Yassir Fazaga – Triple As – Attention Affection & Appreciation

			So one of the beauties of the of the Arabic language is the way that it speaks about
		

			a family and the term that is given to what family is
		

			yeah one time I Can we have one to live who are up brothers in the back. Brothers excuse me
		

			Sorry.
		

			So the way that the the Arabic language refers to the term
		

			Austro Austro here at dinner, and many Adhami
		

			literally the word Austro linguistically speaking in Arabic, even though we translated into family,
but it is it refers to an armor or a shield. That is a strong,
		

			that protects
		

			it's a place where people feel protected.
		

			And in the verse is just recited upon us. There was something about a family and we're just going to
focus on one of them.
		

			Um, quantum Shuhada is held on mobile mode is currently bunny, matte Abul doing an embody. The Quran
takes us into a moment where a father is departing this world. He knows he is dying. So he gathers
his children around, and he asks his children, the most important question Iligan age had a tarbiyah
Phil Islam had every term if it didn't age.
		

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			the ultimate goal
		

			of raising children in Islam, so that all of us we are successful, not only in this life, but more
important in the hereafter.
		

			That is the ultimate goal. What is what good is the success of my children in this role?
		

			If they fail in the hereafter May Allah protect all of us who are below me. And may Allah make us
amongst those who are successful in this life, as well as in the hereafter Yoruba, Allah me. So he
asked his children, not Abu do not mean badly. Now that I am dying, I'm asking my kids, what is it
that you will sure ship after me?
		

			And as every caring father, I want to hear the right answer.
		

			I want to hear an assuring answer. Although Naboo Ilaha illa Allah we will wish our worship your God
and the God that you have taught us of Ibrahim is married and and and the rest of them Yoruba hula
hula
		

			Quan Subhan Allah, Nima you recall Sultan had the hill, a yam
		

			miscibility therapy,
		

			you know, something that gives us as parents nightmares. And literally, anxiety and worry is the
spiritual, moral well being of our children.
		

			May Allah keep the morally and spiritually and all of us healthy out of the island. So the Quran
takes us, you know, gives us these examples so that we may, we may learn from them. I think I've
shared with you once the prophetic style as to what it means to you know, the elements have given us
the opportunity to have healthy families very quickly refer to them as the triple A
		

			attention, affection, appreciation,
		

			attention, meaning that my family is the most important. They are the number one priority in my
life. That my time my energy is first and foremost is going to be devoted to them.
		

			You know, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was a very busy man. But he was never too busy to
take care of his family. And I love how he treated his daughter Fatima Radi Allahu Allah. They say
that every time for them or would come in doesn't matter which delegation that he was with. As soon
as smartycam taught him or comes the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would get up and he would
walk towards her and he would kiss her on her forehead, and he would make her sit next to him. This
delegation is important, but as soon
		

			This last demo walks in she is the most important
		

			attention.
		

			Appreciation.
		

			Meaning that I see the good in you and I am not afraid of pointing this out.
		

			I see the good in you and I am not afraid of verbalizing it. Quantum handla Interviewer had an emoji
in tukad Masha Allah, Monica Jim Lovell RVA In fact, the handle,
		

			you know, when we decide to be critical of each other, the entire dictionary is, is at our disposal,
we can talk and we are never short of words, eg al Kela mill Hello. Alcala MCPA ye dodges in Calumet
		

			Butler row, Albert Mughal Kilmer halwa.
		

			But when we are about to offer praise or appreciation, man, it becomes so difficult. And that is not
good. You ask wives, husbands, you ask moms and dads. And what you see is people say that I just
don't feel appreciated.
		

			When people don't feel appreciated, they don't feel rejuvenated. Last one,
		

			affection
		

			the idea of love the idea that I let the people around me know that I love them. You're good luck
with us. Harville Kelly Murthy a Yamuna has he he can make the head back.
		

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			know they say that one of the most difficult words for us to author nowadays is I love you say that
the two most difficult words in the English language or I love you. And I'm sorry, have a hard time
saying that. So if we want to be able to influence our families positively, if we want to be able to
make an impact, we cannot be afraid of sharing these positive feelings. And subhanAllah you know, in
the story that is told, unconfirmed shahada is held on a global mount to is called anybody you know,
there is this togetherness that is taking place as Jakob Ali Salaam is talking to his kids and you
can sense good energy that is that is going on. And that is nice Wallahi That is beautiful. And
		

			remember that if we want to impact our children positively, we must create a positive environment.
How do we do that?
		

			attention, affection, appreciation. How do you make attention affection, appreciation, availability,
approachability, accessibility. When we do this same man, we have a chance in having an impact on
our families. One of the most beautiful things about Ramadan is seeing family together. May Allah
always keep us together Europe, Allah, Allah mean, you know, people coming into the masjid together.
As we are listening, we see that Ibrahim alayhi salam and his son is married, are building the Kaaba
together. This is what we call spiritual togetherness. When families practice together, when
families eat together, when families fast together, break their fast together. Please continue this
		

			togetherness. Without it. It will be very very difficult to have any impact on our on our children.
May Allah Subhana Allah protect our children. May Allah subhanaw taala protect our families. May
Allah subhanaw taala make this Ramadan the best Ramadan ever for each and every one of us. Yara
Parral Amin, amin Allah Subhana Allah protect and bless our share who is leading us in this
beautiful recitation Allah. Allah Allah Allah see