Adnan Rajeh – Treating your parents and relatives with excellence 18

			or have you been hammered? Early he was so heavy a Gemini you know that
		

			Yahweh and Eva Mohammed who famously he will email with Timothy up January he said I do so hey hen.
		

			And Abdullah hidden Mohammed Amin Hatari or the Allahu Anhu. Oh my god. So the Hadith, I mean,
actually narrate to Hadith are both narrated in the same two collections are narrated both in a
collection of you know, Rahman has Mesnard and the collection of emptiness within his genre. And
they both have a authentic generation, just because we're coming towards the end of the time that I
had allocated for this topic and Sunday will be the last day so I have two more or three more Hadith
I wanted to read or clump them together tonight. Two of them. The first one I do have an ordinary
son he says this quite a job because it's within the theme of you know, treating your parents and
		

			relatives with excellence. But yeah, don't alienate us from Allah Allah you will save yourself from
Africa Allah Ya rasool Allah in the coda also be to them when a Lehman for halimun Toba, a man came
to the Prophet it has also said yes to Allah, I have committed a horrific sin. Now whether the
numbers are leaving because it actually was I'll leave in terms of its degree or is because I'll
leave him in his eyes, because of his degree of higher insensitivity and closest to Allah subhanaw
taala those who are closer to Allah feel that the the sins are bigger than the than other people
will feel their sins to be the closer you are to Allah, the more you will magnify your sin, and you
		

			will see your good deeds to be smaller, and vice versa, if it's not the case, so we don't know
whether it was a big sin or that he just felt it was a big sin, because of his status with Allah
subhanaw taala? We don't know. But he said something to them, and I'll leave. That's what he said to
the Prophet. But holy Mantova do I do it? Is there a way for me to perform them? And of course the
answer is yes. But but the reality is, I used to answer this in a very specific way. Bacala Haluk? I
mean, um, do you have a mother? Oh, Allah. No, Paula Haluk. I mean, ha, do you have a maternal aunt
Bacala Nam Paula phobia of Baja. And go and perform better with with that aunt and a lot of scholars
		

			taking on this hadith that the your maternal aunt Jani is similar to your mother, and you should
treat her in the same late. But either way, whether that's the you know, the specific case here or
is just seen as this your family, you start, you want to get rid of your sin, start with your
family, start with the ones that deserve it the most with your mom, they're not around, move on to
the next of kin, not there and move on. Just move on to whatever well him you have that you can bid
on that you can show the other two that you can show excellence to and there is the agile and that's
how Allah subhanaw taala will forgive your sins or remove your your debt and will grant you your
		

			reward and will enlighten your path and will take away from your burden. This is how it's going to
happen is through bitterness through this through this through the family ties and blood related
relatives and you taking care of them. And that's what he told him and he's awesome. You could have
told them many other things. You could have explained to him how a job is actually
		

			performed and all the and the other kind of each of the pillars of Tobin know is ask him a question.
I'm a mother. No, I've got an answer. Okay, good, go do better. Go go serve them. Well, I
		

			need someone. This is important to understanding the value of any of these things in Islam, someone
who who's doing that who was taken care of an elderly parent or an elderly relative, and they spend
a few hours every day serving them and taking care of them. Well I think more so than everything
I've ever done in my entire life. Forget about all that all the talking and all the rules and forget
about all that is someone who twice an hour or two a day takes care of an elderly family member and
cleans up and gives them some food but like more legible than all these talking in the speeches and
the co author and all this stuff is important to comprehend within our deen This is more valuable in
		

			the eyes of Allah subhanaw taala what else he would have told him? Is there people who need to go
give them those No. And Allah you have a mother and aunt Do you have what do you have? Go better? Go
show them excellence and go serve them and treat them well and strengthen that relationship and then
that will be your job as the alternate rate I'm the ramen, if any, if at all the Allahu Anhu called
an abuse of Allah and he said and that is the same to collections and ratios are bad don't have
enough you don't have a lot of Hadith narrated to us by him. So this is a treat. But in the br is on
par And Allah is Allah there's a hadith God says well also as I said, Man, I look to Rahim. Worship
		

			Papa Tula is min min is me. Someone wa sallahu wa salatu Omen kapa haka. Pato did indeed I am a Rama
Angelica Loma. I'm the most compassionate.
		

			And I created a Rahim and he created the uterus, if you want to take it physically, or if you
created family or created blood relations, the concept of Raheb the concept of it, and I gave it a
name that was derived from my own. I derived the name for it from my own. So those who strengthen
it, I will strengthen my connection with them and those who sever it, I will sever my connection
with them.
		

			That's what he teaches us. subhanho wa taala. Again, I'm trying to emphasize
		

			is the value of family, of course, and each family, there's a dynamic that is unique to it. And
there's always the odd person that you don't get along with or they don't get along with you or they
don't respond to stuff and it doesn't matter. None of that matters. You do your best with your
family and the Hadith that are left for tomorrow night and Sunday, we'll, we'll be down those lines
to make sure that this is clear that doesn't, this doesn't just apply to the family members who you
like you enjoy spending time with and who are coming coming up to you know, they're putting in
effort to kind of strengthen their relationship. No, this is for the for those who may not be maybe
		

			doing the opposite, you're obligated to strengthen the family ties as much as possible, as much
whatever you got, why? Because Allah Subhanallah said my name is Obama and I called Rahim and I gave
it a name that's derived from my own I will cut those who cut it off and I will strengthen those who
do that's why you're not doing it because the chef's they're not doing it because you know, it makes
you feel better look good or they know you're doing it because Allah subhanaw taala looked at you
and said that to you. Because the Prophet alayhi salaatu wa salaam at all for this man and answer in
that forum. He told me when Toba go look for no mother, go look for an ants look for someone, look
		

			for someone that you can that you can show better to. And that's how you that's how you repent.
That's how you repent. Repentance, repentance, repentance is a specific activist, I know you want to
repent, just go find someone in your family. The concept here is very, very profound. It's very
real. It's a it's a central part of our faith. And I hope that we take time
		

			within our busy lives to remind ourselves the importance of family of keeping that those connections
alive and doing what we need to do to make sure they are well they're taken care of and that they
feel supported and they're not left alone. That it doesn't necessarily mean that you just pick up
you pick up the phone every day or that you have to visit everyday. No no better comes in many
forms. I established that at the beginning of this long, six week series. A bit of a subjective
everyone does it differently doesn't doesn't fit. It's not it's not one size, fit all cookie cutter
answer of what it looks like it will be different depending on the person depending on their family
		

			dynamic, their culture, their background, their needs, but you have to, but make sure you're aware.
Make sure that you are sensitive to the needs of the people in your life and the family members that
you have and make sure that you are fulfilling those needs to the best of your ability because
that's what's really needed here. That's what's looked at here is are you aware of their
requirements or you're aware of their needs? And are you taking care of that? Do you prioritize
that? Is that important to you? Or are you going through life forgetting that Allah Subhana Allah
called it of Rohan and gave it a name from his own? Yahweh Lima Mohammed with the mustard the holy
		

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