Yasir Qadhi – The Woman Who did 2 Hijrah (Migrations)

			Hola hamdu lillah wa Salatu was Salam ala Rasulillah why the early he was so happy woman well
Hammerberg today inshallah we'll do a beautiful Hadith in Sahih Bukhari that has a lot of benefits
to it insha Allah to Allah, it's narrated from a smart Binti roommates a smart Binti roommates smart
bento mais she was the wife of Jafar Ibn Abee Taalib Radi Allahu Taala and, and she was not actually
from the Quran. She was from the Bani Hassan and she was also the the sister of the wife of Hamza,
so Hamza la the Allahu and Jaffa of Nebuta. They were they had married two sisters. So a smart
mentor amazed had accepted Islam very early one Jaffa accepted Islam to the LA one a smart accepted
		

			Islam before the double come way back in the day, and they had migrated to have Russia to Abyssinia
and they had lived in Abyssinia for around we estimate around eight years or so they lived in
Abyssinia. And then when the Prophet SAW Saddam was in the Battle of high bar, so the Sahaba came to
Medina from Abyssinia. So they have a city and then came to Medina. They hadn't been with the
Prophet system for seven, eight years. And you have to realize back then leaving your country
leaving your land was a very big deal. It wasn't like an hour, every one of us has gone through four
or 510 cities in our lives. It was a very difficult thing to leave your culture, your society,
		

			different language, no protection. It was a very and that's why Hijra was as rewarded as it is the
Hijra that the Quran mentions of leaving your land for the sake of Islam for the sake of peace and
security. So a smart job for others. They had been from that 70 batch that had gone to Abyssinia now
they've come back and hottub Radi Allahu Allah and visited his daughter half size house, the wife of
the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, and he saw a lady with half salt. She said who is this? He said
who is this? And a smart said I am a schmuck vintage roommates they hadn't seen each other since
Makkah, and the hijab has been revealed now by the way, so they haven't seen each other since
		

			Makkah. So I'm gonna be the hot tub. He was a little bit Johnny teasing with her have a Shia
		

			bahariya a smart the habit she, meaning the one from Zinnia a smile, the one from the ocean. Okay,
so he's like ocean because of course back then, to write the ocean was one of the things that the
coloration particular and that Central Arabia, they considered to be a very dangerous thing. Writing
the ocean was like a very, almost crazy thing for them. And that's why for either rakibul For Baja,
Allah says in the Quran, it was a very rare thing. And the Quraysh had a type of almost a phobia of
writing the ocean for understandable reasons. So he said you are the Habashi lady because she's
lived in habitat. You are the lady from the ocean writing the oceans. And then he said to her, don't
		

			think now that you've come back, that you have more right to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam than us.
Don't get your hopes up who you are and who we are. He's in a half tz men are unique. They go back a
long time they don't think that you have more a hacker your hack over the process them than us
rather, we were with him in budder and an ODE and we fought and we did this and that. Okay, so he's
telling her we have a higher rank than you. You were safe and secure and have Russia and we were
fighting and on the front lines. And a smart Radi Allahu an estimate mentor and as she became so
angry, she responded back instantaneously. love Allah He that's not true. Whatever happened, she
		

			said, You were within the company of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. If any issue arose,
you would come to him directly. When you felt uncertain or wavering, he would comfort you directly.
And as for us, we were in a strange land far away with no help and support away from the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Subhanallah look at the mentality difference right? She is saying
regardless of what trials you went through, you had a blessing we did not have Wi Fi comm rasool
Allah, you had Rasul Allah system in your midst, how can you compare us and you, you had the Prophet
system, no matter what happened, you would go back to him, he would comfort you, he would encourage
		

			you, what more do you want? As for us, we were inhibition who's going to help us there who's going
to comfort us there? We were all alone. We were cut off from our culture and our lands. Then she
said, Well, Allah He I will not say another word until I go directly to the provinces and and ask
him which of us to is more right to him. He only she is now irritated and she has every right to be
irritated. Okay. She is now frustrated. How could you tell that we don't have more right than you
just because we were an amateur. On the contrary, we should have more right than you. And so she
immediately came to the masjid of the Prophet sallallahu. And he was set up and as usual, he's
		

			sitting amongst the Sahaba and she said from the back of the gathering, ya rasool Allah Roddy, ya
rasool Allah Omar Abdullah sobre la vie came to us and he said cada waka and I said to him cuz our
cada
		

