Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Shamail AlTirmidhi Weeping of the Prophet () Part 57
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The segment discusses various narratives and narratives related to the death of various people and their families. It discusses the loss of Barbara during a hippo fight, the importance of praising people for their actions, the theory that the god had been responsible for the loss of a woman, the importance of praying in every state, and the importance of being a complete believer. The segment also touches on the importance of praying in every state and being a complete believer.
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Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim
Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa salatu salam ala say the Lord
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Sleeman Kathira on Edo Medina Marburg.
So we were on the 45th Chapter of the Imam Shamil is a man, Timothy
Shamaya,
which is a chapter on how Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam used
to weep. We read one or two Hadith I'm just going to read through the
Hadith first, and then inshallah we'll complete this chapter today.
Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim bourbon major, if you look at your
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with the Allahu Anhu call Shahina if Natalie Rasulullah sallallahu
alayhi wa salam ala Rasulillah he Journalisten Cobra, for our A to
our knee heated Morane if I call it a few comme la jolla new car if
he later called a brutal Hatter Anna Carla in ZIL, Fenner
Zelophehad Kaveri her, we have the last three of these narrations to
complete. So the last narration that we read, which was 331 it was
about the sun, the solar eclipse, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
wasallam what he mentioned thereafter about that, so now we
move on to the next generation,
which is narration 332 of the book. This one is related from
ignore buzzworthy Allahu Anhu. He says that, others will allah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Ignat and level
the prophets of Allah and Islam took hold or picked up a daughter
of his that's the literal meaning of Latin means daughter. He picked
up a daughter of his in the sight. In another narration, he mentions
ignorance of the rotten small daughter, probably infant Selena
is generally infant daughter. And this daughter duck the duck the
means generally was ending life. Color means to to make up to fill
to end. So she was ending life for Atlanta. So he put her in his lap
properly so held her to Himself. Hidden generally refers to hold
somebody to your side, somebody close to your side. That's the
middle part of your body torso to hold some
Add to your torso. After that he put her down. So he held her for a
while. And then after that, he put her down in front of him. Then he
placed it around in front of him. And then she passed away from her
that she passed away. So she was in her last moments, and he held
her at that time. And then she passed away. And he put her in
front of him. So she passed away where he had been near there, she
was still in front of him. When she passed away. It was in that
state that she passed away. Then it mentions, I'll just read the
translation of the history before I comment on this. It mentions
then, that as soon as that happened on Omar Amon was there,
she was, the she was many things to Rasulullah sallallahu sallam,
she was his father's slave girl. She was his father's slave girl,
Abdullah, the Allah on slave. So essentially, in a sense, he
inherited her after his father passed away. But then she had also
breastfed him. So she was like a mother. And she's actually was,
didn't have any kind of pretenses in front of Rasulullah sallallahu
sallam, she liked it like a mother in front of him, he's have a lot
of respect for her and used to treat her like a mother in a sense
as well. So she's the one who got then married to Zadara, the Allah
one and somewhat of the Allah one, and who was their child. So she
started screaming, you know, she started loudly crying. So she she
shrieked, she she cried loudly. So the Prophet sallallahu sallam
said, are you crying in front of rasool Allah? So he said to her,
are you crying in front of nothing? Are you crying in front
of me, by Ukraine in front of rasool Allah?
So she said, don't I see that you're crying as well? Don't I see
that you're weeping as well as to Urraca turkey. So then he said it
needless to say, I'm not crying in the way you mean, in the in nama
here, Rama. What I'm trying is this is just the merciful crank.
But what you're crying is a different form of crying. That's
what he was trying to say, in the moment because he didn't
adequately help. The believer is always in goodness in every state.
Right? The believer is in goodness, every state in the
NAFSA, who tunes them in by any jambay He will react with Allah
azza wa jal, because this is speaking about somebody else dying
in front of him. But he is saying that the believer state is such
that every state they should be praising Allah subhanaw taala and
is a good state because the real believer the camel movement is the
one who his own soul is coming out and he's praising Allah subhanaw
taala because that's the state of a complete believer that when
we're dying in sha Allah, Allah give us the Kadima, we're not
going to be crying at that time. We're not going to be shrieking,
I've got nothing I'm going I'm going to lose everything. No way
with the Muslim focus is Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah and the
surrounding people also encouraging for that same thing.
So he's saying that if that's the case with yourself, then why
should you shriek at somebody else's dying when you yourself
die, and you're focused on praising Allah subhanaw taala?
