Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Q&A Dealing With Angry Teenagers

			How to Deal with teenagers anger
and aggression. Well first figure
		

			out why they're angry and what
they're angry about, and see if
		

			you can remedy that. We've just
had a recent talk that's gone up
		

			on zum zum academy that deals more
specifically with, you know,
		

			teenagers challenges and so on.
But if it's particularly anger,
		

			let's find out why they're angry.
Is it something genetic that
		

			they've taken from their parents?
Is it because they've learned to
		

			do that? Because they've seen
other people are constantly angry?
		

			And that's the way they've learned
to, you know, respond, knee jerk
		

			reaction? Is it because they've
got some difficulty in their life?
		

			Is it because they're frustrated
about something? Is it because
		

			there's something else bothering
them, you'd have to actually have
		

			a casual, very formal discussion,
very kind of easygoing discussion
		

			to try to get this out as to what
the issues are. And then after I
		

			tried to find a remedy for that,
so if we can get rid of the cause
		

			for that, then maybe the anger
will go away. Plus, then we need
		

			to tell them about the Prophet
salallahu alayhi salam, how he
		

			dealt with anger and what he said
about anger, what Allah says about
		

			anger in the Quran about
controlling it, and then get his
		

			like fire and gaze from the
shaytaan. So we need to get them
		

			to listen to all of that as well.
The point of a lecture is to
		

			encourage people to act to get
further an inspiration, and
		

			encouragement, persuasion. The
next step is to actually start
		

			learning seriously, to read books
to take on a subject of Islam and
		

			to understand all the subjects of
Islam at least at the basic level,
		

			so that we can become more aware
of what our deen wants from us.
		

			And that's why we started Rayyan
courses so that you can actually
		

			take organize lectures on demand
whenever you have free time,
		

			especially for example, the
Islamic essentials course that we
		

			have on there, the Islamic
essentials certificate, which you
		

			take 20 Short modules, and at the
end of that inshallah you will
		

			have gotten the basics of most of
the most important topics in Islam
		

			and you'll feel a lot more
confident. You don't have to leave
		

			lectures behind you can continue
to live, you know, to listen to
		

			lectures, but you need to have
this more sustained study as well.
		

			JazakAllah Heron salaam aleikum wa
rahmatullah wa barakato.