Abu Usamah At-Thahabi – The Islamic Personality – Episode 06

Abu Usamah At-Thahabi
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The importance of multiple narratives in conversations is discussed, including the use of the word " saff chance" in the title of the book and the history of the title. The speakers emphasize the need to be gentle and respectful when dealing with people who are worst at the time. They also discuss the importance of managing the problem and cutting it, as well as the success of the Prophet's teachings and the potential benefits of cutting cutting cutting the problem. The segment also touches on the use of force in religion and the negative impact of blending words into actions.

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			I have and they display Allah gives. Because of that, what he does not give when people are rough
and tough.
		
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			This hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, by this chain of narration
		
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			is authentic and the chain of narration as the brothers mentioned it below magia even he banned in
other than them, but the basis of the Hadith the hustle of the Hadith in Sahih Bukhari and Muslim.
		
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			They share have Allahu Taala Sheikh Ali Al Halaby brought the chain of narration or he brought this
hadith without mentioning the reason why the Prophet said the Hadith sallallahu alayhi wa it was
said
		
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			there's another Hadith similar to it in Sahih Muslim, he says SallAllahu wasallam according to our
mother, who may have been too severe, may Allah be pleased with both of them are insha.
		
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			Allah
		
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			your tea
		
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			and RFT Mala your tea or a Seiwa. Allah gives because of Jin Jin Tunis, where he doesn't give
		
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			for anything other than that. So we have a number a number of a hadith concerning the issue. He
mentioned sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in Rifka Lai Hakuna fish che Illa Zanna who were lamb Newser
mean che in that channel.
		
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			He said that gentleness and easiness softness and kindness was never put inside of something, except
that it beautify that thing.
		
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			And gentleness easiness and kindness was never extracted and taken out of something, except that it
made that thing ugly.
		
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			So if a person puts inside of his dollar gentleman's, his ability, when he makes an amount of amount
off, when he puts inside of gentleness, he puts inside of his house gentleness, inside of his
marriage, gentleness, his generals dealing with the people around him when he does that in a gentle
way. It beautifies the situation. And when gentleness is taken out of the equation, whatever
Lemonnier corner ref fi shaitan is said gentleness was never put inside of anything, anything,
		
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			whatever you can think of your marriage tarbiyah to your children, how you treat your mother and
your father. Whatever you can think of driving if you put gentleness inside of driving, it's going
to beautify any and everything that you put it inside.
		
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			And if you extract it and take it away and subtract it from something, it's going to make that thing
ugly. The compare the companion of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam, Judea bin Abdullah and Beji Lee,
may Allah be pleased with him you say that the Prophet says Allah Allah, why do you say to me, you
your midriff, your your Remo, hi Kulu anyone who has been prevented from being gentle, soft and nice
and kind, he has been prevented from all of the good. So some people in their character, some people
		
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			are naturally easy going the gym to the easy, and some people have hard course rough, tough
exteriors and interiors. And the way that they deal with people is very tough.
		
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			Some of us can relate to that our father's from the old school used to be rough and tough. They
wouldn't sit you down and give you told G and explain to you don't do this because of this and this
and this and that. Some fathers especially the old school fathers, they will teach you by slapping
you or by being physical with you so you get a beatings or you have that person who's a more upbeat
or more Obeah teacher, man, woman, wife, husband, and they just make a sub and chateaux. Say to the
		
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			child your bum. You're never going to amount to anything. Your dog your donkey is not the way that
the Prophet dealt with people SallAllahu it was set it up. He was by the true meaning of the word, a
gentle man, a gentleman. So there are a number of a hadith in this regard. He says Allah Allah who
it was setting them in Allah your hip roof at ref. Phil Emery coldly. Allah loves gentleness to be
in everything. He loves it. Because of these a hadith that we mentioned today. When it comes to a
		
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			doubt Allah, the hustle of $1 is gentleness. The basis of giving dollar is a riff barama We're being
gentle, and we're only rough and tough. When you have to be rough and tough. The Hustle of the Dow
was not
		
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			being rough and tough is being gentle has been easy. This hadith shows a number of things. It shows
that Allah azza wa jal, he loves and know who you have been betrayed to attend. Talia Qubee July
Leti, he Subhana wa Tada. He loves in a way that we face His Majesty. He loves their people. He
loves the people that he doesn't love their things. He loves the things that he doesn't love, but he
loves in a way that befits His Majesty doesn't love in the way that people love. Or Sula, he
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is Habibollah
		
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			Habibollah Ibrahim is the heavy love Allah. Mu says the claim of Allah isa Kenny Mottola Rasul
Allah, rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is Habibollah Allah loves him. And Allah loves
people from the normal Muslims as well. Because of the things that they do. Allah loves a towhee and
he loves the people that Tauheed so this is one of the many proofs they show that Allah loves.
Another issue about the hadith is that he said that he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that Allah
		
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			azza wa jal was Rafi.
		
