Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – The Abode of Deception [Hikam 71 & 83]

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The transcript discusses the meaning behind the term "d point" in Islam, a term used to indicate the aftermath of a situation or event. The transcript also describes the history and meaning behind the term "d point" and its use in various context, including culture history. The transcript emphasizes the importance of avoiding spending one's time on negative behavior and focusing on the "here after" in achieving success. The host also emphasizes the importance of understanding one's actions and avoiding misunderstandings in order to achieve success.
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Bismillah R Rahman Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa salatu

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salam ala so you can saline water to heal so be a drummer in a

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beret. If not, Allah says in the Masada Dar Al Hirata Mahan Mullen,

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Lee Jessa Eva the hill Momineen

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Liana her the hit dar la ser uma UD do and you're at home?

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Well the unknown agenda of cadavre home and New Jersey Home feeder in

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LA ca.

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He made the hereafter about to reward his believing servants.

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He specifically made the hereafter as a special place to reward his

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believing servants, only because this world cannot contain what he

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wishes to bestow upon them.

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And number two, because he deemed their worth too high to reward

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them in a world without permanence.

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That is the value that Allah subhanaw taala holds

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his servants in that he reckons that this world despite the fact

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that we think it's an enjoyable place, he knows it to be too

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limited.

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But both in terms of the quality of what he can give us, and also

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in its permanence, in its temporality, really. So that's why

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he made the hereafter for that.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala has called this dunya the double rule.

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The abode of deception, and we can clearly see it's deception.

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Only those people who read the Quran who read the guidance from

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Allah subhanaw taala will know it's deception. Can you imagine if

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we had no idea about the hereafter through the Quran and the Sunnah,

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through our messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, what would you

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think of this world?

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Why would you believe in another world?

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For most people out there, this world is the world.

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Even most Christians out there, they probably don't read the Bible

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enough to really know their theology. There. eschatology,

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meaning

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details of the unseen, they don't have to believe in it. There's too

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material for them, they they are very materialistic.

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very reductionist, in that sense.

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So now you understand why they would find it very strange.

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However, we have a scripture that we believe in, we have guidance

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that we find understanding and inspiration from. So that's why

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this dunya is doddle guru. It's an abode of deception. It makes it

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feel real, that this is the real world. Whereas reality, you can

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say is

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reality is in a sense, relative idea, there's more reality in the

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hereafter because it's more permanent.

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And reality in this world, there is a reality to it, no doubt, we

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live in this reality.

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But it's not the permanent reality of the hereafter. So that's why it

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becomes an abode of deception.

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And then Allah subhanaw taala commanded that this world will

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eventually and everything in it will perish will end and will come

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to nothing. So it is, you can say the lonely world Darren denier,

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it's the lonely world, the degraded worlds, the electron

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Fannia.

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It's going to eventually disappear. And it's going to end

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and perish. That's why it's been called the dunya. That the whole,

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the the word itself dunya dunya. That's the whole reason why it's

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called the dunya. The name in itself signifies its reality.

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Because dunya comes from two meanings. Both of them indicate

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the hereafter. Both of them indicate another one is

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dunya is called dunya. Because we do know we have because of its

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closeness,

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something being close means that there's something else that's far

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that's distant, that's to come.

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Because you're not going to say something as close. If there's

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nothing else

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being close, gives an indication that there's something else number

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two.

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The dinner at her dunya is called dunya. Because of dinner, it's

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dinner, dinner, I mean, it's degraded status. It's humiliated

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nature, it's inferior status.

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So either of those ways, that means there must be something

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superior.

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So it is both by ICA to Emmanuel Macron. It's both constricted in

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terms of its timing, in terms of its time that it will give you and

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also in terms of its play

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Ace, it's only limited. Allah subhanaw taala then called the

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hereafter Daru karar, the abode of permanence, the abode of

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permanence, and the place of the manifestation of light,

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the uncovering of secrets, where you will see what reality was, and

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permanent bliss, happiness and bounties

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and the place where you will see your beloved ones, and all veils

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between you and your beloved ones, those you seek out will be lifted.

