Abu Usamah At-Thahabi – Hadith #13 & #14 – Tazkiyah – Purification Part 2 – The Nature of the Deen

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The importance of knitting and practicing the religion to achieve spiritual], [The segment discusses the actions of the heart that affect one's behavior and actions, including loss, intangible, and fear. The message of the Prophet's teachings and the importance of avoiding struggles and making the right choice between harder and easy things is emphasized. The segment also touches on the negative reactions of people to extreme weather conditions and the importance of being gentle and gentle with others. The segment ends with a mention of an upcoming event and a news story about a woman who was angry at a family member.

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Bedard tomb was color be the Eitan bolano color bulletin fitna with there were two Hadith today we
started one in our last class about two three weeks ago before there eat and it's the Hadith of the
Prophet salallahu Salam was talking about the importance of the Muslim purifying himself and making
		
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			the Skia to knifes. That's good to knifes. Everybody here if you are mature man mature woman have to
make jihad against your knifes. Your heart, which is not brought under control can lead you to a lot
of problems. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa ala he was sending them gave the similar tool of the
heart and he said methyl Alba methyl Risha.
		
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			The example of the heart is like the example of the feather the feather to Colombo Hurriya, the
flatten, the wind blows it back and forth in the desert. So the feather is not going to have any
resistance against the wind, it's going to go wherever the wind blows it, because the wind is so
strong and the feathers so light and weak. He said the heart is like that, the heart will be blown
around from pillar to post. If a person doesn't take care of it. By developing in it does key it to
		
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			knifes. The way we developed as Keith enought is by simply practicing the religion, like a solid in
the salaat, the 10 100 fracture the salaat prevents you from doing the lewd things and the bad
things if you pray in the right way. And the month of Ramadan while you're fasting in the month of
Ramadan causes your eyes to go down and it causes you to get in control of your desires and that's
why the Prophet told most of you ship apps along when he was sending them you're not sure to Shabaab
		
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			Minister timing coming back fairly yet there's a witch woman name yesterday Friday he was so moved
you young people who in this mystery right now hear me right now men and women, whoever for amongst
you has the money and you have the ability to get married and hurry up and get married. And if you
can't get married, you don't have the money you don't have the ability, then you should fast. He
said that fasting would put your desire to get married down. That's dusky at the knifes we just
		
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			completed our hygiene, hygiene hydrogen. One of the lessons one of the major lessons of an hydrogen
is that when you perform the high h you see the universality of Ellis land that's the lesson. You
see how at high H everyone going around that Kaabah everybody who is in Mina, everybody who's in
honor fems deady for making dua to Allah with his Rama and he looks like the next guy.
		
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			So when you go to high ch if you are a businessman, if you're a rich person if you from this tribe,
you are racist, you go to hygiene you're supposed to learn that in the lives of Hannah with Dawn as
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			the one who has the most tough call from among choosable as the best as well as most Taqwa. So while
people are at Mount Arafat, and it's hot, and you have to make dua all day, there's no one in his
right mind. I don't care how racist he is. I don't care how rich he is and how arrogant he is. If he
just sits there all day doing autofac All day he's not doing any dua not making any Vicus all he
does is eat
		
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			We may even waste time looking at his mobile phone. No person like that, in his right mind is going
to look at a person who he sees who's different color than him lesser in the social order. He's not
going to say I'm better than him. Just because I'm from this group or that group, and he wasn't
doing any work Hodge teaches you that. So practicing the arcane of Al Islam, they will naturally
give you this key to knifes. They will give you purification of your heart of your soul. A prophet
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in the Lord's became in the globe Boehner speak at the Rock Mangopay
liberal cave he has shot all of the people's hearts on between the two fingers of a rock man Allah
He changes them how he wants to change them. So there's the person over there who he doesn't follow
his desires because he has this key it enough's. So he's going to have patience, and he's going to
cause himself to be patient and so forth, so on. And as it relates to the actions of the hearts as
		
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			it relates to Eman as we mentioned already and Eman to the people with the Sunnah consist of the
statements with your tongue in order to become a Muslim. You have to say you believe in Allah azza
wa jal if you don't say it, and you have the ability to say you don't become a Muslim, you have to
say it. The man came and say God also law tell me something that if I only can ask you, I can't ask
anyone else. He says say I believe in Allah and beat up right. So it consists of your statements
		
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			like the law that in that. Second of all, it consists of the actions. If you are a true believer,
you have to pray. You have to fast you have to make Salah you have to make vicar you have to go to
the masjid. You have to make an unremarkable financial monka. And all of those things are going to
manifest on your limbs. You don't do any actions any BS, but you say it with your tongue. There's no
difference between that person in the monastic your Toluna be a little snotty him malaise. If you
		
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			call obey Him, they say with their tongues that which is not in their hearts. So you have to say,
and you also have to do and the third one misses the point. It consists of what you believe in your
heart and if your card what's in your heart, and I'm telling you as it relates to the knifes and
what's in your heart, that is more legit, than the actions on your limbs. The actions of your heart
are more important than the actions of your limbs, the actions of your limbs of praying and some and
		
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			given Sotherton, Zakat, and hygiene, all of that walk to the masjid all that's important.
		
