Zakaullah Saleem – 92 Riyad asSalihin
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The importance of being in the profitable and decisive people, especially those who keep their health and safety, is emphasized in the Prophet sallliya's teachings. The deification of the title of Islam and the need for people to be around and be liked are also discussed. The Prophet's deeps can be reference in the future and can lead to reference in marriage and relationships. The importance of good habits and practices in achieving success is emphasized.
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This is the chapter 45 of the book, Riyadh Saudi Hain titled,
The Allah to Allah Lillahi wa mudra. Allah said to him,
chapter about the virtues of visiting the people of good,
meaning the righteous and pious people visiting them. While moja
Allah said to him, and the sitting with them was so bad to him and
being in the company, well my buddy him and loving them, what
Allah bzr Rottie him and requesting them for their visit as
well. What do I mean home and requesting them to make dua for
you was era till mawatha In fatherland, likewise visiting
those places that have been blessed or virtuous places.
Mama no Euro como la, begins this chapter by quoting a verse from
the story of CU Dona Musa alayhis salam and how there
were Musala his salatu salam upon the commandment of Allah subhanho
wa Taala went out to seek knowledge and he stayed in the
company of Hadith. And we the Musa alayhis salatu salam was a young
man who was serving the Prophet of Allah Musala his salatu salam,
which is an evidence that being in the company of pious and righteous
people, is something that is really beneficial.
Then Imam Innovia Rahim Allah goes another IRF from subtle curve, in
which Allah subhanho wa Taala instructed his Nabi sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam saying was be Neph saqa ma Isla de una de Roon
Allah boom, beloved Malachi Yuri do in our chat,
or Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, keep yourself with those
people who call upon the Lord in the morning and the evening
seeking His pleasure in his face. So Allah subhanho wa Taala ordered
his Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam despite his lofty position,
and him sallallahu alayhi wa sallam being the best of the
creation of Allah, Allah the general crime instructs him and
advises him to be in the company of those righteous companions.
That one Allah He envisioned marine will call upon Allah
subhanahu wata on in the morning and evening. So from this idea,
you can imagine how important it is to be in the company of
righteous people. No matter how pious and righteous you are, by
the tofield of Allah subhanho wa Taala no matter how practicing you
are yourself, by the tofield of Allah subhanho wa Taala you need
pious and righteous people around you. And this is the only way by
which you can keep yourself on the straight path and you can continue
doing the righteous deeds by the tofield and help of Allah subhanho
wa Taala and this is what is going to be discussed in this chapter
Imam and now we Ramallah is quoted a few Hadith in this chapter.
Starting with the hadith of Anis Radi Allahu taala. And who says
Allah Booba couldn't live Omar Radi Allahu Anhu uma vida will
fatty Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Abu Bakr Radi Allahu
Taala and who said to Romero are the Allahu Taala and after the
death of the Messenger of Allah and His salatu salam, he said to
him in Talat Bina Allah, amen are the Allahu Taala and her the Zulu
ha Kumbhakarna rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa salam ala
Zuluaga ovoca Set toma OMA let us go and visit ohm Amon out of the
Allahu Taala and her, let us visit her as our NABI sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam used to go and visit her.
On Amon, who was on amen.
Amen Lord, the Allahu Allah, Allah and her was a companion of the
female companion of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, not
an ordinary female companion, rather, she was very close to the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam do too many reads
Since one of them was that she was a
slave of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam grandfather,
Abdulmutallab.
She was
his slave.
And then, according to the custom back then was all according to the
practices, or the culture was that there after the passing away of
the of the Father, the slaves, they would be inherited by the
children. So as we all know that the father of the Prophet
salallahu Alaihe Salam had passed away before his grandfather, the
prophets Allah and salams father passed away before he alayhi
salatu salam was born. So when Abdul Mottola passed away, she
came into the possession of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam which means that she became the slave of the Prophet
sallallahu sallam, although she was older than the Prophet alayhi
salaatu wa salaam, but she looked after the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam from his young age, when he was very young. I
mean, he's from from his childhood. So she looked after the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam, and obviously, observing
the o'clock, and great mannerism of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
wasallam. She stayed with the Prophet salAllahu alayhi wasallam.