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Its bounties will be permanent, and

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it will remain forever. That's why Allah subhanaw taala made that the

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abode of reward for those who worship Him for those of his

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servants that worship Him, and He made that the true station Mikado

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Simpkin in the Maliki Mahkota div. Mikado sink the true the real

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station

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for the prophets and the CDT in the champions of truth.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala was not satisfied that he reward them in a

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an abode, that would not remain permanent, that would be

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constricted in its time and place, a place where there is defects a

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place where there is filth and dirt, humiliation, degradation,

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dishonor, and it is too constricted, too tight, too

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limited to encompass what he wants to give them. What he has in store

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for them, this world is too

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limited for that.

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Allah subhanaw taala wants to give them permanence. Allah subhanho wa

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Taala wants to give them expansion.

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Both of these things extensive he wants to give us extensiveness

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both of those things are impossible in this world. And the

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reason for that is highlighted in a hadith because Allah subhanaw

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taala will give the lowest of the people in Jannah literally the

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lowest of the millions of people in sha Allah and Jana, he will

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give them 10 times the size of this world and that permanently.

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That just gives an indication. So can you imagine for Keifa br Allah

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can you imagine what the people at the highest realms will be

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getting?

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Allah subhanaw taala says fella I'm gonna have some coffee alone

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mean karate or even just be Mirkarimi I'm alone. Nobody no

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knifes no living being knows that which has been kept concealed for

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them in terms of those things, which will gladden their eyes,

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something that gladden your eyes gladdens your hearts. The eye is a

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way to the heart Jezza and Bhima Colonel yet Milan, clearly saying

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reward as a reward for that which they used to do. Allah subhanaw

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taala also says

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in a hadith Bootsy This is not in the Quran that to label the salah

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Hain murder I you know not well at all don't send me what a hot

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Allah, Allah called be Bashar that I have

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prepared for my servants, the pious ones among them.

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That wish no I have seen, no ear has heard the likes of in fact,

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it's something that

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you will never conceive in your, in your heart. It's not something

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even that you can think of its beauty, its permanence, etc. It's

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mind boggling.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala has

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kept the value of his pious servants at a really high level.

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He really values. Allah subhanho wa Taala is generous. Allah

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subhanho wa Taala is honorable, ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada has the

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ability to honor when there's an honorable individual in the world,

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the kind of hospitality that they provide, the kind of assistance

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that they can give the kind of attention that they can have is

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something we understand. So if Allah subhanaw taala, with all of

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his beautiful names, all of these qualities, then you can imagine

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what he will give for those who have fulfilled his dictates in

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this world.

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So he doesn't want to give in a world that is going to perish.

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Because

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whatever seems to be the build up in this world, whatever seems to

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be the structure in this world, eventually it's going to end and

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we see Allah gives us signs by things being destroyed.

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Allahu Akbar. In fact, he says that the existence of these things

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are just like give me a ranch. They will disappear for a few

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days.

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In a bar

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it's in some narrations. It mentions that if this is this is

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really, really powerful. It's a mind, it's really thought

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provoking. One proverb says, that if this dunya, if this dunya, if

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you imagine it to have been made of gold, and the akhirah, to have

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been made of clay, so this dunya was going to be made of gold, dark

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era was going to be made of clay.

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Then, which one would you prefer?

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Which one would you take this world of gold, which is temporary,

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or world in the Hereafter, which is made of clay, but it's

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permanent? So he says,

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locked out all through the intelligent one would take that

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which would remain forever over that which would not remain

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despite what it's made of. Now, that's just a, that's just a

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question.

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That is just a hyper hype, a hypothetical scenario, whereas the

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reality is actually the opposite anyway, because this world is made

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of clay. And that world is made of gold, and it's permanent. So even

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if it was not like that we should take the Hereafter. And when it is

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like that, when when both of the positives are on the side of

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permanence, and the goal is on the other side, then why not? But that

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then requires belief to believe in and this is where the belief comes

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in.

