Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – The Abode of Deception [Hikam 71 & 83]

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The transcript discusses the meaning behind the term "d point" in Islam, a term used to indicate the aftermath of a situation or event. The transcript also describes the history and meaning behind the term "d point" and its use in various context, including culture history. The transcript emphasizes the importance of avoiding spending one's time on negative behavior and focusing on the "here after" in achieving success. The host also emphasizes the importance of understanding one's actions and avoiding misunderstandings in order to achieve success.

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			Bismillah R Rahman Rahim Al hamdu
Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa salatu
		
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			salam ala so you can saline water
to heal so be a drummer in a
		
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			beret. If not, Allah says in the
Masada Dar Al Hirata Mahan Mullen,
		
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			Lee Jessa Eva the hill Momineen
		
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			Liana her the hit dar la ser uma
UD do and you're at home?
		
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			Well the unknown agenda of cadavre
home and New Jersey Home feeder in
		
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			LA ca.
		
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			He made the hereafter about to
reward his believing servants.
		
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			He specifically made the hereafter
as a special place to reward his
		
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			believing servants, only because
this world cannot contain what he
		
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			wishes to bestow upon them.
		
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			And number two, because he deemed
their worth too high to reward
		
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			them in a world without
permanence.
		
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			That is the value that Allah
subhanaw taala holds
		
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			his servants in that he reckons
that this world despite the fact
		
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			that we think it's an enjoyable
place, he knows it to be too
		
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			limited.
		
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			But both in terms of the quality
of what he can give us, and also
		
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			in its permanence, in its
temporality, really. So that's why
		
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			he made the hereafter for that.
		
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			Allah subhanho wa Taala has called
this dunya the double rule.
		
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			The abode of deception, and we can
clearly see it's deception.
		
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			Only those people who read the
Quran who read the guidance from
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala will know
it's deception. Can you imagine if
		
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			we had no idea about the hereafter
through the Quran and the Sunnah,
		
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			through our messenger sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam, what would you
		
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			think of this world?
		
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			Why would you believe in another
world?
		
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			For most people out there, this
world is the world.
		
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			Even most Christians out there,
they probably don't read the Bible
		
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			enough to really know their
theology. There. eschatology,
		
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			meaning
		
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			details of the unseen, they don't
have to believe in it. There's too
		
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			material for them, they they are
very materialistic.
		
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			very reductionist, in that sense.
		
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			So now you understand why they
would find it very strange.
		
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			However, we have a scripture that
we believe in, we have guidance
		
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			that we find understanding and
inspiration from. So that's why
		
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			this dunya is doddle guru. It's an
abode of deception. It makes it
		
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			feel real, that this is the real
world. Whereas reality, you can
		
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			say is
		
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			reality is in a sense, relative
idea, there's more reality in the
		
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			hereafter because it's more
permanent.
		
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			And reality in this world, there
is a reality to it, no doubt, we
		
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			live in this reality.
		
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			But it's not the permanent reality
of the hereafter. So that's why it
		
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			becomes an abode of deception.
		
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			And then Allah subhanaw taala
commanded that this world will
		
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			eventually and everything in it
will perish will end and will come
		
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			to nothing. So it is, you can say
the lonely world Darren denier,
		
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			it's the lonely world, the
degraded worlds, the electron
		
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			Fannia.
		
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			It's going to eventually
disappear. And it's going to end
		
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			and perish. That's why it's been
called the dunya. That the whole,
		
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			the the word itself dunya dunya.
That's the whole reason why it's
		
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			called the dunya. The name in
itself signifies its reality.
		
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			Because dunya comes from two
meanings. Both of them indicate
		
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			the hereafter. Both of them
indicate another one is
		
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			dunya is called dunya. Because we
do know we have because of its
		
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			closeness,
		
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			something being close means that
there's something else that's far
		
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			that's distant, that's to come.
		
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			Because you're not going to say
something as close. If there's
		
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			nothing else
		
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			being close, gives an indication
that there's something else number
		
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			two.
		
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			The dinner at her dunya is called
dunya. Because of dinner, it's
		
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			dinner, dinner, I mean, it's
degraded status. It's humiliated
		
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			nature, it's inferior status.
		