Because Allah knows the wisdom in everything and why he does
everything. Why should you cry for someone else? Why should you
shriek for someone else in his grievious way, that's what he was
saying. So now let's look at this hadith in a bit detail. Because
there's a few questions that arise here. The hadith mentions that he
was holding a daughter of his, which indicates that it's either
we only know four daughters, Fatima, or the Allahu anha, omo
Kulsoom, Ruqayyah. And Xena or the Allah we know that they all grew
up. So how and we don't know of any other daughters of either of
his because there's a pretty much an agreement that all of the
daughters of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam grew up, got married, and,
you know, didn't die in infancy.
So he definitely didn't have a daughter like that. So who is
this? What is this speaking about? Because all the Alama of Syrah,
they've all agreed, and the historians have all agreed that
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam didn't have any daughters
that died at a young age, he had sons that died and young age but
not daughters. Now, the other possibility here is that he means
his granddaughter, because you know, your granddaughter can be
associated to you as your daughter, as well. So it was
either one of his daughters daughters, it can't have been His
Sons Daughters, because none of them grew up to get married and
had children so it had to be one of his daughters daughters. But
then it's not been narrated in the majority of narrations that even
his daughters, that his daughters had any children that passed away
at a young age either.
So in the majority of narration, there's only one narration which
says that which has that, but all the other generations, they all
mentioned that the that he his daughters, also did not have any
daughters that died at a young age. There's only one narration
which is related by Muhammad
that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was was brought Omarama
been to Zainab.
His daughter Zainab. With the Allahu anha her daughter Oh mama.
Well, he affine Nazeri and she was in the nether generally means this
Ah, when the roof is going to be pulled the last. So that's what it
mentions in the Hadith. He doesn't mention that he died, she died. He
just mentioned that she was in that state, and then says for
Damir aina. And thus, his eyes began to weep at that. So that's
another. That's a narration that some of us may have heard before.
Or it's probably this narration that we've heard. So anyway,
there's only one narration other than this one, which mentions that
a granddaughter of his
or indicates that a granddaughter of his passed away. So who does it
mean hear them? Now?
In this hadith, it's very clear this emotional damage Hadith says,
Oh, mama, daughter of Xena or the Allahu anha. However, the Hadith
scholars they all agree that Omarama
Radi Allahu Allah, this young girl, she actually grew up and she
stayed alive after Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam such that
earlier the Allahu Anhu married her, right? Because she was his
wife's niece, right? This Omarama was Xena but of the Allah one has
daughter, Zaina brother younger sister was Fatima earlier the
Allah was married to Fatima while he was married to Fatima, you can
have a an auntie and her niece together at the same time. Because
generally, if you have two wives, they're going to argue with each
other. And you don't want to be the cause of two blood relatives.
Having animal animosity. That's why you can't marry two sisters
together. Or an antenna daughter Antony.
Nice. So she was Fatima. The Alana is nice, but he married her after
that. Because I showed her the Fatima the Alana. She passed away
six months after Rasulullah sallallahu. So after that, he he
married this Oh, mama. So that's agreed that he married her. That
means she couldn't have died in that state. So then who is this
that we're speaking about here? Who is this daughter or
granddaughter that is dying that date? As this hadith explains, and
in fact, this Oh mama, she actually stayed alive even after,
after God alone as it was martyred. She stayed alive even
after that. So for that hadith for Imam, Imam Muhammad narration
where Obama was bought, that has to mean that she was at this stage
when she was young that she was going to die, but she was saved.
So she was in a very critical level at that time. So that's what
that means, because he doesn't mention she died anyway. It just
mentioned that she's in that state when you're about to die, but she
didn't die because there's lots of times that happens, people
recover. So that's dealt with. So what does he mean by this
narration? So you could the other possibilities, then is that either
the fact that it says Dakota you that she was at the end of her
life, and she died? Maybe Allah knows best whether that is an
accurate portrayal of what happened. It probably is because
that's what it mentioned. Or this word Edna tune in Arabic means
daughter. Is there some issue with that word as to has there been a
mistake in that?
So the Allama mentioned that the reality is that they should not be
ignorant.
Somewhere it became ignorant and it should have been ignorant,
ignorant mean son, ignorant means daughter. So very easy for me to
become Ableton just add a little TA. In fact, if you have Elif ba
noon, and if with the new new just kind of give a little tail to it,
sometimes someone could think that that's a TA, right? Especially in
those days they didn't.