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			Some of the novel Islam said from the names of Allah from the smell of Allah azza wa jal is the name
Rafi.
		
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			And from those lemma, Imam Ibn Payam Rahmatullahi to Allah Allah he in his book, and no Nia we
talked about the aikido unless sunnah. He said that from Allah's mean is from his names is Rafi,
from His names that are dealing with his actions and a smile fair Lea, those names and allies with
Joe has that are connected to his mushiya he is referred gentle when he wants to be to whoever he
wants that Be gentle with however he wants to be. So some of the other than able to pay him as well.
		
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			So that this was one of the names of Allah azza wa jal
		
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			very quickly acquainting as it relates to the background of the hadith is really important, because
when we deal with the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam, knowing the reason why the Hadith
was mentioned, helps us to understand the goal and the objective. Knowing why the ayat was, was
revealed helps us to understand the meaning and the true meaning behind the ayat. The s Babineau.
Zulu is one of the really important Sciences of the Quran. And we also have the S Bab of the world
		
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			of the Hadith. Why did he say this? As I mentioned, the basis of this hadith is a cell Bukhari
Muslim, our mother, Aisha, may Allah be pleased with her said that she was with the Prophets Allah
Allah when he was salam in a group of Jewish people came to him sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and
they said to him, as Sam why Lika Yeah, Muhammad as Samuel Alec, a Somali
		
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			they didn't say a Salam ye Wiley. They said a SAM Wallach and Ayesha heard what they said. And as
Sam it means poison, or death or a lack mean you'll be destroyed Muhammad, but they played on the
word as Allah described them in a number of ayat of the Quran, you have reformed and Kereama and
miroir. Very, they play with the words and moving them around. And we have a number of issues with
that happened with Benny and Surah is this is one of the times they did it with the NABI sallallahu
		
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			alayhi wa sallam who came with a religion that makes things easy.
		
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			That's how ALLAH has revealed and he loves Rif. His name is uh, Latif al Helene R Rahman. r Rahim.
He is a Laffel so in his names and his attributes, he is gentle. It's kind Subhana wa taala. He sent
a religion that made things easy for people. You read the law who and you have if I income were
hotel in San Jose, the ephah Allah wants to make things easy for you lighten your load for you,
because mankind has been created weak.
		
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			Many, many if you read laahu becoming useful, well now you need to become a Rasul. Allah wants ease
for you people. He doesn't want to make things difficult for you in your religion or outside of your
religion. Or my job Allah and a confit demon. harridge Mila Tabby Kimmy Brahim, Allah hasn't made
anything difficult for you in your religion. This is the middle of your father Ibrahim law you
caliphal Allahu nevsun in LA was Phatak Lucha musta tomb. Allah doesn't burden you beyond your
		
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			ability. If you can pray standing up, pray sitting down.
		
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			If you're traveling you can combine your Salaat
		
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			if you're sick, you don't have to come to the Juma.
		
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			So ALLAH is revealed and he loves RIF SubhanaHu wa
		
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			dialogue the Prophet said about himself, sal Allahu Allah. He was sending them in the booth to Bill
Hanafi. It is somehow I've been sin by Allah. I've been sin with the religion that makes things easy
for the people. He says Allah Allah, He was telling him about himself and nama Anna Rama to that. I
am a Rama. That is a gift to the people. I'm a gift. So we have many, many, many, many, many a
hadith describing showing how Allah azza wa jal is gentle, and he sent the Nebby who was gentle
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
		
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			just siru what to zero but Shirou would attend a funeral. Make things easy for the people don't make
things difficult for the people give glad tidings and don't run the people away. Take it easy. They
described the hope of the prophets Allah Salam they said kindness Salado bateau Aslan was Salah to
us than when he used to pray the hotbar was short. And his Salah was short and easy. That's the
meaning of Allah is gentle,
		
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			gentle and easy in the way that he has created things and to Dr. Roach, he just didn't say B and
everything came into existence. Subhana wa Taala he created things and there's a process. So the
Dawa of Shabaab of Somalia, Boko Haram of Nigeria altcar either wherever they are Dinesh wherever
they are, the Dow and the understanding of these people who make tech fear and kill people and blow
people up. People make to deed and make exam and force people to follow the opinion on 123 shares.
		