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			But the actions of your heart are more important, more watching. What are the actions of the heart?
The actions of the heart are things like loss, your sincerity, like having a Tawakkol that's in your
heart, snapping your limbs. That's you having your pain and having no doubt no doubt you're gonna
die. You're mukaiyama Allah is gonna ask you slam is the truth. Rasulullah is the truth. The Quran
is a trope, some people and I'm not talking about with swas OCD people. I'm talking about regular
		
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			people. Sometimes they sit there and they start doubting and then we'll have your pin. Is your mochi
Yama true. Am I really doing the right thing? That yuckiness from the inside of your heart to see it
to knifes if you purify it? These things be clear for you these things will help you al Inaba.
Rajat, Raj is hoping for Allah existing, hoping that Allah azza wa jal will accept from you your
Dawa your efforts your Salah, your soul, but you also the opposite of that is you have fear that
		
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			Allah is not going to accept it from you. You have health all of those issues are issues of the
heart actions of the heart that connected with the issue of a test Kia does Kia to knifes Allah
sending up Quran cut F la Herman's a chi ha ha them and de sa whoever takes care of his knifes and
he purifies it from ignorance. From arrogance, from envy, from jealousy, from anger. He has the
musket of anger management issues. He's still punching walls.
		
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			At this age, he's still kicking the tires to the to the car with his foot.
		
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			This kid to knifes that has sought that situation out. That's what today's hadith is all about. We
started already Allah Tala mentioned about Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu it was sending them who will
who will levy basophil Amina, Rasul and men who are yet to it when you say key him when you label
whom will keytab will matter when Callum and Kabul Luffy ball and mobian Allah is the One who sent
His message
		
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			Just Allah what He was saying.
		
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			And he sent his message it to the unleaded people. And it was a NEMA from Allah that He sent him to
them because Rasul Allah gave them the test Kia he cleaned them up.
		
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			He cleaned them up, he may come or haram he may riba haram, getting high haram, the Mima haram.
		
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			He made the good things halau as Allah mentioned in the Quran, the dirty things, the filthy things,
he made it haram, the good pure things halal.
		
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			So we described the Prophet sallallahu wasallam as being the person who purified them, and he reads
to them the Book and he reads them the hikma meaning the Quran, so the Prophet came from ALLAH, why
do you send them 24 Teskey to knifes. He said sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Allah in the booth to
Luton, the Mikado Mala flock, I have been sent to perfect the good character to perfect it. So he
used to say to his companions, things that other companions will see and witness and learn from. You
		
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			said to one of his companions in fika, Latane, you hit boom Allah, you have two characteristics that
Allah loves you agentive your Haleem with your wife, your children and the people, people under your
supervision, especially you're under bathe, you are gentle with them. You're Helene. And the other
characteristic that Allah loves is you have a net. You're now Mr. Agile. You're not like a young man
who's always in haste and rush and you can't wait for anything. Elijah to two minutes shaytaan being
		
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			in haste is from Shaytaan driving too fast, leaving your house coming in too fast. You're gonna lose
something not to forget something. Allah loves the one who has any take your time. They come in and
ask you a question about something that somebody your family member an issue, who said that you have
to answer the question right now. You say we're waiting, we're waiting. Give me a day give me they
told me. There's a fitna and let me think about it. The one who is Mustafa gel, Allah doesn't have
		
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			that unless you absolutely have to be musaajid different issue. So those examples of examples have
to Skia to knifes not the Prophet gave the people and there are many different what Kathy Roma here
they just so many a prophet said about themselves some Allah who it was sending them in them and
have become a layer. We're up robic mini mega the sing yomo piano T A ha cinecon locka. The one from
amongst you that would be closest to me. And Jana is not the one who gave the most talks. Who gave
		
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			the most hope but it's not the one who spoke is the shortest. It's not the one who was late. He is
the longest. It's not the one like that. The closest one from among shoot to me, yo mo Kiana. And
the most beloved to me, yo mo piano is the one who has the best o'clock. So the guy is practicing
Islam. He's giving Dawa. She's wearing hijab coming to the masjid student of knowledge and they want
to be on the Sunnah. But when you look at him, he's dirty. Hygiene problem. He's Eliah anger
		
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			management issues, doesn't take care of them that manner swears curses lies, all of that, and he
really believes is going to be in the agenda, and he wants to inshallah we're all dealing gently.
Shala but this hadith says what you're seeing and doing is not right. The most beloved people to the
prophets of Allah, he was sending the closest Pete to Him, you will know chiama the one who has the
best and the most the best o'clock. And what is the o'clock is those things and plenty that tell
		
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			people when they look at you and listen to you that you're not Majnoon.
		