			So now you tell what is the right one? And this shows us so many things, by the way, right? It shows
us first. I mean, there's so many benefits we can describe a scribe of the things that shows us is
that, you know, the Sahaba they have a healthy competition, that who's the higher amongst us, right?
Their competition is in degrees and ranks in the eyes of Allah. It's not in bank accounts. It's not
in the house and the cars that we drive, it is in the closest to the prophets of Allah, who I think
he was setting him also of the points of benefits here, and SubhanAllah. This is self evident. But
still, sometimes it needs to be said that this notion of complete gender segregation that many women
		

			don't even speak to one another, it was not found amongst the sahaba. This incident took place after
the verses of hijab had been revealed. This is in the seventh year of the hijra, the verses of hijab
came down in the end of the fourth year of the Hijra. And here asthma is getting irritated and she's
responding directly in anger. And then she walks to the masjid and in front of all of the men from
the back, obviously the gathering, she speaks out, and she describes her complaint and she says,
Yeah, rasool Allah, this and this, and nobody said to your voices, our yoke, they don't speak to
them. And so we have to be in the middle not too extreme and not too lacks. And this is one of our
		

			problems of this society that what is that good middle nonetheless, clearly from the Sahabas time
they know each other? Oh, ma recognizes a smash. She says, Ah, he says are that USMA he knows who
she is, in some cultures as some people have the cathedral where you're not supposed to mention the
name of the person write the name is unknown. Oh Mephala. The Sahaba knew everybody's name.
Autopsies. So the even after her job, and she says cut that off took I've recognized you Oh soda. He
says her first name. Soda in and of itself is nothing wrong as long as there's no Hello. And it is
done in a dignified, dignified manner. So as smart as the Profit System. She says, Yeah, rasool
		

			Allah or Homer says such and such and I responded such and such. Now I said to him, I'm not going to
eat one morsel or speak one word until I come to you. So now here I am. So she explains why she's in
the gathering and what she wants to know. And so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, love
Allah, He know by Allah, they have no more right over me than you do. They have no extra right over
me than you do. For you are the people of two hedgerows and they are the people of one Hijra. Subhan
Allah He brings forth SallAllahu Sallam another benefit another blessing, right? The concept of
Hijra and the reward of the Hydra is well known. And the prophets are some saying you people have
		

			haberdasher, you have something that will hide you don't do not have them will hide you don't have
one Hegira from Mecca to Medina and you have two hedgerows from Makkah to haberdasher and then from
Habesha to Medina, you have that blessing over them by the way very interesting point. The Prophet
system did not say you are better than them. He simply said they should not say they are better than
you notice the very precise wording right and this
		

			this introduces us to the reality that there is something called an Arabic we call it of leanness v.
And that is relative preference right? In some categories and aspects that Mahajan are better. And
in other categories and aspects the people of Habesha are better in some areas, the unsought are
better in some areas, this is better. So we look at the good and we do not try to diminish the good
of the others. This is the overall Islamic spirit. By the way, this is best manifested when it comes
to the Gambia and also is that tilaka Rusu. Football now about Amada about that some of the prophets
have lead over others and yet still the prophets Assam said love to follow the dunya Unison but
		

			don't say that I am better than Jonas than Jonas even matter how can the Quran say that Allah has
made tough deal. And then the Prophet says I'm saying don't make the deal. The response is very
clear, when the tough deal when the preference is done to talk about the good of all of them, go
ahead and do it. But the minute that one preference is used to negate the good of the other than you
have gone into territory, you should not do we don't use the good of one to diminish the good of the
other. That's not the Islamic spirit. And in some sense, that was as if I'm what are they saying?
You are not worthy, we are worthy. And the prophets have said no, you are worthy, and they are
		

			worthy. That's what he's saying that you have a blessing and they have a blessing. And this is the
Islamic spirit. We look at the good and we we concentrate on the good and we don't compare, you
know, to put other people down in this regard. So a smart became very happy and she came back to
Earth. Bob gave him an earful that this is what the process some said hello as you can see this
anymore, and then she returned home and then the new spread and this was right after they had
returned from Habesha. So it's basically a month or two after they come back new spread amongst the
entire people from Habashi that had come the MaHA Judo that had come from Habesha news spread about
		

			what the prophets have said have said so a smart set for the rest of the day. Every single person
from you know that that contingent will come to my house in batches in one and twos and
		

