Abu Taymiyyah – The Final Farewell Toronto Canada @KhalidMosqueCanada

Abu Taymiyyah
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The speakers emphasize the importance of avoiding fear and avoiding negative comments in learning about Karma after the death of a Muslim man. They also emphasize the importance of living a life of pleasures and finding the right advice for addiction, including praying for a period of time and setting a routine for prayer. They also advise parents to be gentle with their younger brothers and sisters and build a relationship with them, stressing the benefits of praying for a set period of time and setting a routine for prayer, including the importance of being gentle with one's own brothers and sisters.
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Allah

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1st and foremost, my brothers and my sisters,

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I want to just take a moment out

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to show my appreciation and thanks

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to the administration of the Masjid.

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To everyone

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who was involved in setting up this program,

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Sheikh Ahmed,

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Sheikh Samatha

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and the rest of the brothers and sisters

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who helped facilitate this.

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I know it wasn't easy to put a

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program like this together. We've seen how much

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effort

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and time

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that many of these different organizations have put

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into setting up these programs.

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So I ask Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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to

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reward them with excellence

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and to grant them the highest part of

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Al Jannah.

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Indeed, Wallahi, it's really, really nice to see

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some of the brothers who were with me

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in the university.

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Yesterday, we was in Ottawa.

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We met some of the brothers, Sheikh Abdurrahman

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Hussain,

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Sheikh Waseem,

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Sheikh Adam was with us, Sheikh Guled,

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all of the different brothers and some of

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the other ones that I haven't mentioned, Sheikh

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Fahad,

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from those that I can remember, Sheikh Bashir.

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And now to see some of my other

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brothers,

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colleagues who actually graduated before me, to see

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them helping out and setting up these programs

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for a colleague of theirs, it is indeed

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something that is very, very pleasing to see.

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These are brothers that you guys need to

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take knowledge from my brothers and my sisters,

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right? You have graduates,

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you have brothers who have studied,

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right, who are amongst you that you should

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benefit from. We only don't come to the

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Masjid

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when Abu Taymiyyah comes, right? So may Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala bless every single one of

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you and everyone that was involved

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and our

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other brothers. Oh, I want the Sheikh Samatara

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to read.

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If he can come up insha Allahu Ta'ala

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read some verses. Please Sheikh.

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Zagalakher.

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They all wanted you to read Sheikh.

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You. Me and him were at war with

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one another for

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second thing that I want to mention my

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brothers and my sisters, Alhamdulillah,

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at a lot of our events up and

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down the country in the UK and also

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when I go out internationally,

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we've been getting some of the biggest drug

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dealers,

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trappers, rappers,

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right? People from different walks of life all

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attending the programs.

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Sisters who go clubbing, wallahi there was even

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a sister that messaged me.

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I think it was on fitnagram,

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right, or Twitter, one of them.

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She messaged and saying how on a Friday

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night

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she was clubbing and then Saturday evening she

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was sitting in my class or in my

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lecture.

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The point being my brothers and my sisters,

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it brings a lot of joy seeing different

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people from different walks of life coming to

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these programs.

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You as someone who regularly comes to the

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Masjid

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may see a certain type of individual

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coming

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that you are maybe not used to seeing.

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And I say this especially to my sisters.

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Right.

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The sister may not have the dress code

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that you are used to seeing

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when coming regularly to the Masjid. And likewise

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our brothers, you see a brother who has

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a certain type of hairstyle

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or is maybe wearing something, and then you

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begin to stare down at him, or you

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begin to make them feel as if they

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are not worthy of being in the house

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of Allah.

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Remember the house of Allah does not belong

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to me, it doesn't belong to the Imam,

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it doesn't belong to the trustees.

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The Masajid, they belong to Allah.

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It doesn't belong to any other human being.

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So everyone is welcome to walk into the

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Masjid

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at any time. One shouldn't be made to

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fear just because

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he is carrying out certain types of sins

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and he's not welcome to come to the

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house of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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Right?

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The houses of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala are

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welcome for everyone my brothers and my sisters.

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So please bear that in mind. Don't treat

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someone tonight

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in a way that it is the first

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and the last time they come to the

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Masjid.

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Please, brothers and sisters,

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a sister came up to us the other

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day

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in Montreal, France,

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right?

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Right at the end of the lecture,

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4 sisters, 3 of them were wearing hijab,

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one of them was not wearing the hijab.

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Right? And the brothers witnessed this.

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She said, brother, can you give me some

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tips in how to deal with

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my mother who doesn't allow me to wear

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the hijab?

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These are the kinds of people that are

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coming to these programs.

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Right? And she started getting very emotional, and

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the brothers told me that she got very,

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her eyes got very watery.

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Right.

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These are people who want to come to

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these programs to better their understanding of the

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deen. The fact that they came, Aslan.

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The fact that they came, doesn't that show

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that there's goodness in their heart,

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right? Especially with this controversial conservative individual,

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right?

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They want to learn about the deen. They're

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sick and tired

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of hearing a watered down version of the

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deen.

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That brings me on to another point.

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Some of the enemies of Al Islam,

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they've been doing this a lot to me

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in the last couple of months. Whenever I

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go to a program they try to bombard

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the Masjid or the organization.

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Right?

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And they try to use fear mongering tactics

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to get the program shut down.

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They tried to do that with some of

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the organizations here.

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Even when I was doing

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a 27

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university

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tour in the UK, secular universities,

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you always have these blue haired feminists

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and the rainbow team trying their utmost best

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to shut down the program.

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But they always fall flat on their faces

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and they fell miserably,

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right?

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So I know that they've tried to message

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some of the organizations

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and Alhamdulillah

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I always thought that Canadians were soft.

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No offense, guys.

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Right? No, not a single organization budged.

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Not a single organization budged, and this is

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what we want to see

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from our fellow brothers and sisters

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who run these different organizations and Masajid.

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Right?

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Allahu Akbar. Honestly, it brought me a lot

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of happiness. It really really did. Right? It

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really really did.

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Right? Because this is exactly what they do.

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They try to use fear mongering tactics

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to get you scared. And in reality,

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they have absolutely nothing to stand on. So

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I want to make it very, very clear

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from the get go, I, at Batamia,

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I'm not a hate preacher.

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I don't incite violence towards anyone.

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Not a single minority or religion have I

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incited violence against.

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I know some of the topics that we

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discussed are pretty controversial and colorful on my

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YouTube channel,

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but not a single video has been taken

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down and that is simply because we put

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these

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disclaimers at the beginning to make it very

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very clear and so that

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they can't use anything against us.

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I, as a Buteymya, don't have my own

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views and opinions. I just quote the scripture.

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I just quote the scripture. And whatever is

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mentioned in the Quran and the Sunnah of

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the Messenger Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, and I go

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through a lot of studies

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and statistics,

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right, that I sometimes use to substantiate

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some of the programs and the lectures that

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I deliver.

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My brothers and my sisters,

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today Be'n Alayhi Ta'ala,

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I want to speak a little bit about

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the last few moments before you depart from

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this world.

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That which is inevitable

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is that every single one of us is

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going to die.

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No one is immortal,

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right? Every single individual

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is going to depart from this world, my

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brothers and my sisters,

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right?

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It could be

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via car crash.

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It could be because of a shotgun.

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It could be due to a stab wound.

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All of these are means,

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right?

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Of you departing from this world.

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When your time is up, your time is

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up.

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Laaistakhtimuna

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sa'atin walaistakhiroon,

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right?

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It will not be delayed

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or it will not be brought forward.

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When your time is up, your time is

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up, my brothers and my sisters.

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Right?

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All of these are just means.

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But the question is that I want every

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single one of us to think about.

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How is it that we want to depart

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from this world?

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What do you want to be doing before

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the Angel of death rips your soul out

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of your body.

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What is the last thing that you want

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to be doing?

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How many deaths

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do we need to witness my brothers and

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my sisters

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in order for us to flip our lives

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around?

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In order for us to take heed? Allah

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says in the Quran,

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It will be said to those

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when they are resurrected,

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Didn't we give you enough time?

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We gave you enough years

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to work hard,

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right? For you to take heed. Wajaakumun

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Nadeer.

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Didn't the Nadeer come to you? If you

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translate that literally, Nadeer means wona.

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The scholars of Tafsir, they talk about what

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this wona was.

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Abdulai ibn Abbas and Adnan Nam they said,

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the white hairs that began to appear on

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your face.

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You see white hairs appearing on your face

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and you

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still don't wake up from your deep sleep,

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right? Others they mention, Mautul Aqarib.

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Your relatives pass away

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one after the other and you still

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don't take heed.

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Kaffabil Muti wa'ivan, as the Messenger sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam said.

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Death is enough of a reminder,

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right?

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Aqthirumindzikrihadimilladdhat

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in another Hadith.

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Excessively,

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remember that which is going to destroy all

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pleasures.

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And that is what? Death.

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Some of us are thinking and worrying about

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2 years down the line, 3 years down

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the line, what I want to acquire, what

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I wanna do.

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What guarantee do we have that we're going

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to live till tomorrow brothers and sisters?

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Couple of years ago,

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we had an 8 months

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that I've never ever experienced. Wallahi al-'Azim, it

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shook the tribe,

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it shook the family.

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And some of you guys may have heard

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this online,

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right?

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I lost 3 relatives,

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3 relatives

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in the space of 8 months, brothers and

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sisters,

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right?

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The first was my younger brother,

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22 years of age, stabbed in the neck,

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brothers and sisters.

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Stabbed in the neck.

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Can you imagine what the parents were going

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through? What the relatives end up going through,

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right?

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Fast forward,

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couple of months after that, another cousin of

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mine car crash.

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24 years of age.

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I buried both of them with my own

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two hands.

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We would go for Umrah

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with a bunch of drug dealers and roadmen.

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Some of them, my brothers and my sisters,

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you know what I would say to them?

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Don't make me the one

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who

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is giving that reminder at your grave.

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How many reminders do we need?

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A couple of months after that I went

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back to Saudi Arabia.

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Another time I went for Umrah. Left Madinah,

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went for Umrah, sitting in front of Kaaba.

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I get a message,

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your 18 year old cousin been stabbed in

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the chest.

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18 years of age stabbed in the chest

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on one of the most busiest roads in

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Birmingham,

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Coventry Road in Birmingham,

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very well known infamous road.

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Three relatives brothers and sisters,

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right? Like I said before, it could be

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a stab wound, it could be a car

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crash, it could be anything.

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Your time was written,

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right? A very

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very very long time ago.

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Some of us live life as if my

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brothers and my sisters were going to live

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to the age of 80 or the age

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of 90.

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Right?

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Go to the graveyard.

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How many?

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2000 are you going to see?

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Walking around the graveyard, my brothers and my

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sisters, 2000 are you going to see?

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Right?

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Messenger Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam will say,

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I initially

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prohibited you from visiting the graves, now I

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say to go to it, go to these

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graves.

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Why? Why? Fa'ina Tuzakirukum Bilakhra.

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It causes you now to reflect on the

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Hereafter, wadu Zahidu Fid Dunya

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and to overlook the pleasures of this world,

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right?

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Go to the grave, I don't care what

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is going on in your life.

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You might be the biggest trapper, the biggest

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drug dealer

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walking on the face of this earth

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in the most arrogant of way.

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Go to that grave and stand on top

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of it,

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8 feet down into the ground,

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every single one of us

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are going to be admitted into that grave,

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brothers and sisters.

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And then tell me whether you wanna continue

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this trap life or this satanic life that

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you're living,

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right?

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How many reminders, brothers and sisters, do we

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need in order for us to wake up,

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right? You got people killing one another, taking

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each other's lives like his happy days.

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The Messenger Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam,

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he told us about how sacred the Kaaba

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is.

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I'm sure a lot of us we saw

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that video of DJ Khaled when he went

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to Kaaba,

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right?

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What did looking at the Kaaba do to

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DJ Khaled? Someone who's involved in sin. I've

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seen a video before and after, right?

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Him and some Saudis,

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right? They're moving their heads around

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due to some track that they're listening to.

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Before and after.

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But the moment he saw the Kaaba, this

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man

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who perhaps his heart has become so blackened

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because of what he's involved in,

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right, humbled.

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It brought him to tears.

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It brought him to tears, my brothers and

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my sisters,

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right, upon seeing the Kaaba. Let me ask

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you guys a question,

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right? Would any of us even think about

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punching into the Kaaba

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or shooting at Kaaba

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or striking the Kaaba? Would that even cross

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anybody's mind?

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Messenger Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam is telling us, lahadmulkaabati

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Hajaran Hajarah

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that you destroy the Kaaba and you demolish

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it and then you move parts of it

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one after the other

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is a lesser of a problem

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in the eyes of Allah than taking the

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soul of a Muslim.

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You know destroying the Kaaba

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is lesser of an issue

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in the eyes of Allah Azza wa Jal,

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right?

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Then taking the life

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of an innocent Muslim.

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Right?

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The messenger sallallahu alaihi wasallam told us, idal

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taqal Muslimani biseifahihimah.

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If 2 Muslims they square up to one

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another.

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2 Muslims,

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they both have their weapons and they squared

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up to one another. Al Qaatilu wal Maqsoo

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Al Finar.

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The one who killed and the one who

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was killed, both of them are in hellfire.

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The companions they asked,

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right, the companions they asked.

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They will understand the one who killed, he's

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in hellfire.

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How about the other, he was killed? He

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didn't kill. Why should he be in hellfire?

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He was extremely eager, he had strong determination,

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he wanted to kill as well, right? Except

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that a killer got there first

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and took his

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life. Both are in the Hal Fire my

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brothers and my sisters.

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What kind of life are we living,

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right? Something that we take so lightly. Sometimes

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we, hey, guys in the UK, I'm sure

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it's no different here. Just go stab him

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up a little bit, teach him a lesson,

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and then he ends up killing him.

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Just get his knees or shoot him in

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the knees,

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and then he ends up taking his life.

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Right?

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My brothers and my sisters, we hear a

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lot about the good ending, the bad ending.

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I'm sure a lot of us we've seen

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videos going around,

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right?

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Of 1 holding the Mus'haf, Sah.

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He's holding the Mus'haf

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or he's maybe praying in the house of

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Allah

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at around 9 AM or 10 AM.

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Do most people come to the mizr at

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9 or 10 AM? Let's be honest. When

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do they normally come? Fajar, Duhur, Asr, Maghrib,

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Be'raisha. The rest of the time they're working,

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and there's no problem with that. But this

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man walks into the Masjid at 9 and

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10 AM, and he's praying.