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			You come from good stock. The Imam gets on the men but he has to give the hotbar when he gives that
quote, but he has to come out to the people with edit and o'clock. So that when he talks that people
go away saying he talked with intelligence with proofs it made sense. They don't go away saying
anything other than that. If he got up and he was screaming and shouting and taking his Koofi
offense just got they say that guy is crazy.
		
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			And you also sit in in the audience, you have a religious responsibility to show a clock, the way
you sit. The way you dress. What colors you're wearing, what you're not wearing the way you look,
guy come up in our Masjid he has a leather jacket on and this weather he got our Mohegan he had cut
like this with earrings and we're gonna say the sky is men's noon.
		
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			Some things wrong with him. We're gonna say he's not a Muslim coming to the masjid like that. So
we're going to treat him in a nice way to bring into Islam. Well, if he found out he was a Muslim
already
		
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			We're going to see what happened to him. Something has happened to him.
		
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			So o'clock in the religion of Islam, it is vital it's important Allah said to the Prophet in the
Quran subhanho wa Taala we're Nicola Allah hood open are you on a high level of a clock? Yeah
Mohammed
		
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			Naka Jacqueline rasuluh min and forsaken Prophet Mohammed is just like us. And he showed us what
ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada wants from the human being and that he showed us this test kit. So today's
Hadith deals with five things of Tuskegee to knifes that the Prophet mentioned. So Melania was
settled and he said it stuck in my heart and it Turkey and muharram to come out but the nice stay
away from those things that are haram and you will be the one who has the most of the bad that the
		
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			real eBUY does Salah and all of that is pretty bad, but shaken Islam if you knew Tamia
		
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			he said that Lea Bader is the Eastman German they couldn't imagine a Bula Huhtala Yoruba who met him
a while will have al a via Hera will Bettina worship is everything that Allah loves, from the
actions in the statements that are apparent or hidden. So the bad is drinking water and saying
Bismillah to get nourishment eating food is a bad thing and cinema Latham and open up the door. A
bad did not listen, I'm just not praying is everything from what Allah loves anything that he loves,
		
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			from the statements and the actions, the statements that are powering and the actions that are
apparent, the statements and the actions that are hidden? What are the actions that are hidden fear
in class, and we are keen to work on it l Inaba, all of those issues. So the Prophet said the first
thing sub Allah will send to his companions, who would take these five things and I'm about to tell
you, if you take them and spread them and practice them and teach people about them. I Buddha said
		
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			I'll do it. Yeah, Rasul Allah, I'll take them. He said, number one, fear those things which are
haram and you will be the abbot the nuts, the one with the most the bad. And again, anybody who is
just not prayer,
		
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			fear the Muharram from the Muharram. And the greatest Muharram is to be disrespectful to your
parents. Someone said, as Abdullah in the school said, the man acts Seattle sulla. What is the
biggest sin? He said that you make ship with Allah? He said in the NAFTA, that was the biggest sin.
He said, The day that your bad to your parents, your bad to your parents again. He's in the masjid.
He's a student. He's trying to be a Muslim. He wants to do the right thing. He's better than many of
		
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			the people who he's around classmates, friends, relatives, he's better. But he never considers
Yaffe, you're really disgustingly disrespectful to your mother and your father or your mother or
your father. Because your father divorced your mother. You don't like him.
		
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			Okay, that doesn't give you the right to be disrespectful to your dad. That's from the worst, from
the worst o'clock. So the point is everything it took in Muharram to come up with the nurse
secretary, he says Allahu alayhi wa sallam one of the Bema Kasam Allah who like at the Khan Academy,
the nurse, be satisfied and content with what Allah has given you in terms of wealth, you will be
the most evident nurse, you will be sufficient. You won't be jealous about people. You won't be
		
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			jealous about what he has when it and you know in this society we live in, you know why Tik Tok, and
all these things are so popular, these influences because people, people, people, they look at other
people, and they think other people look success, and we make other people have all this money and
attention, when in reality, most of those people are not happy. Most of them are happy.
		