			they would ask me to hear directly from my mouth with the Prophet system had said, and nothing made
them happier when I said that the prophets have said to them to us that no, they have no more right
over you. You are the people of two hedgerows, they are the people of one hijra, but there will be
so we see over here as well that Subhanallah the men are coming to the house of a smell, obviously
Yanni in not in single but they're coming in batches of two or three they're talking to her
directly, she's responding to them directly and she's narrating the Hadith. Obviously, they're not
going to go to the Prophet system that's too high of them are calm to get the Hadith back again,
		

			they're going to USMA and they're feeling happy. This is what the prophet Silla seldom said about
us. So this is the beautiful Hadith it gives us an incident into the psychology of the sahaba. And
by the way, before we conclude who is a smile to your face, so as far as the wife of Jaffa, we said
she had three children from from Java, you know, Abdullah, and others, the famous children of Java
and maybe tardive Jaffa, the Allah when he passed away in the bottle of water. As you're aware, the
prophet system was in the masjid, and he saw the bottle of water and he described the bottle of
water while it's happening live. And he began to cry, because Zaid even had it that had been killed,
		

			and then Jaffa had been killed. And then Abdullah midwall had been killed. And he literally had to
sit down because of his emotions, because especially zayde That was, quote, unquote, the adopters
and remember from the days of GE idea, and then a Jaffa, who had only had just seen Jaffa, of
course, when he came back to hyper the Profit System stood up, kissed him on his forehead, this is
Java. And he said, Well, Allah he I don't know why I am happier today. Is it because high blood was
conquered? Or is it because I'm seeing you after so long? This is on the day of the conquest of
Haber. Jaffa came back the same day and the Prophet says that I don't know why I am happier. Is it
		

			because of hybrid or is it because of you that is Jaffa within a month or two Jaffa was Dido Shaheed
the Prophet system visited the house of a smart this a smart and she did not know what's going on.
She had prepared a meal everything and he called the children of Jaffa and he you know brushed over
their head their head and he hugged them and tears began to form a smart realize something's going
on. Yeah Rasulullah Did something happen? And he said yes. Jafar has to she has died a Shaheed and
she began her wheeling because at that time still, the issues still had it took a while she began
wielding at the time. The Prophet system after a few days visited and said stop this three days. He
		

			went back to the masjid He informed the Sahaba that is now the early Jaffa altar and prepare food
for a smile on her family. They are not able to prepare meals. This is a sunnah when somebody passes
away in your immediate family, not your family but your cousin's family, your uncle, when somebody
passes away, somebody close should take care of the food. The process I'm told us this that go and
prepare food and he visited them he made up for them. And then after a few months, Abu Bakr Siddiq
proposed after there that he proposed to a smart and so a smart became the wife of Abu Bakr Siddiq
after she was the wife of Jaffa middleby Tada and we got to Sadiq and Esma they had Mohammed bin Abu
		

			Bakr, the famous Muhammad me bucket if you know your history, there's a lot of history about
Mohammed ma Bucher and Abu Bakr, Muhammad Amibroker, about whether he was born during the hijab
loaded literally while they're on the the way of hedgerow that Mohammed Abu Bakr was born. And then
a worker passes away a smart then marries, who does she marry it even authority the only the only
sahabi, who marries three illustrious Sahaba is of that nature. Jaffa and Abu Bakr, Siddiq and Ali
ibn Abi authority, and the only Sahaba to be married to to Khalifa is because of avocado and olive.
Nobody thought of art conifers, and she had children from all three of them. So happened to be burqa
		

			Subhanallah what eight and this also shows us by the way that the concept of a divorcee did not have
the stigma. Look at the nobleman. She was a well known Sahabi or Eman and Taqwa was well known and
so people are the highest caliber are marrying her after Jaffa was a bucket after obika Olivia Tada.
And by the way, another point to all of these are benefits we can derive this notion that some
groups have that added of the Allahu and Oba karate Allah had tensions between them. History
disproves this there was no tension between them here is added on the Allah one marrying the ex
Yanni and the wife of the workers passed away of workers today and then raising his son, Mohammed
		

			ibn Abi Bucher, in reality was raised by the imminent authority and his loyalties throughout his
life were to add even if you thought him and there was no conflict with the fact that he's a worker
son, the entire life will have no you Bucher he was fighting on the side of it and he was very
adamant about the fit and that took place on the side of it of the Allahu and, and the fact that
he's the son of Abu Bakr was no contradiction to his whole lifestyle because there was not that
tension that these other groups claim to be in any case. interesting anecdote. beautiful story. Lots
of benefits to Dr. Sharla will continue another story later on Kamala Harris and I'm about to catch
		

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