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			This is not easy. This is difficult. It's not the Tao of ease. This deen is a religion that is easy,
and ease is interpreted and it's understood by what the Companions used to do with one ally they
miss not a person come and say I'm not wearing hijab Islam is easy. I'm not praying Salat al Fajr
because Allah said Islam is easy. No, no. But the way that things have been legislated the deen of
Allah is easy. As it relates to the reason why this hadith was mentioned. The Jews came in they said
		
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			Assam why Nick? Yeah, Muhammad. Upon hearing that our mother did what was Whap upon her. She
defended the Sunnah. She defended the Hadith, she defended the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa, it was
said
		
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			and in her anger, she said to them in defending him and what they said death be unto you poison may
you be destroyed. She said to them why they come and moat will Lana,
		
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			Abner and Taylor the tea well last year and made you people die and made you people have death on
you, you descendants of pigs and monkeys.
		
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			That's what she said, rub the alarm on.
		
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			But what she said was inappropriate.
		
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			When the Prophet heard that Salatu was Salam. He said Madeline Yeah, ha I should take it easy. And
that goes to show us a 20 is wajib upon us to defend the Sunnah. But there's a way to defend the
Sunnah a right way and a wrong way. We don't have this thing by any means necessary. As we
mentioned, in one of the Hadith, I did Habiba Honan Matt, we don't believe in this thing about
unconditional love. We don't have unconditional love is conditional. That's a corny statement. It
		
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			goes against the Quran and the Sunnah our love is conditional similar to that. Similar to that is we
don't then defend the Sunnah by hook or crook.
		
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			So the person makes up weak Hadith. And he says, I'm just defending the Prophet I'm just defending
Islam SallAllahu sallam, I wanted people to do the prayer. So I come up with a hadith No.
		
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			We don't defend the heart with what is not the truth. So when he heard that, he said take it easy. I
Isha.
		
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			Nothing, nothing. Has softness put inside of it, except that it makes it beautiful. And nothing.
Softness is taken out of anything. If it's taken out of something. It will make it ugly. When she
heard that she wanted to defend herself. I'm sincere. Ya rasool Allah, I'm sincere. She said Did you
hear what they said? They said a Somali but prophecy. Yes, I heard what they said. But then you hear
what I say back to them. I said why Lake Como whatever you say to me back to you, while he and his
		
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			dua is Mr. Jab in de la his
		
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			dua Allah is going to accept his dua dua is not Mr. Jab.
		
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			So that's the reason why the prophets Allah Allahu alayhi. Wa it was sending them mentioned this
tremendous Hadith. Everybody has to make a struggle. Take it easy. Be gentle. Who in his right mind
can get his head around the individual who? The little baby and a toddler when he is old, two years
old, maybe even less is crying because that's the way the baby expresses itself. It's cold, it's
hot, it's wet, it's hungry. Something about the situation has his baby upset. He can't speak so he
		
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			starts to cry, she starts to cry, has colic in the stomach. Who in his right mind would take that
baby and shake that baby into the get shaken baby syndrome? And he kills the baby because he
dislodges the brain of the baby from its proper please. Where's the gentleness of that? Where's the
gentleness of molesting children? Where is that? Where is that?
		
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			Cheryl Islamic Wu Tang Mia Rahmatullah la used to say about Atlas sunnah al Hadith. He said that the
people of the Sunnah are the Alamo. Nice Bill Harvey. Well, our humbleness will help the people of
the Sunnah. They know Allah better than everybody else. They know about his names as attributes.
They know about the fit of Islam, the hadith of Islam, better than everybody else. Today, coming
into the masjid, one of our brothers who I never saw him before, I don't know if he's here or not.
		