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The only thing that sees him after Allah

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is that CCTV.

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It managed to capture

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the last few moments of his life,

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right. When I was in the Medina, my

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brothers and my sisters,

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I seen a brother who was lying down,

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the time of the salah, the iqam is

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going off in the Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam masjid. He stood up and he started

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walking towards

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the front rows

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of Al Masjid Nimwih

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and then guess what happens? He drops dead

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right in front of my eyes.

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When all of this happens, my brothers and

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my sisters, do you think it happens by

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chance?

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You think all of this happens by chance

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my brothers and my sisters?

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When we see this we think, oh, I

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want something like that. I want to die

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in my salah.

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Right. I wish I could die like that

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my brothers and my sisters.

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Everybody wants that.

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But do you think it happens by chance?

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These are examples

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of a Husnul Khatima,

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of a good ending my beloved brothers and

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sisters.

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The principle is You Jama'atul Khair.

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If you don't,

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the principle is Waman Aqtharamin Shayin Mataalai Waman

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Mataalai Ba'athalai

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I hope we can write that,

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right, in gold.

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Something for us to remember all the time.

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Whoever is excessive in doing something, he's very

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likely going to die like that.

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Isn't that common sense?

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Whoever is excessive in doing something, he's very

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likely going to die

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like that. This wonderful story that I came

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across,

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right, and perhaps Insha'Allah Ta'ala we can take

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inspiration from it.

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There is a great Muhadid, a scholar of

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Hadid.

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His name was Abu Zur Atarazi.

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He was on his deathbed.

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Right? He had 2 companions.

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The first Abu Hatima Razi

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and also Muhammad ibn Muslim,

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right? They had this kind of like student

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teacher relationship with Abu Zura even though they

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were contemporaries.

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They knew he was on his deathbed.

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However, they felt very shy to get him

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to do the Talkeen.

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What does Talkeen mean?

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Does anyone know? Talkeen means when you're on

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your deathbed,

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right? Someone comes and he tries to get

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you to say La ilaha illallah.

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Right? Hoping that the last thing that comes

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out of your mouth is the Kalimatu Tuhid.

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I'm sure we've all heard of the hadith

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manqana.

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Whoever's last statement is, La Ilah Allah what

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happens?

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He will enter into Jannah.

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Everyone here,

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if you ask them say Ila Ila Ila

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Ila Ila Ila Ila Ila Ila Ila Ila

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Ila Ila Ila Ila Ila Ila?

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Can

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anyone, right, struggle my brothers and my sisters

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with the kalimah?

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Perhaps no one can. You think it's that

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straightforward on your deathbed, my brothers and my

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sisters?

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You think it's that straightforward? We can say

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it now. You think it's that straightforward on

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your deathbed?

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Right. So the Hadith says whoever's last statement

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is La ilaha illallah

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dakhalaljannah.

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He will enter into Al Jannah. So when

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one is on his deathbed and you got

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him to say La Ilahi Illallah, if he

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says anything else after it,

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we have to restart.

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After he said La ilaha illa kala, stop.

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Don't say anything else to him hoping that's

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the last thing that comes out of his

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mouth. But if he does say something like

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for example, what happened to my money? Where

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is it going? Try to get him to

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say, la ilaha illaikir.

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Are your brothers and sisters with me? So

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he's on his deathbed.

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So they planned amongst themselves,

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how can we get him now to start

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doing the Talkeen? To say La ilaha illallah.

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They said, Let's get him to revise hadith.

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So they went to him, Abu Zarah

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a Razi,

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and he said, Let's revise some of the

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hadith

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of when one is on his deathbed.

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So then because he was a great scholar

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in hadith, laulal Isnaad Naqalaman Sha'a masha.

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If it wasn't for the chain of narration,

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everyone will go and say as they wish,

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right?

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So he began to mention the chain of

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narration of the hadith.

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Al Nabeel Kalahadithin Abdul Hamidin Njafar Ansalhim Nabiarib

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and Kathir ibn Murrah

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and Mu'adhibu

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Jibil who was a companion

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that narrated this hadith.

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He said, the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said.

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And now he's on his deathbed about to

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narrate the hadith.

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You guys know the end of the Hadith,

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right? Whoever says it, he will enter into

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Jannah.

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Last thing that comes out of his mouth

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is the

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What was the end of the Hadith? It

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ended into Jannah, right? We don't want him

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to say it.

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He will enter into Al Jannah, right?

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That's the last thing that came out of

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his mouth, the

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La Ilah Illallah,

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and he departed from this world.

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This man my brothers and my sisters, he

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lived the life of

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Quran

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Sunnah,

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learning the book of Allah and the Sunnah

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of the Messenger

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You want to die like that? Be someone

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my brothers and my sisters who strengthens his

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tawhid,

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who learns about who Allah is. You know

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one of the most common questions that I

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receive all the time, you know what it

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is?

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Brother, I want to practice,

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right? However, I don't feel that connection with

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Allah.

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I feel spiritually dead and empty.

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I don't feel that love that I should

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have for my Lord.

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What is the issue?

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Right? I'll tell you guys,

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I know there are people here

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that respect certain types of individuals. Let's be

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honest here. A lot of you guys respect

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Andrew Tate, right?

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By the way, this is not an endorsement.

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But the reason why you all respect him

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is because of all the things that you

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came to know about him.

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He achieved this,

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he had this mokhif,

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he did that,

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he bought this Bugatti,

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he sold this, he made all this money,

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we all tend to respect him, right?

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And I'm sure my sisters all there are

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people that they respect that have role models.

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Pay attention my brothers and my sisters,

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right?

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How do we expect to love Allah or

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to have that connection with Allah and we

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know absolutely nothing about it?

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I've been saying this a lot in my

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lectures. We don't know anything about Allah.

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How do you expect to even have that

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connection with Allah for Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala?

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We know soccer teams, right? Basketball teams, if

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I ask about LeBron James, You know everything

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about him.

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Right?

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We know everything about these rappers. What was

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that rapper called that you guys told me

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about earlier?

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Top 5. Top 5. Right?

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We know the ins and the outs of

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their lives,

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where they are, how they live their life,

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and whatever have you. These are non Muslims

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my brothers and my sisters. Have we gone

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out our way

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to learn about who Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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is my brothers and my sisters?

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Right. If you look at a lot of

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these kuffar,

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what happens when they go through a couple

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of problems here and there? What is it

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that they do?

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Who tell couldn't tell me?

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They smoke, cannabis is legal here, says come

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and get me.

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Right?

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They begin to drink,

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why are they drinking?

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In order to make themselves feel better. The

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man's feeling miserable, he's depressed.

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So I always say, they drink to forget,

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we do Zikr to remember.

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People begin to turn to these drugs in

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order to distract their minds.

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You know, cocaine, what they call it in

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the UK? Britain's open secret.

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Britain's Open Secret. Who do you think is

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consuming

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it? The junkie? The neat guy that you

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see rolling around at the bus stop when

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you go up fajr? Wallahi lah. Not only

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him.

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Professionals are consuming it,

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right?

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People that have money are consuming it.

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I meet drug dealers all the time,

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right? All the time.

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Not like that before you take the wrong

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end of the stick.

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All the time I come in contact with

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them.

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And Wallahi brothers and sisters, they are empty.

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As he's walking, Arabi is calm so arrogantly

00:30:02 --> 00:30:04

with one of the latest scars you can

00:30:04 --> 00:30:06

think of. And then what? He's sitting there

00:30:06 --> 00:30:08

feeling sorry for himself,

00:30:08 --> 00:30:09

right,

00:30:09 --> 00:30:11

all down and out miserable.

00:30:12 --> 00:30:13

But then as soon as he walks off,

00:30:13 --> 00:30:15

he walks off again the way he came.

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This is the reality.

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So they smoke and they consume

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and they abuse these drugs in order to

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make themselves feel better.

00:30:26 --> 00:30:28

However, my brothers and my sisters, if we

00:30:28 --> 00:30:30

knew who Allah azza wa Jal was, Al

00:30:30 --> 00:30:31

Hakim.

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When things start going wrong for us,

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just understanding

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Allah Azawajal

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being all wise.

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Alayisallahu

00:30:39 --> 00:30:40

biakamil

00:30:41 --> 00:30:41

Hakimin.

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Memorize it, sort of teen.

00:30:44 --> 00:30:46

Izzan Allah Azzawajal, the Most Wise

00:30:47 --> 00:30:48

from those who have wisdom

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that everything happens for a reason.

00:30:52 --> 00:30:55

Allah doesn't take something away from you because

00:30:55 --> 00:30:56

He hates you,

00:30:56 --> 00:30:58

or because He wants to suppress you, perhaps

00:30:58 --> 00:31:01

He may do that in order to bring

00:31:01 --> 00:31:02

you back up stronger.

00:31:03 --> 00:31:04

How many a time have we been in

00:31:04 --> 00:31:05

a situation

00:31:05 --> 00:31:08

where we lost something, right? And we thought

00:31:08 --> 00:31:09

that that was the best thing for us.

00:31:10 --> 00:31:11

Years go by,

00:31:12 --> 00:31:13

right?

00:31:13 --> 00:31:15

And then that's when we say

00:31:15 --> 00:31:17

if that didn't happen I wouldn't have this

00:31:17 --> 00:31:19

today. Isn't it so brothers and sisters?

00:31:20 --> 00:31:21

To give you guys an example that you

00:31:21 --> 00:31:24

can relate to, you really badly want to

00:31:24 --> 00:31:25

marry that sister.

00:31:26 --> 00:31:28

You do everything in your power to acquire

00:31:28 --> 00:31:29

her

00:31:30 --> 00:31:32

and it doesn't happen. To make things worse,

00:31:32 --> 00:31:35

your best friend comes along and he snatches

00:31:35 --> 00:31:36

her from under your nose.

00:31:38 --> 00:31:39

Do this,

00:31:39 --> 00:31:41

stops you in the back.

00:31:44 --> 00:31:45

Yes, go by my brothers and my sisters,

00:31:46 --> 00:31:47

and Allah blesses you with a woman

00:31:48 --> 00:31:50

that has qualities and characteristics

00:31:50 --> 00:31:52

that the mind can't imagine.

00:31:53 --> 00:31:55

That's when you say, if that didn't happen

00:31:55 --> 00:31:57

I wouldn't have this today.

00:31:57 --> 00:31:58

But the Kufar

00:31:58 --> 00:32:00

are sitting around feeling sorry for themselves,

00:32:01 --> 00:32:03

drinking drinking their lives away.

00:32:05 --> 00:32:07

What does the Prophet

00:32:07 --> 00:32:08

teach us?

00:32:19 --> 00:32:20

When things start going wrong or you miss

00:32:20 --> 00:32:23

out on something, say Khadar Allah. Allah decreed

00:32:23 --> 00:32:23

it.

00:32:24 --> 00:32:26

Don't say if only, if only I did

00:32:26 --> 00:32:27

this and I did that.

00:32:28 --> 00:32:30

Are you brothers and sisters with me?

00:32:30 --> 00:32:32

Because if only if only is going to

00:32:32 --> 00:32:35

open a door for the devil.

00:32:35 --> 00:32:38

Now we understand everything happens for a reason.

00:32:38 --> 00:32:41

Allah is all wise. Let Allah Subhanahu wa

00:32:41 --> 00:32:43

ta'ala carry out his plan

00:32:43 --> 00:32:46

and He knows better than anyone else, Wallahu

00:32:46 --> 00:32:48

You'alamu Antumma Ta'alamun.

00:32:48 --> 00:32:50

Allah knows and you don't know my brothers

00:32:50 --> 00:32:51

and my sisters.

00:32:52 --> 00:32:54

This man lived the life of Tawhid.

00:32:54 --> 00:32:56

You wanna die upon La ilaha illallah my

00:32:56 --> 00:32:57

brothers and my sisters,

00:32:58 --> 00:32:58

right?

00:32:59 --> 00:33:00

Be someone

00:33:01 --> 00:33:03

who learns about Allah and the rights that

00:33:03 --> 00:33:04

He has over you,

00:33:05 --> 00:33:07

right? And the only source of information that

00:33:07 --> 00:33:10

we have of Allah is none other than

00:33:10 --> 00:33:12

His names and His attributes that have been

00:33:12 --> 00:33:14

extrapolated from the Quran and the Sunnah of

00:33:14 --> 00:33:16

the Messenger sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.

00:33:17 --> 00:33:19

Are you prophets and sisters with me?

00:33:19 --> 00:33:21

You want to be in a better place

00:33:21 --> 00:33:21

spiritually,

00:33:22 --> 00:33:24

start learning about Allah.

00:33:25 --> 00:33:27

Otherwise you're going to keep on going round

00:33:27 --> 00:33:29

and round and round.

00:33:30 --> 00:33:30

Tali.

00:33:34 --> 00:33:34

Sorry sir,

00:33:35 --> 00:33:36

I seen this guy was getting distracted, I

00:33:36 --> 00:33:38

was like, what is he doing?

00:33:41 --> 00:33:43

Are you prophets and sisters with me?

00:33:53 --> 00:33:55

Are your brothers and sisters with me? Yes.

00:33:55 --> 00:33:57

Live a life of tawhid.

00:34:03 --> 00:34:05

Guys, we're here for the dawah, for the

00:34:05 --> 00:34:08

reminders. Right? So inshallah, we're gonna focus on

00:34:08 --> 00:34:09

that.

00:34:14 --> 00:34:16

You want to die upon la ilaha illa

00:34:16 --> 00:34:17

my brothers and my sisters, you have your

00:34:17 --> 00:34:18

ansa.

00:34:19 --> 00:34:21

It doesn't just happen by chance,

00:34:22 --> 00:34:23

right?

00:34:23 --> 00:34:25

The more you are involved

00:34:26 --> 00:34:26

in La Illahillah,

00:34:27 --> 00:34:29

in a Tawhid, in the Quran and the

00:34:29 --> 00:34:30

Sunnah,

00:34:31 --> 00:34:33

you might end up getting a death like

00:34:33 --> 00:34:33

this,

00:34:34 --> 00:34:34

Ababuzurah

00:34:34 --> 00:34:35

Atarazi.

00:34:36 --> 00:34:37

Right.

00:34:38 --> 00:34:40

That then brings me on to my brothers

00:34:40 --> 00:34:40

and my sisters,

00:34:41 --> 00:34:43

I'm going to finish with this.

00:34:44 --> 00:34:46

Sual khatima,

00:34:47 --> 00:34:48

a bad ending.

00:34:49 --> 00:34:51

Right? A bad ending.

