Yousuf Raza – Why should we love God

Yousuf Raza
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The speaker discusses the psychological benefits of holding onto a spiritual belief system and the potential risks associated with it. They also discuss the psychological harms and dangers associated with it, and the importance of addressing the emotions and risks associated with it. The speaker suggests addressing these potential risks and emotions in a deeper way in the future.

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			Why should we love God?
		
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			Is it because He created us or blessed
		
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			us?
		
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			If so, then we did not ask Him
		
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			to create us.
		
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			And also there are many who are not
		
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			blessed from multiple angles.
		
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			Yeah, so there's assumptions in that question.
		
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			A lot of assumptions in that question.
		
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			Where do we start?
		
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			First up, we did not ask to be
		
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			created.
		
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			How can you be so sure about that?
		
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			I mean, yes, in your conscious memory, you
		
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			don't remember asking to be created or doing
		
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			anything to come in to be the way
		
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			you are.
		
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			But does that negate that any choice was
		
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			made at any point of our evolution, of
		
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			our development that led for us to be
		
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			who we are today?
		
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			Can we negate that all right, all out?
		
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			Do we have sufficient memories to the contrary?
		
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			If I could say that I remember every
		
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			single thing for the entire life of my
		
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			consciousness, and that's a very loaded statement.
		
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			So what does that mean for the entire
		
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			life of my consciousness?
		
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			Well, how long have I been conscious?
		
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			You can answer that since I was conceived.
		
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			Okay, you don't have any memories of that.
		
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			You don't have many memories of your, the
		
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			life spent in the womb, do you?
		
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			Of course not.
		
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			Most people don't.
		
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			And any decisions that you made there, even
		
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			if there were any, you wouldn't know, would
		
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			you?
		
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			You're gonna, no, no, no, no.
		
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			I was conscious when I was born into
		
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			this world.
		
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			Were you?
		
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			Really?
		
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			What do you mean by that?
		
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			No, no, no, no.
		
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			My consciousness began from the time where I
		
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			have memory of life.
		
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			So you're telling me, and that's what your
		
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			earliest memories go back to when, when you
		
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			were three, four, and that too, like sporadic
		
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			one or two memories of that age, a
		
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			little more as you're growing up, and then
		
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			a whole lot more as you're growing up.
		
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			What does that say?
		
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			So you're telling me you were not conscious
		
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			as a one-year-old?
		
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			Then when did this light of consciousness all
		
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			of a sudden come in?
		
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			So there's, there's a lot of questions there.
		
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			And to have such firm beliefs that I
		
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			never asked to be created, I wouldn't be
		
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			too sure.
		
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			I would not be too sure.
		
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			And then I can't comment on whether it
		
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			is a religious injunction for you to love
		
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			God for the religion that you subscribe to,
		
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			or the understanding of religion that you subscribe
		
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			to.
		
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			What I can tell you is there are
		
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			psychological benefits of holding on to that spiritual
		
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			belief system, especially if that spiritual belief system
		
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			is centered around an individual God who responds,
		
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			who loves, and is to be loved, who
		
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			wants the best for you, who wants for
		
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			you to be the best version of yourself.
		
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			And therefore, in reciprocation of his love, you
		
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			love him.
		
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			I can talk about the psychological benefits of
		
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			such a belief system.
		
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			At the same time, I can talk about
		
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			the psychological harms, the psychological dangers of similar
		
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			belief systems as to how evil they may
		
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			be.
		
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			And the psychological benefits and harms, dangers in
		
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			their own place as a culture we're experiencing.
		
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			How religion can give us an incredible amount
		
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			of good with respect to the upliftment and
		
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			development of our society, that it holds people's
		
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			morality in check as to how our interpersonal
		
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			behavior, we don't rip each other's heads off,
		
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			at least not every day, even though we
		
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			have tendencies to do so.
		
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			Because we're held in check by centuries of
		
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			tradition rooted in religion, rooted in an understanding
		
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			of God.
		
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			So there is that, yes, that every single
		
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			person has to acknowledge, that's like fact.
		
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			But then there's also a similar level of
		
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			fact that we do rip each other's heads
		
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			off as well, that too, in the name
		
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			of God.
		
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			So there's both dimensions to it.
		
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			And a judicious addressal of the subject, a
		
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			judicious talk on the different dimensions of this,
		
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			the different psychological dimensions of this belief would
		
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			obviously require that we address all those dimensions,
		
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			the good and the bad.
		
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			And when we do address the bad, when
		
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			we do address the dangers and evils, as
		
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			we have been able to do intellectually, especially
		
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			over the course of the past two centuries,
		
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			the benefits that then this system of beliefs
		
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			has to offer, informed by those dangers, will
		
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			be way more mature, will be much more
		
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			secure, which will have, it will have a
		
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			whole lot more to offer with respect to
		
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			the development of society, the development of individuals,
		
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			if it is very, very clear.
		
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			So to put it very, in a very
		
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			personalized sense, that for you as a person,
		
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			if you are aware of what the benefits
		
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			of loving God as you believe in Him,
		
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			the benefits there are for you psychologically, if
		
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			you're aware of them, that's good.
		
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			But you need to be aware of the
		
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			dangers of that belief as well, as to
		
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			how we are prone as human beings to
		
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			use precisely those beliefs for evil.
		
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			And I'm not even talking ISIS particularly.
		
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			Yes, that too.
		
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			Also in our daily lives, in our one
		
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			-to-one interactions with other people, how we
		
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			judge each other, how we, out of a
		
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			sense of superiority, because we may be apparently
		
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			more religious than others, how we undermine others,
		
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			how we put them down, take advantage of
		
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			them, exploit them, and feel like we're justified
		
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			simply because we are, we have this sense
		
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			of entitlement on the basis of a claim
		
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			to religiosity or spirituality, whatever the case may
		
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			be.
		
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			So these are just surface examples, and there's,
		
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			it runs much deeper than that, it's way
		
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			more intricate than that, as to how we
		
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			can use one of the questions that I
		
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			just answered, going for charity when my responsibilities
		
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			to my parents are not fulfilled.
		
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			That's destructive.
		
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			If that charity especially is in the name
		
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			of God, then I would feel oh so
		
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			holy when I have subjected my closest relationships
		
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			to the greatest torture at my own hands.
		
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			And that messes things up.
		
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			Right?
		
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			So there's a lot of layers to this
		
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			discussion.
		
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			Maybe at some other point, we can talk
		
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			about this in a whole lot more detail
		
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			than