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See, all of this is all hypothetical. It's all it's all

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theory, isn't it at the end of the day, it's only as good as we make

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it our belief. And the more we make our belief in this, the more

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Eman we have in this, that is how much stronger this will become.

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And the secret is for me, for me and my experience, the secret of

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getting away from the world and focusing on the hereafter is to

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remember your death to remember the hereafter, there is no other

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way to do it. Because if there is no concept of the afterlife, and

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etc, etc, to deal with it, then you become indulgent in this

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world, the only way to take yourself away from the world even

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a bit is to focus on the Hereafter. And try that's that's

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the only way Why would you otherwise. If you're not going to

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the hereafter to Allah subhanaw taala Why would you

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but that requires belief to do that. And the belief is

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strengthened by our scar, etc.

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By keeping regularly our heart in tune, otherwise, when our hearts

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become out of tune, without any thicker, then it starts falling

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apart.

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There's another narration which says that

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and our inner sorry, the Minister about theater near do Munna Munna

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near tiene la in fact, coryza booyah

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Wakanda Malema Yuk Du Bois de Hema who will earn I mean mithya de

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cobbler a new Khalifa who Lehmann Yesod will be in T

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waka Chaka who are being be Gemini, he was at a party he was

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at karate.

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He says no, uh, whoa, that the fortunate one is the one who

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adopts and prefers that which will remain and who's bounties will be

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permanent, over that which is to be depleted, and whose punishment

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never stops.

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Punishment here means trials, tribulations of this world they

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never stopped, it's never you know, you may have a good year,

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you may have a good month, but eventually something will come to

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mess you up a bit.

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And he sends forth to that which he is going to arrive at. He sends

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forth for the abode to which he is going to go.

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And he sends forth from that which he has right now in his hand,

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before he leaves it for the one who will be happy to spend it.

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That's so beautiful.

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He said he spends of that which, if he leaves behind

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those who leaves it behind to Wilson, be happy to spend, he

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spends from that to that abode, which he is going for. So he's

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investing for his hereafter and the people who are going to spend

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and enjoy that.

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They're going to do that while this person while he was gathering

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it and treasuring it and hoarding it. He was obviously sacrificing.

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So he leads a life of sacrificing holding these things because he

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doesn't spend it

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and he leaves it for somebody behind them and doesn't invest for

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the hereafter of what you went on. So I do the alone says that I

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heard Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam saying Hulu and first second beta.

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Release yourself.

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Release yourself by obedience. Well, I'll be sue her kina Alma

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Hoffa, and

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Cover yourself in the garb of fear when you're Hirata complete

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unfussy calm and make your hereafter for yourself be selfish

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and disregard. Make your hereafter for yourself

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was that your company moussaka Rico, and make your efforts your

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endeavors

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for your permanent abode, where I learn more and nakoma, unclean and

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raw, I don't know that very soon very soon, you will be taking your

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journey where it Allah He set your own and you will be

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traveling to Allah subhanaw taala Where are you honey and communica

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Illa salehoo I'm an encourage them to move

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and the only thing we should be to benefit you and which will enrich

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you there will be the good deeds that you have sent forth. Oh her

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snowthrower been juicy to mu or the Great, excellent reward that

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you will be given in necom in nama Toka de Munna Allah condemned them

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you are only going to

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that which you have sent forth. What to jazz una anima is left

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home and you'll only be rewarded for what you've done in the past

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for Allah. Dan ACOEM the herder for dunya the hottie for dunya

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Dunia and Marathi be Jana tiene Alia. So, let not this degraded

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worlds

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deceive you,

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take you away from the high levels of the gardens, the gardens of

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bliss in the hereafter fucka and cushy fellow Kena

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waterfowl at what are called Omri musta, Cara who wa Rafa Mahieu

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among Colaba.

