Zakir Naik – What if a Muslim Makes Promises and Oaths to Allah but Fails to Keep them

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			This question from the whatsapp, Nanjiba from Bangladesh.
		
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			If someone promises to Allah that he will
		
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			not commit such and such a sin he
		
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			did that and he makes an unreal promise
		
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			to Allah which he cannot keep what should
		
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			he do?
		
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			And if a student observes three fasts in
		
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			the name of Allah as an expiation for
		
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			breaking an oath and if he hears from
		
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			many that ten poor people should be fed
		
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			or clothed if he also promises Allah that
		
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			he will give clothes or food to ten
		
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			poor people for all the promises he has
		
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			made to Allah in his life which he
		
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			could not keep and he breaks his oath
		
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			now he has to give clothes or food
		
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			to ten poor people as expiation for breaking
		
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			the same oath again.
		
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			Nanjiba from Bangladesh says that if someone promises
		
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			to Allah and does not keep that promise
		
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			what should he do?
		
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			Here you have to make a differentiation between
		
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			a promise to Allah and an oath to
		
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			Allah.
		
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			There is two difference.
		
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			When you promise something it is you are
		
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			telling Allah ok I will do this, I
		
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			will do that.
		
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			That's different than taking an oath.
		
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			If you take an oath it should have
		
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			certain clause.
		
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			Like how Allah takes an oath of fig
		
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			Allah takes an oath of lasar, fajar, then
		
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			of the mountains.
		
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			So when you take an oath, you take
		
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			oath of something and taking oath is of
		
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			different types.
		
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			What scholars say.
		
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			So promises something else that ok I promise
		
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			that I will do something, I promise I
		
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			will be good, I promise I will be
		
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			truthful that's different.
		
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			Making a commitment to Allah but taking oath
		
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			is different.
		
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			An oath, normally the prophet said, sahabas always
		
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			said, there are many sahih hadith said that
		
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			the prophet discouraged us from taking oaths.
		
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			Oath means, you said that if I pass
		
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			the examination I will go for umrah.
		
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			Or if I pass the examination I will
		
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			give charity of one thousand dollars to the
		
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			poor people.
		
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			So this type of oath the prophet discouraged.
		
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			It says that taking oath does not change
		
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			the qadr.
		
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			It only makes a miser person give in
		
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			charity.
		
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			So when you are taking an oath, there
		
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			are different types of oaths.
		
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			Some oaths which are good to take, some
		
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			oath which are not good to take.
		
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			Some amubah.
		
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			The oath that if you ask and you
		
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			take an oath of Allah that if so
		
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			and so thing happens, I will do this
		
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			sort of worship.
		
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			It's not encouraged.
		
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			It's not haram.
		
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			Because you are putting a stipulation to Allah
		
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			that ok if I pass the examination, I
		
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			will pray two rakat nafil, I will go
		
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			for umrah.
		
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			And if you do that act, if you
		
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			pass the examination, it is as though you
		
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			are forced to do it.
		
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			You are not doing it out of your
		
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			own free will.
		
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			That's one of the reasons.
		
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			Second is that as though you are bartering
		
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			with Allah.
		
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			That if my sickness is cured, I will
		
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			go for umrah.
		
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			If my sickness is cured, I will fast
		
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			ten days.
		
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			Whatever it is.
		
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			So the Prophet said the qadr is not
		
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			changed.
		
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			What's going to happen, you want to happen.
		
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			What's written in your destiny will happen.
		
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			So if you take an oath with bartering
		
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			something with Allah, it's not encouraged in Islam.
		
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			It's not haram but it's not encouraged.
		
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			The Prophet said it only makes a miser
		
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			person give charity.
		
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			So miser person says that ok if I
		
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			get healthy, I will give thousand dollars.
		
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			Ok, the miser person doesn't give charity.
		
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			So at least he will give thousand dollars.
		
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			So the Prophet personally preferred give charity.
		
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			Ok, I have decided I will give charity
		
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			today.
		
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			Thousand dollars.
		
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			Very good.
		
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			I decided I will give charity two thousand.
		
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			Very good.
		
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			But if you say I will pass, then
		
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			I will give charity, it's not encouraged.
		
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			So oath means you are bartering something.
		
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			If this thing happens, I will do this.
		
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			So these types of oath Allah says in
		
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			the Quran in Surah Maidah chapter number 5
		
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			verse number 89 that that if the oath
		
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			is unintentional Allah will forgive it.
		
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			But if it's an intentional oath then if
		
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			you do not keep it, if you do
		
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			not fulfill the oath, give a kaffarah kaffarah
		
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			you mean, give kaffarah give expiation of feeding
		
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			ten poor people, miskeen people and feed them
		
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			the same way how you feed your family.
		
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			So if you are a rich person and
		
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			you spend maybe hundred dollars per meal, so
		
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			feed ten people with hundred dollars each.
		
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			If you are a poor person who feeds
		
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			maybe one dollar per meal, so feed ten
		
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			people with one dollar.
		
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			Or clothe ten people.
		
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			Same way you clothe your family.
		
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			Or free a slave.
		
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			So this is the condition put by Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala in Surah Maidah chapter
		
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			number 5 verse number 89 that if it's
		
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			an unintentional oath Allah will forgive but if
		
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			it's intentional and if it's an oath done
		
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			by you and if you do not fulfill
		
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			it, feed ten people, poor people, how you
		
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			feed your family or clothe ten people or
		
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			you free a slave.
		
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			If you cannot do this, then you fast
		
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			for three consecutive days.
		
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			So if you make an oath, the best
		
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			the Prophet said is do it.
		
