What will people say? We're
still fighting with one another looking out for one another? I don't understand this piety. I don't
understand this pie. Are you more pious than the beard trim system? This is an example I'm giving
from the beard trim systems like maybe a cream sallallahu alayhi wa sallam taught us about this. He
talked about the consequences. He taught us how even when someone does us something good. You always
		
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			show the you repay the kindness. Someone tells you something good. We all heard the famous saying
that when you someone does you good you make much about it. But when you do something good to
something you make it regardless insignificant. The swordsman had this. When Halima the foster
mother of nebbia cream sauce lamb came after the siege of time to meet maybe a cream sauce or maybe
a cream sauce and I'm gotta please the shoreland said my mother has come. Then there was the foster
sister of our beloved Nebia carrying sauce and BB Shaman. She told her companions, I am a foster
Sicilian believer. He said this particular mark was made when me and Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam we
		
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			were young. So she came in front of the board that they were not sure what they brought in front of
me so Sarah sheet is established the credentials. The via cream sauce showed so much of kindness
gave us so much of goods gave us so much of gifts and the resources freed her entire time because
the foster sister came
		
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			And she came to intercede on behalf of a time Subhanallah whenever this cannot be occurring saucer
was coming back from the air from time, maybe occurring so slim, require the protection of certain
people. And one of the people, no one wanted to give protection to the resources. That was the way
people did before you came into a place. And because of the tension you needed the protection of
someone. So maybe I came salsa I've asked several people for protection. No one gave him protection
		
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			with him when it came to be getting social protection.
		
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			And when he came, he brought Mr. Selim into Makkah. He came into the Kaaba and said, oh people of
Makkah, I have given protection whoever harms Muhammad is harming me is harming my families. I mean,
my time no one dares lift a finger in front of Muhammad. When the people in the Battle of butter
when we saw Salam took the captives. The resource, the main one achieved statement,
		
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			made an IgG statement and amazing statement. He said today if him being a D was alive, the one who
gave me protection his son Gavin Watson came in he became a Muslim. Then we saw Salam said If today
move him when he was alive and he told me Mohamed free these captives because of his Asana for me,
that he gave me protection when no one was prepared to give him give me protection out there free
Pallavi status.
		
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			You show your show you said you you reciprocate kindness, if today BootROM when he was alive, I
would have freed all of these characters. And last I will give one more last example. I'm just
giving examples. We can learn one of my big mentioned that study the Sierra, study these things
these are the type of things that should guide our life.
		
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			Let me a cream sauce that not only took into account people, but he also took into account the
temperament how they were let me saw some dealt with them according to the temperament. I share with
you a lot. Anna says that maybe a cream sallahu alayhi wa sallam one day was sitting in a rather
casual booed when Abu Bakr the ultimate cable and maybe a cream sauce them continuous sitting in a
casual mode mode. His room he was slightly lifted you could see some portion of his scarf right the
lower portion of the result slums Lake
		
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			Houma sought protection maybe occurring saw some continued sitting in that way. With money Ronnie
came
		
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			with money that he came, knocked on the door who is it for smart, the vehicle exhausted and was
sitting in an informal way. He caught up and he said formally, he put his quota correctly. He put
his luggage down and then he will come with money when he revealed he is watching and I shall was
very perceptive. Some of the questions opens up vistas and volumes of knowledge jasola I assume you
have a worker came? Omar came with a set in that particular way. You didn't make any change of Man
came you change your entire situation. And you started sitting more formally. You put your quota
right you put along the way. Why is it
		
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			Don't you know this man has got such modesty even the angel show modesty in front of us man. I
showed respect to his modesty.
		
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			I showed respect to his modesty. My dear respect of others this is the way we are supposed to
interact in our interaction with human beings. There will be a communal conclude with a particular
order to power
		
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			our goals.
		
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			He
		
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			won't get us we'll see in a minute.
		
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			We have not seen him but these examples are living in our heart if only we can put it in practice.
May Allah give us the perfect one and
		
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			I love myself we're sitting with any kind of ceiling I want to be an animal with
		
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			a lot more bananas
		
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			filled with 180 a lot more to set Coronavirus retina will have an Anamika don't corrupt mine through
a hub along which hasn't been enough well how the old and I'm already there along with my shoulder
feasibility or stamina so let's see what our fun Allah miletti what you're learning is allow me Nana
Cyril coming feeling masala come in whenever you go heavy welcome Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam on how to make them ensure they must either commit whenever you look our hubby will come. So
a lot of money was sent along with Cindy was sending were very classy. Then I went to Vietnam with
anna Muhammad. Alamo so we'll be observing afternoon it was here. Yeah, obviously we're selling
		
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			their human Aveda. And I mean the containers