Zoubir Bouchikhi – Six Criteria For Becoming Mukmins
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these pay attention to the word
Allah. I want to be one of the next verses.
Yama Fatima
petition number one of a man is
the one who doesn't play can we call him? Pokemon? Forget it. He's not moving. Hello.
That's why I insisted on the young girls in the class last Saturday and Sunday. Don't fall into the mistakes that make your mother's have done. Most of you many people maybe didn't even read
later on our show some mercy on your husband and on you. Maybe
that's a mistake you most of you do.
Know. We want our daughters to marry number one woman, the first thing that look what he said, and let me know who he is.
It's not the fact that they play is the fact that they have so much
solid is done in the movement. We don't talk about solids, we talk about solids.
So the real main has to show when you are with a lie. And with that 510 minutes of your life God you're not with the children. How many of you when you pray, you're thinking about your kids.
about this, about this, about cooking about coming here coming soon?
Enough. When you are with a lunch or somebody said focus on me show you how to do it, we will see no one for sure. One way of getting kosher is to learn the deen for sure it's not going to happen just like that.
For sure, I want to really enjoy my prayers. If you want to really to enjoy your day, you need to understand who are you sending? Or
who are you standing for now, in that salad, he is the king of kings.
So shemini even if it
means yes, that's what it means. So once you have to focus, you have to do your best. Why you focus you focus three hours and a half within the movie.
What makes us focus in for sure is the fact that we have never understood what does salad salad is not a burden salad is rest. When I see you working so hard as they come come to take a break. You should
be working under the sun for hours. Come relax. So you relax you like it? Same thing. Most of us when we hear as if you like
but you feel like there is something is not.
Okay. Imagine I tell you come to me five times a day to my house. I'll give you each time you come on check.
You know how long did you
attitude towards an attitude? change it. It's not a burden. It's the rest. You need a lot he doesn't need and you're coming to get to get a heavy check. But you cannot catch it now. That's all I give you a check. I say sister me go to the bank next month. No, not today. The date is 31st December 2017. Also you take it today
so it's the attitude towards
Bharati Silla.
What happens to you? When you see the E, your your car? He what do you do?
You go look for the purse
and fill it up. Why? Because you know you have safety
padget your tank of spirituality is a filter.
Filter as a filter, as Mother Teresa, and Aisha
you want to really make sure it's for a family, though Ha.
Sun handler your engine is always good and your car runs good. I can take you wherever you go. But you are spiritually draining. No matter how good your outside of the car is. The engine needs oil doesn't need look. The engine doesn't that do you see the engine of the car. It's already covered. That's the heart.
People may see how beautiful you are from the outside.
But if you don't have strong engine, you cannot even race.
So focus on your insight my sisters
more than your answer. Most of you focus on the outside
and the outside is the first thing you lose from your body once they put you into that
palace So, this ayah Mashallah teaches us that the first sign of a believer is not just for that is the foreshore in the sun.
Now pay attention to this this surah Subhana Allah up to this 70 I don't want to go more all of that and reason sound of noon
bombing old fashioned or
even McKean even when the sound changes, but it's still the dude.
Okay, all right.
The second criteria of a true believer, so halala after that, you have a sister Jasmine, three.
Ah, difficult for some people. This is difficult.
You think it's easy to stay away from level from postdoc?
Usually when we meet what's the first thing we do? We talk nonsense. That's number one.
Most people I don't want to pick on your sisters. I already picked on you.
By Nikki, most women when they get together, what do they talk about?
No way.
Serious. Look at that. Okay, okay. Do a social study. After I leave. Let's see what you talk about.
Not the city evil, but something low level in Arabic means nonsense. Man to man, man, man. Oh, man even worse.
I tell them what, what are we talking about?
Nothing. Nothing really. For example, constructing nothing, even for the dunya at least talk about business.
Talk about business. Talk about for example, fixing the car.
So one thing that most of us never thought of,
which is oh my god to qualify to the level of demand. May Allah make us up all morning. I need to stay away from vain talks. Now, look, you may not say your tongue doesn't say anything, but your ears are there. You are a listener.
Some use some of your systems don't say a word. Mashallah very good. You don't say well, it doesn't mean you don't speak. But you don't say anything bad. But you are there always with those people. That is wrong.
So he's not just speaking, because he said monotone stay away, stay away.
How can I stay away when I'm listening to you?
So don't participate, whether by talking or by listening or by both
using your time and using your ears in the discussion.
Yes, avoid more. More in Arabic means stay away like Xena, like the middle of the orphans. Money of the orphans and Xena Allah says stay away thinking because look, one thing you the moment you hear something you you are attracted to john, you are a social human being.
Maybe not by talking but by listening, which is an ongoing thing.
