Ali Ataie – Each Morning, The Believer Puts on the Two Sandals of Hope & Fear

Ali Ataie
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The speakers discuss the use of the word "the spotlight" in Prophet's language to express his love for his creation, rather than based on money or salaries. They stress the importance of not giving too much hope and fear of Allah's wrath, not to give too much hope and fear of Allah's wrath, and to have a strong message in one's Torah. They also discuss the importance of forgiveness and learning about people and culture, as it is crucial for young people to have role models. The speakers also touch on propaganda and its impact on political climate, including the use of the prophet sallali alaihi wa sallam and the rise of Moqud and Moqud as Muslims.
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I will keep the footba

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short and simple, this being the youth the

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youth, footba.

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Just a few reminders

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from the kitab of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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and the words of his messenger Muhammad.

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala,

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He tells us in the Quran in an

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ayah,

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which is called Ayatulintihan,

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a verse of examination.

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And tihan is the same word that's used

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when you take

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a exam or test in school,

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except that we have to test ourselves.

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Allah

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says in this ayah, this is Surah Alaihi

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Imran, ayah number 31.

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He says, pull into the Prophet

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and by extension to all of us,

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if you really love Allah,

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then you have to follow me.

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So

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Allah is telling the Prophet

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to

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tell the people that if you claim to

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love Allah because there's a group of people

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who came to the Prophet

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We love Allah.

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And the prophet

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presented himself as the messenger of God, and

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they rejected him.

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Right? They said, no, we don't need that.

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You know, we we we're good with God.

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We don't need to believe in y'all ri

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sala.

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This is the sun of Abu Nuzul. This

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is the occasion of this highest revelation.

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That if you really love Allah, fattibi, early,

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you have to have itibaq.

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You have to have,

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adherence

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to the prophet salallahu alayhi wasalam.

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Yuhbib kumullah. And then this verb, yuhbib,

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in English, this is called

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a justive mood.

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Essentially this is a purpose clause. So if

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you love Allah,

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follow me so that Allah will love you.

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You see? So the the the,

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special love, special Mahabbat

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of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. And of course,

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there's a level of love that Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala has for all of his creation.

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You know? So we shouldn't listen to rhetoric

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and anti Muslim propaganda

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that characterizes our theology as being loveless. Muslims

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don't have love in their religion.

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You know, these people put up videos on

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YouTube, you know, show me one verse in

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the Quran where it says God loves anyone

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in the Quran.

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These all are akin to love. So there

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is a general love that Allah

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has for all of his creation. And the

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reason we know that, according to Imam al

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Hazari,

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is because Allah

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created the universe, and nothing can compel him

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to create anything.

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Nothing compels him.

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He is the compeller.

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Allah is Anjaba.

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He's never Majbull.

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So the fact that he made a conscious

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choice out of his absolute volition to create

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anything means that he wants a relationship, and

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that's an indication that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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is a personal deity that he's loving. But

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here we're talking about the special level of

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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The special level of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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comes with itiva of the prophet

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And Allah is wafurururrahim,

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is constantly forgiving

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and he's

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intimately loving.

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So this is this is our barometer as

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it were. The measuring stick

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is not based on the amount of money

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in our bank account or how much, you

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know, how many square footage our homes are.

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It's not based on the size of our

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salaries.

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It's not based on any of these, how

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many children do you have, how tall are

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you, how wide is your skin.

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None of these types of things. At the

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end of the day, the only thing that's

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going to matter is our itivaq,

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is our,

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adherence to the prophet.

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Right? So this is what we have to

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be conscious of

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in our daily lives. Allah in the Quran,

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he has certain ayaat that are ayaat of

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promise, of wa'at, and ayaat of threat, warid.

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And these two words are related etymologically.

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Allah makes a promise.

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And we read these promises, and we should

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be filled with hope.

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That's the purpose of a promise. We should

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have Raja.

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Raja needs to have hope with action, not

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just blind hope.

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Right? A lot like the person who, you

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know, doesn't want to work to wants to

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be a millionaire.

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If it happens, it happens. You have to

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work for it. Right? Someone who wants to

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go to Jannah. I wanna be in the

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highest levels of Jannah. Oh, it's time to

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pray. You know, whatever.

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In

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Allah So these are the purpose, this is

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one of the purpose of these ayat, of

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why,

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these verses of promise.

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But then Allah

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also has promises of threat or sorry, a

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a versus of threat of wahid. And the

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threat of Allah is something that we should

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take very seriously.

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When a human being threatens us, we take

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it very very seriously.