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			So either of those ways, that
means there must be something
		
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			superior.
		
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			So it is both by ICA to Emmanuel
Macron. It's both constricted in
		
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			terms of its timing, in terms of
its time that it will give you and
		
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			also in terms of its play
		
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			Ace, it's only limited. Allah
subhanaw taala then called the
		
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			hereafter Daru karar, the abode of
permanence, the abode of
		
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			permanence, and the place of the
manifestation of light,
		
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			the uncovering of secrets, where
you will see what reality was, and
		
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			permanent bliss, happiness and
bounties
		
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			and the place where you will see
your beloved ones, and all veils
		
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			between you and your beloved ones,
those you seek out will be lifted.
		
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			Its bounties will be permanent,
and
		
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			it will remain forever. That's why
Allah subhanaw taala made that the
		
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			abode of reward for those who
worship Him for those of his
		
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			servants that worship Him, and He
made that the true station Mikado
		
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			Simpkin in the Maliki Mahkota div.
Mikado sink the true the real
		
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			station
		
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			for the prophets and the CDT in
the champions of truth.
		
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			Allah subhanho wa Taala was not
satisfied that he reward them in a
		
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			an abode, that would not remain
permanent, that would be
		
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			constricted in its time and place,
a place where there is defects a
		
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			place where there is filth and
dirt, humiliation, degradation,
		
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			dishonor, and it is too
constricted, too tight, too
		
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			limited to encompass what he wants
to give them. What he has in store
		
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			for them, this world is too
		
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			limited for that.
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala wants to give
them permanence. Allah subhanho wa
		
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			Taala wants to give them
expansion.
		
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			Both of these things extensive he
wants to give us extensiveness
		
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			both of those things are
impossible in this world. And the
		
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			reason for that is highlighted in
a hadith because Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala will give the lowest of the
people in Jannah literally the
		
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			lowest of the millions of people
in sha Allah and Jana, he will
		
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			give them 10 times the size of
this world and that permanently.
		
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			That just gives an indication. So
can you imagine for Keifa br Allah
		
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			can you imagine what the people at
the highest realms will be
		
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			getting?
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala says fella
I'm gonna have some coffee alone
		
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			mean karate or even just be
Mirkarimi I'm alone. Nobody no
		
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			knifes no living being knows that
which has been kept concealed for
		
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			them in terms of those things,
which will gladden their eyes,
		
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			something that gladden your eyes
gladdens your hearts. The eye is a
		
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			way to the heart Jezza and Bhima
Colonel yet Milan, clearly saying
		
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			reward as a reward for that which
they used to do. Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala also says
		
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			in a hadith Bootsy This is not in
the Quran that to label the salah
		
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			Hain murder I you know not well at
all don't send me what a hot
		
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			Allah, Allah called be Bashar that
I have
		
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			prepared for my servants, the
pious ones among them.
		
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			That wish no I have seen, no ear
has heard the likes of in fact,
		
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			it's something that
		
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			you will never conceive in your,
in your heart. It's not something
		
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			even that you can think of its
beauty, its permanence, etc. It's
		
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			mind boggling.
		
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			Allah subhanho wa Taala has
		
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			kept the value of his pious
servants at a really high level.
		
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			He really values. Allah subhanho
wa Taala is generous. Allah
		
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			subhanho wa Taala is honorable,
ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada has the
		
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			ability to honor when there's an
honorable individual in the world,
		
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			the kind of hospitality that they
provide, the kind of assistance
		
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			that they can give the kind of
attention that they can have is
		
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			something we understand. So if
Allah subhanaw taala, with all of
		
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			his beautiful names, all of these
qualities, then you can imagine
		
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			what he will give for those who
have fulfilled his dictates in
		
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			this world.
		
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			So he doesn't want to give in a
world that is going to perish.
		
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			Because
		
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			whatever seems to be the build up
in this world, whatever seems to
		
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			be the structure in this world,
eventually it's going to end and
		
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			we see Allah gives us signs by
things being destroyed.
		