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			Be satisfied with the beauty that Allah gave you be satisfied with a job that Allah gave you the
house that he gave you, the intellect that he gave you. Some people every time something happens, he
says, a good snooker player is I wish I was that when I wish everything is good wishes, and be
satisfied with who you want. Does that mean as young people You guys shouldn't work hard to become
rich? Does that mean you shouldn't work hard to take your company to the next level? That doesn't
		
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			mean does that mean you should work hard to become independent doesn't mean that but whatever Allah
has given you don't look at those people above you, it's against the religion. And you're going to
turn into one of those people who has has said and
		
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			you're going to be jealous, you know, in our communities. This is popular in the culture of the
people I'm sitting with sitting in front of me is popular in many cultures, but some they have it
worse than others. Remember the Hadith of the prophets of Allah what He was the lemma, and the
little man who is filming come with some guru element
		
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			We'll focus on Vatika edge doodle. And let us do Namath ally Alikum that's a principle now lives.
You live by it, you'll be better off you don't live by you're going to have problems. He said, Look
at those people focus and look and consider the people who have lesser than you. And don't look at
the people have more than you. If you look at the people who have less than than you, that it makes
you more appreciative of the nemah that Allah bestowed upon you. I'm sitting here and I see people
		
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			in front of me. I think every single one of them even the youngest from amongst us, they're gonna
have dinner tonight. If they didn't have it already. They're gonna go to sleep tonight. And it may
be a little bit hot but they got fans they got air conditioning open up the window. There are people
not going to sleep with any food tonight. They are Muslims are not going to sleep tonight. They're
gonna get killed tonight because they have no stability. There are people who are so hot. We be
		
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			complaining about the weather. There's a hadith the Prophet says some Allahu alayhi salam Bobigny
Adam, like the I love the Quran. In an insanity rugby like a *. We're in no who other than
Nicolas Shaheed mankind is forever ungrateful to his Lord. And verily He bears witness to that. And
his self ungrateful. Allah gave him so much stuff. The weather changed the other day we had a
heatwave and people will say it's hot in the masjid. Oh, it's Hi my car. Bye guys. Hi, my house,
		
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			walking down the street. Now in the street. All he does this complaint, man, we think I can make it
cooler. Nobody can make it cooler. Muslims don't make that kind of complaint. That's the complaint
of the mafia pin and the complaint of the kuffaar When When I first came to staff to go out and make
jihad with the prophets of Allah who suddenly said it's too hot. They will just say it's so hot out
it's so hot. Allahu Taala told the prophet told narrow Jahannam I should do Hello Can we have a
		
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			wound? Tell them the heat of the Hellfire is worth more than this. If they only understood and they
know.
		
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			So he said about the believer
		
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			that a Saba
		
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			and Nibbana Adam either ASABE her Carla his whether ASABE who? Burg Carla, he's the son of Adam is
the person who
		
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			is hot. it'll fill is hot.
		
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			And if it's cold, you'll say oh, it's too cold.
		
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			A few months ago when it was cold. He was saying I can't wait to the summertime. Now Summertime is
so cool. I can't wait till winter time. Yeah, summer winter. No. He lives in a situation and he
doesn't complain unnecessarily. unnecessarily. It's not from Glass Law.
		
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			And unfortunately, the older people suffer from this a lot, especially older women. You call you say
how you doing Tyler? How you doing?
		
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			My auntie and right away? She's Uh oh, I got a headache. Oh, my hand my high blood pressure. Oh,
nobody loves me. They won't come pick me up. Oh, life and so I know people like that. Oh, people.
		
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			Hey, guys, don't laugh at the old people. Yeah.
		
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			But they had that thing. Don't be one of those people. You actually get on the bus. The man that
driver doesn't know you. He's just been courteous to you. And he says good morning. How are you? And
you say my wife doesn't want to be married to me anymore. Man. She wasn't asked you all of that.
		
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			Now as for the one who has a complaint, and he has the heart to come complain, Allah's Prophet
complaints from Allah who it was setting them, Robin cometa, who have a Khurana Jura, he complained,
oh my lord, my people abandon the Quran. They don't read the Quran. They need this Quran is mere
recitation and hearing it and recite it it is better for them and their families, but they don't do
it. So the Prophet complained about the condition. I will buck a complaint about Ramadan.
		
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			So the Companions complaint in the Quran in surah 10 Mujaddid Allah, God semi Allahu COVID Leti to
je de Luca Feasel, jihad, ducky and Allah will Allah Who Yes, Maru Taha with a homage to Howard
Akuma. So what Allah said he heard that complaint of the lady who was complaining to Allah about her
husband, and she came to the Prophet to tell the profitable has been so she had a right to complain.
Up no press. Don't anybody see it think I'm telling you to suffer in silence. You can complain to
		
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			get that loom off of you. But we should try to not complain about things that we can't change and
try not to complain openly. That's why Allah is setting up Quran first, bear subbrand Jamila, be
patient with the beautiful patients. The Sabra Jamil is the patients that you
		
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			Have where you don't complain Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam if food was given to him, if he liked it,
he ate it. If he didn't like it, he left it. He didn't say it's too hot. Too cold. It's too salty is
too vase. He didn't complain. His wife gave him the full. He didn't say, Oh, you don't cook like my
mother.
		
