Abu Taymiyyah – EMOTIONAL My Child Is Not Responding To Allah

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The speakers discuss the importance of educating children on the complexion of human beings and avoiding distraction from children while watching TV. They emphasize the need for Islamic education and educating parents on the "back of the hand" in the Quran. The speakers also share their experiences with addiction and struggles with achieving goals. They emphasize the importance of knowing who Allah Subhan Ali is and the need for parents to be more aware of his presence. They also discuss the impact of Islam on removing body parts and body parts on people, and give examples of people who have a connection to Allah and will not disrespect them. Finally, they talk about a woman who lost everything but lost everything but was able to lean on a house and become a part of a woman.

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			My beloved brothers and sisters,
		
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			from the most common questions
		
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			that I receive
		
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			on a regular basis is one asking,
		
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			why is it that I don't feel that
		
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			connection with Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala?
		
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			Why is it that I don't feel that
		
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			love that I should have
		
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			for my Creator Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala, the
		
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			Almighty Sustainer?
		
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			I want to have a relationship with Allah
		
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			I want to taste the sweetness of Ibadah.
		
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			And likewise from the parents, they ask,
		
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			I want my child
		
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			to have that connection with Allah.
		
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			When I tell him not to do something,
		
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			that he doesn't end up doing it,
		
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			Why is
		
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			it that they don't have the relationship that
		
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			they should with Allah Subhanahu
		
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			Wa Ta'ala
		
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			and I hope to insha Allahu Ta'ala in
		
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			this khutbah
		
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			to elaborate on this bayanilahi albari.
		
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			My beloved brothers and sisters,
		
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			there is a hadith
		
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			that should frighten every
		
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			parent,
		
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			someone who has been
		
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			given a responsibility with regards to his children.
		
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			The Messenger Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam he said,
		
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			There is not an individual who has been
		
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			given responsibility,
		
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			I. E. Here his kids.
		
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			The day when he dies, he dies as
		
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			someone who is a Arash,
		
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			someone who deceived his children.
		
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			Why would somebody deceive his children?
		
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			Why would someone
		
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			deceive his children before departing from this wawd?
		
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			And then the Messenger sallallahu alaihi wasallam tells
		
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			us,
		
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			illa haram Allahu alaihiil Jannah,
		
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			except that Allah
		
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			will make the Jannah haram upon this individual.
		
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			What is it that
		
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			he failed in? Was it because he didn't
		
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			put a roof over their heads? No. This
		
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			is not what the messenger salallahu alayhi wasalam
		
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			is speaking about.
		
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			Even though this is a seminar is extremely
		
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			important,
		
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			is it because
		
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			he did not
		
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			financially
		
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			put them in a good position.
		
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			No. This is not again what the hadith
		
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			is speaking about even though it is extremely
		
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			important.
		
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			Right?
		
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			And one is
		
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			applauded
		
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			for looking after their family,
		
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			making sure that they are financially in a
		
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			good place. This is something that he is
		
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			praised for, commended for but the hadith is
		
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			not speaking about this my brothers and my
		
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			sisters.
		
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			So how does an individual now die as
		
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			having deceived his children
		
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			when Allah
		
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			makes the jannah haram upon him?
		
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			The Messenger sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, he said,
		
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			walam yuhit hab binusay.
		
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			He did not advise them accordingly.
		
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			He did not give them the correct Islamic
		
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			education.
		
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			If we are honest with ourselves my brothers
		
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			and my sisters, the first step to solving
		
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			a problem
		
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			is to identify that there is a problem.
		
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			It's one thing identifying the problem, it's another
		
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			finding the solution.
		
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			However, if we are in denial,
		
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			my beloved brothers and sisters,
		
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			we will not even think about
		
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			the solution that is needed
		
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			to help us navigate
		
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			and maneuver
		
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			around these challenges that we
		
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			as a community on a societal level
		
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			is facing,
		
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			right? We are under attack let's be honest
		
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			my brothers and my sisters,
		
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			right? There is a war
		
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			against
		
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			the mind of this child. They go to
		
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			these universities which I call
		
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			a breathing ground
		
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			for Kufar,
		
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			Sheikh,
		
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			feminism,
		
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			liberalism,
		
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			secularism and of course
		
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			the rainbow team are extremely active,
		
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			right? Extremely
		
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			extremely active,
		
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			shoving down their throats and rubbing on their
		
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			faces
		
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			that which
		
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			was abnormal once upon a time. And I'm
		
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			just quoting how society
		
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			looked at these things
		
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			in all of these years that have come
		
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			past. Anyways, my brothers and my sisters,
		
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			they go to these schools where their minds
		
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			are polluted
		
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			and their brains are hijacked.
		
