Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Can’t Get Married

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The speaker discusses the difficulty of finding the right person for a relationship, citing the prevalence of women in the world as reasons for divorce. They suggest not worrying about the options available to the person and instead focusing on finding the right person. The speaker also mentions a test from Allah where the person needs to commit to finding the right person.

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			In view of Allah's kind and loving
treatment in all your affairs, you
		
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			will understand that there most
certainly is some benefit for you
		
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			in the hardship. There's people,
they can't get married in 10
		
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			years, I can't get married, I
can't find the right person, you
		
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			need to really go to somebody and
think of the way you're looking at
		
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			this. I just can't see why you
can't get married. There's no
		
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			women around. There's no men
around. There's so many women men
		
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			around, it's just you've got some
weird way of looking at this. So
		
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			go and think for yourself to
change the way you're looking at
		
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			things go and talk to somebody
somebody more reasonable more, you
		
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			know, who's got some experience of
why do you think there is what's
		
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			my perspective? You know, tell
them the options you did have and
		
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			why you why you because I that's
what I was like, What options did
		
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			you have? So that was that. Maybe
you're just being overly
		
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			sensitive. There's some people, I
can't get my daughter married.
		
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			That's just surmounting my head
for the last three, four years.
		
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			Either you're doing you're not
doing something the right way. But
		
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			you should definitely not be
grieving. That's a test from
		
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			Allah, right. That's a test from
Allah. You need to be trying in
		
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			every way.