Allah was best. So
the aroma mentioned that the opinion here is that this should
have been his son who passed away one of his sons, because he had a
number of sons that passed away in front of him. So this is most like
this has to be about his son because none of his daughters
died, and none of his granddaughters died. So it was
either Qasim or Abdullah or Ibrahim This is speaking about
because all of them died at a young age. Or it could also mean
one of his grand sons passed away. So the Ebon is definite. So as his
own sons is talking about, or it could be referring to one of his
grandsons, like Hussein, Abu Fatima. Well, Abdullah IGNOU
Rocha. Yeah.
Because they also died at a young age. Hussein YBNL. Fatima, right.
Or Abdullah IGNOU Ruqayyah Ibn Earthman. So that's one of the
Allah one who was married to look at your audience. So there's an
Abdullah.
So now you can see
that you've got this hadith, but it seems to contradict what we
know from other narrations as being the case. So that's how
they're Allama. They look at this and they tried to understand how
best to place this. But look at the honesty that some of the later
muddy thing could have said, well, most of this is impossible. It's
similar to let's just change it.
Even on, you know, there's going to be no confusion. But they
refuse to do that. They said, No, this is how it's related.
This is how we're going to leave it and we're going to explain it.
That's what you call honesty, academic honesty, you leave it and
you explain it. You could just change it, then it just becomes
changed. But there could be a secret in this as to something
else being revealed later on Allah knows best. There must be a reason
why that is the case. Anyway, so when this happened, this daughter,
this grandson of his passed away, your son of his passed away in
front of more Amon, she cried out.
So she was the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was witness. She
looked after him
when he was growing up in the young age as well. Wasn't she the
one who was there when his mother passed away?
She was the one who was there because she had gone along. And so
she was very close to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam. The
Protestantism had obviously freed her. You know, when he became a he
had actually have you feel free to her because she was a slave until
she, when he married her, the god Allah Juana, he freed her. And
then he got her married to say that the Allahu Anhu and there's a
hadith in Abu Dhabi. Once the prophets Allah something came
really, really excited. into the house. He his face was beaming.
And, like what happened? What happened? He said, I show the
Allahu Anna. She's asking what happened. What happened? He says,
That's it. Now we know for sure. Because this Omar Amon was dark,
she was black. And Zeto, the Allahu Anhu. Was, was white. And
some are the Allahu Anhu was dark as well.
And many of the people that they said he's not his son, he's not
Zaid are the Allahu Anhu. Son, one day they were both sleeping.
They were covered in a blanket, only their feet were exposed. So
the both sleeping next to each other, their feet were exposed. So
this one man who is a color car if these people even today, they've
got people like this in desert areas around the world where they
can they know footsteps, and they know feet. So it's literally like
a DNA. So they can tell what kind of relationship is between two
people just looking at their soles of the feet. So because these two
people solve is that oh, that's a father and that's a that's a
that's a father and a son. He didn't know who they were, he just
went past and he said, incidentally, he just went past
and he said, Oh, that's a father and a son. And that just made a
sort of assessment so happy. Because then he says, This will
help to dispel this suspicion that some of the people of some of the
people had, that they were not really father and son. Obviously,
it's not what your revelation it's not like 100% Even that, but it's
society wise is considered to be something that is accepted. So I
mean, a similar thing would be DNA today. Similar. So she she, she
was so she became a free woman afterwards. She passed away after
Omar the Allah 120 days after Amara, the Allah one who passed
away so she stayed alive for quite a while. She was part of a she was
took part in the Battle of her as well. She used to bring the water
she used to give water to the you know, to the warriors, and she was
also in the Battle of inhaber. And she also made to the both the
migrations to Abyssinia, she did those as well. And then she went
to Medina, you know the migration to Medina. So she's done
everything. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used
to say Omar Amon is my mother, or a man or me, she is my mother.
And he used to treat her like a mother. He used to go and visit
her quite often. Right? He used to visit her quite often. And he used
to literally be like her son used to go and act like her son used to
treat her like his mother. And that's why she had she had the
guts to even shriek out. Nobody else would have done that. But she
had the guts or she felt comfortable enough to express
herself when this child died in front of him. But the problem is
that her shrieking it was a grievous shaking. It's one of
those like where it's like showing a lot of sorrow, not just the
normal, merciful, soft kind of weeping, so that was the issue.
