Adnan Rajeh – Treating your parents and relatives with excellence 21

			Yahweh che Han tema de vaca de se Binney, Malik, Radi Allahu Anhu bah bah under the use of Allah
Allah Who early he was a hadith tonight in the collection of both Bukhari and Muslim write to us by
Allah who I know, this is the final Hadith and the theme of treating your parents and relatives with
excellence. It's not that I ran out of a hadith
		

			not even remotely close to that, but is to move on something different for a bit and then we come
back to this later on in a few months.
		

			As I think this is one of the topics that should be
		

			periodically addressed and talked about for the sake of reminders and for the sake of all of us
making sure that we are being in check and shall regarding the topic or the issue itself, it's very
important as, as we've established, and then this hadith is is very st famous Hadith, so you'll
probably have heard it before, but it's I think it's a nice one to kind of conclude the topic for
moving forward next, tomorrow, shall we will do a two weeks of talking about outreach and show how
do you talk about outreach or Dawa, that will be the theme kind of starting tomorrow. So he says on
your site to Parliament hub, and Ubisoft La La who fear is P he were you in LA who V 30 He Peleus
		

			Rahima
		

			is earliest Solomon says
		

			those are those who would love for there is for their provision to be increased to be spread for
them so that they have more of it. So they're not there would bustles really nice. You know, this is
called the result. Right? This is what causes small pieces. And it's only the concept. Till this
day. There's like proverbs and Arabic, that salt like the Middle East like I heard that you only put
your feet out as far as your rug can continue. So you say you have a selfless idea is that is going
to come bigger for you. So you can you can spread out you can lay out you have more you have more
comfort, you have more ease. So if you're looking for more provision, those of you who would love to
		

			have an increased amount of provision in life. And that doesn't necessarily mean that the amount
increases it's just the way the baraka within it will increase that's when he said you'll be
selfless what he means meaning is going there's not it's not a it's not an issue of material issue
of numbers is an issue of comfort yourself at risk as I explained to you if this is the rug gets a
bit bigger so you're more comfortable. So the difference between the number becoming more there's
not like it will do a little silly throw him then go check your bank account and this means it does
nothing this year who like to know this is not this is about comfort and comfort within the
		

			discipline the provision that Allah gives you and risk is a word that if you decide to limit it to
money then you have done a I have not done that word a favor or yourself a favor and understanding
it because it is because everything everything that Allah gives you is risk your knowledge is risk
your family is risk your time is it is all of this is provisions but it gives you some high notes
out on a daily basis money is just one portion of it honestly is probably the least important as
long as you have enough to get through and you're not
		

			you're not requiring people to to aid you were your answer I know who you are 30 and those who would
love for their
		

			remembrance or their legacy as well as a really means I mean I don't know a better translation for
the word concept of authority within this context then your legacy what you leave behind and how
people remember you you will sit in on the seat and the seat is when something is prolonged is
pushed out it's not done on time. And he gets it gets like it gets later and later. So you know who
he is it means that their legacy will live on longer than they thought it would mean outlive them by
far meaning will go on and keep on going. Like they people won't stop talking about them they won't
be forgotten quickly.
		

			You may think that's not important but it quite it is
		

			you get a lot from people remembering you afterwards you get draw you get I'm all solid, no idea how
valuable it is. Once you're in your grave for there to be some way for your Hasina to increase it's
actually very comforting for someone who knows that there's nothing they can do physically anymore
to change the outcome. You see what I'm saying? If you're when you're in there there's nothing you
can do. You're actually seeing you know you know you know the good and the bad and you're not very
happy with the amount of the bad nor the good and there's nothing you can do there's no you can sit
in your grave and do just via as long as you'd like and you can pray as much as you want nothing
		

			changes nothing's budging. So for there to be some way for that to continue to increase the good
deed is actually very comforting as beautiful. Again, comfort is a show of comfort here so and if
your legacy lives your your legacy continues to go I mean people still remember you then they
remember the good things will make dua for you there was a Quran for you or amatola And you say hola
hola hola. There's someone that's that's something that's going to them, they are benefiting from
that word. When you make dua for them in any form or manner. You'll be surprised how quickly people
forget about you know, all of us you it's actually actually devastating when you actually think
		

			about it, that once were any once you're under the ground, the other 90% of people are sitting there
talking about current events, sipping their alcohol while they're talking
		

			About You.
		