So because of her care for the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam, the Prophet alayhi salatu salam considered her as his
mother.
And he in fact used to call on Amon Yeah, Uma, he used to say,
Oh, my dear mother, because the Prophet alayhi salatu salam lost
his real mother when he was very young, only six years old. So Amon
was a mother figure for the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam. Therefore there was a strong bond between the prophets
of Allah the salam, and Amon. Later when the Prophet salAllahu
alayhi wasallam grew up, he alayhi salatu salam due to his love for
her and respect for her. The Prophet alayhi salatu salam freed
her, so she became free. Not only that, the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam
help her in her marriage as well. So the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa
sallam was the one who found the husband for her and she got
married to
a person called obey the Ben Hadith al Hazaragi.
And later who obeyed Ben Hadith who then passed away and then
after that, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam again took upon
himself to find another husband for her.
And he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam then
then perform the Nikka of Amon with his very close companion was
known as ze booboo harissa. And it's another story is aw Hadith of
the Allahu Allah Allah. Zaid Bin harissa he was the slave of
Khadija, the wife of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And
because of being slave of Khadija, when Khadija got married to the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and the zayde started
living with the in the house of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam, he developed a strong the love for the Prophet sallallahu
wasallam. By the way, both Amon and the Zaid, both of them they
were non Arab.
Amon, she was from a bit Senia from Habesha
and Zaid, likewise, he when he lived with the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam, he developed a strong love for the Prophet alayhi
salatu salam so much so, that it is mentioned in the biography and
the seed off as a domino hadiza. Then after many, many years,
after you know, his his father and his uncle, after looking for him
for many years, because he came into Makkah as a slave somehow,
and then he came into the possession of Khadija of the
Allahu Taala and and then
he
started living with the Prophet sallallahu sallam. So, after many,
many years zayde And as AIDS father and his uncle, they managed
to come to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and they met
with zayde and they were so happy. And then Rasulullah sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam said to date zayde your father and your uncle
are here, so feel free to go with them. But Zaid, about the Allahu
Taala and due to his strong love for the prophets, Allah Salam, he
refused, he said, No, I want to stay in your company on Messenger
of Allah alayhi salatu salam, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam the way he treated on Amon as his mother figure, he treated
the Zaid as his son.
That is why there were some people who started calling that zayde is
the real son of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Then
Allah subhanho wa Taala revealed the ayah in the Quran, Makana
Muhammad shahada, Marija Alikum Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam is not
a father of any men amongst you, basically negating that conception
or that that misunderstanding that is a the was the son real son of
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam so anyway, so the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wasallam because he had strong relationship with a
man and Zaid, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
married them both. So then Amen became the wife of Zaid Bin
harissa out of the Allahu Taala and Houma
when I'm Aiman married, the first husband obaidul holidays, she gave
birth to her son, Amon. Her real name was Baraka Baraka been
tharla. And she gave birth to Amon and because of that she adopted
that Kunia and that nickname, Amon and from ze Dublin, Ohio when she
got married to date with her data. She had a son called Osama taboos
eight Osama Osama IGNOU Zaid Bin Haritha was
who was a great commander of the army of Rasulullah sallallahu
Allah He was in
and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a few days before his
passing away. He gave Osama ignores aid and authority and a
position within one of the expedition that he or the his
salatu salam.
O agreed with his companion to send and his aid or the Saudi
Osama Radi Allahu taala. And he was the commander of that group or
the army of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and at that
time, his age was only 1771. Seven. He was only 17 years old.
But because he got the therapy from Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam, and the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam had
confidence in him, which is a great lesson, a great, great
lesson for us all. To empower our youth to empower our youth, the
sound only at the age of, of 17 the prophets Allah Allah Allah
Selim is kind of a huge, a big responsibility. And then, the
Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam had formed their group of companions
who are headed by Osama Radi Allahu taala. And who, but before
they departure from Madina, Munawwara the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi salaam passed away.