That's why the Prophet sallallahu sallam said to her, are you crying
in front of the Rasul of Allah? He didn't say a crane in front of me
because I'm your father, I'm your, I'm your son. So he couldn't have
said that. And also to say that you came from the Rasulullah she
has to respect Rasul Allah. Right? Not as a son, but as the messenger
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, you know, because a mother status,
Mother status, so that's why he used that. Where are you crying in
front of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
So then she said, Well, I'm seeing you cry. I don't I see that you're
crying as well. Right? You're meaning you're weeping as well.
So then the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam made a clear
distinction. He said less to upkeep. In nama he Rama, I'm not
crying, meaning I'm not crying that way you guys think that you
should cry?
You know in this grievious state, showing great would you call it
sorrow and declaring that in nama here Rama, this is just some drops
that come out of mercy. This is just some drops that come out of
mercy. This is the effect of mercy that Allah subhanaw taala puts
into the hearts of the people. And this is the permissible crying. So
he taught her like that. But you can understand that they can be
misunderstanding. So she misunderstood. She thought, well,
he's crying. So let me cry as well, in my way. No, you can't do
that. And he said, Because hearts cry. They're sorry, the heart is
has this fear, but the eyes they weep. And you can't shriek though
you can't do all of that. But then he said, we're in Isla fear Rocky,
Kalamazoo noon, yeah, Ibrahim, Ibrahim. And when it was Abraham's
rhodiola, when he passed away, the province of Assam said, we are. We
are in a state of sorrow and losing you. That's the show
humanity. But he wanted to dispel the fact that you can't cran
shriek out.
And then he made that statement where he as a general rule of what
a believer should be like he said, a believer, a complete believer is
always going to be in the state of goodness in every state,
regardless of what happens and he will praise Allah subhanaw taala
in an officer who turns his knifes, his soul will be leaving
his body by in a jambay he between his two sides, and he'll be
praising Allah subhanaw taala because he considers Mote and
death a source of mercy from this world. He sees it as so Allah
subhanaw taala calling somebody to them, and the opening the doors of
gender to infer those four agenda for them. So how should you be
upset? The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said the killing
of a believer is more severe to Allah subhanaw taala than the
ending of this world.
A believers life is more important than him doing away with this
entire universe. That's why this universe will finish but will be
given Jana. The believers will be given Jana because they have more
respect. But then he said what kafele meanie in a shot often? The
believers it's sufficient for them to know. It's sufficient honor for
them to know that Allah subhanaw taala has said in the Quran, you
Hebrew whom where you hate Bona He loves them and they love him. So
if you love Him, then He loves you and is enough for you as an honor.
That's more than any honor that you can have. The Prophet
salallahu Alaihe Salam once he heard somebody saying
Alhamdulillah Allah nettle Islam,
all praises to Allah, for the bounty of Islam that he has given
us. So the prophets Allah some said to him, in Nicola dama de la
Allah near Mateen Alima Ohana you are, you're praising Allah
subhanho wa Taala on a mighty virtue, big virtue that he has
given you Islam. It's it's also it's mentioned that there is no
Kadima, there is no formula there is no statement words that are
more please more beloved to Allah subhanho wa Taala or that can show
more gratitude to him than for a person to say Alhamdulillah he led
the Elena wa Donalyn Islam. Let's read it for once Alhamdulillah he
levy an AMA Elena
all praises to Allah who has given us bounties given us gifts, given
us nema. Well, hi Donna in Islam and he has guided us to Islam. So
essentially you've got the you're thanking him for worldly things
and you're thanking him for your Islam and your deen
right the next hadith is these number 333 which is related from
Qasim ignore Mohammed from our Isha the Allahu anha and Rasool
Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam called Bella Rothman
omnimaga rune.
Orthomosaic Nimeth Arun was one of the first of them Oh hygiene to
pass away in Madina Munawwara today if you go to
the graveyard in Madina, Munawwara the janitor, Bucky, you've got
these people that tell you that this is better and that's not
better. This is better.
They tell you that if you want to go and do zero, you can use Yarra
in general. Right to to take a lesson. But if you want to do it
out of anybody in particular, you can only go and do zero of
arithmetic no matter when you wonder why
Because the professionalism did zyada of him
he buried him in a particular place there and he said I'm gonna
bury bury my family members close to him. So in an amazing
individual he was with modern mother only Allah one.