			Day two days later, the tears dry up a week later, only maybe your wife and if you're lucky on if
		

			you're, if you're good enough to even get that maybe it's maybe a son and a daughter, maybe a month
later, it's just a memory.
		

			Maybe come up once every 15 conversations
		

			a year later sit, is it.
		

			You're no longer no one cares? Well, hey, this is a reality of life that if we all came to the
conclusion of would change so much of how we behave, because you're just taking with you, whatever
you did, and you're going down there, and no one love, we all love each other. But life can't go you
can't you can't stay hooked up on someone who's gone. It just you can't live that way. It's
impossible. Actually people that do that are very unhealthy and they require therapy. If you can't,
if you get let go, isn't it people have to let go to be to survive, you have to let go. None of us
we're not not that important. Once I'm gone, I'm gone. Within a week you'll find someone else within
		

			a month you'll it'll just be a distant memory. If I'm lucky, then maybe someone will say something
nice every every couple of months earlier when we just said but that's it. I take what I do when I
go to my grave. And that's it. No one cares anymore. Your children move on your wife moves on,
everyone moves on everyone, your friends, everyone moves on, and they just a distant memory of
something that would maybe show a nice when he's saying something nice. Do you love those who love
for their provision to be more comfortable for them, and for their legacy to live on after them and
hired? Then we also Rahima I see the two things that you would like to have is I would like to have
		

			more comfort in this dunya like that, for there to be something that continues to benefit me after
I'm gone when I'm forgotten.
		

			Strengthen the family ties. That's the way to do it.
		

			You know why?
		

			Well, there's a lot of reasons why but I mean, I'm just gonna focus on this last one because I don't
take much more time. Because really, at the end, the people who will remember you or your family and
they're the ones that count.
		

			If you remember me, you know not really to me, it doesn't matter. You don't really know me, don't
really know me you're not really we're not we weren't that close, we saw each other and domestic.
Obviously I'm going to be at my best behavior and domestic Of course, I'm not to come to here and
misbehave in front of you. Of course, it doesn't make any sense. Neither are you. So whatever you
say is not that valuable. But family, no family it is family means a lot of the good things they
will say well actually live on so still rocking back, do something because they love you even if
they even if they don't, your family you love them even if you don't and they're a part of you even
		

			if you don't want them to be and no matter how much you distance yourself from them, they're all you
can't do it once death occurs. It's it's we all come back to the family and we look back and say we
could have done this better. It didn't have to be like this and we all look back at it we could have
maybe improved so it wouldn't be that way. So you're absolutely right like you strengthen those
family ties. That's what he's saying to your soldiers. I'm Allah is not my advice to you. This is
the advice of rasool Allah so Allah is like we said Allah and he's saying no do you want to have you
any more comfortable in your disk you would like to have a legacy lives on strength your family ties
		

			you there's any there's I can think of a million things that would come to mind of what you should
do right? When it comes to that I could think of all these other things in this time you can do
that's what he said earlier he said Silver hammock even though my mind is all the other things you
could do that probably will give you more provision and give you a good legacy you know spread
knowledge give a FUCK NO NO still Rahima that's what you do. Go back to family strengthen those
family ties work on them. That will be the end inshallah of this any of this team I hope you found
it beneficial. I hope inshallah This opened the hearts inshallah of the children towards their
		

			parents and the parents toward their children's and until children and of course family towards
other family and hopefully we work successful and encouraging each other to go ahead and strengthen
those family ties and see the value of family and go back and maybe change some of our ways and make
some better decisions. Yello ha ha Mustafa. I didn't even Hadith nscd Malik Radi Allahu Anhu called
by the lawsuit Allahu Allah, Allah Allah Who early he was salam might have been and you'll be set by
Allah who fear is he going to let go of the authority he fell you'll see in the Rahima not across
all lines of aloha and he was
		

			just talking to Blake masala who was telling them about like I don't have a you know, Muhammad Ali.
He also has many