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			But the last rule has started. And he disconnected himself from the last row he came in. And he got
behind the Imam right there, he was disconnected about 10 people in the last row. I was putting my
coat in a corner went to him before he did his tech battle to the drama. So what are you doing? Get
within line, without offering any argument, he just went to the line. But he came up here before he
left and he said, Where's the deal. And we liked that. That's our Dawa. That's how to be and he did
		
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			it with respect. We explained to him there was already aligned there. So now, starting from the
right from the left, that's irrelevant. Now. Now you got to get with the Jamaat because the Nabhi
mentioned something a lot he was sending them. Whoever connects the row Allah will connect him
Whoever breaks the row allow a break and
		
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			allow a break him. He was gentle and respectful. That'd be gentle and respectful,
		
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			gentle and respectful amongst ourselves, not rough and tough. The hop is with you when you know the
hop, he doesn't know the hop. But when you take the person who's thirsty and he wants to drink, you
take the water and you put it in his face like that and said I gave him the water. No man, you
didn't give them the water you disrespected him. You have to bring the water on a nice tray, the
best tray you got in the crib.
		
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			And the nice picture and in the nice cup. And then you say to him the font the This is yours is
nice, cool, succulent water. He sits down and he's going to drink it. And he's going to take that
knowledge from you in sha Allah is Allah mentioned in the Quran?
		
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			He said in the Quran, Allah to Stowey and Hustler to Willis Savior to it fat bility here asking for
either Levy baileigh Cover Boehner who are Dawa toolkit and know who will lead you in Hammy. Mama
you look pa in the levena sobro mama EULA Ka in level husband NaVi.
		
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			He said that the husband and the CD Are they not equal good and bad is not equal. So when there's a
problem between you and people push back with what is better it viability here asset now by any
means necessary, Allah said push back with what is best with Jad Delhomme bility here I said, are
you with them in the best way? Don't argue just for the sake of arguing. We're having a debate and
it's an argument. I'm upset he upset I'm not listening to him. He's not listening to me. And it's
		
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			not about the truth. It's about who's going to overpower the other opponent. So the ISA pushed back
with what is best if you do that, then the person who you have animosity with and you have with him
I doubt he will become a person who's like he's your bosom buddy. And no one would be able to do
this except the one who Allah has given him summer and no one will be able to do this step the one
who has been given a great portion have Alvine so the point here is a Darwin Elia whiny, it has his
		
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			weight. And his way is what the Prophet taught us. SallAllahu it was setting him he acts as
companions a question I ask you this question as well. It's a slew of never we? He said to them,
should I tell you people who the Hellfire has been made haram upon
		
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			him and he has been made haram on the hellfire. Allah could have just made him haram on the
hellfire. He made the Hellfire haram upon him and he is haram upon the Hellfire in that both of them
they say yes yes Allah Who was that? He said some Allah who it was salam Kullu Hey vienen Leonin
Kareem son, the Hellfires haram on everybody who was Hey in Legion.
		
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			Hey Linnaean hennion means he is easy on himself. Emily Jesse the garlic a haka, NaVi Nikolic
Kalika. He is easy on himself. He doesn't work all day every day. He takes rest. He doesn't travel
all No, yes, it gave his eyes rest. Got to take it easy.
		
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			And also is haram on every llegan.
		
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			Now, if you ask the average Arab, what's the difference between Haiti and layin? They'll say Kelly
Mactan Motorolla differ time they are synonyms. They are not synonyms. Or why would the Prophet
mentioned both of them with a while showing the Messiah is different Kulu Hadrian were layin. He's
easy on himself lay in and is easy and other people lean you.
		
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			Lean before the salah. He used that word Salallahu it was selling them lean who be ADA Quantico. Be
gentle between your brothers when you pray and don't stick your feet way out. Don't put your feet on
other people's feet, stepping on his feet, trying to do the Sunnah. The one who does that you're not
being gentle.
		
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			And your youthful exuberance and your desire to practice the Sunnah. And that's beautiful. You want
to do that. But the guy next to you he doesn't know that he may be Hanafy doesn't know that his feet
should be next to yours. Just started praying he doesn't know by you putting your foot on his foot
and pushing like that. He's gonna look at you and say what kind of what kind of FIP is this kind of
Masjid is this kind of salad is this. You're not being hanging. You're not being lazy and you're not
		
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			being easy on yourself not being easy on him because the way you have your legs stretched out as
well as not even normal natural. Be gentle. Be easy with the people he said the Hellfires haram, and
every person who's easy on himself easy on the people. He's easily accessible and his son is not
complicated, easy to understand, not complicated, doesn't want you to read his mind doesn't expect
you to know what he's thinking and he didn't even begin to start to talk easy to get along with. So
		