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So,

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it should be as if

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the way you should live is with these veils having been removed

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doubts, to have been alleviated. And everybody will then get what

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their permanent abode is. And they will recognize the their abode the

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place where they may be destroyed the place where they may be going

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back to

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the next one, he says, robot, robot, talk taka for Minarik what

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Obama Menaka for our talk,

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this one is related.

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He says sometimes he gives while depriving you.

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Sometimes he gives while depriving you, and sometimes he deprives you

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in giving.

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And that definitely has to be unpacked. This is, again, a very

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important point he's making here because it will inshallah

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alleviate any depression one has, when they feel that they have a

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setback,

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when they feel that things aren't going the way they expect it to go

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things that would like their heart would want them to go there

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knifes. So what he's saying here is

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the dominant state of the nostril Amara,

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which is the evil inciting self and the lawanna.

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Not motivating. The evil invite inciting self. And the

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dilemma is the

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the censoring self.

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The dominant state, in both of these situations, is that it will

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generally expand the nerves will expand, you will feel good. When

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you're given something and you receive something. When you when

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you earn more, when you somehow receive more.

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The highest expense, the knifes expense. I mean, it's quite a

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normal state. I mean, this is what we live for, essentially, is what

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we live for. When we don't get something it contracts, you don't

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feel happy in that state. You feel like you're being deprived. This

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is our normal state unfortunately.

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The reason is that when it's given that it's food, that's the food of

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the knifes that's its desire is being fulfilled. So clearly,

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there's no doubt that it's going to expand with that with that. And

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when,

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when it's prevented when when gifts are prevented, bounties are

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prevented from it, then that is like you're cutting it supply.

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You're severing its supply. And you're it's not going to give you

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you're not you're not giving it its desire.

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So then there's no doubt that it's going to become contracted. It's

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going to have this desire for it. And the reason for all of this.

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Now we think this is a normal state that this is what we live

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by. Yes it is. But it's only because he says they generally

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have your own behavior. Well either me for me her its own

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only because it is ignorant of its Lord and doesn't have

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understanding doesn't comprehend the situation, follow Fahima to

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any law, law limit annulment, I know,

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I know, I thought if it really had the understanding about from Allah

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subhanaw taala, it would know that things being withheld from it is

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Allah gifting it. That is a bounty, that prevention is a

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bounty, that withholding is a bouncing about a bounty. And it

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being given is sometimes a prevention from Allah that Allah

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is preventing something good from coming to him when he gives

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something to them. Again, this doesn't make it fully clear, but

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we'll get to it.

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So

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over here, a one in need only the one, understand this from your

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Lord. And don't

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accuse him.

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When you don't have something don't accuse him because you could

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be making a major mistake.

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Because sometimes he gives you that wish the news that which the

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ego desires, by that he prevents you from harder it'll produce from

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being in the presence of the Holy One. And sometimes he prevents, he

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withholds that which the knifes desires, but then by that, he will

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complete your presence, he will give you a presence and your

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congeniality with your Lord, your attachment to your Lord. So

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sometimes he presents the worldly objects, its desires, its beauty,

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its its fruits,

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sometimes he gives those things to you. But then he prevents you from

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the benefits of presence with him.

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So you feel empty inside the outside, you have everything.

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Sometimes he gives you the Xena to dunya. But then he prevents you

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from witnessing his presence.

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Sometimes he gives you the food and nourishment, the sustenance of

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your body, the physical, physical sustenance, but then he will, he

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will withhold from you the sustenance of the rule and the

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soul, sometimes he gives you the rule of the soul.

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Rather, he prevents the rule the food of the outer outer, but he

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gives you the food for the inner. So all of these things are

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possible. Sometimes he will give you attention of people, people

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will turn to you, and they will respect you, they will honor you,

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and so on so forth. Because you know, you've done something,

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whatever it is, but then he could prevent the attention of Allah of

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himself. You have attention of people, but you don't have the

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attention of Allah on us.

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Sometimes he can prevent, he can withhold and keep people's

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attention away from you. So you don't get any fame. But then Allah

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subhana wa Tada is,

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his attention is on you.