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			However, when they come home my brothers and
		
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			my sisters,
		
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			what is it that we do now
		
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			to better their understanding of the Deen,
		
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			to change their world view, to have an
		
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			impact on it,
		
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			right,
		
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			they are in need of Islamic education
		
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			more than any time in history.
		
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			Right?
		
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			In previous times, my brothers and my sisters,
		
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			if we look through the Quran as to
		
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			why Allah Azzawajal destroyed,
		
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			right? The people of Midian, the people of
		
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			Hud, the people of Samud, the people of
		
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			Lot.
		
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			Right? Would you agree my brothers and my
		
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			sisters, in this time
		
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			we have
		
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			so many of these reasonings
		
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			as to why Allah
		
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			destroyed these fascinations.
		
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			Every now and again, there would be that
		
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			which these societies
		
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			spread and engaged in, and Allah Azza wa
		
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			Jal destroyed them for it. You could maybe
		
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			count the problems that they had on one
		
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			hand,
		
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			and Allah Azza wa Jal punished them for
		
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			it. However, in today's day and age it's
		
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			on a completely different level and I don't
		
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			think I need to spell that out to
		
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			my brothers and my sisters.
		
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			Today my brothers and my sisters, a child
		
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			comes home,
		
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			right?
		
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			Do we ever engage with
		
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			these children that may have been polluted when
		
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			they went to school?
		
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			Right?
		
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			Some parents, the only relationship that they have
		
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			with their children is the back of the
		
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			hand,
		
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			Tarbahdin as they say in Somali language.
		
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			Only when he's done something wrong, this is
		
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			when he engages with him or converses with
		
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			him, pulls him into a meeting.
		
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			Say what about the rest of the time?
		
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			There are some parents my brothers and masters
		
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			every single night,
		
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			every single night, and it's not easy and
		
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			nothing in life comes easy.
		
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			They sit with them not because they've done
		
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			something wrong, let me just engage with them.
		
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			Let me see how they're doing.
		
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			Right? One of the benefits that we can
		
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			take from Surah D'yousef, right at the beginning
		
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			when he saw that dream,
		
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			I saw 11 stars of the sun and
		
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			the moon all prostrating to me. Remember, Yusuf
		
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			had a lot of brothers,
		
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			he had many brothers, but as soon as
		
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			he saw that dream who did he go
		
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			running to?
		
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			None other than his father Yaqub,
		
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			Right? Alayhi Salatu Wa Salaam.
		
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			That shows us that he was extremely comfortable
		
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			around him.
		
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			He could have chosen to go to his
		
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			brothers, but the father was the closest to
		
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			him.
		
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			Right? Again, a common question that parents tend
		
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			to ask, why is it that my child
		
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			doesn't want to maybe
		
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			have that friendly relationship with me but he
		
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			wants to go with others?
		
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			Maybe my beloved brothers and sisters
		
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			simply because there is no connection there,
		
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			We barely ever speak to them or barely
		
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			ever have a good time with them.
		
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			They might be at home, right?
		
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			And we are busy with the TV.
		
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			Again let's just be honest with ourselves.
		
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			We are busy watching series after series after
		
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			series on Netflix
		
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			and we don't want them to
		
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			distract us.
		
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			So watching the TV series after series after
		
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			series Netflix, Amazon,
		
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			Hollywood, Bollywood, Somollywood
		
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			right while the children
		
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			they want attention
		
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			and every child wants and craves attention.
		
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			Right.
		
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			What do we do? We give them
		
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			these gadgets, these electronical gadgets.
		
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			And I'm a Jerul,
		
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			you know, busy yourself with that.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Now, to my brothers and my sisters, the
		
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			child doesn't have 2 parents anymore, it's not
		
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			just 2,
		
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			it's not just 2 parents. The child has
		
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			3 parents.
		
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			The mother, the father and also these gadgets.
		
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			These gadgets, these electronical Ipads and phones and
		
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			whatever have you,
		
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			are shaping
		
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			the way
		
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			they end up becoming as human beings with
		
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			all that which they keep laying their eyes
		
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			on.
		
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			An auntie one time called me and she
		
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			said, Muhammad,
		
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			please speak to my daughter, I was like
		
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			why?
		
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			What does she do now?
		