And when the Prophet sallallahu wasallam passed away, Abu Bakr
Radi Allahu Taala and obviously he became Khalifa and some of the
companions the one Allah here is Ali midvein. This suggested to a
boubakeur worker. This is probably not the right time now to send
Oussama with the army. But Abu Bakr Radi Allahu taala, another
great man. He said, how can they cancel something that the prophets
Allah Salam establish, so now sama has to go forward?
So anyway, so this is a short story of Amon. So I'm Aiman Radi
Allahu taala. And as you can see, she had a strong bond with the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam from his very young age, and
because of that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
respected her a lot.
And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam she became
Old and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam despite being the
Nebby of Allah, the Prophet alayhi salatu salam used to go and visit
her on a regular basis.
And I will look at an aroma of the Allahu Taala and Houma after the
death after the death of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam they
remembered the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam 's regular visit to
Amon and Abu Bakr said to Omer Omer. Let's go and visit. Amen.
And they went, they went to her.
And when they arrive, they she when she saw a worker nombreux the
Allahu Taala on Houma. She started crying
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amata, Lemina and Mr. Endora, Sula, his alma mater Alameda and
NEMA in the law here how you don't little su De La he's Allah Allahu
Allah who said, they told that she's crying, probably because of
the death of the prophets. Allah sunnah was a prophet Salah Salem
has passed away, probably because of that. And they said, Amen, do
you not know
that what Allah subhanho wa Taala has prepared for Rasulullah
Salallahu Salam in Jana is much better. Then what Rasulullah Salah
Salah was blessed with in this dunya
and she replies she said in Nila boo Ki and Allah Allah wa nama in
the law, he said only Rasulullah Salallahu Salam, this is not the
reason why I'm weeping or crying.
I know in fact, that Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is no
doubt in a better place. But what has made me cry is and the Lucha
kata Amina sama that the revelation has stopped.
Revelation, because the companion with one Allah him is Marine. They
used to get excited whenever a revelation would come from Allah
subhanho wa Taala
which shows that they had a strong love for the revelation and what
was the Revelation, the book of Allah Quran.
And each time the Jibreel Allah His salatu salam would bring the
revelation in the form of the verses of the Quran, the companion
that one Allah He animes Marine, they would learn, they would
memorize, they would read to each other and they would get excited.
Not only men, even women, and look on Amon, she is crying and then
copom in the summer, that the worry has stopped now. There's
going to be no more way. And she also knew that Muhammad Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is the final of the prophets and
messengers. So there's going to be no any more Prophet, no any more
messenger of Allah. So which means the revelation the door of
Revelation is closed no completely until the day of judgment.
And just remembering that it made her cry.
And when they heard that reply from Amon, when Abu Bakr and Umar
Radi Allahu Taala Anoma when they heard this under sort of the
Allahu Taala and who says for a year Jaya toma al Buka Fauja
Allah, your Kia Nima, aha, that Abu Bakr an aroma, they remember
that as well and they also started crying.
The point here is that Abu Bakr, Umar Radi Allahu Taala and Huma
they went to visit on Amon
which
proves that it is permissible for men to visit non Muharram women as
long as the Islamic rulings and Islamic boundaries are preserved.
Meaning it is not permissible for for one non Muslim men and one non
Muslim woman to be alone. That is why Abu Bakr did not go by
himself. Rather he took Roma with him out of the Allahu Taala and
Houma.
And
what was the reason for them?
Visiting Amon, the reason was that they knew that the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to visit her and because of that
they wanted to continue with that legacy. And they wanted to
continue visiting her so that she does not feel
mean that after the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, no
one looked after her.
The next hadith is the hadith of Abu Hurayrah Radi Allahu taala.
And who,
who says that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said,
and Allah Julen Zahra Afula, who Ficarra yet in Accra, that a man
went out to visit his brother in religion
in another village, for Asada law hooter, Allah, Allah Muda, Raja
Teehee, Malacca.
And when this man left his village, and he made his way to
the village of the person that he was going to visit, Allah
subhanahu wa taala obviously knew his intention. So Allah sent an
angel
who stood by his way in his path, his path,
and his way towards that village, for Lama atta ILA. And when this
man was close to that village, this angel asked him either to
read, where are you heading? Where are you going? He said, Odie. Do
Alpha li fi huddle Korea.
