Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Don’t Be Harsh Benefits of Gentleness

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The complexities of Islam and the use ofangelery and force in achieving productivity and engagement with people are emphasized. The importance of engagement and empathy is emphasized, as it is essential for personal success. The use ofangelery and force in achieving engagement and empathy is emphasized, and the need for engagement with people and lakaorn is emphasized. The challenges faced by individuals and their families are also discussed, including the misunderstandings of the Prophet sallContinou's actions and behavior, and the importance of forgiveness and helping others.

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			Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim Al
hamdu Lillahi wa salatu salam or
		
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			others say you will mousseline or
either early he was sorry he was
		
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			seldom at the Sleeman Kathira
laomi. Dean Emeritus called Allah
		
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			terracotta Allah for the Quran
emoji they will for cloning Hamid
		
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			Febi Marathi min Allah Healin
della whom well can the fourth one
		
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			valley evil Pearl be done for Doom
in Holic? So the color Halloween,
		
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			sha Allah in our discussion today,
it will be about a really simple
		
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			topic of gentleness. We're seeing
with everything that's going on.
		
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			There's a
		
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			lot of high blood pressure, maybe
a lot of tension, a lot of stress,
		
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			a lot of frustration.
		
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			And generally, when these things
happen, then some innate
		
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			characteristics that we have
negative characteristics, they
		
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			come to the fore, they give rise,
and they bubble up to the surface.
		
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			Sometimes there's even an
explosion of these things. So each
		
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			of us challenged with different
things. Some people with maybe a
		
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			bit of anger, some people would
miserliness, some people with
		
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			laziness. Some people would coward
cowardice, some people, some
		
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			people will overzealousness
		
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			they just want to be doing
something all the time, even if
		
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			it's wrong. So each of us has some
challenges in a stressful
		
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			situation, in a situation of
stress and difficulty and
		
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			challenge. Humans, they
		
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			vent
		
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			in these situations, and sometimes
the blameworthy characteristics
		
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			that come to the fore. So with the
lockdown and everything that's
		
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			going on, there's a lot of people
who are having massive problems
		
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			with, especially their close ones,
which we've discussed earlier. So
		
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			today we want to speak just about
risk, which is an important
		
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			characteristic in Islam. If you
look at the Hadith books,
		
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			there's chapters about this
Moscato Masabi. Many of the other
		
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			books it's about Rif. And the
Prophet said allah sallallahu
		
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			alayhi wa sallam has actually made
very specific statements about it
		
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			has provided specific advice and
guidance about gentleness
		
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			is gentleness. Essentially the
opposite of harshness, the
		
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			opposite of harshness and
roughness, gentleness, so
		
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			gentleness. That's why the first
verse that I quoted, verse 159,
		
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			of
		
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			the third chapter of the Quran,
Allah subhanho wa Taala says Febi
		
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			Marathi min Allah He lynnderella
home it's because of Allah's
		
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			mercy, Rama. So what I'm talking
about is riff which is associated
		
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			with Rama. Rama has to be given to
us, for us to have gentleness.
		
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			A person who basks in the Mercy of
Allah subhanaw taala should have
		
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			gentleness.
		
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			If you don't have gentleness,
maybe we don't have the mercy or
		
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			sufficient mercy.
		
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			So that's where Allah subhanaw
taala says Furby ma rahmati min
		
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			Allah He lynnderella home
		
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			because of the Mercy of Allah, the
Rama of Allah that lynnderella
		
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			home. Again, the same concept when
something is laying it means it's
		
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			soft. So Linda, that you became
soft, gentle, what does he mean by
		
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			soft that people walk over? You
know?
		
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			It speaking, if you look at this
verse, Then Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			says,
		
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			well, oh, couldn't the father than
valley the local? Had you been
		
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			harsh and hard hearted?
		
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			They would have scurried away from
you.
		
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			They would have escaped from you,
they wouldn't stay around you.
		
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			Now, one of the things that we
have in our deen which is very
		
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			important for us is that the
Prophet salallahu alayhi salam
		
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			worked on an initial group of
people that would die for him.
		