00:34:51 --> 00:34:53

The scholars, they split this into 2,

00:34:54 --> 00:34:56

and dying, and the last thing that you

00:34:56 --> 00:34:58

are engaging in was a sin.

00:35:00 --> 00:35:00

That's

00:35:02 --> 00:35:04

one part. The other part is

00:35:04 --> 00:35:07

doing something, my brothers and my sisters, that

00:35:07 --> 00:35:08

is maybe from the matters of the world.

00:35:09 --> 00:35:09

Dunya,

00:35:10 --> 00:35:11

glitters and the glimmers of

00:35:12 --> 00:35:14

this beautiful lie. That's what we call it.

00:35:14 --> 00:35:14

Right?

00:35:17 --> 00:35:18

Especially in today's day and age my brothers

00:35:18 --> 00:35:21

and my sisters, wallahi scary times.

00:35:23 --> 00:35:25

If you are someone with children,

00:35:26 --> 00:35:27

right,

00:35:27 --> 00:35:29

you should be terrified.

00:35:30 --> 00:35:32

And if you don't have children,

00:35:33 --> 00:35:35

I'm sure everyone here is looking to get

00:35:35 --> 00:35:35

married.

00:35:36 --> 00:35:38

If you're not looking to get married, there's

00:35:38 --> 00:35:39

nothing wrong with you.

00:35:40 --> 00:35:41

Come see me. Right?

00:35:43 --> 00:35:46

After getting married that excitement dies down.

00:35:47 --> 00:35:49

You're looking for the next big thing which

00:35:49 --> 00:35:50

is to have children.

00:35:51 --> 00:35:54

It comes with a huge responsibility.

00:35:56 --> 00:35:57

Right?

00:35:57 --> 00:35:59

I'm sure my brothers and my sisters,

00:36:00 --> 00:36:01

we are well aware

00:36:02 --> 00:36:03

of what is taking place

00:36:03 --> 00:36:04

in schools,

00:36:05 --> 00:36:06

right?

00:36:06 --> 00:36:08

That which is being shoved down the throats

00:36:08 --> 00:36:09

of our children,

00:36:09 --> 00:36:10

right?

00:36:11 --> 00:36:12

And slapped on their faces.

00:36:13 --> 00:36:15

Are you brothers and sisters with me?

00:36:17 --> 00:36:18

Their ideology,

00:36:19 --> 00:36:20

their fitrah,

00:36:20 --> 00:36:22

their natural disposition is being distorted.

00:36:29 --> 00:36:30

You know my brothers and my sisters, the

00:36:30 --> 00:36:32

one who narrated the most Hadith, who is

00:36:32 --> 00:36:34

he? Does anyone know?

00:36:34 --> 00:36:35

Abu Hurairah.

00:36:36 --> 00:36:38

We're going to Abu Hurairah visit tomorrow InshaAllah.

00:36:38 --> 00:36:39

I hope to see every single one of

00:36:39 --> 00:36:40

you guys.

00:36:41 --> 00:36:43

The one who narrated the most Hadith was

00:36:43 --> 00:36:45

none other than Abu Hurayra.

00:36:45 --> 00:36:47

Who was second in line? Does anyone know?

00:36:50 --> 00:36:51

According

00:36:55 --> 00:36:57

to? Give me evidence, guys. According to?

00:36:59 --> 00:37:01

That was SubhanAllah the way you guys said

00:37:01 --> 00:37:03

it, Yani, it's like unanimous agreement.

00:37:06 --> 00:37:07

According to

00:37:08 --> 00:37:08

Asiyyatirahmatullahi

00:37:09 --> 00:37:10

alaihi was got an Alfiya,

00:37:11 --> 00:37:13

a thousand line poem, He says well,

00:37:15 --> 00:37:17

Abu Hurayra tilib n Umar, the one who

00:37:17 --> 00:37:19

narrated the most Hadith of the Hurayra and

00:37:19 --> 00:37:22

then Abdullah ibn Umar. Yes, Aisha radiAllahu ta'ala

00:37:22 --> 00:37:23

is in the top 5.

00:37:24 --> 00:37:25

We'll go after that. Do you know how

00:37:25 --> 00:37:27

many hadith he narrated?

00:37:30 --> 00:37:31

Abdullah ibn Amr?

00:37:33 --> 00:37:33

He's guessing

00:37:35 --> 00:37:36

1630

00:37:37 --> 00:37:37

Hadith.

00:37:38 --> 00:37:40

Why am I mentioning all of this my

00:37:40 --> 00:37:41

brothers and sisters?

00:37:41 --> 00:37:43

Put your hand up if you've been to

00:37:43 --> 00:37:43

the Kaaba.

00:37:45 --> 00:37:47

After we finished doing Tawaf, where do you

00:37:47 --> 00:37:48

go?

00:37:49 --> 00:37:51

Safa and Marwa, right? Safa and Marwa is

00:37:51 --> 00:37:53

from the places where your Duas

00:37:54 --> 00:37:54

get accepted.

00:37:57 --> 00:37:59

Out of all the duas that Abdullah ibn

00:37:59 --> 00:38:01

Umar, the son of Umar Khanhfa

00:38:02 --> 00:38:04

could make, you know, duas that he would

00:38:04 --> 00:38:05

make?

00:38:14 --> 00:38:16

He would say, Allahumma innakaqtudruoni

00:38:17 --> 00:38:17

astajiblakum

00:38:18 --> 00:38:18

bayinnaqalatukhifilmi'ad,

00:38:20 --> 00:38:21

O Allah You promised,

00:38:21 --> 00:38:23

call on to me and I'm going to

00:38:23 --> 00:38:25

respond and You never break Your promises.

00:38:26 --> 00:38:29

You Allah, just as You guided me to

00:38:29 --> 00:38:29

Al Islam,

00:38:30 --> 00:38:32

don't take Islam away from me.

00:38:33 --> 00:38:35

Wa antata wa fani wa anna Musliman.

00:38:36 --> 00:38:37

Allow me to die

00:38:38 --> 00:38:39

as a Muslim.

00:38:40 --> 00:38:42

Subdullai my brothers and sisters,

00:38:45 --> 00:38:47

right? Aren't we more in need to make

00:38:47 --> 00:38:48

this kind of dua?

00:38:48 --> 00:38:50

Especially with all the isms and the schisms

00:38:51 --> 00:38:53

and the rainbows and whatever have you around

00:38:53 --> 00:38:54

us,

00:38:54 --> 00:38:55

right?

00:38:56 --> 00:38:57

That we are being bombarded with

00:38:58 --> 00:38:59

to ask Allah

00:39:00 --> 00:39:02

to keep us firm, my brothers and my

00:39:02 --> 00:39:02

sisters.

00:39:03 --> 00:39:04

He wasn't the only one,

00:39:05 --> 00:39:06

right, Prophet

00:39:07 --> 00:39:09

You Muqalib al Khloobsib al Khloobsib al Khloob

00:39:09 --> 00:39:11

al Adeenik, O turner of the hearts, keep

00:39:11 --> 00:39:11

our hearts firm.

00:39:22 --> 00:39:23

Tawafani Muslimanwalhekhli

00:39:23 --> 00:39:25

basatihahein Yusuf said, Wajnubni

00:39:26 --> 00:39:28

wabaniyah Nabud al Islam Ibrahim said, the man

00:39:28 --> 00:39:30

who broke the idol that is making duayyah

00:39:30 --> 00:39:32

Allah prevent me and my offspring from worshipping

00:39:32 --> 00:39:33

idols,

00:39:34 --> 00:39:34

right.

00:39:35 --> 00:39:35

Musa likewise

00:39:37 --> 00:39:40

begging Allah Allah to allow them to die

00:39:41 --> 00:39:43

as Muslims and in the right state.

00:39:49 --> 00:39:51

My brothers and my sisters, these are examples

00:39:51 --> 00:39:53

from books of the scholars of the past.

00:39:54 --> 00:39:56

I really, really hope it strikes a chord

00:39:57 --> 00:39:58

and perhaps

00:39:59 --> 00:40:00

it may well be,

00:40:00 --> 00:40:03

right, one of the most important things that

00:40:03 --> 00:40:04

you take away today.

00:40:05 --> 00:40:07

Examples of a Surah Khatima,

00:40:07 --> 00:40:08

Ibn Tayyid Muhammadullah,

00:40:09 --> 00:40:11

he mentions in his Kitab Al Jawab Al

00:40:11 --> 00:40:12

Kafih.

00:40:12 --> 00:40:15

It's one of those books that really really

00:40:15 --> 00:40:17

changed the way I think I should say

00:40:17 --> 00:40:18

maybe what it changed my life.

00:40:19 --> 00:40:22

It's even translated into English, the spiritual sickness

00:40:23 --> 00:40:24

and it's cure.

00:40:24 --> 00:40:26

It really allowed me to put,

00:40:28 --> 00:40:30

right, perspectives into place,

00:40:31 --> 00:40:34

right, things began to fall into place upon

00:40:34 --> 00:40:35

going into

00:40:35 --> 00:40:37

this book when Sheikh Abdul Zakir brother was

00:40:37 --> 00:40:38

teaching us in the Haram,

00:40:38 --> 00:40:39

right.

00:40:40 --> 00:40:42

It's called the spiritual sickness in school, it

00:40:42 --> 00:40:43

speaks about the consequences

00:40:44 --> 00:40:46

and the effects of sins. Many people my

00:40:46 --> 00:40:47

brothers and my sisters

00:40:47 --> 00:40:49

they think when you sin or when you

00:40:49 --> 00:40:52

oppress another or when you harm another the

00:40:52 --> 00:40:53

only time you have to answer

00:40:54 --> 00:40:56

to these sins is when you meet Allah.

00:40:57 --> 00:40:58

You're wrong my friend,

00:40:59 --> 00:41:01

your sins will come back to haunt you

00:41:01 --> 00:41:02

sooner or later,

00:41:04 --> 00:41:06

especially if you are oppressing others.

00:41:06 --> 00:41:08

How many guys that I see on the

00:41:08 --> 00:41:08

streets,

00:41:09 --> 00:41:11

they would break people's legs,

00:41:11 --> 00:41:13

stub them up just to teach them a

00:41:13 --> 00:41:15

lesson, and then eventually, they ended up in

00:41:15 --> 00:41:15

a wheelchair.

00:41:18 --> 00:41:20

Examples after examples,

00:41:21 --> 00:41:23

Right. You may ask

00:41:23 --> 00:41:26

how is it possible that someone is doing

00:41:26 --> 00:41:26

great

00:41:27 --> 00:41:29

and then just before the end of his

00:41:29 --> 00:41:29

life

00:41:30 --> 00:41:33

he dies a very very bad way. You

00:41:33 --> 00:41:34

know the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alaihi

00:41:34 --> 00:41:37

wa sallam that is Mahal Ishqali Kathirmin Anas.

00:41:45 --> 00:41:47

He keeps doing. Imagine now, guys,

00:41:47 --> 00:41:49

someone lives for 70 years,

00:41:49 --> 00:41:52

69 years he's doing righteous deeds,

00:41:53 --> 00:41:55

and then there's only a little bit left

00:41:55 --> 00:41:56

before he goes into Aljannah.

00:41:57 --> 00:41:58

Right?

00:41:58 --> 00:42:01

Little bit left. He does the actions of

00:42:01 --> 00:42:02

the people of the fire and that's how

00:42:02 --> 00:42:02

he dies.

00:42:04 --> 00:42:07

Ibnur Rajabi says, lead the sea set in

00:42:07 --> 00:42:07

fiqalbih

00:42:08 --> 00:42:09

because of a disease in his heart.

00:42:10 --> 00:42:11

You know what the disease is? I'll tell

00:42:11 --> 00:42:13

you guys, and I've seen it happen to

00:42:13 --> 00:42:13

a lot of people.

00:42:14 --> 00:42:16

Even a brother who went for Hajj and

00:42:16 --> 00:42:18

he came back to try and flip his

00:42:18 --> 00:42:20

life around, but the kind of mindset he

00:42:20 --> 00:42:21

had was,

00:42:22 --> 00:42:24

well, I already made Tawba once, let me

00:42:24 --> 00:42:25

just go to the club.

00:42:26 --> 00:42:28

Right. Let me just go hang out.

00:42:28 --> 00:42:30

Let me just go play around with her.

00:42:30 --> 00:42:32

I'll do it and then I'm gonna make

00:42:32 --> 00:42:33

Tawba again. This is a disease.

00:42:35 --> 00:42:37

He knows what is right and what is

00:42:37 --> 00:42:39

wrong. I already made Tawba once, he thinks

00:42:39 --> 00:42:40

he can deceive Allah

00:42:41 --> 00:42:44

and guess what? How many people do we

00:42:44 --> 00:42:44

find?

00:42:44 --> 00:42:47

I will and I shall repent. How many

00:42:47 --> 00:42:49

people went to sleep and never woke up

00:42:49 --> 00:42:52

And they kept on telling them I shall

00:42:52 --> 00:42:54

and I will and I want to make

00:42:54 --> 00:42:55

Dua for me,

00:42:55 --> 00:42:57

right? As soon as he leaves he goes

00:42:57 --> 00:42:58

back to his ways.

00:43:00 --> 00:43:01

Perhaps I will put it in the context

00:43:01 --> 00:43:03

as to why someone may die like that.

00:43:04 --> 00:43:06

So Ibn Uqayim here is saying there there

00:43:06 --> 00:43:07

was an individual who was on his deathbed,

00:43:07 --> 00:43:08

my brothers and my sisters.

00:43:09 --> 00:43:10

They tried to get him to say La

00:43:10 --> 00:43:11

Illahil Allah.

00:43:12 --> 00:43:14

Everyone here can say it, like I said,

00:43:14 --> 00:43:17

it's not that straightforward on your deathbed. Right?

00:43:18 --> 00:43:20

Guess what this man who's on his deathbed

00:43:20 --> 00:43:21

said? He's on his deathbed and he says

00:43:21 --> 00:43:22

this,

00:43:25 --> 00:43:27

wama aarifu ani salaytulillahi

00:43:27 --> 00:43:28

salatanfalam

00:43:29 --> 00:43:29

yukulah.

00:43:30 --> 00:43:31

Are you guys alright?

00:43:33 --> 00:43:34

Are you guys alright?

00:43:34 --> 00:43:35

Adiqa.

00:43:36 --> 00:43:39

Stand up. Stand up. Stand up. The one

00:43:39 --> 00:43:40

who's the imamah.

