Zoheeb Iqbal – Become A Man In Your Marriage Brothers! Short Reminder

Zoheeb Iqbal
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The speaker discusses the negative impact of married women being considered "married" and the need for patience and understanding. They argue that women need to be patient with their partners and not let their emotions affect their priority. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of being aware of one's wife's preferences and not rushing to make decisions after the first week of the marriage.

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			Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah live recap the biggest child in a marriage between a husband and a wife
and today's society unfortunately is the man rather than woman we get told before we get married
every man gets taught by anyone that's religious. By getting married you completely half your deen
my brother and they don't give no explanation after what he's just said to him. So now what happens
is the brother thinks you know I'm gonna get married half my Dean's complete because you know I'm
not going to do haram anymore, or saved myself from haram as in having relationships with other
women. But that's not the only reason why you're in mind is complete through manage. That's one of
		
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			the reasons the actual reason is a women's created to test the patience of a man to the next level.
She will cry for reasons you don't know. She will get angry for reasons you will never be able to
figure it out. She will say things to you that will make you furious. She will she will confuse by
you are the one that's in the test. You have to be patient with her. What I find in today's society
Subhanallah Mendes still baby doll babies. The woman cries odor. Why are you crying? You know, I'm
getting confused. I can't take this anymore. Celia go home. But what happens is she gets angry too
quickly. Rather than being patient, showing her love and affection to lock the lock the lock as if
		
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			it's a child's play as we became children. Number one, if you're a mommy's boy, don't get married.
Right? Don't get married because even at work, because you're still a mama's boy. Number two, if you
are in between your family and your wife, you need to realize that your wife is your priority. You
need to do things now to keep her happy because she's going to be looking after your lineage. The
children that are going to come from her, you're going to be the father, she's going to be the
mother, she's going to be looking after them. So we forget to be patient with our wives in
particular, we just rush to rational decisions. And we speak about our lives to everybody. Like
		
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			everybody, like for example, there'll be a man who will discuss everything about him and his wife
with his family. This is wrong. You want a successful marriage. Do not discuss your matters with
anybody within the family, look for someone external, an email someone that's going to become a
person in the middle, someone that's going to give you a genuine look at yourself from shaytan
breaking you up and men really need to become men. And they really need to realize that being
married means to have patience. And to put up what you've been what you decided to get money to, not
to let it go if you don't like it after a week.