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			The amount of respect that they
had for him, they wouldn't I mean,
		
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			as the Hadith mentions that it
wouldn't allow, you know, not even
		
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			spittle to touch the ground, from
the province of saliva to touch
		
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			the ground. That's how mad in love
they were. Now, would that have
		
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			been the case had the province of
loathsome been different? Had he
		
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			been harsh? They wouldn't have
been. So
		
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			this is not to say that harsh
people cannot have people around
		
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			them that they control. But
there's a different dynamic there.
		
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			There's no love. There is done out
of fear. Or it's because you're
		
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			going to get payment or because
you're gonna get a position. It's
		
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			for exterior reasons.
		
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			It's not the same thing. They're
saying that one of the biggest
		
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			characteristics that a leader can
provide is empathy is caring for
		
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			those under them, then those
people want to give their life for
		
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			this person. Then they'll do it
for the right reason.
		
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			You'll be more productive, you'll
you'll have less burden, you'll
		
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			have less stress. Because when
people take the mission
		
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			themselves, take up the job
themselves, take up the idea, and
		
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			the dream. And the purpose, the
objective themselves, because they
		
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			believe in you as the leader,
because they believe in you, as
		
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			somebody who's lovable, who's
gentle, who's working for the
		
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			right reason, then you're going to
have a lot more productivity than
		
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			having to drive people like an
animal herd, for instance. So
		
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			that's why
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala makes that
statement. And this statement is
		
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			made in the
		
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			in a position of you can say
leadership almost to some degree,
		
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			many of you will be thinking,
well, we're not really leaders,
		
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			you know, we we are not a
minister, we are not an MP, we are
		
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			not a senator, we're not the Prime
Minister, we're not a council
		
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			member, we're not a counselor, you
know, we're not even at the head
		
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			of an organization. Well, you may
not be, but believe me, everybody
		
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			has some kind of responsibility
under them, whether that's, you're
		
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			just the parents, you are just at
the home, you're the husband,
		
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			you're the wife,
		
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			you know, you work with others.
And that's leadership, in some
		
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			sense. And even if it's not
leadership, this is not
		
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			necessarily just about leadership.
This is just about interactions,
		
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			human interaction with people
around us. That's why one of one
		
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			of my, you know, one of the
scholars who I really have a high
		
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			regard for, I've benefited hugely
from the Kitab Zuza Yemeni scholar
		
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			whose name was Imam Abdullah,
ignore either we had done, I've
		
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			been totally amazed and really,
really benefited from some of his
		
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			books that have been published
both in Urdu and many of them have
		
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			been translated into English. So
this is from one of his books, he
		
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			talks about gentleness, he says
that know that gentleness is
		
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			required in all things.
		
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			It is encouraged and approved off
in both Sharia and both by reason.
		
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			How would you prove it through
reason? Well, you would probably
		
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			say that if you didn't, you know,
you've probably dealt with many,
		
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			many people in our life. You know,
yesterday, I was speaking to
		
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			somebody. And the whole discussion
was the wife was complaining about
		
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			the husband being very stingy and
so on. So I was discussing as I
		
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			asked her husband, you know, um,
have you seen anybody who's stingy
		
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			among your friends? And says, Yes,
I said, would you want to travel
		
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			with them? Would you want to be
with them, rather than somebody
		
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			who's a bit more generous? So you
said no, obviously. So I said,
		
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			Well, it's the same kind of thing.
You know, you wouldn't like in
		
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			others. So you shouldn't make it
for yourself either. But we can't
		
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			see it in ourselves as much we can
see it in others. So
		
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			we see it in reason as well. Have
you dealt with people who are
		
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			harsh? And have you dealt with
people who are gentle? Right? You
		
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			know, so, if the gentle person can
get the same job done as the harsh
		
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			person, sometimes you do need
harshness? Right. Sometimes its
		
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			harshness is not without its
benefits entirely. There are
		
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			benefits, but the dominant state
should be gentleness. So that's
		
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			why he's saying that this is
approved in both the Sharia and
		
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			reason is not just something
Sharia although that would be
		
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			sufficient for us. But it's only
reason if you think about it, just
		
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			logically, it's the same thing.
Things can be achieved through
		
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			gentleness that cannot even
remotely be done through severity
		
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			and force. There are some times
you will get things out of
		
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			gentleness that you cannot get out
of severity and force.
		