00:43:41 --> 00:43:41

It's

00:43:48 --> 00:43:50

I I know, so they come move again.

00:43:54 --> 00:43:55

No. No. It's not Adi. Jokso.

00:43:56 --> 00:43:59

Stand up. Please come and say You.

00:44:00 --> 00:44:02

Do the walk of shame, Haya.

00:44:12 --> 00:44:13

Don't worry. I haven't done anything once. Come

00:44:13 --> 00:44:14

here.

00:44:20 --> 00:44:21

Prophet, pay attention when you need it done,

00:44:22 --> 00:44:24

these statements are very very powerful.

00:44:24 --> 00:44:26

He's on his deathbed, he says,

00:44:33 --> 00:44:36

How is this going to benefit me?

00:44:36 --> 00:44:39

Right. I never prayed a single prayer,

00:44:40 --> 00:44:41

and He never said it.

00:44:42 --> 00:44:43

Right.

00:44:45 --> 00:44:47

Do you guys watch soccer?

00:44:48 --> 00:44:50

That's how you guys say it, right?

00:44:51 --> 00:44:52

Have you guys heard of an individual called

00:44:52 --> 00:44:53

Alan Shearer?

00:44:54 --> 00:44:56

Do you guys know him? Yeah. Or do

00:44:56 --> 00:44:57

you guys watch hockey?

00:44:58 --> 00:45:00

Canada is known for hockey.

00:45:07 --> 00:45:08

He said only the Adans.

00:45:10 --> 00:45:11

What about Adiqa?

00:45:16 --> 00:45:18

And I even heard Sheikh Martalla once I

00:45:18 --> 00:45:20

mentioned this and I heard others as well

00:45:20 --> 00:45:21

say this to me directly.

00:45:23 --> 00:45:25

This guy was one of the biggest or

00:45:25 --> 00:45:26

greatest

00:45:26 --> 00:45:27

football scorers,

00:45:28 --> 00:45:29

soccer scorers, sorry,

00:45:29 --> 00:45:32

right? He still holds the record

00:45:32 --> 00:45:34

of the amount of goals that have been

00:45:34 --> 00:45:35

scored.

00:45:36 --> 00:45:37

The Sheikh said to me there was a

00:45:37 --> 00:45:38

child

00:45:38 --> 00:45:40

who was crazy this football player,

00:45:41 --> 00:45:42

He's like Lebron James in a basketball scene.

00:45:43 --> 00:45:45

Right? You can just substitute it.

00:45:47 --> 00:45:49

You walk into this young man's house or

00:45:49 --> 00:45:52

into his bedroom, everything is Alan Shearer.

00:45:52 --> 00:45:54

Wallpaper Alan Shearer,

00:45:54 --> 00:45:56

his duvet Alan Shearer,

00:46:06 --> 00:46:07

Well that you guys are laughing,

00:46:08 --> 00:46:09

I don't find it funny,

00:46:10 --> 00:46:11

right.

00:46:11 --> 00:46:12

Woman aktharamin

00:46:13 --> 00:46:14

shayin mata'aleh.

00:46:14 --> 00:46:17

Whoever is excessive in doing something is very

00:46:17 --> 00:46:18

likely going to die like that.

00:46:20 --> 00:46:22

Right. Another example my brothers and my sisters,

00:46:22 --> 00:46:23

Ib Nur Rajab mentions

00:46:23 --> 00:46:26

in his explanation of 40 hadith is called

00:46:26 --> 00:46:27

Jami'aluloomi

00:46:27 --> 00:46:29

wal Hikam. When speaking about one of the

00:46:29 --> 00:46:31

righteous scholars of the past called Abdul Aziz

00:46:31 --> 00:46:32

ibn Abiirawad.

00:46:35 --> 00:46:37

They wanted he was on his deathbed, this

00:46:37 --> 00:46:39

individual and Abdul Aziz ibn Abi Rawad walked

00:46:39 --> 00:46:40

in

00:46:41 --> 00:46:42

And they tried to get him to say

00:46:42 --> 00:46:44

La ilaha illallah, you know what this guy

00:46:44 --> 00:46:45

on the deathbed said?

00:46:48 --> 00:46:50

He's a disbeliever in what you're asking him

00:46:50 --> 00:46:52

to say, and then he died.

00:46:53 --> 00:46:55

Abdul Aziz ibn Abi Rawad

00:46:55 --> 00:46:58

did some digging up to see what kind

00:46:58 --> 00:46:59

of life he lived.

00:47:00 --> 00:47:01

Do you know what kind of life he

00:47:01 --> 00:47:02

lived brothers and sisters?

00:47:03 --> 00:47:04

He used to be an alcoholic

00:47:06 --> 00:47:07

and then that's how he died.

00:47:08 --> 00:47:10

Another example my brothers and sisters that Imam

00:47:10 --> 00:47:11

Daha'bir Ahmadullah mentions,

00:47:12 --> 00:47:14

right, about a man

00:47:15 --> 00:47:17

that used to sit,

00:47:17 --> 00:47:19

he never used to do it himself but

00:47:19 --> 00:47:21

he used to sit with people who used

00:47:21 --> 00:47:22

to drink.

00:47:22 --> 00:47:24

Sometimes a brother says to me, Wallahi, I'm

00:47:24 --> 00:47:25

not doing it. I'm just sitting.

00:47:26 --> 00:47:28

I'm just, you know, kicking back with the

00:47:28 --> 00:47:29

with the Laz, right?

00:47:30 --> 00:47:31

Or the homies.

00:47:34 --> 00:47:35

He's on his deathbed. They tried to get

00:47:35 --> 00:47:37

him to say La ilaha illallah. What do

00:47:37 --> 00:47:38

you think he said?

00:47:38 --> 00:47:40

He never used to do it. He just

00:47:40 --> 00:47:41

used to sit with him.

00:47:42 --> 00:47:43

Right.

00:47:45 --> 00:47:47

Drink and pour the alcohol for me. And

00:47:47 --> 00:47:49

that's how we died, brothers and sisters.

00:47:49 --> 00:47:51

He just used to hang around with them.

00:47:52 --> 00:47:53

He just used to sit with them, my

00:47:53 --> 00:47:54

brothers and my sisters.

00:47:57 --> 00:47:59

We're not done, my brothers and my sisters.

00:47:59 --> 00:48:01

Have you guys heard of chess?

00:48:04 --> 00:48:06

Ibn Al Qayyib Rahmatullahi Alaihi

00:48:08 --> 00:48:10

Al Zahabi in his Kitab al Kabair, he

00:48:10 --> 00:48:12

talks about someone who used to love playing

00:48:12 --> 00:48:12

chess,

00:48:13 --> 00:48:13

Shatranj,

00:48:14 --> 00:48:15

right.

00:48:15 --> 00:48:17

He's on his deathbed, he used to do

00:48:17 --> 00:48:18

this a lot.

00:48:18 --> 00:48:20

They tried to get him to say La

00:48:20 --> 00:48:22

Illahillaha, which thing he said?

00:48:22 --> 00:48:23

Checkmate.

00:48:27 --> 00:48:28

Waman Aktharamin

00:48:29 --> 00:48:29

Shayin Mata'alai,

00:48:30 --> 00:48:32

whoever is excessive in doing something is very

00:48:32 --> 00:48:34

likely going to die like that.

00:48:35 --> 00:48:36

Are you prophets and sisters with me? That

00:48:36 --> 00:48:38

is the general principle,

00:48:39 --> 00:48:40

right.

00:48:41 --> 00:48:43

Let me ask you guys a question, playing

00:48:43 --> 00:48:44

ball, basketball is haram,

00:48:46 --> 00:48:47

playing soccer is haram.

00:48:48 --> 00:48:50

I'm a bit of a baller myself guys.

00:48:51 --> 00:48:53

I will humiliate you on the football pitch.

00:48:55 --> 00:48:55

Alright.

00:48:58 --> 00:48:59

Let me ask you guys a question, does

00:48:59 --> 00:49:01

anyone want to die on the basketball court,

00:49:02 --> 00:49:03

on the soccer pitch,

00:49:04 --> 00:49:05

football pitch?

00:49:07 --> 00:49:07

Right?

00:49:08 --> 00:49:10

No one is saying that it's haram

00:49:10 --> 00:49:11

and again this is just common sense.

00:49:13 --> 00:49:15

If you're doing this all the time,

00:49:15 --> 00:49:16

what's the likelihood that you will die on

00:49:16 --> 00:49:17

that?

00:49:18 --> 00:49:19

Using your phone is a Haram?

00:49:21 --> 00:49:22

Is it Haram guys?

00:49:23 --> 00:49:25

Right? I use an Apple phone.

00:49:29 --> 00:49:30

I was gonna say something about Samsung, but

00:49:30 --> 00:49:32

I don't wanna upset my brothers.

00:49:33 --> 00:49:35

They've been getting offended. I've been very opinionated

00:49:35 --> 00:49:36

about Samsung.

00:49:38 --> 00:49:41

I'm a die hard loyal Apple fan guys.

00:49:43 --> 00:49:45

You're on your phone all day using social

00:49:45 --> 00:49:46

media as a haram guys,

00:49:47 --> 00:49:49

but if you're on there all day every

00:49:49 --> 00:49:51

day, my brothers, all day every day, is

00:49:51 --> 00:49:52

that how you wanna die?

00:49:52 --> 00:49:55

On TikTok just skimming, skimming, skimming,

00:49:55 --> 00:49:57

sha Allahu ta'ala, you're all gonna delete TikTok

00:49:57 --> 00:49:58

before you leave this masjid.

00:50:01 --> 00:50:03

Right, the devil's app.

00:50:04 --> 00:50:05

Right.

00:50:07 --> 00:50:08

Like I said,

00:50:08 --> 00:50:11

Muhammad Akh Thalamin Shayin, Mata'ala, whoever is excessive

00:50:11 --> 00:50:13

in doing something is very likely going to

00:50:13 --> 00:50:15

die like that. That's common sense.

00:50:17 --> 00:50:18

The last one that I want to mention

00:50:18 --> 00:50:20

my brothers and my sisters is what Ibn

00:50:20 --> 00:50:21

Khayyim Muhammadullahalayyim

00:50:21 --> 00:50:22

had mentioned of.

00:50:25 --> 00:50:27

Actually, no. There's another one as well.

00:50:28 --> 00:50:30

About a man who used to and

00:50:31 --> 00:50:31

sing,

00:50:32 --> 00:50:34

And I'm going to mention exactly

00:50:35 --> 00:50:37

what Ibn Al Qayyim mentioned,

00:50:37 --> 00:50:39

and by the way, passed away 700 years

00:50:39 --> 00:50:40

ago, right.

00:50:40 --> 00:50:44

He said, Kana yuhibbul agani wa yuradiduha.

00:50:45 --> 00:50:46

He used to love music

00:50:47 --> 00:50:50

and he used to and say it repeatedly

00:50:50 --> 00:50:52

all the time. He's on his deathbed, my

00:50:52 --> 00:50:53

brothers and my sisters, what do you think

00:50:53 --> 00:50:54

he said?

00:50:55 --> 00:50:56

You know, Ib Raqqaiem says,

00:50:56 --> 00:50:58

he would say tentata,

00:50:58 --> 00:50:59

tentata,

00:51:00 --> 00:51:01

tentata,

00:51:01 --> 00:51:03

tenta, and that's how he departed from the

00:51:03 --> 00:51:04

world.

00:51:04 --> 00:51:07

You know, I mentioned this on the Mimbar

00:51:07 --> 00:51:07

on a Friday,

00:51:08 --> 00:51:10

in one of the biggest mosques in Manchester

00:51:10 --> 00:51:11

called Mazzefir Khan, I think you guys have

00:51:11 --> 00:51:13

maybe seen it, run by our Sheikh, Sheikh

00:51:13 --> 00:51:14

Mohammed Ali.

00:51:15 --> 00:51:17

A Somali uncle came up to me and

00:51:17 --> 00:51:19

he said, I want to share something with

00:51:19 --> 00:51:19

you.

00:51:20 --> 00:51:21

Right.

00:51:22 --> 00:51:23

And he said in your next lecture mention

00:51:23 --> 00:51:24

it.

00:51:25 --> 00:51:27

He goes, I went back home to Somalia.

00:51:28 --> 00:51:29

And there was a lady

00:51:30 --> 00:51:31

who was on her deathbed.

00:51:31 --> 00:51:33

Every time they tried to get there to

00:51:33 --> 00:51:35

say La Illa Illa, she would move her

00:51:35 --> 00:51:36

head to the left.

00:51:38 --> 00:51:40

She'll move her head to the left and

00:51:40 --> 00:51:41

then she would

00:51:42 --> 00:51:44

What kind of life did she live? You

00:51:44 --> 00:51:46

know whenever there was a party, they would

00:51:46 --> 00:51:47

call her over,

00:51:48 --> 00:51:50

right, to do these Somali songs.

00:51:52 --> 00:51:54

Whatever they call it?

00:51:56 --> 00:51:56

Karamba.

00:51:58 --> 00:51:58

Karamba. Whatever

00:51:59 --> 00:51:59

it's called.

00:52:00 --> 00:52:01

You know when they put on the dira

00:52:01 --> 00:52:03

and they start playing that thing,

00:52:03 --> 00:52:04

right?

00:52:05 --> 00:52:07

This is what she was known for. She

00:52:07 --> 00:52:08

would they would invite her over, give her

00:52:08 --> 00:52:09

a bit of money, and this is how

00:52:09 --> 00:52:10

she would do.

00:52:11 --> 00:52:13

And he goes, Wallaha, witness it.

00:52:14 --> 00:52:17

Right? You may think all of these narrations

00:52:17 --> 00:52:19

or all these statements always out of touch

00:52:19 --> 00:52:19

with reality.

00:52:21 --> 00:52:22

Here is one

00:52:22 --> 00:52:24

for that which is very well known, my

00:52:24 --> 00:52:26

brothers and my sisters, of that which happened

00:52:26 --> 00:52:26

now.

00:52:27 --> 00:52:28

My mother one time told me that there

00:52:28 --> 00:52:30

was his brother. He was on his deathbed.

00:52:30 --> 00:52:33

He had HIV or AIDS or something along

00:52:33 --> 00:52:33

the lines.

00:52:34 --> 00:52:35

They tried to get him to say La

00:52:35 --> 00:52:36

ilaha illallah.

00:52:37 --> 00:52:39

He said bring my girlfriend, bring my girlfriend.

