Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Q&A Dealing With Angry Teenagers

How to Deal with teenagers anger and aggression. Well first figure

out why they're angry and what they're angry about, and see if

you can remedy that. We've just had a recent talk that's gone up

on zum zum academy that deals more specifically with, you know,

teenagers challenges and so on. But if it's particularly anger,

let's find out why they're angry. Is it something genetic that

they've taken from their parents? Is it because they've learned to

do that? Because they've seen other people are constantly angry?

And that's the way they've learned to, you know, respond, knee jerk

reaction? Is it because they've got some difficulty in their life?

Is it because they're frustrated about something? Is it because

there's something else bothering them, you'd have to actually have

a casual, very formal discussion, very kind of easygoing discussion

to try to get this out as to what the issues are. And then after I

tried to find a remedy for that, so if we can get rid of the cause

for that, then maybe the anger will go away. Plus, then we need

to tell them about the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam, how he

dealt with anger and what he said about anger, what Allah says about

anger in the Quran about controlling it, and then get his

like fire and gaze from the shaytaan. So we need to get them

to listen to all of that as well. The point of a lecture is to

encourage people to act to get further an inspiration, and

encouragement, persuasion. The next step is to actually start

learning seriously, to read books to take on a subject of Islam and

to understand all the subjects of Islam at least at the basic level,

so that we can become more aware of what our deen wants from us.

And that's why we started Rayyan courses so that you can actually

take organize lectures on demand whenever you have free time,

especially for example, the Islamic essentials course that we

have on there, the Islamic essentials certificate, which you

take 20 Short modules, and at the end of that inshallah you will

have gotten the basics of most of the most important topics in Islam

and you'll feel a lot more confident. You don't have to leave

lectures behind you can continue to live, you know, to listen to

lectures, but you need to have this more sustained study as well.

JazakAllah Heron salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.