Because you get sick sometimes by listening to that thing. You get your mood swings, changes you weren't happy just stick in the goal. What happened? You have the best word.
I saw you happy system.
administrator or what have you had something bad and that's true.
Or you said something wrong?
How do you go when people say that?
Like we used to go to parties.
Before used to do that?
hypocrisy is the one who still does it
and pretends to be good this is hypocrisy.
Don't be afraid you were also dancing with us. No
hypocrisy. The hypocrisy is the one who is still doing it. And still goes play. For example, this is
his Okay, don't let them put you That
means you also were with us. I used to Yes.
May Allah forgive me a listen, I'm not we're not just gonna give you a chance to say me. Allah we stole your bed deep into the
wall and we will see
better Yeah.
That's how good are ya
watching a movie
it is very good, very good.
Watching.
Watch a different study, I'm not against watching, watch documentary,
watch cooking, although your cooking is
Watch, watch something constructed something nice documentaries, please. Any documentary about science about a lot of BBC World, this one National Geographic. Whenever I watch something like this,
when it sees
a creation problem, watch that system. Instead of I don't know what to watch. Sometimes a lie will lie he does movies, sisters, they impact you.
You have no problem with your husband whatsoever.
But you did not realize that you have been conditioned
right before he came to work from work. And then you start fighting with him because your favorite actress
fought with her husband
or your husband didn't bring your flower like the other one brought
into that.
There is this
there is this brother,
who after 20 years of marriage, he lies he has not been very romantic. So he went to a special workshop on how to improve yourself
as a husband. So as soon as he came, he practiced what he learned. His wife was cooking in the kitchen, he said
and he said How is the queen of all queens
to pick up the phone, she called her brother
come by husband is trying
to take care of him.
Because he completely
she was so short that she thought her husband he was just practicing something
so please, before you call your brother, check.
Alright, number three, after Salah gum stayed away from vain talks.
So it is a sin.
So please pay attention to the
DOM. So movement does and doesn't. There are things you must do. There are things you stay away.
They tend to look at me up down. There are things you have to do things to stay away.
We will see that one more thing to do. Then another thing not to do. Up, up down.
So it's the
motion of life. Do don't do down.
So insulin is not just to Oregon. There are things you do much politics and for sure in it. Number two, no stay away from data. Good. Number three, Sister.
Sister, my sister. Yes, yes.
And those who
this de catifa a dune. En la Vina home this is a catifa no look at this ayah and those who just don't give Zakat, they are actively giving.
They do it they love it. They love to give
they love the fact that they are donors, not recipients.
Yes. So handle that. I told you never you find an eye out for that without records.
Even when there is another layer in between the context is the context. Look at the context. Never the scholar is mentioned without seconds on one level.
You will not find one area in the website that is mentioned without seconds
to describe you as a believer, okay, I'm sure I'm sure you may read one assertion from one area. Read the whole context. You find
Toby just the area one or two little context.
Good.
Look, now they don't do there is something they don't do. Number four,
when Levine only produce copies, and those who got their chastity, their private parts from illegal sexual acts, they don't come in.
They got their food food is plural of large farms is private. They got them. What do you mean by that? There
is a woman guarding her for her private if she went
Western.
He knows she's inviting problems on our set. A young girl in university wedding ministers What does that mean?
University
she's not let's say in her own house. What does that mean? University you know, what does it mean? University you own what most of you were in university. University is his jungle of strong beats sexually. Boys and girls. Anything can happen.
Careful, careful, careful.
Alright, so yes,
there is the 18th 20th 22 This is a time when most people sexually are very, very active.
They might not come in sooner but the hormones are kicking. So we need to protect ourselves. Allah says half the room they protect themselves that chastity for example, a Muslim girl Mashallah wears long and covers herself. A Muslim man doesn't wear sexy
when a man wears something very tight,
and he's showing everything almost women that women also, or he's wearing short, and I'm just read the short
and an iPad.
Short nothing here. And an iPad. iPod.
iPod iPod.
Pamela.
All right. So but except on their wives or spouses, or what their right hand for the pay attention to this.
Stop passing envelopes lower.
Hey,
what's up?
Y'all?
No problem. Julia.
These men and these women who are called believers,
it's not just it's not only they don't come in, they dress properly.
And they don't make with people like parties where things can happen. The listing can happen in parties what sisters in party makes party makes
the least by mistake.
Why did you go there to be touched? Even when you did the one you didn't mean right? Or someone keeps looking at you, staring at you.
Right or wrong?
So these things we need to understand that Allah wants you to be here, play, not the slave of shaper and start following your desires wherever you keep following your desires. Do you know where you end up you end up in *.
That will take you two gentlemen.