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			You don't even cook like my little sister. He says that to his wife. Too much salt is student Sula
wasn't like that. You give them the food, you're likely to eat them like you won't eat it. They gave
him some visits. But so I look at the lizard. He didn't touch it. They say Allah. Allah is a haram.
He said, No, it's not haram. It's just not from the food that I eat. But he didn't complain about
it.
		
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			And that's why when that is important,
		
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			that to say a turkey inlet Turkey, when called to America in the movement. Don't be afraid except to
a person with Taqwa a believer with Taqwa is going to make haram haram Holla Holla. And don't let
anyone eat your food who's not a man? Because the man when you give him the fool, too hot too salty
is weird. It says he won't complain. Because he has duck walk. And he man you gave him a boiled egg
you come into the house for lunch. You expect to get rice and he gives you a bowl egg and some tuna
		
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			fish.
		
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			And he says Bismillah as if it ain't nobody's business, the one would tuck was going to eat them
full and then after finishing half of his that I was gonna make dua for him and say, What are we
gonna go do now? But the one with no Dean and the man he kind of goes, you didn't know he had the
nerve to give me a bone egg. You had the nerve? No, seriously. It's like, you know some of our
Muslims from China. They eat things we don't eat bats and things like that. Haram you can't eat bats
		
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			can't eat monkeys. That's haram. consensus of the lemma, because they have fangs came monkeys, can
you bats, but they eat things like
		
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			grasshoppers, snails be moving around in the soup, and it'd be moving around. If someone put that in
front of us. It'd be hard not to say is
		
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			No, it'd be hard will be hard pressed not to make a sound What are you doing?
		
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			But the movement is the one who follows the Sunnah.
		
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			Don't say any no complaint. So from the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, if he saw something
that he liked, he said, and hamdulillah and let it be near and mighty he Tim Musala had or praise to
Allah, who righteous deeds are complete by him. If he saw something that he didn't like, he didn't
complain. He said Alhamdulillah he and a coolie. How are you doing as a migraine? How you doing?
Haven't duty Lana Cooley had you even know from that that something is wrong.
		
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			That's what the prophets to say. So as it relates to this issue of 20 Stay from the Mahayana number
to be the person who was satisfied with what Allah is giving you by looking at people who have less
than you. We have to keep renewing our phones renewing our phones. I'm not saying that's haram but
we just keeping up with the Joneses. They get a extension kitchen I have to get an extension we
talking about live within your means if that's what you want to do you plan to do it but don't do it
		
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			because flan didn't land do it chasing after these people. The Prophet said number three is Allah
while he while it will seldom
		
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			be good to your neighbor and you will be a movement
		
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			the neighbor in Ellis lamb has been
		
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			been given a lot of rights to the point where Rasul Allah thought that the neighbor would be allowed
to inherit in Ellis lamb. He said, wala Hilah you men will lie to you men will lie hula You mean he
does not believe me.
		
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			But one who goes to sleep hungry and his neighbor is.
		
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			The name is one won't go to sleep fullness, neighbors hungry.
		
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			That's the second thing tusky it enough comes with us being dying and good to our neighbors. Number
three, he said Salallahu Alaihe Salam on number four. He says some of our
		
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			love for the people that you love for yourself and you'll be a Muslim.
		
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			Love your neighbor. To kill your neighbor. You'll be a movement.
		
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			cashes Muslim, you'll be a Muslim because whoever believes in law last day fell your crumb Jarrah
who? Whoever believes Allah the last day, let him take care of his neighbor. You're going to be
questioned about that. Muslim or non Muslim and with our neighbors, do we look out that
		
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			am all of us from Tuskegee to knifes that the neighbors that you have in the X Isha, who is the
neighbor, she said 40 doors this way and 40 doors that way. So if you live in the middle of any of
these streets, and small Heath, everybody on your street is your neighbor 40 doors this way, not a
hadith. I initially said that and 40 doors that way, the closer they are to your house, the more
rights that they have. And then if the neighbors from your relative is double the issue.
		
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			And then finally, he mentioned some of the law while he was sending them what I took through Dagfinn
a catheter dike to me too. And don't laugh a lot. Because laughing a lot will cause your heart to
die.
		
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			So the people who are the famous comedians of the world, in every culture, African American culture,
British, every culture, we have our comedians Africans, everybody, Arabs have theirs.
		