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			She's asking me to buy her a miniskirt,
		
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			a telephone miniskirt, I think everyone knows what
		
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			miniskirt is, right? What women wear when they
		
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			go to the club.
		
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			The auntie saying to me, I don't wear
		
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			it, her sisters don't wear it, why does
		
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			she wanna wear it?
		
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			Like this child, she spends the majority of
		
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			her time on TikTok.
		
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			What is she looking at? The parent has
		
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			no idea.
		
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			These Fasiqaat,
		
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			these Fajiraat,
		
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			right? These women who wear these very revealing
		
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			clothes, and she keeps looking at it, looking
		
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			at it, looking at it all the time,
		
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			and then she becomes desensitized to it.
		
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			What does desensitization
		
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			mean?
		
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			You know my brothers and my sisters, there
		
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			are people the moment they hear a bit
		
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			of music,
		
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			it makes them feel uncomfortable because they're not
		
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			used to hearing it. But maybe others
		
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			because they hear the music on the advertisement
		
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			on the TV all the time, it just
		
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			becomes like normal,
		
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			nothing moves
		
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			inside of you.
		
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			A lot of people will testify to this,
		
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			you go for imra, you spend 3 months
		
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			there, or 2 months there, or 1 month,
		
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			and then you come back, you walk in
		
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			the subway, environment, and our heart keeps
		
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			being penetrated,
		
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			right, and pierce into with the environment that
		
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			we live in, again it just becomes normalized.
		
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			Right. This is just how things are.
		
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			Alakulihaal
		
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			my beloved brothers and sisters,
		
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			especially at this moment in time,
		
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			where we live in a very sexualized
		
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			society,
		
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			everything is telling you, Hey Talaq, let's get
		
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			it on, let's come and do haram.
		
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			Right? We, not just our children, every one
		
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			of us here,
		
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			we are in need
		
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			of revisiting.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Who Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is.
		
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			The more we learn about Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala, my beloved brothers and sisters,
		
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			as some of the righteous scholars of the
		
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			past would say like
		
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			Whoever
		
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			has more knowledge of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
		
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			this individual my brothers and my sisters will
		
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			be a lot more conscious of Allahu Jala
		
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			fee'ullah.
		
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			And he will be a lot more inclined
		
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			in doing acts of worship,
		
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			right? And he will be further away
		
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			from sinning.
		
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			At Tawhid
		
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			monotheism my brothers and my sisters,
		
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			we will not be able to maneuver and
		
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			navigate
		
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			around these modern day ideologies,
		
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			and a lot of these temptations that is
		
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			inviting us to a zina
		
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			except by knowledge.
		
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			And knowledge my brothers and my sisters,
		
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			knowing who Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is.
		
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			And the only source of knowledge that we
		
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			have of Allah
		
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			is none other than his names and attributes.
		
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			My brothers and my sisters in the second
		
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			part of the Khutba I'm going to read
		
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			out
		
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			personal messages that I've received
		
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			of young people
		
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			who are sick
		
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			and tired of the sins that they are
		
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			falling into,
		
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			not knowing why this is actually happening to
		
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			them,
		
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			You know my brothers and my sisters, a
		
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			lot of the time what happens is,
		
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			right?
		
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			We tell people don't do this, don't do
		
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			that. Right?
		
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			We tell them this is haram, this is
		
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			halal.
		
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			And then we begin to think that Islam
		
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			is so rough and tough.
		
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			Why is Islam so restrictive?
		
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			Even the Shabaab, I speak to a lot
		
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			of them.
		
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			Once upon a time, they thought to themselves,
		
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			you know, Islam is stopping me from enjoying
		
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			myself.
		
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			I want to have a relationship with her
		
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			and then
		
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			there's Molly,
		
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			or Molvi,
		
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			or the Sheikh.
		
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			Right?
		
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			He's telling me don't do it when everyone
		
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			is enjoying themselves on a Friday night,
		
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			And he's telling me stay at home,
		
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			right.
		
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			You know when I say to them now,
		
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			I told you this when you don't want
		
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			to take it go do as you wish.
		
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			Go do as you wish,
		
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			right?
		
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			Maybe you will join this long queue
		
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			of young brothers and sisters who are messaging
		
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			me saying,
		
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			I fell into this Haram
		
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			and now I'm absolutely devastated,
		
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			I need a way out.
		
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			Remember this my brothers and my sisters,
		
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			everything that Allah commanded you with and told
		
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			you to stay away from, it is in
		
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			your own best interest
		
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			whether you see it or not.
		