So they're very literalist these people say because the brothers
went visited him you can visit him but you can't visit anybody else
you know specifically
why did the promise the last visit him then? You know if that's a
better than then that should be a better
literalism because of course I've only visited one person you can
only visit a person that's why you can't even go to visit Rasul Allah
Salah sounds great you have to go for them. Masjid you can't go for
the for the Prophet salallahu Salam, you have to go for the
masjid your intention should be that's what they say that your
intention should be to go and pray in the masjid because the prophets
Allah said these are three messages that you can go towards.
Right? There's nobody buried in Makkah, or in Jerusalem. So that's
a separate issue, that the prophets Allah ism is buried
there. And the fact that the masjid has its own benefit has its
own virtues the two separate issues so they say you can't go
for a pseudo Lhasa Lhasa because that's a bitter. Why is it going
to Rosemount have no mother London. Anyway. So in this hadith
or tomorrow, no matter one of the alone had passed away, and said he
was one of the first that what it says here is what were the
prophets. Allah is Salam. He kissed him while he was after he
passed away into he went to he went there and he kissed him and
the brothel awesome, was weeping was weeping or the sahabi or the
narrator says that his eyes were watering. So either way, he was
weeping and he kissed him. So this tells us that you can kiss a dead
person.
You know, Scheffer, cotton, Ramadan, you can you can kiss
them. Now let's look at this hadith. This with man of no
mother, oh, no, the Allahu Anhu.
In another narration, he mentioned a custom between his eyes, so on
his forehead between his eyes as we kissed him, and that's where
Abu Bakr the husband had kissed the Prophet salallahu Salam when
he passed away,
because remember, he was far out and he came back and he was there
and then he came and kissed him. Anyway, this Sahabi or Sivan,
methanethiol he's a Qureshi. He brought Islam he embraced Islam
after 13 people. So he's one of the first to become Muslim. Right?
Among the first 14 and he also migrated to have you ever seen
your both times? And then obviously, to Madina, Munawwara he
was in the Battle of butter, which took place very soon after they've
migrated. And he was one individual who you never used to
drink.
Hamza, the Allah one all these people used to drink. In the
beginning days when the wine wasn't haram yet. I leave at the
end all of these people used to drink because it was just so
normal to drink for us and Hamdulillah we haven't never
tasted drink so you just think Alhamdulillah I don't need to go
into this island waste my money and you know, do haram, we save a
lot of money, believe me. Right? Otherwise, they expect champagne.
5060 pounds. That's what you call, you know. Altavilla. So 100 Lola
saved us from the intoxication. So he was different. He had made it
haram on himself. Through his logical understanding. He said,
That law shut up, shut up. And I'm not going to drink a drink yet her
balcony you have here but actually that's going to take away my
intellect.
Right? You get drunk, take away my intellect. Wild hack be men who
are the nominee or whatever the heck be where it has to be. And
it's going to cause somebody lesser than me to laugh at me,
because I'm going to do silly things. Right? Well, yeah. Melanie
Isla UNGA, Karima T, and which could also cause me to go and
phony Kate with my own sister, I guess those things could have
happened. And that would have happened because when you're in
that drunk state, you don't know the difference between your mom
and your wife, your sister and your wife. So for him, this logic
was sufficient. And he is the first to to pass away in Madina
Munawwara from among dental hygiene
exactly 30 months after the migration. So how many years is
that? Two and a half years, in two and a half years. He was the first
one to be buried in gender to Bucky as well. In fact, he's
related that approximately lives and went and put a stone by his
by the head of his grave. So he's, there's nothing wrong with putting
your headstone although they've taken him off today. And then he
said, Art Lumbee Cobra Aki or lamb Cobra, this is the way I'll
signpost my brother's grave, he said and what are the finer in the
human Mirta mean early. I'm also going to bury anybody from my
family that passes away. I'm going to bury him by him. And then he
has to go and visit his grave. So when his son Ibrahim, Radi Allahu
Anhu passed away. He
He said it Finn.
It Finn who, in the cellfina are threatening macaroon. Go and bury
him by our predecessor amount of them are the one who's gone
before. He was the Arabic in which that he was. He used to do a lot
of worship. He was a great worshiper was one of them
withdrawn from the formula of the Saba first 14 people to become
Muslim.
And he, a Buddha, and it really along with the three that have
come to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam and said that we're
not going to get married and we're not going I'm gonna pray all night
and you know, those three famous, he was one of them.