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			Allahu Akbar. In fact, he says
that the existence of these things
		
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			are just like give me a ranch.
They will disappear for a few
		
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			days.
		
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			In a bar
		
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			it's in some narrations. It
mentions that if this is this is
		
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			really, really powerful. It's a
mind, it's really thought
		
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			provoking. One proverb says, that
if this dunya, if this dunya, if
		
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			you imagine it to have been made
of gold, and the akhirah, to have
		
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			been made of clay, so this dunya
was going to be made of gold, dark
		
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			era was going to be made of clay.
		
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			Then, which one would you prefer?
		
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			Which one would you take this
world of gold, which is temporary,
		
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			or world in the Hereafter, which
is made of clay, but it's
		
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			permanent? So he says,
		
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			locked out all through the
intelligent one would take that
		
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			which would remain forever over
that which would not remain
		
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			despite what it's made of. Now,
that's just a, that's just a
		
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			question.
		
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			That is just a hyper hype, a
hypothetical scenario, whereas the
		
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			reality is actually the opposite
anyway, because this world is made
		
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			of clay. And that world is made of
gold, and it's permanent. So even
		
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			if it was not like that we should
take the Hereafter. And when it is
		
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			like that, when when both of the
positives are on the side of
		
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			permanence, and the goal is on the
other side, then why not? But that
		
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			then requires belief to believe in
and this is where the belief comes
		
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			in.
		
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			See, all of this is all
hypothetical. It's all it's all
		
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			theory, isn't it at the end of the
day, it's only as good as we make
		
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			it our belief. And the more we
make our belief in this, the more
		
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			Eman we have in this, that is how
much stronger this will become.
		
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			And the secret is for me, for me
and my experience, the secret of
		
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			getting away from the world and
focusing on the hereafter is to
		
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			remember your death to remember
the hereafter, there is no other
		
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			way to do it. Because if there is
no concept of the afterlife, and
		
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			etc, etc, to deal with it, then
you become indulgent in this
		
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			world, the only way to take
yourself away from the world even
		
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			a bit is to focus on the
Hereafter. And try that's that's
		
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			the only way Why would you
otherwise. If you're not going to
		
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			the hereafter to Allah subhanaw
taala Why would you
		
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			but that requires belief to do
that. And the belief is
		
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			strengthened by our scar, etc.
		
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			By keeping regularly our heart in
tune, otherwise, when our hearts
		
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			become out of tune, without any
thicker, then it starts falling
		
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			apart.
		
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			There's another narration which
says that
		
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			and our inner sorry, the Minister
about theater near do Munna Munna
		
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			near tiene la in fact, coryza
booyah
		
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			Wakanda Malema Yuk Du Bois de Hema
who will earn I mean mithya de
		
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			cobbler a new Khalifa who Lehmann
Yesod will be in T
		
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			waka Chaka who are being be
Gemini, he was at a party he was
		
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			at karate.
		
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			He says no, uh, whoa, that the
fortunate one is the one who
		
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			adopts and prefers that which will
remain and who's bounties will be
		
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			permanent, over that which is to
be depleted, and whose punishment
		
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			never stops.
		
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			Punishment here means trials,
tribulations of this world they
		
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			never stopped, it's never you
know, you may have a good year,
		
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			you may have a good month, but
eventually something will come to
		
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			mess you up a bit.
		
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			And he sends forth to that which
he is going to arrive at. He sends
		
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			forth for the abode to which he is
going to go.
		
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			And he sends forth from that which
he has right now in his hand,
		
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			before he leaves it for the one
who will be happy to spend it.
		
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			That's so beautiful.
		
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			He said he spends of that which,
if he leaves behind
		
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			those who leaves it behind to
Wilson, be happy to spend, he
		
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			spends from that to that abode,
which he is going for. So he's
		
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			investing for his hereafter and
the people who are going to spend
		
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			and enjoy that.
		
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			They're going to do that while
this person while he was gathering
		
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			it and treasuring it and hoarding
it. He was obviously sacrificing.
		