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			this hadith when he has a tremendous Hadith from the authentic sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu it
was suddenly miss worth our while inculcating it and developing it within ourselves. That doesn't
mean you're not sure deed on watershed did that you're not rough and tough. You have to be rough and
tough sometimes. But the general rule is easy. Take it easy relax. Last thing that I want to
mention, and a lot of things can be mentioned. But the last thing we want to mention here today, and
		
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			a lot can be mentioned
		
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			is that in being rough and tough, there's going to be a problem when you're roughing tough in the
wrong place because we know that the ollie of Allah, they were the companions of the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Abu Bakar Marathe man and he and the rest of those companions may Allah
be pleased with them.
		
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			And Allah said to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for Billa let him and Allah He linked
Elohim with the haven for local funding rally the lung fog dome and howling it was a Rama from Allah
Yeah, Mohammed that you were easy towards these people. Because had you been rough and tough with
them? They would have dispersed from amongst you.
		
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			Prophet sallallahu was sending was with a group of people who loved him. Loved him with a love
unlike any bodies love in this Masjid towards anybody who you love.
		
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			Your mothers, your father's your babies, your wives, you don't love them the way the Companions love
the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam That's why Allah chose them. Rasul Allah is mystified and
Mokhtar which Tebah is chosen divinely. And those companions are Mustafa Al matar own all of them.
Allah chose them divine they loved him tremendously. But Allah told him, it was a Rama Yeah,
Mohammed that Allah bestowed upon you that you were easy with these companions, because if you were
		
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			rough and tough, they would have dispersed and ran away Abu Bakar man they would have ran away
because the fitrah that Allah created the people on Fifth Allah let the veteran NASA ally.
		
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			The fit is that people don't like don't accept. don't appreciate people being rough and tough with
them. So as a husband, if I'm roughing
		
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			are tough with my wife. It's a problem.
		
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			And even if she stays, even if she stays, her happiness is going to be compromised my children. None
of us want our children while they're hiding and thinking, we don't know that they're on their
PlayStation playing fortnight, we know what time it is. So while they already are doing their thing,
you don't want your kids saying, Man, I hate I hate my dad. I hate my dad.
		
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			Or he's playing a fortnight needs to get power shot my dad, I shot him, I killed him. You don't want
that. You want your children saying I love my dad. Because when it's time to be tough and
protective. He's about that business. And he's about that side. But generally speaking, when he's in
the house when he's with us, he's easy Hey, in laying in the seat, so I look in the audience, all
these faces is an ally and they come. And I see that we come from places like my soul from Africa,
		
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			North Africa come from Africa. The men in Africa many times are a bit tough and rough. That's our
culture. Tough and rough. No, we have to change that. We can't be on that. The other issue
Lithuania's, it will be worth our while, but I won't do it. Because we want to give the brother up
to need to say a few words, it will be worth our while to go over a number of the many examples
about the gentleness of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. This is just one of them this idea,
		
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			but the yahood
		
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			with the Yahoo. Look how he responded to the hatred. So we have this thing in our religion, love
tolerance, in the face of hatred and hostility. How that the Prophet sallallaahu was sent him deal
with that. He didn't have a knee jerk reaction. He was a man, I can I kill Gelatt he was an
intelligent man. No knee jerk reaction. And then he regrets what he said and what he did. He Jaquan
Wakulla defend Ocalan your total men who beware of the speech that you have to apologize for later
		
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			on. Divorced a third divorce you say something you do something you regret. It wasn't worth all
that. But I'll just take one example. In addition to this, and we're done. And there are many
examples like the man who took his sword while he was sleeping and put the knife to him and said,
Who's going to save you from me right now? Yeah, Muhammad,
		
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			the Prophet sallallahu he was sitting with his Yaqeen and with this Tawakkol without blinking said,
Allah, Allah, Allah, the man dropped the saw a prophet Muhammad picked it up and put it on him. He
said, Now who's gonna save you for me?
		
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			The man said Take it easy.
		
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			Yeah, Mohammed Khan.
		
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			Khan.
		
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			I hidden behind Take Take it easy. Treat me a better treat me good. He said do you bear witness to
lie? You lie it Allah. Muhammad Rasul Allah. The man said, No, he didn't kill him in foursome.
		