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			This is just one of the emails that
		
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			I received the other day, 20 year old
		
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			man, this is the title,
		
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			Zina,
		
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			it's written on there.
		
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			You know what he says?
		
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			Assalamu alaikum Sheikh, please can you help me?
		
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			I've done Zina for almost a year now
		
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			with many many girls.
		
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			I am completely broken,
		
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			empty and I don't want to live anymore.
		
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			My family doesn't know what I've done, only
		
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			my mother.
		
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			Everyone who looks at me says I look
		
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			lifeless.
		
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			I've lost my appetite for food,
		
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			lost the will to go on. I really
		
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			need some advice, please.
		
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			Messages are many, my brothers and my sisters.
		
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			Assalamu Alaikum, I'm an 18 year old girl.
		
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			I was a good Muslim, I
		
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			stopped praying
		
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			I stopped praying, I stopped being religious, I
		
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			have no idea what's happening to me, why
		
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			I've become such a bad person now, what
		
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			the * happened.
		
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			This wasn't supposed to happen ever.
		
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			Was this ever supposed to happen? I'm so
		
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			deeply unhappy.
		
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			I am so regretful and I don't have
		
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			the stability or the motivation
		
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			to go back and I don't think I
		
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			can.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Messages after messages after messages.
		
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			Hi, my name is and then she says
		
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			her name, I'm 16 years old.
		
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			I'm going through a lot of pain, depression,
		
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			stress, sadness.
		
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			I truly need your help,
		
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			please help me I was in a haram
		
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			relationship.
		
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			I fell in love very hard and I
		
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			left and he left me,
		
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			but I still love him. I cry every
		
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			night knowing nothing will work out.
		
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			I pray I want to have a relationship
		
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			with Allah. I want to be better, but
		
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			shaytan is not a Amy.
		
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			Sometimes
		
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			or something always happens when I try to
		
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			be a good person. I watch your videos
		
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			most of my times. I truly need your
		
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			help.
		
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			Help me make dua for me I'm still
		
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			young.
		
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			Many many messages like this my beloved brothers
		
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			and sisters,
		
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			right.
		
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			This quote was
		
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			the more knowledge we have of Allah Subhanahu
		
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			Wa Ta'ala who he is,
		
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			right? The more my brothers and my sisters
		
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			one will be conscious of Allah
		
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			and the more he will be inclined in
		
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			doing acts of worship
		
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			and the further and more distant he will
		
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			be from sinning.
		
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			Let me give you guys a number of
		
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			examples my brothers and my sisters,
		
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			how internalizing
		
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			the names of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
		
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			has an impact on our day to day
		
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			lives.
		
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			Let's be honest here, there are people that
		
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			we respect
		
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			in society today.
		
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			A lot of the shabab, they really like
		
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			this guy, and I'm sure some of the
		
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			parents know who he is as well. They
		
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			really like Andrew Tate,
		
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			Right? Why do they like Andrew Tate? Because
		
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			of all the things they came to know
		
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			about him. By the way, this is not
		
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			an endorsement.
		
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			This is just me giving an example for
		
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			relatability.
		
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			Why do they like listening to him because
		
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			of all of his accomplishments,
		
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			the way he carries himself. Yesterday I asked
		
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			the young brother why do you like him
		
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			because he speaks the hak,
		
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			speaks the truth. Young brother came from Belgium,
		
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			I asked him.
		
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			I said to him the reason why you
		
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			respect him is because of all the things
		
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			you came to know about him. He goes,
		
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			yeah,
		
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			of course.
		
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			I feel like I know him a lot
		
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			better than maybe what 2 years ago.
		
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			Sahay.
		
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			My brothers and my sisters, likewise, why does
		
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			a young brother
		
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			marry a specific sister why does he love
		
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			her more than everyone else
		
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			Because of all the things they came to
		
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			know about her.
		
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			So this is just
		
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			natural human instinct.
		
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			We love people, we respect them, right?
		
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			Simply because of all the things that we
		
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			came to know about them.
		
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			When we are in their presence, we will
		
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			not
		
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			disrespect them, we will not speak out when
		
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			they are there
		
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			simply because of the respect
		
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			that we have for them.
		
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			Not that I'm trying to compare any of
		
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			these people now to Allah,
		
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			right? But my brothers and my sisters,
		
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			how do we expect to have a connection
		
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			or to love Allah
		
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			when we know absolutely
		
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			nothing about him?
		
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			Today we might say to the child memorize
		
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			Quran, do salah, he doesn't even know who
		
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			he's praying to.
		