And the prophets, Allah subhanaw taala No, you can't do that. When
his Janaza went past the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said
it hub Rahmatullah he Alec go, may the mercy of Allah be upon you.
Oh, Abu sir, that was his title for cut horridge, the William Tell
bus minha che, you have left this world and you did not wear any of
this world. You left this world and you are not corrupted by any
of this world. So you've left it in a pure state. May Allah give us
still fake to have that as our description when we passed away as
well. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was weeping. When
this happened, when you can imagine one of the earliest
Muslims, they've been through all of this struggle, come to Madina
Munawwara and before everything becomes even better, he passes
away. It's emotional. Priscilla Llosa, Mister like him a lot.
So it's ranging from Aisha to the Allahu anha Rasulullah sallallahu
alayhi. Salam kissed or thrown at them at the end of the hola Juan
while he was in that state. And then she says that I saw the the,
the tears of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam coming down his
cheek and they were falling on the throne of the Allah why on earth
madam North wonder the Allah one when he was weeping. In fact, when
he passed away,
the women began to cry as well. was emotional. I mean for
everybody. And Amara, the alone was telling them to be silent. He
was telling them to be silent. Don't cry. So Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Yeah, Omar Melania Omar, take it
easy, Omar. And then he said to them, yeah, come when are you
gonna shaytaan? Well, Monica and I'm in line if I mean Allah Wamena
Rama Rama can Amina Lea de Well, Lisa and effeminate, shaytaan
beautiful explanation. This is what he said. He said to them. So
on the one hand, you told them or you leave them alone, take it
easy, then he told them, you know, just so that they don't
exaggerate. He said, Be careful of the way of the shaytaan. The way
shaytan will make you do these things. Whatever comes from the
eyes, is beautiful. Whatever comes from the eyes, that's from Allah,
and that is considered mercy.
So weeping is fine. But then he said whatever comes from the hand,
and the tongue. So you're wailing and shrieking and saying things
and the hand they used to tear their clothing apart, just to show
that they really mean it. Right? That is from the shaytaan. So if
you use your hand and your tongue from the shaytaan, if you use your
eyes is fine, beautiful explanation.
Why did the professionalism kiss him?
Obviously, out of mercy
and
love for him. And the fact that he's showing how he loves his
companions. He's showing how he loves his companions. And also if
he kisses him, then he knows that mercy will come to him because the
angels will like this. And Allah subhanaw taala loves the one that
Rasulullah sallallahu loves. So it was all for his benefit as well.
And His rewards will become increased. But essentially, what
you learn from here is that it's permissible to kiss a pious person
that passes away. Any pious individual in your family. Anybody
else you go to visit is permissible. That doesn't mean you
start this thing that okay, you know, and they have they keep the
face open. The guy's coming from Blackburn. He's coming from this
country, that city, you have to keep the face open because he
hasn't looked at the face here. Now, I tell you, this is sunnah.
And you know everybody's gonna say you have to come and kiss him
because he was everywhere. He hasn't kissed him yet. Okay, gone
kiss him. So
it's, it's there when you feel like you do it. Like this new
fitna does nowadays do ma Mubarak, everybody's this new thing. It's
crazy.
It's permissible to say what you know, like, if you just felt like
today was a great job offers a good job. And it's like, it's when
it becomes a tradition. Right? That's where the problem is, when
it becomes a tradition. So it becomes a bit or when it becomes a
tradition and you feel like if you like if you say to me Juma Mubarak
and I don't respond to you, you're gonna feel bad. And you're so
rude. I say Jamal mobility and you don't say Jamal vara back.