I intend to go and visit my brother in religion in that
village called halacha. I lay him in there, I might interrupt boo Ha
Lee. What is the purpose of your visit? Is it because he needs some
kind of help or you are going to do any favor to him? Because of
that? He said, No, nothing. I'm not going to give him any do him
any favors or anything, or you know, a knee above to who Fila
there's only one reason that I love him for the sake of Allah.
That's it.
Not that he needs my help. And I'm going to in order to do him a
favor, or anything rather, my sole purpose of his visit is that I
love him for the sake of Allah. Then this angel replied to him and
he said, For in the Rasul Allah, he like me and Allah hubback
karma, the houfy
then know that I am a messenger from Allah, Allah has sent me with
the message. And the message is that Allah subhanahu wa taala
loves you because of your love for your brother in religion.
And Allah subhanho wa Taala knew his intention. And this is, this
is the merit and this is the Great Revolt reward of loving one
another solely for the sake of Allah. And it is something that is
easy to be said, but it's very difficult to practice.
Practically it is something very difficult. You may claim that you
love so and so for the sake of Allah. But you got to ask your
heart and you got to question your sincerity. Are you really sincere
in your statement that you love so and so for the sake of Allah, for
the sake of Allah means for the sake of Allah, know the full know
for the sake of anything.
Which means that if you find a fault or mistake when he showed
coming in your brother,
for whom you have claimed that you love him for the sake of Allah,
you have to identify and advise him.
But he didn't mean that because you said you love him for the sake
of Allah because of his righteous deeds because of his practicing
the religion. As soon as you find something wrong in him, you cut
the ties with me so no, no, no, I was wrong. I shouldn't be living
you for the sake of Allah. Now, this is wrong conception. This is
misunderstanding of the concept of Allahu Fila while Bucha villa,
loving for the sake of Allah and aiding for the sake of Allah.
So, all of us, we commit sins, we are sinful and we have
shortcomings, we do commit mistakes. So if you say to
someone, because of their righteousness because of the taqwa
because of the piety, because of the great knowledge because of
this sincerity because of the practicing the deen because of the
love for the Sunnah of the Prophet sallahu wa salam, because of them
being regularly attending the masjid or because of any, any good
reason. If you say to them, that you love them
For the sake of Allah, then you have to keep your words. And if
even if you spot a mistake and a shortcoming in them, it is your
responsibility to advise them.
And if you do so, then that would be real love for the sake of
Allah, for which they will be a great reward and they will be a
separate chapter in which we'll be going through those are Hadith of
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam that highlight a great
reward of loving one another for one another for the sake of Allah
will Generica so here
in mama no Euro Mala is go to this hadith of Abu Huraira the Allahu
Taala and who then because of that good deed, Allah subhanahu wa
taala sent an angel to give him a message that Allah who will gentle
Vikram loves him because of his love for his brother in religion
for the sake of Allah regeneratively
next hadith is the hadith of Abu Huraira the Allahu Taala and who
again, who says that the Messenger of Allah alayhi salatu salam said
monarda Marie lon, I will Zahra Han LA who Fila nada who may
be unfamiliar with our powerbomb shark or whatever what I mean
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A messenger of Allah Alayhi Salatu was Salam said whoever visits a
sick person.
