Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Broken Heart and Oppressed

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The speaker discusses the meaning of "medroom" in Arabic and how it refers to a person who is
oppressed by a situation or a situation. They also mention the meaning of "monster" in Arabic, which refers to someone who is
the
oppressed person. The speaker emphasizes that the meaning of "medroom" is not something that is just a general thing, but rather something that is specific to
the situation or situation.

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			What we want to speak about today
is something very simple. The
		
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			Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam
said in a hadith copied down with
		
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			a mudroom thing nowadays, are they
been a hot? Well, I've been Allah
		
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			hijab
		
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			beware of the curse of the
oppressed person because there is
		
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			no veil between it and Allah
subhanho wa taala. It's to show a
		
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			direct connection, a very speedy
connection, that the person makes
		
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			a curse or a dua, and the DUA is
accepted. Essentially, that's what
		
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			this hadith is saying. What a mud
loom is, is mudroom comes from the
		
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			word volume in Arabic and the word
Zulu means to play something out
		
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			of its rightful place. If a place
or a position promotion, money,
		
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			some merchandise, an article of
belonging, for example, if it's
		
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			due to a particular person, and
it's not given to that person,
		
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			it's withheld from that person, or
unrightfully unfairly given to
		
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			somebody else, then volume has
been
		
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			volume has been perpetrated. So
essentially, let's just say that
		
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			there's a person who is due a
position, there is a person who is
		
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			do a particular right, there is a
person who is free, but they're
		
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			being charged, there's a person
who is being slandered for
		
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			something which they did not do.
There is a person who is being
		
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			beaten up unrightfully, there's a
person who's being abused, and so
		
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			on and so forth, somebody is being
treated unfairly, maybe a child
		
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			has been treated unfairly, maybe a
parent, maybe a brother or a
		
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			sister or in business or in school
or in promotion in receiving marks
		
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			or whatever it is, it could be
anything in a marriage, for
		
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			example, as well. Mother norm,
husband is for example,
		
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			mistreating his wife is giving
more preference to, you know,
		
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			maybe his sisters, maybe his own
family, maybe to somebody else and
		
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			not to his wife, he's being really
oppressive. Or maybe the wife is
		
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			acting like that towards her
husband, where she is constantly
		
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			running off to her father's house,
or her mother's house or
		
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			constantly with the friends and
not really focusing on the family
		
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			and the husband and not playing
her role. In all of these cases,
		
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			the person who's on the receiving
end the person who is in some kind
		
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			of misery and sorrow gratefully
and just really, because of the
		
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			position that they've been placed
in, then that person is considered
		
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			a mother room. A mother room is a
person who is being oppressed, a
		
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			person who is not being given
their due, essentially, that's
		
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			what it is, and among whom you
would also understand that they
		
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			would have a broken heart. And
that's why Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			the prophets, Allah lightsome
said, Allah is with the mancha
		
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			Sinatra Galoob, Allah subhanaw
taala is with those whose hearts
		
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			are broken. Now obviously, when we
say when casiotone bloob hearts
		
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			are broken, we're referring to it
in a metaphorical sense, because
		
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			that's essentially what it means.
I mean, we use this term broken
		
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			heart, the heart is broken, it
doesn't physically crack or break,
		
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			it's essentially speaking about
somebody who's in great sense of
		
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			grief or sorrow, because of
something their heart is not
		
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			intact. They can't, they cannot
concentrate properly, they cannot
		
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			focus properly, they can't use
their heart in a proper way. It's
		
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			in the state of grief. When the
heart is in a state of grief, it's
		
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			considered to be broken. That's
what that's what it's speaking
		
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			about. So now, what we have is
Allah subhanho wa Taala is with
		
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			the broken hearts number one.
Number two, beware of the curse of
		
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			the mudroom of somebody who's got
a broken heart like that. Right.
		
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			Now, when we say mudroom, it's
somebody who's got a broken heart
		
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			because somebody else did that to
them. Purposely wrongfully that's
		
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			what it's talking about. You can
have a broken heart, without
		
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			anybody doing anything wrong to
you, somebody, somebody passed
		
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			away. Now remember Allah subhanho,
wa taala, he cannot, he cannot do
		
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			wrong, because it's everything
that exists is all created by Him,
		
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			and all belongs to him. And he can
administrate the affairs as he
		
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			wishes, according to a plan that
he has, in his knowledge. And
		
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			sometimes we're privy to these
things. Sometimes we're not privy
		
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			to these things. Sometimes we
realize the wisdom of these
		
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			things, or some of the wisdom of
these things and other times we
		
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			don't so with Allah subhanaw taala
there is no oppression, the word
		
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			does not apply to Allah subhanho
wa taala. So when we're speaking
		
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			about we're speaking about both of
these situations, whether a person
		
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			is oppressed by someone or whether
the person just has a broken
		
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			heart, not because of oppression,
but because of something that's
		
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			happened in their life. What does
such a person do? What does such a
		
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			person do? Firstly, the oppressed
person, the one who's been wronged
		
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			I mean, we need to look at that
person first because that person
		
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			has a very powerful dua that
persons DA is so powerful that he
		
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			that person, whether it's a he or
a she doesn't have to raise their
		
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			hands necessarily. They don't have
to have made this dua in a prayer
		
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			or after two rockets of knuffel
Prayer Salah to Hajj, you know,
		
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			prayer of need, or the God offered
the 100, for example, and then
		
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			essentially, you know, made a
special dua to Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala. Clearly if those kinds of
things have been done, the DUA is
		
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			going to be even more powerful,
but some
		
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			Sometimes the most powerful to ask
come just spontaneously from the
		
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			heart. So now imagine if a person
is oppressing someone else, and
		
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			the person just feels so bad in
their heart that they it comes out
		
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			of their heart just just
spontaneously, then that is going
		
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			to be really serious. That is
going to be really serious. And
		
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			that has a direct connection with
Allah subhanho wa Taala and we
		
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			pray to Allah subhanaw taala that
we're never in a position that
		
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			we've oppressed somebody in the
main maker or against us. We Allah
		
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			protect us, because that's really
important.