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Sometimes he gives you knowledge, he gives you understanding of this

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knowledge, you can give good understanding, good explanation,

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but he has prevented you from really knowing that which is

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really notable

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and recognition of that heracleum gnosis of him.

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Sometimes he may not give you too much room, but your connection to

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Allah subhanaw taala. And understanding or him is great. And

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that's why you have some of the shield that we've had of the past,

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in the Salah cell in the Forcella cell and the more they weren't or

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the MA in terms of having studied for years and years and years.

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They knew they knew they fought for the for the line, they knew

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what they had to do in their life. And they were very particular

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about it. And they had the presence of Allah, whereas you had

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others who are great Allah MA in the sense of, but they didn't

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necessarily have the same manifest them. You could have both as well.

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Because generally, but it's also possible that if you just focus on

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one thing and focus on the external, which is the people of

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the external and you don't focus on the inside, the one who is

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successful is the one who gets both.

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Sometimes he may prevent, he may give you the honor of this world

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but may prevent the honor of the hereafter. Sometimes he may not

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give you honor in this world But give you a great honor in the

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world. And this is the greatest sense of solace and comfort,

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especially for those people who don't have because this world at

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the end of the day is is temporary and when you feel vulnerable and

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you feel everybody's against you and you feel in this world that

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you know like like the Muslims are going through. But if they keep up

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if they keep up their the Eman then the real place the real

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playing field is the hereafter. That's That's what really helps a

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lot. Sometimes he may give you

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honor with people, but then prevent you from honor with Allah

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subhanaw taala sometime he may not give you any of an honor among the

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people, but then he will give you honor with ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada.

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Sometimes he may give you the service of people, people will

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assist you help you and so on. But then he will prevent you from he

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will prevent from you.

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The witnessing of the one who makes all of these things happen.

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And sometimes you won't have any service from the people who will

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give you no respect etc. But you will have the witnessing of the

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Hereafter.

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And we were just in Mauritania and suddenly the, our host was

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Mashallah.

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Very slowly individual. We're driving son, he just stops on the

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motorway. I mean, it's not much of a motorway, but you know, they're

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not huge amounts of cars going there, you're probably the only

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car for

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and there was this beggar

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old man with a walking stick. And so what are you doing? What are

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you doing? So he, he stops himself, he reverses the car.

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Right? And he says, And he gives him something, and we say let's

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turn to make dua for us as well

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is that he could be aware of Allah We don't know.

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It's just like an old man, you know, walking in the middle, on

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the side in the desert.

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Because the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, rob the

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ash borer, not true the minute Abu Dhabi low oxygen and Allah Bara

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there are certain servants of Allah subhanho wa taala, there are

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soiled and disheveled in appearance, you know, just like

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beggars on the street or whatever. But they are so close to Allah

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subhanaw taala that, if Allah subhanaw taala willed, if they saw

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if they swore an oath that Allah subhanaw taala, Allah would

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fulfill that oath for them. So looking at that person's state, in

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that state, what's he doing now in the middle of the desert like

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that, you know, what's he doing down there?

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Sometimes he could give you

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great administration in this world.

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So you have the ability to make things happen in this world, but

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he may prevent you from entry into the upper bounds. Sometimes he may

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prevent or give you no authority in this world. But then he gives

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you witnessing of the higher realms. So this is why all of this

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dunya is our world. But it requires belief for these things

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to settle in the heart. Because when we go outside again, we

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suddenly see the dunya and we forget all of this.

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And the proof of all of this is in the Quran, to Arsa and Takahisa.

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You may be that you dislike something

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but it's better for you. So finally, what he says here is it

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it often happens. He says sometimes he gives you while

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depriving you, sometimes he deprives you in giving. It often

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happens that on account of the worldly adornment, luxuries and

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pleasures that Allah Most High. It often happens that on account of

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the worldly adornments luxuries and pleasures that Allah Most High

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grants to someone, one becomes immoderately involved in those

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mundane activities. To the extent that one is deprived of the

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success and sweetness of obedience. When the ego is engaged

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in the pleasures of the world cannot experience the pleasures of

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obedience.