00:52:41 --> 00:52:42

He's about to die in a man has

00:52:42 --> 00:52:43

AIDS or HIV,

00:52:44 --> 00:52:46

and that's how he departed from this world,

00:52:46 --> 00:52:47

my brothers and my sisters.

00:52:47 --> 00:52:48

Right.

00:52:49 --> 00:52:52

Another example that Ibn Al Qayy mentions about

00:52:52 --> 00:52:53

someone who used

00:52:54 --> 00:52:56

to just be doing business all day every

00:52:56 --> 00:52:57

day.

00:52:58 --> 00:53:01

And he says Akbarani Ba'udu Jarr. Some businessmen,

00:53:01 --> 00:53:02

they told me this.

00:53:04 --> 00:53:06

The individual was on his deathbed and they

00:53:06 --> 00:53:07

tried to get him to say La la

00:53:07 --> 00:53:08

ilaha illa Allah.

00:53:09 --> 00:53:10

And you know what his response was?

00:53:11 --> 00:53:12

Hadhi lukitaah

00:53:12 --> 00:53:12

rakhizah

00:53:14 --> 00:53:16

Right? This is very cheap,

00:53:16 --> 00:53:17

right?

00:53:17 --> 00:53:18

Hada,

00:53:18 --> 00:53:19

right,

00:53:19 --> 00:53:20

zaboonunjayid,

00:53:21 --> 00:53:22

right? Hada mushtarinjayid,

00:53:23 --> 00:53:24

this is a good customer.

00:53:26 --> 00:53:28

And that's how he passed away and this

00:53:28 --> 00:53:29

was the last thing that came out of

00:53:29 --> 00:53:32

his mouth. The principle is,

00:53:34 --> 00:53:36

Whoever is excessive in doing something is very

00:53:36 --> 00:53:38

likely going to die like that.

00:53:38 --> 00:53:40

And then it doesn't end there, my brothers

00:53:40 --> 00:53:41

and my sisters.

00:53:41 --> 00:53:43

After that, you are resurrected.

00:53:44 --> 00:53:47

Right? The end of the generation is, as

00:53:47 --> 00:53:49

the Messenger Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said, You'll

00:53:52 --> 00:53:53

be resurrected

00:53:54 --> 00:53:56

upon that which you used to do.

00:53:57 --> 00:53:58

Right, walmarummaamalahab

00:53:59 --> 00:54:01

and you'll be standing with the people that

00:54:01 --> 00:54:01

you love.

00:54:02 --> 00:54:04

If you loft these rappers, top 5,

00:54:06 --> 00:54:08

Imagine now you being brought with Him

00:54:09 --> 00:54:10

on the day of resurrection, and you guys

00:54:10 --> 00:54:12

what are side by side

00:54:12 --> 00:54:14

or any of these other rappers that we

00:54:14 --> 00:54:15

idolize.

00:54:18 --> 00:54:20

Whatever you were doing before, you'll be resurrected

00:54:20 --> 00:54:21

upon that.

00:54:22 --> 00:54:23

We are told my brothers and my sisters

00:54:23 --> 00:54:25

about someone who died in the state of

00:54:25 --> 00:54:26

Ihram,

00:54:27 --> 00:54:27

right.

00:54:32 --> 00:54:32

On Yomartiyama,

00:54:33 --> 00:54:34

He will be resurrected and he is saying

00:54:34 --> 00:54:38

Labbeik Allahum Labbeik Labbeik Lasharika Lakal Abbeik.

00:54:38 --> 00:54:41

We are told about a shahid, a Marta,

00:54:42 --> 00:54:42

right?

00:54:43 --> 00:54:45

Someone who died for the sake of Allah

00:54:45 --> 00:54:45

in Jihad

00:54:46 --> 00:54:47

And just in case we have CNN or

00:54:47 --> 00:54:50

Fox News here, ready to take out of

00:54:50 --> 00:54:51

context, I'm about to say I'm not recruiting

00:54:51 --> 00:54:52

for ISIS.

00:54:52 --> 00:54:54

Jihad is part of our religion, I am

00:54:54 --> 00:54:55

unapologetic

00:54:55 --> 00:54:58

about it. And there are what? Rules and

00:54:58 --> 00:54:58

regulations,

00:54:59 --> 00:55:00

not what they are doing.

00:55:01 --> 00:55:01

Right?

00:55:02 --> 00:55:04

As I know, even amongst us,

00:55:04 --> 00:55:06

everywhere I go, they're following us around

00:55:07 --> 00:55:08

waiting for every slip

00:55:10 --> 00:55:11

so they can what? Have a field day

00:55:11 --> 00:55:13

with it, and we're not going to give

00:55:13 --> 00:55:14

them a chance.

00:55:16 --> 00:55:16

Right.

00:55:17 --> 00:55:18

You died in Al Jihad.

00:55:19 --> 00:55:20

Listen, not Jihad what they're doing on the

00:55:20 --> 00:55:22

streets of Toronto, guys.

00:55:22 --> 00:55:24

2 Muslims are squaring up to one another.

00:55:24 --> 00:55:25

We already mentioned

00:55:26 --> 00:55:26

Al Qaatiluwalmaktulafinar,

00:55:28 --> 00:55:29

the one who killed and the one who

00:55:29 --> 00:55:31

was killed, they're both in the Hellfire, the

00:55:31 --> 00:55:31

Messenger

00:55:32 --> 00:55:32

told us.

00:55:33 --> 00:55:33

Right?

00:55:34 --> 00:55:35

So he died in Jihad,

00:55:36 --> 00:55:37

Messenger

00:55:37 --> 00:55:39

said don't wash him.

00:55:39 --> 00:55:41

He will be resurrected, Yomar Qiyamati

00:55:45 --> 00:55:45

Right?

00:55:46 --> 00:55:48

Where he was wounded, it will have the

00:55:48 --> 00:55:50

color of blood and the rih, the smell

00:55:50 --> 00:55:50

of musk.

00:55:53 --> 00:55:54

We are told my brothers and my sisters

00:55:54 --> 00:55:55

also,

00:55:56 --> 00:55:56

right,

00:55:57 --> 00:55:59

the one who died upon the Shahadah saying

00:55:59 --> 00:56:01

La Illahillallah, he will be resurrected saying La

00:56:01 --> 00:56:02

Illahillah.

00:56:03 --> 00:56:05

Another example that I've written down here my

00:56:05 --> 00:56:06

brothers and my sisters,

00:56:07 --> 00:56:08

right?

00:56:09 --> 00:56:10

Someone who died

00:56:10 --> 00:56:11

in a state

00:56:11 --> 00:56:12

where he was drunk

00:56:14 --> 00:56:15

or high,

00:56:17 --> 00:56:19

Both come under this, my brothers and my

00:56:19 --> 00:56:19

sisters.

00:56:20 --> 00:56:21

Does it happen

00:56:22 --> 00:56:25

every single Eid we hear something similar to

00:56:25 --> 00:56:25

this?

00:56:27 --> 00:56:29

Right? I've been saying it in Ramadan.

00:56:30 --> 00:56:32

The video was going viral, that one minute

00:56:32 --> 00:56:35

clip how I hear every single year

00:56:35 --> 00:56:38

when someone dies either maybe with alcohol in

00:56:38 --> 00:56:40

his mouth, now you have these balloons,

00:56:40 --> 00:56:41

right?

00:56:43 --> 00:56:45

Or he's inside of a room with a

00:56:45 --> 00:56:46

sister doing some Haram.

00:56:47 --> 00:56:49

Every single Eid I hear about that,

00:56:50 --> 00:56:51

Right. Here

00:56:51 --> 00:56:53

the Messenger sallallahu alaihi wasallam told us, Hadith

00:56:53 --> 00:56:54

Anasalabiurayrah.

00:57:01 --> 00:57:01

Whoever dies

00:57:02 --> 00:57:02

intoxicated

00:57:04 --> 00:57:05

in the grave,

00:57:06 --> 00:57:06

right,

00:57:06 --> 00:57:08

Or should I say before when Malak almoh,

00:57:08 --> 00:57:10

the Angel of death comes to him, he

00:57:10 --> 00:57:12

will be staring at it in an intoxicated

00:57:13 --> 00:57:14

manner, and then in the grave,

00:57:15 --> 00:57:16

right?

00:57:16 --> 00:57:18

Will you add your mumkaran wanakiran,

00:57:19 --> 00:57:20

sakrana,

00:57:20 --> 00:57:22

the 2 angels write I will come to

00:57:22 --> 00:57:22

you mumkaranakeer,

00:57:25 --> 00:57:25

right,

00:57:36 --> 00:57:39

intoxication. Right. Ila khandaqin fiwasati jahannam yusammasakran.

00:57:40 --> 00:57:42

And then he will be taken to a

00:57:42 --> 00:57:44

pit from the pits of Jahannam.

00:57:44 --> 00:57:46

It is called Sakran,

00:57:47 --> 00:57:49

and the examples are many. Likewise, someone who

00:57:49 --> 00:57:51

is arrogant. We walk on the face of

00:57:51 --> 00:57:53

this earth in an arrogant manner, right, thinking

00:57:53 --> 00:57:55

that we are something.

00:57:55 --> 00:57:57

You know, I live on the 15th floor

00:57:57 --> 00:57:58

in Lestar,

00:57:59 --> 00:57:59

right.

00:58:00 --> 00:58:02

You look down, you see human beings walking

00:58:02 --> 00:58:03

around, right?

00:58:04 --> 00:58:06

They're like a dot. That's how small you

00:58:06 --> 00:58:09

are. No matter how much money you make

00:58:09 --> 00:58:11

or how much money you've acquired,

00:58:11 --> 00:58:13

you are that dot

00:58:13 --> 00:58:15

that you see walking around. The Messenger Sallallahu

00:58:15 --> 00:58:18

Alaihi Wasallam told us Yuhsharul Mutakabiroona

00:58:18 --> 00:58:19

yomarkiamati

00:58:19 --> 00:58:20

amthalatharifisoririjal.

00:58:23 --> 00:58:23

Yaqsharumudzulluminqulimakan

00:58:25 --> 00:58:27

the proud arrogant individual

00:58:28 --> 00:58:29

will be gathered on the day of judgment

00:58:30 --> 00:58:32

resembling tiny particles

00:58:32 --> 00:58:33

in the image of men.

00:58:35 --> 00:58:38

They will be covered with humiliation everywhere.

00:58:43 --> 00:58:43

They

00:58:50 --> 00:58:51

will be dragged into a prison in *

00:58:51 --> 00:58:52

called Bulas,

00:58:53 --> 00:58:55

submerged in the fires of fires,

00:58:55 --> 00:58:57

drinking the drippings of the people of the

00:58:57 --> 00:58:59

fire, their waste, that's what you're going to

00:58:59 --> 00:59:00

be drinking,

00:59:00 --> 00:59:02

filled with derangement.

00:59:04 --> 00:59:05

You killed someone,

00:59:06 --> 00:59:08

the generation man is actually weak.

00:59:08 --> 00:59:10

You will be carrying his head on your

00:59:10 --> 00:59:11

shoulders.

00:59:12 --> 00:59:13

That person

00:59:13 --> 00:59:15

that you took his life, you're going to

00:59:15 --> 00:59:17

be what? Resurrected holding him my brothers and

00:59:17 --> 00:59:18

my sisters.

00:59:19 --> 00:59:22

How do you want to end your life?

00:59:22 --> 00:59:25

My brothers and my sisters, a humble request,

00:59:26 --> 00:59:27

take this reminder

00:59:28 --> 00:59:30

and flip your life around, the door of

00:59:30 --> 00:59:31

repentance is open.

00:59:32 --> 00:59:34

I don't care how many lives that you

00:59:34 --> 00:59:35

have taken,

00:59:36 --> 00:59:37

how much Haram you've

00:59:37 --> 00:59:38

done.

00:59:38 --> 00:59:40

You can take 99

00:59:40 --> 00:59:42

steps or should I say a 1000000 steps

00:59:42 --> 00:59:45

away from Allah. You only need one step

00:59:45 --> 00:59:47

to return back to Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala.

00:59:48 --> 00:59:48

One step

00:59:49 --> 00:59:50

to Allahu Jala Firola,

00:59:51 --> 00:59:53

the door of repentance is open,

00:59:54 --> 00:59:56

even if you leave the religion the door

00:59:56 --> 00:59:57

of repentance is still open for you to

00:59:57 --> 00:59:58

come back.

00:59:59 --> 00:59:59

Right.

01:00:01 --> 01:00:02

Life is too short.

01:00:03 --> 01:00:04

How many bodies

01:00:05 --> 01:00:06

are we witnessing

01:00:06 --> 01:00:08

being buried, my brothers and my sisters?

01:00:09 --> 01:00:11

When are we going to wear the hijab,

01:00:11 --> 01:00:13

my sisters? When are we going to do

01:00:13 --> 01:00:15

that which is pleasing to Allah, my sisters,

01:00:15 --> 01:00:15

please?

01:00:16 --> 01:00:18

Don't let it be that the only time

01:00:18 --> 01:00:19

you are covered

01:00:20 --> 01:00:22

is when you are covered being admitted into

01:00:22 --> 01:00:22

the grave.

01:00:23 --> 01:00:26

Don't let it be that that's the only

01:00:26 --> 01:00:27

time that you are covered, my brothers and

01:00:27 --> 01:00:28

my sisters.

01:00:29 --> 01:00:29

Right.

01:00:31 --> 01:00:32

Oh, stop there, inshaAllah ta'ala.

01:00:33 --> 01:00:35

I hope you guys benefited from this reminder.

01:00:35 --> 01:00:37

Again, I just wanna say thank you to

01:00:37 --> 01:00:39

every single one of you guys, right, for

01:00:39 --> 01:00:40

really turning up.

01:00:40 --> 01:00:42

Tomorrow we have a program in Abu Huraira,

01:00:43 --> 01:00:44

and we're going to speak a little bit

01:00:44 --> 01:00:46

about one of the best chapters in the

01:00:46 --> 01:00:47

Quran, Suraj Yusuf,

01:00:49 --> 01:00:50

especially, you know, the part where

01:00:51 --> 01:00:53

she locked him in the room.

01:00:54 --> 01:00:55

Yusuf was

01:00:55 --> 01:00:58

granted half the beauty of mankind,

01:00:59 --> 01:01:01

half the beauty of mankind, Uti al Shastra

01:01:01 --> 01:01:01

al Shustun,

01:01:02 --> 01:01:04

and she was absolutely, what, blown away by

01:01:04 --> 01:01:06

how handsome he was.