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			Laia alifu anilahi shayan.
		
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			So he eventually will end up rebelling.
		
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			You're telling him pray, pray to who? Who
		
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			is this lord that I'm praying to?
		
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			No one is doing it at school.
		
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			Okay. That's Quran that I've been forced to
		
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			memorize.
		
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			What am I doing?
		
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			La you alifu anilahi
		
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			shayyah.
		
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			Doesn't know anything about Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala.
		
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			So how is it supposed to impact him
		
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			my brothers and my sisters?
		
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			Right? I'll give you guys an example of
		
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			a lady who was very conscious of Allah,
		
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			Ibn Rajaib Rahmatullahi Alaihi. He mentions this, right?
		
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			They were in the Sahara.
		
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			They were in a desert, and there was
		
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			a male and a female Bedouin.
		
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			A male and a female Bedouin.
		
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			He tried to seduce her.
		
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			Right?
		
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			He tried to,
		
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			right, make love with her.
		
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			And then he's she he noticed that she
		
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			was getting a bit scared.
		
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			He said to her,
		
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			why are you scared?
		
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			Right?
		
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			The only thing that can see us
		
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			is what the stars.
		
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			Right?
		
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			She turned around to him. This is someone
		
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			who understood who Allah Azzawajal is.
		
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			Even when I'm in private,
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is still watching me.
		
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			Her response to this man was
		
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			Where's the one that created
		
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			these stars?
		
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			It shook this man.
		
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			A woman that understood who As Sameer,
		
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			Al Basir,
		
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			Al Raqim.
		
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			Right?
		
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			The one who's watching over me that knows
		
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			every step that I take and every move
		
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			that I make. We are under the blanket
		
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			even young and old, right?
		
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			Sometimes even the husband, he's looking at Haram
		
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			and he's watching his wife, she can't see
		
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			me let me just quickly look at it.
		
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			Have we really internalized who Allah is?
		
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			And him being Al Muntaqim,
		
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			the avenger that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			will hold us to account for everything that
		
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			we do a lot of the time.
		
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			When we sin my brothers and my sisters
		
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			we think that the only time you have
		
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			to answer to Allah is when you meet
		
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			him on yomr qiyama
		
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			and that the sins are not going to
		
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			come back to haunt us.
		
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			The sins my brothers and my sisters have
		
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			a consequence
		
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			It begins to affect us in so many
		
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			different ways.
		
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			Knowing that Allah has
		
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			the capability,
		
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			right,
		
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			to swallow you inside of the earth and
		
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			to remove
		
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			some of your body parts and that which
		
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			we take for granted.
		
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			I have a friend my brothers and my
		
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			sisters,
		
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			at the time he was in Stamford Bridge,
		
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			the Chelsea Stadium.
		
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			By evening he lost his ability to walk,
		
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			to talk, to hear,
		
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			right? He lost it, he was in a
		
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			wheelchair.
		
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			Not because of a car crash, but he
		
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			lost everything.
		
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			Allah tells us in the Quran,
		
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			If Allah wanted, he will remove your ability
		
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			to hear and your ability to see.
		
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			Understanding the Qudra of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala,
		
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			this is instilled within them and it is
		
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			repeated and repeated and repeated of who Allah
		
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			azza wa Jal is The more they learn
		
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			or they more sorry the more they keep
		
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			hearing about it the more they becomes a
		
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			part of an individual and that's with anything
		
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			my brothers and my sisters,
		
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			right?
		
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			Another example my brothers and my sisters I
		
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			really really like to mention,
		
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			And this is a love story.
		
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			Umr ibn Khattab radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu one night
		
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			was patrolling the streets of
		
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			Madinah and then he got very tired, him
		
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			and his servants the people that were working
		
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			with him and I'm going to finish with
		
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			this.
		
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			When he got tired he began to lean
		
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			on one of the houses
		
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			And of course the houses back then
		
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			were not like the houses today. You can
		
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			hear the conversations that are taking place.
		
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			So a conversation was taking place between a
		
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			mother and her daughter.
		
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			The mother says to her,
		
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			get up, oh daughter.
		
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			Go and mix water with milk,
		
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			so they can sell more in the morning.
		
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			She says to her mother
		
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			have you not heard what Umar ibn Khattab
		
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			Anu sanctioned or passed as a law this
		
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			afternoon?
		
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			Right. What did he say, Shasa?
		
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			That you cannot mix
		
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			water with
		
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			leban,
		
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			water with milk.
		
