Ahmad Saleem – Eight at Eight #015 How to make your child love Muhammad SAW

			Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh over Smilla hamdu lillah wa salatu salam ala Rasulillah.
Welcome back to eight at eight. This is Amazonian coming here live from Milton, Ontario, and
Alhamdulillah we are back on our 15th day in a row, as I told you, this is a promise to myself, I
want to go live every single day, hopefully down another 15 days down the road, I'm already thinking
of like starting something that is more structured. So if you've noticed, and if you've been
following the eight at eight, it's just been a very fluid conversation. And the whole idea was, I
needed no prep to come and do this. But having said that, now that I'm getting comfortable with all
		

			of this, I think that it's time that we apart a little bit, so maybe another 30 days or maybe
another 15 days or whatever, and then we will want something that's going to be more consistent and
on a daily basis insha Allah to Allah. Now, having said that, today's topic is something very
important and very, very dear to my heart. And that is primarily about Sierra off in the visa
lottery Salam. Now what I wanted to focus on today was a lot of times welcome salaam so just how are
you how are you? What I wanted to focus on today is you know many times we ask ourselves this
question that was in the end so I'll get to happening about choco your opinion under in ourselves in
		

			our kids
		

			something in which it allows them to be able to love rasool Allah so salami allows them to be able
to to follow Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in their daily lives. And the same goes for us, how do
we do that in our lives for you and for me, and for every one of us. And a lot of times, what I
noticed is how Nepalese in the job, you know, the way we have understood
		

			is 90% of the discussions related to Rasulullah sallallahu it happens in the category of etbr so,
Hotaka what happens or Hamina Mississauga follow Karna Jaya great career Foreign Service so I'm cool
no problem go ahead. You want to follow up Salah Salem Bismillah Be my guest. But then what happens
is that it diva becomes a burden on us right? Because they have ro Swamiji Karna Rosa Fajr Kizuna de
Bernie every single morning I have to pray the Sunnah, that now there's like 12 Sooners that I need
to pray daily, and how am I going to keep up and and we start getting fatigued and we start getting
bogged down with this and we're like, why is this happening? Like what why do I need to do all of
		

			this like isn't just doing far enough? Like why do I need to put myself in so much difficulty
		

			and the problem is that we we got the formula wrong. So most of the discussion that is happening
around the Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam in the religious spectrum in the religious sphere
is all about it the Barnaby Salah Salem never simply tobacco ninja you and that's a great thing. But
that's not where it starts. We've got the formula wrong, you cannot force it divide or you cannot
force following besides LM on somebody's throat, you cannot shove it down their throat
		

			it divide is a net result of something two steps before that and let me explain how this is going to
work. So, the dilemma they have said there are three things that are we that we need to understand
about Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is life. Number one, there is something called you know
Malefor that we must know about him. So there's something called Madoka then in the middle is
something called muhabba which is love. So I must be aware of Nagisa Salam, then I must have love of
Nerissa Salam and then I must follow on episodes from so there are three categories Meriva muhabba
etbr Knowing loving following
		

			now we focus on the following part and we forget the first two Okay, so if you want your child to
love Nabi SallAllahu Sallam if you want to love Nabil Salah Salem if you want to be inspired by him
inspired by his life inspired by his his example then you need we need to focus a lot on Maddie for
about knowing Nabi SallAllahu Sallam and in MA herefor there are so many things that we need to
learn about Nabi SallAllahu, Sallam not necessarily battle of brother and Battle of org, those are
great events, but they do not talk about Nabi SallAllahu Sallam they talk about an event in his
life. And for that you and I need to focus on Shama Ale, we need to focus on the characteristics
		

			they call it holo and Hulk. So the characteristic physical attributes and dab and the internal
attributes of Nabi Salah Salem, and that is a science called Science of Shama ale. Now, a lot of our
youth are struggling with Nabi SallAllahu, alayhi wa sallam and believing in them and I mentioned
this before, too, that like one of the you know, parents brought one of the youth to me, and they're
like, Oh, why should I? Why should I follow Nabi SallAllahu sallam, he's dead in his grave. What
benefit do I
		

			get from him, right. So, those are very important aspects very important things for you and me to
realize that the child is questioning the legitimacy of Prophet sallallahu Sallam what is the della
L? What are some of the delille what is what is the lead for me to believe that Nabi SallAllahu
Sallam is true. So you have Shama in about prophets of Salaam in Malaga in the category of Marisa
you have Shama in and then you have della el things that prove to us that Nafisa Salam is authentic
and he is true and He is the true messenger. And then you have Fatah El, for La Isla basically
things that tell us that Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam is better than everybody else for Allah and
		

			then you have phala L of Nabi SallAllahu sallam, then you have Hustla is of Nabisco. Salam, there
are certain things that are only exclusive to Prophet sallallahu sallam. So many of the youth they
read a Syrah or their you know young people, children, they're going to read something about
children, they're going to be like, Oh,
		

			but this is wrong. Shediac in the 20th century, you're only allowed to do this for x, y officers
aren't doing it more than x, y is also la Selim, you know, not making wudu after sleeping, those are
called Hussites. Those are things that are pertaining to Rasul allah sallallahu Sallam and then you
have SEER which are events in the mighty phi chapter the five categories that I mentioned which is
you know, you have Shamaya of Nabi SallAllahu Sallam you have CASA is going to be Salalah Salam you
have della L of Nabi Salam. So things that are characteristics then you have Hussites, exclusive
things that are related to Nabil Salam. Then evidence is related to interview Salah Salem, then
		

			superiority of Prophet sallallahu Sallam and then you have events in his life. All of our discussion
is always on events and these four categories never ever do we have discussions upon them. And that
is what we are missing.
		

			Alhamdulillah Musab Rama and give her like like I will hear heavy hamdulillah and be Pharaoh Lila
Hill, Hamed Masha, Allah, it's, it's good, I hope to see you man, that's good. hamdulillah so these
are the things that we need to focus on. And these are medica this go all goes into medica. Now, for
those of you that are wondering, Where do I begin, you begin by the book of Shama L. There's very
good translations available of Shambhala Tirmidhi. Those are around 436, or 463 Hadees that the
mountain musi has collected, all you got to do is read one Hadees every day with your kids at home,
you can find the PDF versions of those books to no excuse for you and me to start focusing on the
		

			medica so that our child can start loving nebi Salah Salem, and then the following becomes a natural
process. Let's not work backwards following abuso Salam so that you may love him that doesn't work
like that. Your child is inspired by the NBA players, they're inspired by whatever singer they're
inspired by whatever Instagram personality, they get to know about that personality and every single
little detail about Him and follow Him and read and see what food and what drinks and which
restaurants he's going to and then he falls in love with him. And when he falls in love with him, he
starts following him. So then you get the hairstyle and then you get the color grading and you get
		

			the different color fades happening. All of this was happening by the way, there's not a faith, this
is natural. So you get all of this happening, why you get all of this happening because they got to
know about somebody they fell in love with them and they got so much in love with that person that
now knew what they want to follow them. Okay, I hope that helps everybody Inshallah, too, in terms
of the high level process of learning about Nabi SallAllahu Sallam do let me know in comments like
if you would like me to cover some of these concepts in zero because Sierra is one of my specialty
		

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