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			I remember a fable that I read I
know it's a it's just the fable,
		
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			Aesop's Fables. I can't remember
what it was when I was younger.
		
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			And, you know, when you're young
and you read the stories, I mean,
		
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			something that left an impression
he said that the wind and the sun,
		
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			they had an argument they had a
debate, who is stronger
		
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			Subhanallah I can't even believe
that I'm mentioning this probably
		
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			never mentioned the story before.
So the wind and the sun they had
		
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			an argument they had a debate as
to who is stronger. So they're
		
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			arguing, arguing and then okay, I
think somebody made a, somebody
		
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			made up a
		
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			competition for them that okay, if
you're able to get this guy
		
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			outside, who's got his coat on,
and the shawl all wrapped up,
		
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			whoever can get him to take his
shirt off, blow his shirt off, or
		
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			whatever it is, then they win.
They are the mightiest and they're
		
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			the strongest. So the wind starts
and starts blowing gusts of wind
		
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			and it is buttoning himself up and
tightening. So wrapping himself up
		
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			even stronger, and you know, even
harder and making sure that he's
		
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			holding on for dear life. So the
wind tried and tried and tried and
		
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			time was up, it couldn't do
anything.
		
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			Now the son just started smiling.
And it was a picture book with the
		
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			same smiling.
		
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			So you know, the son is smiling
and suddenly the guy starts
		
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			feeling hot, and he just starts
taking his shirt off them took his
		
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			coat off. And they're the sunroom.
So, I mean, this is, I guess to
		
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			teach children that softness and
gentleness. It's an interesting
		
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			story. Don't think It's haram to
say these stories, you know, but
		
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			anyway, there you go. So that's
true.
		
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			gentleness is the attribute of the
wise in that's really interesting.
		
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			I never prepared this story. It is
a story I read years and years
		
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			I've never mentioned it again in
over 25 years, I would say play 30
		
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			years, probably 30 years I've
never mentioned this story. And
		
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			today popped into the mind. Where
does that come from?
		
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			That's an interesting idea. You
know, nobody's been able to
		
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			understand where things just come
into your mind.
		
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			You know, Allah subhanaw taala. In
sha Allah, it's a good thing and
		
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			it's not the shaytaan. Gentleness
is the attributes of the wise and
		
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			the compassionate among those
servants of Allah, whom he has
		
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			selected. And if you look at it,
the Prophet salallahu Salam is our
		
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			biggest exemplar, our greatest
exemplar, and the incredible
		
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			amount of gentleness that he
expressed.
		
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			And then many others after him.
This is what made a leader. This
		
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			is what made them the way they
were that they could be loved.
		
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			What you can get out of love by
being a leader is much more than
		
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			you can get out of harshness by
being a leader. God the Exalted
		
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			describe this Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam the master of
		
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			mankind, many blessings and peace
be upon him. And you said, it was
		
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			by the mercy of God that you were
lenient with them, for had you
		
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			been stern and costs
		
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			of hearts, they would have
dispersed from around you. This is
		
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			the verse that I read earlier.
Then Allah subhanho wa Taala also
		
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			says in chapter seven, verse 199,
keep to forgiveness.
		
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			enjoin kindness and turn away from
the ignorant ones. So keep to
		
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			forgiveness. keep forgiving, don't
be so harsh that you never forget,
		
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			forgive
		
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			Allah. And then Allah subhanaw
taala says in chapter 25, verse
		
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			63, and the servants of the all
merciful, they who walk upon the
		
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			earth gently Why are you bad? Oh
Rockman in living in a yam shoo
		
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			and I'll have the whole home.
These are various different
		
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			expressions of gentleness of
mercy, expressions, home, lien,
		
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			all of these words, Forgiveness
comes from there as well. It's a
		
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			it's a big idea. Gentleness is
going to provide many different
		
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			manifestations it's going to
manifest in different ways, in
		
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			softness in gentleness, in in
forgiveness, in easygoing nature.
		