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			So he leads a life of sacrificing
holding these things because he
		
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			doesn't spend it
		
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			and he leaves it for somebody
behind them and doesn't invest for
		
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			the hereafter of what you went on.
So I do the alone says that I
		
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			heard Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam
saying Hulu and first second beta.
		
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			Release yourself.
		
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			Release yourself by obedience.
Well, I'll be sue her kina Alma
		
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			Hoffa, and
		
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			Cover yourself in the garb of fear
when you're Hirata complete
		
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			unfussy calm and make your
hereafter for yourself be selfish
		
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			and disregard. Make your hereafter
for yourself
		
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			was that your company moussaka
Rico, and make your efforts your
		
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			endeavors
		
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			for your permanent abode, where I
learn more and nakoma, unclean and
		
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			raw, I don't know that very soon
very soon, you will be taking your
		
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			journey where it Allah He set your
own and you will be
		
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			traveling to Allah subhanaw taala
Where are you honey and communica
		
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			Illa salehoo I'm an encourage them
to move
		
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			and the only thing we should be to
benefit you and which will enrich
		
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			you there will be the good deeds
that you have sent forth. Oh her
		
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			snowthrower been juicy to mu or
the Great, excellent reward that
		
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			you will be given in necom in nama
Toka de Munna Allah condemned them
		
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			you are only going to
		
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			that which you have sent forth.
What to jazz una anima is left
		
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			home and you'll only be rewarded
for what you've done in the past
		
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			for Allah. Dan ACOEM the herder
for dunya the hottie for dunya
		
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			Dunia and Marathi be Jana tiene
Alia. So, let not this degraded
		
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			worlds
		
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			deceive you,
		
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			take you away from the high levels
of the gardens, the gardens of
		
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			bliss in the hereafter fucka and
cushy fellow Kena
		
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			waterfowl at what are called Omri
musta, Cara who wa Rafa Mahieu
		
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			among Colaba.
		
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			So,
		
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			it should be as if
		
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			the way you should live is with
these veils having been removed
		
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			doubts, to have been alleviated.
And everybody will then get what
		
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			their permanent abode is. And they
will recognize the their abode the
		
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			place where they may be destroyed
the place where they may be going
		
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			back to
		
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			the next one, he says, robot,
robot, talk taka for Minarik what
		
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			Obama Menaka for our talk,
		
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			this one is related.
		
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			He says sometimes he gives while
depriving you.
		
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			Sometimes he gives while depriving
you, and sometimes he deprives you
		
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			in giving.
		
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			And that definitely has to be
unpacked. This is, again, a very
		
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			important point he's making here
because it will inshallah
		
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			alleviate any depression one has,
when they feel that they have a
		
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			setback,
		
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			when they feel that things aren't
going the way they expect it to go
		
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			things that would like their heart
would want them to go there
		
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			knifes. So what he's saying here
is
		
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			the dominant state of the nostril
Amara,
		
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			which is the evil inciting self
and the lawanna.
		
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			Not motivating. The evil invite
inciting self. And the
		
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			dilemma is the
		
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			the censoring self.
		
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			The dominant state, in both of
these situations, is that it will
		
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			generally expand the nerves will
expand, you will feel good. When
		
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			you're given something and you
receive something. When you when
		
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			you earn more, when you somehow
receive more.
		
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			The highest expense, the knifes
expense. I mean, it's quite a
		
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			normal state. I mean, this is what
we live for, essentially, is what
		
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			we live for. When we don't get
something it contracts, you don't
		
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			feel happy in that state. You feel
like you're being deprived. This
		
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			is our normal state unfortunately.
		
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			The reason is that when it's given
that it's food, that's the food of
		
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			the knifes that's its desire is
being fulfilled. So clearly,
		
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			there's no doubt that it's going
to expand with that with that. And
		
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			when,
		
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			when it's prevented when when
gifts are prevented, bounties are
		
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			prevented from it, then that is
like you're cutting it supply.
		
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			You're severing its supply. And
you're it's not going to give you
		
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			you're not you're not giving it
its desire.
		
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			So then there's no doubt that it's
going to become contracted. It's
		
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			going to have this desire for it.
And the reason for all of this.
		