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It also often happens that one's deprivation of worldly pleasures

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is regarded as a misfortune. However, when is given the success

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and sweetness of worship in lieu, the servant should not therefore

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focus his gaze on the superficial, worldly best vows and

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deprivations. This is really important because somebody could

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misunderstand from everything we've said that let's leave

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everything abandon everything and just focus on the hereafter.

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That's not what it's telling us to do.

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It's telling us to disassociate our knifes from it and our heart

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from it that's what he's saying. If Allah gives you take it and

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accept it ask Allah for if you but keep your focus somewhere else.

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Don't think that because you've been given this you get happy with

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it, he's just saying that this is generally the way the knifes act

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but know better and understand the reality of this. That's what he's

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saying. So let no nobody misunderstand that I must just

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give everything up Subhan Allah in our trip to Mauritania, I said to

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one person that was in the buggy or to shake bus son. I said to him

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that one of the reasons we came is to see the Zuid here and he sent

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me a right to be honest, he said he said this is not as good. I

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mean they live without without electricity. The only other CEC

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they have is from solar panels. So they literally have like one bulb

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in one room, no fridge, nothing of that nature. No, you know, no TV,

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anything of that nature. Nothing. Right. You go there at night, they

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will have to sacrifice a goat for you because they don't have a

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fridge where they can and that's what exactly what they did. You

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know we used to we used to go at nighttime and they used to have

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food within a short amount of time meet where you get the meat from.

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We know that it's fresh, it doesn't smell or anything. It's

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really good.

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Properly organic. And then he said to me, he said,

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he says you could be down there. And as long as your heart is not

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attaches in Ireland, he says, As long as your heart is not

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attached, you could be as a head there with everything around you.

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And he says, somebody here may not have anything around him. But his

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desire, his heart is on everything outside. So Zuid is a state of the

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heart.

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So what this is saying is just understand that when he gives you,

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it doesn't mean anything. And if he doesn't give you also don't get

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angry with him. Because there's bounties in all of these states,

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just make it the right thing, get your focus correct in all of these

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things. So that's why he's saying it also often happens at once

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deprivation of a worldly pleasure is regarded as a misfortune don't

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think it's a misfortune basically.

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However, one is given the success and sweetness of worship in lieu,

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the servant should not therefore focus his gaze on the superficial

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bestows in the provisions. The worst person is the one who

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doesn't have the world and doesn't even have sweetness of faith.

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Because their heart is too much they want it when is okay, I don't

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have it. I don't have it, you know,

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the service should not therefore focus his gaze on the superficial

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bestows and deprivations you should understand the reality of

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everything and discharge the right of every occasion. That's the main

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thing, discharge the right of every occasion. There's a hadith

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in Muslim Muhammad, in which the Prophet sallallahu sallam said,

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do not suspect Allah with respect to his decree.

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Do not suspect Allah with Rick with respect to his decree,

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whatever He decrees on those suspect him, always think well,

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may Allah subhanaw taala give us the trophy? May Allah subhanaw

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taala give us the Tofik to understand reality. Because I

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think what conclusion I've come to really is that as long as your

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focus is right in the world,

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then you're successful.

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Because that focus will help you to worship more, it'll help you to

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unravel situate, there's always situations coming on us. If you

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have the right focus, and the right understanding based on that

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knowledge, then you're doing set the do what caribou then you're

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trying to hit the mark, or you're trying to get close. And you're

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trying to accept the glad tidings, when you don't have the right

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perspective of how things should how we should approach this world,

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then we'll be aiming in the wrong direction. Allah wants us to aim

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in the right direction. He knows we're not going to always hit the

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mark. But at least if we're aiming in the right direction, we'll get

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close.

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So this is very important to have the right set of mind right frame

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of mind optimism in that regard, love for Allah subhanaw taala and

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great trust and this is where all of these things come into.

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Then you will be successful, whatever situation you're in

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