Follow your episode but what you end up in
there is a habit of horizontal lines on Mondays
Narrated by the member
at dunia national movement.
Jr. is the president of the believer movement. Is it the same as they were? Watch it was
Kathy dunia is the garden and paradise of donkey donostia.
You want paradise? This is your vision. There are many things I cannot do as a man, there are many things I can do. There are many things you cannot do.
Yeah.
Probably took it away from my mind. I was going to say that.
I I
I am your shake your shake and I consider you all my sister. Why not shake hands?
Why not? Because it is forbidden. Otherwise?
No.
Thank you for this. By the way, I really congratulate the melaine sisters and brothers. Most of you don't shake hands. That's very good.
That is very good. Keep that Santa Monica Monica. Some people
that is not right sisters, if people leave your hand to like this same balicasag
you let him say you put your hand sorry, what can
you see that big needle that people used to? To slow things like this Your mother? Do you remember? Okay.
He's he said that penetrating your skull and go into your brain easier and better than you shake the hand of a woman who is not local to you Yama, Yama, you will see
you rather look at that thing called insight and penetrate your brain and that pain is only Allah knows what type of pain
that is better than you shake hands of someone who is not local to you. So don't
do that this
first exhibit
then
anyone seeks beyond that beyond words beyond his wife and what his right hand possess
and a woman beyond her husband. If she sees the beyond that she is
if a man already has a wife and he's looking for other women, that is hard.
If he has no slaves, he can't do anything.
Is it clear my sister high hopes 100 Okay, now sister either
one more thing they do.
Actually few more things in order to be called believers. So all these little make up to fill a
void avoiding and staying away from vain talks. But affecting and donating second, donating backup perfectly protecting our private parts except for our spouses. Okay, what else
and those who are faithfully true to that
add to that covenant.
You know how long this area can take up just
because do you have a manner for your husband?
If your husband doesn't think you Well, he has broken the Elena because he has promised your father or whoever married you to him to look after you.
A wise woman we tell her husband take care of the Amana
whatever
I am Amana in your hand.
Allah will ask you about me. Children Anna.
Your parents are careful especially in old age. They are really Amana.
The money of your husband's sister let's say your money is your husband's money, not yours. It's an amendment in your hands careful.
Don't waste it. protect it.
your palate is gonna do it on time.
Your cat is Amanda, your jammies. Amanda your head, your eyes. Amanda, don't look at her. Allah gave you the eye so that you live the good life, but not to look at her. You want to obey Him? No problem. Remove those eyes to find the other eyes
at Sony to give you eyes, or Toshiba, and as much as you want
us to say no.
You got it.
You are my students Amira in my neck. I am Amanda in your hand.
treat me well, that is something very much important to email. Amanda email, Emma, Emma, Amanda,
to set up what was he known with before before he even became prophet.
So he had his character was already an email password. You gave him an AMA.
It protected physical, you give him spiritual and electronic, but he never reveals it.
And any talk between you and another system is secret. For example, I talk just between me and you. I don't have to tell you the secret. Don't say to anyone.
If it's in public, you can you can you can say it. But any talk between two people is an AMA so any talk between you and your husband is
going to reveal it.
Unless he allows for Sheila
Alright, why did he him You have given?
What is the pledge to Allah Don't forget that. You have given also what we call
the
covenant.
You have the covenant. You know, marriage is a covenant buying and selling the covenant.
I give you my word. What the
Shahada is a covenant.
So are we are we faithfully true to the Shahada?
the Shahada
so what means is not someone who just plays and give seconds No, no, there are other things besides Allah. Allah status This is an ethical issue right?
responsibility of taking care of it assuming responsibility.
I am a mother I will look after my children
I will protect them no matter what
even if I have to vote on them
that's a form of protection like
Why come shake? Your hand is not praying what do you do? And these are both dead there is only one way
Antichrist and say okay, I submit I submit I believe
that's the only way there is no other way otherwise you lose it you see him in jail and I'm going
50 years to reach the bottom
because a man
like that, see, this is the most difficult to do because so
yeah, yeah, so that's why email is something that is active active you cannot just be Macmillan stop department and continue until you die.
Yes, that's why we need knowledge systems. No knowledge. No, no, no. Forget it.
With the best you can
your neighbor is a man don't have me at least don't have you don't have to feed him every day. But
my
children are Ivana. Did you pray children? No, go pray. Next time I wrote and things like that.
That said
money is an m&r don't waste it. You know, you don't.
You don't misuse it. But you wasted. I mean you don't you didn't steal it. And you are not what you call it.
But you are experimenting.
You're buying things you don't need.
This is buying things because you want them is a sin.
You buy things only when you will
You need a laptop.