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			Now we think this is a normal
state that this is what we live
		
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			by. Yes it is. But it's only
because he says they generally
		
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			have your own behavior. Well
either me for me her its own
		
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			only because it is ignorant of its
Lord and doesn't have
		
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			understanding doesn't comprehend
the situation, follow Fahima to
		
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			any law, law limit annulment, I
know,
		
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			I know, I thought if it really had
the understanding about from Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala, it would know that
things being withheld from it is
		
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			Allah gifting it. That is a
bounty, that prevention is a
		
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			bounty, that withholding is a
bouncing about a bounty. And it
		
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			being given is sometimes a
prevention from Allah that Allah
		
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			is preventing something good from
coming to him when he gives
		
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			something to them. Again, this
doesn't make it fully clear, but
		
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			we'll get to it.
		
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			So
		
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			over here, a one in need only the
one, understand this from your
		
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			Lord. And don't
		
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			accuse him.
		
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			When you don't have something
don't accuse him because you could
		
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			be making a major mistake.
		
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			Because sometimes he gives you
that wish the news that which the
		
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			ego desires, by that he prevents
you from harder it'll produce from
		
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			being in the presence of the Holy
One. And sometimes he prevents, he
		
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			withholds that which the knifes
desires, but then by that, he will
		
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			complete your presence, he will
give you a presence and your
		
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			congeniality with your Lord, your
attachment to your Lord. So
		
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			sometimes he presents the worldly
objects, its desires, its beauty,
		
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			its its fruits,
		
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			sometimes he gives those things to
you. But then he prevents you from
		
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			the benefits of presence with him.
		
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			So you feel empty inside the
outside, you have everything.
		
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			Sometimes he gives you the Xena to
dunya. But then he prevents you
		
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			from witnessing his presence.
		
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			Sometimes he gives you the food
and nourishment, the sustenance of
		
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			your body, the physical, physical
sustenance, but then he will, he
		
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			will withhold from you the
sustenance of the rule and the
		
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			soul, sometimes he gives you the
rule of the soul.
		
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			Rather, he prevents the rule the
food of the outer outer, but he
		
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			gives you the food for the inner.
So all of these things are
		
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			possible. Sometimes he will give
you attention of people, people
		
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			will turn to you, and they will
respect you, they will honor you,
		
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			and so on so forth. Because you
know, you've done something,
		
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			whatever it is, but then he could
prevent the attention of Allah of
		
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			himself. You have attention of
people, but you don't have the
		
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			attention of Allah on us.
		
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			Sometimes he can prevent, he can
withhold and keep people's
		
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			attention away from you. So you
don't get any fame. But then Allah
		
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			subhana wa Tada is,
		
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			his attention is on you.
		
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			Sometimes he gives you knowledge,
he gives you understanding of this
		
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			knowledge, you can give good
understanding, good explanation,
		
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			but he has prevented you from
really knowing that which is
		
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			really notable
		
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			and recognition of that heracleum
gnosis of him.
		
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			Sometimes he may not give you too
much room, but your connection to
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala. And
understanding or him is great. And
		
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			that's why you have some of the
shield that we've had of the past,
		
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			in the Salah cell in the Forcella
cell and the more they weren't or
		
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			the MA in terms of having studied
for years and years and years.
		
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			They knew they knew they fought
for the for the line, they knew
		
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			what they had to do in their life.
And they were very particular
		
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			about it. And they had the
presence of Allah, whereas you had
		
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			others who are great Allah MA in
the sense of, but they didn't
		
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			necessarily have the same manifest
them. You could have both as well.
		
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			Because generally, but it's also
possible that if you just focus on
		
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			one thing and focus on the
external, which is the people of
		
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			the external and you don't focus
on the inside, the one who is
		
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			successful is the one who gets
both.
		