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If someone calls your home in the middle

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of the night and threatens you, you're gonna

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call the police, you're gonna move out of

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your house, you're gonna take precautions.

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Well, what about when the

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Lord of everything, when the creator of everything

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threatens us, so we should be cognizant of

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these. Allah

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says in Suratul Tawbah,

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ayah number 24,

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he says in meaning that if any of

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these ephemeral things, all any of these dunyawe

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types of things, And he mentions, you know,

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houses

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and spouses

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and children

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and money

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and, you know,

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any type any possessions that we have, whatever

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they are. If any of these types of

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things, your career, whatever it may be, if

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any of these things are dearer to you

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or more beloved to you,

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If any of these things are more dear

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to you than Allah, his messenger,

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and striving

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in his cause,

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then just wait.

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Yet, dear lord, we'll be hungry. Then just

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wait and see what happens. See, wait till

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the the arbor of Allah comes. This is

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a threat. We don't want to wait. The

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purpose of this ayah is to shock our

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nafs out of its complacency.

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Right?

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Oftentimes, we get comfortable in our lives,

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And,

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one of the reasons why we read the

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Quran is to fill us with hope and

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also fear of Allah

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Hope of his mercy but also fear of

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his wrath. And this is a healthy place

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to be spiritually.

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Not so much hope that we start acting

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irresponsibly.

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There's some people in the world who believe

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that they have an unconditional covenant with God

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irrespective of obedience.

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Why? Because I'm born born of a certain

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race. There's certain people who believe this. I'm

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born of a certain race. I'm chosen by

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God. It's not even based on obedience.

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I have the upper hand. There are other

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people in the world who believe that if

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you believe one time and have no action

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whatsoever, it's okay. You're totally okay. It has

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no effect on your iman. You're gonna go

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straight into Jannah.

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We're these these are extreme positions.

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We have to be careful. That's not to

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have so much hope in Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala that we start to become irresponsible in

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our actions.

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We leave the prayer. We don't guard our

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eyesight.

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We're not watching what we're doing. We're not

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watching what we're eating and drinking. We're loose

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with our tongues to our parents.

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Allah, the prophet,

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he says in a hadith, he says, the

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greatest of sins, and he names them

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is to in partner with Allah

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to say Allah has some sort of partner.

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There's a there's a different person of God.

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Something like that.

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Right? Where someone has the attributes of God.

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This person who's other than God has attributes

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of

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This is the biggest sin. It's spiritual treason.

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And then he says,

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disrespect of parents disrespect

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of parents. And we know the hadith Jibril

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alaihi salaam when the prophet, sallallahu alayhi salam,

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it's a foundational hadith in our tradition. When

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the prophet, sallallahu alayhi salam, was asked by

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Jibril alayhi salam, this is Sahib Muslim al

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Bukhari.

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He said,

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tell me about the hour.

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And the prophet said,

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the one being questioned knows no more than

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the questioner

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because the the urm of the sa'ah is

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only known to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. Nobody

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knows it. No messenger, no angel, only Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. So it's a good idea,

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it's a lot of sense there. Then tell

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me about its signs, what are some portents

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of it. One of the first things that

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prophet

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mentions

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is that a woman will give birth to

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her master or mistress.

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What does that mean?

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The unam must say this means that children

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will immediately begin disrespecting their parents.

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This is a major sin in the eyes

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as it were of Allah.

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Right? So if hope of Allah

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proper hope, hope with action,

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we also have fear of Allah.

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Kouth. Be between kouth and rajah.

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Kouth and rajah. Fear and hope. Wear the

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2 sandals of fear and hope, the prophet

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said.

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But not so much fear that we begin

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to despair on the lost mercy.

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We begin to despair. I talked to a

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man who admitted to me that he's killed

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a lot of people. He was under orders.

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He told me I've killed a lot of

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people. He said I've killed a lot of

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children. I was under orders. This is what

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he said. I said, why did you do

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that? He said, I don't know.

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I don't know. You know, there's a sign

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of the end of time.

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The the one the one killing doesn't know

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why he's killing.

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Right? And he said to me, do you

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think God will forgive me?

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And he was non Muslim, so I quoted

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an ayah of the Quran to him.

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Allah

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says, oh, say, oh, my servants

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who have completely debased themselves.

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Completely debased their own souls.

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Never ever be in despair

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of the mercy of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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It is haram.

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It is wrong. It is incorrect to ever

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be in a state of despair of the

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mercy of Allah.

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, if we make Tawbah,

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Allah is at Tawah. How many names of

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Allah? How many of his blessed names deal

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with this

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idea of Allah forgiving us. He is al

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Sawam.