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			These are the kinds of
characteristics that people enjoy
		
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			anyway. So and the servants of the
old merciful are they who walk
		
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			upon the earth gently and when the
ignorant ones address them, they
		
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			say peace, weather hot Obama, Jae
Hee Luna, Carlos Salama,
		
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			they say peace they deal with it
in a peaceful manner. That's
		
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			another way to look at this.
		
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			The Messenger of Allah may Allah
bless him and give him peace said
		
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			Allah is gentle and loves
gentleness in all things.
		
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			When you hippo RIF
		
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			Allah subhanho wa Taala is gentle
and he loves gentleness and
		
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			everything. And he also said
gentleness never enters anything
		
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			without embellishing it. And it is
never taken out of anything
		
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			without disgracing it.
Essentially, gentleness is an
		
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			ingredient. It's a quality which
if it's in something, it will
		
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			embellish it it will just make it
much more adorned and beautiful.
		
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			And if it's taken out of
something, if gentleness is taken
		
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			out of something, then it will
disgrace it disfigure it make it
		
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			ugly, what exactly is gentleness
that gentleness
		
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			is to manage the you know, this is
the way we can check for ourselves
		
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			how gentleness is whether we have
gentleness, gentleness is to
		
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			manage things with subtlety
		
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			with more tact rather than with a
sledgehammer,
		
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			you know, some of us
		
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			by FITARA
		
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			they take sledgehammers when they
want to deal with something, they
		
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			know who they are. Like I can I
can
		
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			simplify sympathize with this. I
can understand this because I
		
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			probably was something like this.
Right? When they are dealing with
		
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			something they deal with it in the
most toughest of ways or hardest
		
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			of ways or with a sledgehammer as
they say, you know with the
		
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			symbolic metaphorical Sledgehammer
is so, no, you need to be more
		
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			specific. Those even when they
need to tap things, they have very
		
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			specific hammers in which they tap
different parts to get it right.
		
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			Not with a big sledgehammer,
you'll just destroy the thing. So
		
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			that's what he's saying. You have
to manage things with subtlety
		
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			with ease with dignity, with
dignity, and with deliberation.
		
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			You've carefully planned it.
		
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			Alright, a shot of the Allahu Anhu
said that the Prophet sallallahu
		
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			alayhi wa sallam was never given a
choice between two things.
		
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			But
		
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			that he always chose the easier
one as long as he was not sinful.
		
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			So we do have a criteria. It's not
about choosing the sin. The
		
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			easiest thing and the people
mentioned this hadith sometimes
		
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			they choose the easiest one even
though
		
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			is a bit of a violation of Allah's
rights there. No, as long as
		
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			that's not the case. But when it
was sinful he was the remotest of
		
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			people from it, he would not touch
it.
		
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			Those who most particularly need
to use gentleness or those who
		
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			occupy high positions of either
religious or worldly
		
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			responsibility,
		
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			it more effects them because they
have to deal with it on a day to
		
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			day basis.
		
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			With it, they are to treat people
well and win them over. So win
		
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			people over and thus become
supported by the majority and gain
		
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			many flow followers. So that
people may be able to take from
		
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			them in abundance. If you've got
something good
		
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			to distribute and to provide them
to do in this world, then you need
		
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			to use gentleness. So then there's
more people that will benefit,
		
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			otherwise, fewer people will
benefit and no, nobody will
		
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			benefits. In contrast, leaders who
set aside gentleness and take do
		
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			harshness and force can never
enjoy wide support.
		
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			They can have wide support, he
explains even when some appear to
		
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			have such support the very harsh
leaders, being tough is different
		
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			to being harsh, harsh, is
undignified, being tough on cases
		
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			where it's needed, that's
dignified, that's required, in
		
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			fact, otherwise they'd be
cowardice.
		