All he visits his brother, for the for the sake of Allah subhanho wa
Taala a sick person this is one option. The second one is you
visit someone solely for the sake of Allah. Not necessity at his
sake. Even if he's not sick. You just simply go and visit him for
the sake of Allah you love him for the sake of Allah. If you do so
whenever you go and you make your way to them to visit them. Na
Munna then an angel and announced makes an announcement by the
permission of Allah subhanahu wa taala and he says what we tribute
our powerbomb shack
that May Allah's blessings and his Baraka be upon you what leave what
Baba mama shack and you're walking would also be blessed by Allah
subhanho wa Taala and then he also says what about what Amina Jana
demand Zilla and may Allah grant you a dignified place in Jannah
the angel makes to offer you and it gives you a glad tidy
when you go and visit your sick brother and all your brother who
you love for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala next hadith is
the hadith of Abu Musa Ashanti Radi Allahu Tahnoon says, and then
the BIA sallallahu alayhi wa sallam upon the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi salam all he said in nama mufaddal Jelly Solly wotja Li su
kaha middle misc wonderful Keith he said the example the parable of
good companion and a bad companion is like the carrier of the musk
the fragrance and the blower in the bellows meaning blacksmith
so this is the example of the good companion and the bad companion
then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam explained he said how middle
misc the carrier of off of musk someone who carries Musk someone
who sells it for example in my in your Lyric were in my interview
Tabitha I mean who were ima ontology them in Huri Hunter Yeva
if you are in the company of someone who carries the mask what
would happen he himself will give you something as we normally see
someone has a small bottle of water in his pocket and he brings
out and he says okay do it okay before Salah handler this is this
is the example homily misc okay. So, either he will give you he
himself will give you something
I will enter avatar I mean who all being in his company being with
him all the time you will buy something from him
okay. When you try and deal with this, this this is the reason when
you pass by a perfume shop or you go into perfume shop they give you
the you know, to taste the taste this this this. So what so that
you are convinced to at least buy something? Yeah. So, either he
will give
You all you yourself buy something from him. And if both options are
not there, then as long as you are in the company of such person, you
will be smelling a good smell
you will be having the good smell
even if he does not give you anything even if you do not buy
anything, as long as you are in his company, you will be having
good smell. Whereas on the other hand the blacksmith if you are in
the company of the blacksmith you sitting with him, the one who
blows into the fire, and then the sparks come out and then we're ima
and teddy bear in mind you're healthier, but what would happen
that he will burn your clothes. We're ima ontology them in hoody
hand Montina
Oh otherwise, you will get a bad smell for him.
So, when you leave his company what will happen you will have
smell all over your body, your hair your clothes will be
smelling.
This is the example of the good companion and the bad companion.
So if you are in the company of someone who is learning the deen
of Allah subhanahu wa taala all the time for example, what would
happen?
What will happen II II that he will advise himself will advise
you or you may ask him a question and you try to learn something
from him or you do not ask question he does not directly
teach you as long as you are sitting in his gathering, you will
be learning something you will benefit.
Likewise the righteous person, a person who is busy with the vicar
of Allah subhanahu wa taala person who regularly attends the masjid,
if you have a friendship with such person, what will happen?
It will encourage you to go to the masjid and attend the Salah in
congregation or
at least you yourself will realize that you know I am very close
friend of so and so and he always go to the masjid. So I should also
go so you will adopt good habits and good practices from him. And
this is the benefit of having good companion. As for bad companion.
They will ruin your life. You will adopt bad habit from good to learn
bad habits, bad words, bad practices, bad actions, bad
attitude, bad luck. You learn everything bad from them.
Goes Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said In another Hadith
that a mama NaVi has also quoted a few Hadees later a virtue to Allah
Dini Shalini a person always follows the religion religion
doesn't mean the overall religion Islam or Christianity or Judaism.
Religion The word Deen means the practices a person adopts the
practices of his friend is something common in its effect. So
that is why it is important that you all you are always in the
company of good people. The people of luck, the people of
righteousness, the people who practice the deen of Allah
subhanho wa Taala the people who have the passion for seeking the
knowledge, learning the deen of Allah drew Jagland people who have
love for the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
The next Hadith the hadith of Abu Huraira are the Allahu Taala and
who says that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said
don't go holy Mara truly Alabbar the Mali well, he has a Bihar wali
Jamal Neha wali Dini ha for the FBI Deputy Dean Teddy Bhatia duck.
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, a woman is married
because of one of the four reasons mainly one of the four reasons,
the Maleeha
A man may marry a woman because of her wealth, because she's rich.
She comes from a very rich family, wealthy family and person wants to
marry her because of her richness and being wealthy.
While he has Serbia will the second reason is because of her
lineage, where she belongs to a highly respected tribe or family.
So a person a man who wants to marry her because of her family
background, or the tribe.