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He is al Ghafar. He is al Ghafar.

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He is al Ghafoor. He is al Ahfum,

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one who erases the sin. There's no trace

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of it left. Al Ahfum.

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This is Allah

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This is our lord. Allah will never go

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tired of forgiving us unless we grow tired

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of asking

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for Tawba. And of course, he never grows

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tired. This is a matter of speaking.

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As long and in other words, as long

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as we keep making Torah, Allah will keep

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forgiving us.

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But when we make Torah, it's very important

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that our Torah is correct.

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Right?

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As one of my teachers said, sometimes a

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toma requires a toma.

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He's not really a toma.

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A tawba has requisites. 1 must have nadaba.

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1 must have remorse for the sin and

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a firm

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a firm resolve

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that this person will never return to this

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sin again. Even if he does return at

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the time of Torah, he has a he

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has fair resolve that he won't return to

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the sin.

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Right?

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This is a true toma.

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And

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again, our,

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role model is the prophet

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This is what Allah says in the next

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part of the ayah. For those who have

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hope,

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those who have raja.

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The messenger of God is a beautiful power

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of conduct for those who have hope, and

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Allah

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and in the final day. And remember Allah

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with much remembrance.

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So it's important for our young people to

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have role models.

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Right? As we should study the Meccan period

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of the prophet's life. When the prophet sallallahu

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alaihi wasallam was living in Mecca, a lot

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of young people became Muslim.

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There's a very young companion of the prophet

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sallallahu alaihi wasallam,

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Sometimes twice a day, you'd have a new

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thawmark.

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Very wealthy,

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you know, very beautiful looking young man.

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He was like a a a superstar in

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Mecca.

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And he became Muslim, and his parents cut

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him off financially.

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And

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he was in dire straits,

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And the prophet

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sent him to Al Habashah, Abyssinia,

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to live for a while.

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Many years later, the prophet

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was sitting in the Masjid in Mecca,

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and Mus'an even America's back to Mecca. He's

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wearing rags

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with patches sewn into into them.

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His skin is just

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tattered. His hair is disheveled.

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No shoes on his feet. And the prophet,

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, began to cry.

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Not because he felt sorry for him. And

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the and the the the moral the the

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moral of this story is not to go

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walk around with with rags on. You've missed

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the point, if that's what you think.

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The prophetess of alaihi sallam began to cry

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because he saw this

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this this superstar

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amongst the kafar

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just reduced to this humble slave of Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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He was crying because he saw the power

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of the revelation, the power of iman. Right?

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This is why we should never despair of

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Allah's mercy,

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and we should treat our neighbors and friends,

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as if they're potential Muslims.

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They're human beings. The fact that people are

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human beings means that these they deserve respect.

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Allah

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says in the Quran that we have ennobled

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these sons and daughters with Adam.

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So it's important for us to have good

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attitude with people.

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Right? Even if people are fed false information,

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which is happening all the time.

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Look at the prophet in Mecca. There was

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a propaganda

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campaign out against him. The leaders of the

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Quraysh met in the dawn of Midwa, their

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city council.

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Right?

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And they decided that they were going to

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spread propaganda about him, and they were mulling

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this over. What should we call him? They

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said, let's call him a liar.

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And then they said, no. We can't call

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him that because we called him Assadi Gul

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Abin. Now they're gonna it's gonna make us

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look bad if we call him a liar.

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So let's call him a sha'er. He's a

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poet.

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Right? He said, well, that's not going to

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work either because he's not known for composing

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poetry.

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It's not going to work. So then al

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Walid even Molena, he said, let's call him

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a sahel, a sorcerer.

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He's a sorcerer because he can divide families,

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and so that's a good one. So the

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Quraysh would send out these rioters to intercept

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people coming into Mecca.

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Right? Welcome to Mecca.

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Enjoy the festivities,

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but stay away from this man, Mohammad, Somal

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Ali Islam. He's a sahir. He's going to

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bewitch you.

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Right? So people were told propaganda about him

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even before meeting him, even before hearing him

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one time. So a lot of people

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in our neighborhoods are like this,

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In our lives, they're like this.

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They've never actually heard from the prophet sallallahu

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alaihi wasallam. How can they hear from him?

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They hear from him from us

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because we are ambassadors

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of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam.

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And when people, whether you like it or

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not, our behavior,

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right, our behavior, whether it's good or bad,

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informs others of Islam.

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This guy's a Muslim. Look what he's doing.

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Whether you like that or not, that's what's

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going to happen.