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			So he's saying, even when some
appeared to have such support, it
		
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			can be no more than superficial.
While inwardly there will be
		
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			hatred, revulsion, and feelings of
oppression among the people,
		
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			they'll have to say yes to this,
otherwise, they'll be persecuted,
		
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			or whatever the case is, but they
will not be happiness. That's why
		
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			Subhanallah
		
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			I don't know if anybody's had this
discussion. But it's something
		
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			that we need to have. And
hopefully, the right people will
		
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			listen to it. Stop bothering the
Muslims. Stop being harsh towards
		
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			Muslims and Islam in this country,
you will find that the Muslims are
		
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			the best of people that can assist
in the right causes. They have the
		
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			right religion, they have the
right ideas in their religion to
		
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			make sacrifices. So you would be
actually better off if you can get
		
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			off your high horse and get away
from
		
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			all the ulterior motives, and all
of the other
		
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			forces that you have to pander to.
If you want really the best for
		
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			your people, then be good to your
Muslim population. And you will
		
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			see that they will give you the
best in return. But when you act
		
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			to this harshness and this
belligerence, and this suspicion,
		
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			and it's discrimination, then you
just bring out the worst in
		
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			people.
		
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			If the Muslims are doing so well,
despite all of this, then imagine
		
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			if you were to do it well, right.
And we've had examples of this in
		
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			different countries, even in the
modern times where the people are
		
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			nice to Muslims in those
countries, people, the Muslims
		
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			will react in a positive way. Why
do we Why do Muslims need to react
		
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			in difficult ways because they
feel incrimination they feel
		
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			that they're not being given their
fair share. They've been they've
		
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			been attacked to their brothers
and sisters have been attacked
		
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			around the world. That's one of
the main reasons because Muslims
		
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			have a lot of empathy for one
another. Muslims are a great
		
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			global ummah. And that's something
nobody can take out, nobody can
		
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			take away from them, it will
always exist because that's Islam,
		
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			for the whole world of Muslims to
be together. Yes, some of us are
		
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			weak in that regard, we do not
think about this on a day to day
		
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			basis, but it is there, the love
of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
		
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			wasallam and Allah subhanho wa
Taala demands that So, this is a
		
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			this is the discourse that is
needed to be have and hopefully,
		
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			the right people will understand
that if they want to make any
		
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			country prosperous, in which
Muslims live and Muslim lives in
		
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			live in all sorts of places. The
Muslims can really as historically
		
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			they have done, they can really
make make places and inshallah
		
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			they won't then have to resort to
some of the weird things that some
		
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			some Muslims unfortunately resort
resorting to. But today is not the
		
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			time for that this is just a
feeling
		
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			a topic that needs to be
discussed. Thus, this is one
		
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			thing. Gentleness is entirely
good.
		
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			You know, there's something which
is good, but if you use it in some
		
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			cases is that now here he's saying
that gentleness is always good. So
		
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			Hala, right? People are going to
be wondering, but in some cases,
		
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			no. Look, Jensen is always good.
And the intelligent man should
		
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			apply to all things, especially in
dealing with people. First of all,
		
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			with one's family and servants
with one's family and employees.
		
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			They're your closest they require
the most from you. They require
		
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			the greatest amount of gentleness.
That's where you have to practice
		
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			this. I explained. We gave a talk
I think it was the previous one,
		
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			where we discussed how many of us
unfortunately, are actually more
		
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			harsh with their own than they are
with others.
		
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			They're very professional and nice
when it comes to others in the
		
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			world.
		
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			placed in other people, but in
other in other situations when it
		
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			comes to one's own family members,
then the harshness comes out for
		
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			some reason, and that's very, very
wrong. So he's saying that we,
		
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			especially when dealing with
people, first of all with one's
		
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			family and servants, then with
everyone else, it should never be
		
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			neglected, and it always yields
the required results, even if not
		
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			immediately may take a bit longer.
		
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			By taking a sledgehammer, you may
be able to destroy the thing
		
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			straightaway, but with gentleness,
you will get something much better
		
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			out of it. On some rare occasions,
however, gentleness may be found
		
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			ineffective,
		
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			especially in dealing with certain
mean and ignoble creatures, how do
		
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			you be gentle to them, they're so
mean and ignoble. They just won't
		
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			understand your gentleness,
they'll take advantage of your
		
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			gentleness, to try to treat such
people with gentleness would be
		
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			harmful to them.
		
