Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Can’t Get Married

In view of Allah's kind and loving treatment in all your affairs, you

will understand that there most certainly is some benefit for you

in the hardship. There's people, they can't get married in 10

years, I can't get married, I can't find the right person, you

need to really go to somebody and think of the way you're looking at

this. I just can't see why you can't get married. There's no

women around. There's no men around. There's so many women men

around, it's just you've got some weird way of looking at this. So

go and think for yourself to change the way you're looking at

things go and talk to somebody somebody more reasonable more, you

know, who's got some experience of why do you think there is what's

my perspective? You know, tell them the options you did have and

why you why you because I that's what I was like, What options did

you have? So that was that. Maybe you're just being overly

sensitive. There's some people, I can't get my daughter married.

That's just surmounting my head for the last three, four years.

Either you're doing you're not doing something the right way. But

you should definitely not be grieving. That's a test from

Allah, right. That's a test from Allah. You need to be trying in

every way.