Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Duties Towards Parents After Their Death

			To pray the funeral prayer over
them, obviously seek forgiveness
		

			for them fulfill any contracts
that they had outstanding, or any
		

			bequest that they had that would
be also honoring them even after
		

			they're there to honor their
friends even after death. Can you
		

			imagine it? We're told that after
your parents die, you have to go
		

			and honor their friends, which
means you visit them and you
		

			continue a relationship with them
if you have to worry about their
		

			friends afterwards. And what about
them themselves when they're
		

			alive, maintain their kinship
ties. So don't basically give up
		

			all of your relatives once they're
gone, because they steal your
		

			relatives spend charity on their
behalf, give charity on their
		

			behalf sadaqa jariya that is pray
for them to think in one's heart
		

			that I have fallen short of
fulfilling their rights when they
		

			were alive, which then means that
it'll just help us to give more
		

			sadaqa and do good things for them
and make to offer them if one
		

			visits both his parents graves
every Friday it is written that he
		

			was kind of dutiful to them. It's
a good idea to visit especially on
		

			Fridays, but otherwise at any
other time. And if you can't visit
		

			then you just send some reward for
them by doing a good deed like
		

			sada called something