01:01:06 --> 01:01:09

She couldn't control herself, lust can at times

01:01:09 --> 01:01:09

be uncontrollable.

01:01:10 --> 01:01:12

So she locked him in the room and

01:01:12 --> 01:01:14

then she said, hey, Talaq, let's get it

01:01:14 --> 01:01:14

on.

01:01:16 --> 01:01:19

That part, how to deal with these temptations

01:01:20 --> 01:01:21

and modern day fitan,

01:01:22 --> 01:01:25

we'll discuss that tomorrow InshaAllah Ta'ala, and I

01:01:25 --> 01:01:26

hope to see every single one of you

01:01:26 --> 01:01:26

guys.

01:01:27 --> 01:01:29

There will be a Q and A, right?

01:01:29 --> 01:01:30

So if you guys have any questions,

01:01:31 --> 01:01:33

you guys can write InshaAllahu Ta'ala.

01:01:34 --> 01:01:36

The brothers are handing over

01:01:37 --> 01:01:37

these papers.

01:01:41 --> 01:01:42

Can I ask you guys a question before

01:01:42 --> 01:01:43

before I leave?

01:01:44 --> 01:01:45

Have I incited violence?

01:01:46 --> 01:01:48

No. Have I incited hatred? Can you say

01:01:48 --> 01:01:51

it louder for the cameras? No. Assalamu alaikar.

01:01:53 --> 01:01:55

CNN and Fox News can go home disappointed.

01:02:23 --> 01:02:25

You know my dear respected brothers and likewise

01:02:25 --> 01:02:27

sisters Binalil Karim, I just want to remind

01:02:27 --> 01:02:28

myself and you guys as well

01:02:29 --> 01:02:31

as is a very beautiful opportunity that you

01:02:31 --> 01:02:33

guys have as Allah Azzawajalai he mentions in

01:02:33 --> 01:02:37

the Quran first aloo ahladikriin kuntumla ta'alam

01:02:37 --> 01:02:39

You have an opportunity to ask.

01:02:40 --> 01:02:42

For the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam he mentioned

01:02:42 --> 01:02:43

that 2 individuals,

01:02:44 --> 01:02:45

they will not learn.

01:02:46 --> 01:02:47

1 of them being the shy one and

01:02:47 --> 01:02:49

the other being the arrogant. So take advantage

01:02:49 --> 01:02:50

of this opportunity

01:02:51 --> 01:02:52

be the ninaid kareem.

01:02:52 --> 01:02:54

We have some questions here already inshallah. I'm

01:02:54 --> 01:02:57

gonna ask the sheikh. The first one being,

01:02:57 --> 01:02:59

can you shed some light on the importance

01:02:59 --> 01:03:00

of keeping good company?

01:03:04 --> 01:03:06

My brothers and my sisters, I think this

01:03:06 --> 01:03:09

is, like, pretty straightforward and it's pretty obvious.

01:03:10 --> 01:03:12

If you hang around with bad people, you're

01:03:12 --> 01:03:13

going to, what, walk away

01:03:14 --> 01:03:16

with bad traits and whatever have you.

01:03:16 --> 01:03:17

Right?

01:03:17 --> 01:03:19

I'm gonna just switch this up a little

01:03:19 --> 01:03:19

bit.

01:03:20 --> 01:03:22

You know, some sisters have been asking me

01:03:22 --> 01:03:25

throughout the different programs that I've been delivering,

01:03:25 --> 01:03:26

what are some tips?

01:03:27 --> 01:03:28

What are some tips

01:03:29 --> 01:03:32

to help me wear my hijab

01:03:32 --> 01:03:34

to dress a lot more modestly?

01:03:35 --> 01:03:36

I know there are brothers as well. Right?

01:03:36 --> 01:03:38

There are brothers as well

01:03:38 --> 01:03:40

who are stuck in they say, I think,

01:03:40 --> 01:03:42

I ain't got caught up in the sauce.

01:03:43 --> 01:03:44

He got

01:03:44 --> 01:03:45

stuck in the system.

01:03:47 --> 01:03:48

What are some of the things that we

01:03:48 --> 01:03:49

can do,

01:03:49 --> 01:03:50

right?

01:03:50 --> 01:03:53

I'm gonna mention 3 things InshaAllah Ta'ala.

01:03:54 --> 01:03:55

Can the brothers at the back please, InshaAllahu

01:03:55 --> 01:03:57

ta'ala quieten down a little bit?

01:03:57 --> 01:03:58

Assalamualaikir.

01:03:59 --> 01:04:00

Allah I love you brothers for the sake

01:04:00 --> 01:04:02

of Allah. The fact that you guys came

01:04:02 --> 01:04:02

out today,

01:04:03 --> 01:04:03

right,

01:04:04 --> 01:04:05

honestly means a lot.

01:04:08 --> 01:04:10

I'm going to mention 3, inshaAllah ta'ala, points

01:04:10 --> 01:04:12

that can help a sister put on a

01:04:12 --> 01:04:13

hijab

01:04:14 --> 01:04:16

or just to pick up good traits, my

01:04:16 --> 01:04:17

brothers and my sisters, and it can apply

01:04:17 --> 01:04:19

to the brothers as well, just put into

01:04:19 --> 01:04:19

context.

01:04:20 --> 01:04:22

The first one, my brothers and my sisters,

01:04:24 --> 01:04:27

a sister can help herself by putting on

01:04:27 --> 01:04:29

the hijab is by hanging around with people

01:04:30 --> 01:04:31

that wear the hijab.

01:04:32 --> 01:04:33

And brothers, likewise,

01:04:34 --> 01:04:36

you want to do certain things, it becomes

01:04:36 --> 01:04:38

a lot more easier when you're hanging around

01:04:38 --> 01:04:39

with brothers that do that.

01:04:40 --> 01:04:41

Let me ask you guys a question.

01:04:42 --> 01:04:44

In the month of Ramadan, isn't it easier

01:04:44 --> 01:04:46

for us to fast in the month of

01:04:46 --> 01:04:46

Ramadan

01:04:46 --> 01:04:49

than outside the month of Ramadan? Why?

01:04:50 --> 01:04:51

Because everyone's doing it.

01:04:52 --> 01:04:53

Have you guys heard of the man who

01:04:53 --> 01:04:54

killed 99?

01:04:54 --> 01:04:56

And then he ended up killing a 100

01:04:56 --> 01:04:57

as well? You guys heard of it?

01:05:00 --> 01:05:02

He ended up killing the monk because the

01:05:02 --> 01:05:04

monk said there's no way for you to

01:05:04 --> 01:05:05

be forgiven. So he went to a scholar,

01:05:05 --> 01:05:07

a person of knowledge. He said to him,

01:05:07 --> 01:05:10

yes, even after killing a 100 you can

01:05:10 --> 01:05:10

be forgiven.

01:05:12 --> 01:05:14

He said to him, Im talikh ilaardikadawakadah,

01:05:15 --> 01:05:17

leave this city and go there.

01:05:22 --> 01:05:24

There is a group of people there who

01:05:24 --> 01:05:27

worship Allah, go and worship Allah with them.

01:05:28 --> 01:05:30

Are you brothers and sisters with me? When

01:05:30 --> 01:05:31

you're around them it will be a lot

01:05:31 --> 01:05:34

more easier for you to leave off sins

01:05:35 --> 01:05:37

and to be doing good deeds.

01:05:38 --> 01:05:39

So the sister wants to wear the hijab,

01:05:39 --> 01:05:41

a brother who wants to get out of

01:05:41 --> 01:05:42

that system.

01:05:42 --> 01:05:43

Right? This is what you're gonna have to

01:05:43 --> 01:05:45

do. Number 2, and this is more specific

01:05:45 --> 01:05:48

to our sisters, remember every time you're wearing

01:05:48 --> 01:05:48

the hijab,

01:05:50 --> 01:05:52

right, you are being rewarded for it,

01:05:53 --> 01:05:54

and this is only exclusive to you there's

01:05:54 --> 01:05:56

no equal rights here.

01:05:57 --> 01:05:59

Right, every time you wear the hijab outside

01:05:59 --> 01:06:02

you're getting rewarded for it my sister, be

01:06:02 --> 01:06:02

proud.

01:06:03 --> 01:06:05

Some sisters, right, some sisters

01:06:06 --> 01:06:07

their moms don't allow them to wear it,

01:06:07 --> 01:06:09

and they're asking me, how what can I

01:06:09 --> 01:06:10

do? Please help me.

01:06:11 --> 01:06:13

People want to practice Islam like that. We

01:06:13 --> 01:06:14

get questions sometimes,

01:06:14 --> 01:06:16

I want to pray inside of my house,

01:06:16 --> 01:06:18

but my mom doesn't allow me. Can I

01:06:18 --> 01:06:19

pray in the toilet?

01:06:21 --> 01:06:22

Especially with rebirths, can I pray in the

01:06:22 --> 01:06:23

toilet?

01:06:24 --> 01:06:24

Right.

01:06:25 --> 01:06:27

People are so desperate to practice their religion

01:06:27 --> 01:06:29

while we are trying to run away my

01:06:29 --> 01:06:30

brothers and my sisters,

01:06:33 --> 01:06:36

right? Remember every commandment of Allah and every

01:06:36 --> 01:06:36

prohibition

01:06:37 --> 01:06:40

it is in your own best interest whether

01:06:40 --> 01:06:41

you see it or not.

01:06:41 --> 01:06:43

The system, my brothers and my sisters, it's

01:06:43 --> 01:06:44

flawed,

01:06:44 --> 01:06:46

right? Liberal values,

01:06:47 --> 01:06:48

Live and let be, go and do as

01:06:48 --> 01:06:49

you wish,

01:06:50 --> 01:06:51

right.

01:06:52 --> 01:06:53

And then the third point is, my brothers

01:06:53 --> 01:06:54

and my sisters,

01:06:54 --> 01:06:56

that which will help you a lot with

01:06:56 --> 01:06:57

good company,

01:06:57 --> 01:07:01

Right? And it will perhaps, insha Allah, impact

01:07:01 --> 01:07:02

you spiritually

01:07:04 --> 01:07:06

who you're following on Instagram.

01:07:07 --> 01:07:10

My sister, you should not be following some

01:07:10 --> 01:07:12

of these Instagram influences.

01:07:13 --> 01:07:15

Sometimes we think just because Allah told us

01:07:15 --> 01:07:17

to lower our gaze from the opposite agenda,

01:07:17 --> 01:07:19

that's the only time we lower our gaze.

01:07:20 --> 01:07:21

Right?

01:07:21 --> 01:07:23

These sisters who may start off wearing the

01:07:23 --> 01:07:25

hijab, doing makeup tutorials,

01:07:25 --> 01:07:27

and then they end up taking off the

01:07:27 --> 01:07:30

hijab that will impact your heart. The way

01:07:30 --> 01:07:32

they dress, it will subconsciously creep in and

01:07:32 --> 01:07:33

likewise, you brothers,

01:07:34 --> 01:07:35

right?

01:07:36 --> 01:07:37

Because of you washing these rappers,

01:07:39 --> 01:07:39

right?

01:07:40 --> 01:07:40

These

01:07:41 --> 01:07:41

trappers,

01:07:42 --> 01:07:44

these drug dealers online,

01:07:45 --> 01:07:48

Wallahi Al Azim whether you realize it or

01:07:48 --> 01:07:50

not, you begin to behave like them, talk

01:07:50 --> 01:07:52

like them, walk like them,

01:07:52 --> 01:07:53

right?

01:07:53 --> 01:07:55

And even you start making your hair like

01:07:57 --> 01:08:00

them. It creeps in subconsciously my brothers, whether

01:08:00 --> 01:08:01

we realize it or not, And then you

01:08:01 --> 01:08:03

see yourself, what, dragging your trousers?

01:08:06 --> 01:08:08

That's what I can advise you with.

01:08:10 --> 01:08:12

How long do you have Telesha?

01:08:23 --> 01:08:24

Assalamualaikum.

01:08:25 --> 01:08:27

The next question is, can you elaborate on

01:08:27 --> 01:08:29

the importance of attending the masjid and not

01:08:29 --> 01:08:31

just consuming content online?

01:08:33 --> 01:08:35

My brothers and my sisters,

01:08:35 --> 01:08:36

right?

01:08:36 --> 01:08:38

The previous question was how to keep good

01:08:38 --> 01:08:39

company?

01:08:39 --> 01:08:41

You know, I was looking through my Instagram

01:08:41 --> 01:08:42

as I was driving here, one of the

01:08:42 --> 01:08:45

messages that I received was from my sister.

01:08:45 --> 01:08:46

She said, wallahi,

01:08:48 --> 01:08:50

something that I'm really really struggling with

01:08:51 --> 01:08:51

is loneliness.

01:08:54 --> 01:08:57

Right? I'm really really struggling with loneliness.

01:08:58 --> 01:09:00

Where do you normally find good company, my

01:09:00 --> 01:09:01

brothers and my sisters?

01:09:02 --> 01:09:05

On the streets, Toronto downtown?

01:09:05 --> 01:09:06

Is that where you find them?

01:09:07 --> 01:09:09

In the malls, you find them in the

01:09:09 --> 01:09:10

Masjid, my brothers and my sisters.

01:09:12 --> 01:09:13

Are you guys with me?

01:09:13 --> 01:09:16

Right. It is the Masjid where your Iman

01:09:16 --> 01:09:16

goes up,

01:09:17 --> 01:09:18

there's a narration.

01:09:18 --> 01:09:19

If you

01:09:22 --> 01:09:23

see somebody going back and forth to the

01:09:23 --> 01:09:25

Masjid, then bear witness that they as Iman,

01:09:25 --> 01:09:26

we take from it that your Iman goes

01:09:26 --> 01:09:27

up.

01:09:27 --> 01:09:30

Our Iman goes up in Ramadan, doesn't it?

01:09:30 --> 01:09:32

Especially in Ramadan, right?

01:09:32 --> 01:09:34

When you come for Taraweeh, you know the

01:09:34 --> 01:09:35

Imam, you prayed behind them, your Imam goes

01:09:35 --> 01:09:37

up. Sah,

01:09:40 --> 01:09:40

right?

01:09:42 --> 01:09:44

My brothers and my sisters, with this content

01:09:44 --> 01:09:45

that we take online,

01:09:46 --> 01:09:48

right, we're missing out on a lot of

01:09:48 --> 01:09:50

barakah. We know the hadithi hurrayrah where the

01:09:50 --> 01:09:51

angels, you know, they come around to you,

01:09:51 --> 01:09:53

the barakah, so on and so forth.