But you don't need a laptop. Why do you want because your friend has Apple
back to Florida.
So we start with solid we had with Bella. This is when it comes to what
he meant.
Now you see this is the difference between the first area about palette and the last is for sure one day play they will for sure. You may you may play with caution but you never pay on time
you pray Mashallah you pray for sure once you're up there you Mashallah you don't hear anything you don't care about Who is there? You're with Allah, but did you pray one time?
Or he dies after midnight?
Or just after sunrise
is almost
no, Tony is what led
him you have
you have your own means on time.
So who
taught you that? Who taught you that? You can play acting almost as well to do that? That is wrong system. One of the biggest mistakes in Malaysia is that you think that Sadat Can I can pray for anti Lhasa Who told you that?
A lot of people think I can pray Asia as I get up with that, you
know, take that out of your mind. Whoever told you that was wrong.
Federal means federal
budget means federal government. Awesome in
Asia is Asia. Asia is not midnight.
After midnight, but not midnight.
You have to have a very good reason.
Party not good reason. wedding? no good reason.
Hey, you are in the middle of a wedding. And there is an idea now what do you do? Now you say no. Until the party until there will be another party?
Inside the party.
You know what I mean? You just you don't even care who is in front of you? Because you really need to answer. So how are your stomach onsala alive, he's the one who can fix your stomach.
So stop everything.
Then you will see
what was solid? He wasn't he was before this very good preparation.
No, this was late McKee after
Yes, after the
late rocky but to prepare them so that when they go into Mashallah Medina, they like you When do you teach your children Salah when should you when they are seven, even before the age of them. So by the time the time of 10 they already know the Salah, so they pray, same thing. Don't wait, your daughter is not yet married, teach her marriage now. the duties of marriage what is marriage? What's the duty of a wife was beauty of her husband. So that when they come to marry
they are quite knowledgeable about what they do.
Before you travel to any country read less history just to get is going to study what is Bangladesh
who Okay, who occupied Bangladesh, what are the borders? Which countries at least know something something so that when you go there, you're not surprised?
This is very important.
time can you explain the difference between this ayah
The
one thing the opposite? This
is the opposite. Allah says
are waiting on the mousseline woe to those who pray Johanna pray What did they do I will not be Salah not
In this honor, that Allah We thank you Allah. He didn't say in the product, they are several, several is the opposite of culture. We all make them right? Imagine Allah says woe to those who pray and forget
we all when we pray we forget sometimes when Shaka we are.
Right then we are all gentlemen. He says no, it means they don't pay on time.
They pray but they don't pray. They pray when they have when there is nothing left for themselves, there is some time for God
those people are going to hit
although they pray Oh my god, which is the point I mentioned just now. People who delay the father
there is nothing to stop you from going to pray. But
Wow, sisters, I never told you this. Pay attention to this
important product if I told you about it, I'm not I'm not going to repeat that salad is the only word you
make compulsory on Rasulullah in heavens, that's already enough. I'll give you one more
you know in in jihad, Jihad blood, Buddhists are coming to you. Rockets
naming you're being born you see.
You see play one group play the other group protector fear unit featuring killing one group right? If not, if, if there was any excuse it should be war. jihad, right? I am fighting for I'm gonna say so I pray you pray now that the evidence of solid is the most important thing even during jihad, what people are about to slaughter you or kill you, you see
there is no excuse.
Please understand, this is in order to Toba what Allah says when you are praying and your enemy is in front of you one of the other stand one day to show them when they come up the second group second row the service that we showed you on video that is even in front of the enemy use Kipling
excuse even when you are facing
so what you do don't think about dunya think about something better inherits widows and all the time is of the word is there How about and better sisters in your channel your channel your backyard is full of time the phones
like now if we go to sister Shannon's place that a lot of stones we need diamonds with diamonds
by view and throw that many students will
even
be here
let's say
printing no matter what you inherit you will leave it one day
you will leave it no customized property
so these are the inheritors What do they inherit my sister's
not Jenna and Fidel stop this Walkmans you know what they they go not an agenda. They will go VIP you know what is agenda is under the throne of Allah meaning up neighbor of God.
Once you have these
no one from one book verse one to nine. But actually there are five criteria. Let's repeat them. For that we push on staying away from vain talk at nonsense giving the cast and actively looking for the poor and give them number four, they protect their private funds.
Number five, they
have governance. They are honest. Sorry, I gave you my word.
No, I gave them my word that says even if you lose, you lose financially but don't lose your credibility. And number six, badass on
palette on facade so what do you what happened to you if you don't
know we don't give you only money we give you killed us.
Only Haha, you don't
for ever, sisters forever. Do you understand what this whatever you don't understand?
No one understand.
Now imagine you can live at the age of 33 whatever