Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Duties Towards Parents After Their Death

To pray the funeral prayer over them, obviously seek forgiveness

for them fulfill any contracts that they had outstanding, or any

bequest that they had that would be also honoring them even after

they're there to honor their friends even after death. Can you

imagine it? We're told that after your parents die, you have to go

and honor their friends, which means you visit them and you

continue a relationship with them if you have to worry about their

friends afterwards. And what about them themselves when they're

alive, maintain their kinship ties. So don't basically give up

all of your relatives once they're gone, because they steal your

relatives spend charity on their behalf, give charity on their

behalf sadaqa jariya that is pray for them to think in one's heart

that I have fallen short of fulfilling their rights when they

were alive, which then means that it'll just help us to give more

sadaqa and do good things for them and make to offer them if one

visits both his parents graves every Friday it is written that he

was kind of dutiful to them. It's a good idea to visit especially on

Fridays, but otherwise at any other time. And if you can't visit

then you just send some reward for them by doing a good deed like

sada called something