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			Sometimes he may prevent, he may
give you the honor of this world
		
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			but may prevent the honor of the
hereafter. Sometimes he may not
		
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			give you honor in this world But
give you a great honor in the
		
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			world. And this is the greatest
sense of solace and comfort,
		
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			especially for those people who
don't have because this world at
		
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			the end of the day is is temporary
and when you feel vulnerable and
		
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			you feel everybody's against you
and you feel in this world that
		
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			you know like like the Muslims are
going through. But if they keep up
		
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			if they keep up their the Eman
then the real place the real
		
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			playing field is the hereafter.
That's That's what really helps a
		
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			lot. Sometimes he may give you
		
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			honor with people, but then
prevent you from honor with Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala sometime he may not
give you any of an honor among the
		
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			people, but then he will give you
honor with ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada.
		
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			Sometimes he may give you the
service of people, people will
		
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			assist you help you and so on. But
then he will prevent you from he
		
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			will prevent from you.
		
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			The witnessing of the one who
makes all of these things happen.
		
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			And sometimes you won't have any
service from the people who will
		
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			give you no respect etc. But you
will have the witnessing of the
		
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			Hereafter.
		
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			And we were just in Mauritania and
suddenly the, our host was
		
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			Mashallah.
		
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			Very slowly individual. We're
driving son, he just stops on the
		
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			motorway. I mean, it's not much of
a motorway, but you know, they're
		
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			not huge amounts of cars going
there, you're probably the only
		
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			car for
		
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			and there was this beggar
		
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			old man with a walking stick. And
so what are you doing? What are
		
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			you doing? So he, he stops
himself, he reverses the car.
		
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			Right? And he says, And he gives
him something, and we say let's
		
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			turn to make dua for us as well
		
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			is that he could be aware of Allah
We don't know.
		
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			It's just like an old man, you
know, walking in the middle, on
		
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			the side in the desert.
		
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			Because the Hadith of the Prophet
sallallahu sallam said, rob the
		
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			ash borer, not true the minute Abu
Dhabi low oxygen and Allah Bara
		
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			there are certain servants of
Allah subhanho wa taala, there are
		
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			soiled and disheveled in
appearance, you know, just like
		
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			beggars on the street or whatever.
But they are so close to Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala that, if Allah
subhanaw taala willed, if they saw
		
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			if they swore an oath that Allah
subhanaw taala, Allah would
		
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			fulfill that oath for them. So
looking at that person's state, in
		
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			that state, what's he doing now in
the middle of the desert like
		
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			that, you know, what's he doing
down there?
		
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			Sometimes he could give you
		
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			great administration in this
world.
		
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			So you have the ability to make
things happen in this world, but
		
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			he may prevent you from entry into
the upper bounds. Sometimes he may
		
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			prevent or give you no authority
in this world. But then he gives
		
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			you witnessing of the higher
realms. So this is why all of this
		
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			dunya is our world. But it
requires belief for these things
		
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			to settle in the heart. Because
when we go outside again, we
		
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			suddenly see the dunya and we
forget all of this.
		
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			And the proof of all of this is in
the Quran, to Arsa and Takahisa.
		
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			You may be that you dislike
something
		
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			but it's better for you. So
finally, what he says here is it
		
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			it often happens. He says
sometimes he gives you while
		
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			depriving you, sometimes he
deprives you in giving. It often
		
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			happens that on account of the
worldly adornment, luxuries and
		
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			pleasures that Allah Most High. It
often happens that on account of
		
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			the worldly adornments luxuries
and pleasures that Allah Most High
		
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			grants to someone, one becomes
immoderately involved in those
		
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			mundane activities. To the extent
that one is deprived of the
		
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			success and sweetness of
obedience. When the ego is engaged
		
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			in the pleasures of the world
cannot experience the pleasures of
		
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			obedience.
		
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			It also often happens that one's
deprivation of worldly pleasures
		
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			is regarded as a misfortune.
However, when is given the success
		
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			and sweetness of worship in lieu,
the servant should not therefore
		
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			focus his gaze on the superficial,
worldly best vows and
		
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			deprivations. This is really
important because somebody could
		
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			misunderstand from everything
we've said that let's leave
		
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			everything abandon everything and
just focus on the hereafter.
		
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			That's not what it's telling us to
do.
		
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			It's telling us to disassociate
our knifes from it and our heart
		
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			from it that's what he's saying.
If Allah gives you take it and
		
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			accept it ask Allah for if you but
keep your focus somewhere else.
		