And third one is what EJ Malia because of her look because of her
beauty, she looks good, and a man wants to marry her. And the third
one is
While Idina a man marries a woman because of her Deen her religion,
her practicing the deen of Allah, observing her hijab, doing the
vicar of Allah, learning memorize the Quran teaching Quran having an
and having a good luck and character.
And the prophets Allah Salam said a woman is married because of one
of these four reasons and it is a fact. It is a fact. It is hard to
find a fifth reason very difficult to find a fifth reason. Okay, one
of four reasons and then the prophets Allah Allah has and after
laying this fact, he said forbidden Deen 30 bethia that if
you want to be successful, then you must give preference to the
one who has the deen of Allah meaning the practicing woman she
must be given preference over others we does not mean that Islam
negates other effects as well. Islam does not say oh the Hadith
of the Prophet Salim does not say that you shouldn't be looking for
well to lineage or the beauty and completely ignore them or dismiss
noise hadith is not saying that at least saying this you have
priority. give priority to the deen of Allah if you have the deen
along with Deen you may look for beauty and wealth and lineage and
tribe and everything. But if the dean is not a if Dean is not the
then wealth is not going to be other than
you know other than a corruption other than a fitness facade within
the marriage.
A look and beauty is not going to bring any benefit. If she does not
have a dean, she does not have a clock, the skin of the color and
the beauty and the look is not going to benefit. If she doesn't
practice the deen and thirdly, her her lineage and family.
If your intention is to marry her because of her, you know her tribe
and family background, they will always if if they have no true
understanding of the deen and she's not practicing it then they
will always be oppressing you and they will be they will be you know
degrading you. You come from so and so family certain side family
law family law tribe and we have i tribe. So whatever we say and we
you have to accept and these are all facts. These are we do see
within our community.
But those who prefer the deen of Allah subhanahu wa taala over
everything, Allah azza wa jal and we can grant them success because
this is the hadith of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam, look for
the deen of Allah first, give preference the deen of Allah over
everything. And the deen of Allah does not simply mean establishing
five daily praise. Rather deen of Allah includes a HELOC as well, a
HELOC as well, it is not enough to say or to see your look for
correct aqidah Salafi manhood 100 Hadees this and that practicing
desert when it's come to UCLA, the person is for worse of the
individuals.
It does not have an attitude does not have any mannerism and he does
not or she does not even know how to speak and how to interact with
others.
Then Allah is a great part of the read. In fact, the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said at dinner Hello, Dean is a clock
and if she does not have a clock likewise, the same applies to men
as well. Same applies to men also. When a woman she wants to marry a
man she should she must give a preference to the deen of Allah
subhanahu wa Tada over everything. Not asked me with the very first
question How much do you earn a yearly? The on a yearly basis?
What is your what is your goal in your life? You're gonna live in
the UK or you're gonna go abroad okay. And discussing all these
things. There is no harm in discussing all these matters. But
after the deen of Allah, after you are satisfied with the practice of
the person with the Allah can with them with the good character, then
discuss everything other all these things can be discussed, but to
ignore the dean and then keep focusing on the wealth and the
lineage and the beauty. It is not going to bring any benefit and
unfortunately
Many many of the couples nowadays they suffer from this very issue
because of this problem
and the you know, unfortunately many many, many of the families
you know when it comes to their marriage, they leave the deen of
Allah subhanho wa Taala very last thing okay. So for example if the
parents are looking for the for you know, for a suitable
partner for the son or daughter, they will be asking all sorts of
questions but but when it comes to the dean, you say yeah, the person
sometime praise you pray sometime that is the criteria we have for
the deen of Allah. Has he ever attended any lecture? Does he
attended Masjid regularly? Does he practice does he established five
daily prayers does he gives a card as he you know that he forced in
the month of Ramadan? Has he ever performed adenoma despite having
wealth and this and that these questions we don't ask these
questions and don't know that if you are this question these
questions will be seen as some you know someone who's very strict in
the deen although they are the fundamentals of the deen of Allah
subhanaw hood, but we tend to ignore everything, ignore
everything and then say oh no, no, the all these things can be you
know, sorted later on. And sometimes what happens? You ignore
the deen of Allah. We they're an excuse. Oh, I will say basically,
you do nothing other than fooling yourself and you say okay the
person although he's not regularly in five daily prayers, although
he's appeared that is not correct, it's okay. But otherwise a person
is of good o'clock is a very, you know, soft spoken person and the
video Buddha lab. So, slowly, gradually, we can convince him
Inshallah, but what happens, he's never convinced, or she's never
convinced.