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			The Prophet said about them so many things. He say, Yo mukaiyama won't be established until the
world belongs to look, I'm going to look at Luke cabina. Luca is a fictitious individual. He's like
a ignoramus. So it's doing person and people celebrate them. Like some of the real foolish people.
They get rich off of acting and behaving in a way with no edit. And he's one of the richest people
in society for two $300 million because he plays in some show a program where he's being celebrated
		
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			as being an an nincompoop, an ignoramus.
		
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			laughing at that stuff sitting down. It's nothing wrong with laughing moderately. Sometimes Allah
sent in the Quran and know who attacked our UPCA he made you laugh, he make you cry. If you never
laugh, he never cried. Something's wrong with you. But if you cry all the time, or you laugh all the
time, something's wrong with you. And if you cry for everything, something's wrong with you. You
laugh every day. Something's wrong. Something's wrong. Edit, edit. He laughs That was funny. And
		
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			he's serious when things are serious. Unless he's just overwhelmed by extremities. A man can become
so happy that he'll say something to do something that's weird. So mad and angry. I know people get
so mad they laugh they so angry when I talked about that, but talking about purchases responding to
things correctly. So before going to the next Heidi fix 20 This issue of TOS Kia to knifes the
Redeemer of the seller face to write books about Zeus and Eric Worre and Imam Ahmed Al Imam Abdul
		
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			Rahman
		
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			Al Imam will care even Abby Jura will que even Jura will que Eben Jura. These Imams wrote these
books about how to be an aesthetic, like the Sufi but not the Sufi today. But the Sufi back then the
one who wasn't into this dunya he wasn't fooled by this dunya he is the individual who gets Salah to
tranquillity Sakina to spin him in Allah in vicar insula.
		
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			He wants to be around people remind him of Allah give them close to Allah. He doesn't want to deal
with anybody or anything for one second, that causes him to forget. Even when he's cooling down he's
drinking, eating and having a good time. It's about getting closer to Eliza Joe. So does Keith
enough's the second Hadith and when he has a tremendously important Hadith as well.
		
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			It's the Hadith in which the companions said Whenever the Prophet sallallahu it was send them send
people to give dower He will say to them, yes siru will add to acetyl Bashir who will add tuna
Pharaoh, I'm gonna sing you you when you to give dower to those people you are My messengers. So
when you go to these people, the three of you and you give Dawa. Make things easy for them and don't
make things difficult. Give them glad tidings and don't run them away.
		
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			Make things easy for them and don't make things difficult for them.
		
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			Now in our community of 20, listen, my family member two of them suffer from ODC OCD with swas OCD.
One of them struggled with it and they got through it for the most part, but sometimes I see some
remnants of it. We come to the masjid and we come late and
		
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			they think that the salah has started and the car is pulling up, they open up the door before the
car stops. You may need to get out to jump. And that's just that OCD of the past
		
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			kicking in.
		
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			But one of them struggles with it. So I'm like everybody else. I have to tell you people, anybody
because I help you with this OCD. But I gotta say this to you, as I say to my family members, you
have to do a better job with memorizing those two eyes, that the Prophet taught, that takes away
humbleness, from stress, anxiety, you didn't memorize it.
		
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			Not to put you down, but come on, give yourself a chance in the race. You got to memorize that dua.
You got to stay on top of your car and those who are the Quran, the dua of Yunus in the well and all
of that.
		
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			My family member doesn't want to memorize those, you know, I'm not an Arab.
		
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			Okay? Come on. Can't you can't blame anybody. So I don't say that in a rough tough way. But I'm
saying Come on. Come on. The OCD the westwinds makes your life difficult on you. And you got to
remember that it makes your life difficult. And Allah said about himself in the Quran, Magi Lake
confit Dini and heritage minute IB Kimmy Brahim, Allah didn't make anything difficult for you in
your religion. There's the middle of the deen of your father he brought him.
		
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			So let other people make things easy. Don't make things difficult. Someone comes to me. They have
OCD with swats they say to me, this is my situation. I think that I'm a disbeliever now, I say yes.
you disbelieve. You have to become a Muslim again. Yes, your divorce gotta get married again. Yes,
that's a lot doesn't have your I'm making things difficult on the Muslim.
		
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			ISIS Boko Haram Shabaab
		
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			people will make to deer because the brand spanking new Muslim doesn't agree with you. You want in
your friends about him?
		
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			You he's a brand spanking new Muslim. Are you serious? That sense of fear? That's the Sunnah.
		