When that kind of expectation when that kind of obligation you feel
to yourself that I must say that's when the problem is
otherwise Of course we want everybody's Joomla to be mobile
and and everyday to be mobile recording. You say Monday Mubarak
to you as well. Why only Joomla everyday should be more worried
that people do something on Joomla at least, and do everything on
Monday, Tuesday Wednesday make mubarak for them as well. So if it
said
Once in a while or something and understand that you just feel like
saying you but when you make a tradition of these things, that's
when it becomes problematic. One day there was a janazah and nearly
Miss McCurry prayer because people were waiting to see the face
that's completely wrong. The next Hadith 334 which is the final
hadith of this chapter, it is related from an asymptomatic or
the Allahu Anhu. And so the Allah one Allah reward him, he features
prominently in Hadith I share the Allahu Allah Now you must these
names are probably familiar you know who anuses now because he
relates all of these edits of the Allah one ation of the Allah Juana
who else above whatever there is always there. Who else
ignore ibis and these are the famous narrators of a lot of
Hadith, who are bold enough to to narrate them. So there must have
been others who had lot Hadees but they just, you know, they they for
some reason obika them you don't find many Hadith from him. He was
very extremely careful. He burned his collection, thinking that I
might have made a mistake. So and so the Allahu Anhu relates that
Shaheed ignitor Lee Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, what
a sort of lifestyle of Los Angeles and el cobre, we witnessed the
daughter of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. This is we
witnessed a burial essentially, this is speaking about on mukil
Soon, the wife of Kathmandu, the Allah Juan, the daughter Rasul
Allah, Allah so and she was old when she passed away. So we
witnessed her funeral.
And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was sitting at the side
of the grave.
And for our E two eignet, heated Morane I saw his eyes watering. He
was weeping for Karla. Now she hadn't been buried yet. She's
there. And he's sitting there by the grave the graves being dug.
And she's there. Who's going to put in there.
Now, Amara Missoula allah sallallahu alayhi salam, the
Father, the husband is there, or smarter the Allah one. But as you
know, generally the husband doesn't put them in the grave as
you know, it's normally Muslims, right? So she didn't have any
other Muslims anyway, she didn't have any mushrooms anyway. So the
prophets Allah was asked, he was looking for someone to bury, to
put her to, to place her in the grave.
And he didn't want or semana the alarm to do it. During the
husband, according to us now, they don't do it anywhere unless
there's nobody else. Essentially, what the fuck is the Messiah? Is
that Jerry have moms do it. Brother, Father, Son, like that.
However, if they're not available, somebody has to put her in, you're
not going to call women to do it, than any pious individual chosen
by the Imam can do it. Any silent, pious individual, trustworthy
individual can do it. That's the that's the hokum. So now in this
case, he didn't want us around with the army to do it. He loved
us man to bits, gave her two daughters gave him two daughters,
but he didn't want him to do it. Why? Because with Amanda, the
Allah when she had been sick for a very long time, and he had been
looking after her. But on that particular night, he didn't know
she was going to pass away.
Right? He had gone to one of his concubines, one of his female
slaves. And he
essentially
slept to that.
So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that
as a father, it had upset him a bit.
He didn't make a big deal out of it. But for him is like is your
wife and you know, so and so forth. But with one of them was
right in his own in his own place, that it's been a very long time.
And you know, so
he said, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam he was ignoring him.
So this is what he said. He said, which one of you
so waiting? You know, the bodies there? And the grave has been
done? He said, a FICO, Roger and lemon your car if he Leila?
Is there anybody among you who has not done Makara at night was more
qualified from your car? If it could mean who hasn't committed
any sins at night? That's one possible meaning. The most of the
other man said that that doesn't sound right. That probably is not
what is intended here the other night your car if means who has
not been with his wife? Right? Who has not been with a wife or
whoever, right, who hasn't slept last night with anybody. So
that way, or someone at the alarm level, you know, won't be accepted
anyway. Right? So you're just trying to ignore him and making
that order, you're not going to do it.
So then, I would wholeheartedly Allah one, you know, Bhutan highs,
right? The one who was got over what is it 70. There was no part
of his body left without wounds. He's the one who put himself in
front of Rasulullah sallallahu during the Battle of art, the one
who just like absolutely sacrificed himself for allah
sallallahu Sallam extremely pious individual, extremely pious
individual. He said, I will do it. I will tell her is the same one
Who gave the garden to Rasulullah sallallahu Sampedro ha.
So he said, I'm, I'm a candidate for that. So he said okay, you go
in in ZIL. So he, he is the one who went into the grave, and he
helped bury her.
So now let's look at the Hadith in detail. Firstly, this is comical
film, right xojo Or semana the Allahu Anhu his wife, Priscilla
Lauryssens daughter. Some people have said this was Ruqayyah or the
Allahu anha. But that's not possible because she had passed
away the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was in budder. Remember
with one of your had to stay back. And the promise of awesome wasn't
there when she passed away. So he wasn't there at the burial he
hadn't witnessed her burial. This was later on when the second Otomo
consume.