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			Bearing in mind my brothers and my sisters
		
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			something that the imrul Qayyim says, just to
		
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			give you an
		
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			idea how Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala will open
		
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			doors for you because of your Tawhid.
		
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			He said
		
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			Because of your relationship with Allah,
		
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			because of your tuhid, your monotheism,
		
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			right? Allah will open doors
		
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			of happiness
		
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			and goodness.
		
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			Look what happens to this young lady.
		
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			Because of a tawhid,
		
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			She said,
		
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			right, Umar said this this afternoon, madam, we
		
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			can't do this. Haram.
		
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			Right?
		
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			She said to her, oh daughter
		
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			nobody can see you, not to Omar or
		
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			any of his servants, get up and mix
		
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			the water with the milk.
		
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			She said to her,
		
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			write a statement that should be written in
		
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			gold,
		
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			if
		
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			If Umar cannot see me but the Lord
		
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			of Umar Al Khattab can
		
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			see me.
		
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			Umar is listening to this conversation.
		
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			What does he do? Did he drag the
		
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			mother out of the house? No, he didn't
		
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			do that.
		
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			He went home next morning.
		
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			He lined up his children, who's ready to
		
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			get married?
		
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			SubhanAllah. This young lady was inside of our
		
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			house, misskeena,
		
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			but she internalized who Allah azza wa jal
		
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			is,
		
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			right?
		
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			Sometimes our sisters may say wallahi
		
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			if I don't wear makeup outside
		
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			or if I don't show some of my
		
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			skin who's going to find out where I
		
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			am?
		
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			Wallahi, there was a sister that came up
		
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			to me, I just came back from Canada
		
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			in Montreal,
		
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			and she said
		
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			she wasn't wearing hijab at the university, she
		
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			came with her 3 friends, they were all
		
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			wearing hijab except her.
		
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			She said please brother advise me I want
		
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			to wear the hijab but my mother is
		
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			stopping me from wearing the hijab.
		
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			I asked some of the brothers why would
		
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			they do that Cause it's very well known
		
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			in certain cultures
		
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			that they want them to show their hair
		
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			and their beauty
		
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			so they can eventually end up getting married
		
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			and find love,
		
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			right?
		
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			Sometimes the sisters they feel the need to
		
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			do this,
		
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			right?
		
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			What happened my brothers and my sisters?
		
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			Omar lined up his sons, Esam said I
		
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			am ready.
		
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			And Esam ended up getting married to this
		
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			righteous young lady.
		
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			What did Al Mutaim say?
		
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			Tawhid opens the door of goodness and happiness.
		
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			Are you telling me she never got happy
		
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			when she got married?
		
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			Where did it all stem up from? Her
		
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			being conscious of who Allah azza wa jal
		
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			is. He can see me. Right?
		
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			Later on my brothers and my sisters, they
		
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			had a daughter called Layla. She ended up
		
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			getting married.
		
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			They eventually ended up having a son called
		
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			Umar ibn Abdul Aziz.
		
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			Umar ibn Abdul Aziz doesn't need an introduction.
		
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			Today, when the scholars,
		
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			they talk about the 4 Khalifa,
		
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			even though he was number 8 after the
		
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			prophet, they mentioned him as number 5 because
		
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			of how righteous he was. Understanding
		
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			my brothers and my sisters, and I am
		
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			going to quickly mention this, I really want
		
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			to mention it, right?
		
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			That Allah is Adil,
		
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			Allah azza wa Jal is fair and just,
		
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			someone wronged you. Sometimes we feel the need
		
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			to
		
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			repel the bad with another bad, 2 wrongs
		
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			don't make a right.
		
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			Not realizing that Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is
		
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			watching and He will give you retribution
		
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			the same way Allah Azza wa Jal gave
		
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			retribution to Yusuf alaihis salam.
		
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			Right?
		
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			His brothers they used their hands right to
		
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			throw him in the well and the wife
		
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			of Al Aziz she accused him with his
		
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			tongue with a tongue.
		
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			He did this he did that when he
		
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			never done anything.
		
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			Yousef has done the right thing, eventually later
		
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			on, look
		
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			how fair Allah is. The same hands that
		
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			they used to throw him in the well,
		
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			it was the same hands that says,
		
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			Be charitable towards us when the famine struck.
		
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			And then later on that very tongue
		
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			she admitted that she was wrong
		
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			and she what?
		
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			Testified that he was actually the one in
		
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			the right.
		
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			This is Allah and this is what he
		
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			does for his servants when they do the
		
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			right thing.