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			Because they with the intention,
they would be treated, they they
		
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			should be treated in an apparently
harsh and severe manner. You have
		
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			to sometimes deal with people in
this tough manner, in an
		
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			apparently harsh manner. They
should be but with the intention
		
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			of reforming them and correcting
their behavior. So it's like a
		
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			medicine. It's not your normal
status.
		
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			You know, there's Abu Bakr Radi
Allahu anhu, once a disbeliever
		
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			said something so he gave a
really, really
		
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			big insult. He said something
really insulting to the other
		
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			person on sauce? Better a lot a
lot. Right? I don't want to
		
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			translate it was quite insulting.
Right. Now, there's some people
		
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			who are very offensive in their
speech. Some religious diaries as
		
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			well were very offensive in their
speech. They use that as an
		
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			example. The Abu Bakr Siddiq or
the Allahu Anhu. Look what he said
		
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			it was a very, very extreme
statement. We'll look over kind of
		
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			the alarm set that once he didn't
say it on a day to day basis, so
		
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			buckler, the alarm was one of the
softest and kindness and
		
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			gentleness person that was one day
when it was a serious situation.
		
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			And he said that, and okay, you
can do that as well. You can be
		
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			overwhelmed and do that. But if
you're making that Asuna
		
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			overlockers, the degree when it
was not you making it as though
		
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			it's his sunnah, that he didn't
want to deal with databases, and
		
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			you're using that one incident, to
say that this is normal. That's
		
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			completely incorrect. That is not
an analogy
		
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			that you go around using vile
words against others against other
		
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			Muslims, against other Muslim
scholars, sometimes the violence
		
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			was up to cover.
		
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			You know, Cofer candidates and
Cofer bootlickers, and all of
		
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			these kinds of words. Right, and
shaytani, and all of that kind of
		
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			stuff. And your justification is
ubiquitously bigodi. Allah one was
		
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			one statement. Sometimes you do
have to use a bit of harshness in
		
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			severe manner, but with the
intention of reforming them and
		
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			correct. So it's medicine or its
therapeutic, it's just for the
		
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			cure. It's very, it's done with a
lot of elaborate thought. A
		
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			certain Gnostics said that some
people are only shells devoid of
		
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			reason. They just forms devoid of
reason. If you do not overpower
		
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			them, they will overpower you. Not
far removed from this is Muthana
		
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			be saying Watanabe is an Arab,
very famous Arab poet. He says,
		
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			generosity wins the loyalty of the
generous generosity wins the
		
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			loyalty of the generous. But with
the vial, it breeds insolence. If
		
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			you're generous to the vile, it
will only make them more insolent.
		
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			It's just the nature of the world.
For to place liberality, where the
		
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			sword should be is as remote from
excellence as the reverse. You
		
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			were basically what he's saying is
the way you need to use the sword.
		
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			You can't be open hearted there,
you have to use the sword and
		
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			we're not talking about that here,
you know, to get a tool sword or
		
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			something and start using we're
not talking about that, obviously,
		
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			right? But these are rare
instances. Involving deviant
		
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			people have weak intelligence who
have little good in them being
		
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			ignorant and foolish. With vicious
natures and beasts like souls,
		
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			they are only wants to be treated
harshly, they are the only ones to
		
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			be treated harshly with the aim of
reforming them and as a protection
		
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			against their viciousness. In this
way, one should understand why on
		
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			certain occasions and with certain
people, great men of Allah are
		
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			rigorous. They're tough with those
people. Why would they tough, the
		
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			privacy laws was tough as well, in
certain cases, especially after
		
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			they opened the maca Makara. There
were some people who are even
		
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			holding on to the cloth of the
Kaaba
		
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			seeking forgiveness, but the
crimes are so much that the pros
		
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			have said no, they have to be they
have to be dealt with. Right? He
		
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			forgave so many. He forgave the
son of Abuja and he gave forget he
		
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			forgave so many but they
		
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			Some people their crimes are such
that they couldn't be forgiven.
		
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			So that's the Prophet salallahu
Salam does gentleness is the
		
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			essence and rule. So your normal
default rule and behavior and your
		
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			normal quality and your normal
attitude is of gentleness except
		
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			when it is feared that a worker of
corruption may thereby step up his
		
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			corruption and transgression. But
it is felt it is felt that he can
		
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			be stopped only by a certain
amount of severity and harshness.
		