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Right?

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So a lot of people have negative perceptions

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of us, not only because of negative media

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that they're hearing,

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but because of their bad experiences of Muslims.

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Because we haven't actualized

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that beautiful khulik of the prophet sallallahu alaihi

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wasallam.

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Right? So the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam is

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Ghayhi alil Allah. He is the caller to

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Allah, our excellence. How did he call people

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to Allah?

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What was he doing in Mecca? He went

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about his business. He was being a good

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practicing Muslim.

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People wanted to hear from him, he would

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speak of that. So Chafa'l ibn Abdulsi came

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into Mecca. He heard about his propaganda

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about the prophet shalallahu alaihi wa sallam. He

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saw the prophet shalallahu alaihi wa sallam at

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the Kaaba reciting Quran.

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He said, I was so afraid. I brought

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into the propaganda.

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I put content in my ears

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and made my tawaf because I didn't wanna

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hear him because he would bewitch me.

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So to Fedun Naderi said he passed by

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the prophet, sallallahu alaihi salaam. He said, Allah

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will that something of his tera'a enter into

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my head.

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Something of his tera'ah.

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And I said, subhanallah.

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That was beautiful. So I took some cotton

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out and I went around again. I passed

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them again

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and I heard more.

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And I said,

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this is incredible.

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So he took all of the cotton out.

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And I just stood there and was listening

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to his taraha.

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And then he said to himself, he relates

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to Habib. He said, I thought to myself,

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I'm a grown man.

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I'm a grown man.

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Why should I listen to propaganda?

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I'm gonna sit with him.

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I'll make up my own mind.

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So he sat with him. He said, who

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are you? What is this that you recite

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it? So this is the Quran, the messenger

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of God. And he immediately became Muslim.

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Immediately, this is the way of the prophet

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sallallahu alaihi said.

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Right? Somebody comes, he gives them guidance. And

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Shufayr ibn Amr, he went back to his

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people, but that he does.

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And he started making Dawah.

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Right? And the prophet

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is da'ayr illallah, usilajal Mulira, but nobody else

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really is.

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And he's a young Muslim. So he's trying

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to make ta'wa,

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and it wasn't working very well.

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So he came back to the prophet,

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he said, yeah, Rasoolallah, I'm calling these people

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to Islam, but they're laughing at me. They're

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rejecting me.

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Can you curse them?

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Curse them.

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Yeah?

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The prophet said, no. We're not gonna curse

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anybody.

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The prophet

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said, I was sent as a gifted mercy.

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Mercy gifted mercies.

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And he said, let's go fight and let's

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go fight against them and force them to

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convert.

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They said, no. We're not going to do

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that either. He said,

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So go back to your people, O Tufay,

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and shepherd to them

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and have rift, have gentleness with them.

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So, okay. So he goes back,

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he implements

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the,

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the training, tarbia, of the prophet salam alaihi

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salam,

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And he shepherds to them and takes care

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of them. He's a pastor to them.

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Right? He shows gentleness towards them, and there's

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convert after convert after convert. Eventually, a man

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named Abu Huayra becomes Muslim,

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who becomes a fountain of prophetic knowledge.

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This is the way of the prophet salam

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alaihi wasalam.

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There was a man in Mecca named Arkam

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who became Muslim

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and the Muslims would go to his house,

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in a very large house. He would go

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make vikir and pray there and listen to

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the lectures of the prophet, sallallahu alaihi salaam.

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So one of the mushrikeen,

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he would sit on the way to Donald

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Alkom,

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and he would,

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bring these singing and dancing girls.

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And he,

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distract Muslims. We're going to see the prophet

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with these singing and dancing girls, and he

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tells stories of, you know, the great

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Persian conqueror

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and the great stories of the Romans and

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the Greeks.

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So young Muslims

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go into the house of of Arkam to

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listen to the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam We'll

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say, yeah, let's just stop here for a

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minute. We'll go there eventually. We'll sit here

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and relax, listen to some stories, see some

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dancing girls, hear them sing a little bit.

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It's okay. We'll make tawba later.

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They sit down.

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An hour goes by. 2 hours go by.

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3 hours go by.

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4 hours go by.

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9 hours go by.

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Generally, average American

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spends the average American youth, which includes our

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youth obviously,

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spends 9 hours a day

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on media.

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Whether it's television or computer or

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games,

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9 hours a day.

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That's a full time job.

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So we're very distracted.

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So we have to learn how to be

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disciplined enough.

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Walk by these distractions

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and go to the prophet

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and take the guidance from him.

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