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			No, the Sunnah is the Prophet, having the Companions who have good eye clock and him telling us be
gentle with people take it easy. So in this hadith, there are different narrations. Sometimes he
said it to two people bedsheet or whatever to net Fira. Yes, Sara, when I said, he said it to
people. Make it easy. Don't make things difficult. give glad tidings don't run them away. Sometimes
he said it to three people. He said it even if he thought it. He said why the Blue Devil. I will
		
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			Musa I Shari all three to get to a lemon. He told the three of them. The three of you make things
easy. Don't make it difficult. Give glad tight ends and don't run them away. What Tada. I told them
three. And tada means between yourselves the three of you. When you have differences of opinions,
don't split the three of you.
		
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			You got to figure it out amongst yourselves and come to a common agreement amongst yourself. You
three are going to give
		
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			he doesn't agree with you. And then you split. What is that going to do with the people law he is
what happened without a doubt.
		
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			And people were involved with that stuff. I don't agree with the one over they don't agree with me.
So our communities get in the middle of this stuff. And our communities are suffering from all kinds
of stuff. LGBT
		
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			foreign policy, domestic policy marriages, our children, the school where they're gonna go to school
that we have all kinds of issues, and you and I are going to start being at each other's neck and
I'm a scream. This is the Sunnah I represent the Sunnah. Hey, hon, Hey, God, you're joking. The
religion is easy. It is easy for you.
		
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			If you ever got a box, like an iPhone, an iPhone, you open up the iPhone. If you find it too
difficult, the ergonomics of it, you can't open it up the box is not working. No, for sure, too.
You're doing something wrong.
		
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			Because the box wasn't made to be difficult to be open.
		
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			They don't make boxes like that. They make the boxes so that you can open them you just take your
time you look you'll figure it out. The religion is like that we're lacking methyl Isla to a certain
degree, that if things are being difficult on you unnecessarily then something's wrong with you.
Allah said to the prophets of Allah while he was setting up Febi my Muslim men Allah He lent Allah
home with the following hurry the fog dome in howling. It's a Rama from Allah Muhammad. You were
		
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			gentle with these people.
		
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			With your wife, with your kid, with your heart, with your students, with your community, with your
workers, if
		
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			You are rough and tough, but then they would disperse from amongst you because that's the natural
response to that.
		
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			So this hadith goes to show a Pliny pay attention. The apostle in $1 abou sam I'm giving Dawa to
people the Assam is to be gentle and easy sometimes you have to be tough, but not right away and not
always. The first thing is the Quran eight five bility as in push back with what is best, a nice
word, a kind word, a gentle word, not rough and tough. Sometimes you have to be rough and tough. But
the prophet board or religion that is easy. The hedge from the lessons of a hedge importance of
		
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			Tawheed from the list of hygiene, the importance of the Sunnah you don't know how to make hygiene
without the Sunnah the Quran and Yan are liars cuz their bone May Allah Allah guide us and guide
them can't take just the Quran. Are you going to know how to make to offer on the Kaaba? How are you
going to know what you're doing? Know what you're doing. The Sunnah came and explained all of that.
That's why the Prophet said take the height for me the rights of height from the lessons of a
		
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			hydrogen we mentioned universality of Islam, from the lessons.
		
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			The hatch is the ease of Islam
		
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			and hydrous Jihad
		
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			Hydras Jihad and any and everybody who goes to hajj here under normal circumstances, you will come
back Allah knows best tired, but you feel like you did something for a slant. And if you take your
wife, it's double trouble in terms of jihad, and it's real jihad for her.
		
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			And yet, Allah gave you a choice. You want to do this Hajj or that judge or that hajj, that's ease.
He will cut your heel off. You can
		
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			shorten your head.
		
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			If you have an ailment you can leave before everybody else is allowed to leave Rasulullah sallallahu
it was so NEMA went to Hajj he did this this this this and that order the person came and messed up
the order said I did this and there is no problem like outage outage. Hygiene is a sign that things
are made in our religion. Religion is not a difficult religion in the modern era in America. With
difficulty the ease is come in the lobby not bad set. Listen. Any difficulty that hits you know for
		
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			surety, the ease is coming behind it even if it difficulty went into a hole the ease is coming
behind it. It's like a twin and two twins they're always together a father and a son two twins
always together. One of them comes in the door you walk down the street you say what's up man on
Coventry road where your brother you're gonna see him down the street so you know he's coming.
That's what the meaning of this ayat is. No one is going to deal with permanent difficulty for us in
		
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			his life. What telecoil I am nuda when you have been a nurse as
		
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			the be with the people up down black white cold rain dry that's how it is no one's gonna be happy
forever No one's gonna be sad forever.
		
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			Allah mentioned I add that the ich Allah Holman by the Earth soaring Nusrah Allah is going to make
after difficulty ease for you. So many ayat of the Quran.
		