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			The messenger of allah sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam enjoined
		
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			gentleness and behave gently in
most situations. And they should
		
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			be known to anyone familiar with
his history, with the Hadith, and
		
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			his pattern in teaching the
ignorance and dealing with the
		
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			near and the far once. One example
of this is the well known Hadith
		
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			of the Bedouin, who urinated in
the masjid. Just imagine, you
		
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			know, I mean, we've heard this
story many times. Somebody comes
		
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			in urinates here, or somebody lets
his child there. Nobody, I don't
		
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			think anybody's going to come and
urinate here because we don't have
		
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			that tradition, which is reuniting
anyway. Well, there are some
		
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			people who still stand on street
corners and edges and do their
		
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			stuff. But generally, let's say
somebody came in the child was
		
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			okay. Bismil let's just do it
here. You know, subhanAllah you
		
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			know, it's a child, man, you know,
somebody Alhamdulillah I don't
		
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			think we get that anymore. But in
those days, you see, what you have
		
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			to remember is that this man
wasn't so foolish. What it is, is
		
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			that the masjid was not like this.
There were no carpets in the
		
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			masjid there. It was just gravel,
ground sand, whatever it was, and
		
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			that's what they do, they will
just find a corner they will do
		
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			that they will cover it up.
		
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			So the person thought maybe I
could do it here. I mean, it was a
		
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			better way. Right? So for better
wind is like anywhere.
		
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			Even today, you go to Mauritania,
the Bedouin they get you you get
		
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			one jug and in that jug is your
water for drinking and your water
		
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			photo and your water for the
toilet. So one jug. Now people
		
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			would not do that you would never
drink water here with water that
		
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			you're going to take into the
toilet with the jug you would not
		
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			drink that water. But there's a
scarcity. That's the way they did
		
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			things. It's a different paradigm
and dimension. So that's why I'm
		
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			going to give this person a bit of
an excuse that you know he thought
		
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			this was okay he's not living in
the cities not from his TVs from
		
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			the from the you know, Bedouins
when he came in, you know the
		
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			story I don't need to explain the
road so I told them, Look, don't
		
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			stop him. Now. He's already
started. It's going to be harmful
		
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			for him to stop midway. Right? Let
it happen. Now we'll just sit here
		
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			and then he called him and explain
to him. Another is that the other
		
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			Bedouin man who went given a
donation by the Prophet sallallahu
		
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			alayhi wa sallam was discontented,
and utter things that he should
		
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			not have said, I should at which
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
		
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			wisdoms companion started to go
towards him, only to be stopped by
		
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			the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam who then gave the man more
		
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			and went on giving him until he
was spared it satisfied and spoke
		
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			gracious words
		
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			Subhan Allah. The third is that of
the young man who said to the
		
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			Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
salam, O Messenger of Allah grant
		
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			me permission to commit adultery.
		
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			Che let me let me do adultery man,
I need to phony Kate, let me do
		
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			adultery. If somebody comes and
asks you that the Prophet
		
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			sallallahu Sallam replied, would
you like this to happen to your
		
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			daughter? So he reverse
psychology, reverse psychology use
		
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			that on him? He answered, No. So
he said likewise, other people do
		
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			not like it to happen to their
daughters.
		
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			And he passed his hand over the
young man's chest and prayed for
		
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			him. Subhanallah what an effect of
that, if only we could have also
		
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			had the promise of lies on the
hand over our heads or even on our
		
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			shoulder Subhanallah maybe in the
hereafter inshallah inshallah in
		
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			the Hereafter.
		
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			And from then on, nothing more was
abhorrent to this man and
		
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			adultery. There are many other
such stories that have been
		
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			narrated about him, as well as
about the leaders after him, the
		
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			scholars and the virtuous among
our rightly guided spaces,
		
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			predecessors and those of their
successors who emulate them, so be
		
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			gentle in all matters. It is a
blessing and its consequences are
		
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			good.
		
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			Allah hola says, When are you?
laka Illa Lavina Subbarao?
		