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			Don't think that because you've
been given this you get happy with
		
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			it, he's just saying that this is
generally the way the knifes act
		
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			but know better and understand the
reality of this. That's what he's
		
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			saying. So let no nobody
misunderstand that I must just
		
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			give everything up Subhan Allah in
our trip to Mauritania, I said to
		
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			one person that was in the buggy
or to shake bus son. I said to him
		
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			that one of the reasons we came is
to see the Zuid here and he sent
		
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			me a right to be honest, he said
he said this is not as good. I
		
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			mean they live without without
electricity. The only other CEC
		
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			they have is from solar panels. So
they literally have like one bulb
		
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			in one room, no fridge, nothing of
that nature. No, you know, no TV,
		
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			anything of that nature. Nothing.
Right. You go there at night, they
		
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			will have to sacrifice a goat for
you because they don't have a
		
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			fridge where they can and that's
what exactly what they did. You
		
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			know we used to we used to go at
nighttime and they used to have
		
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			food within a short amount of time
meet where you get the meat from.
		
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			We know that it's fresh, it
doesn't smell or anything. It's
		
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			really good.
		
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			Properly organic. And then he said
to me, he said,
		
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			he says you could be down there.
And as long as your heart is not
		
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			attaches in Ireland, he says, As
long as your heart is not
		
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			attached, you could be as a head
there with everything around you.
		
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			And he says, somebody here may not
have anything around him. But his
		
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			desire, his heart is on everything
outside. So Zuid is a state of the
		
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			heart.
		
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			So what this is saying is just
understand that when he gives you,
		
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			it doesn't mean anything. And if
he doesn't give you also don't get
		
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			angry with him. Because there's
bounties in all of these states,
		
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			just make it the right thing, get
your focus correct in all of these
		
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			things. So that's why he's saying
it also often happens at once
		
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			deprivation of a worldly pleasure
is regarded as a misfortune don't
		
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			think it's a misfortune basically.
		
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			However, one is given the success
and sweetness of worship in lieu,
		
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			the servant should not therefore
focus his gaze on the superficial
		
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			bestows in the provisions. The
worst person is the one who
		
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			doesn't have the world and doesn't
even have sweetness of faith.
		
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			Because their heart is too much
they want it when is okay, I don't
		
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			have it. I don't have it, you
know,
		
00:31:09 --> 00:31:12
			the service should not therefore
focus his gaze on the superficial
		
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			bestows and deprivations you
should understand the reality of
		
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			everything and discharge the right
of every occasion. That's the main
		
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			thing, discharge the right of
every occasion. There's a hadith
		
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			in Muslim Muhammad, in which the
Prophet sallallahu sallam said,
		
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			do not suspect Allah with respect
to his decree.
		
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			Do not suspect Allah with Rick
with respect to his decree,
		
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			whatever He decrees on those
suspect him, always think well,
		
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			may Allah subhanaw taala give us
the trophy? May Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala give us the Tofik to
understand reality. Because I
		
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			think what conclusion I've come to
really is that as long as your
		
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			focus is right in the world,
		
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			then you're successful.
		
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			Because that focus will help you
to worship more, it'll help you to
		
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			unravel situate, there's always
situations coming on us. If you
		
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			have the right focus, and the
right understanding based on that
		
00:32:05 --> 00:32:09
			knowledge, then you're doing set
the do what caribou then you're
		
00:32:09 --> 00:32:13
			trying to hit the mark, or you're
trying to get close. And you're
		
00:32:13 --> 00:32:15
			trying to accept the glad tidings,
when you don't have the right
		
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			perspective of how things should
how we should approach this world,
		
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			then we'll be aiming in the wrong
direction. Allah wants us to aim
		
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			in the right direction. He knows
we're not going to always hit the
		
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			mark. But at least if we're aiming
in the right direction, we'll get
		
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			close.
		
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			So this is very important to have
the right set of mind right frame
		
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			of mind optimism in that regard,
love for Allah subhanaw taala and
		
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			great trust and this is where all
of these things come into.
		
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			Then you will be successful,
whatever situation you're in