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			He said, But I promise you, I'll never fight against you again. Because the man came with the intent
of killing them. hostility, hatred, and then he had the right to do with him. But he didn't deal
with them in that way. He said, Okay, you can go. The man went to his people and they said, did you
get them? Did you get them? He said no. And he told him the story that people embrace them and slam
		
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			the people that embrace them and slam
		
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			Vu and Hawaii sera grabbing the Nibi in his collar and saying this money is not your money, not the
money of your father. You're not fearing just give me some more it's money. I'm gonna say Allah so
Allah let me chop his neck off. He's a munafo Rasul Allah didn't say no, he's not I'm gonna ask.
Because you don't say that. To him. Salatu was Salam. You don't treat the Sunnah. That way. When you
treat the Sunnah in the Hadith and that type of way, then that's co freuen. That's tech VB. That's
		
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			is his that can't do that. He said, No, no, no. Do you want the people to say that I kill my
companions. The news is going to spread Chinese whispers is the people not going to hear what he
did. They're just going to hear if you go against what Muhammad says he'll kill you sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam.
		
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			So that man deserves to get done right now. And those groups that I mentioned, barley, Ban elkaar,
either a doer ish, Boko Haram, all of those, all of them. They're the Afra of that man, the baby
chips, the baby chicks, had Omar killed them on us. But from wisdom that's with Allah.
		
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			He gave the man the money went away. He said Salatu was Salam is going to come out of that man's
loins, a group of people go in and out of religion way that era goes in and out of the game.
		
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			So we have too many examples that are well known. And I end with the last example that will lie here
when we should study this hadith. We can hear
		
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			read enough, and that's the Bedouin that urinated in the masjid.
		
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			So imagine someone comes into the masjid right now.
		
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			And he exposes his our on a chroma Kamala, and he just starts urinating in the masjid putting the
jazz on the floor in front of everybody.
		
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			If that would have happened, I'm going to be the first one
		
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			to turn the table over when to deal with it.
		
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			Some people prey on the chairs that can't get over there. They're going to scream out, get that guy.
		
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			They themselves can't do anything, but they're gonna scream out. Because we're all going to be
disgusted, that knee jerk reaction, what?
		
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			That man pulled his stuff down and he started urinating, and the companions had the natural
response. We have to make an amoeba model and negen amonkar. And they got up to go deal with that
man and they were going to deal with them.
		
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			And the Prophet told them Salatu was Salam. Easy, easy, take it easy. Stop, everybody stop. Let him
finish.
		
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			Because if you run and you touch him, he's gonna get into jass on more people in the problem is
going to spread. So we have to manage the problem. And you can't manage problems when you're angry
and crazy and insane. There's a problem. It's a problem. Becoming angry just makes the problem
exasperated, more. Gotta manage the problem. We got to get rid of it, or we have to keep it
confined. When the man finish. He told the people not the man he told the people you you don't want
		
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			to beat him up. You go get the water and come you clean it up. Not the man you you clean it up.
		
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			He saved Bedouin community.
		
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			He told that man some Allah who it was sending them these masajid not to see who feed her shade
woman handle bowl when I cover when nama here the decree Allah was solid, what can I tell the Quran
the masjid is not built for this stuff. It's not built for your urine. It's not built for your dirt,
your pollution, your food, your gum, your soda, your sweets, your chocolate, let's training for
that. Now for that is built for the remembrance of Allah sitting there sit in making of cod and
		
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			dhikr is built for the rules is built for the Salah is built for Joomla is built for this for for
taraweeh is built for people sitting reading the Quran that's what it's built for. The man was
impressed with how the Prophet dealt with him SallAllahu it was set it up. He made a dua Oh ALLAH.
		
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			forgive me and forgive Muhammad only and don't forgive nobody else. The Prophet heard that he
couldn't hear anything that was haram except it was wedged up upon him to put the best construction
to it because if he's quiet, it's the Sunnah, if he's quiet and that thing was said it's the truth.
Yeah, Rasul Allah, let me chop his head off. He's a monad. If he wasn't a monad fit people to say
no, we don't say that. Don't say that. That's hypocrisy, the man grabbing the Nibi by the neck like
		
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			that. You can't claim you love the Sunnah, your actions, they say that you're Elia.
		