So Rosa Lawson was sitting at the side of the grave at the dug grave
and for Abu Talhah to say I have not done more clarified night, if
that is to mean I have not committed a sin at night. Just
doesn't sound like correctness, like everybody else committed a
sin. It just doesn't sound like the right interpretation. So
obviously him and I haven't been with my wife at night, there is
Imam to Hawaii. He says that no, you know this word let me your car
if there's been a mixup in this word it should actually be from
your car will
show me your car efficiently your car will and if you take your car,
well then there's no argument. Your car will means mutually
speaking to one another. So who is the one who at nighttime hasn't
wasted his time talking? Remember, we read the chapter on no talking
after Asia. So who's the one who didn't waste his time at night
talking? He going? But that's a weaker opinion. The main thing is
they just means who hasn't been with his wife at night. So he went
into the grave. And there's another narration that the one who
went into the grave was earlier the Allahu Anhu and fuddle and
Oussama.
That means for people going into the grave
butala and Osama Ali, and further ignore Ibis.
So that's for men who are not Muslims. But there was no
Muharram. And the promise of arson didn't go in.
So it's fine when there's an absence of that, then you pick the
rest and remember, this is a sort of allah sallallahu sallam, you
can't take this that because he allowed that to happen the so
today you can say anybody can go because at the end of the day, the
prophets they know the hearts of the people and they know who's the
trustworthy one and who they can allow to go into the grave. This
Abu Talhah his name was Zedi bluesil. He was Ansari, Abu Talhah
Zedi Musa Al Al Ansari al Hazaragi in the jury is a battery. And he
was one of the best marksman from it with his bow and arrow.
He was with Russell Lasala. I mean every single battle, staying close
to him he was like his personal protector. He killed 20 men in the
Battle of her name, he killed 20 men. And it related by mounting
medium Buhari in a narration he mentioned that he says I was one
of those who during the Battle of odd,
felt sleepy. Remember, it says Allah subhanaw taala did cause
some slumber to descend over them. After they after they were kind of
tricked. So he said I was one of them until my sword even fell down
a few times. And he's the one who actually dug degree Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. He's also the uncle of Annissa. The
Allah one. He's the uncle of Anna signo Malika, the Allah one. And
the husband of his mother, almost Elaine, who mousseline was the
mother of others, right? So she married a butala afterwards. Now,
this is something very interesting. I'm gonna make an
observation, right? And I'm not trying to, you know, change the
tradition. But in our tradition, if your father if your mother
passes, or when your father gets married again,
it's expected that you treat her like your mother. You call a man
everything, which is fine. There's nothing wrong with that. But if
you look in the Hadith tradition, there is no word. Even in English
there is the stepmother, right? Or mother?
Yes, you're right, stepfather, right. But in Arabic, there is no
such thing. I mean, look at the way he's explaining, well, who are
among us? He's the uncle of us, was though Joe, me, and the
husband of his mother. There's no word for saying
is the husband of his mother, because at the end of the day,
they were very particular for them. They were very particular on
lineage and ancestry. Right? You had to you know, who who Who did
you call your father? Who did you call your mother? That doesn't
mean you don't respect them. They're not saying that. We're
just saying that you should still respect them.
Right? You have to respect that at the end of the day, it's your
father's wife or your mother's husband. Right? So it's your
stepfather or stepmother. So there has to be some kind of respect
there at the end of the day. And so the
It's Rachel from Anasazi Allahu, and he knows his uncle right. He
says that Abu Talhah or the Allahu Anhu. He continuously fasted off
the Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam for about 40 years. And he is
though he then went on a sea voyage, and he passed away at sea.
And he was buried on some island is rated Finally, after these
Hadith are finished, this was a chapter about the crank of Sula,
Salah and we finished with this one narration that is not from
Timothy, actually the Allahu Anhu reports that Rasulullah sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam never cried. She says he never cried over a dead a
deceased person. Now we've just read all of these Hadith in which
he did cry. So what she means obviously is I didn't cry in the
way of Jah Helia but that point that the promise that was made
earlier is the best that what comes from your eyes is fine. But
what comes from your hands and your your mouth is what it's from
the shaytaan. Then she says that the most he would do is that he
would hold his beard.
You know, when he was in this kind of state of sorrow. He wouldn't
cry like the cry of Jahangir. Yes, his you know, his tears would
weep. She doesn't mention that but she says that the most you would
do is hold his beard, or you know, like hold your beard.
So the rose Ellison did make some expression, but it was not the
extreme expression that is prohibited. alojamento Salamanca
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