01:09:56 --> 01:09:57

And it's only,

01:09:58 --> 01:10:00

I'll be honest with you guys, even students

01:10:00 --> 01:10:02

of knowledge have struggled with this.

01:10:03 --> 01:10:05

When you're just online just studying yourself,

01:10:07 --> 01:10:09

you tend to have a burnout very quickly

01:10:09 --> 01:10:12

because the Shaytan is closer to Wahid Minaslain.

01:10:13 --> 01:10:15

He's closer to 1 than 2. But when

01:10:15 --> 01:10:16

you come to the Masjid, you have brothers

01:10:16 --> 01:10:18

that you're studying with,

01:10:18 --> 01:10:19

doing the work together.

01:10:20 --> 01:10:22

It's a lot more easier on the nafs.

01:10:25 --> 01:10:27

Shaa Samatar, can we get some recitation now

01:10:27 --> 01:10:28

that you're saying next to me?

01:10:39 --> 01:10:41

Became very, very dear to my heart when

01:10:41 --> 01:10:42

we was in the Medina.

01:10:43 --> 01:10:45

Very, very lovely, sincere brother. I don't want

01:10:45 --> 01:10:47

to praise him too much to his face.

01:10:48 --> 01:10:49

And it brings me so much happiness that

01:10:49 --> 01:10:51

we are saying together today.

01:10:52 --> 01:10:53

I wanted him to read Quran, and I'm

01:10:53 --> 01:10:54

sure you guys wanna hear it. He was

01:10:54 --> 01:10:56

the imam, by the way, at Maghrib time,

01:10:56 --> 01:11:00

but he doesn't want to. InshaAllah. We have

01:11:00 --> 01:11:02

a lot of questions, Akhil, so we won't

01:11:02 --> 01:11:05

InshaAllah. Sheikh Samatara will answer your questions after.

01:11:06 --> 01:11:07

Right? You guys have a lot of questions,

01:11:07 --> 01:11:09

you guys have Sheikh Ahmed as well.

01:11:10 --> 01:11:11

Where's

01:11:11 --> 01:11:13

Sayyid Yusuf Tahleel?

01:11:15 --> 01:11:16

He's the OG of the Masjid.

01:11:18 --> 01:11:19

Where is he?

01:11:22 --> 01:11:23

Woganbanuya,

01:11:23 --> 01:11:25

is that how they say it?

01:11:25 --> 01:11:27

Masaman is good, right?

01:11:28 --> 01:11:28

I'm learning.

01:11:41 --> 01:11:43

What's the solution to the one who always

01:11:43 --> 01:11:45

goes back to the old sins? Very good

01:11:45 --> 01:11:46

question.

01:11:47 --> 01:11:48

My brothers and sisters,

01:11:50 --> 01:11:51

take the following from me, right?

01:11:52 --> 01:11:53

I don't care

01:11:53 --> 01:11:55

if you fall back into that sin a

01:11:55 --> 01:11:56

100 times,

01:11:57 --> 01:11:59

every single time

01:12:00 --> 01:12:01

repent to Allah Azzawajal.

01:12:01 --> 01:12:04

Wala alfa marrah as imam and nawurrahmatullahi

01:12:05 --> 01:12:05

alaihi mentioned.

01:12:06 --> 01:12:07

Every time

01:12:08 --> 01:12:08

sincerely

01:12:09 --> 01:12:10

you show remorse

01:12:10 --> 01:12:11

and you show regret,

01:12:12 --> 01:12:12

right?

01:12:13 --> 01:12:15

You make the decision you're not gonna go

01:12:15 --> 01:12:16

back to it and even if you end

01:12:16 --> 01:12:18

up going back to you do the exact

01:12:18 --> 01:12:20

same thing. It's only a matter of time.

01:12:20 --> 01:12:23

Keep showing Allah Azza wa Jal that you

01:12:23 --> 01:12:26

badly want to stop the sin and eventually

01:12:26 --> 01:12:27

will stop it. Should I tell you guys

01:12:27 --> 01:12:29

something else that you should do? Every time

01:12:29 --> 01:12:31

you fall into that private sin,

01:12:32 --> 01:12:33

right,

01:12:33 --> 01:12:34

a lot of the time are these private

01:12:34 --> 01:12:36

sins, adult content,

01:12:37 --> 01:12:38

playing around with yourself

01:12:39 --> 01:12:41

and other filthy sins that we are trapped

01:12:41 --> 01:12:41

by.

01:12:42 --> 01:12:44

Every time you go back to the addiction,

01:12:45 --> 01:12:46

go into the bathroom,

01:12:46 --> 01:12:47

make wudu,

01:12:47 --> 01:12:49

come out and pray these 2 raka out

01:12:49 --> 01:12:50

of a Tawbah,

01:12:51 --> 01:12:52

every time.

01:12:53 --> 01:12:55

Are Your Prophet's assistant with me? The Door

01:12:55 --> 01:12:57

of Repentance open and every time you do

01:12:57 --> 01:13:00

that just give it InshaAllah Ta'ala a period

01:13:00 --> 01:13:02

of time and see why ends up happening.

01:13:05 --> 01:13:06

Are you guys with me?

01:13:10 --> 01:13:12

Where's the sisters' one? Is that the sisters'

01:13:12 --> 01:13:12

one?

01:13:13 --> 01:13:15

Equal rights, brothers and sisters. I don't know

01:13:15 --> 01:13:17

who's ready though, so Where's the sisters' one?

01:13:17 --> 01:13:18

Is it mixed?

01:13:19 --> 01:13:21

We don't want our sisters upset.

01:13:26 --> 01:13:28

How do you recommend seeking knowledge while doing

01:13:28 --> 01:13:30

uni? My brothers and my sisters, I don't

01:13:30 --> 01:13:32

believe in someone saying I don't have time.

01:13:32 --> 01:13:34

I think that's a myth.

01:13:35 --> 01:13:36

Right. It's a myth.

01:13:37 --> 01:13:39

There's always enough time. If you have your

01:13:39 --> 01:13:41

Apple, I don't know about Samsung,

01:13:42 --> 01:13:42

right,

01:13:43 --> 01:13:44

put the Samsung to the site,

01:13:45 --> 01:13:47

check your screen time on your Apple phone,

01:13:48 --> 01:13:50

how much you're spending on there.

01:13:50 --> 01:13:52

I'm sure if we cut that down by

01:13:52 --> 01:13:53

a fraction,

01:13:53 --> 01:13:55

right, we'll cut that down by a fraction,

01:13:57 --> 01:13:58

we will find enough time even if it

01:13:58 --> 01:14:01

is, what, 15 or 20 minutes a day,

01:14:02 --> 01:14:04

30 minutes a day. We learn a little

01:14:04 --> 01:14:04

bit

01:14:05 --> 01:14:08

and we keep just keeping we keep consistent

01:14:08 --> 01:14:08

on it.

01:14:09 --> 01:14:12

Does that make sense? It's always enough time.

01:14:17 --> 01:14:19

Many youth struggle with substance abuse and addiction.

01:14:20 --> 01:14:21

What are steps that they can take to

01:14:22 --> 01:14:24

what are steps that they can take in

01:14:24 --> 01:14:25

order to radically gain this from their lives?

01:14:26 --> 01:14:27

What should parents,

01:14:27 --> 01:14:29

friends, and the community do to support them?

01:14:29 --> 01:14:31

I was actually gonna say that one thing

01:14:31 --> 01:14:33

that we should do is try to support

01:14:33 --> 01:14:35

our brothers and sisters who may be suffering

01:14:35 --> 01:14:36

from these addictions.

01:14:38 --> 01:14:40

Right, you can either support them or push

01:14:40 --> 01:14:41

them further away.

01:14:41 --> 01:14:44

Secondly, I advise you to get help, stop

01:14:44 --> 01:14:45

being in denial, stop thinking that you might

01:14:45 --> 01:14:47

be okay or you can maybe want defeat

01:14:47 --> 01:14:48

to yourself.

01:14:49 --> 01:14:50

Do you guys have rehab here?

01:14:51 --> 01:14:52

Yeah.

01:14:52 --> 01:14:54

Is that something nice here? Rehab? Yeah,

01:14:55 --> 01:14:56

go to rehab.

01:14:56 --> 01:14:58

But you have to further accept that you

01:14:58 --> 01:14:58

have a problem,

01:14:59 --> 01:15:02

right? It's one thing identifying the problem, it's

01:15:02 --> 01:15:04

another finding the solution.

01:15:05 --> 01:15:07

But you have to first accept. Some people

01:15:07 --> 01:15:09

their ego gets in the way, no, I'm

01:15:09 --> 01:15:09

not gonna do it.

01:15:10 --> 01:15:13

Right? You've been tested, go to rehab.

01:15:14 --> 01:15:15

Right. Go to rehab,

01:15:17 --> 01:15:18

right.

01:15:18 --> 01:15:20

And then as soon as you come out,

01:15:20 --> 01:15:21

change your environment,

01:15:21 --> 01:15:23

spend more time in the Masjid.

01:15:41 --> 01:15:43

How do you deal with waswas, whispers of

01:15:43 --> 01:15:44

the shaitan, when it happens on a daily

01:15:44 --> 01:15:47

basis? Are they referring to Udu, Salah?

01:16:00 --> 01:16:02

How do you deal with the whispers

01:16:03 --> 01:16:05

of shaitan when it happens on a daily

01:16:05 --> 01:16:05

basis?

01:16:06 --> 01:16:07

You know, a lot of the time my

01:16:07 --> 01:16:08

brothers and my sisters, this tends to happen

01:16:08 --> 01:16:09

when you are alone.

01:16:10 --> 01:16:11

I'm just basing it on the number of

01:16:11 --> 01:16:13

questions that I receive

01:16:13 --> 01:16:15

and the type of questions I receive.

01:16:15 --> 01:16:17

Happens a lot when you are alone,

01:16:18 --> 01:16:20

right? Are you guys with me?

01:16:21 --> 01:16:23

Again, try to get away from this loneliness

01:16:24 --> 01:16:26

by being around others that are doing good.

01:16:28 --> 01:16:29

When you begin to feel as if the

01:16:29 --> 01:16:30

Shaytan is about to get the better of

01:16:30 --> 01:16:32

you, you have people that are already there

01:16:32 --> 01:16:33

to remind you.

01:16:35 --> 01:16:36

Are you brothers and sisters with me?

01:16:40 --> 01:16:42

We have been told that sometimes you might

01:16:42 --> 01:16:43

get whispers of the devil to get you

01:16:43 --> 01:16:44

to disbelief,

01:16:48 --> 01:16:50

Right. Tell yourself no and then seek refuge

01:16:50 --> 01:16:51

in Allah

01:16:52 --> 01:16:54

Inni laalamu kalimatannlawqalahaalathaha

01:16:55 --> 01:16:57

ba anhu mayajid as the Prophet sallam said,

01:16:57 --> 01:16:59

I know if something if one was to

01:16:59 --> 01:17:01

say it, whatever he's feeling will disappear,

01:17:02 --> 01:17:02

Right.

01:17:03 --> 01:17:06

Seek refuge in Allah, try to change that

01:17:06 --> 01:17:08

state that you're in. One thing I forgot

01:17:08 --> 01:17:09

to mention earlier

01:17:09 --> 01:17:11

with regards to these addictions that we keep

01:17:11 --> 01:17:13

having, my brothers and my sisters,

01:17:13 --> 01:17:15

I want you guys when you go home

01:17:15 --> 01:17:16

to write down the sin

01:17:16 --> 01:17:18

that you keep falling into,

01:17:18 --> 01:17:20

right? And then also right next to it

01:17:20 --> 01:17:22

that which is causing you to fall into

01:17:22 --> 01:17:23

the sin,

01:17:25 --> 01:17:26

Right. And then right next to it, what

01:17:26 --> 01:17:29

can I do in order to remove these

01:17:29 --> 01:17:30

causes

01:17:30 --> 01:17:32

that are leading me to Rasil?

01:17:34 --> 01:17:35

Are you Prophets and Sisters with me? You

01:17:35 --> 01:17:37

want practicality? Do that.

01:17:51 --> 01:17:52

My brothers and my sisters,

01:17:53 --> 01:17:55

you know, there's a hadith

01:17:55 --> 01:17:57

that really breaks my heart every time I

01:17:57 --> 01:17:58

come across it.

01:17:59 --> 01:17:59

Right?

01:18:01 --> 01:18:03

Abdullah ibn Umar radhiallahu ta'ala and Umar

01:18:04 --> 01:18:06

was going around the Kaaba, you know, the

01:18:06 --> 01:18:07

companion that we mentioned earlier, the son of

01:18:07 --> 01:18:08

Umar Bilhata'ala

01:18:10 --> 01:18:13

As he was doing Tawaf around the Kaaba,

01:18:13 --> 01:18:14

he saw a man

01:18:16 --> 01:18:18

that was carrying his mother

01:18:19 --> 01:18:22

on his shoulders. Please brothers, sisters, listen to

01:18:22 --> 01:18:23

this point that I'm about to make.

01:18:24 --> 01:18:26

He was carrying his mother

01:18:27 --> 01:18:28

on his shoulders,

01:18:28 --> 01:18:30

right. You know the mother that we make

01:18:30 --> 01:18:31

cry?

01:18:31 --> 01:18:32

The mother

01:18:33 --> 01:18:35

that we think is backwards,

01:18:35 --> 01:18:39

that we give a hard time to. He's

01:18:39 --> 01:18:40

doing tawaf around the Kaaba,

01:18:41 --> 01:18:43

he sees this man who's carrying his mother

01:18:43 --> 01:18:45

and comes up to Abdulai ibn Umar and

01:18:45 --> 01:18:45

he says,

01:18:46 --> 01:18:47

have I

01:18:48 --> 01:18:50

fulfilled the rights of my mother?

01:18:51 --> 01:18:52

He said, la,

01:18:53 --> 01:18:55

right, not even a single talka.

01:18:56 --> 01:18:59

Not even a single right. You guys know

01:18:59 --> 01:19:00

what a talka is?

01:19:00 --> 01:19:01

Tawqa is

01:19:01 --> 01:19:03

what? Right, a contraction.

01:19:04 --> 01:19:06

Has anyone here ever seen a woman in

01:19:06 --> 01:19:06

labor?

01:19:07 --> 01:19:08

You know, when a woman is in labor,

01:19:09 --> 01:19:10

right,

01:19:12 --> 01:19:14

these pains that she begins to get every

01:19:14 --> 01:19:16

couple of minutes, that is unbearable.