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			So when the man said what he said, Brother, mommy say, hey bedwin Men, Allah is Rama and forgiveness
is very wide, very wide. And you have restricted it. You made it real, you know, restricted just for
you and me, which goes to show a 20 The Tao of the karate is a problem because, as an Imam, they
brought some stories about some of the karate going around the Kaaba. And one cottage you said to
the other cottagey at the Kaaba, you see all of these people, all of these people, none of them
		
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			going to the agenda. Only you and me, only you and me, because they were on that stuff. Everybody
else is not a real Muslim except us.
		
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			And at that moment, that intelligent man he said, what the agenda that Allah has said is with it's
like the heavens and the earth. Only you and me going in me it just you and me and nobody else he
say yes, well lucky. That one said to him, Well, you can go in here by yourself and he left the
dollar the cottage because he knew this bow is too tough. That's too tough. Only you and me on the
truth. That's it. Only your 123 shields that same day the only ones who know know that that was too
		
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			rough is too tough.
		
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			So that was our NABI SallAllahu. It was sending them with his gentleness and his kindness to the
people but we don't want anybody to get it stuck misunderstand. That doesn't mean you don't give the
hope and when you give the hope
		
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			but you're like you are wanting the community of an army that's about to get them as they said about
the Prophet his eyes will be come read some a lot he was telling me his voice would get loud and his
anger will become more increased. Because at that time in place, this time when you have to put that
particular sunnah on the table as opposed to being gentle, but even in that is still gentleness in
the hotbar. And that the Imam of the Hadith, he has to call the people to that which is going to
		
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			benefit them in their lives and not talk about stuff that's on the moon, and they're on planet
Earth. So with that being the case of 20 a ref, ref, ref. Be gentle, be easy. Take it easy work on
this issue. And we all have this especially like where I come from where I come from. We have a lot
of testosterone. We have a lot of fake, a lot of fake pride. It's fake and it's not real. Then the
beast, Salah Salem had the ability to take a single man and break them into half break them up.
		
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			Because he had the power of not so many men, so many camels as he used to say he had the strength of
30 camels sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. It take any person who kinda came challenged him or beat you
in a wrestling match would you become a Muslim man say yet, but Muhammad took him and slammed them
three times. And that man became a Muslim man lobby, please let him know in this some superhuman
strength here. Salallahu it was. So the issue requires FIP but generally speaking, the person has to
		
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			be gentle kind, the woman has to be gentle kind.
		
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			With that being said, We'll take this opportunity now in shot law to introduce our brothers going to
be the first few words that he's going to give his first trip here in the UK and he came to our
mosque first to give the hope to Juma tomorrow. We just came from having dinner. And I was thinking
about how it used to be with annual Hadith in the past when people used to come to the city for the
first time and how they treated that individual who came in the people who came with him. They were
		
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			Mr. Hadith in the past and already from the past. This was a monumental situation monumental. Now no
doubt we're not on the level of Imam and Armin Shin Abdullah boo boo Mubarak and people like that
praqma To Lolly, but nonetheless, we're students of knowledge and we are given Dowell Allah. So I
wanted to be the first one really to introduce
		
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			our brother and our Habib.
		
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			mufti, being that being that I've known him for quite some time. And since I've known him since I've
known him without breaking his neck was back or anything like that. I was very impressed with this
thing about the focus on a hadith, the Hadith disciples, and what that stands for, because today
knowledge is like a more either is preaching, it's just preaching. And it has its place by real
knowledge when it comes from sitting down and having a min hedge in what you learn in whether it's
		
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			the Arabic language, the Quran, the hadith of fit, or tafseer, whatever it is, if you don't learn
with a min hedge, your knowledge is going to be like Swiss cheese with with holes all in it. So I'm
all for and I'm all about this new injection into our hearts of our Shabaab about focusing on how to
study Hadith and memorize Hadith and so forth and so on. This is one of the reasons why before all
of our classes we get the brothers to read the Hadith and we left out our boy ASA today he was saved
		
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			because he was driving a car and I know he's tired. But nonetheless, without any further ado, we
welcome this brother without arms open we asked Elijah Joe that has come in here to these cities,
these Dr here that Allah is going to put it in his magazine of Hassan that yomo Kiana and that he
leaves a good fear and a good effort inshallah or Atha in the hearts in the minds of the young
brothers in the young sisters who are eagerly waiting to begin to listen to him. So may Allah azza
		
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			wa jal accept it from him separate it from us, and may He Subhana wa Tada bring our hearts together
the way they used to be back in the day 15