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			He mentioned in the Quran, you need to Allah who I knew huffy for nkhoma codependent SAML BIFA Allah
wants to make things light for you lighten your burden, because mankind was created weak. Do you do
love will be commonly also Allah Yuri do become an Rasul Allah once ease for you. He doesn't want
difficulty for you. I add upon
		
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			your prayer
		
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			What's wrong with the machine today use it. So when concluding in 20 in terms of giving Dalit Allah,
whether given doubt to people, even now to people or your husband or wife, take it easy with your
family members, your children, take it easy with your relatives not easy. It's not easy. Some of us
have anger management issues some of us have that. We have to learn how to calm down. We have to
make jihad on calming down. As you should know, Allah snagged me things easy for us and clarifying
		
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			this I just want to make two points then we're done and Shala easy is not easy at kayfabe it's not
made easy the religion I don't want to pray SNAM is easy. I love to go for Rahim Islam no illogical
for Rahim but he said it is should do a pop. He is Severe in punishment tool.
		
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			So easy is not doing what you want how you want to do it. Easy as doing the thing the way the
religion said. The ease of the rip the of LS man when Allah take his names and attributes the way he
said it and keep it moving. Don't make the colophon go overboard. You know this salad after Salatin
Asia when I became a Muslim like some of you brothers you I became a Muslim they told me after
slaughter a che you have to do all
		
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			These subnets
		
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			I mean, it's like 100,000 Sooners. And then if you say man, will you get these 100,000 Sooners from?
		
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			He'll give you some crazy answer. And there you go in the corner doing it with a class. That's what
I did when I was a drummer to bleed. Because I was sincere. They told me I got to do all balls rock
out. And I was like, Man, I noticed. They say you got to do it, if you want to be on the sooner I
went over in the corner was doing those rockets doing those rockets. And I was sincere. But
something was inside of me saying something's wrong with this. It was just too much. And then every
		
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			chef started dreading celebrity chef, I don't want to praise him out of a chef. Because after he
shines the eye that
		
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			the punishment machine is coming down.
		
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			Take it easy. Last thing is funny about ease.
		
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			The man gets on the member, and he's pumped up and he's passionate, raises his voice. He's sweating,
and he's talking. And then after the football, the person comes and says, Hey,
		
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			Prophet Muhammad said Take it easy. You're not taking it easy. On the day of the job, that's not the
day to take it easy for the fatigue. That's not the day and the member, you should try to inspire
the people who form the people. When the Prophet gave the book but Salallahu it was setting them up
to steaming Kira is eyes became red, his voice will raise up and he has anger when intense as if he
was one of the people of an independent army that was about to pounce upon them. So it's the right
		
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			time in the right place for everything. But still, although the khateeb is allowed to be passionate
still he can go report you put in YouTube
		
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			is a Shiite Imam given the hook but he got so wrapped up in upset he took his his turban off and
fluid down and put his stick and jump on the mirror while
		
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			he jumped on the fan. And if you see it if you see it if you see that and that was our Eman we're
all going to get up at the same time and just throw him off of the member you can't be up here with
your crazy acting like that. Jumping on the Midwest and his legs What's up look up look it up in the
YouTube look up putting crazy man but in in crazy crazy my my Friday look it up you'll see. You'll
see the I dribble Rajat okay when if you guys have any questions five minutes Shalabi take any
		
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			questions that you may have. What time is the event
		
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			and 40 If you guys have any questions shower what happened to the machine today
		
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			something's wrong Thank you man appreciate it. says
		
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			All right, let's actually be have the cut that we asked him all the time to give us the good of the
dunya the accurate remember 20 Every day is a new day. This one is down and dusted. We have some
Anthony shad left and shot a lot. Tomorrow we make tomorrow a better day than today to Ischia to
knifes and being gentle and being easy. Those of us who had this roughness in his toughness with our
family members. Let us go back today. Buy him something nice. We call it
		
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			milkshake from Asus was that place called
		
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			I don't know crip ice is by the eighth bus over the
		
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			Asus Asus esus. You know go get him strawberry milkshake from there, bring it to your family and
saying look, I'm sorry. To rough I overreacted. And from today I'm getting myself together. We have
to be like that with our kids over the weekend for their aid. Some people didn't sing you aid
Mubarak eight Kareem and you're mad
		
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			that I'm gonna let them go. No big deal. You say to them happy a little La Mina women people are mad
at each other because he didn't send me a thing. But you didn't send it to me why I listen to you.
Why are you wasting time with that? This that the first one be the best one. We have big fish to fry
and big nuts to crack a 20 Let's not stay stuck on stupid with these trivial issues that Allah
doesn't like so pilot that Allah doesn't love Subhana Kelowna were behind the coercion when that
		
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			either in the end as the federal cover tool in Santa Monica