01:19:18 --> 01:19:20

Maybe in 1 hour, she gets 30 to

01:19:20 --> 01:19:22

25 or 25 to 30,

01:19:23 --> 01:19:23

right,

01:19:24 --> 01:19:25

of these pains.

01:19:28 --> 01:19:29

He said not even a single one of

01:19:29 --> 01:19:30

them.

01:19:30 --> 01:19:32

You will only know when you see your

01:19:32 --> 01:19:34

wife in labor, she's about to what? Give

01:19:34 --> 01:19:36

birth to your son, what they have to

01:19:36 --> 01:19:37

go through.

01:19:37 --> 01:19:39

He said not even a single talka.

01:19:40 --> 01:19:40

Walakinakahasanba

01:19:41 --> 01:19:42

you've done great.

01:19:43 --> 01:19:43

Walallaohujudziyaalalqaleelikathira.

01:19:48 --> 01:19:49

Right.

01:19:49 --> 01:19:52

Allah will reward you immensely for a little

01:19:52 --> 01:19:54

that you do, He'll give you a lot.

01:19:54 --> 01:19:56

Not even a single talaq, my brothers and

01:19:56 --> 01:19:58

my sisters. Are you guys with me?

01:19:59 --> 01:19:59

Right?

01:20:00 --> 01:20:01

Everything that they've done for us and now

01:20:01 --> 01:20:03

what? We grow old and we think we've

01:20:03 --> 01:20:05

become something, we throw it back on their

01:20:05 --> 01:20:06

faces. Right?

01:20:07 --> 01:20:07

Remember

01:20:08 --> 01:20:10

guys, what goes around comes around.

01:20:10 --> 01:20:12

Like I said earlier, every single one of

01:20:12 --> 01:20:13

you wants to get married and then they

01:20:13 --> 01:20:14

want to have kids,

01:20:15 --> 01:20:16

Right.

01:20:16 --> 01:20:18

You want your treats to you want your

01:20:18 --> 01:20:20

kids to treat you like that? Go do

01:20:20 --> 01:20:21

as you wish.

01:20:23 --> 01:20:24

Go do as you wish.

01:20:28 --> 01:20:30

I have a lot of questions. Okay. This

01:20:30 --> 01:20:32

is a good one. I hope you I

01:20:32 --> 01:20:34

was wondering, is Tabaruj included in not wearing

01:20:34 --> 01:20:35

makeup?

01:20:36 --> 01:20:36

I

01:20:37 --> 01:20:39

hope you wanna, thank you for your speech.

01:20:39 --> 01:20:41

I was wondering is Tabaruj does it include

01:20:41 --> 01:20:43

not wearing makeup? Jazak Allahu Khayron.

01:20:45 --> 01:20:46

My brothers and my sisters,

01:20:47 --> 01:20:50

the 2 pillars to modesty are the following.

01:20:51 --> 01:20:52

Number 1,

01:20:53 --> 01:20:53

right,

01:20:54 --> 01:20:55

or should I say

01:20:56 --> 01:20:58

the 2 pillars of the hijab are what?

01:20:59 --> 01:21:01

The following, number 1,

01:21:01 --> 01:21:03

you need to be dressing modestly. What does

01:21:03 --> 01:21:04

modestly mean?

01:21:05 --> 01:21:06

According to the Islamic

01:21:07 --> 01:21:08

dress code.

01:21:08 --> 01:21:09

Right?

01:21:09 --> 01:21:11

Sheikh Al Albani, if you Google,

01:21:11 --> 01:21:15

right, the conditions of hijab, Sheikh Al Albani,

01:21:15 --> 01:21:17

one of the first things that comes up

01:21:17 --> 01:21:19

is some of the conditions in what the

01:21:19 --> 01:21:20

hijab entails.

01:21:21 --> 01:21:22

Allah tells

01:21:28 --> 01:21:29

us, Right? Take a look at that insha

01:21:29 --> 01:21:31

Allahu Ta'ala. And the second my brothers and

01:21:31 --> 01:21:34

my sisters is that one should not be

01:21:34 --> 01:21:36

drawing attention to herself.

01:21:38 --> 01:21:38

Allah says,

01:21:40 --> 01:21:41

walayadribnabiarjulihinna

01:21:42 --> 01:21:43

liurallamamayukfeenaminzeenatihin.

01:21:46 --> 01:21:47

You shouldn't what?

01:21:49 --> 01:21:51

Make noise with your feet, clatter your feet

01:21:51 --> 01:21:52

on the ground

01:21:52 --> 01:21:55

because this is going to what? Draw attention.

01:21:55 --> 01:21:58

So anything that comes on the drawing attention

01:21:58 --> 01:21:59

to yourself,

01:21:59 --> 01:22:01

one needs to avoid altogether.

01:22:02 --> 01:22:03

Of course, there are things that are natural.

01:22:03 --> 01:22:05

If you're good looking, we can't take that

01:22:05 --> 01:22:06

away from you.

01:22:07 --> 01:22:08

Does that make sense? I can't tell you

01:22:08 --> 01:22:10

now, I don't know,

01:22:10 --> 01:22:11

rip your face apart, la.

01:22:13 --> 01:22:15

There are certain things that you have no

01:22:15 --> 01:22:15

control of.

01:22:16 --> 01:22:19

However, putting on makeup, my brothers and my

01:22:19 --> 01:22:19

sisters,

01:22:20 --> 01:22:22

is one of the things that draws attention

01:22:22 --> 01:22:23

to yourself.

01:22:23 --> 01:22:25

It falls on the beautifying yourself, which is

01:22:25 --> 01:22:28

what impermissible the moment you go outside. What's

01:22:28 --> 01:22:30

my evidence for it? The Messenger said.

01:22:31 --> 01:22:31

Laatamna'oo

01:22:32 --> 01:22:33

ima Allahi masajirullah.

01:22:34 --> 01:22:35

Don't stop,

01:22:36 --> 01:22:39

right, your female folk from going to the

01:22:39 --> 01:22:40

Masjid. I am not allowed to stop my

01:22:40 --> 01:22:41

wife

01:22:41 --> 01:22:43

or my daughter or my mother

01:22:44 --> 01:22:45

from going to the Masjid. I'm not allowed

01:22:45 --> 01:22:47

to do that. Allah prohibited me from doing

01:22:47 --> 01:22:47

that.

01:22:48 --> 01:22:49

If she wants to go and she seeks

01:22:49 --> 01:22:51

permission, I have to allow her. However,

01:22:54 --> 01:22:56

When they leave, they have to leave in

01:22:56 --> 01:22:58

a state where they're what? Unbeautified,

01:22:59 --> 01:23:00

unscented,

01:23:00 --> 01:23:02

you know, wearing perfume.

01:23:03 --> 01:23:03

Right?

01:23:04 --> 01:23:05

Ayum Amra'atintaatarat,

01:23:06 --> 01:23:07

Messenger Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam is any woman who

01:23:07 --> 01:23:09

puts on perfume and then she walks past

01:23:09 --> 01:23:10

men to be smelt,

01:23:11 --> 01:23:14

right? She's a zaniyah, she's a fornicatress, the

01:23:14 --> 01:23:15

messenger salallahu alaihi wasalam said.

01:23:16 --> 01:23:17

Does that make sense?

01:23:28 --> 01:23:30

We've got quite a few questions pertaining to

01:23:30 --> 01:23:31

the salah. What are some of the things

01:23:31 --> 01:23:33

that I could do in order to help

01:23:33 --> 01:23:35

myself pray the prayer?

01:23:38 --> 01:23:39

Number 1, my brothers and my sisters, you

01:23:39 --> 01:23:41

know the sins that we fall into,

01:23:42 --> 01:23:43

right, it affects

01:23:45 --> 01:23:45

our prayer.

01:23:47 --> 01:23:49

The sins that we fall my brothers and

01:23:49 --> 01:23:51

sisters into, right, it affects our prayer.

01:23:53 --> 01:23:56

Ibn Qayyim in his Kitab I ghathatul lafan

01:23:56 --> 01:23:58

v Masaidi Shaitan, where he talks about the

01:23:58 --> 01:23:59

tricks and the traps

01:24:00 --> 01:24:01

of the devil, right?

01:24:01 --> 01:24:04

He brings the statement of Abdulai Mis'ud

01:24:04 --> 01:24:06

where he says Al Gheena'o

01:24:06 --> 01:24:08

Yum Bitul Nifaka Fil Kalb

01:24:09 --> 01:24:09

Music,

01:24:10 --> 01:24:11

right, it causes

01:24:12 --> 01:24:14

hypocrisy to grow in your heart.

01:24:15 --> 01:24:17

And then he explains how that happens.

01:24:19 --> 01:24:20

From the points that he mentions my brothers

01:24:20 --> 01:24:22

and my sisters is that

01:24:22 --> 01:24:24

when one now wants to go out to

01:24:24 --> 01:24:25

the prayer,

01:24:26 --> 01:24:28

he begins to feel extremely lazy.

01:24:29 --> 01:24:30

A lot of people

01:24:30 --> 01:24:32

that struggle with their prayer, he says it's

01:24:32 --> 01:24:34

perhaps maybe because of the music that they

01:24:34 --> 01:24:35

listen to,

01:24:36 --> 01:24:37

Right.

01:24:37 --> 01:24:40

He mentioned that Abdulai Misra'ud that music causes

01:24:40 --> 01:24:41

hypocrisy, right?

01:24:45 --> 01:24:47

Allah tells about the Hypocrisy when they stand

01:24:47 --> 01:24:48

up for the prayer, they stand up very

01:24:48 --> 01:24:50

laxed and lazy manner.

01:24:51 --> 01:24:53

Sins have a big impact in the acts

01:24:53 --> 01:24:54

of worship that we do.

01:24:55 --> 01:24:56

Does that make sense?

01:24:56 --> 01:24:58

What will really help you with staying on

01:24:58 --> 01:24:59

top of your prayers my brothers and my

01:24:59 --> 01:25:02

sisters is that go and pray in the

01:25:02 --> 01:25:03

Masjid for a set period of time.

01:25:05 --> 01:25:07

Go to the Masjid, wait for the Salah,

01:25:07 --> 01:25:10

Fajar, Duhr, Asr, Maghrib, Isha.

01:25:12 --> 01:25:14

What I maybe understood from one of the

01:25:14 --> 01:25:16

questions is that because of,

01:25:16 --> 01:25:17

right,

01:25:17 --> 01:25:19

sometimes you forget, you're too busy,

01:25:23 --> 01:25:25

Right. Structure your day around the prayers.

01:25:26 --> 01:25:28

Get one of these alarms. I have an

01:25:28 --> 01:25:29

alarm clock

01:25:30 --> 01:25:32

that is more louder than the police sirens.

01:25:35 --> 01:25:35

He's laughing,

01:25:36 --> 01:25:38

right, because he's in the other room when

01:25:38 --> 01:25:39

we're sleeping in the hotel,

01:25:40 --> 01:25:41

and he wakes him

01:25:41 --> 01:25:44

up. Police sirens is louder than that.

01:25:45 --> 01:25:48

Set it up for the Salah times 15

01:25:48 --> 01:25:49

minutes before.

01:25:50 --> 01:25:52

Go to the Salah, pray in the Masjid,

01:25:53 --> 01:25:54

get used to that routine for a set

01:25:54 --> 01:25:55

period of time.

01:25:56 --> 01:25:58

Psychologists say if you want to introduce a

01:25:58 --> 01:26:00

new habit or get rid of a bad

01:26:00 --> 01:26:02

one, you need between 29

01:26:02 --> 01:26:04

to 40 days.

01:26:04 --> 01:26:05

Do that

01:26:06 --> 01:26:07

and Insha Allah Ta'ala it will become an

01:26:07 --> 01:26:09

integral part of your life.

01:26:09 --> 01:26:11

Download this app on your iPhone, I don't

01:26:11 --> 01:26:13

know if it's available on Samsung.

01:26:13 --> 01:26:14

Right?

01:26:15 --> 01:26:16

It is called

01:26:16 --> 01:26:17

Laud Alam,

01:26:18 --> 01:26:19

Laud Alam.

01:26:21 --> 01:26:21

Right,

01:26:21 --> 01:26:22

download it

01:26:23 --> 01:26:24

and InshaAllah Ta'ala,

01:26:25 --> 01:26:27

right, it will set the house on fire.

01:26:41 --> 01:26:43

Question that somebody is asking is how do

01:26:43 --> 01:26:45

I advise my brother to stop making music?

01:26:45 --> 01:26:46

How do I advise my siblings?

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You know, Ibn Al Qaybrahim Talayhi says something

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very powerful.

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He says,

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Al Ma'aseyitu baridul kufr,

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the sin,

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it is the first spark to disbelief,

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it is the first spark to disbelief.

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Many of us don't actually understand how sins

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work, we think it's just a sin and

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then I can just go back to my

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life. No, it is the first spark to

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disbelief kama annalqublatabeariduljima.

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Just as you know the kiss, would you

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agree that is the first spark to sexual

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*?

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Kiss leads straight away to sexual *. And

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then he says,

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right, kama'analugina

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bariduzina.

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Right? Just as

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music, it leads to fornication, it leads to

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a zina.

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Are your provinces with me?

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Even ibn al Josi, was it or ibn

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al Qayyim? No. Ibn al Qayyim in his

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kitab I ghatulafan,

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he says,

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How many women do we know? Because of

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music,

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she became from amongst the prostitutes.

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Let's be honest here when we listen to

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music, we listen to this grime or to

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this drill and whatever have you, right, how

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does it make us feel?

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Doesn't it affect the way we think and

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the way we behave?

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Right.

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So my advice with you be

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to be gentle with your younger brothers and

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siblings

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and to maybe build a relationship,

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right.

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Sometimes what happens is the only time we

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advise our siblings is when they've done something

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wrong.

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When only they've done something wrong, that's the

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only time we're speaking to them.

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Maybe take them out,

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try to break that barrier of awkwardness,

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right,

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where you do things for one another, or

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you are there at their service, take them

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out to maybe what?

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Ice cream parlor.

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Or as these brothers have been saying, Tim

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Hortons,

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Allah, up until now I don't see what

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you guys see in Tim Hortons.

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But just taking them out, being nice to

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them my brothers and my sisters,

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right. When you show them that you care

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about them, perhaps InshaAllah Ta'ala,

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they'll begin to accept the advices.

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Also make a lot of du'a for them

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in your sujood that they move away from

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this music,

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because the hearts can be changed very, very

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easily with a Dua'a, my brothers and my

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sisters.

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