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			Are you la casa Illa do Halloween
Halloween, but none are granted it
		
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			save those who are patient and
none are granted it save the one
		
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			who is greatly fortunate. So if we
want this, we need to ask for two
		
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			things. Number one, we need to
have patience. And number two, we
		
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			need to consider ourselves to be
fortunate in the sight of Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala meaning that Allah
has written good for us, which
		
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			means we have to call on to Allah
subhanaw taala I would think that
		
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			one of the biggest What do you
think one of the biggest
		
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			challenges to somebody who's
always been harsh, harsh, harsh to
		
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			calm down would be that I'm going
to lose my status. I'm known as a
		
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			very tough person.
		
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			And I'm known for that. It's
almost like there's an arrogance
		
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			built into that. There's a pride
and arrogance built into that.
		
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			It's about leaving that. It's
tough. It is tough. There's a lot
		
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			of things you have to change. It's
connected to so many different
		
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			things you have to unbolt, unscrew
a lot of different issues and kind
		
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			of re envisage who you are and
what you want to be. But why
		
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			wouldn't you want to be like the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
		
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			sallam May Allah make it easy for
us? May Allah make it easy for us.
		
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			But gentleness is something that
will adorn everything, may Allah
		
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			grant us a gentleness
		
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			May Allah subhanaw taala make it
easy and make this truly a source
		
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			of purification? Elevation remove
the difficulties that we are all
		
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			having. And may Allah allow us to
be stronger believers than weaker
		
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			believers. Okay with that one and
hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen
		
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			wellness and because
		
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			a lot of me are you a younger
medical history a lot on your hand
		
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			and you haven't done
		
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			the Subhanak in Kannada nobody
mean just Allah or Hannah Mohammed
		
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			Amma who had your Allah have mercy
upon us. Yeah, Allah teaches ya
		
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			Allah allow us to learn. Allow us
to know that which you want us to
		
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			know. Allah forgive us purify us,
oh Allah remove the darkness from
		
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			our life and from our hearts. Oh
ALLAH from our eyes. Oh Allah.
		
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			protect us from looking hearing
seeing touching and engaging with
		
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			all that is wrong. Oh Allah
forgive us our many, many mistakes
		
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			and many sins that we have
committed in the past and that we
		
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			may still be committing Oh ALLAH
purify us. Oh Allah make us
		
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			satisfied with the life of
goodness life of virtue, a life of
		
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			obedience, make it Beloved to us.
Allow us to cherish it or Allah
		
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			and Allah stranger enjoy it. Oh
Allah grant us the Halawa Eman.
		
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			Grant us the sweetness of our
faith of Allah we know we don't
		
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			try enough Oh Allah we engage in
many wrongs. We have a lot of
		
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			shortcomings. Our love it we asked
for protection we ask for.
		
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			Photography we ask for divine
enablement of Allah, Allah have
		
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			you mercy upon us and the mercy
upon the people love the world of
		
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			Allah make us the way you want us
all to be? Oh Allah, remove this
		
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			calamity, this pandemic from from
the world of Allah, allow us to be
		
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			worthy of your mercy worthy of
your forgiveness worthy of your
		
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			generosity, of Allah worthy of
your clemency and your
		
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			forbearance. Oh Allah make our
last moments, the best of our
		
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			moments in this world. Oh Allah
make the end of our life the best
		
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			of our days in this life. Oh Allah
make the time we stand in front of
		
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			you the best moments of our
existence. Oh Allah, bless the
		
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			people of this masjid and all of
those who facilitate to allow this
		
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			program or law those who are
listening to dancing I mean, and
		
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			those will will listen say I mean,
I'll accept all of our doors will
		
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			accept our doors, the those of us
who are sick, those who know
		
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			people who are sick of Allah, cure
them, grant them, if you grant
		
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			them if you those who have
departed Oh Allah grant them
		
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			absolute forgiveness and place in
gender to fill those and oh Allah
		
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			allow us to make the rest of our
life better than the previous part
		
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			of our life. So why not because
popular is the term IOC Fonasa
		
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			Ramona animal sitting on
hamdulillah