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			As long as the oath is not a
		
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			haram oath.
		
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			Now there are some oaths which are haram.
		
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			For example, you say that I will go
		
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			to Dargah and put ten candles on the
		
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			Dargah.
		
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			So this is wrong.
		
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			Or if you say that I have taken
		
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			an oath or done commitment.
		
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			One is a commitment, one is a promise,
		
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			there is a difference.
		
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			And if you say that if this thing
		
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			happen I'll do this, if this thing happen
		
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			I'll do idol worship.
		
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			Idol worship is haram.
		
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			So anything you say, if I pass the
		
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			examination, I will do idol worship.
		
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			Idol worship is haram.
		
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			So in these conditions, if you commit if
		
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			you take an oath of doing a sin
		
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			then the Prophet said don't do the sin,
		
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			give the kafara.
		
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			So if you have given an oath to
		
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			commit a sin or given a promise to
		
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			commit a sin don't do that sin, do
		
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			a kafara of feeding ten people or clothing
		
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			ten people or freeing a slave.
		
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			If you cannot afford it then you can
		
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			fast for three consecutive days.
		
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			There are some things which is not a
		
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			sin but you can't afford to do.
		
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			You say that if I pass the examination
		
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			I will give ten thousand dollars charity.
		
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			You don't even earn a thousand dollars, I
		
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			will give ten thousand dollars.
		
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			Suppose you say that if I pass the
		
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			examination I'll go for Hajj and you are
		
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			sick.
		
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			Then * doesn't permit you.
		
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			So if you make an oath which you
		
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			cannot fulfill, it's not a haram oath, going
		
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			to Hajj is good giving ten thousand charity
		
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			is good so then you give kafara.
		
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			That is feed ten people, poor people, equivalent
		
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			to how you feed your family or cloth
		
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			ten people or free your slave.
		
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			If you can't afford this then fast three
		
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			consecutive days.
		
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			So one oath which is haram, you should
		
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			not do it, only give kafara.
		
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			One oath is which you have committed but
		
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			you cannot do it because you can't afford
		
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			to do it or you are not healthy,
		
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			you don't have the money.
		
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			Then the third type is which is mubah,
		
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			okay if I pass I will give charity
		
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			and you have the money then you give
		
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			charity.
		
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			This is optional.
		
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			One thing is there which is oaths which
		
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			are good.
		
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			That you have said you'll do this without
		
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			putting a condition to Allah subhana wa ta
		
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			'ala I have committed to Allah that this
		
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			year I'll give charity of ten thousand dollars
		
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			and your business goes down.
		
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			Oath is good, it's not against anything.
		
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			It's not saying that only this happened.
		
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			You have given a commitment, you have given
		
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			an oath to Allah that this thing I
		
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			will do this year and your business goes
		
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			down.
		
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			You had the intention so if you have
		
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			given the oath and your business goes down
		
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			you cannot give ten thousand dollars, okay feed
		
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			ten people.
		
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			Can't feed ten people, clothe ten people or
		
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			free a slave.
		
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			Cannot do this, fast three consecutive days.
		
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			So one is something which is haram you
		
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			should not do it, give kafara.
		
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			One is you have said something, you don't
		
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			have the capacity one is you had the
		
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			capacity but then the business didn't go well
		
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			so at that time the best is to
		
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			fulfil the oath.
		
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			Whatever oath you have given to Allah unless
		
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			it's a sin, unless it's haram best is
		
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			to fulfil.
		
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			You cannot say if you have the money,
		
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			your business is done very well, you promised
		
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			ten thousand dollars, why give ten thousand dollars
		
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			feeding ten people will only cost me hundred
		
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			dollars, cost me only two hundred dollars, why
		
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			give ten thousand dollars.
		
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			So this is wrong.
		
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			The Prophet said if your business is done
		
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			well, if you have given the oath, fulfil
		
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			the oath first.
		
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			If you cannot then the kafara is there
		
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			or if it's an oath which is committing
		
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			a sin.
		
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			So you have to differentiate between this.
		
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			So based on all this the answer is
		
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			very clear cut that if you promise something
		
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			if it's not a sin you have to
		
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			do it.
		
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			And then again the questioner has asked that
		
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			he has made many promises he hasn't fulfilled
		
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			for each promise he hasn't fulfilled he has
		
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			to either feed ten people or he has
		
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			to each oath that he has taken, if
		
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			he doesn't fulfil either feed ten people or
		
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			clothe ten people or be a slave or
		
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			three consecutive days.
		
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			So then if he says okay, I will
		
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			feed ten people or clothe ten people or
		
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			fast three consecutive days and he doesn't do
		
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			this also so if he has not done
		
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			ten oaths he hasn't kept and this eleventh
		
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			one, so he has to give eleven times
		
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			to ten people you can't say only once
		
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			is sufficient, no if he cannot afford it
		
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			at least he should fast for each oath
		
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			three days so if ten if from ten
		
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			oaths he has taken and he has not
		
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			fulfilled it, then he has to fast ten
		
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			into three thirty, three consecutive days, if you
		
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			want to take a gap, take a gap
		
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			again three consecutive days and the last one
		
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			which he did, he did not fulfil, again
		
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			he has to fast another three days for
		
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			that.
		
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			So for every oath that commitment you have
		
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			given to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala there
		
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			is a difference you should understand that I
		
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			will not do a sin you are telling
		
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			Allah that is different than doing an oath
		
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			and a commitment, both are different so if
		
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			you have given an oath and a commitment,
		
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			then you have to fulfil, can't fulfil, then
		
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			there is a ghafara.
		
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			Hope that answers the question.