So, all these things need to be looked after before you take the
next step, which is Nica and
so the deen of Allah subhanahu wa taala must be given preference.
And Allah He those families and those relationships that are
established on the basis and the foundation of the deen of Allah.
Allah subhanahu wa taala blesses them. What was the reason for
Khadija Radi Allahu Taala and her marrying our NABI SallAllahu.
Alison, what was the reason?
The the Prophet Solomon had a lot of wealth, no.
Bother. She was convinced and she was impressed by the law of
Rasulullah sallallahu ala us, and this what Rasulullah sallallahu
Sallam has advised us.
And the reason Mr. Manohar Allah has courted this hadith in this
chapter is because husband and wife they are going to be the
companions to each other.
And if they are not compatible, if they are not on the same page,
they will always and even the person one of them is practicing
and the other one is not practicing. The one who is not
practicing may have more bad impact on the one who is
practicing. It is a reality. How many cases we find within our
community a person says husband for example says before marrying
this woman I was very strong in my religion Hamdulillah I used to
attend Masjid on a regular basis. I used to fast on Monday and
Thursday I did this this this but since I got married I'm always be
the busy with his with her argument and this and that and my
Eman has gone weak
and sometimes other way around.
A woman says before practicing before marrying this man I was
very strong. I used to attend the classes I used to learn Quran and
used to be regular in masjid and this and I used to do this this
this practicing the deen of Allah properly. And since I got married
him he's the worst of the individual and unfortunately my
Eman has gone low.
Am mistake here is probably because they never both of them.
They never prioritize the deen of Allah will generally cram over
anything and everything else. That is why it is very important to
have that long term companionship based on the deen of Allah Allah.
Allah Allah Quran that is why mama no ramen, let's go to this hadith
in this chapter. And the next in the final Hadith for today is the
hadith of Abdullah have no Abbas or the Allahu Taala anima who says
call in the BU sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. The Prophet sallallahu
sallam said to Gibreel alayhis salaam we used to bring revelation
from Allah who will generate Quran. The prophets Allah Salam
said to Gibreel miam neroca anta Zerona axotomy Mata Zerona you
Real What stops you from visiting us more than what you do? Why do
you not visit us more frequently? More often?
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the ayah and he said why? Mana xs Zulu Illa BMB Arabic Lahoma by an
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panacea to reset to the Prophet SAW Selim V cannot come down
without the permission of your Lord. Whenever Allah subhanahu wa
taala orders and because these are the angels lay out sooner Allah
humma Amara, my father whenever you model, they do not disobey
Allah. They do not disobey Allah and they do whatever they are
ordered whatever whatever they are instructed and commanded by Allah
subhanahu wa taala. To do so he said, We cannot come down, you
know, out of our own choice rather it is the permission of Allah, the
order of Allah subhanho wa Taala law, Huma Abedin, I add in our
marsalforn, our mabena Daddy, Allah is everything belongs to
Allah, whatever is in front of us, whatever is behind what are in
between, it is all in the hands of Allah subhanho wa taala. So
whenever Allah subhanho wa Taala orders me I come down. But the
point here again, is that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam wanted Gibreel Ali salaam to visit him more frequently, to
be in his company. So the prophets alone could spend time with
Jibreel Allah He salatu salam.
Okay, so all these Hadith
teach us a lesson that we must try our best to befriend good people
to be around righteous and pious people, the people who have this
strong relationship and the connection with the deen of Allah
Allah Jalla the Quran and then such companionship will benefit
you or increase you in your Eman. It will boost your Eman and will
make you firm and steadfast in the deen of Allah the generic Quran
May Allah subhanahu wa taala give us all toffee credibility, and
Allah Derek rom improvers in our flock in our love for Allah to
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